I never married or had kids. I was diagnosed with bad scoliosis as a teenager (I was denied entry into the military). After 35 years of grinding it out at work I am physically beaten. I haven't slept all night in years. I can't do much other than sit and walk around and repeat. Life isn't much fun. I finally got to a point where I might be able to see light at the end of the tunnel and the government watered down my savings about 40 percent so others can have an easier time of it. My advice is to not save too much. Spend some, or someone else will.
Listen. You do not save in dollars. You save in stocks, bonds, funds and expensive stuff that retains its value. Saving in something that is printed willy nilly is not smart. If you do u lose 10 percent per year.
@@snorttroll4379 Bruh...at the end of the day, it's all Pokemon cards. Stocks and bonds... I've been seeing 20% losses, on top of inflation for those. Outside of prec. met, and the faith in those...it's anything tangible that people need. Edit: Reviewed many 401k plans that are available to most people. Terrible, absolutely terrible. Better off f_'ing a roll of coarse sandpaper
It costs me $2000 a month for about 14 years to have two kids. About $330,000 total. Thank you child support. I've told their mom that she's 100% responsible for their financial well-being and I intend to tell the kids (when they're 18) that I gave their mother $330,000 and I have no idea where all that money went.
It’s closer to 1 million. Two homes, higher taxes and on and on…two of everything where there was once only one. I tell my kids that their mother sets a pile of money on fire 🔥 every month because she wasn’t happy.
@@RobertSmith-jd6wb it's rough and I've definitely downgraded. I hate it but it is what it is and it's only 8 more years left. I hate that they will throw you in jail if you cannot pay child support. It's slavery.
@@davidd.8256 I just count what I have to pay. I guess I checked out since I don't get a say in how the money is spent. I just have to pay it or go to jail.
I think one of the problems is people say "Oh you'll change your mind. You'll want kids one day." People get into the wrong relationship, or get married, believing that retarded advice.
I rented out my friends downstairs. They have 3 young children. I get all the benefits of having children in my life and none of the responsibilities. They get 💰 I get reasonable rent. When they're crazy (often), I go downstairs and barricade the door.
@@Working4monsters no different than renting a car, or renting tools, rental is something that's been around a long time. In the old days the working poor lived in the company community, or they lived as serfs or even slaves. It's never been good to be on the bottom of the ladder. Renting is not a scam, it's just not a good long term option and the working poor are trapped due to a combination bad decisions and/or bad fortune.
So we shirk our responsibility to the future and let the idiots and low IQ immigrants breed our species into oblivion and all the good things that our ancestors sacrificed to allow us to have 'retirements' is for nothing. Typical selfish byproduct of modernity.
@@killjoyredux8361I don't even know who my ancestors were, and they don't even know who I am. I don't care about my ancestors. I'm living in the now. Get out of here with your nonsense.
@@vost2916 you're clearly blind to the point. They only reason any of 'this' exists is because people invest in the future and sacrifice some of their comfort so their children can survive/thrive.. There is no future with no offspring. Not one worth living anyway since retards don't maintain society. But yeah I'm the one spitting nonsense just because you can't see past your colon.
Extremely good for your retirement. But really it's the woman who damages that the most not the kids...with kids you can choose if you are giving them an inheritance, or if you are paying for their college etc.
How are kids going to damage your retirement? I'm glad I have my son. I had a stroke when he was in high school then nearly died from a bacterial lung infection that left my lungs permanently damaged when he was in college. I drained my savings to keep a roof over our heads and to pay for his university education and I don't regret that a bit. When he graduated, he found a good job, bought us a large house, and told me that I will never have to work again or think about money. If it weren't for him, I'd be on disability getting less than the rent of a one bedroom apartment (meaning I'd be homeless). My son didn't damage my retirement, he made it possible.
