My PARENTS STOLE $11,000 from me!!!!
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- Опубликовано: 29 ноя 2023
- My PARENTS STOLE $11,000 from me! I'm being seriously you guys
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as a Christian, your parents cannot use God against you. God is not a pokemon you call out on people when you’re mad at them. While I am still learning how to be a Christian, I can say with full confidence that your parents need to understand that their religion is meant to help others-not tear them down.
Also a Christian here. The fear of God is truly not a good thing. Religion is supposed to help people, not bring them down.
As someone who is agnostic but raised in a Christian environment I completely agree, I may not know where I align spiritually but I do know using god to justify abuse is bs
However the mental image of Red just walking in the tall grass and suddenly encountering god itself is so funny
There are two types of fears of God.
The good fear, which is just acknowledgement that our God is our God, and that He is the one that created us,
and the bad fear. The fear that other mortals try to instill in us to control us. They antagonize God, making it seem like if you slip up in the tiniest way, that you're going to hell.
That is not our God. That is a made up thing that horrible people try to prove to us is real.
God is loving, caring, and is gentle. He heals, not hurts. And He loves and forgives you no matter what you are, no matter what you have done. He has designed us to be exactly what we are, regardless of what we identify as, who we love, or what our mental illnesses are. He always makes sure you have every chance to prove your love to him and others.
God is good. Make sure you're faithful in Him. Not the people who say what he is and is not.
-A queer Christian
LMAOO A POKEMON CARD
@@jordintheanxious8008 so basically Arceus lol
What they did sounds like emotional, verbal and financial abuse, honestly…. I’m glad you’ve moved out of there now but holy shit. You deserve so much better and I’m so sorry you had to go through all of that. Honestly I’d suggest going no contact with them and at most, a restraining order.
Normally when I hear things about her parents I never would really sit and think about how absolutely toxic Synni's home life is...? I hate hearing her call herself a crybaby when she's legit a victim. I can SEE why she hates them and now it makes me happy to see her finally be free
(Except her bank account which where I live in order for a minor to get a bank account a parent needs to be under it also so they automatically have control of your account)
I think now if Synni wanted to soon she can get them off the account since she'll be a full adult for her own account. I could be wrong and anybody can correct me if they can.
@@TDisHere If she lives in America and I believe she’s at least 18 she’s legally an adult and therefore doesn’t need anyone on her bank account outside of herself however if she had created it before she was an adult they may of still been on it that way. I recently went through something similar in a way lesser amount with my mother (I moved out and switched banks away from her all together)
Threatening to kick you out and then getting mad when you want to move out is crazy. I'm glad you were able to move out of such a controlling and abusive household
What? $11,000? That's like... A couple months of rent. That's more then a few months of food... That is alot of money.
That’s more than a couple months of rent! That’s at least a few months of rent + utilities + groceries
@@mageofdoomsie1598 Oh, ya, your right.
This could pay off my dentistry dept and still be a few months of rent...
I can't comprehend how scary it must be to just lose such money this way...
@@mageofdoomsie1598 That's 5 months of my rent + vehicle payment flat.
@adish1401 not only scary but devastating, you thought you could trust the people that conceived you but you can't. You're losing your parents in the most nightmarish way
You're not just imagining things, they are trying to sabotage you: When you first brought up moving out (which is a normal adult thing to do) dad throws a fit, after that mom tries to strong arm your car (your method of moving out) away from you, then you do move out and they steal everything they can from you (presumeably thinking you'd not be able to afford moving out now)
At every opportunity they can to sabotage you they did, every time you tried to take a step towards independence they took steps towards keeping you dependant
You aren't imagining things, they are trying to gaslight you
fr PREACH!!!!
I know I'm just a stranger on the internet that happens to like your content, but know that I mean this with the upmost sincerity: You did not deserve what happened to you. You did not deserve to be disrespected, belittled, or mistreated by the people who were supposed to love and protect you. You are worth so much more than they would have you believe, and I sincerely hope that you can properly heal from this experience.
