About the boy, he was way too sheltered and wasn’t taught the red flags of the outside world. This attitude usually happens when kid’s parents are too strict to the point that the kids don’t want to talk to them, or the parents were too loose on them and failed in teaching them good values, what’s right/wrong, and red flags. I was an “outcast” back in school because I didn’t gave in to any trends or influences, how did I resisted? My parents from day 1 of my life, told me to never give in to peer pressure, that I shouldn’t care if they called me coward, that it was me and my values first before anyone else’s. It was basically “to me my religion and to you your religion”
I agree, my parents meant good for me, but their extreme sheltering, coddling, and lack of understanding the school system since they're not from here did a lot more harm than good to me. Looking back at it now Allah protected me from so many things even though I wasn't ready to face them. Unfortunately I still have some corruptions I picked up from my days in grade school, but I've found that in college practicing my deen became extremely easier alhumdullilah.
You can’t throw yourself in the sea and say I won’t drown prevention is better than cure the reality is that no one should be anywhere these evil places in the first place
@@hamzafarah4417 how about learning how to swim? The reality is not everybody has access to an Islamic school near them and/or not every parent has the ability or skills to homeschool. It's sad but that is a reality for some people. With the way things are in the world, we cannot shelter our children from what is happening in society. If it's not at school then they will definitely know about it when they're older and independent. I think we need to have frank conversations with our kids, not just give them the do's and don'ts of religion but go beyond that and explain the wisdom behind them (if known) and then relate it to society. Show them and make them understand why Islam is the best and only way of life which will give us success in this life and the hereafter. Also being a friend and not just a parent helps so that your child feels comfortable turning to you if any problematic issue arises. Ofcourse if parents are in a position where they're able to send their kids to a good Islamic school or homeschool them, that is better. I'm just speaking on behalf of those who don't have those options and ofcourse my above points still apply to kids who attend Islamic schools or are being homeschooled.
this really hits me, made me realize how lucky i'm born as muslim living in country where majority are muslim but i can't even practice my religion to the fullest. meanwhile we have brothers and sisters that 'scared' going to school because of the lgbt agenda. may Allah protect us all, guide us all and i pray for the sister in the first email that Allah knows, please hold on tight, may Allah always protect you.
yep, im 13 and i can relate to this. society deceived me and i had really low imaan and doubts. alhamdulillah, i feel like i am getting stronger in faith but it is quite challenging.
I put my kids in public and Islamic school…I kept talking to them everyday. Saying ‘no’ won’t help if u don’t explain to your kids ‘why it’s no’. My son once when he was little came and asked if he could listen to a song, I explained to him why we we shouldn’t and what the effects are. I then told him if he wanted to he could, it’s just one song. Alhamdolilah he shut the laptop and said ‘no it’s not worth it’😊 Talking to your children in The West is crucial! Islam is beautiful and the truth. We just need to show this to our youth. Alhamdolilah I was an introvert so I wasn’t even interested in what the others were doing and now I see it was a blessing from Allah. May Allah protect us and our progeny.
It’s a very depressing situation, the level of fitnah is just increasing exponentially. Would it be accurate to say we live in the time when holding on to our deen is like holding onto a burning coal?
When I was in school, I've never had experienced like this. This is harder. Back in my school, a lot of kids my age were getting peer pressure like doing bad things, riding motorcycles without license, cursing, and not wanting to pray (always saying on period for a month or two which made the teacher mad). Alhamdulillah I've never ever experienced those in that school even tho I befriend with problematic(?) people
My high school did a survey to freshman and again when they were seniors. It turns out significantly less of the same graduating class identified as Muslim, and this was celebrated by the students and teachers. Astonishingly sad. Edit: I went to high school between 2015-2019. Many of the boys were bullied and discriminated and associated with drugs and other things. Many of the girls fell into the feminism trap and they are constantly being politicized so they try to prove this or that (like Muslim women aren’t being oppressed or some cliche like that). This is seriously a problem. I survived by being a social outcast, and I only talked to 2-3 people and no girls at all. Many people thought I was strange and called me weird or antisocial. Islam started as something strange and will return back to being strange. Say, “I believe in Allah” and be patient.
@K B Yes, the best thing we can do is stay patient and tell our brothers and sisters to be steadfast. Try to find some friends and talk about Quran and like that.
I can totally relate. That was me in highschool, the introvert. Allah saved me from much of the fitnah of highschool by keeping me alone alhamdulilah. But after highschool comes college, and in many ways it is much much worse.
Looking back at it as well brother I was such an introvert in fact I remember one year I was so shy I hadn’t talked to a single person other then schoolwork for a whole year! I thought something was wrong with me but looking back at it know it was a hidden blessing from Allah swt that I couldn’t see at the time.
I was also an introvert who used to subconsciously try and avoid any social interaction with my peers who are even muslim as they didn't really stick to or follow islam. They used justifications such as 'everyone does it' 'It's natural' and I was the one who felt like an outsider and weirdo even unfriended by these people. I have catholic atheist friends and these Muslim friends are hard to come by in my catholic institution.
Alhamdulillah, I never experienced high school, but my parents did I bet it was much different than today. I went to an Islamic school that I didn’t like my whole life lol but at least it didn’t teach me about the lgbtq. However, they did teach evolution but they didn’t say it was true so that’s a plus Alhamdulillah.
I was and am an introvert but nevertheless I cared about what others thought of me and tried my best to fit in because I was depressed. Then, I fell into the peer pressure trap. After blocking everyone, I am much happier now. So now I have learned my lesson
Yes! Education is a pathway to indoctrination. This is they try to make it seem like they care for Muslim women being educated. In truth they only want to push THEIR education to the masses, definitely not Islam.
That's why Muslims should run their own schools based on trusts and charities. So that Muslims could easily educate their children with beneficial islamic education, as well as the general required professional education, side by side.
Right, I live in a Muslim country you could say our education was secular although you could attend an "Islamic class" which was nothing but the stories of the Prophets basically and our teacher didn't even wear hijab but most people believe in God and there was actually one guy we would call dumb because he disbelieved in God, education doesn't make you irreligious its the people around you and Public Schools tend to be anti - religious and will paint the picture of religion as backwards and fairytales and *science* ! from people who couldn't tell you Newtons 2nd Law.
exactly........I was a hardcore feminist and now that I look back at my life, I would definitely say that education had played a crucial role in what I have become for those years..... for 15 years school has indoctrinated me with this feminist ideology.... they say men and women are equal and our forefathers were cruel,, women can do anything they can and patriarchy is horrible, these have been so normalized in my worldview that, what's right and what's wrong is dictated by it. if someone comes to me and says that women belong to the kitchen or women should be submissive to their husbands, I would definitely get angry cause this is not what it's supposed to be, 15yrs I've learned, I know that it's bad,
And make sure that your kids regularly visit good sheikhs from childhood, not just going to the masjid and listening to them speak, but they should also spend time in their company and build a relationship with them. That way if you yourself don’t know the answers, you can then rely on the fact that they have a go-to reliable person who they trust to always speak to and ask questions.
My High school allowed 5 cops to get away with assaulting a 13 year old student, and then 6 years later allowed 2 cops to get away with assaulting the same student again. After both incidents happened, the only thing the school did was have that kid sign papers to allow them to get away with negligence. The people that work in public schools only care about their co-workers and reputation. DON'T SEND KIDS TO PUBLIC SCHOOLS.
@@UmmKhair901 I wish I myself had access to scholars. But the truth is, no matter the excuses, in my opinion it’s still a priority to consider, when even buying a new house, we should look for neighborhoods that have a good Muslim community and have mosques around. Like parents make sure they get their kids good tutors, they should also make sure they themselves get to know good sheikhs. I know it may be hard, but try your best at least. If you live in an area where there aren’t any Muslims, but migrating is easy for your family, then why not migrate? Or at least introduce them to sheikhs online, which is not the same at all, but it is something. Assim Al-Hakeem & Uthman ibn Farooq (MasjidRibat channel) are great
Why not nurture and raise your children upon Islam personally? The best school system starts in the home. Educate yourself and family about your religion don't rely on others too much.
@@daniah5427 probably influenced in his school by friends and teachers. Children are very easy to manipulate, may Allaah protect our children from such deviance. الله المستعان، اللهم انصرنا على الظالمين
@@Ahmed-pp1fk Peer pressure is the worst thing that can ever happen to you 😭 I became lazy in terms of studies and religion and engaged in haram acts like talking about music because of schoolmates
Left them and go and start connection with the boys in the Mosque. Playing Basketball, football...] Eating together burger or something like this. Praying together, because real friends are important. They don't get you close to sin mostly and call you to truth. Make Dua to Allah for real Muslim friends and Inschaallah you will find some.
