For a lot of dudes, they usually don't have a plethora of women to choose from, unless you really got your bread up. That's why dudes end up just staying with what ever chick they can get, even if she ain't shit.
@@adim00lah Trust me I understand fam. Which sadly means when the opportunity arises, they have to be even more vigilante. It's simple, NOT easy, but definitely simple.
@@justanthony23 I hear what you saying, but a lot of dudes is gonna end up never getting married and having a family. Lots and lots of guy in their 40's now are struggling, because they weren't able to find a wife. This problem is only going to get worse I think. I recommend dudes get remote work, and consider going out the country to find a suitable wife. You still have to exercise caution though, gold diggers are every where, not just in the states.
@Just Anthony Don't waste your time in the vetting in the west. If you want a meaningful relationship, GET YOUR PASSPORT and go abroad. Why waste time trying to find the needle in the haystack in the western where you can go to a country with lots of needle and very few hay?
It is a flex when men’s number one mating strategy for most of human civilization was keeping women out of the work force and FORCING them to depend on males for resources. Men try to brag about I can cook my own food. Well congrats. I could feed myself when I was 8 years old 🤦🏾♀️
@@anotherdayanotheryerrr4072 Yes, women have reduced a man to just money, it's objectification. The only reason why women are independent is because men laid that foundation. We built the world which allows them to be independent. Imagine me telling my mom or dad when I'm grown and can pay my own bills, I don't need you. It's just disrespectful af. You couldn't have gotten to the place where you are now independent without your parents, just like women couldn't be independent now with the infrastructure built by men.
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
I really don't see the problem with their statements as long as they don't expect their partner to pay all the bills it is perfectly fine to a working independent woman. The problem comes in when someone wants to make money and keep it to themselves.
@@nmk5003 the problem is this chick said she can always find someone else. Her big ass thinks she actually can get a lot of guys when the fact is most men are looking to just have sex with her because she got some big tits and a big ass. Nobody trying to wife her ass up yet she thinks she has endless options. Then she’s going to get ran through by a bunch of dudes then start blaming men when’s she 40 and alone.
When you ask people who have never seen a successful relationship work... You are going to get answers that do not equal reasonable, logical and critical thinking at its base level.
Its hilarious to see women tell on themselves about the fact they date low tier men, yet they STILL blame the men for her giving them access. Also imagine saying and moving like you 'dont need no man' then getting mad at him being receptive to it and letting you be great 😆 🤣
They Followed Up “I Don’t Need a Man”with….“But You’re gonna Let Me Handle All of this By Myself?”. I don’t think the Women who claim Not to Need Men realize the Alternative is paying 100% of Your Bills on your own Forever…that’s Not making it Harder for anyone but yourself Lol
@Smurf_n_Wesson exactly. Dont puff out your chest and say you can handle it all and im expendable then get mad i dont lend you any financial help. Because thats what it all comes down to. They hate having to spend their own money.
A lot of y’all don’t want a good man. Y’all want a trick or a simp!! Y’all want a yes man. A man whose only purpose is to serve you and not himself or goals!! Y’all couldn’t handle a “real good man.” Y’all can’t handle a man correcting you. or calling you out on yo bs and habits and holding you accountable. Y’all want a sponsor. A real man is going to lead and not be led. A real man isn’t going to allow you to have those same habits you been having. A real man is going to stand up for himself and know his worth. A lot of y’all definitions of a good man is a man that y’all can control.
These women are argumentative, unrealistic, overly made up, and fat! The most unattractive feature is they don't know how to listen and act like they know everything. So sad 😢
These girls ain’t doing shit but acting like y’all. I don’t get why y’all so mad. Women don’t want a controlling man anymore than y’all want a controlling woman. If y’all wanna keep talking this “men are SUPPOSED TO BE” blah blah blah then y’all gon have to go dig up our great grandmothers and talk to them 🤷🏾♀️
Nah i think it’s just a certain “type” of women only chase after a certain look of man and try to change them to what they imagine that person to be. women don’t mind being corrected or told the truth as long as it’s the man they actually want and crave. They don’t give that grace to any normal dude.
A good man isn't looking for them he watches how they move and moves the opposite direction. When set boundaries and don't budge they have a problem with it.
