It’s not even giving tips on getting your own bread it’s just leeching off others which isn’t a problem but what’s gonna happen once you get too old who’s gonna be looking for her
@@GoUpSlim have this energy for your managers at work who are leaching off of your hard work so that they can put money into their pockets and pay you pennies in comparison to what you should be paid for the work that you’re doing. don’t worry about other men’s wives or girlfriends. worry about the areas of life that YOU’RE being leached off of lmaoo
She’s shown her neighborhood, you can tell her neighborhood is affluent. But she has said that he’s not super wealthy. He pays all the bills and funds her lifestyle. That’s all she required.
True. All these people are just lying on Shera. I followed Shera for years and she lives exactly how she said. Dee literally knows nothing about Shera. That woman has maids and is living her best life.
@@YoursTrulyRobhow is she scamming? she has always said she’s very upfront with the men she’s dated that she wants them to provide for her early in the relationship.
@@hiiiiiiiiii4081 why would she lie.. and you can literally apply that to ANYTHING on the internet. dee said in this video she prefers to date for love & not money, how do we know she’s telling the truth 😂 ? with that logic everything could be a lie
You’re right. Her house is very basic. She’s getting taken care of on a basic income. Like if you gonna play all these games, can you get luxury? Her life is not giving luxury. I mean look at her video quality. She’s def not living a good life, average at best. Nothing wrong with that, but you would think she would be doing better.
She has said countless times that you shouldn’t be greedy with it. She has also said that with RUclips and her various businesses they could definitely afford much more luxury together, but she’s not after greed or a luxurious lifestyle, and she’s not going to go 50/50 to achieve that even though she most definitely could if she wanted to contribute financially and be a provider. The point is to have someone who provides everything you and your children could ever need and so you can live in comfort, not for you to get greedy. She ALWAYS teaches to learn the concept of ENOUGH. Have enough and be content. It’s better to have a man who provides everything and who is a good example for your children even if that doesn’t mean you live in a luxurious sky high penthouse, than for you to be in a Gabrielle union situation or a Keke Palmer situation and have all that luxury.
“her life is not giving luxury” do you know her? she wanted a man to fund her life and pay all of her bills and that’s exactly what her husband does. she has never claimed to be the wealthiest but she doesn’t live in the gutter, she lives in a nice neighborhood with a nice house and car.
@@nanaesio.nyarkoh2858 playing all these games, allowing someone to cheat on you, letting an old man climb on top of you just to get your bills paid and nothing else is strange to me. If you’re going to go there, GO THERE. Not saying she gotta live in a mansion but from what I’m seeing, her house looks very dated. But hey if she’s happy then fine. It just seems like she’s putting in a lot and not getting as much back.
The thing about Shera is she believes in cheating back lol she actually tells women that if they main man ugly get them an attractive side piece for their other needs she also advocates for women who do get the ring to make sure their names on the will, insurance claim, also make sure the money they get while in the relationship is spent wisely so they won’t be left with nothing when it’s all said and done
Truth. She said cheat back. What these woman don't understand, Shera doesn't put her emotions in nothing, yet all these women in the comments are filtering her message through their emotions.
@bmgfrosty7089 first of all go learn how to spell and second we don't care. There is nothing toxic about what she's saying. Ya'll are realising that women are truly leaving Ya'll in the dust and it scares ya'll. When kittenheels Samuels was telling men to physically abuse their women, ya'll didn't call it toxic advice.
One huge downside is complacency. I’m a woman provided for by her husband, and trust me it’s easy for you to forget who you are and become codependent. You have to be more disciplined than a career woman in order to stay “leveled up”.
frr! i see too many women in these types of marriages getting complacent. i’m always side-eyeing them like 👀 girl, you better invest his money into YOUR OWN business and start making YOUR OWN money or find hobbies or just do something. i see how complacency can happen easily though.