What a great trial. Have you checked in with the boy? I’m sure he has a story to tell that is untold. Sometimes kids are pressured to memorise Quran by mind instead of understanding it by heart so parents can boast to their relatives/community. I’m from SE Asia and “having face” is a big deal here, where parents threaten to humiliate their children (and other morale destroying punishments) if they didn’t do precisely as they’re told, and meet some impossible standard. Many acts of worship lose their value as wisdom and principles are not explained. Parents don’t listen to their kids. All the kid feels is “I feel like a puppet. I’ll never be good enough. What’s the point anyway. Screw it.” I know. I’ve been there. Went hedonistic for a few years, but alhamdulillah Allah found me lost and guided me.. at 28. And now I practice Islam for Him alone - not my family’s approval. Unfortunately I already developed some bad habits that are hard to break. May Allah help everyone struggling and sincere, ameen.
Scary thing is that it started frOm the past, years ago! Started with making music the central focus of life, girls started undressing long ago. When I look back to the stars of that time the Britney’s and Christina aguileras, were already naked and jiggling on stages as teenage girls. But it became the norm because it was on our screens all the time
I think it is also very important to always surround yourself with good muslim friends, and be connected with the muslim community. I’m currently in university, and although I went to public school my whole life, I think the one thing that kept me grounded to Islam were the friends and community I had. Back when I was in elementary school, I lived in an area where there were lots of muslims. Almost all of the friends I had were good, practicing muslims. Just by being around them, I would in a way feel “pressure” to be a better muslim. I would always try to pray, and overall try to keep up with them. Had I not had that sort of upbringing, I probably would not have been as strong in my faith as I try to be now. This is why I think it is very, very important to have friends who share your values. I’ve found that sometimes, even some non-muslims have better values than some of the muslims that I know. I think the Leftist/ LGBT indoctrination is more stronger than ever before, particularly due to the internet and Social Media. This ideology has leaked into education, and now even children’s tv shows! This is the stuff that children nowadays are being exposed to from a very young age, and it is our jobs as muslims to counter this.
soo true, as the prophet pbuh said, ‘a person follows his best friend’s religion’ we need community, friends and our surroundings to keep us in the right path, to remind us, to hold out hands when we’re distracted. hopefully our friendship will last till the afterlife in jannah. aameeenn
@@tc1817 Does it look like I care if you’re happy for me or not, fellow internet person who has never met me in real life? The only one I care about making happy is Allah. Have a nice day ;)
ASsalaam Alaikum Alhamdullilah, this year i was able to get my two eldest kids into our Islamic school in London, Ontario Canada. We had a few incidents with the public school here in Ontario. Although they are teaching them some great values in PSS here, like you said they are also introducing atheism and secularism at very early ages, very subtly but ive noticed it. 1. My son who is very impressionable (more so than my daughter), comes home and tells us how his friend at school has two dads. This is in Junior Kindergarten. We played it off as the other was his uncle. A few months down the road he mentioned to us in one of our discussions; that he wants to marry his friend and we said no and his reply back was the teacher said it was ok because you are allowed to marry who ever you want as long as you love them. Again at this point he was 4. We had to explain to him that in islam boys marry girls and its tough because at this point they dont even understand what marriage means. My daughter on the other hand was in her class and another Muslim student was joyfully brining up Allah swt and the teach told her that she can not bring up Allah because not everyone believes that God exists and that this is not part of their identity. All I can think is; what about the little muslimc girls identity. We were able to catch this because i was working from home and due to covid we were all the online learning option. If that wasnt the case i wouldnt have been able to discuss with my daughter about the incident. One thing i did want to say, although i have been trying for years to get into the islamic school in Canada, often there is a long waiting list. My kids have been on the list for 3 years and the tuition is very high here not everyone can afford it between 500- 800 per month per kid. The other option is home school undersrandably so, however, it all depends on the family situation. In sha Allah if i get to a point that i cant afford it i will consider moving away to a cheaper city. One crucial thing, talk to your kids everyday and let them open up to you. If they cant talk to you they will find someone else to talk to. Wallahi this is super important. Even if you send them to an islamic school. There will come a day where they will be exposed to the outside world and they need to know the dangers out there before they are exposed to them. JAK Akhi Saajid, your videos are reinforcing my decision.
Just move in a Muslim country. After all of this you want to stay there and bringing up your kids in that environment. You are a bad business,man, you want to loose your akhira for this world.
I don't know how could they let their kids go to a place where they might lose their religion!!!! May Allah swt protect us and save our kids from such places.
That's why Rasulullah PBUH warn us to select n choose friends, cz the environment n people around are most influencing children's character during their grow up.
yes. if you tell adults the ridiculous things in most organized religions, very few people would believe them. that why almost every religious person share the religion of their parents.
My daughters who are in university now feel the same that, they mostly kept to themselves in order to avoid getting influenced by the environment at school. Plus the environment at home, which largely consisted of a lot of exposure to islamic lectures, and us practicing Islam was able to help them resist according to them.
You know I used to be a student in a public school and in a span of just 1 year I completely changed from a good person to a bad person. After that Allah guided me and now i'm in an islamic school and trust me Islamic schools compared to public schools are like heavens so please send your children to islamic schools or homeschool them. Remember that the deen of your kids should be your priority and so don't even think of sending them to public schools.
Being an introvert is such a blessing Al hamdu lillah. Sadly, my own brother left Islam whilst he was at school some ten years ago. He used to be a good practising young lad but he got heavily influenced by his company- especially one atheist he used to debate. He used to complain that there were no youngsters in the masjid and the only person who he could talk to was a middle aged African brother. He was visibly stressed... I tried to get him to confide in me as were quite close but he never opened up. Then he stops going to taraweeh and behaves very strangely with his prayers. Soon, we had to ask him what was going on... asked what is your religion, he said "I don't know" and that's where it went downhill. He was very nihilistic and angry in the beginning. Turns out he was a social outcast at school for being the only superly pious boy. May Allah guide us all. Ameen.
There was a history class i joined in a public college and on the first day the teacher started showing us historical “art” of naked people and told us we were going to learn about them throughout this quarter. And there was a slideshow, all the art was of naked people. I was thinking “what kind of inappropriate class is this”. I dropped the class that day.
Well its not inappropriate at least to them. Its the way they see art and historically speaking their artists were not strictly limited like muslims. You left and that is good but don't call it inappropriate just because it went against your view. Its not according to their view.
Schools in KSA is filled with teachers from West, do you think that it is safe...Most of the school prefers native English speakers, definitely they willl corrupt the young minds...and we see the result of this now...KSA youths are adopting western culture...May Allah protect us.
Ya ALLAH! My daughter just started high school this is her 3rd week. She was in a Muslim school for 3 years. Today she told me she gets why some people are atheists. I went numb!
I’m Saudi I live in Saudi Arabia and I’m terrified of raising my kids without supervising everything they do in here I can’t imagine even the horror that you live in over there may Allah give us all his guidance to the right path 💔💔💔
Going out to the shopping malls in Jeddah always make me wonder how far astray some of the youth of this country have been lead to. May Allah guide them back.
@@KarmaZeroOne I live in Jeddah and because of the corruption I don’t get out of my house ever only when I totally have to cause I’m scared that it might affect me somehow 😔
@@theuqgirl8952 I know what you mean. I hate how it's becoming the norm to be far away from the teachings of our prophet Mohammed PBUH. الله يثبتنا على ديننا.
@@bobyford8051 if you wanna make Hijra go to Madinah it is the best place in the world to go to prophet Mohammad peace be upon him actually prayed for Madinah and the people of Madinah but yes brother unfortunately it is so true but I do what the prophet Mohamma peace be upon him said to do in these dark times remain in your house and away from this corruption may Allah guide us all 😔💔
I am an Arab Muslim married to a non-Arab Muslim and we home school our kids. My husband told me straight forward( NO PUBLIC SCHOOL, I went to public school growing up and I don't want my kids to experience what I experienced. And that was years ago. Imagine how schools are now!!? May Allah bless and protect our children l. yes yes yes we need more Islamic schools. I don't understand how we spend thousand and sometimes millions of dollars on masajid when our children don't even know enough about their religion. Sunday school is not enough people!! We need more Islamoc schools. We need more teachers who are willing to teach. We are throwing our kids into fire and expecting them to survive? Shame on us. Even if both parents work..that is NOT an excuse. Find someone to teach them daily or at least few days a week. Find a solution. We are not here to make money and buy Teslas!! We are here to raise, educate, and spread the word of Allah. This is heartbreaking. Christians homeschool their kids throughout the country with no problem. WHY are we not doing the same?. As a parent, I fear for my kids even when I homeschool them. This society is so confused more than ever.and it will get worse before it gets better. Are we going to wait until we lose more children to their TREND before we act? Allah ask us to plan and work while submitting to his will. Not just submitting without taking any actions. I pray that Allah guide those parents who need help ya Allah and strengthen us. Ameen.
It's disgusting how society and pressures force you to change who you are to fit in. It's horrible and the things they teach in school are awful, they still don't teach any valuable lessons like paying taxes and running a business etc.
