I was 22 dating a 32 year old. It ended horribly, but I learned valuable life lessons about valuing myself and how to handle negative situations in a better way. So there are positive and negatives for it as long as both parties are consenting adults.
No offense but even if you weren’t it wouldn’t matter. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. This is applicable to everyone. No one’s opinion about anyone else’s life is significant. Ever.
@@CalmRiver333 Yeah I get that. I’m just saying that I’m not the biggest fan of Jesse Rutherford. There’s no fuckin reason for you to get so defensive over the OPINION of someone you don’t even know. Mind your own damn business and let me think what I want.
@@the._.musical._.flute._ lol it’s not that deep homie! I’m not offended. It’s just a simple fact, an observation. You can think whatever you want about him. That’s your opinion. I’m just saying that it never matters what anyone else thinks about someone’s life. After all, you made a public comment, and I’m not getting in your business for telling you that! You seem a little upset, and it’s not that deep.
@@the._.musical._.flute._ by no means am I trying to “not let you” think what you want, because that’s impossible. I’m not the thought police, and I never claimed to be anything of the sorts.
My mother dated then married a man who was 30 years older than her. He put her on a pedestal. They were together until he passed away at 94. She always said she was older and he was younger. They emotionally met in the middle. Don't judge people's ages
My husband is 10 years older than me . He’s the love of my life and have been married for 5 years . We are building wonderful life together and I’m forever grateful ❤ I remember my moms first reaction was open arms , love and respect .
@x tonib x Seriously, you didn't think us women don't know that. It just so happens, though, that we prefer our men in an ideal world to be older/taller, the hunter/gatherer, etc. So this actually is a win-win for both parties.😆😆
@@Becca.C.K That's your preference. That isn't true for every woman. Adult women can find other age appropriate adult men to provide for them and protect them. Men shouldn't specifically want women who are less matured/developed. To each their own, though. I'm a woman as well and ig we are just different.
@x tonib x It is scientifically proven men a 4 years behind in maturity. In the end, it comes down to our inner animal/cavemen and cavewomen instincts... We look for strength in the man rather than weakness. Having a man more feminised than yourself would be embarrassing for most.
The love of my life is also ten years older than me and I'm in my early twentys as well. Nothing wrong with that as long as both meet on the same level, want the same things in the relationship and are happy together.
Same here, my partner is 12 years older, and I'm 23 :) we communicate wonderfully, and this relationship is much healthier for me than any other I had with men closer to my age!
The age gap is not really the problem, but we need to consider the what stages they are at as of right now in their respective lives. The relationship b/w a 30 and 40 year old is NOT the same as the relationship b/w a 20 and 30 year old even if the age gap is the same. Billie is fresh into her adult life while her current boyfriend has lived through his youth years completely. Billie graduated highschool like 2 years ago. The human brain fully develops by the age of 25 and hence getting into relationships with a major age gap before that age is dicey and could end up badly. Not just that but the power imbalance in there relationship is a concerning thing. She idolises him and has been doing that for a long time and that what makes this particular relationship dicey. That being said, it's her life and if she choses to be with him, we can't say anything about it. It is legal but not necessarily right.
Billy is 21 years old. She graduated high school two years ago? She graduated high school at 19 years old? You are over exaggerating everything. She is an adult. At 21 years old most people have graduated from college already. She’s not 17 or 18 years old. She is 21 again, a full grown adult.
@@purpledove7008 bro first read the whole comment, yeah? Try and understand what I'm saying. And yes, I was exaggerating when I said that she graduated highschool 2 years ago. Also- don't you think it's somewhat weird that Jessie is so immature for people his age that he gravitates towards dating younger people and noone his age wants to date him? Like- did he not sit down with himself and was like- "shit, this girl is 11 years younger than me, she was 8 when I was 18. Why can't I find someone my age?"
i know sooooo many people with 10 year ols age gaps, the internet is just way out of touch with reality at this point. nobody is gonna listen to them anyways so let them talk
It is funny to me that people are acting like this is a big deal. Because in their eyes Billie Eilish is still a 15-year-old kid. She is a 21-year-old grown adult woman. And in the grand scheme of things, 10 years is not that much. Joaquin Phoenix had a baby with Rooney Mara who is 10 years younger than him. Is that a big thing people are talking about? No. Because 10 years really is not that big of a difference. And as long as they are both consenting adults who cares
11 years between my husband and I. Met when I was 23 and he was 34 amd we've been together 15 years. If they are consenting adults and both happy then what does their age matter ?