Yes, being a housewife is a JOB. It's actually easier to be a career independent woman tbh. It's a calling and not for every woman. And it only works best if the man is 100 percent a provider and makes at least 200k plus...(250k for tristate), and that's the low end. He must provide you with some sort of money every month, like clockwork. I love being a housewife, but it's definitely not for the weak❤❤❤
there is protection in marriage always remember how you start isn't how you finish. she's using the lane that is producing results I bet you she is on a thin line with her husband it won't be such a win win if someone tries to play with her. lol! they'll see, she's bragging about getting him for his money lol she could be replaced...I work remote in real estate but it took me 1 year to secure this opportunity but with the help of my husband and son's they let me carve a lane. I come from a blessed upbringing but I was a stay at home wife and mom first then an opportunity found me. I'd say for a millennial family we're in our bag growing together. it's kind of fun and exhilerating and then there are moments of familiarity ppl call it boring but it's when life is day by day but I've found joy in the peace of that and then life picks up and we're traveling or celebrating. wishing you the best wifey enjoy it and keep praying and believing xo @blissedx
@@Blissedx let’s just not compare the two because to say it’s easier is a lie independent women have to do the same household work and a regular job. Just speak on what housewives endure rather then try to downplay the struggle of independent/working women. Both lives were chosen and have different struggles let’s not try to downgrade either struggle’s because you can’t properly equate the two with different issues.
@bmoore1908 I didn't mean to trigger you, but there is a reason why I said it's a bit easier because it can be. It's mentally easier to not have to depend on anyone financially and to be in total control of your life. Now the caveat comes in if you have children while being independent (by choice), then yes, that's where you ladies have it harder. However, the social acceptance and status you receive from being a high earning achiever as a woman in this modern day is the norm, which is what makes it a bit easier to deal with. Housewives tend to get stereotyped and disrespected by the public and even by their own family (excluding their husbands, of course)
the “pick-mesha” that Shera always talks about IS Shera. She is her, and her is she. The “dusty”she always hating on, is her husband. She’s projecting her OWN misery, dissatisfaction and regret. Sure a lot of the advise she gives is good, like “have boundaries”, “ask for what you want”, and “don’t be afraid to say no” are great pieces of advice, HOWEVER the projection, the covert self hate and witchcraft??? Chile….it’s just about time before people see through iher and someone does a 50 part expose on her like Reesa Teesa vs Legion.
I agree! She and her followers are the ultimate pick mes. I can't imagine dedicating your life to chasing males so desperately. Shera even supports women dating elderly geriatrics. Shera doesn't even care if he cheats. So she's happy with him bringing home HIV if it means she gets a pair of earrings made in China.
Shera claims she is transparent and upfront..but she isnt..least not 100%..if she was, shed be upfront on who her advice is really meant for....she should say "hey, my advice isnt for women who want to find genuine love, it isnt for women who want to be a mans peace, it isnt for women who want love a man fully, it itsnt for women wanting a genuine connection...who it is for is women who want to TARGET high value men, then drain their resources through manipulation and any other means possible".....cause that would what it would sound like if she was honest
She's creating pickmes. Those women are chasing men, pretending like they're going to "high end bars" solo just because. Like these dudes won't get why you're there by yourself. The 1st and 2nd time a rich man approached me, it was always totally random and unexpected. That's when I realized, there's no blueprint for this. She "bagged" a male heaux, a community peen, who only makes 70k a year. I don't listen to anyone whose results I don't want. It feels like her following is under a spell. This chick does all this work and didn't bag a dude ala Elon Musk? Man, get outta here.
She actually does say ALL of this except for the “draining” part. She doesn’t talk about draining the men, that would defeat her goal which is building up generational wealth. Her husband actually thanked her for pushing him to go higher. They’ve been married 18 years and have two beautiful children.
@@tossingpetals3079 she was also his side chick before she conned him into being marrying her..and lets just be real here, she didnt "push' him because she believed in him, wanted to see him do better because she loved him...she did it to elevate her own lifestyle...the fact that she can tell women ALL of that stuff you said she does say, and STILL follow her advice is down right pathetic and scary
@@carsonc29 “conned” him? Why do so many of you act as if men are these innocent little fragile darlings? HE was married and chasing after a VERY young woman. No culpability? She made sure her children were not born to men who adamantly oppose supporting their children. She made a point to stay FAR away from any men who refuse to protect and provide. Do you not see a horrible epidemic out here? She has stated MANY times that she definitely Loves her husband, they’ve been married for 18 years. I’ll end with this, when women are dragged through “Struggle Love,” heartbroken and their children toyed with they are told they “should’ve chosen better men.” However, when they seek waaaay better, they’re called “superficial gold diggers.” When they want to be left alone, they’re told they’re going to “die alone!” How about someone begin telling more men to protect and provide for their women and children and stop harming or abandoning them? Apparently women Love men or there wouldn’t be chance after chance given. Now women are tired of them and their children being victimized and getting the short end of the stick. By the way, SheRa NEVER talks about “tricking” sweet little unsuspecting men. It’s the men with money who are AFTER woman ANYWAY that she speaks about. “Refuse to let them use you up and drag you. If you’re going to be involved let them PROVIDE and PROTECT.” Men who don’t want to do this are EXTREMELY safe from the women she is speaking to. How this can be argued speaks to the state the world is in right now.