You spoke exactly what is in my heart! It's my dream to see Muslim girls high school, Muslim boys high school, and Muslim elementary school in many cities in every state, Inshaallah. This is what Muslim communities need the most right now and should put their investments into it 100%
I think it’s very important that we talk to our kids about everything and be open with them. We need to create a comfortable environment in our homes to where our kids can ask us questions about everything. My siblings and I all went to public school and we turned out fine but that’s because our parents talked to us and instilled moral and ethical values.
As parents it’s very important to talk to our children and help them understand our deen. We need to discuss with them the danger and intentions of these people. May Allah protect our children and safeguard them to their faith. Ameen
This is one of the many reasons I'm proud of living in a Muslim country without threat of bombs. Being in a war torn Muslim country that's falling apart is better than being a refugee in a Western country! At least the Syrian children that are still growing in Syria can still identify as a boy or a girl.
Jazakallah khair for bringing this issue and clarifying it so well. We were just debating where to send the kids, and you have provided very good insight. Please keep up the good work. Wasalam
I wasn't part of the Ummah when I was in high school. But, I was an outcast nonetheless, much like the Sister mentioned in the first email I was different and I walked to the beat of a different drum.
I was a non-Muslim during my teenage years too, I became Muslim last year subhanAllah, and it was the same for me. I have Asperger’s syndrome so I was basically a social outcast throughout most of high school. I think this was Allah’s(SWT) way of saving me from the fahisha and evils surrounding me and influencing my peers
@@ibnmianal-buna3176 You are lucky, my brother/sister, that you found the truth that you found and that many reject. I agree with you everything that happens to us, even if it seems bad to you, it is good. And this is what Allah said, because Allah is merciful and does not want anything but good for his creation. " So, surely with hardship comes ease." "Perhaps you dislike something which is good for you and like something which is bad for you. Allah knows and you do not know."
There were a few LGBT kids in my middle school but they just kept to themselves and they were the tumblr yaoi anime obsessed types. A lot of things have changed since then, there are students at my sisters school that go by they/them pronouns. Stuff like that was uncommon in my time.
I live in the Maghreb ,and four(all) of my philosophy teachers were mounafiqins(Atheists) and two French teachers and one Geography teachers, they often shook our beliefs in each class they at least drove a dozen of students to Atheism/Agnosticism and Secularism in our ranks.
انا كنت أسمع عنا في الأردن إنه في دكاترة جامعات هيك! كنت أسمع مثلا كيف بقعدوا يعلقوا على الحجاب و إنه مش فرض وهيك كلام تخبيص. الواحد بستغرب كيف في أرض الإسلام "المسلمين" (المنافقين على قولتك) هيك بحكوا و بتصرفوا. الحمد لله في جامعتي ما قابلت هيك جماعات بس الوضع بطل يطمن، صرت أخاف على إخوتي شو رح يصير فيهم بس يدخلوا الجامعة.
@@majorspook9716 آمين يا ربي يسهل لك و ييسر لك امرك , نحن المسلمين كلنا اخوة و من صالح المستعمر الفاسد تفرقتنا عن حبل الله. Holding on your khimar is a sign of strength and love of Allah, and Allah love us more than we love him. It is from the interests of the colonizer and traitors to leave our only strength and blessing from Allah "Islam". May Allah bless you sister and make you from the people of Jannat al-Firdaus🙏.
When you are growing up you can be influenced very easily especially in the west, however when you understand Islam and your faith is strong, you can never be influenced by the wrong doers, I thank God that I'm in a place that I know what is right and what is wrong, even if the entire society is making the wrong look like its right. Alhamdulleh
Barakallaahu Feek for starting the conversation. The saying, ‘it’s a jungle out there’ has been true since my high schools in the mid 70’s and growing exponentially worse in line with the overall continuous degradation of most , not all societies. With my children grown I have not felt a personal sense towards my role in our young Muslims education in terms of supporting Islamic schools but you have me thinking. We have one k-12 Islamic school in my city, well attended but costly, so only for those who can afford the steep tuition. Home schooling is a great option if at least 1 parent can manage it. It is not for everyone but can work well as it did for us. All 4 of our now adult children did HS homeschool and all have graduated from college, walhamdullilaah
Him loosing his faith was because he never understood the Deen properly in the first place. His aqeedah was not questioned. Needs to go deep But Sometimes people think they are young... They are not thick but cleaver intelligent youth. They need better understanding on emaan and have other aqeedahs challenged that attack our Deen, i.e. secularism, liberalism etc
Dua to Fix all your family issues: رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ اَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وََّاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا اے ہمارے رب !تو ہمیں ہماری بیویوں اور اولادوں سے آنکھوں کی ٹھنڈک عطا فرما اور ہمیں پرہیزگا روں کا امام بنا۔ Our Lord! Grant us from among our wives and offspring, comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteousness. (Al-Furqan:74)
…also Islamic schools should prepare students for a work environment. Where u cant choose to be an outcast and have to work within a team environment to get work done
This hits a note in my heart. These a topics that people don't really comprehend. My parents and young parents are not equipped to deal with this at all.
Even here in muslim majority, public school be glorify the nation principle as way of life so now many here become "moderate" and the one who really practice labeled by radical and intolerance etc. Different place different test, i guess :)
I am sorry to say this but a lot of children have parents that want to teach them the religion really fast and it’s all just but about learning and learning because they don’t have relationship with their children. Nowadays, you got to form a strong relationship with your children or they will find it somewhere else. It’s not just about taking them to school. Also, religion should be brought to the child at a young age slowly. For example , teach them about Allah and who he is and then the prophet and why we should love them. Then introduce the Quran and not just memorizing it but understanding it. I love Islam more than ever now because I know who Allah is and how he is so merciful because I read the Quran to understand the meaning and listen to lectures about the prophet Pbuh. I remember my parents and I know our parents want the best for us, but I remember them making me memorize the Quran and I had no clue what I was reciting. I wasnt happy about it at that time but I understand parents do their best. But seriously we need a new approach to raise these new generation because they are exposed to so much fitnah.
Society must have its boundaries. Peering into all of one's live creates a highly discomfortable treacherous emotion and have it being utilized as a once and for all type threatening disclosure, is disgraceful and those doing so should feel that way. Boundaries. I find myself being so hypocritical and embarassed to share my truth because I participate in wrongdoings so to academia misguidance or my own flaws and character faults whilst I am still seeking full submissio and righteouseness. Focusing and concentrating on Deen with boundaries and having primarily western academia influence from schooling and culture makes progressing in what is most important very difficult for me.
Asalamu alaikum. I attended public school and there are so much going on that was not good. I remember being in high school and two girls were pregnant causing me to clutch my invisible pearls in shock. My son has the option to do virtual learning which he has been doing. He actually prefers virtual over in person school. My husband and I prefer it too since I work from home.
As much as it hurt to be alone in school... I'm starting to think that Allah did me a massive favour. Who knows what influences I would have been exposed to had I been more popular as a child. Now, I have friends, Muslim and non-Muslim, who respect my beliefs. My Lord blessed me with my trials, though I didn't see it.
May Allah reward you. This is something that should be given a lot of time and energy. b/c it is affecting all muslims not only in america but in every country where muslims are sending their children to public schools which are so called secular schools.
This statement couldn't be anymore true. Shaykh Ahmad an-Najmee :”The mother is the first school. If she is righteous, the progeny becomes righteous” [Fath-ur-Rabb al-Wadud (2/256)] It starts from home.
It’s so heart breaking that parents don’t listen or they don’t wanna listen cuz they are not aware n they don’t accept to be educated about this matter and they are busy with donia also most of Islamic schools are not following sunnah and that makes the children very confused and a big problem which is finding good teachers who know pedagogy for dealing with children especially the ones born or raised in America
I live in Hollywood Florida My son's high school on his freshman year. I went to the office. Because they actually were pressuring him...to tell the truth that he is really a female and they will get him help with gender change. Ooo I spoke in kind words and said that I can and will sue the school board. They actually acted like they had the right to do this. I said. Well my body cam has been recording since I came here. Oh yes my phone is my body cam. Then I downloaded it to my RUclips channel under private.
So if theres still gay muslims in muslim countries, how can u blame western muslims and not muslim countries. Its not like theres a large amounts of gay muslims in west
Give them knowledge about Islam what they need to know and about the possibility that they "the children" will encounter in the public school. even in Muslim country we still had people that lose their faith after adult and after they going umrah etc. Even their parent is Dai or teacher about Islam. Allah guides people at the end of the day, what we can do is remind them about the deen so they understand the meaning of it and the value in Islam. Homeschooling seems the first choice when coming to this matter, but I think it's best if we had the community in a certain area for an Islamic school. So we had the community for Muslims since their childhood. May Allah preserve us and our children on the right path. Ameen
The environment does obviously make a huge impact on us. This is why we need to talk about the importance of Khilafah as a political alternative to democracy and how Islam challenges the secular world we live in. To support this concept and support each other in these good important obligations and stop the petty disagreements we waste time on which is only work of the shaytan to distract us from the greater good
Laa ilaaha illaa Allah….Allahu Akbar🥰❤️ May Allah protect our kids Allahumma Aameen May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household✨✨✨
uncle, please talk about Child-free marriage, which now in Indonesia has become a trend :( so sad. when Jew people now breed and continue to gain their population, many Muslims decide to child-free using argument overpopulate and MY BODY MY CHOICE :(
The sad thing is in the UK Muslim teachers don’t want to teach in Muslims schools even though more and more schools are becoming government funded and will earn the same as non Muslim schools. May Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى guide us all
Ma sha Allah. This needed to be addressed. I'm a born American Muslim and I try to explain to my in-laws from overseas about the fitaan and propaganda that is in our public schools. They don't believe and actually think I'm nuts. All of their children are completely changed. Filthy music, cussing, some removed hijab while other barely cover. Some with secret social media accounts , and their speech is about opposite genders and money. It's sad. May Allah subhanna wa ta A'la help us see the truth and grant us protection for us and our children.
