Dating Girls in NYC | a vlog about love

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

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  • @salam8529
    @salam8529 8 месяцев назад +792

    That guy who said he was an introvert but still was committed to going outside and talk to people, he melted my heart. What a brave and inspiring thing to do.

  • @transplantero
    @transplantero 8 месяцев назад +352

    Imagine matching with Hitomi on Bumble and actually going on a date with her!

    • @littlekeelee
      @littlekeelee 6 месяцев назад +5

      i’d dieeee
      she seems so fun to be around😭💝

    • @dr.jenniferma3914
      @dr.jenniferma3914 6 месяцев назад +2

      My thoughts exactly.

    • @abigailh7715
      @abigailh7715 5 месяцев назад +12

      She just a person
      Idol worship is creepy

    • @SHAE141
      @SHAE141 3 месяца назад +3

      @@abigailh7715 so creepy, like you don't know this person chill out lol

    • @justtee1259
      @justtee1259 2 месяца назад

      @@abigailh7715for some she could be their muse , i dont know Hitomi has a beautiful spirit and thats what attracts her followers

  • @OshynC14
    @OshynC14 7 месяцев назад +12

    Hitomi’s purpose is these vlogs, I mean I’m depressed to the point wear leaving my bed feels emotionally painful enough to shed tears. I haven’t posted in months, I tried to make a reel yesterday and today I can’t even edit it because I suddenly feel like the ugliest person alive, and the fact that you’re able to get far enough to posting,is like magic to me. And I feel like it means this is what ur here for, you’re energy and your videos are just like such a light in a really dark tunnel. And i mean it inspires real hope in all of us

  • @Wudabodit
    @Wudabodit 8 месяцев назад +225

    “I’m in a very important part of my life right now and I'm taking my time with my feelings and I know that it's ok to be in this realm where I'm very easily overwhelmed” this was exactly the permission I needed. Thank you for voicing it!

  • @oh_itsjenna
    @oh_itsjenna 7 месяцев назад +182

    the fact that you’re still struggling with depression yet have still been out and about doing social things is so 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @lilianahopkins4515
    @lilianahopkins4515 8 месяцев назад +198

    Dude how are you always posting exactly what my heart needs. The video of you having a grounded conversation with your father helped me find the path to do so with mine. A month before my boyfriend and I broke up, you were one step ahead with break up advice. Your vulnerability gives me courage. So much gratitude for you

    • @aaneellla
      @aaneellla 8 месяцев назад +3

      this is the sweetest thing. made me tear up, i’m so happy that you found the path to have a conversation with your father as well! sending all the love and gratitude to your path in this lifetime ✨

    • @slightlyperfect13
      @slightlyperfect13 8 месяцев назад +4

      I was also one month behind with mine!!!!! I felt it was so divine. Hope you’re doing well 🏄‍♀️❤️

    • @muhammadsalman11101
      @muhammadsalman11101 7 месяцев назад

      Hey beautifuls❤

  • @hizarre
    @hizarre 7 месяцев назад +12

    "experience without attachment" what a great motto

  • @elisanapoletano
    @elisanapoletano 8 месяцев назад +195

    been waiting for a video 🤲🏻 I am at a point of my life where I am letting love flow through me, due to past traumas I always had the door of my heart close but I have learnt that the love that flows through your heart purifies not only your own spirit but the love you share with others. may we be a collective means of unconditional love ❤️

    • @aaneellla
      @aaneellla 8 месяцев назад +7

      @elisan i love this so much!! i wrote something similar to this in my journal the other day, and it’s just living proof that we are never alone in our feelings and emotions. sending you big love darling xx

    • @MaqVillan
      @MaqVillan 8 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @annaperschin3
      @annaperschin3 8 месяцев назад +1

      thank you for your kind and warm words❤

  • @asaburnley1699
    @asaburnley1699 7 месяцев назад +23

    I appreciate the ending statements a lot regarding love. Letting people love you in the ways they can is a gentle approach to love in all forms, and creating less room for guilt or shame when one persons love preferences are different from someone else’s, or one persons abilities to love are different from what another person might require to feel loved, etc. it’s a lot lighter to see every person as valid in what makes them feel loved, and to take things less personal. Sending you a hug and a cheek kiss Hitome 🤟🏻

  • @iamelfie
    @iamelfie 8 месяцев назад +110

    AWW STOP rays vibe is so cute and precious while also being strong and sturdy

  • @rachaelgrosser
    @rachaelgrosser 8 месяцев назад +30

    I am in awe of your genuineness and how much you understand what your body and your mind need. I’m on this journey right now and I’m grateful to be inspired by you!