She telling women not to go in blind. Men cheat. They gonna cheat. Get something out of it. Why be heart broken and broke. Be smart about it. Can’t survive on love. Don’t be blindsided and stuck.
Wealthy people stay wealthy because they are smart with their money. Her husband isn't a flashy celebrity that gets things for free, rented, or borrowed for a flex pic. People are focused on her house but what is she getting when that man dies? He probably has more than what it seems. I don't think the woman is stupid.
They stay trying to find the dirt on her just because she be giving women tips to avoid dusties lol that frist woman is so hateful shes been hating on her from the beginning
@@1Individualist No such thing as karma. What's happening is that she is polarizing. If no one dislikes you no one loves you, outside of some family members.
Idc I find Shera so entertaining and funny at times. some stuff she says is actually smart other stuff I side eye. People need to stop depending on people on the internet for relationship advice 🤷🏽♀️
Shera has actually said you can save up the money he gives you or have him help you open up your own business, so you leave with something. Basically invest in you. So not completely co-dependent.
This sounds like completely bad advice to give somebody lmao. I get if people watch her for the lols but if actually take any of these people's advice seriously then u won't be a happy person
@laurenlilly100 if I remember correctly "so u not completely co dependent" was not there. If so, that's my B, I don't read well. But saying "so u leave with something" is like "I'm just using him for my own selfish gains". Thats the part I don't argee with. If u think me sayin that's bs, then it shows how closed off from reality u really r and we should take everybody who "gives advice" very
@Justinee116 I agree. I don't think everybody is cut out for that. But I do think that a lvl of transparency is needed. If this is how a person operates and is pulling someone along, then I see why so many dudes fall into redpill spaces. For me, I'm not cut out for that and if a woman was just using me like that I would be completely hurt. Get your money honestly. Don't use people (if they r ok with it then shoot for the stars lol)
1) Everyone’s preferences are different . Not everyone likes the modern build style that celebrities have . Some people prefer a nice suburban home, which in today’s economy, is hella expensive. Her home looks VERY sizable . 2) Her man works IT . 😭 I’m sure they can afford a trip to Bora Bora if they wanted to . Just because they prefer some places over others doesn’t mean they are less successful . 3) Rich and successful are different . He’s a successful man not a disgustingly rich man . Both, however, can provide . Just my opinions 🫶🏼 .
I saw that video with the kitchen and the same thought. The biggest problem with her vids is that they make the assumption there is a large supply of rich men to go around and that most men with money are dumb. Some women never stop to wonder what kind of self respecting man would stand in a house and watch his woman talk this way about him, and other men. The kind of man who would do that is one who knows she's lying 😂. Just as derrick janx god fearing wife sat in that house quiet knowing he was laying to women.
her advice is great for women who are looking for rappers and athletes..those are the guys that dont seem to have any $$ sense...men who obtained their $$ through hard work, generally arent dumb enough to fall for a woman who tries to use her advice
I've been seeing clips of Shera and other content creators react to her for the longest. I've yet to see this women display any actual real signs of happiness. It's like she's emotionally checked out and is now living in her own purgatory. Women should NEVER follow the advice of someone in this state.
I find Shera funny but I agree with you. There’s times where she talks about “loving money” but doesn’t seem like she loves it. It’s kinda sad that a lot of young girls are just choosing to go after money instead of both love and money (having standards isn’t bad).