Muslims should run their own schools based on trusts and charities. So that Muslims could easily educate their children with beneficial islamic education, as well as the general required professional education, side by side.
I live in a predominantly muslim country and I dont even let my kids go to public school here. I put them in salafi boarding schools because of the great fitnah our generation is going through right now.
The sad thing is that they think its okay to do this. They think its right thing to do in reality its not the right thing to do and we have to be careful. May Allah protect our deen, guide us to what is right and be steadfast. Ameen.
Here in Germany homeschooling is illegal and islamic schools are not a thing (I don't even know of a handful throughout the whole country) and sending kids to school till they're 18 is compulsory. May Allah aid us.
I believe if you have a completely open relationship with your kids in regards to daily discussions and also discuss everything in school, you can avoid most of these issues. You need to teach your kids about Islam before they get introduced to other ideas and also explain concepts and slowly introduce these social ideas that we do not agree with before the school gets to them. DO NOT AVOID UNCOMFORTABLE TOPICS! Talk about them and explain why thyy are wrong and explain what these people are trying to do! KIDS ARE SMART
AssalamuAlaikum. I want to meet Sheikh too! I have many questions but I'll probably never get the chance to ask those 😢. May Allah Subhana Wa Ta'ala take us there if that is best for us. Ameen!
المشكلة ان الغربي اذا اسلم يتبنى عادات وتقاليد العرب والإنسان مستأنس بطبعه وصعب جداً ان ينصلخ من مجتمعه ... وهذا من اهم الأسباب الي تجعل الناس يترددون وما يسلمون خصوصاً النساء والأطفال حتى بالنسبه للرجل بنسب اقل... عموماً علموا المسلم الجديد انه يستطيع ان يلبس اللبس التقليدي لبلده اذا كان مايخالف شرع الله وأنه ممكن ان يكون مسلم أمريكي فخور بأصله واذا كان بريطاني يقدر ياكل فيش اند شيبس ثلاث مرات في اليوم😅(لاتصلخونهم من مجتمعاتهم ولاتبعدونهم الا عن الحرام فقط ) هذا والله اعلم
I took speech class in college and the professor insist on us to go to see one play wchich promote similar ideology also to write a sammary plus bringing the ticket as an evidence of attendance… it was discomfortable. This play is very famous amongst collegiate students
Im in high school right now i try not to get in trouble so i just stay by myself and listen to Quran but it is so hard though the people are pressure you to accept the social norms even though i know they are wrong for example the girls are touching the other girls weirdly but the teacher isn’t doing anything and is ignoring it or something
Mashallah. Keep at it. High school won't last forever, I've been through it alhamdulilah and survived it. Take life lessons from it. There is a famous hadeeth about the types of people who will be under the shade of Allah. One of them will be the youth who strove to keep practicing their faith even though hardship and fitnah. May Allah make you and I one of those people. Ameen
There is one problem in private schools, it’s very expensive! I don’t know how people can afford those for all kids, I mean I get it, but a lot of us just can’t pay for 3-4-5 kids from 7 to 15k a year (each), it’s just too much. Had my older daughter home schooled last 1,5 years due to COVID, she became very depressed and desperate to have/talk to friends of her age. It’s a great call for sure, but in families where both people work full time and not making a fortune it’s hard to implement.
It is clear that the next generations will have it more and more complicated, putting your child in a Muslim school is not the definitive solution, I have studied since I was a child in a Muslim school and I also studied Koran but when i grew up I got many questions that I did not had an answer, now unfortunately we are Muslims by inheritance and people are more in the digital world than the real one and there the problem arises not having answers and knowledge that we had to have instilled in us as children, I ask that God guide us in these difficult time.
And they say that their life style and ideologies do not indoctrinate children and these ideas can not make "normal" people behave like them 🙃🙃 , but it seems it does after all.😔💔 Poor child, I hope that he finds out the wrong in his actions, and to abandon these ideologies, they are not going to help him in his life, and they will make him miserable in the long run!!
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About the boy, he was way too sheltered and wasn’t taught the red flags of the outside world.
This attitude usually happens when kid’s parents are too strict to the point that the kids don’t want to talk to them, or the parents were too loose on them and failed in teaching them good values, what’s right/wrong, and red flags.
I was an “outcast” back in school because I didn’t gave in to any trends or influences, how did I resisted? My parents from day 1 of my life, told me to never give in to peer pressure, that I shouldn’t care if they called me coward, that it was me and my values first before anyone else’s.
It was basically “to me my religion and to you your religion”
I agree, my parents meant good for me, but their extreme sheltering, coddling, and lack of understanding the school system since they're not from here did a lot more harm than good to me.
Looking back at it now Allah protected me from so many things even though I wasn't ready to face them.
Unfortunately I still have some corruptions I picked up from my days in grade school, but I've found that in college practicing my deen became extremely easier alhumdullilah.
100% agree with you!!! Great comment mashaAllah
You can’t throw yourself in the sea and say I won’t drown prevention is better than cure the reality is that no one should be anywhere these evil places in the first place
May Allah swt keep you firm on His religion and the ummah amen
@@hamzafarah4417 how about learning how to swim? The reality is not everybody has access to an Islamic school near them and/or not every parent has the ability or skills to homeschool. It's sad but that is a reality for some people. With the way things are in the world, we cannot shelter our children from what is happening in society. If it's not at school then they will definitely know about it when they're older and independent. I think we need to have frank conversations with our kids, not just give them the do's and don'ts of religion but go beyond that and explain the wisdom behind them (if known) and then relate it to society. Show them and make them understand why Islam is the best and only way of life which will give us success in this life and the hereafter. Also being a friend and not just a parent helps so that your child feels comfortable turning to you if any problematic issue arises. Ofcourse if parents are in a position where they're able to send their kids to a good Islamic school or homeschool them, that is better. I'm just speaking on behalf of those who don't have those options and ofcourse my above points still apply to kids who attend Islamic schools or are being homeschooled.
Heart breaking stories, may Allah protect our children.
Ameen.
@@Lingo_Pro jazak Allahu khayran
So heart breaking
Ameen
Ameen
this really hits me, made me realize how lucky i'm born as muslim living in country where majority are muslim but i can't even practice my religion to the fullest. meanwhile we have brothers and sisters that 'scared' going to school because of the lgbt agenda. may Allah protect us all, guide us all and i pray for the sister in the first email that Allah knows, please hold on tight, may Allah always protect you.
Aameen 🤲🏼♥️
Ameen, Ameen Allahumma Ameen!
Internet has no boundaries...There is same fitnah for us as well.
Ameen 🤲🏼
You are not lucky as there is no luck in Islam, everything happens by the will of Allah so you are blessed to be in a Muslim country
yep, im 13 and i can relate to this. society deceived me and i had really low imaan and doubts. alhamdulillah, i feel like i am getting stronger in faith but it is quite challenging.
Being 15 I can relate
But Alhumdolillah now My imaan is extremely strong
No can bring Imaan of someone who knows the enemies tricks 💪
You want even stronger iman? Come to my channel and watch this playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLQnJKTQYTJ_uCqBbOFPzB3wAZrad0pOfe
I’m 25 and proud of you guys. Keep working hard and learning about your religion and it will pay off in the future in shaa Allah!
@@moslem3067 that's true, I've always fell into the same traps again
@@ibnmianal-buna3176 woah tyy
I put my kids in public and Islamic school…I kept talking to them everyday. Saying ‘no’ won’t help if u don’t explain to your kids ‘why it’s no’.
My son once when he was little came and asked if he could listen to a song, I explained to him why we we shouldn’t and what the effects are. I then told him if he wanted to he could, it’s just one song. Alhamdolilah he shut the laptop and said ‘no it’s not worth it’😊
Talking to your children in The West is crucial! Islam is beautiful and the truth. We just need to show this to our youth.
Alhamdolilah I was an introvert so I wasn’t even interested in what the others were doing and now I see it was a blessing from Allah. May Allah protect us and our progeny.
May Allah bless you and your family
@@afrozzz5634 Jzk khr Ameen and u too my brother😊
That's is beautiful parenting. Alhamdulilah ❤️ may Allah bless you all. X
This!
you should move to afghanistan. you'll be very happy with the sharia they implement there.