  • @CheffScott
    @CheffScott 8 месяцев назад +40

    Your approach to love is so beautifully authentic and inspiring. The way you express gratitude for the connections in your life, whether romantic or platonic, is truly heartwarming. Keep spreading love and positivity!

  • @quinnsmith3536
    @quinnsmith3536 8 месяцев назад +45

    Needing space from being percieved is so real. This was a beautiful video and I love that you are taking your time✨✨✨

  • @phylishac
    @phylishac 8 месяцев назад +72

    this video makes me wanna interact with someone in a silly goofy way. its been a while since I had a good laugh and connection with someone. :/ but I hope that this summer I can break out of my introverted shell & actually put myself out there to socialize with ppl. btw I missed seeing your videos on my home page. your videos is always an instinct reminder to be kind to myself and not take life so damn seriously. love you!

    • @1297sopapia
      @1297sopapia 8 месяцев назад +2

      I feel this comment so deeply!! I hope you have a very social summer :)

    • @healingwitholly
      @healingwitholly 8 месяцев назад +4

      yessss i feel the exact same way. saying out of pocket things but in a lighthearted way 😢 hasn’t happened to me with a friend in a minute but the story is never over!! sending you love and support through the spring season so we can blossom into social butterflies this summer 💌

  • @kkrainbowloomygirl
    @kkrainbowloomygirl 8 месяцев назад +32

    the last few minutes about family relationships was so important for me to hear. thank you always for sharing your wisdom

  • @rommi22
    @rommi22 8 месяцев назад +28

    I can relate so much with your tummy issues - at times i underestimate how much the bodily digestion affects our overall digestion of life… thank you for sharing about it

  • @salmabegum21
    @salmabegum21 7 месяцев назад +2

    It’s profound to realise that actually the more we put down our walls & be vulnerable the more love we feel from those we want it from ❤

  • @roseyyy_
    @roseyyy_ 8 месяцев назад +78

    got embarrassingly excited from the title alone 😭❤️

  • @shalenah
    @shalenah 8 месяцев назад +12

    loved what you said about love - being in tune with your needs but also being open to someone loving you the way they know how. that's so wise, thank you. really something to consider for my relationship with my dad lolol. also loveeee the queer content. saw an event for queer speed dating near me and maybe this is a sign to sign up haha :p

  • @annaperschin3
    @annaperschin3 8 месяцев назад +6

    Accepting the way our parents show is love is so important! There is no right or wrong-only love 😍 Thank you for sharing your beautiful perspective!! ❤

  • @LoveBalletLife
    @LoveBalletLife 8 месяцев назад +13

    this video just felt like a big hug

  • @abbie.shannon
    @abbie.shannon 7 месяцев назад +3

    Love the dude who speaks to people, so inspiring

  • @sana-gq2ur
    @sana-gq2ur 7 месяцев назад +2

    the way you share your journey with healing family bonds is so inspiring to me ❤

  • @esss8162
    @esss8162 8 месяцев назад +6

    Loved the bit about showing love in the way that we know how & seeing your dad:’) it’s nice to learn a little more about you. Hope you get to a better place🌱

  • @AnnaDazaa
    @AnnaDazaa 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hitomi, I just wanted you to know you are a fresh grounded light for me. I usually watch your videos in the morning with my coffee, to begin my day focus. Idk why, you always give me that sense of "what should i prioritize in my day?". Sending you a lot of love from Paris !

  • @SassyL62
    @SassyL62 8 месяцев назад +10

    ugh the part about loving your parents had me in tears i love em so much. they have always been incredibly vulnerable and open in expressing their love but damn they would nEver be on time to pick me up and life was always a little chaotic but gosh I love em 😹😿

  • @susannak7463
    @susannak7463 8 месяцев назад +7

    I’ve never thought about that message you ended with how people love in different ways. Thank you for sharing such wise words. ❤

  • @sarah7948vis
    @sarah7948vis 8 месяцев назад +6

    Genuine hitomi energy i’m here for ittt

  • @johngoldsby533
    @johngoldsby533 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you, Hitomi. I agree with you that sometimes, not being seen is rejuvenating.