Its an unattractive mentality. Nothing to do with intimidation. They gotta make up reasons why the man they want rejects them, its of being womanly. These women are insecure about their lack of femininity skills UPFRONT
Guys! With great power comes great responsibility. Learn to leave certain women alone. I know it looks like a good smash, but she’s broken and will only bring you drama. Leave her for the streets! 🤷🏾♂️
As a human race we gotta stop changing the definition of things All in all to be intimidated by someone or something You are frighten by them or fearful or timid etc. no man is scared of a woman who can be an adult….. that don’t create fear😂😂 7:05
8:25 Often when men see that a woman doesn't need him financially or emotionally he just doesn't approach her at all, and she doesn't have to say nothing. This has nothing to do with intimidation, it really has more to do with his lack of leverage over a woman. And she can still value him without needing him, but this makes many men feel insecure, but that's his own issue.
The 1st 10 minutes got my head ready to explode. These women contradict themselves flagrantly and stand confidently in their contradiction. 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
And y’all want virgins who aren’t disagreeable and that’s not even a thing. We have grown ass men chasing us from the time we’re 12 years old. If I went around being “agreeable” with every dude who whos given me attention I’d have 600 bodies by now 🤦🏾♀️ you can’t be a weak willed pushover of a woman and protect your sexuality at the same time
Most guys DEFINITELY care about family. But ladies, if the guy does not bring up family, that's something you can bring up while getting to know each other to see where HIS head is. You're suppose to be vetting EACH OTHER.
Women have their walls up. I think discussions like this are important because they aren't attacked. Some women may understand the difference between flaunting being independent versus being self-sufficient and interdependent. 1 thing extra that should be clear is that women aren't expected to be codependent.
Has a woman you dated EVER immediately said she's independent without YOU coming at her bragging about money? Tell the truth. This shit doesnt happen in the real world. Alot of these conversations are just designed to bitch at women.
Women are expected to be codependent. Every day of our lives there’s some dude in our face tryna over explain something, assist with something we don’t need assistance with or demonize us for being overly “independent” when a woman just wants to do something herself. And it’s not just relationships. Family members, co workers, random men at the gas station. Obviously this is not all men, but from my experience it’s most of them. Men literally take offense to a woman not needing help with something. Men claim they won’t date up, and they claim they want women who NEED them yet here you are claiming that women are not expected to be codependent. With a straight face too 🤦🏾♀️
The paradox of choice got these women quick to leave for any little reason. All because they’re thinking that there’s always a bigger better deal right around the corner
I totally agree on this note: STRENGTH DISCIPLINE AND INTERDEPENDENCY!!! I am working on myself and putting value in myself so that any person (esp. my man) I can bring value, and appreciation! We need each other! It is the balance to LIFE! Dependency and independence are two extremes of an issue! What will bring harmony and balance is INTERDEPENDENCY!
If you have a low tolerance for putting up with people, it would probably be best to not to get into a relationship. Don't waste their time or yours. Just stay single
Fellas, if a female says she does not need a man/can do it alone, leave her to pass away alone. Don't listen to females saying they are the table, they are independent and Traditional DOMESTICATED at the same time. You cannot have Day and night at the same time in the same place.
Yknow there's one thing I conclude after watching these relationship content for bout 4 years...... women become women in the presence of men.... real men
A real friend will not be upset that you're doing good. Now, if you're on different financial levels, if the more prosperous doesn't make a show of their prosperity, then is all good.
You can't bring the table to the table. The table is the negotiation table.. That said, no man is gonna be intimidated by a chick's success, even his chick. Either he will be her biggest cheerleader, be proud of her, feel nothing about it, or not want to deal with her IF her being successful does not fit in with his plans and goals for their family.
26:30 your man and your hom girls should not be on the same level. Your guy should eventually become the one you can be vulnerable with way more then your friends. Thats how you know they ready for marriage
The problem is today most women don't know how to be in a relationship...they have been sold a false standard which renders a relationship to a transactional situation. They perpetually choose wrong, they want a prize simply for being an adult and having a vagina, that is their standard in going into relationships. Most are simply looking to flex, trying to convince everyone they don't need men, and also flex what they can get from men. The dysfunction thrives on these false notions and wonder why they age out the dating market alone and used up.