Youve worded how me and many others feel PERFECTLY ♡
this is legit child abuse and you should call the police. sue them, literally anything to finally tell them that they're horrible people. i'm so sorry you had to go through this and i'm glad you got out of there. i hope you'll recover from this and i hope you get your money back sooner rather then later.
Agreeeddd
unfortunately, suing cost a lot of money and time, and sometimes, for the person's own mental health, it is just best to distance themselves and worry about their future, speaking from experience on trying to report child abuse.
@@koffiblog8434 i guess that explains why most parents get away with this crap...i hate this world..
Ironic how your parents like to belittle you by calling you childish, meanwhile they seem to exibit the emotional maturity of toddlers. Glad to hear you are out of that awful situation!!
They sound like they both had to grow up fast but the more they grew up , the more entitled and selfish they became.
Im listening to this and its damn crazy. Your parents are HYPOCITES
“You can’t leech off your friends!!! You have to be more independent”
B**** SHES TRYNA MOVE OUT AND BE INDEPENDENT 💀💀
They took gaslight gatekeep girl boss too literally
I'm so sorry your parents did that :(
That is definitely manipulative, and I genuinely believe that they were trying to sabotage you so that you would crawl back to them so they could control you more
I would consider it the bravest thing you've done. Moving out was always a big step to many people, but you took that step. And you made it successfully, you got this Synni. You've come so far, and you've made it.
You're in an environment where you can finally feel at least mentally safe(at least I do hope so.) I've been a fan for a long time. And knowing you've been going through this was a lot to take in.
But yet you took a path to where you felt more safe, I want to say I wish you and your roommate luck. The world as an adult sucks, but you'll both handle it all like champ's, and will have each other's back. I hope everything turns out just fine for you, and you stay safe physically and mentally! ✨✨✨
👇 Cupcakes for everyone!! 🧁
The audacity they had is just insane!
I’m really sorry that they keep treating you like a child, you’re already a grown ass adult who has their own decisions, no person should go through this :(
Since you’re an adult, you can technically take legal action for some form of robbery, yeah it’s painful but those aren’t parents…
Stuff like this makes me sad that we grew apart. If I had known I would have done something to help you but I’m so proud of you for moving out. Rub that shit in their face. You are grown and they can’t do shit about it. I’m so damn proud of you girl❤️
For someone who prides herself on 'adult things' and 'being an adult' and putting down 'childish things' she she does act like a toddler who's never been told the word 'no', christ
Sorry about your "parents" my guy, maybe it's a blessing that they said not to talk to them again. Gives you the excuse to go full no contact
I am sorry what I heard about your parents. They're toxic, controlling, childish and manipulative and you deserved so much better. I knew about you getting grounded every once n a while but i never knew how bad your situation was. I'm happy you moved out, i'm happy you took control of your life and i am proud of you.
Legal action rn 💪 your an adult and they have no right to do that, genuinely, thats really effed up. It seems like they were "trying to help" but that's still fucked up.
20 years old is still a very young age. Yes, you're an adult legally, but in terms of mental development you've still got half a decade to go before you're fully neurologically developed.
You're still an adult and have every right to remove yourself from this clusterfuck of a situation at home, but it doesn't change how you'll still benefit from guidance from your family ...
...which is exactly what your parents failed to provide. Them throwing it in your face that "you're an adult now" is such garbage, they chose to have kids, they should be there for said kids. Trying to step into your life and take your financial matters into their own hands was absurd, they've never given you space to grow into a functional adult, yet will throw it in your face that you need to deal with yourself because you're an adult. This is so whacky and absurd. So much unnecessary stress being thrown onto you because of your parents own insecurities, anger issues, whatever the hells going on in their heads. They're being selfish, manipulative, and weird. You deserve to just be able to start your life, and have a nice 20s. You've got so much life experience to get started on, and your parents should have your back so you can have a great time getting on your feet. It's good that you got this off your chest, its so brave. I really wanna see you start up your own life, starting with Jimmy of course, and develop a safe space and a secure social group and circle. That circle your family didn't seem to create for you. You've been so brave stepping out of this and moving away. Stay safe, keep being brave.
i remember when you first announced this in your discord server and my GOD was my blood boiling. i know things are getting slightly better now ( idk your circumstances as of rn ) but holy shit please know you have so many people out there who can and will support you in many ways and that so many of us are proud of you for getting in a better position despite having parents that do unspeakable shit like,, *this*
they're making it into the nursing home with this one 🔥🔥🔥
I love that you changed the thumbnail to the kangaroo from horton hears a who
It's probably because her parents were threatening to sue her, just my assumption.