  • @garynmaggio2331
    @garynmaggio2331 8 месяцев назад +2

    hitomiiiii my heart. you’re such a light and you excuse such presence and love and it’s so incredibly inspiring!! thank you for sharing your love filled, unfiltered, real thoughts with us 🩷

  • @terre500
    @terre500 8 месяцев назад +8

    these videos always fill up my cup. in the sappiest sense i’m so inspired by ur love for life, self, and others MWAH

  • @gloriaalicia.
    @gloriaalicia. 8 месяцев назад +2

    This video reminded me so much of your vlogs from 2020 when you were living in NYC and you were always doing advice and Q&A videos and felt so nostalgic, so happy to get to watch you grow, thank you for sharing these bits of your life with the world

  • @laritabuu
    @laritabuu 8 месяцев назад +3

    just a few seconds into any of your videos and i feel like coming home… i can’t even explain how this is possible but i’m incredibly thankful and just so excited to sink into this wonderful warm feeling

  • @ashiasimone98
    @ashiasimone98 8 месяцев назад +103

    The title alone Hitomi! My lesbian heart ❤️

  • @BusinessLeaderAllison
    @BusinessLeaderAllison 8 месяцев назад +3

    I love your existence. I love you Hitomi

  • @littleoneq
    @littleoneq 8 месяцев назад +13

    loved this video and ur discussions surrounding love in all its forms! after ur date u said “almost too comfortable might just be a friend thing” i find myself struggling to define the lines of platonic and romantic relationships in my life would u mind sharing what helps u do that? ty for sharing ur stories and experiences sending u luvvv 🫶🏾

  • @marian-zy9uv
    @marian-zy9uv 8 месяцев назад +1

    hitomi, thank you for being your true authentic self. I've been watching you since 2016. you have a way of calming my worries and make it feel like everything will be fine. thank you!!

  • @abbywilner2
    @abbywilner2 8 месяцев назад +21

    I love this narrative shift about your family. I am learning the same thing.

  • @flojohobbit5084
    @flojohobbit5084 7 месяцев назад +2

    I love what you said about love in the end!! It’s so true and wise!

  • @michelesouza2646
    @michelesouza2646 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for doing these videos. It’s been really hard to find someone with a platform that I truly resonate with. But you’re that for me. You feel like such a real being. Emotions and feelings you express are ones that I am currently experiencing but sometimes can’t put it into words. So thank you

  • @biancalynn.diaries
    @biancalynn.diaries 7 месяцев назад +1

    Ray is a ray of sunshine. Thank you for your message about being present. I really needed to hear that right now. :)

  • @alyssabernal2758
    @alyssabernal2758 8 месяцев назад +7

    this was what my heart needed

  • @emilypepperoni7367
    @emilypepperoni7367 8 месяцев назад +4

    you inspire me so much to be a better person to myself S2 thank you

  • @RobertoAndTheTrees
    @RobertoAndTheTrees 7 месяцев назад +1

    I loved the Spanish beat, procrastination is definitely un poquitito tóxico hihi, but also part of the journey :)

  • @ImSarang1111
    @ImSarang1111 7 месяцев назад

    I truly love the way you shared your perspective towards family dynamics, so good to see things through ways we didn't thought about. Sending you love and light❤✨

  • @Amyglowsup
    @Amyglowsup 7 месяцев назад +1

    “I need time and space not being perceived”… yes, I love that. Me too.

  • @toddy7140
    @toddy7140 8 месяцев назад +2

    I love what you had to say about Love at the end. That was beautiful

  • @peytongroth
    @peytongroth 8 месяцев назад +1

    you’re an angel on this earth, your videos heal my heart 💜

  • @madisonjordan3038
    @madisonjordan3038 8 месяцев назад

    thank you for simply existing, your light and joy about life brings such solace in my day to day. Never stop being you Hitomi, it inspires us to be ourselves; it inspires us to be human.

  • @КисПис-б1с
    @КисПис-б1с 8 месяцев назад +4

    *Perfect as usual, keep going bby ❤ wish happy life to everyone*

  • @RebeccaEWebber
    @RebeccaEWebber 7 месяцев назад +1

    Throne of Glass is so wild! I never knew quite how I felt about it. Mixed feelings!

  • @ramonamorris
    @ramonamorris 8 месяцев назад +19

    I MISS YOU I WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU YESTERDAY ⭐️ this is the earliest i’ve ever been

  • @tanaesc
    @tanaesc 8 месяцев назад

    A new perspective is all you need to get you out of your head. Newness is scary sometimes, facing that fear could just be listening to another’s words. Changing your perspective. Love can be found in the crevices of new ways of thinking.
    I also found the love of my life on bumble!

  • @ccultmentality
    @ccultmentality 8 месяцев назад +12

    after moving to the Netherlands, my main prerogative also has become dressing for protection and insulation. and im over it. thanks for reminding me there is a light at the end of the tunnel. u can pull a look and stay protected. albeit, this balance is a creative act in and of itself.