@jrobinson39 focus we talking about women, men get held accountable for their shitty decision in modern women everyday from both men and women, so please miss me with the attempted equivalency, it don't work. Men are the harshest critic for men when they get a female who ain't shit and the inevitable happens. Women are the only ones who think they should be beyond reproach for their bad decisions 🤷🏾♂️
@18:15 women need to learn that what you went through is not the problem of the other guy and men should not have to bare the brunt of that past trauma. Men are always supposed to understand, take it or change for her, yet they do not want to change for a man AT ALL.
49:10 That's so true for females!! If one friend level up some of the other friends would get jealous and start plotting against her. I know of a situation like that. So female and male friendship dynamics are different.
They don’t know or care how men think or what we want. Most of these women are selfish. “What’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine” mentality is not a good foundation for a successful relationship. One unit mentality is the way.
Ida doesn't understand what relationships are about. She'll rather be more vulnerable with her friends, because women lie to each other. Men are problem solvers,which is not Ida's plan...I've told my 3 sons, "beware of women with any nose piercing." Take your pick, Mental health issues, free-spirited lifestyle(304), has had major trauma. When Lee was talking about men not spending time with her, probably one of those things she is. She mentioned dealing with a street dude who got busted, so that tells you what's her lifestyle like. I once dated a woman that had a nose ring, despite me knowing to avoid her, she was fine. Back story, when she was with her mom at 5, they were in a car accident, mom killed. While living with her dad and step mom, her and her 2 sisters were beaten by step mom. Dad over dosed, the 3 girls were sent individually to live with fam. The sisters came together as adults. She had a temper. Despite how good she looked, she was not worth the headache. I learned my lesson! Makala and Lee said that they don't want to settle. They're vastly overeating themselves. They're both cute average women. I was cracking up when Makala thought that she's too fine to be approached by average guys when she's an average woman. They're going to over price themselves into being Cat women.
I have a nose ring and I'm not that traumatized and idk what a nose ring has to do with saying what a women is. It doesn't. I have a bf and have a nose ring. What is soo damn wrong with a nose ring?
Both sides should be capable independent people. I dont necessarily believe "dependent" on each other should be the term, perhaps "supporting" each other, not being dependent on each other. Also, i think women bring up the fact that they can financially take care of themselves bc women in the past always had to be dependent on men for money. Now, women dont, and i think that is important for women to say. I agree that women shouldn't lead with that, but it is important women to know that we have options now, because we are financial independent and free to chose who we want to be with.
Nope is never important or necessary for a women to say she is independent these days and every women that leads with that I guarantee you she is lacking in a lot of more important areas in her life. When something is obvious it don’t need to be said, just prove it with your actions
Most women especially bw don't want to admit it up front but most need financial help and need men to help them but they don't want to feel like they owe them which is why they use gaslighting and reverse psychology to force men especially bm to do it that and make them feel bad for not doing it but they expect it to be done without bringing value and say bm should be happy to do and not receive anything
@@zee608 that's false and bw give for the bare minimum if that guy is their type sexually and then they expect the good men to pay a premium that they don't expect the men they had sex with are their type and had multiple kids by to do while they bring more headaches bills and less sex to the table doesn't work that way any more
The thing i am seeing alot of these women think men like the samethings they do because if you listen to alot of them talk the sound like how dudes that lead with money and education
“I can be more vulnerable with my friends than partner.” -she didn’t see that statement as problematic? The one person you should be vulnerable with your husband & wife and if you can’t then they not the one!
All three girls either speak the black vernacular English or can't speak English properly at all. No way will they attract any high value man the way they speak, maybe a city worker garbageman or a bus driver but that's about it
A woman going on a date and telling a man she independent don't need a man for anything is like looking at the menu and telling the waiter all the food you dont want to eat, tf you here for😂😂😂
I like independent woman. It makes me safe my money. I am looking for independent strong women but that does not mean that they should be rude because i am not rude to them. I cant stand rude snd disrespectful women
Full hundred to u bros1️⃣0️⃣0️⃣.These conversations are need to be had but it's clear there is a lot of work to be done for both men & women(women especially)
Listen, men. If you want a meaningful relationship, you HAVE to vet them and stand on your square. The one who is meant for that will stick around.
For a lot of dudes, they usually don't have a plethora of women to choose from, unless you really got your bread up. That's why dudes end up just staying with what ever chick they can get, even if she ain't shit.