It’s a very depressing situation, the level of fitnah is just increasing exponentially. Would it be accurate to say we live in the time when holding on to our deen is like holding onto a burning coal?
Yes!
Yes
Yes, we are in the end times but I didn’t expect society to go downhill so fast
@@unclegardener That’s one of the signs of the Qiyamah too! That time would increasingly progress faster and faster, that’s how it would feel.
When I was in school, I've never had experienced like this. This is harder. Back in my school, a lot of kids my age were getting peer pressure like doing bad things, riding motorcycles without license, cursing, and not wanting to pray (always saying on period for a month or two which made the teacher mad). Alhamdulillah I've never ever experienced those in that school even tho I befriend with problematic(?) people
My high school did a survey to freshman and again when they were seniors. It turns out significantly less of the same graduating class identified as Muslim, and this was celebrated by the students and teachers. Astonishingly sad.
Edit: I went to high school between 2015-2019. Many of the boys were bullied and discriminated and associated with drugs and other things. Many of the girls fell into the feminism trap and they are constantly being politicized so they try to prove this or that (like Muslim women aren’t being oppressed or some cliche like that).
This is seriously a problem. I survived by being a social outcast, and I only talked to 2-3 people and no girls at all. Many people thought I was strange and called me weird or antisocial. Islam started as something strange and will return back to being strange. Say, “I believe in Allah” and be patient.
Whoa. Where is this school? In the US?
@@kulfilover001 Yes this is in the us.
@K B Yes, the best thing we can do is stay patient and tell our brothers and sisters to be steadfast. Try to find some friends and talk about Quran and like that.
@@abab-ge2tu
How did they celebrate it?
I can totally relate. That was me in highschool, the introvert. Allah saved me from much of the fitnah of highschool by keeping me alone alhamdulilah. But after highschool comes college, and in many ways it is much much worse.
Looking back at it as well brother I was such an introvert in fact I remember one year I was so shy I hadn’t talked to a single person other then schoolwork for a whole year! I thought something was wrong with me but looking back at it know it was a hidden blessing from Allah swt that I couldn’t see at the time.
I was also an introvert who used to subconsciously try and avoid any social interaction with my peers who are even muslim as they didn't really stick to or follow islam. They used justifications such as 'everyone does it' 'It's natural' and I was the one who felt like an outsider and weirdo even unfriended by these people. I have catholic atheist friends and these Muslim friends are hard to come by in my catholic institution.
Subhannallah seems Allah saved us in the west by making us introverts! Same with me. It was a blessing!
Alhamdulillah, I never experienced high school, but my parents did I bet it was much different than today. I went to an Islamic school that I didn’t like my whole life lol but at least it didn’t teach me about the lgbtq. However, they did teach evolution but they didn’t say it was true so that’s a plus Alhamdulillah.
I was and am an introvert but nevertheless I cared about what others thought of me and tried my best to fit in because I was depressed. Then, I fell into the peer pressure trap. After blocking everyone, I am much happier now. So now I have learned my lesson
This is why they always talks about education. Education in their terms means to make children religionless and secular athiests
Yes! Education is a pathway to indoctrination. This is they try to make it seem like they care for Muslim women being educated. In truth they only want to push THEIR education to the masses, definitely not Islam.
That's why Muslims should run their own schools based on trusts and charities. So that Muslims could easily educate their children with beneficial islamic education, as well as the general required professional education, side by side.
Right, I live in a Muslim country you could say our education was secular although you could attend an "Islamic class" which was nothing but the stories of the Prophets basically and our teacher didn't even wear hijab but most people believe in God and there was actually one guy we would call dumb because he disbelieved in God, education doesn't make you irreligious its the people around you and Public Schools tend to be anti - religious and will paint the picture of religion as backwards and fairytales and *science* ! from people who couldn't tell you Newtons 2nd Law.
exactly........I was a hardcore feminist and now that I look back at my life, I would definitely say that education had played a crucial role in what I have become for those years.....
for 15 years school has indoctrinated me with this feminist ideology.... they say men and women are equal and our forefathers were cruel,, women can do anything they can and patriarchy is horrible,
these have been so normalized in my worldview that, what's right and what's wrong is dictated by it.
if someone comes to me and says that women belong to the kitchen or women should be submissive to their husbands, I would definitely get angry
cause this is not what it's supposed to be, 15yrs I've learned, I know that it's bad,
@@cheesecake8671 Thats insane schools are meant for learning not indoctrination I thought america hated communism
And make sure that your kids regularly visit good sheikhs from childhood, not just going to the masjid and listening to them speak, but they should also spend time in their company and build a relationship with them. That way if you yourself don’t know the answers, you can then rely on the fact that they have a go-to reliable person who they trust to always speak to and ask questions.
Easier said than done when you don’t have any access to any ‘sheikhs’
My High school allowed 5 cops to get away with assaulting a 13 year old student, and then 6 years later allowed 2 cops to get away with assaulting the same student again. After both incidents happened, the only thing the school did was have that kid sign papers to allow them to get away with negligence. The people that work in public schools only care about their co-workers and reputation. DON'T SEND KIDS TO PUBLIC SCHOOLS.
@@UmmKhair901 I wish I myself had access to scholars. But the truth is, no matter the excuses, in my opinion it’s still a priority to consider, when even buying a new house, we should look for neighborhoods that have a good Muslim community and have mosques around. Like parents make sure they get their kids good tutors, they should also make sure they themselves get to know good sheikhs. I know it may be hard, but try your best at least. If you live in an area where there aren’t any Muslims, but migrating is easy for your family, then why not migrate?
Or at least introduce them to sheikhs online, which is not the same at all, but it is something. Assim Al-Hakeem & Uthman ibn Farooq (MasjidRibat channel) are great
@@adamoreilly2489 that’s so disgusting, if you are still in that school, I hope you change the school :(
Why not nurture and raise your children upon Islam personally? The best school system starts in the home. Educate yourself and family about your religion don't rely on others too much.
I'm American and wifey is Egyptian
Our 5 year old daughter goes to school in Egypt, NOT tUSA.
No way, Jose!!!!!
Please tell me how to get cute Egyptian Wife. :(
@@chainmail5886 Tfw when no cute Egyptian wife
@@chainmail5886 - How?
Be a respectable Muslim man. Courteous, high integrity, knowledge of deen and high Imaan. Having Taqwa is a must.
@@danoneall4013 I'm looking for my Pharah wife. Will take what you stated into thought.
@@chainmail5886 is that Israeli flag on the cheeks?
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Im glad you are raising awareness about this. Keep it up and may Allah use you to help these muslim children.
An 11 year old boy who was a hafidh all of a sudden ran away from his parents, left Islam and became an atheist. I personally know the boy and parents
What was his reason?
@@daniah5427 probably influenced in his school by friends and teachers. Children are very easy to manipulate, may Allaah protect our children from such deviance.
الله المستعان، اللهم انصرنا على الظالمين
@@Ahmed-pp1fk Peer pressure is the worst thing that can ever happen to you 😭 I became lazy in terms of studies and religion and engaged in haram acts like talking about music because of schoolmates
Left them and go and start connection with the boys in the Mosque. Playing Basketball, football...] Eating together burger or something like this. Praying together, because real friends are important. They don't get you close to sin mostly and call you to truth. Make Dua to Allah for real Muslim friends and Inschaallah you will find some.
What a great trial. Have you checked in with the boy? I’m sure he has a story to tell that is untold. Sometimes kids are pressured to memorise Quran by mind instead of understanding it by heart so parents can boast to their relatives/community. I’m from SE Asia and “having face” is a big deal here, where parents threaten to humiliate their children (and other morale destroying punishments) if they didn’t do precisely as they’re told, and meet some impossible standard. Many acts of worship lose their value as wisdom and principles are not explained. Parents don’t listen to their kids. All the kid feels is “I feel like a puppet. I’ll never be good enough. What’s the point anyway. Screw it.”
I know. I’ve been there. Went hedonistic for a few years, but alhamdulillah Allah found me lost and guided me.. at 28. And now I practice Islam for Him alone - not my family’s approval. Unfortunately I already developed some bad habits that are hard to break. May Allah help everyone struggling and sincere, ameen.
I went to school in the 90’s and when I hear the stories now….😳ya Allah protect the Muslim ummah.
The 90s feel like a completely different world now, subhanAllah
Aameen
Scary thing is that it started frOm the past, years ago! Started with making music the central focus of life, girls started undressing long ago. When I look back to the stars of that time the Britney’s and Christina aguileras, were already naked and jiggling on stages as teenage girls. But it became the norm because it was on our screens all the time
@@hbk3119 “jiggling” 😂😂 sorry🤭
I think it is also very important to always surround yourself with good muslim friends, and be connected with the muslim community. I’m currently in university, and although I went to public school my whole life, I think the one thing that kept me grounded to Islam were the friends and community I had. Back when I was in elementary school, I lived in an area where there were lots of muslims. Almost all of the friends I had were good, practicing muslims. Just by being around them, I would in a way feel “pressure” to be a better muslim. I would always try to pray, and overall try to keep up with them. Had I not had that sort of upbringing, I probably would not have been as strong in my faith as I try to be now.