But that works for her….what people need to realize is it works for her. Some people just lack emotions could be her personality or childhood trauma. Who knows, it could because she’s a witch or dabbles in it. I find her videos hilarious, some things she says makes sense, the rest is just jokes to me. Good luck to whoever is actually taking everything she says seriously…….. 😂😂😂
I agree with everything Dee said in this video 100%. I find it sad that some women just want someone else to take care of them and fund a lavish lifestyle like they’re a child living off of daddy’s money. Choosing being treated like shit and disposable for money that’s not yours is CRAZY. I’d rather be like the other girl in that one clip. Me and my man are stable both individually and separately while being happy and taking care of each other. And that’s not sunshine and rainbows, or unrealistic. That’s just what a good healthy relationship should be like 💀
no what’s sad is that so many women settle for men that will confidently ask for sex whenever but aren’t willing to provide anything for them. there will always be men willing to take care of women for as long as humanity goes on, because in most cases that’s their nature. some women see this and are taking advantage of the opportunity that’s there, i mean someone’s got to.
I mean if by your standard . This isn’t a video for you I mean you literally chose how you rather love and it a man who fit it . What she teaches .. you go based on what YOU REQUIRE . If you rather do that and feel morally better than other women find but this is a woman who not living for your acceptance she more freer than you 😂❤ . You literally had to shun her and it fine bevause she do the same unapologetically but one thing for sure she majority herself before she ever compare how other women decide to live she go based on her past and how she built it from They’re more than talking down on another woman and trying to feel good based on that . 😊I rather listen to her 😮💨
@@Kuriouskitty-mz3qx so youd rather listen to a female that doesnt teach you how to love a man and be his peace, only to finesse him for HIS resources any way possible? yeah, you as morally empty as she is if thats how you think
One thing I can say about Kevin was he was real and owned up to his mistakes in both his marriages. Said the first was his own fault and the second was he was tired of being a stepdad to kids that don’t respect him.
kevin wasnt real. he was bisexual & hid it & was portraying to be a high value man when really he owned zero property. he was a renter. with no assets & three failed marraiges as well as a deadbeat father to his blood children. nothing high value about him
Shera is a gem lmao. I dont always agree with her methods but you cant knock someone who has always been up front about their motives and we all see that it works for her lol.
I think it speaks volumes that so many people who talk about these topics can only speak on the extreme types of partners. Everyone either dates bums or money-hungry CEOs. What happened to dating other working people and living a comfortable lifestyle with occasional splurging on both of yall?
It's called social media and reality. When people find out that there are people who live life leisurely and don't have to work a 9-5 they naturally want it for themselves. Also inflation has destroyed the fabricated dream that is the middle class.
I’m with you Dee. I watched a few of her videos and the background aesthetic didn’t match her commentary and the message she was sending. I didn’t understand how she was preaching about “getting the bag” and being taken care of while living so basically. I’m still confused.
it's also good to mention that soul mates do exist but not for everyone. the world is never fair. just like some people are born rich and some poor, some with talent and some with not, people are born and destined for different blessings. I believe most of us have to compromise in love to different degrees. some of us are definitely unlucky and have no destined true love and some of us are super lucky and have a destined true love. just like literally every other blessing in the world. why would love be any different? to give up on love is different though. I understand the urge though because nothing is guaranteed in life even when you try your absolute best
Soul mates don't exist your just delusional. If you truly believed in that then you would have to be okay with the possibility that you are destined for failure.
Her candidness, which so many women admire, is her way of venting her frustration and resentment towards her simp of a husband. I'm certain she falls asleep wondering what it's like to share a bed with someone she's truly in love with, someone her own age. It's a longing she knows she'll never fulfill.
You think a conventionally attractive women who condones/advises cheating wouldn’t just find another young fine man on the side for emotional support/other things? If she wanted to, she would’ve, but it seems like that’s something she does not want. This sob story fan fiction means nothing. “A longing she will never fulfill” as if she wasn’t young & in love at one point lmaooo..falling in love and sleeping next to someone is the easier thing ever, it literally takes nothing
crazy cuz I know her through youtube from like 5- 8 years ago or so and she was just a witch doing witch things and now I see her on here and its crazy cuz I forgot about her. She got me introduced to chaos magick but always knew she had a weird sugar baby side to her too
Hilarious, I watched her years ago too but as an ASMR, kinda wholesome stay at home mom vibe channel. I was surprised when she popped back up as this "sprinkle sprinkle lady."