@@my_cutsie_pootsie_channelmost people you know have a mom and a dad, but that doesn’t mean you get to judge someone with two dads or two moms… you homophobe
10 years is nothing in the celebrity scene. Everyone's complaining about this, a fairly healthy relationship, when some of these couples are 20+ years apart. Stay out of people's lives.
It's just a number... Once somebody turns 18, if they want a date a 78-year-old That is 100% their business and no one else's... 10 years ain't shit, my grandma and grandpa were happily married 50+ years until he passed away and they were 15 years apart... The only thing that matters is that they are both happy and that the relationship is healthy. I don't understand why people care so much about celebrity relationships anyway to be honest, it's so silly to try and butt your nose into someone else's personal business, Even if they are famous.
The only thing that matters is if he makes her happy and treats her right and with the respect she deserves. Heck I'm 23 years old and engaged to a 34 year old so there is nothing wrong with her dating someone who 10 years older than her
Dating sb 10 years older than you is dating sb that already went through steps of maturity. It's like dating sb from a other era. Like you are a child compared the the person Anyway, everybody has to do their own trials I guess
10 year is F -all. Now, 15 years is a adjust baseball cap news. And 20 is Cap adjust with a pull your pants up. 25 is all those with mouth open. 30 or more you ignore all of those and just turn and barf.
It’s weird cause if you comment on other unordinary relationships, like 2 men/2 women, you get called “phobic” like you hate people. Yet they sit up here and judge two adults day in day out like they’re morally superior smh
Lmao it is. The day you turn 18 you become an adult. And in many countries the age of consent is many years younger then that. You just simply have to mind your own business
@@jane4670 I’m sorry but I don’t understand what you’re trying to say. I think you mean it’s different from country to country which I agree with, but I’m not completely sure what you mean.
Okay I’m sorry my friend was 19 and got married to a 25 year old they met when he was 24 and she was 18 so please let me know why you guys can’t mind y’all business and not come after people. You do know that most parents have much bigger age gap before “this generation “
My parents are like 10 years apart and it’s not weird at all and they have stuff in common. People must not be aware of how incredibly immature men are and often match well with younger women 😂 as long as it’s two consenting adults it shouldn’t be a problem.
A 21 year old adult is naive and is literally a child, Being a 25 year old man he should’ve know that. Billie’s relationship is very weird and a 31 year old man dating girls 10 years younger than him is the weirdest part and people should put their energy on him and not billie
I'm 26 and my husband is 11 years older than me. We've been married almost 6 years and have 3 kids. Age is just a number (as long as the person is of age of course). She's a beautiful 21 year old who can make her own decisions. 🤍 I wish them the best!
Billie had difficulty to find somebody. It’s the course of fame. Yo never know if its real love. But with that guy, i see not the problem in the age. The problem is that he looks like a criminal. May Billie not learned yet, to go with a good guy. Like the most young lady, she fall in love with the baaaaad guy. Dudum du dud du dumm.. not good Billie .. not good
i love how supportive he is to his sister. he helps her write her songs and always makes sure she gets the spotlight and i love him for that.
Finneas is right Billie is 21 now she make own life decision
P3do supporter
Finneas is a great brother and business partner. Seems like he has been taking care of her for years.
I was 22 dating a 32 year old. It ended horribly, but I learned valuable life lessons about valuing myself and how to handle negative situations in a better way. So there are positive and negatives for it as long as both parties are consenting adults.
I’m not the best fan of her relationship, but as long as Jesse treats Billie right and makes her happy, I’ll be ok with it.
No offense but even if you weren’t it wouldn’t matter. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. This is applicable to everyone. No one’s opinion about anyone else’s life is significant. Ever.