@@adim00lah yup
@@adim00lah Trust me I understand fam. Which sadly means when the opportunity arises, they have to be even more vigilante. It's simple, NOT easy, but definitely simple.
@@justanthony23 I hear what you saying, but a lot of dudes is gonna end up never getting married and having a family.
Lots and lots of guy in their 40's now are struggling, because they weren't able to find a wife. This problem is only going to get worse I think.
I recommend dudes get remote work, and consider going out the country to find a suitable wife. You still have to exercise caution though, gold diggers are every where, not just in the states.
@Just Anthony Don't waste your time in the vetting in the west. If you want a meaningful relationship, GET YOUR PASSPORT and go abroad. Why waste time trying to find the needle in the haystack in the western where you can go to a country with lots of needle and very few hay?
Women friendzone good men to date a guy that's bad for them only to try and change him into the guy they friendzoned.
Becuz they’re goofy
Facts than blame all men when it dont work out for the poor choices they made smh
This the one right here, facts
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Preach preacher 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Im independent because I pay my bills thank you for being a adult....
Then try to use it as a flex as if they have a choice in paying the bills they signed up for paying.
It is a flex when men’s number one mating strategy for most of human civilization was keeping women out of the work force and FORCING them to depend on males for resources. Men try to brag about I can cook my own food. Well congrats. I could feed myself when I was 8 years old 🤦🏾♀️
All these fat women have less than. 2yrs on the market. They already recreational use
@@jayeverything lmfao 🤣
They want trophies for participation. The LEAST they could do is not be a burden to society and take care of their basic needs like any adult would.
The women kept saying " I feel like". This is proof that they believe that their emotions are facts.
Of course, who said it wasn't.....but we can't say the same about males 😬
@@pauletteducksworth7062 exactly. Most men will lead with logic and sense, emotions can be erratic and hard to use as a good measure for direction
Your ability to pay bills does NOT mean you don't need a man, a man is MORE than just money.
Yea you would think right ? Only when they become old they realized it, but by than it’s too late. Tbh
@@anotherdayanotheryerrr4072 Yes, women have reduced a man to just money, it's objectification.
The only reason why women are independent is because men laid that foundation. We built the world which allows them to be independent.
Imagine me telling my mom or dad when I'm grown and can pay my own bills, I don't need you. It's just disrespectful af.
You couldn't have gotten to the place where you are now independent without your parents, just like women couldn't be independent now with the infrastructure built by men.
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?
@@MaryTongx well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@@DarylSimpson58 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?
@@MaryTongx her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
They need do a show with a Baby-boomer, Gen-X , Millennial, Gen-Z so we can see how woman have changed in just four generations
@dailyrapupcrew I'd sub for the next year JUST for this one episode to post and pin on my social media pages!!!!! No Cap.
Ohhhh, good suggestion
Yea buddy . But the funny thing is , it’s that 28-38 age generation that’s screwed up. The ones behind them are actually getting it right .
They’re all the same who do you think raised each generation
@@greatness2work818lol no they aren’t
For a generation of black women that say they can't "find no good man," yall sure pregnant a lot
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Best comment 😂😂
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Well black ppl in the last what 7 yrs birth rate has dropped considerably but somehow you still right 😆 🤣
@Popeye Bogey cause with social media h00d dudes now getting wholesome and pure whyte girls pregnant and having their father to raise zebra kid.
O B E S I T Y ! As a strong independent man, I don't need a woman that weighs more than I do.
"Little One" 😂
That couch took a beating on the episode
75% of the population overweight
This shit is unnecessary. Grow Up!
They can't even sit comfortably on that chair together. People love to tall about what other people are doing but you DO NOT KNOW.
They still gonna be unmarried blaming men in 20 years
Or that get married and be unhappy
I really don't see the problem with their statements as long as they don't expect their partner to pay all the bills it is perfectly fine to a working independent woman. The problem comes in when someone wants to make money and keep it to themselves.
@@nmk5003 the problem is this chick said she can always find someone else. Her big ass thinks she actually can get a lot of guys when the fact is most men are looking to just have sex with her because she got some big tits and a big ass. Nobody trying to wife her ass up yet she thinks she has endless options. Then she’s going to get ran through by a bunch of dudes then start blaming men when’s she 40 and alone.
