Finding Love In SG: Is It Hard For Singles In Late 20s? Ft Brenda, Hargaohunk, Jaz | Kaki Chats EP35
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Is it becoming more challenging for young Singaporeans to find love in Singapore? Will your perspective on love evolve as you age? Can you embrace being single for life, or must you get married? Join Nicholas, Brenda, Jazliyana, and our HeyKaki host, Hee Ai, as they discuss their perspectives on love and share how their personal experiences in different stages (being single, toxic relationships, finding the right one) shaped their viewpoint!
Learn how Brenda's parents divorce affected her views on love, to eventually finding happiness with her current boyfriend. Discover how Jaz's past experiences with toxic relationships helped her set standards for her future ideal partner. Finally, don't miss Nic's interesting story about going overseas (Korea) for a first date with a complete stranger!
新加坡的年轻人是否很难找到属于自己的爱情？你对爱情的观点会因年龄的增长而改变吗？你能接受终身单身吗？与展豪、靖仪、嫣儿和我们嘿卡奇主持人，熙爱，一起讨论他们对爱情的看法，并分享他们在不同阶段的个人经历（单身状态、不健康的恋爱关系、找到合适的对象），是如何塑造了最终的爱情价值观。
一起了解靖仪是如何从最初对爱情不积极，到她终于结束单身，找到男朋友。你也能通过嫣儿过去不健康的恋爱经历，了解这如何影响她怎么设定对未来理想伴侣的标准。最后，不要错过展豪第一次约会就出国的精彩故事！
Chapters:
0:32 Brenda's love story
2:05 Is it harder to find love as you grow older?
3:05 Nic's unfortunate love stories
5:13 How did Jaz find love
5:52 Why Nic doesn't believe in love
6:47 Brenda's expectations & red flags in finding a partner
7:54 Jaz's lessons learnt from her ex
9:56 Does your perception of love change over time?
11:20 How is dating different when you are older
12:51 Are you stressed about marriage and having kids?
15:20 Would you rather be single or married?
15:53 Advice for singles finding love
17:41 Brenda's fortune teller story
Credits:
Featuring 嘉宾: 李熙爱 李嫣儿 张展豪 陈靖仪
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Producers 编导: 张汐莹
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Film Crew: 林鼎顺 王靖婕
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Graphics 美术：陈佳星
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Video Editor: 王靖婕
Subtitles: 郑欣恩
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Nic feels like a player so he attracts those aiming to PLAY
I think getting into the right community and crowd is very important... I have many older couple friends who got married and they are still very loving to each other, teach the children well and values. The environment and group of friends does help. (Mine is good role models, happens to be from church setting- you might wanna find your own good influences and role models on how the couple communicate healthily and open for counselling, wanting to solve problems etc. basically find mature healthy adults/trying to be as healthy as possible, usually the couples wouldn't go too off)
What people dont realise is,
you dont actually find true love. Or shall i put it,true love isnt a person out there who constantly loves you out of nowhere.
True love is BUILT.
Any couples with the same mindset can build true love,by making a choice to investing/pouring/nurture into it, and it never ends.
Any relationship will rock,due to close proximity. For as long as no one cheats,no one chooses other ppl or no one thinks the grass is greener somewhere else, you're good. All you need is fulfill whatever the person need slightly more than usual,to get pass through it. Whether be a good listener,a comforter,assurer etc.
First love at 35
Just know what you want, don't wait for the 'perfect one' because they don't exist. Have a checklist of what is your critical bare minimum, and once they meet this line, give em' a chance. And that means you put in your effort too.
It's about giving the other, not about what you can get. Take this mentality, you'll find more potential partners.
This video was very hard to get through. It shld have been conducted in English given that they were much more fluent in it, rather than struggling to get on with it in Chinese and ending up with a mish mash of the two.
Fully agreed. Some parts are cringe
Ain’t that how singaporeans talk? Even Korean Americans would mix in English while conversing. If Chinese isn’t their first language that they speak daily, can they still not do shows in Chinese? It’s a learning process just because someone isn’t proficient doesn’t mean they can’t contribute. Sure go and invite a Chinese teacher here to speak then 🤯
Lol i have been single for 40 years. True finding true love in Singapore is very hard.
Is Brenda’s bf Seng Jueh? I remember Brenda used to be mention that he’s handsome 🤔
That’s what I was thinkinggg 😭😭
That’s what I was thinking too!