@@CalmRiver333 Yeah I get that. I’m just saying that I’m not the biggest fan of Jesse Rutherford. There’s no fuckin reason for you to get so defensive over the OPINION of someone you don’t even know. Mind your own damn business and let me think what I want.
@@the._.musical._.flute._ lol it’s not that deep homie! I’m not offended. It’s just a simple fact, an observation. You can think whatever you want about him. That’s your opinion. I’m just saying that it never matters what anyone else thinks about someone’s life. After all, you made a public comment, and I’m not getting in your business for telling you that! You seem a little upset, and it’s not that deep.
@@the._.musical._.flute._ by no means am I trying to “not let you” think what you want, because that’s impossible. I’m not the thought police, and I never claimed to be anything of the sorts.
@@CalmRiver333 😱😱😱
This is what happens when fans feel entitled to control a celebrities life. You're paying them to entertain you and that's where it ends.
My mother dated then married a man who was 30 years older than her. He put her on a pedestal. They were together until he passed away at 94. She always said she was older and he was younger. They emotionally met in the middle. Don't judge people's ages
DAMN 30 YEARS DIFFERENCE?
@@NSKLA if she’s happy she’s happy! But it does sound crazy!
@@NSKLA 💀💀
Yes 30 years age difference. You could never tell. He was always the life of the party.
Most age gap relationships fail at a much higher rate than small age gap. Can't argue with the data lmao
Tbh it’s not our job to comment on what she can and can’t do. Just let Billie do whatever, it’s not our business.
My husband is 10 years older than me . He’s the love of my life and have been married for 5 years . We are building wonderful life together and I’m forever grateful ❤ I remember my moms first reaction was open arms , love and respect .
She seems like a very mature and reasonable person. I'm sure she knows what's right for her. I wish them the best.
Well said! Billie is an adult and her dating choices are really no one’s business! If she is happy, everyone should be happy for her regardless…..
Just let her be it's her own life she can make her own decisions 😢😢
His music seriously aint shitty.. infact id say he's one of the msot underrated singers out there. For those who haven't heard him, please do!!
i mean it's her life why ya'll commenting about it 🙄💀
10 years is nothing extraordinary these days... everyone knows women are more mature than the age they are!
No. Women are hypersexualized as teens and are expected to magically grow up faster than men bc men like women who are young as possible.
@x tonib x Seriously, you didn't think us women don't know that.
It just so happens, though, that we prefer our men in an ideal world to be older/taller, the hunter/gatherer, etc.
So this actually is a win-win for both parties.😆😆
@@Becca.C.K That's your preference. That isn't true for every woman. Adult women can find other age appropriate adult men to provide for them and protect them. Men shouldn't specifically want women who are less matured/developed.
To each their own, though. I'm a woman as well and ig we are just different.
@x tonib x It is scientifically proven men a 4 years behind in maturity.
In the end, it comes down to our inner animal/cavemen and cavewomen instincts... We look for strength in the man rather than weakness.
Having a man more feminised than yourself would be embarrassing for most.
Honestly 10 years isnt that bad. My friend and her parwnts have a 17 uear old gap and they are amazing ppl
My husband is 10 years older than me. I met him when I was 21, married at 26. Who gives a shit?? Let adults LIVE.
The love of my life is also ten years older than me and I'm in my early twentys as well. Nothing wrong with that as long as both meet on the same level, want the same things in the relationship and are happy together.
Same here, my partner is 12 years older, and I'm 23 :) we communicate wonderfully, and this relationship is much healthier for me than any other I had with men closer to my age!
@@jjj4n4 I'm happy for you!