Yep
@@Achilles645 black men are still gonna complain about black woman. Like a incel
That’s one strong ass couch 🛋️
When you ask people who have never seen a successful relationship work...
You are going to get answers that do not equal reasonable, logical and critical thinking at its base level.
After listening to these ladies, I now understand why I'm MGTOW. Great episode.
Men Guarding Their Own Wallets 💯
@@organic8176men guarding there EMPTY wallets 😂
This week: 3 bum females
Last week: 3 bum females
Next week: 3 more bum females
A women’s tone and disposition speaks volume
Its hilarious to see women tell on themselves about the fact they date low tier men, yet they STILL blame the men for her giving them access. Also imagine saying and moving like you 'dont need no man' then getting mad at him being receptive to it and letting you be great 😆 🤣
To be honest, no guy with money, would talk to these ladies.
They Followed Up “I Don’t Need a Man”with….“But You’re gonna Let Me Handle All of this By Myself?”. I don’t think the Women who claim Not to Need Men realize the Alternative is paying 100% of Your Bills on your own Forever…that’s Not making it Harder for anyone but yourself Lol
@Smurf_n_Wesson exactly. Dont puff out your chest and say you can handle it all and im expendable then get mad i dont lend you any financial help. Because thats what it all comes down to. They hate having to spend their own money.
@@maloishwilson most black men are low teir
@@smurf_n_wesson9064 most black men are low teir
A lot of y’all don’t want a good man. Y’all want a trick or a simp!! Y’all want a yes man. A man whose only purpose is to serve you and not himself or goals!! Y’all couldn’t handle a “real good man.” Y’all can’t handle a man correcting you. or calling you out on yo bs and habits and holding you accountable. Y’all want a sponsor. A real man is going to lead and not be led. A real man isn’t going to allow you to have those same habits you been having. A real man is going to stand up for himself and know his worth. A lot of y’all definitions of a good man is a man that y’all can control.
Bingo
These women are argumentative, unrealistic, overly made up, and fat! The most unattractive feature is they don't know how to listen and act like they know everything. So sad 😢
These girls ain’t doing shit but acting like y’all. I don’t get why y’all so mad. Women don’t want a controlling man anymore than y’all want a controlling woman. If y’all wanna keep talking this “men are SUPPOSED TO BE” blah blah blah then y’all gon have to go dig up our great grandmothers and talk to them 🤷🏾♀️
Nah i think it’s just a certain “type” of women only chase after a certain look of man and try to change them to what they imagine that person to be. women don’t mind being corrected or told the truth as long as it’s the man they actually want and crave. They don’t give that grace to any normal dude.
A good man isn't looking for them he watches how they move and moves the opposite direction. When set boundaries and don't budge they have a problem with it.
Its an unattractive mentality. Nothing to do with intimidation. They gotta make up reasons why the man they want rejects them, its of being womanly. These women are insecure about their lack of femininity skills UPFRONT
To me that's the point the thing is let's be real there's more women then us out here so we don't have to deal with what we don't want
Good time, girls.😂
Just let a woman talk and she’ll tell you everything you need to know about her
Yep just let her talk I'll walk away from the table without paying for anything. I think she will get the hint.
It's a shame women think being an adult and taking care of yourself as you're supposed to do. Is bringing something to the table smh.
Men lead with the basics...home, job, car......but a woman basically saying she isnt a gold digger makes men nowadays feel bad. Lol. Smh.
@@tpoppy9303literally the opposite through hypergamy😭got a lot to learn lil bro
Guys! With great power comes great responsibility. Learn to leave certain women alone. I know it looks like a good smash, but she’s broken and will only bring you drama. Leave her for the streets! 🤷🏾♂️
Props to whoever put that couch together
The girl who said she's single by choice is capp. That's like saying most men are celibate by choice lmaooo
As a human race we gotta stop changing the definition of things
All in all to be intimidated by someone or something
You are frighten by them or fearful or timid etc. no man is scared of a woman who can be an adult….. that don’t create fear😂😂 7:05
8:25 Often when men see that a woman doesn't need him financially or emotionally he just doesn't approach her at all, and she doesn't have to say nothing. This has nothing to do with intimidation, it really has more to do with his lack of leverage over a woman. And she can still value him without needing him, but this makes many men feel insecure, but that's his own issue.