This is why I think it is very, very important to have friends who share your values. I’ve found that sometimes, even some non-muslims have better values than some of the muslims that I know.
I think the Leftist/ LGBT indoctrination is more stronger than ever before, particularly due to the internet and Social Media. This ideology has leaked into education, and now even children’s tv shows! This is the stuff that children nowadays are being exposed to from a very young age, and it is our jobs as muslims to counter this.
soo true, as the prophet pbuh said, ‘a person follows his best friend’s religion’ we need community, friends and our surroundings to keep us in the right path, to remind us, to hold out hands when we’re distracted. hopefully our friendship will last till the afterlife in jannah. aameeenn
so you have been well and truly indoctrinated. I can't say that that makes me happy for you.
@@tc1817 Does it look like I care if you’re happy for me or not, fellow internet person who has never met me in real life?
The only one I care about making happy is Allah.
Have a nice day ;)
@@tteokkochi2084 Allah isnt a person.
@@tc1817 Well, I know, and I edited accordingly
ASsalaam Alaikum
Alhamdullilah, this year i was able to get my two eldest kids into our Islamic school in London, Ontario Canada. We had a few incidents with the public school here in Ontario. Although they are teaching them some great values in PSS here, like you said they are also introducing atheism and secularism at very early ages, very subtly but ive noticed it.
1. My son who is very impressionable (more so than my daughter), comes home and tells us how his friend at school has two dads. This is in Junior Kindergarten. We played it off as the other was his uncle. A few months down the road he mentioned to us in one of our discussions; that he wants to marry his friend and we said no and his reply back was the teacher said it was ok because you are allowed to marry who ever you want as long as you love them. Again at this point he was 4. We had to explain to him that in islam boys marry girls and its tough because at this point they dont even understand what marriage means.
My daughter on the other hand was in her class and another Muslim student was joyfully brining up Allah swt and the teach told her that she can not bring up Allah because not everyone believes that God exists and that this is not part of their identity. All I can think is; what about the little muslimc girls identity. We were able to catch this because i was working from home and due to covid we were all the online learning option. If that wasnt the case i wouldnt have been able to discuss with my daughter about the incident.
One thing i did want to say, although i have been trying for years to get into the islamic school in Canada, often there is a long waiting list. My kids have been on the list for 3 years and the tuition is very high here not everyone can afford it between 500- 800 per month per kid. The other option is home school undersrandably so, however, it all depends on the family situation. In sha Allah if i get to a point that i cant afford it i will consider moving away to a cheaper city.
One crucial thing, talk to your kids everyday and let them open up to you. If they cant talk to you they will find someone else to talk to. Wallahi this is super important. Even if you send them to an islamic school. There will come a day where they will be exposed to the outside world and they need to know the dangers out there before they are exposed to them.
JAK Akhi Saajid, your videos are reinforcing my decision.
Just move in a Muslim country. After all of this you want to stay there and bringing up your kids in that environment. You are a bad business,man, you want to loose your akhira for this world.
I don't know how could they let their kids go to a place where they might lose their religion!!!! May Allah swt protect us and save our kids from such places.
It almost sounds too good to be true...
You would be surprised how many Muslims go to public school.
@@chainmail5886 I don’t think so
Yeah its sad.sadly not everyone can afford private school
Well if they taught the kid the right maybe they wouldn't have to worry.
That's why Rasulullah PBUH warn us to select n choose friends, cz the environment n people around are most influencing children's character during their grow up.
Haha Orang indo nih kayanya
@@kebunNF iyo bro, wong jowo ..hehe
@@jaguar359 hehehe sama bro.
yes. if you tell adults the ridiculous things in most organized religions, very few people would believe them. that why almost every religious person share the religion of their parents.
My daughters who are in university now feel the same that, they mostly kept to themselves in order to avoid getting influenced by the environment at school. Plus the environment at home, which largely consisted of a lot of exposure to islamic lectures, and us practicing Islam was able to help them resist according to them.
You know I used to be a student in a public school and in a span of just 1 year I completely changed from a good person to a bad person. After that Allah guided me and now i'm in an islamic school and trust me Islamic schools compared to public schools are like heavens so please send your children to islamic schools or homeschool them. Remember that the deen of your kids should be your priority and so don't even think of sending them to public schools.
Being an introvert is such a blessing Al hamdu lillah.
Sadly, my own brother left Islam whilst he was at school some ten years ago. He used to be a good practising young lad but he got heavily influenced by his company- especially one atheist he used to debate. He used to complain that there were no youngsters in the masjid and the only person who he could talk to was a middle aged African brother. He was visibly stressed... I tried to get him to confide in me as were quite close but he never opened up. Then he stops going to taraweeh and behaves very strangely with his prayers. Soon, we had to ask him what was going on... asked what is your religion, he said "I don't know" and that's where it went downhill. He was very nihilistic and angry in the beginning. Turns out he was a social outcast at school for being the only superly pious boy.
May Allah guide us all. Ameen.
There was a history class i joined in a public college and on the first day the teacher started showing us historical “art” of naked people and told us we were going to learn about them throughout this quarter. And there was a slideshow, all the art was of naked people. I was thinking “what kind of inappropriate class is this”. I dropped the class that day.
That was good move you made fast decision..
Well its not inappropriate at least to them. Its the way they see art and historically speaking their artists were not strictly limited like muslims. You left and that is good but don't call it inappropriate just because it went against your view. Its not according to their view.
It goes against Christianity and Islam and judaism. The Abrahamic religions are required to cover their bodies and not look into private parts.
I'm not gon send my children to these schools, homeschooling is what i I'll opt for.
same, either homeschool or Islamic School.
@@mayflower-emjay Or … migrate
@@unclegardener Where tho? Brunei?
@@ibnmianal-buna3176 I recommend Brunei or Malaysia
@@ibnmianal-buna3176 malaysia is pretty good
May Allah forgive us for our sins and shortcomings. May Allah protect us from the Fitnah of the Shaytan.
Ameen.
I am glad i live in KSA
Yes its monetary and financailly not wise
But deen wise its far better than other countries
yes your username suits well 😹😹
@The Alpha AH
@@cheesecake8671 🤣🤣
Schools in KSA is filled with teachers from West, do you think that it is safe...Most of the school prefers native English speakers, definitely they willl corrupt the young minds...and we see the result of this now...KSA youths are adopting western culture...May Allah protect us.
Saudi Arabia is getting more secular day after day
Ya ALLAH! My daughter just started high school this is her 3rd week. She was in a Muslim school for 3 years. Today she told me she gets why some people are atheists. I went numb!
good to see shes opening her eyes
The imaams have a major responsibility to mentions these issues in kuthbas every Friday when the jammah are there
I feel sorry for religious figures right now.
They'll become a target if they say anything against the LGBTQ agenda.
I’m Saudi I live in Saudi Arabia and I’m terrified of raising my kids without supervising everything they do in here I can’t imagine even the horror that you live in over there may Allah give us all his guidance to the right path 💔💔💔
Going out to the shopping malls in Jeddah always make me wonder how far astray some of the youth of this country have been lead to. May Allah guide them back.
@@KarmaZeroOne I live in Jeddah and because of the corruption I don’t get out of my house ever only when I totally have to cause I’m scared that it might affect me somehow 😔
@@theuqgirl8952 I know what you mean. I hate how it's becoming the norm to be far away from the teachings of our prophet Mohammed PBUH.
الله يثبتنا على ديننا.
@@theuqgirl8952 Are you serious ukhti? I was planning to make Hijrah there (from Indonesia) :(
@@bobyford8051 if you wanna make Hijra go to Madinah it is the best place in the world to go to prophet Mohammad peace be upon him actually prayed for Madinah and the people of Madinah but yes brother unfortunately it is so true but I do what the prophet Mohamma peace be upon him said to do in these dark times remain in your house and away from this corruption may Allah guide us all 😔💔
Islamic schools are Extremely important, I can't stress this enough.
I am an Arab Muslim married to a non-Arab Muslim and we home school our kids. My husband told me straight forward( NO PUBLIC SCHOOL, I went to public school growing up and I don't want my kids to experience what I experienced. And that was years ago. Imagine how schools are now!!? May Allah bless and protect our children l. yes yes yes we need more Islamic schools. I don't understand how we spend thousand and sometimes millions of dollars on masajid when our children don't even know enough about their religion. Sunday school is not enough people!! We need more Islamoc schools. We need more teachers who are willing to teach. We are throwing our kids into fire and expecting them to survive? Shame on us. Even if both parents work..that is NOT an excuse. Find someone to teach them daily or at least few days a week. Find a solution. We are not here to make money and buy Teslas!! We are here to raise, educate, and spread the word of Allah. This is heartbreaking. Christians homeschool their kids throughout the country with no problem. WHY are we not doing the same?. As a parent, I fear for my kids even when I homeschool them. This society is so confused more than ever.and it will get worse before it gets better. Are we going to wait until we lose more children to their TREND before we act? Allah ask us to plan and work while submitting to his will. Not just submitting without taking any actions. I pray that Allah guide those parents who need help ya Allah and strengthen us. Ameen.