  • @FreakyBo0o
    @FreakyBo0o 7 месяцев назад

    I've been subscribed to your channel for years. I don't watch all your videos but every time I do, it's a blessing and I end up feeling so grateful and full of love and peace. You're an angel Hitomi 🙏🏼🤍

  • @musicD25
    @musicD25 7 месяцев назад +1

    Bringing that Libra full moon vibe, love it! ❤

  • @jgfffffffhjiufdddj
    @jgfffffffhjiufdddj 7 месяцев назад +1

    i want that matcha date omg what a sweet idea 💞 that's so positive and lovely

  • @F4R4DISE
    @F4R4DISE 7 месяцев назад +2

    Ahhh my heart melts when I watch a new hitomi vid 💖🦋

  • @floristfindspeace
    @floristfindspeace 7 месяцев назад +1

    hitomi, thank you. i’ve been struggling lately, and watching your videos is always centering. very cute shoes, and so cool they were secondhand! thank you for sharing your life with us. much love to you and yours

  • @toocoolforeverything
    @toocoolforeverything 7 месяцев назад

    i resonate SO much to what you touched on with regards to creating more space in understanding that our loved ones show up for us in their own ways. it's been a journey trying to undo the narratives that i've created in my head that just because it's not the way i show up for others, it doesn't equate to a lack of love. paying closer attention to things similar to what you mentioned (showing up on time to pick me up, making food that i love) & realizing that there's no right or wrong way to love. thank you for the reminder & letting me know that i'm not alone in these thoughts. love & blessings to you from toronto 💕💕

  • @spacebar9733
    @spacebar9733 8 месяцев назад +2

    LOL me getting a bumble bff notification (a message !!) while watching this. I love it so much 🩷🌷

  • @itsmeJeanii
    @itsmeJeanii 7 месяцев назад

    You're really such an attractive person in so many ways, not just physical. I love your content

  • @scar5605
    @scar5605 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for your pep talk about letting people love me in their own way^^

  • @Thedivinehealeryt
    @Thedivinehealeryt 7 месяцев назад

    You have got to have pisces in your big three, you’re such a loving and sensitive person. I just feel like you have so much water in your birth chart. I absolutely love your style and how poetic you are.

  • @bealtaine237
    @bealtaine237 7 месяцев назад +1

    Loved this Hitomi, I needed to hear so much of what you shared today. We couldn’t be in more different situations and the beauty of nuance and context meant I heard it all with my full heart right when I really needed to ❤ thank you ❤

  • @sophiaconte
    @sophiaconte 8 месяцев назад +9

    this is so aligned with the libra full moon & eclipse

  • @dusk5956
    @dusk5956 7 месяцев назад

    Such a relevant video and it really touched me to the point of tears running down my cheek. I’ve been sensitive lately. In the end, we’re all just people just figuring out this shared experience called life.

  • @nadiabarmasse5294
    @nadiabarmasse5294 7 месяцев назад

    It touched my heart to see you so radiant, with pure love and light even though you are feeling depressed, I'm amazed by your resilience and optimism (if that makes any sense 🙊) ❤
    Sending you lots of support ❤

  • @cybermücke
    @cybermücke 6 месяцев назад

    One of my favorite videos of you i saw until now!❤❤❤ Grounded and connected, accepting self and others. So grown up and wise :)

  • @Bridget-i5g
    @Bridget-i5g 7 месяцев назад

    Please do a workout routine or what you do to stay lean 🥺❤️

  • @audreydutt4472
    @audreydutt4472 8 месяцев назад

    I got a huge journal too for my latest, thinking it would take forever but it went by wayyy faster than expected. I feel like when you give yourself that much space to play, there’s no worry of “wasting” paper

  • @foreverPriscilla
    @foreverPriscilla 7 месяцев назад +3

    i literally adore you

  • @saraha5522
    @saraha5522 7 месяцев назад

    I love watching your yoga sequences, I'm just learning vinyasas now. All my life I always just did one asana, ended it and stopped for a minute, then did another asana, ended it and stopped for a minute etc. I never had any idea how to flow from one asana to another in a sequence without stopping and I still have no idea how people are able to invent these sequences. Just enjoying learning how to do vinyasa sequences right now and hoping one day I am able to make up sequences for myself the way you do.