@@Mr.Rabot6688 you say this as if the holy icon (jesus himself) wasn’t out here practicing alchemy - turning water into wine and shi. being a psychic and giving out prophesies. boy bye 😭😂
@@Mr.Rabot6688 google the definition of psychic and clairvoyant (which is a psychic ability) - which means clear seeing - and then get back to me. because jesus was both of those things. he saw what other people couldn’t. and if you don’t know about people’s psychic abilities or intuition (whatever you want to call it) having differing stages of development then you’re just ignorant. clearly jesus didn’t need to develop his psychic abilities because he was the highest manifestation of god in human form. but if you’re going to sit here and say that you don’t believe that jesus was a strong clairvoyant (clear seeing), therefore making him all knowing, then that’s disrespectful. your bible shows so. which means that you don’t believe that he had the abilities that he had. which means that you don’t believe what the bible tells you about the man who your religion is based off of. that doesn’t sound very christian to me lmaoo
@@Mr.Rabot6688 and he was a doctor. he healed a blind man who everyone refused to help. he was a miracle healer. again - that story is in the bible. you claim to be a christian/a follower of the bible but you’re clearly not lmaooo
@@nayatarot777 A lot of y'all love following narcissists. You literally don't care that she changes up her persona to whatever is trendy and whatever will earn her money. She is NOT a SAHM living a rich lifestyle! She works more hours than career women with 9 to 5s who WFH and get paid 6 figures. Ask me how I know. :)
please touch grass and quit the dramatics lol. women within your tax bracket will not be going to you for a lavish lifestyle. the average civilian in these streets will not be chasing after your annual 36k. terror 😂
@@sumeya1923I’m sorry that you couldn’t respond to this person with compassion instead of hate. He has a legit fear of being used of what he does have and instead of reassuring him that it’s not true and maybe changing his opinion a little you’ve instead solidified his or her stance. Congratulations! You’ve succeeded in continuing toxic cycles.
unless you’re a wealthy man, what do you have to fear? you’re going to be in the category of an average man with average women. and the gold digging women won’t even be looking your way. your fear is irrational af. go outside and actually speak to and get to know women instead of learning about women that you don’t even know through a screen 😂😂
@@PersianTangelo THANK YOU 😂 the only women that i know who are getting taken care of (in my family and amongst acquaintances) are with WEALTHY men or men that make quite a bit more than the average man out here. the rest of them who aren’t in that category are footing the bills on almost everything. he needs to get offline and touch grass fr
Tech jobs pay really well but compared to a celebrity’s income or even a successful RUclipsr it falls short, also the guy is quite old so this just might be his luxury. Dee gets paid very well so her ideals of luxury would be on another level, my point is that based on what the individual has already experienced and I doubt this lady has such experiences
I fw Shera, she has always been honest about her values and how she ranks them so I dont see how this would be controversial, plus she funny and entertaining as hell😂 Sprankle sprankle chile😭 But nah this gotta be the best Dee rant yet, definitely agree with everything you said, Lord knows ima hopeful* romantic its just nice to hear from both sides of the coin and Shera is cutthroat
You don’t think it’s dangerous to prey on hurt young girls to try to manipulate use men for money and put them in dangerous domestic situations? You cross the wrong man over his money you won’t live to see money real talk
Yea I dont agree wit nun this woman say. She was funny sometimes but when I found out she was a side chick turned wife it all makes sense now. And she a WITCH!?? AW NAH.
Jasmine Guy wasn’t really working … we all hear about the struggles of a black actress. Her husband probably had a regular job, she was suing him for child support. They already had owed the government so yes I think she was struggling, different world royalties check was probably the largest portion of her income
I agree that the dark side needs to be brought up more. People act like "$$$" is the cure all variable that can turn a mediocre relationship into the best youve ever had, but there was recently a domestic violence case where a husband k*lled his wife and daughter then himself in an $8 million dollar home! Money at the end of the day can't buy love or happiness. And also I read in a comment that her man works in IT and it just has me wondering, if creators like Shera are out here saying "Why not get taken care of by men with $$$ for the rest of your life?" GIRL why not go into IT by yourself and BECOME the rich man that you speak of? I personally think you benefit a lot more because you have your OWN career, your OWN education, your OWN skillset, and your OWN resume that you can rely on with or without a partner so you don't have to follow all these miniscule rules just to hold someone down or keep them in the picture. I'm saying this as a girl in IT like yeah there's girls that do SW and have sugar daddies to get them thru the IT education but even then, it's better to have your OWN degree and certificate even if you end up meeting a guy and not using it, you know?