My dad is the reason why I don't want kids. He had to pay child support for a child that was never 100% proven was his. Me and my siblings suffered as a result. Things did eventually get better. But a couple years ago he told me that if he hadn't had us, he would have either disappeared off the map or ended himself. I interpreted that as family and kids are a weakness. They limit your options when times are tough. I don't want to give anyone any power over me. A wife and kids it's just an angle that people in power can exploit.
I'm glad I have my son.I didn't want kids when he was born; but it happened. I ended up raising him by myself because his mother later decided she didn't want to be a mother anymore. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. It was fun being a dad, teaching him things, watching him grow, and encouraging him. I've been in bad health all of my life. I had a stroke when he was in high school then nearly died from a bacterial lung infection that left my lungs permanently damaged when he was in college. I drained my savings to keep a roof over our heads and to pay for his university education and I don't regret that a bit. When he graduated, he found a good job, bought us a large house, and told me that I will never have to work again or think about money. If it weren't for him, I'd be on disability getting less than the rent of a one bedroom apartment (meaning I'd be homeless). My son has made it possible for his sick, disabled dad to have a good life, despite my health problems and inability to earn the money I once did. He's a software engineer making 3 times what I made when I was working.
there's a lot of smart white people not having kids. After boomers die off America might be 25% white and the young white kids will face hell, even if they are smart.
@city_of_coompton6832 I strongly believe in keeping a family together. So I wouldn't have children with someone unless we've been together for 7+ strong years. People are so quick to jump into marriage or procreation. That's why there's so many broken families.
@@WeaponryFitness22I disagree actually. There's nothing to bind men and women together for +7 years without having kids. You'll get sick of each other and the sex will get boring. The only reason you'd stay together for life is because you HAD kids and you both have a job to do. That's just the reality of human mating, I think.
@@WeaponryFitness22no what I'm saying is sex and reproduction is the ONLY meaningful and permanent bond you can have with a woman who's not your blood relative.
I told my wife that we would not have kids until we a had a stable home with a low mortgage to raise them in. We have been together 13 years saving, and we are finally in the position to buy a house with a 700 a month mortgage. Always wait to have children until you are mentally mature and financially stable
The issue is that you as a man, have time; whereas your wife doesn't, in terms of biology. Ideally, you'd want all the kids out before she turns over 32 years old, for the health and wellbeing of both her and the child. Perhaps, it is a better reason why the age gap makes sense, as the man has the time to establish himself; while the woman is much younger and fertile.
@@Surteronartoyou do realize that 33 year old women have been having healthy babies for a long time, right? My grandmother was 40 when she had my mother, and she was perfectly healthy. I grew up with young parents that I had to watch grow up, and I promised myself I would never subject my child to that. I’ll take whatever child I get, and I’ll do better than my parents raising the little ankle biter.
I almost had a kid. Come to find out my now EX got knocked up by a 20 year old she met at her job. I also ended up finding out that I can't have kids due to a birth defect. I 100% can't see how its even possible to afford a kid, let alone the risk involved with women, dovorce, infidelity. Child Free, Woman Free. The way to be
I'm 49, veteran, 6" tall, over 6 figures 6 pack. At this point in life, I'm a target. My excuse for not having kids is I've never been married. I get looked at like I'm crazy when i tell someone that's why i don't have kids. I have zero desire to ever get married.
Seriously blackpilled here... this life is utter incomprehensible joyless shite, and I HAVE resources. I'd never participate in bringing a child into this game.
I did but then I realized I would be less than half (or none if she says so) of the equation in raising them. Thier mother could make their life hell and there’s nothing I could do about it and I would still be partially responsible because I got her pregnant. I have 3 sisters, at least one of them will have kids, I’ll just be the world’s best uncle. If they fucked up their kids there’s definitely nothing I could do, but I wouldn’t be responsible for that because they’re not mine. I might have one, just so I don’t regret not having any, but not with a western woman and we’re not living here either.
I want children, but there seemingly are no women worthy of being their mother. I love my potential children so much I only want the best mother they can get.