I had a friend who is lost in relationship and feels like nic. What he shows isnt what he thinks. So basically dont match. Usually, its not about location or method, its about the mindset. Lost in the mindset to get attention but actually. Its all about what he wants but not actually the girl wants. Balance between what he wants and what actually the girl think is always the key. Method is the subset of mindset which most people get confuse about which is similar to passion and strength. Strength support passion and not vice versa.
I want DM Brenda!!! I want to know where the fortune teller is 😅😅
I also wanna know
Where is the palm reader ya? Nameeee? Tq
love this episode!
Good episode and yes pls share the fortune teller?
Great content😍😍
Ignore previous msg.
Remove cctv off my home hehe😮
Nic 讲的很好 👍🏻
why did u invite a scammer?
It is hard to find true love
You don’t ask the fish how to fish, you ask the fisherman
hargao, your story really damn suay sia LOL! you should really go to a master and check whether is it a hantu that have fallen in love with you thats foiling all your plans
nic的故事好惨真的好suey
Is all about money money money
lolz..say as if you got nothing wrong..
爱情是没有那么简单。。。
骨折。。what 手断/ 断手
Why can’t you conduct this in mandarin as it will be more relatable and the guests will be more comfortable conversing in it?
Jaz acted in 陪你到最后。Her acting is awesome and her mandarin is the most fluent. She’s also the most easy on the eyes among the ladies here. The other 2 really cmi. I also can’t stand the way Brenda speaks. It’s so 油腻 & sóng。Jaz is 清秀 & 清新脱俗。Also, what an artistic name “李嫣儿”. She gives off an elegant dancer vibe. 👍🏼👍🏼
Nic is handsome and funny. He could just be a free spirit. Nothing wrong with being single as long as one is happy. His “我很高，我okay okay, 我有狗” is hilarious!
I met my hubby on a dating site, not Tinder of course. Humor & opinionatedness are my top criteria. Of course he must be a kind man with a stable job. And he mustn’t want kids as I’m an anti-natalist & VHEMT supporter (look up those terms 😉). My hubby realises he’s been a VHEMT supporter all along without realizing it until I recently intro him to this term.
Do you know that about 2500 soiled diapers are thrown out in just the first year of ONE baby’s life? And the carbon footprint of every child? Basically you can’t out-green a childfree person no matter how much you reduce, reuse & recycle.
Existence of humans = 92.2 billions animals slaughtered a year & > 115 million animals tested on in labs every year for human’s medical progress and cosmetics etc. Ppl who breed think their 2 kids won’t cause environmental degradation. That’s what billions others think as well. Think about the cumulative damage! Not to mention your 2 kids will produce ∞ descendants afterwards unless someone wises up & stops the buck.
We can do better than our parents by not perpetuating the vicious cycle of human suffering, animal suffering and environmental degradation.
nope, as u aged, ur standard goes lower. they havent reach that age.
Why can’t you conduct this in mandarin as it will be more relatable and the guests will be more comfortable conversing in it?
Jaz acted in 陪你到最后。Her acting is awesome and her mandarin is the most fluent. She’s also the most easy on the eyes among the ladies here. The other 2 really cmi. I also can’t stand the way Brenda speaks. It’s so 油腻 & sóng。Jaz is 清秀 & 清新脱俗。Also, what an artistic name “李嫣儿”. She gives off an elegant dancer vibe. 👍🏼👍🏼
Nic is handsome and funny. He could just be a free spirit. Nothing wrong with being single as long as one is happy. His “我很高，我okay okay, 我有狗” is hilarious!
I met my hubby on a dating site, not Tinder of course. Humor & opinionatedness are my top criteria. Of course he must be a kind man with a stable job. And he mustn’t want kids as I’m an anti-natalist & VHEMT supporter (look up those terms 😉). My hubby realises he’s been a VHEMT supporter all along without realizing it until I recently intro him to this term.
Do you know that about 2500 soiled diapers are thrown out in just the first year of ONE baby’s life? And the carbon footprint of every child? Basically you can’t out-green a childfree person no matter how much you reduce, reuse & recycle.
Existence of humans = 92.2 billions animals slaughtered a year & > 115 million animals tested on in labs every year for human’s medical progress and cosmetics etc. Ppl who breed think their 2 kids won’t cause environmental degradation. That’s what billions others think as well. Think about the cumulative damage! Not to mention your 2 kids will produce ∞ descendants afterwards unless someone wises up & stops the buck.
We can do better than our parents by not perpetuating the vicious cycle of human suffering, animal suffering and environmental degradation.