It absolutely sucks that this is happening to you, I wouldn't wish this on anyone. I hope you soon reach financial stability and that your parents would leave you alone. I'll be sharing your KO-FI around, and this video.
Good LORD those people have problems.
Don’t ask them for help on anything. Not taxes, not anything. Shoot, if you need help with stuff like that just drop me a dm or something.
This is horrific
Hearing that from you, seeing you take the time to comment on my video actually makes me feel a lot better.
Idk what ur preferred contact is but uhhh
I'm "Synni." On discord. The period at the end of Synni is included.
@@synnibear03 Sent
🙏 based lio moment. Also hope you're doing ok Synni!
Unrelated but the pomni art is amazing in this video
Thanku uwu
christ. im so sorry. people like that do not deserve to have kids, but every child deserves parents be it found or related. i am so glad you have moved out and getting better.
Jesus christ man this is actual abuse, you don't deserve this.
Not only you want to move out for your own benefit, it’s also a great way to get away from them. It’s absolutely mind boggling they don’t see that you’re an adult now and you want to live independently. Not running away from your shit and also wtf they mean by “Adult behavior” You are way MORE mature then they are. I wish you the best Synni cause dang
The fact that they're both in on abusing you to hell and back is awful to think about. Not only are they terrible people, but their marriage is messy too.
I can practically feel the rage and how trapped/helpless you really were gets me teary-eyed. So, I'm genuinely glad to see you finally being able to get away from them because my god- are they toxic as hell.
Sue em and get all your money back.
I'm so sorry you went through this. Losing 11k is a huge financial loss. Assuming that since you're an adult, your account should be under your name and your parents are just third party. Try calling your bank and saying the withdrawal from your account was unauthorized and allow them to investigate and to hopefully refund back the money in full. Also, try kicking your parents out of your bank account to prevent further unauthorized transactions in the future to protect yourself.
I'm so sorry that your parents did that to you, to be honest, I seriously think they need therapy because to be honest their behavior is unacceptable and childish and I'm so glad you are out of that house and on your own. As someone who had to deal with something similar to this but not exact, I can empathize with you. Best of luck to you and your roomate.
I'm sorry they did that to u hopefully you'll be able to get the money back or be able to like,, make up 4 it
I hope they realize that going no contact is a huge deal with kids and parents.
You cutting contact will help you grow and they will grow to regret and be angry knowing that you no longer see them as parents.
8 minutes in and i could not be more thrilled that you've moved out and you're away from these people. they're horrible, why would anyone have a child if you're just going to control them and belittle their existence like this, their behavior is disgustingly atrocious and upsetting. im so, so, so sorry you've had to deal with them for so damn long. you never deserved their shit. you're a good person, you're doing your best, and they have no right to be such shitheads towards you, it's fucking despicable.