I genuinely don't know if I want kids, and at 43 years old I think Father Time is making the decision for me anyway. Not that I biologically couldn't have them now, or any time in the next 20+ years really, but I've never been popular with the ladies, and the older I get, the less likely it is that the situation is going to change. Not to mention the current issues with the family courts/divorce situation in the West that incentivizes women to divorce and take your $$. Ultimately I don't think it matters what I want, and it never did. Its out of my control.
A lot of people make the mistake of thinking their partner will change their mind later on. Especially after marriage. The good news is that being child free is becoming more acceptable, so it's easier to find folks who don't want them.
Your children are the only ones who will care for you in your old age. If you raise them well and with good values, supported by YOUR actions and behaviour , they will take care of you as they have unconditional love. Leave it to the government to take care of you, well, that’s what we call MAiD where I’m from. I regret not having children, there was never a right time, I never had enough money, I worked too hard, I wanted to travel… my sister never had money, always moved, but she had two kids despite having a disruptive lifestyle. She is now a grandma and both her kids are doing really well, and she’s doing pretty good herself. None of us have any way of knowing what the future holds. And you don’t know how strong and resourceful you can be until you have to be. To all you who bitch about money, and all you see is dollar signs with fly away wings when thinking about your children, like you do with your car, 60” tv, boat, gaming console, house, I truly hope you get a soul before it’s too late.
@@EightFrancs thats okey we all have a choice :) Being a godparent in my country is often not taken so serious my own godparent have never done anything special for me. But i will try to put some effort to visit that kid atleast on birthday and stuff and bring some candy :)
@@EightFrancs i have a best friend who i've know since middle school and has proven himself as a friend to me time and time again. i don't want kids, but if he asks me to be a godparent, i'll say yes.
@@thispersonrighthere9024i myself are not much for kids but it actually feel pretty good to be a godparent to this child :) And this is my best friend who have been on my side for 15 years now :)
Do you want to gamble potential alimony, child support, and giving your house to an ex-wife and kids you never see? I don't. If you're a straight man in 2024, and you want kids, it makes no good sense to risk your personal freedom, independence, and self respect to a court system that can overhaul your entire life when she says "I'm not happy." Risk it if you personally want to, but I'm not buying into it.
Nah, i don't want kids, not my own anyway, ive always been paranoid about havin a kid and em comin out messed up or with some physical issue On top of that kids or a kid would be very expensive in money, time, investment and so on, now.. havin a son to teach n help become a better man than me would be pretty cool to be honest But not in this world, too many stupid things to worry about, to be short, this civilization of humanity is a meat grinder n im not havin a kid just so he can get turned into hamburger meat On top of that im not responsible enough for a kid so i dont want one, id rather have a pokemon honestly And with school n work, all the extra stuff its really not my thing, plus i dont want him to turn into an idiot, honestly if humanity can't change for the better then it can go extinct for all i care I'm just an individual consciousness bro, i'll find another species eventually lol Hopefully its a tree 🌳
I really think the good times in America are over and any kid born is mostly going to suffer. Whites will be maybe 20% of the country and their ability to become financially independent will be nonexistent
Having children is the greatest joy imaginable it's as if the secrets of the universe are suddenly revealed to you. Yes, it comes with sacrifice and challenges but there is nothing more satisfying then becoming a parent.
@michaelhollandsworth6599 What are you scared of? Its my personal experience as a parent and my husband would agree. Afraid of loving something more then yourself? Afraid of receiving the unconditional love of a child? Afraid of the responsibility? Stop being afraid and live courageously.
If your kids aren't teenagers I'd reccomend not celebrating victory in the middle of the race. The second their mother decides that your involvement isn't necessarily she has the power to rip that joy from your life and you won't be able to do shit about it.
@skylinefever S Don't allow evil to dictate your life's path. The Wolf You Feed One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people He said, "My son, the battle is between two "wolves" inside us all. One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith. The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?" The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."