It's disgusting how society and pressures force you to change who you are to fit in. It's horrible and the things they teach in school are awful, they still don't teach any valuable lessons like paying taxes and running a business etc.
You spoke exactly what is in my heart!
It's my dream to see Muslim girls high school, Muslim boys high school, and Muslim elementary school in many cities in every state, Inshaallah. This is what Muslim communities need the most right now and should put their investments into it 100%
I bet Reddit atheism is proud of this
Lmao fr
I think it’s very important that we talk to our kids about everything and be open with them. We need to create a comfortable environment in our homes to where our kids can ask us questions about everything. My siblings and I all went to public school and we turned out fine but that’s because our parents talked to us and instilled moral and ethical values.
As parents it’s very important to talk to our children and help them understand our deen. We need to discuss with them the danger and intentions of these people. May Allah protect our children and safeguard them to their faith. Ameen
This is one of the many reasons I'm proud of living in a Muslim country without threat of bombs. Being in a war torn Muslim country that's falling apart is better than being a refugee in a Western country! At least the Syrian children that are still growing in Syria can still identify as a boy or a girl.
Trueeee💯💯💯💯😪
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Absolutely, I would rather have my deen and be hungry than lose my deen with a full tummy 😭😭😭😭😭
Jazakallah khair for bringing this issue and clarifying it so well. We were just debating where to send the kids, and you have provided very good insight. Please keep up the good work. Wasalam
I wasn't part of the Ummah when I was in high school. But, I was an outcast nonetheless, much like the Sister mentioned in the first email I was different and I walked to the beat of a different drum.
I was a non-Muslim during my teenage years too, I became Muslim last year subhanAllah, and it was the same for me. I have Asperger’s syndrome so I was basically a social outcast throughout most of high school. I think this was Allah’s(SWT) way of saving me from the fahisha and evils surrounding me and influencing my peers
@@ibnmianal-buna3176 You are lucky, my brother/sister, that you found the truth that you found and that many reject. I agree with you everything that happens to us, even if it seems bad to you, it is good. And this is what Allah said, because Allah is merciful and does not want anything but good for his creation.
" So, surely with hardship comes ease."
"Perhaps you dislike something which is good for you and like something which is bad for you. Allah knows and you do not know."
@@bam8212 Not lucky but blessed. There is no luck in Islam, everything happens by the will of Allah.
There were a few LGBT kids in my middle school but they just kept to themselves and they were the tumblr yaoi anime obsessed types. A lot of things have changed since then, there are students at my sisters school that go by they/them pronouns. Stuff like that was uncommon in my time.
This is heart breaking inshallah Allah guide him and anyone is the same position as him
Brother Sajid. May Allah bless you for doing such a great deed. May Allah guide those who need understanding.
I would rather die in a battlefield defending Islamic land, than get married and have kids that will be corrupted this way
I live in the Maghreb ,and four(all) of my philosophy teachers were mounafiqins(Atheists) and two French teachers and one Geography teachers, they often shook our beliefs in each class they at least drove a dozen of students to Atheism/Agnosticism and Secularism in our ranks.
انا كنت أسمع عنا في الأردن إنه في دكاترة جامعات هيك! كنت أسمع مثلا كيف بقعدوا يعلقوا على الحجاب و إنه مش فرض وهيك كلام تخبيص. الواحد بستغرب كيف في أرض الإسلام "المسلمين" (المنافقين على قولتك) هيك بحكوا و بتصرفوا.
الحمد لله في جامعتي ما قابلت هيك جماعات بس الوضع بطل يطمن، صرت أخاف على إخوتي شو رح يصير فيهم بس يدخلوا الجامعة.
@@هاجرخليل-ط5ت .جزاك الله خيرا يا اخي
@@jakewebdev6428 وفيك أخي، الله يهدينا جميعا يرحمنا برحمته 🤲🏻
@@هاجرخليل-ط5ت آمين.
@@majorspook9716 آمين يا ربي يسهل لك و ييسر لك امرك , نحن المسلمين كلنا اخوة و من صالح المستعمر الفاسد تفرقتنا عن حبل الله.
Holding on your khimar is a sign of strength and love of Allah, and Allah love us more than we love him. It is from the interests of the colonizer and traitors to leave our only strength and blessing from Allah "Islam".
May Allah bless you sister and make you from the people of Jannat al-Firdaus🙏.
Just home school your kids… Allah is the one that provides.
This is the time you make sincere dua to Allah to protect ur kids from becoming like the QTBGL gang.
When you are growing up you can be influenced very easily especially in the west, however when you understand Islam and your faith is strong, you can never be influenced by the wrong doers, I thank God that I'm in a place that I know what is right and what is wrong, even if the entire society is making the wrong look like its right. Alhamdulleh
Barakallaahu Feek for starting the conversation. The saying, ‘it’s a jungle out there’ has been true since my high schools in the mid 70’s and growing exponentially worse in line with the overall continuous degradation of most , not all societies. With my children grown I have not felt a personal sense towards my role in our young Muslims education in terms of supporting Islamic schools but you have me thinking. We have one k-12 Islamic school in my city, well attended but costly, so only for those who can afford the steep tuition. Home schooling is a great option if at least 1 parent can manage it. It is not for everyone but can work well as it did for us. All 4 of our now adult children did HS homeschool and all have graduated from college, walhamdullilaah
Him loosing his faith was because he never understood the Deen properly in the first place.
His aqeedah was not questioned. Needs to go deep
But
Sometimes people think they are young... They are not thick but cleaver intelligent youth. They need better understanding on emaan and have other aqeedahs challenged that attack our Deen, i.e. secularism, liberalism etc
100%
Dua to Fix all your family issues:
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ اَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وََّاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
اے ہمارے رب !تو ہمیں ہماری بیویوں اور اولادوں سے آنکھوں کی ٹھنڈک عطا فرما اور ہمیں پرہیزگا روں کا امام بنا۔
Our Lord! Grant us from among our wives and offspring, comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteousness. (Al-Furqan:74)
…also Islamic schools should prepare students for a work environment. Where u cant choose to be an outcast and have to work within a team environment to get work done
Ameen brother to your duas. JazakhaAllah khayr for sharing. May ALLAH swt guide entire mankind to the right path
This hits a note in my heart. These a topics that people don't really comprehend. My parents and young parents are not equipped to deal with this at all.
The parents need to stick to Islam especially in this disgusting western culture where being called a virgin is a insult....
i am in Iraq and have a daughter to home school. The worst things have filled the curriculum
Allah will Held such parents accountable
This give's me heart pain my Imam is getting attacked
i mean iman btw
@@saturn2222 do you mean being in public school attacks your iman
@@osman.s1405 I think he's talking about the video listening to stories like that
@@osman.s1405 yuea
Even here in muslim majority, public school be glorify the nation principle as way of life so now many here become "moderate" and the one who really practice labeled by radical and intolerance etc. Different place different test, i guess :)
I am sorry to say this but a lot of children have parents that want to teach them the religion really fast and it’s all just but about learning and learning because they don’t have relationship with their children. Nowadays, you got to form a strong relationship with your children or they will find it somewhere else. It’s not just about taking them to school.
Also, religion should be brought to the child at a young age slowly. For example , teach them about Allah and who he is and then the prophet and why we should love them. Then introduce the Quran and not just memorizing it but understanding it. I love Islam more than ever now because I know who Allah is and how he is so merciful because I read the Quran to understand the meaning and listen to lectures about the prophet Pbuh.
I remember my parents and I know our parents want the best for us, but I remember them making me memorize the Quran and I had no clue what I was reciting. I wasnt happy about it at that time but I understand parents do their best. But seriously we need a new approach to raise these new generation because they are exposed to so much fitnah.
Society must have its boundaries. Peering into all of one's live creates a highly discomfortable treacherous emotion and have it being utilized as a once and for all type threatening disclosure, is disgraceful and those doing so should feel that way. Boundaries. I find myself being so hypocritical and embarassed to share my truth because I participate in wrongdoings so to academia misguidance or my own flaws and character faults whilst I am still seeking full submissio and righteouseness. Focusing and concentrating on Deen with boundaries and having primarily western academia influence from schooling and culture makes progressing in what is most important very difficult for me.
Asalamu alaikum. I attended public school and there are so much going on that was not good. I remember being in high school and two girls were pregnant causing me to clutch my invisible pearls in shock. My son has the option to do virtual learning which he has been doing. He actually prefers virtual over in person school. My husband and I prefer it too since I work from home.
As much as it hurt to be alone in school... I'm starting to think that Allah did me a massive favour. Who knows what influences I would have been exposed to had I been more popular as a child. Now, I have friends, Muslim and non-Muslim, who respect my beliefs. My Lord blessed me with my trials, though I didn't see it.