The 1st 10 minutes got my head ready to explode. These women contradict themselves flagrantly and stand confidently in their contradiction. 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
Agreed 💯💯💯
The men sound more like they're ready to be husbands than the women to be wives. By a mile. Still in 304 phase.
I was saying that the whole entire show! There’s no gay ‘agenda’ just ‘men’ giving in and giving up
They want ghost from power. But want him to not cheat, stay loyal and be ready to end the world for her and give her the world at the same time.
They want Lex Luther thats trying to become Superman
Most don't qualify for that tho.. gotta have self awareness
And y’all want virgins who aren’t disagreeable and that’s not even a thing. We have grown ass men chasing us from the time we’re 12 years old. If I went around being “agreeable” with every dude who whos given me attention I’d have 600 bodies by now 🤦🏾♀️ you can’t be a weak willed pushover of a woman and protect your sexuality at the same time
Most guys DEFINITELY care about family. But ladies, if the guy does not bring up family, that's something you can bring up while getting to know each other to see where HIS head is. You're suppose to be vetting EACH OTHER.
It's an ego thing when they say they don't need you. But then complain why no man wants to be around you
Women have their walls up. I think discussions like this are important because they aren't attacked. Some women may understand the difference between flaunting being independent versus being self-sufficient and interdependent. 1 thing extra that should be clear is that women aren't expected to be codependent.
Has a woman you dated EVER immediately said she's independent without YOU coming at her bragging about money? Tell the truth. This shit doesnt happen in the real world. Alot of these conversations are just designed to bitch at women.
@@tpoppy9303 man it's ugly and unattractive fam IDC what they make me jus want a solid xhick
Women are expected to be codependent. Every day of our lives there’s some dude in our face tryna over explain something, assist with something we don’t need assistance with or demonize us for being overly “independent” when a woman just wants to do something herself. And it’s not just relationships. Family members, co workers, random men at the gas station. Obviously this is not all men, but from my experience it’s most of them. Men literally take offense to a woman not needing help with something. Men claim they won’t date up, and they claim they want women who NEED them yet here you are claiming that women are not expected to be codependent. With a straight face too 🤦🏾♀️
That’s a strong independent couch these lovely ladies are sitting on there!
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It has to be...that's a lot of gotdamn weight it's supporting
Let them fall on their own sword Don't waste your time or energy
The paradox of choice got these women quick to leave for any little reason. All because they’re thinking that there’s always a bigger better deal right around the corner
When the lady was describing her friends low tolerance, why was she smiling like that is a flex? Thats the main reason she will forever be unmarried.
Eli be on the birds head as soon as they say some stupid shxt...
There’s a difference between keeping a man happy and keeping a man satisfied
"I feel like...I feel like...I feel like...I feel like...I feel like..." Is my record skipping?👀
You guys have truly evolved as a show, since I started watching. Keep up the good work 👏
Facts! Their content has been substance, thought-provoking, consistent, and tasteful…….great quality content! Kudos to them! 🙌🏾
These guys always do great shows! Thank you 🙏
13:55 At lot people get to know each other bodies before they get to know the person
It's so disgusting
15:35 women settle for what they can KEEP
Once you expect someone else to make you happy, you already have the wrong mindset… Happiness is generated from within
I don't see how y'all do this show every week. These chicks are EXHAUSTING 😫😪😩
EXTREMELY...🤦🏿♂️
I totally agree on this note: STRENGTH DISCIPLINE AND INTERDEPENDENCY!!! I am working on myself and putting value in myself so that any person (esp. my man) I can bring value, and appreciation! We need each other! It is the balance to LIFE! Dependency and independence are two extremes of an issue! What will bring harmony and balance is INTERDEPENDENCY!
If you have a low tolerance for putting up with people, it would probably be best to not to get into a relationship. Don't waste their time or yours. Just stay single
Fellas, if a female says she does not need a man/can do it alone, leave her to pass away alone.
Don't listen to females saying they are the table, they are independent and Traditional DOMESTICATED at the same time. You cannot have Day and night at the same time in the same place.
Y’all still gonna have the same ol relationship problems in 10yrs sad 😂😂😂😂😂
304's got some nerve to call dudes. Sassy.! 😂😂😂😂
Yknow there's one thing I conclude after watching these relationship content for bout 4 years...... women become women in the presence of men.... real men
The question should be why they can’t fit on that sofa.