I never married or had kids. I was diagnosed with bad scoliosis as a teenager (I was denied entry into the military). After 35 years of grinding it out at work I am physically beaten. I haven't slept all night in years. I can't do much other than sit and walk around and repeat. Life isn't much fun. I finally got to a point where I might be able to see light at the end of the tunnel and the government watered down my savings about 40 percent so others can have an easier time of it. My advice is to not save too much. Spend some, or someone else will.
are you able to walk normally or do you have a noticeable gimp? Do you ever get laid?
Listen. You do not save in dollars. You save in stocks, bonds, funds and expensive stuff that retains its value. Saving in something that is printed willy nilly is not smart. If you do u lose 10 percent per year.
Mhmm...the responsible will always be liable for the actions of the irresponsible.
@@snorttroll4379 Bruh...at the end of the day, it's all Pokemon cards. Stocks and bonds... I've been seeing 20% losses, on top of inflation for those.
Outside of prec. met, and the faith in those...it's anything tangible that people need.
Edit: Reviewed many 401k plans that are available to most people. Terrible, absolutely terrible. Better off f_'ing a roll of coarse sandpaper
Jesus Christ is the answer 🙏
"do you want kids?" once upon a time, once upon a time
Unless I make a great living, it's a no. Kids are stressful. And I hear too many horror stories about people's inlaws. 😂
It costs me $2000 a month for about 14 years to have two kids. About $330,000 total. Thank you child support. I've told their mom that she's 100% responsible for their financial well-being and I intend to tell the kids (when they're 18) that I gave their mother $330,000 and I have no idea where all that money went.
$2000/month? What percentage of your income is that? That's crazy man.
It’s closer to 1 million. Two homes, higher taxes and on and on…two of everything where there was once only one. I tell my kids that their mother sets a pile of money on fire 🔥 every month because she wasn’t happy.
I pay 511$ for one and it’s breaking my bank accounts I can’t imagine 2000$ a month. I’d be on the streets living in a box.
@@RobertSmith-jd6wb it's rough and I've definitely downgraded. I hate it but it is what it is and it's only 8 more years left. I hate that they will throw you in jail if you cannot pay child support. It's slavery.
@@davidd.8256 I just count what I have to pay. I guess I checked out since I don't get a say in how the money is spent. I just have to pay it or go to jail.
tell us the story of the lady who says "your such an a*hole".
you’re
I suspect that is his girlfriend. Several years back he had the voice of a male saying that line and then later he switched it to a female
I think one of the problems is people say "Oh you'll change your mind. You'll want kids one day." People get into the wrong relationship, or get married, believing that retarded advice.
I rented out my friends downstairs. They have 3 young children. I get all the benefits of having children in my life and none of the responsibilities. They get 💰 I get reasonable rent. When they're crazy (often), I go downstairs and barricade the door.
@@SimonGruber-xc2we It sounds like a pack of wild animals is let loose above me.
@@Working4monsters no different than renting a car, or renting tools, rental is something that's been around a long time. In the old days the working poor lived in the company community, or they lived as serfs or even slaves. It's never been good to be on the bottom of the ladder. Renting is not a scam, it's just not a good long term option and the working poor are trapped due to a combination bad decisions and/or bad fortune.
Same thing with friend’s pets… get your love fix, then bounce lol
@@Ziegfried82 There are people with lots of money who only rent. Property is a pain.
@@corbinmiles5677 They got a golden lab. I live him.
Any dude that calls another dude a pussy has to be 100 percent sure and confident that he himself is not. That's why I don't throw that insult around.
Never gonna have kids. Never wanted them. Good for my retirement also.
So we shirk our responsibility to the future and let the idiots and low IQ immigrants breed our species into oblivion and all the good things that our ancestors sacrificed to allow us to have 'retirements' is for nothing. Typical selfish byproduct of modernity.
@@killjoyredux8361I don't even know who my ancestors were, and they don't even know who I am.
I don't care about my ancestors. I'm living in the now. Get out of here with your nonsense.