edit: also your art is really good and teaching me a lot, i love your pomni art aghh
dawg, I would immediately try to fine ANY criminal charge I can use against them for that holy shit that's awful I'm so sorry you have to deal with these humans
I hope they know they can get jail time for doing that with YOUR money especially if they took it from your account because that does count as stealing if you didn't give them permention to get in it
also another thing when you get the chance lock up your account so that way they can't get in it
that's just messed that they did that to you
also I think it's best to cut all contact with them because a parent(s) shouldn't ever try keeping their child for having freedom in anyway when they want to leave or move out
It hurts to see that this was my childhood favorite RUclips go through this, I'd didn't even notice
They’re cutting contact with you for telling them to shut up??? Jesus Christ I knew they were petty cuz of the whole $11,000 incident, but they’re even moreso than that-
It’s hilarious to me they call/treat you like a child yet they act all pissy and whining and throwing a tantrum when u do something they don’t like
Not to echo what others said, but yes, you do deserve better. I’m sorry this happened to you and we’re all here for you ❤
Wow- sorry, you're going through all that craziness. I'm glad you're finally in a place that makes you happy, though. :)
Wtf I heard about physical abuse but this mentally torture is just fucking disgusting. I hope you are fine synni :/ glad you are away from these people. Especially when your dad said "fuck you" Wich is disgusting as hell.
When I was a kid my mother was flat out abusive
I moved into a group home and eventually to my own place and went no/low contact with her many times and really laid down the law
In the end it turned out okay as she got the help she needed and began truly being my mother
I genuinely hope it'll end the same or similar for you
You're on the right path and it'll be okay (though I know hearing that doesn't help but I mean it) :D
and the roommate was birdie??? the lore is CRAZY /j 😭
I know how you feel because I'm going through a very similar situation. I'm 24 and have Asperger's and I'm stuck in a shitty group home living off SSI after my mom passed and My brother, my father, and my case manager don't think I'm able to go and find an apartment myself despite having just enough to live off of. They treat me like a child despite the fact that I'm very capable of being independent. It makes me scared to leave the group home because they and the staff at the group home make me feel lesser than and makes me afraid to get out and find a place. Not to mention the group home took all my SSI money hostage and only giving me small amounts. I'm glad I'm not alone and I'm glad you managed to get out and find a place and this video is an epiphany and encouragement to get out and hopefully find a good place for myself.
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i still live with my parents because of uni, my parents arnt as horrible as yours but my father is lowkey abusive. when i was a kid it wasnt rly like that until my brother was born. im really scared for him when i move out cause my dads anger issues have just been getting worse. I feel you on that
I'm so sorry. Are you and your brother doing okay?
I hope you’re doing well and I’m so sorry that happened to you and I’m glad you’re out of that toxic relationship with your parents.
I definitely understand the feeling of caring for a family member who refuses to understand me and sermingly acts with a vendetta.
Please try and find a way to keep in touch with the brother in a way that isnt filtered by your parents. I know too many people whose siblings dissapeared as soon as they were able to.
Good luck
- Fellow Missourian
take legal action. this shit is messed up.
yea
I’m so glad you got outta that house!! I’ve been a fan of your content for around six years and saw how that living situation affected you throughout that time (as much as I could since I’m just an observer and don’t know you personally loloz). It makes me so happy to see that you finally made it out of there, I’m so happy for you!!!
Your parents’ behavior is really gross, especially to me since I’m a Christian. Hearing they use our religion as a shield for their abusive actions is so heartbreaking and infuriating. From what I understand, almost everything they’ve done goes against the Bible’s teachings. It’s like they spat in God’s face.
Also, I’m not sure if you yourself are a Christian, so what I’m bout to say may not hold much meaning to you, but I truly think you’ve acted in a Godly way throughout all this. To have the strength and mercy to still love people who’ve hurt you is so admirable and amazing. I really think He’s proud of you. I definitely am!! I’ll be praying that your parents see the flaws in their lives and that you, your brother, and your roommate all find the peace and relief you deserve. I wish you the best; I hope living on your own goes well and that you’re happy :D!!!
You are so patient/responsible I would have put them on a t-shirt PL 😭😭😭
You are insanely brave for standing up for yourself
Oh yeah I saw this on her Discord! Poor Synni, her parents knew she was saving it for a while.
"Receive consequences" For moving out? She told you this, your grown ass adult daughter as you throw an tantrum like a child saying that's its an adult thing.