  • @papi_manny
    @papi_manny 8 месяцев назад

    I swear I feel it in my bones when we are about to get another Hitomi post like 3 days in advance. I am so excited. Hi, Hitomi 🥰🥰

  • @JoyEmpress
    @JoyEmpress 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for the tip on familial relationships! I tend to overthink and get insecure when it comes to connecting with most of my family. If/when I'm ready to be with a woman I'll definitely consider babble. Your outfits are soooo cute;

  • @i.seldon1363
    @i.seldon1363 8 месяцев назад +1

    We love you, hitomi!!! Your long form videos give me life

  • @antoniagarcia8098
    @antoniagarcia8098 8 месяцев назад +1

    your energy is just so magnificent and magnetizing, sending you so much love!

  • @dea-gx6qk
    @dea-gx6qk 8 месяцев назад

    watching your videos is similar to how much I enjoy reading queer literature!!

  • @Miranda-k3x
    @Miranda-k3x 7 месяцев назад

    Wow evolution of Hitomi :,) Seeing her back in NYC

  • @LunaSoleMusic
    @LunaSoleMusic 7 месяцев назад

    that bit about love at the end. that's the one.

  • @nastinka778
    @nastinka778 7 месяцев назад

    16:30 what a beautiful reflection, well said 💚

  • @mysticmaidenmagic
    @mysticmaidenmagic 8 месяцев назад +3

    I GOT SO EXCITED TO SEE U POSTED AAA

  • @TaylorSwiftGleek
    @TaylorSwiftGleek 8 месяцев назад +2

    Ray is so adorable 🥰

  • @quieraj1197
    @quieraj1197 7 месяцев назад

    My partner and I met on bumble and I couldn’t be more grateful ❤

  • @karottenranger
    @karottenranger 8 месяцев назад +1

    I am really interested in how you approach women that you like, even if you are just friends with them or for example know them from some workshop or university and there is still a friendly level, how you manage it or how one could do it, to ask for a date or how to build a connection, if you yourself are a woman. I find it somehow difficult, especially if you have no experience going on dates or getting intimate with other women. I would be very interested in how you approach asking a woman and getting closer to her. ☺️🌸✨

  • @더킹-b1z
    @더킹-b1z 8 месяцев назад +3

    히또미상 점점 아름다워지시네요...영상 잘보고있습니다^^ 행복하세요

  • @jordynnwhite4812
    @jordynnwhite4812 8 месяцев назад +1

    You're back! And beautiful as always! I was LITERALLY JUST thinking about you and watched one of your videos to just keep you in my heart ❤️ I'm glad to see you

  • @jessicapermadi6340
    @jessicapermadi6340 7 месяцев назад

    It's always so lovely to see you face and be in your vibes, Hitomi ❤

  • @devwxyz
    @devwxyz 8 месяцев назад

    this video gave me so much joy. I've been missing NYC deeply and dearly. thank you for sharing

  • @NANAsGlory08
    @NANAsGlory08 6 месяцев назад

    Hitomi, I would love to hear what you think about loving more than one person at the time

  • @loveabi753
    @loveabi753 8 месяцев назад +1

    Lovee. Such a vibe!! Thank you for sharing and it’s all beautifully carefully selected to represent the beauty of multidimensional perspective on us, on life

  • @martingeyette6395
    @martingeyette6395 7 месяцев назад

    You are a beautiful person, comfortable in your skin, an honest on who you are, but I'm jealous❤

  • @jessicarowling
    @jessicarowling 6 месяцев назад

    The last part with the wisdom I AM inspired to do what you do I LOVE that you have the confidence and alignment to show yourCELF I can totally resonate with being so transparent and self aware so look forward to having the confidence to be SEEN 💗now IJCN

  • @VanessaDSouza-b1s
    @VanessaDSouza-b1s 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hitomi, I appreciate your honesty so much. Thank you for sharing

  • @lukanyombanga4263
    @lukanyombanga4263 8 месяцев назад

    Okay this has to be one of your cutest videos...

  • @shelbebranton444
    @shelbebranton444 8 месяцев назад

    The part with you and your dad made me teary eyed

  • @freshdunya
    @freshdunya 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for being , Hitomi

  • @levidaisyyoung220
    @levidaisyyoung220 8 месяцев назад +3

    im just glad you are ok... I love that your building a new relationship with your dad...
    your outfits are delicious, I got a similar jacket and I also found the same material in a vest.. it brings my hippie 🌺 out in me..
    the way I found true love is not looking.. I didnt need a person but I was ready to allow another into may life..

  • @Taealha
    @Taealha 8 месяцев назад +2

    Today was such a good day and now I get to watch your new vlog too! Im so grateful, Universe sure is spoiling me today :)

  • @hannahleighcarnes
    @hannahleighcarnes 8 месяцев назад +1

    Ahhh show us how the masquerade ball goes✨