@@vost2916 you're clearly blind to the point. They only reason any of 'this' exists is because people invest in the future and sacrifice some of their comfort so their children can survive/thrive.. There is no future with no offspring. Not one worth living anyway since retards don't maintain society.
But yeah I'm the one spitting nonsense just because you can't see past your colon.
Extremely good for your retirement. But really it's the woman who damages that the most not the kids...with kids you can choose if you are giving them an inheritance, or if you are paying for their college etc.
How are kids going to damage your retirement? I'm glad I have my son. I had a stroke when he was in high school then nearly died from a bacterial lung infection that left my lungs permanently damaged when he was in college. I drained my savings to keep a roof over our heads and to pay for his university education and I don't regret that a bit. When he graduated, he found a good job, bought us a large house, and told me that I will never have to work again or think about money. If it weren't for him, I'd be on disability getting less than the rent of a one bedroom apartment (meaning I'd be homeless). My son didn't damage my retirement, he made it possible.
My dad is the reason why I don't want kids. He had to pay child support for a child that was never 100% proven was his. Me and my siblings suffered as a result. Things did eventually get better. But a couple years ago he told me that if he hadn't had us, he would have either disappeared off the map or ended himself. I interpreted that as family and kids are a weakness. They limit your options when times are tough. I don't want to give anyone any power over me. A wife and kids it's just an angle that people in power can exploit.
Sadly true. Back in the days when men had ownership of their labour, property, and family having a family made sense. Not anymore.
I'm glad I have my son.I didn't want kids when he was born; but it happened. I ended up raising him by myself because his mother later decided she didn't want to be a mother anymore. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. It was fun being a dad, teaching him things, watching him grow, and encouraging him.
I've been in bad health all of my life. I had a stroke when he was in high school then nearly died from a bacterial lung infection that left my lungs permanently damaged when he was in college. I drained my savings to keep a roof over our heads and to pay for his university education and I don't regret that a bit. When he graduated, he found a good job, bought us a large house, and told me that I will never have to work again or think about money. If it weren't for him, I'd be on disability getting less than the rent of a one bedroom apartment (meaning I'd be homeless). My son has made it possible for his sick, disabled dad to have a good life, despite my health problems and inability to earn the money I once did. He's a software engineer making 3 times what I made when I was working.
Not a chance in hell I’m having kids. I’ve known since I was very young that is not for me
I think Aaron is afraid of loving his kids waaaay too much if he had some. He would be a very very good parent.
there's a lot of smart white people not having kids. After boomers die off America might be 25% white and the young white kids will face hell, even if they are smart.
Well, you can't bring children into this world with their permission.
I think more so scared his would be baby momma would take em and fuck em up.
@@skylinefeverso just dont have kids because muh scientists and mullato people said you’d be hurting the planet ? Is Aaron a vegan by any chance ?
I've wanted a child since I was 22. Just never met a decent woman with a good upbringing. 37 now it's too late in my life to even consider it.
Really? I'm 34 now and some of my (same age) friends are just starting to have kids.
@city_of_coompton6832 I strongly believe in keeping a family together. So I wouldn't have children with someone unless we've been together for 7+ strong years. People are so quick to jump into marriage or procreation. That's why there's so many broken families.
@@WeaponryFitness22I disagree actually. There's nothing to bind men and women together for +7 years without having kids. You'll get sick of each other and the sex will get boring. The only reason you'd stay together for life is because you HAD kids and you both have a job to do. That's just the reality of human mating, I think.
@city_of_coompton6832 You just proved my point. If a couple can't stick it out for 10 yrs without kids or marriage, the pair bond was never authentic.
@@WeaponryFitness22no what I'm saying is sex and reproduction is the ONLY meaningful and permanent bond you can have with a woman who's not your blood relative.
I told my wife that we would not have kids until we a had a stable home with a low mortgage to raise them in. We have been together 13 years saving, and we are finally in the position to buy a house with a 700 a month mortgage. Always wait to have children until you are mentally mature and financially stable
The issue is that you as a man, have time; whereas your wife doesn't, in terms of biology.