Synni I am so sorry your parents give you crap, you dont deserve this from the people that are supposed to respect and love you unconditionally. This isnt normal parenting. Why your parents think this is okay to treat you like you're constantly wrong is abnormal to me. I think you made the right decision leaving them. Hope you're safe.
your parents are projecting their emotional problems on you hardcore. they gave you the BARE MINIMUM and expect you to bear emotional abuse for it. You can love your parents while having distance from them. Glad youre out of that situation & created a better living space
You do not deserve what your parents did to you at all, that’s unfair on how they treat you that’s really fucked up 😕
I’ve been following you for a long time and have been following the story with you and your parents for a while, I’m glad you’re finally out of their toxic household and get to live with your friends. I hope you have a good life synni. ❤
They want you to be an adult but still dictate your life like you're a child 😭 pick one
How foolish of them to do that so close to Krampusnacht
ITS BEEN ELEVEN DAYS SYNNI, HOW DID YOUR PARENTS DO EVEN MORE PROBLEMATIC STUFF ARGH
they fr think they are speedrunners or smth
Your parents make me so mad, I literally have no idea how the can do the things they do and not see a problem. It makes me sad to know a person that I look up to has to deal with this. But I think things are gonna get better now that you've left the house
I normally don't comment on random videos but it sounds like they are real monsters. At least you made the right choice to move away from them.
I'm very happy that you're out of your parent's house and that they can't really hurt you anymore. Can't imagine all the stuff you've been through man. It all sounds like utter torture. But again, I'm so glad you're in a better place. I've always loved your art and content, and I want you to do well.
Additionally just because they provided you with the bare minimum does not make them good parents and the fact that they hold that stuff over your head is disgusting. They chose to have you/adopt you, it is their responsibility to provide for you.
the fact they abuse you but STILL try to keep you with them is insane. genuinely hope you have some donation thing up, you deserve support.
I hope things will get better for you . I cant possibly imagine living in a household with such toxic parents, I'm glad that you're now out of that.
I hope everything continues to get better for you Synni! you deserve good people in your life that don’t make you feel like how your parents made you feel and don’t do batshit crazy things ♥︎♥︎♥︎♥︎♥︎
and i also hope that your brother is okay too, hopefully you can help him out of there someday soon ♥︎
Your parents sound exhausting. These people aren't the type of people you want in your life.
I'm sorry you have to deal with this. Unfortunately, your parents are the type of people who will never admit that they are wrong. I hope you're going to be okay. I wish you good luck!
If you want to move out you should be able to and if you want your money that was stolen from you get it back. I hope this situation gets much better in the future, even if the situation is great, I hope the situation gets better!
Just finished watching the whole thing, and the only thing I can say is what the actual hell. That's a lot of sucky things to go through, and I'm just glad that you're outta there. Man :(
All I want to do is just give hugs. Hope you're doing well 🫂
you should really consider calling the police on your parents thief cuz i can see them going even farther with "giving you the consequences of your actions." or aka just plain abusing you.
i also understand if you dont want to go down that path but you will get your money back and then some if you do call. just remember you are free and have options.
Im so glad you got out of there! And I'm sorry that stuff happened to you, I've been following your channel for a long time and it's nice to hear that you've finally left them. I wish you luck in the future!
I'm so proud of you for managing to pull through and never cave in, to still get back up after YEARS of that abuse, and to find your own way, its truly amazing and being able to get back up makes you strong. Stronger than they ever will be
I'm so glad you're in a much better place. I hope you're able to regain the money you lost!
I know how you feel, i was robbed from a lot to and even now as an 22 year old adult i still don't get a lot of choices, it not fun being used in so many ways then one I'm sorry you had to deal with that.
This is scary knowing how similar story happened to my sister but very different ways
synni...i've been watching you for a few years now and you've been a great inspiration to me. you seem like such a kind and funny person. i'll tell you right now, you didn't deserve any of this. your parents need to show you some respect. i'm so sorry about what you had to go through, but i'm glad you're finally in a better place. xxx
stealing 11k dollars is an insane amount.. 11k may not seem much to some but for some others 11k is an amazing amount, and the fact they just stole it out of your account is not right. im glad your doing alright with your roommate, and i hope you manage to get that money back because thats not right for what your parents did. i hope your brother is okay aswell and i hope you can hear from how hes doing hopefully
I’m so sorry this has happened to you Synni, i hope your life gets better from here :[
I'm so sorry that you had to go through this, Synni. No one your age, actually, no one at all deserves to go through that. You're so fucking strong, even though you shouldn't have had to be. I'm proud of you, and you and your roommate will get through this.