You are lucky, Allah was protecting you all along
@@aminanoor6337 not lucky sis but blessed. There is no luck in Islam.
Subhanallah May Allah protect all of our children’s Ameen, May reward for the parents.
May Allah reward you.
This is something that should be given a lot of time and energy.
b/c it is affecting all muslims not only in america but in every country where muslims are sending their children to public schools which are so called secular schools.
This statement couldn't be anymore true.
Shaykh Ahmad an-Najmee :”The mother is the first school. If she is righteous, the progeny becomes righteous” [Fath-ur-Rabb al-Wadud (2/256)]
It starts from home.
It’s so heart breaking that parents don’t listen or they don’t wanna listen cuz they are not aware n they don’t accept to be educated about this matter and they are busy with donia also most of Islamic schools are not following sunnah and that makes the children very confused and a big problem which is finding good teachers who know pedagogy for dealing with children especially the ones born or raised in America
Thanks for reading those emails and sharing some story’s.
May Allah guide him back
I went from jilbabi, hafidah to wearing revealing clothes and becoming lesbian but Alhamdulilah I’m going back to my roots again.
Can you email me your story please ilmstitute@gmail.com
@@SaajidLipham ok
This topic is so important
I live in Hollywood Florida
My son's high school on his freshman year.
I went to the office.
Because they actually were pressuring him...to tell the truth that he is really a female and they will get him help with gender change.
Ooo
I spoke in kind words and said that I can and will sue the school board.
They actually acted like they had the right to do this.
I said.
Well my body cam has been recording since I came here.
Oh yes my phone is my body cam.
Then I downloaded it to my RUclips channel under private.
Brother Sajid how can I contact you! I have to share my experience in public school in the UK
:Subhanallah x33
Alhamdulilah x33
Astagfurallah x33
May Allah SWT grants us all jannah . Ameen❤️
Jazakum Allah Khairan
Thank God I went to school in a muslim country , this is horrible .
I want to ask. Are there any lgbt people in your country
@@t-4579 yes but not active and not public , more like secret community , some Facebook groupes and things like that .
Which country?
@@t-4579 they are everywhere…. In west they are public and in our societies they are underground.
So if theres still gay muslims in muslim countries, how can u blame western muslims and not muslim countries. Its not like theres a large amounts of gay muslims in west
جزاك الله خير الجزاء
Give them knowledge about Islam what they need to know and about the possibility that they "the children" will encounter in the public school.
even in Muslim country we still had people that lose their faith after adult and after they going umrah etc. Even their parent is Dai or teacher about Islam. Allah guides people at the end of the day, what we can do is remind them about the deen so they understand the meaning of it and the value in Islam.
Homeschooling seems the first choice when coming to this matter, but I think it's best if we had the community in a certain area for an Islamic school. So we had the community for Muslims since their childhood.
May Allah preserve us and our children on the right path. Ameen
The environment does obviously make a huge impact on us. This is why we need to talk about the importance of Khilafah as a political alternative to democracy and how Islam challenges the secular world we live in.
To support this concept and support each other in these good important obligations and stop the petty disagreements we waste time on which is only work of the shaytan to distract us from the greater good
Laa ilaaha illaa Allah….Allahu Akbar🥰❤️
May Allah protect our kids Allahumma Aameen
May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household✨✨✨
Thanks Bro. Saajid for for the insight of truth to keep Muslims awake stay awake.As-Salaam Alaikum.
uncle, please talk about Child-free marriage, which now in Indonesia has become a trend :(
so sad.
when Jew people now breed and continue to gain their population, many Muslims decide to child-free using argument overpopulate and MY BODY MY CHOICE :(
The sad thing is in the UK Muslim teachers don’t want to teach in Muslims schools even though more and more schools are becoming government funded and will earn the same as non Muslim schools.
May Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى guide us all
Jazakallah khairen
Ma sha Allah. This needed to be addressed. I'm a born American Muslim and I try to explain to my in-laws from overseas about the fitaan and propaganda that is in our public schools. They don't believe and actually think I'm nuts. All of their children are completely changed. Filthy music, cussing, some removed hijab while other barely cover. Some with secret social media accounts , and their speech is about opposite genders and money. It's sad. May Allah subhanna wa ta A'la help us see the truth and grant us protection for us and our children.
Just remember ukhti
Victory and Jannah is only reserved for some special people known as Muimins 😃
Muslims should run their own schools based on trusts and charities. So that Muslims could easily educate their children with beneficial islamic education, as well as the general required professional education, side by side.
I live in a predominantly muslim country and I dont even let my kids go to public school here. I put them in salafi boarding schools because of the great fitnah our generation is going through right now.
The sad thing is that they think its okay to do this. They think its right thing to do in reality its not the right thing to do and we have to be careful. May Allah protect our deen, guide us to what is right and be steadfast. Ameen.
Here in Germany homeschooling is illegal and islamic schools are not a thing (I don't even know of a handful throughout the whole country) and sending kids to school till they're 18 is compulsory. May Allah aid us.
Obvious anti Islam agenda there..get out..or speak up
Upon you is Hijrah, dont risk it.
I believe if you have a completely open relationship with your kids in regards to daily discussions and also discuss everything in school, you can avoid most of these issues.
You need to teach your kids about Islam before they get introduced to other ideas and also explain concepts and slowly introduce these social ideas that we do not agree with before the school gets to them. DO NOT AVOID UNCOMFORTABLE TOPICS! Talk about them and explain why thyy are wrong and explain what these people are trying to do! KIDS ARE SMART
Let’s all move to San Diego and send our kids to talk to Sheikh Uthman every Sunday at Balboa Park 😂
AssalamuAlaikum.
I want to meet Sheikh too!
I have many questions but I'll probably never get the chance to ask those 😢.
May Allah Subhana Wa Ta'ala take us there if that is best for us. Ameen!
المشكلة ان الغربي اذا اسلم يتبنى عادات وتقاليد العرب والإنسان مستأنس بطبعه وصعب جداً ان ينصلخ من مجتمعه ... وهذا من اهم الأسباب الي تجعل الناس يترددون وما يسلمون خصوصاً النساء والأطفال حتى بالنسبه للرجل بنسب اقل... عموماً علموا المسلم الجديد انه يستطيع ان يلبس اللبس التقليدي لبلده اذا كان مايخالف شرع الله وأنه ممكن ان يكون مسلم أمريكي فخور بأصله واذا كان بريطاني يقدر ياكل فيش اند شيبس ثلاث مرات في اليوم😅(لاتصلخونهم من مجتمعاتهم ولاتبعدونهم الا عن الحرام فقط ) هذا والله اعلم
I took speech class in college and the professor insist on us to go to see one play wchich promote similar ideology also to write a sammary plus bringing the ticket as an evidence of attendance… it was discomfortable. This play is very famous amongst collegiate students
Im in high school right now i try not to get in trouble so i just stay by myself and listen to Quran but it is so hard though the people are pressure you to accept the social norms even though i know they are wrong for example the girls are touching the other girls weirdly but the teacher isn’t doing anything and is ignoring it or something
Mashallah. Keep at it. High school won't last forever, I've been through it alhamdulilah and survived it. Take life lessons from it.
There is a famous hadeeth about the types of people who will be under the shade of Allah. One of them will be the youth who strove to keep practicing their faith even though hardship and fitnah. May Allah make you and I one of those people. Ameen
Thats why I Switched to Online school After 2 years of public schools now I'm Going to a Islamic University
There is one problem in private schools, it’s very expensive! I don’t know how people can afford those for all kids, I mean I get it, but a lot of us just can’t pay for 3-4-5 kids from 7 to 15k a year (each), it’s just too much. Had my older daughter home schooled last 1,5 years due to COVID, she became very depressed and desperate to have/talk to friends of her age. It’s a great call for sure, but in families where both people work full time and not making a fortune it’s hard to implement.
Hijrah is a very good option
But obviously reserved for those who Place Deen higher than Duniya
Thanks for the information.
La hawla wala qoowata illa-billah, may Allah destroy the enemies of Islam. أمين
what a great speech as usual ma sha allah 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
It is clear that the next generations will have it more and more complicated, putting your child in a Muslim school is not the definitive solution, I have studied since I was a child in a Muslim school and I also studied Koran but when i grew up I got many questions that I did not had an answer, now unfortunately we are Muslims by inheritance and people are more in the digital world than the real one and there the problem arises not having answers and knowledge that we had to have instilled in us as children, I ask that God guide us in these difficult time.
Please make dua for all our children. It doesnt matter what country you are it
And they say that their life style and ideologies do not indoctrinate children and these ideas can not make "normal" people behave like them 🙃🙃 , but it seems it does after all.😔💔
Poor child, I hope that he finds out the wrong in his actions, and to abandon these ideologies, they are not going to help him in his life, and they will make him miserable in the long run!!
Thats so heart breaking its honestly so creepy.
Brother, thank you for your video. An eye-opener. Jajakallah