Ideally, you'd want all the kids out before she turns over 32 years old, for the health and wellbeing of both her and the child.
Perhaps, it is a better reason why the age gap makes sense, as the man has the time to establish himself; while the woman is much younger and fertile.
@@Surteronartoyou do realize that 33 year old women have been having healthy babies for a long time, right? My grandmother was 40 when she had my mother, and she was perfectly healthy. I grew up with young parents that I had to watch grow up, and I promised myself I would never subject my child to that. I’ll take whatever child I get, and I’ll do better than my parents raising the little ankle biter.
Would the kids want me as their dad? Would they appreciate me having brought them into this world?
If you’re a decent parent I don’t see why they wouldn’t…
@@eheheh3263
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@@ggrthemostgodless8713 what’s so funny?
@eheheh3263 😂
@WalterSobchak45 agreed, decent parents are the exception to the rule… most parents only do the bare minimum
I almost had a kid. Come to find out my now EX got knocked up by a 20 year old she met at her job.
I also ended up finding out that I can't have kids due to a birth defect.
I 100% can't see how its even possible to afford a kid, let alone the risk involved with women, dovorce, infidelity.
Child Free, Woman Free. The way to be
I'm 49, veteran, 6" tall, over 6 figures 6 pack. At this point in life, I'm a target. My excuse for not having kids is I've never been married. I get looked at like I'm crazy when i tell someone that's why i don't have kids. I have zero desire to ever get married.
1973?
Seriously blackpilled here... this life is utter incomprehensible joyless shite, and I HAVE resources. I'd never participate in bringing a child into this game.
I wouldn't mind having kids. I absolutely do not, and never did, want a wife, though.
I did but then I realized I would be less than half (or none if she says so) of the equation in raising them. Thier mother could make their life hell and there’s nothing I could do about it and I would still be partially responsible because I got her pregnant. I have 3 sisters, at least one of them will have kids, I’ll just be the world’s best uncle. If they fucked up their kids there’s definitely nothing I could do, but I wouldn’t be responsible for that because they’re not mine. I might have one, just so I don’t regret not having any, but not with a western woman and we’re not living here either.
Based.
1st date: 1st hour: I always asked: How many children do you want? 2nd date was dependent on answer.
That’s the goal if you date with intentions. Dating casually they’ll be scared off of that question
@@BrianWaller-qe7grIf you scare them off with that, you still get your answer.
I want children, but there seemingly are no women worthy of being their mother.
I love my potential children so much I only want the best mother they can get.
I genuinely don't know if I want kids, and at 43 years old I think Father Time is making the decision for me anyway. Not that I biologically couldn't have them now, or any time in the next 20+ years really, but I've never been popular with the ladies, and the older I get, the less likely it is that the situation is going to change. Not to mention the current issues with the family courts/divorce situation in the West that incentivizes women to divorce and take your $$.
Ultimately I don't think it matters what I want, and it never did. Its out of my control.
Yup we can only accept the hand given to us in this life and make the best of it.
No kids no wife happy life
A lot of people make the mistake of thinking their partner will change their mind later on. Especially after marriage.
The good news is that being child free is becoming more acceptable, so it's easier to find folks who don't want them.
Like puppies babby goats are also cute when young
She has baby rabies. 😱
Our father moved out of state on us when I turned 8
Kids are great, thats not the issue. Its the woman, few conservative woman left. Ide leave country find tradvwife if want to have a family.
Your children are the only ones who will care for you in your old age. If you raise them well and with good values, supported by YOUR actions and behaviour , they will take care of you as they have unconditional love.
Leave it to the government to take care of you, well, that’s what we call MAiD where I’m from.
I regret not having children, there was never a right time, I never had enough money, I worked too hard, I wanted to travel… my sister never had money, always moved, but she had two kids despite having a disruptive lifestyle. She is now a grandma and both her kids are doing really well, and she’s doing pretty good herself.