I'm unsure of your brother's age, but im assuming he's a minor, but I would encourage reaching out to him once he's an adult. It sounds like his kleptomania and compulsive lying stems from the fact he has very little agency, plus he got better after getting away from your hyper-controlling abusive parents solidifies that. I think him having a access to a safe person and good role model could help him.
I hope you are doing better, and things get easier with time. I’m so sorry that THAT shit ever happened at all, but I’m so happy of how brave, strong, and resilient you are to get through that. It honestly takes a lot of strength. I myself have my own secret plan of moving out of my home-… I can only hope that I can get out smoothly. And I how things get better for you-!
I feel like this counts as "Psychological abuse" :(
my bf goes through almost the same situation with having toxic parents that act like kids sadly so i understand truly how it feels bc i get frustrated myself with them even tho they aren't my parents...
Im so sorry this happened to you. Me and my partner want to move away from his parents, as we are in a similar situation to what you where in (But obviously every situation is different) and this video has given me a lot to think about with moving forward with moving out. Kinda made me scared to fit a bit but I think its better to be struggling financially at this point then struggling mentally. So thank you for sharing your story.
Your parents are childish damn. I'm so glad you're out of that house. I suggest going little to no contact asap
that was emotional damn sorry you had to go through all of that, you do not deserve that, stay strong and i hope your life keep continue and fresh the air and reach the dream that you want 💪
I recently watched your roomate's video and I just wanted to say you're a hero and wonderful person! I hope you two are doing well
Absolutely LOVING the thumbnail redesign LMAAAOOO
Your VERY VERY brave for coming out with this! I hope that everything gets better because you deserve the very best! ❤❤
god they sound fucking spiteful, they seem to just get pissed and try to bring u down whenever you seem to be doing good, they sound rlly envious of you for some reason?? i hope everything gets better and u can eventually cut contact from them for good :(
Holy shit. i’m so sorry that this happened to you, they’re awful people, you’re absolutely justified in getting out of there and i wish you so much luck with your art + animation
I think the part that really stuck out to me about this video was the fact that your birth mother had you around dangerous people but you're still around dangerous people AKA your parents they are damaging your mental health and possibly trying to damage your life as well (I hope me mentioning your birth mother isn't disrespectful)
ive been watching you since i was a 10 year old. I'm turning 17 soon. youve been my biggest insperation, hearing this is very relatable and im very happy your out of that house now. Best of luck.
HORTON HEARS A WHO REFERENCE?? SOUR KANGAROO??
man i’m like 22:11 minutes into this and i’m so shocked at the fact that your parents act like this, parents should never act like this to their children but hey it’s a cruel world, i’m sorry you had to go through that nightmare and i’m glad that you’re out in the world without them lecturing you. At least on the bright side that you still get to have the freedom that you needed.
I have a friend who was in that type of situation. He was abandoned by his mom and step dad, and he got adopted by his awesome aunt and uncle. I'm glad you're safe and that he's safe.
I don't think I've ever heard of parents more insane
I'm glad you were able to move out, I've watching your stuff for a long while now and it definitely was part of my childhood and art career.
If you have any tips or advice for other folks wanting to move out from their parents house it would be nice to have a video dedicated to that, any sort of advice like how to save money, find a nice place to stay and any other tips you might be able to offer other young adults. I am looking forward to starting to save money to move out and it would be nice to hear advice from someone who's situation with their parents is similiar to mine! anyhow i wish you luck and health on your new life chapter
With parents like these who would need enemies?
I am so sorry you went through all of this. This is all abuse and messed up. I am so glad you got out of there and are okay. I hope you finally get to heal and breathe since living on your own.