I think those backgrounds are just screen savers, maybe for her protection she doesn’t want anyone to see what her house looks like. Besides, even if she wasn’t actually taking her own advice, her advice is still gold
A witch? 😭😭😭 this is just an hot ass iconic mess and I support it because the viewers are the dummies 😭 if you gotta get relationship advice from someone on the internet and you don’t know anything about them then you deserve to have a failed relationship, Man or woman Keep doing what you’re doing sprinkle sprinkle 😂😂
Who cares 🤣 she’s happy, loved, and has beautiful daughters and a great life, I’d rather someone like her giving advice and take it with a grain of salt then women preaching to the young girls that they should be a pickmeisha.
I’ve never heard about this woman before but to every person out there in the world do what works for y’all and y’all’s relationship. If 50/50 works for you good if building together from the ground up then good for y’all. Do what works for YOU everyones situations and morals and relationships is different.
The sprinkle sprinkle woman is having fun, leading as many astray as possible and monetizing it. She understands her audience and uses her character to feed them and sell her product. Dee Shanell, when you said her videos seem old, they were giving 2013 vibes or something like that, then to find out that she started about 10 yrs ago speaks to how huge the divide between the older and younger people is. For a women to pass up all her female family members and their wisdom when it comes to relationships is because no-one listens to anyone older than them anymore and maybe they don't even have relationships with family members, so what happens, we all make the same mistakes that have been made for 10's of years. The fact that you think 10 years ago is an "old" video is strange to me, but quite a normal thought today. My granny was born in 1935, her mom was born 1909, her mom was born 1870, which to me, someone whose interests lie in knowing my-story, seems like yesterday, once you start digging into the origins of your own family. Again, the sprinkle lady understands her audience, a portion of women who are very disconnected from the females in their families who have myriad experiences and wisdom to offer, which would require them to light their candle in older family members. Do the right thing.
Her Witch channel just as old as the "level up" channel, If you're a Christian girlie be on your way and stay prayed up for the next 20-30 years of your singlehood.
Yall shes living her truth. And that’s something you guys cant continue to get upset with. It’s HER life. She projects yes, . But she’s not the law. Take what applies and mold it how you need to. Not everything she says I agree with. However some of her advice is very true. We give our bodies up for free and get played all the time. And don’t let them work for anything. Give men everything without THE RING or the title. Not everything she says is hell but take everything with a grain of salt. And some of her advice has helped me ALOT
Not every woman is giving away her body for free. You act like if a woman is not having sex with an old man, she’s somewhere sleeping with a dusty for free. There are women who have self worth and good Christian values who also marry men who provide and protect them. For an old man to chase a girl he can be a father to, it means he’s sleazy and go to the hospital and ask the nurses how many of those man have herpes and hiv. If you’re going to go down that road, know that you’ll most definitely catch something eventually. Besides, James was married and had a side chick when Shera settled for him. Is that the man to choose as a father to your kids? There are women whose husbands aren’t old sleaze bags and these men also have a moral code. If you think all men are awful and you just need to settle for a rich, awful one, it shows your scarcity mindset. There are moral men who can still provide. You don’t need to settle for an old man with worms on his d
My problem with the "allowing" cheating is you basically cant trust him enough to not cheat but you can trust him enough to use a condom... doesnt make logical sense not happening trust is trust if they lie a little they will lie a lot arrivaderci to that is what i say 😂
That's because the men you're used to dealing with don't care about their health. You can't say it's not true because people can only think from their own reality. I'm a man btw.
@@encouraginglyauthentic43 Nothing to do with me at all its about the women in the video where the woman "allows" her man to cheat because "a man will cheat anyway, so just allow him" ...and then says she "trusts" that he will use a condom... a man you can't even trust just to not cheat on you... idk but a man i cant trust to simply not cheat is not a man i will trust with anything
@TooSharpENT the men we prefer to date dont call property, “crib”. & u would first have to own a property to be able to throw someone out, go get your money up & work towards that 💖 guarantee u dont own a home, you have the lingo of a renter 💀
OMG. I can't believe she is famous. Lol. We used to debate each other on Facebook back in the day. This is hilarious. Yeah, she really does believe all that. shes speaks on. She's not making it up. Her arguments have never changed. I can vouch for that.