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A real friend will not be upset that you're doing good. Now, if you're on different financial levels, if the more prosperous doesn't make a show of their prosperity, then is all good.
You can't bring the table to the table. The table is the negotiation table.. That said, no man is gonna be intimidated by a chick's success, even his chick. Either he will be her biggest cheerleader, be proud of her, feel nothing about it, or not want to deal with her IF her being successful does not fit in with his plans and goals for their family.
Eli spittin HOT FIREEEE in that opening clip! Sheesh 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
26:30 your man and your hom girls should not be on the same level. Your guy should eventually become the one you can be vulnerable with way more then your friends. Thats how you know they ready for marriage
They need more articulate women that understands the gravity of the discussion! They kept repeating themselves as if we're supposed to read minds!
I couldn’t agree with you more. These women are ignorant and have no substance for these topics. The constant repeats of “ I feel like” 🙄🙄
I don’t know any man intimidated by any woman.
The problem is today most women don't know how to be in a relationship...they have been sold a false standard which renders a relationship to a transactional situation. They perpetually choose wrong, they want a prize simply for being an adult and having a vagina, that is their standard in going into relationships. Most are simply looking to flex, trying to convince everyone they don't need men, and also flex what they can get from men. The dysfunction thrives on these false notions and wonder why they age out the dating market alone and used up.
And men do? 🙄🙄🙄🙄. The delusion is real.
@jrobinson39 focus we talking about women, men get held accountable for their shitty decision in modern women everyday from both men and women, so please miss me with the attempted equivalency, it don't work. Men are the harshest critic for men when they get a female who ain't shit and the inevitable happens. Women are the only ones who think they should be beyond reproach for their bad decisions 🤷🏾♂️
@18:15 women need to learn that what you went through is not the problem of the other guy and men should not have to bare the brunt of that past trauma. Men are always supposed to understand, take it or change for her, yet they do not want to change for a man AT ALL.
That boy Eli be giving fact 💯
49:10 That's so true for females!! If one friend level up some of the other friends would get jealous and start plotting against her. I know of a situation like that.
So female and male friendship dynamics are different.
The one in the middle = TOXIC
They don’t know or care how men think or what we want. Most of these women are selfish. “What’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine” mentality is not a good foundation for a successful relationship. One unit mentality is the way.
Take a shot for everytime you hear "I feel like" I'm dead ☠️☠️.
These women speak from places of ignorance and fantasy.
Black men are so feminine
They need to feel like hitting the gym
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They was mad annoying with that "I feel like" crap...a head full of rocks...🤦🏿♂️
@@Highofflife95 I felt sorry for that couch
These dudes too nice.
*These young ladies act like grown girls*
Most females no matter the age have a preset list of answers for any conversation.
Not "fuck the cake" lmao I am crying. She was trying to tell you something and you basically said "fuck all lat" lololol
Lane bryant brigade…. I haven’t watched a second of the video yet, am i fkd up???
They need a bigger couch
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Ida doesn't understand what relationships are about. She'll rather be more vulnerable with her friends, because women lie to each other. Men are problem solvers,which is not Ida's plan...I've told my 3 sons, "beware of women with any nose piercing." Take your pick, Mental health issues, free-spirited lifestyle(304), has had major trauma. When Lee was talking about men not spending time with her, probably one of those things she is. She mentioned dealing with a street dude who got busted, so that tells you what's her lifestyle like. I once dated a woman that had a nose ring, despite me knowing to avoid her, she was fine. Back story, when she was with her mom at 5, they were in a car accident, mom killed. While living with her dad and step mom, her and her 2 sisters were beaten by step mom. Dad over dosed, the 3 girls were sent individually to live with fam. The sisters came together as adults. She had a temper. Despite how good she looked, she was not worth the headache. I learned my lesson! Makala and Lee said that they don't want to settle. They're vastly overeating themselves. They're both cute average women. I was cracking up when Makala thought that she's too fine to be approached by average guys when she's an average woman. They're going to over price themselves into being Cat women.
If she lightskin with good hair they’re going to overate themselves automatically lol
If you look like a land 🐋 you are officially below average. 80 percent of black women are overweight or obese so they need to sign up to the gym asap.