None of us have any way of knowing what the future holds. And you don’t know how strong and resourceful you can be until you have to be.
To all you who bitch about money, and all you see is dollar signs with fly away wings when thinking about your children, like you do with your car, 60” tv, boat, gaming console, house,
I truly hope you get a soul before it’s too late.
Yes! Doggonit. The answer is yes. I just don’t want compulsory school, family court, building codes, child labor laws, or taxes.
"duuuuh aaaaaariin, u got a timemachine i can use?????" Lol
the time masheen is at Costco.
Invest 2% of your cash into MO and PM and hope it drops $3 and buy another 2% and hope it drops another $3 and put in 3% more if it does etc.
Im just one kids godfather thats enough for me 😅
I told breeder friends of mine that I don't want to be a godfather (IF they were thinking of offering).
@@EightFrancs thats okey we all have a choice :)
Being a godparent in my country is often not taken so serious my own godparent have never done anything special for me.
But i will try to put some effort to visit that kid atleast on birthday and stuff and bring some candy :)
@@EightFrancs i have a best friend who i've know since middle school and has proven himself as a friend to me time and time again. i don't want kids, but if he asks me to be a godparent, i'll say yes.
@@thispersonrighthere9024i myself are not much for kids but it actually feel pretty good to be a godparent to this child :)
And this is my best friend who have been on my side for 15 years now :)
Do you want to gamble potential alimony, child support, and giving your house to an ex-wife and kids you never see? I don't. If you're a straight man in 2024, and you want kids, it makes no good sense to risk your personal freedom, independence, and self respect to a court system that can overhaul your entire life when she says "I'm not happy." Risk it if you personally want to, but I'm not buying into it.
Nah, i don't want kids, not my own anyway, ive always been paranoid about havin a kid and em comin out messed up or with some physical issue
On top of that kids or a kid would be very expensive in money, time, investment and so on, now.. havin a son to teach n help become a better man than me would be pretty cool to be honest
But not in this world, too many stupid things to worry about, to be short, this civilization of humanity is a meat grinder n im not havin a kid just so he can get turned into hamburger meat
On top of that im not responsible enough for a kid so i dont want one, id rather have a pokemon honestly
And with school n work, all the extra stuff its really not my thing, plus i dont want him to turn into an idiot, honestly if humanity can't change for the better then it can go extinct for all i care
I'm just an individual consciousness bro, i'll find another species eventually lol
Hopefully its a tree 🌳
I love joking about how I won't feed the system future wage slaves and cannon fodder.
I really think the good times in America are over and any kid born is mostly going to suffer. Whites will be maybe 20% of the country and their ability to become financially independent will be nonexistent
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!! Next question☺
No! 😂
Yes.
If you can work remote and don’t make much become a passport bro.
So inspiring! 😊
Having children is the greatest joy imaginable it's as if the secrets of the universe are suddenly revealed to you. Yes, it comes with sacrifice and challenges but there is nothing more satisfying then becoming a parent.
Opinion, not a fact.
@michaelhollandsworth6599 What are you scared of? Its my personal experience as a parent and my husband would agree. Afraid of loving something more then yourself? Afraid of receiving the unconditional love of a child? Afraid of the responsibility? Stop being afraid and live courageously.
If your kids aren't teenagers I'd reccomend not celebrating victory in the middle of the race. The second their mother decides that your involvement isn't necessarily she has the power to rip that joy from your life and you won't be able to do shit about it.
Ask Andrea Yates and Casey Anthony.
@skylinefever S
Don't allow evil to dictate your life's path.
The Wolf You Feed
One evening an old Cherokee told his
grandson about a battle that goes on
inside people
He said, "My son, the battle is between
two "wolves" inside us all.
One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy,
sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity,
guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false
pride, superiority, and ego.
The other is good. It is joy, peace, love,
hope, serenity, humility, kindness
benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth,
compassion and faith.
The grandson thought about it for a
minute and then asked his grandfather:
"Which wolf wins?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one
you feed."