A financial advisor looking to manipulate and use others to help gain what she wants is not a wise move and doesn’t give somebody long term stability. Lmao
Lollol so there’s nothing wrong with controlling a man’s mind with evil spirits (that will turn on her eventually) if you can’t find a man? That’s playing with your life.
I know this is off topic but didn't dee say before in the past when watching the art video that she wanted to start painting or making art did she just give up on it like singing
I’m sorry the lady with the white headphones is the problem with women in this world she is clearly in her masculine energy and that stand off nasty attitude is why she’s jealous of what sheera has
Honestly just seeing her on my TL i never really believed anything she said. Like most of her "advice" is so far fetched even in this video where shes talking about the ATM "trick" like i doubt that would work on any sane person. I think she dated this man that is was doing better than her shes obviously funny and decided to make content that isn't necessarily authentic. even through this video i agree with dee saying her life doesn't even seem lavish. She just seems liike a regular degular woman that saw men having these crazy takes and decided to do the same thing.
dee have you ever actually dated a millionaire? cause ur mindframe sounds like what average men feel about this topic. i actually date millionaires & one of my exes who plays for the sixers told me he doesn’t mind if a woman is a golddigger & doesn’t mind giving her a lot of his money as long as “shes beautiful & he gets to sleep with her”. the only men who actually have a problem with or worry about golddiggers seem to be the men with zero gold 💖 that ex took care of me financially for yearsss with no issue
And where is he now? Lol he’s an ex for a reason apparently. The millionaires I’ve dated were god awful. I choose to get it myself, and not depend on a man to take care of me babes. It infantilizes us and puts us in such a vulnerable, dependent position. It’s not a flex to be in that role, imo
kevin samuels had results. why get married again, as a man, when u tried that? most of them arent worth it. he already has kids, so theres no point. he told men when not to get married too.
These women want to be independent and wanna leave all traditional roles , but we’re supposed to stick to ours and be the providers. Fuck out of here let them kick rocks.😂 drizzle drizzle
she’s never claimed to be a relationship guru and that’s why i don’t mind her. she’s always honest about the bag being the goal.
No fr she literally says don't take her for relationships advice just advice on how to get to the money 😂
It’s not even giving tips on getting your own bread it’s just leeching off others which isn’t a problem but what’s gonna happen once you get too old who’s gonna be looking for her
she calls herself a financial advisor 😭 that’s how you know she’s not with the relationship goals. she’s with the financial goals 💀
@@panashe5268 fr what kinda goofy shit Is they saying 'she tells ppl to leach off others and that's ok' like wtf💀
@@GoUpSlim have this energy for your managers at work who are leaching off of your hard work so that they can put money into their pockets and pay you pennies in comparison to what you should be paid for the work that you’re doing. don’t worry about other men’s wives or girlfriends. worry about the areas of life that YOU’RE being leached off of lmaoo
She’s shown her neighborhood, you can tell her neighborhood is affluent. But she has said that he’s not super wealthy. He pays all the bills and funds her lifestyle. That’s all she required.
True. All these people are just lying on Shera. I followed Shera for years and she lives exactly how she said. Dee literally knows nothing about Shera. That woman has maids and is living her best life.
So she’s a dustisha 😂🤣
she always says she is a financial advisor, not a relationship advisor
😂😂 financial advisor more like a scammer
@@YoursTrulyRobhow is she scamming? she has always said she’s very upfront with the men she’s dated that she wants them to provide for her early in the relationship.
@@benshapiro11how do yall know FOR CERTAIN that she is telling the WHOLE truth?? That’s where the scamming comes into play
@@hiiiiiiiiii4081 why would she lie.. and you can literally apply that to ANYTHING on the internet. dee said in this video she prefers to date for love & not money, how do we know she’s telling the truth 😂 ? with that logic everything could be a lie
@@hiiiiiiiiii4081chile she ain't requiring no money from viewers, nothing to lose and no risk
"it was like brown cabinets, no shade" *me looking at dee because I got brown cabinets* LMAOOOO
Reminds me of "white refrigerator" lol
😂😂😂😂 dang
😂😂😂
I think she was trying to say, outdated 😂.
You’re right. Her house is very basic. She’s getting taken care of on a basic income. Like if you gonna play all these games, can you get luxury? Her life is not giving luxury. I mean look at her video quality. She’s def not living a good life, average at best. Nothing wrong with that, but you would think she would be doing better.