I have a nose ring and I'm not that traumatized and idk what a nose ring has to do with saying what a women is. It doesn't. I have a bf and have a nose ring. What is soo damn wrong with a nose ring?
They look very uncomfortable on that couch.
Both sides should be capable independent people. I dont necessarily believe "dependent" on each other should be the term, perhaps "supporting" each other, not being dependent on each other. Also, i think women bring up the fact that they can financially take care of themselves bc women in the past always had to be dependent on men for money. Now, women dont, and i think that is important for women to say. I agree that women shouldn't lead with that, but it is important women to know that we have options now, because we are financial independent and free to chose who we want to be with.
Nope is never important or necessary for a women to say she is independent these days and every women that leads with that I guarantee you she is lacking in a lot of more important areas in her life. When something is obvious it don’t need to be said, just prove it with your actions
Maybe women say this because they don't want the man to think that they're using them for their money. Personally, it's not something I say.
Goodness, I’m so sorry men. I am so sorry.
Most women especially bw don't want to admit it up front but most need financial help and need men to help them but they don't want to feel like they owe them which is why they use gaslighting and reverse psychology to force men especially bm to do it that and make them feel bad for not doing it but they expect it to be done without bringing value and say bm should be happy to do and not receive anything
Y’all expect bw to give y’all everything for bare minimum so what’s the difference🤷♀️
@@zee608 that's false and bw give for the bare minimum if that guy is their type sexually and then they expect the good men to pay a premium that they don't expect the men they had sex with are their type and had multiple kids by to do while they bring more headaches bills and less sex to the table doesn't work that way any more
Y’all need a bigger couch
A more sturdy one, as well
The thing i am seeing alot of these women think men like the samethings they do because if you listen to alot of them talk the sound like how dudes that lead with money and education
How many men deal with 2 women at the same time let alone 5 women ?!!!????delusional is just exhausting ....
I've known some!!
@@Carmen-us1ew of course there are some but it CAN'T be even 10% of us...
“I can be more vulnerable with my friends than partner.” -she didn’t see that statement as problematic? The one person you should be vulnerable with your husband & wife and if you can’t then they not the one!
3 boss chick cows wondering why they attract low lv men 🤔
All three girls either speak the black vernacular English or can't speak English properly at all. No way will they attract any high value man the way they speak, maybe a city worker garbageman or a bus driver but that's about it
Yall got the Booga wolves this episode
Ironically the most over weight person has a low tolerance 😂😂😂
@28:49 Eli you got em'. beat that double standard up they these women have so much of and don't like when it's done to them! W ELI
Fellas... You can't make a woman happy. Happiness is an internal job. Make yourself happy and find a woman who is already happy. happy
WHY ELI!!!! Nah but that intro fire.. Our community will never grow without both sides understanding that we need each other and why✊🏽
When women answer with “I feel like” that’s a emotional response, I need to know what they think logically
Not even in the gym so it don’t matter what they talking about
I feel like, I feel like, I feel like, I feel like, I feel like, i feel like y'all squished together on that poor little love seat!!😂😂😂
They will meet a real man soon..his name is Demon 😂😂😂😂😂
Lol 😂😅
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These women are too old to be thinking like this … Jesus Christ
She admitted that she lied about being ready right after criticizing him for lying…lol
"I don't need you financially but I still want you to pay for stuff". Yep that's logical.
A woman going on a date and telling a man she independent don't need a man for anything is like looking at the menu and telling the waiter all the food you dont want to eat, tf you here for😂😂😂
The word of the day is CONTRADICTIONS 😄
And: "I FEEL LIKE"
MERCH!!
39:00 please ladies stop 🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢 yall know when yall "OUTSIDE" men are hollering at you and trying to smash.
These battle toads act like this cuz of social media I swear
I like independent woman. It makes me safe my money. I am looking for independent strong women but that does not mean that they should be rude because i am not rude to them. I cant stand rude snd disrespectful women
Full hundred to u bros1️⃣0️⃣0️⃣.These conversations are need to be had but it's clear there is a lot of work to be done for both men & women(women especially)
Great one guys super vocal in the right topic points and shutting down the delusions
Somebody I know got divorced of course the woman choose too now she wants to come back 🤦🏿♂️
That couch not big enough😂🤧