They broke up what a suprise 🤣
Just got me thinking that I was with a 32 year old when I was 15...16 , he did take advantage.
l’amour sounds like finneas. i knew from first listen he heavily wrote it 😭
WOAH BILLIE IS 21?!!??? I THOUGHT SHE WAS 18 STILL😭😭😭
same
Billie is an old soul but it doesnt wear well for an older man if you step out of line with her they are gonna slay you
Yep as long as you are happy girl never settle 😘
The age gap is not really the problem, but we need to consider the what stages they are at as of right now in their respective lives. The relationship b/w a 30 and 40 year old is NOT the same as the relationship b/w a 20 and 30 year old even if the age gap is the same. Billie is fresh into her adult life while her current boyfriend has lived through his youth years completely. Billie graduated highschool like 2 years ago. The human brain fully develops by the age of 25 and hence getting into relationships with a major age gap before that age is dicey and could end up badly. Not just that but the power imbalance in there relationship is a concerning thing. She idolises him and has been doing that for a long time and that what makes this particular relationship dicey.
That being said, it's her life and if she choses to be with him, we can't say anything about it. It is legal but not necessarily right.
Billy is 21 years old. She graduated high school two years ago? She graduated high school at 19 years old? You are over exaggerating everything. She is an adult. At 21 years old most people have graduated from college already. She’s not 17 or 18 years old. She is 21 again, a full grown adult.
@@purpledove7008 bro first read the whole comment, yeah? Try and understand what I'm saying. And yes, I was exaggerating when I said that she graduated highschool 2 years ago. Also- don't you think it's somewhat weird that Jessie is so immature for people his age that he gravitates towards dating younger people and noone his age wants to date him? Like- did he not sit down with himself and was like- "shit, this girl is 11 years younger than me, she was 8 when I was 18. Why can't I find someone my age?"
Exactly 💯
We graduated at 15 she was homeschooled
Boy I am pretty sure, she's not safe
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She’s an adult age doesn’t matter as long as 2 consenting adults are involved!!!!
i know sooooo many people with 10 year ols age gaps, the internet is just way out of touch with reality at this point. nobody is gonna listen to them anyways so let them talk
THAT IS A GOOD GAP! MATURITY WISE THEYRE COMPATIBLE AND PROBABLY WILL LAST LONGER THAN ANOTHER 21 YR.OLD BOY!
10years gap is not too big deal when both of them are adults
FINNEAS is so supportive. I want him to be my brothers
no one has a right to tell a grown woman what she should do. people need to stfu
Yesssss
One of my family members have 10 yead age gap there’s nothing wrong abt that
lets go finneas he is such a good person and billie is an adult tf people need to mind their own business
It is funny to me that people are acting like this is a big deal. Because in their eyes Billie Eilish is still a 15-year-old kid. She is a 21-year-old grown adult woman. And in the grand scheme of things, 10 years is not that much. Joaquin Phoenix had a baby with Rooney Mara who is 10 years younger than him. Is that a big thing people are talking about? No. Because 10 years really is not that big of a difference. And as long as they are both consenting adults who cares
finneas is a baddie
Aka: im over her bad decisions and can only do so much 😂
10 year age gap is nothing. Its no big deal.
11 years between my husband and I. Met when I was 23 and he was 34 amd we've been together 15 years. If they are consenting adults and both happy then what does their age matter ?
His music is not shitty thank you very much
No one complained about Shakira marrying a guy 10 years younger than her, why is it a problem for her to date a man 10 years older than her?
It’s stupid to get mad because of an age gap literally my aunt and uncle have a thirteen year age gap.
I'm in crippling debt and my grades are less than terrible,why would I give a shit about who a celebrity is dating?
She’s a grown a** adult now, leave her to date who she wants.
right… but when she was 16 she dated a 21 year old and none of them cared either
What tiktok is that
He's JUST ten years older? Jeez! People. What's the age gaps between y'alls parents?
most people ik and my parents too have less than 2 years gap
@@my_cutsie_pootsie_channelmost people you know have a mom and a dad, but that doesn’t mean you get to judge someone with two dads or two moms… you homophobe
Wtf when did Billie turn 21? Where has time gone?
Here, we Stan Billie and finneas if u don’t like them there is the door 👉🚪
People need to sit down and worry about their own relationships...or lack thereof
My husband 20 years older than me. Sue us 😂
we stan Finneas
Thought they broke up...
People are mad because her boyfriend is ugly, if he was handsome no one would care.
10 years is nothing in the celebrity scene. Everyone's complaining about this, a fairly healthy relationship, when some of these couples are 20+ years apart. Stay out of people's lives.
It's just a number... Once somebody turns 18, if they want a date a 78-year-old That is 100% their business and no one else's... 10 years ain't shit, my grandma and grandpa were happily married 50+ years until he passed away and they were 15 years apart...
The only thing that matters is that they are both happy and that the relationship is healthy. I don't understand why people care so much about celebrity relationships anyway to be honest, it's so silly to try and butt your nose into someone else's personal business, Even if they are famous.
The only thing that matters is if he makes her happy and treats her right and with the respect she deserves. Heck I'm 23 years old and engaged to a 34 year old so there is nothing wrong with her dating someone who 10 years older than her
My friends mom is 37 and her step dad is 70.... who cares about age gaps there just a number
Dating sb 10 years older than you is dating sb that already went through steps of maturity. It's like dating sb from a other era. Like you are a child compared the the person
Anyway, everybody has to do their own trials I guess
10 year is F -all. Now, 15 years is a adjust baseball cap news. And 20 is Cap adjust with a pull your pants up. 25 is all those with mouth open. 30 or more you ignore all of those and just turn and barf.
There is nothing wrong with two adults dating.
It’s weird cause if you comment on other unordinary relationships, like 2 men/2 women, you get called “phobic” like you hate people. Yet they sit up here and judge two adults day in day out like they’re morally superior smh
There's something very wrong about this and him, him not his age.
10 years age gap is not okay? Am i missing something out here? I think thts very okay imo
Finneas stop being jealous your sisters music rocks your music well .... ... .....
Maybe they did it for fun. Press out of mind
Pedophelia is Pedophelia
If you think this is pedophelia, seek help.
Well this age like milk 💀💀
Maybe finneas can write a song for billie in a few years about how she was groomed.
Lmao 21 is not an adult
Lmao it is. The day you turn 18 you become an adult. And in many countries the age of consent is many years younger then that. You just simply have to mind your own business
@@mumintrollgoesawaawa16 some country in Europe under 21/22 for a man is illegal to marry for women 18/19,
@@jane4670 I’m sorry but I don’t understand what you’re trying to say. I think you mean it’s different from country to country which I agree with, but I’m not completely sure what you mean.
Where are the heavies in that first picture? She get a reduction?
Who cares I’m 27 and my man is 34 Billie can be with that 31 year old at 21 there’s nothing wrong with that gap at least it’s not a 40 year old man
She’s an adult lol
So true finneas
WoW
Imma about to trigger the comment section: age is just a number.
Jail is just a room
Finneas btw
*Than she
Who's billy eyelash
👍 👏
Okay I’m sorry my friend was 19 and got married to a 25 year old they met when he was 24 and she was 18 so please let me know why you guys can’t mind y’all business and not come after people. You do know that most parents have much bigger age gap before “this generation “
Who cares? He’s getting younger 🍑
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My parents are like 10 years apart and it’s not weird at all and they have stuff in common. People must not be aware of how incredibly immature men are and often match well with younger women 😂 as long as it’s two consenting adults it shouldn’t be a problem.
A 21 year old adult is naive and is literally a child, Being a 25 year old man he should’ve know that. Billie’s relationship is very weird and a 31 year old man dating girls 10 years younger than him is the weirdest part and people should put their energy on him and not billie
And you should know to mind your own fucking business. She’s an adult, she can choose ALL BY HERSELF
You stop being a child by the age of 19. She might be really young but she’s still a grown woman and can date whoever she wants.
Who cares
It is kinda gross
I'm 26 and my husband is 11 years older than me. We've been married almost 6 years and have 3 kids. Age is just a number (as long as the person is of age of course). She's a beautiful 21 year old who can make her own decisions. 🤍 I wish them the best!
Billie had difficulty to find somebody. It’s the course of fame. Yo never know if its real love. But with that guy, i see not the problem in the age. The problem is that he looks like a criminal. May Billie not learned yet, to go with a good guy. Like the most young lady, she fall in love with the baaaaad guy. Dudum du dud du dumm.. not good Billie .. not good