I LITERALLY THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY PERSON WHO NOTICED THAT
She has said countless times that you shouldn’t be greedy with it. She has also said that with RUclips and her various businesses they could definitely afford much more luxury together, but she’s not after greed or a luxurious lifestyle, and she’s not going to go 50/50 to achieve that even though she most definitely could if she wanted to contribute financially and be a provider. The point is to have someone who provides everything you and your children could ever need and so you can live in comfort, not for you to get greedy. She ALWAYS teaches to learn the concept of ENOUGH. Have enough and be content. It’s better to have a man who provides everything and who is a good example for your children even if that doesn’t mean you live in a luxurious sky high penthouse, than for you to be in a Gabrielle union situation or a Keke Palmer situation and have all that luxury.
“her life is not giving luxury” do you know her? she wanted a man to fund her life and pay all of her bills and that’s exactly what her husband does. she has never claimed to be the wealthiest but she doesn’t live in the gutter, she lives in a nice neighborhood with a nice house and car.
I like how you focus on the fact that she's a fraud for not being able to scam out of more money. You're worse than her
@@nanaesio.nyarkoh2858 playing all these games, allowing someone to cheat on you, letting an old man climb on top of you just to get your bills paid and nothing else is strange to me. If you’re going to go there, GO THERE. Not saying she gotta live in a mansion but from what I’m seeing, her house looks very dated. But hey if she’s happy then fine. It just seems like she’s putting in a lot and not getting as much back.
The thing about Shera is she believes in cheating back lol she actually tells women that if they main man ugly get them an attractive side piece for their other needs she also advocates for women who do get the ring to make sure their names on the will, insurance claim, also make sure the money they get while in the relationship is spent wisely so they won’t be left with nothing when it’s all said and done
Sounds like a recipe for being on the first 48. Playing with someone’s money can lead to death
Truth. She said cheat back. What these woman don't understand, Shera doesn't put her emotions in nothing, yet all these women in the comments are filtering her message through their emotions.
@bmgfrosty7089 first of all go learn how to spell and second we don't care. There is nothing toxic about what she's saying. Ya'll are realising that women are truly leaving Ya'll in the dust and it scares ya'll. When kittenheels Samuels was telling men to physically abuse their women, ya'll didn't call it toxic advice.
One huge downside is complacency. I’m a woman provided for by her husband, and trust me it’s easy for you to forget who you are and become codependent. You have to be more disciplined than a career woman in order to stay “leveled up”.
frr! i see too many women in these types of marriages getting complacent. i’m always side-eyeing them like 👀 girl, you better invest his money into YOUR OWN business and start making YOUR OWN money or find hobbies or just do something. i see how complacency can happen easily though.
Yes, being a housewife is a JOB. It's actually easier to be a career independent woman tbh.
It's a calling and not for every woman. And it only works best if the man is 100 percent a provider and makes at least 200k plus...(250k for tristate), and that's the low end. He must provide you with some sort of money every month, like clockwork.
I love being a housewife, but it's definitely not for the weak❤❤❤
there is protection in marriage always remember how you start isn't how you finish. she's using the lane that is producing results I bet you she is on a thin line with her husband it won't be such a win win if someone tries to play with her. lol! they'll see, she's bragging about getting him for his money lol she could be replaced...I work remote in real estate but it took me 1 year to secure this opportunity but with the help of my husband and son's they let me carve a lane. I come from a blessed upbringing but I was a stay at home wife and mom first then an opportunity found me. I'd say for a millennial family we're in our bag growing together. it's kind of fun and exhilerating and then there are moments of familiarity ppl call it boring but it's when life is day by day but I've found joy in the peace of that and then life picks up and we're traveling or celebrating. wishing you the best wifey enjoy it and keep praying and believing xo @blissedx
@@Blissedx let’s just not compare the two because to say it’s easier is a lie independent women have to do the same household work and a regular job. Just speak on what housewives endure rather then try to downplay the struggle of independent/working women. Both lives were chosen and have different struggles let’s not try to downgrade either struggle’s because you can’t properly equate the two with different issues.
@bmoore1908 I didn't mean to trigger you, but there is a reason why I said it's a bit easier because it can be. It's mentally easier to not have to depend on anyone financially and to be in total control of your life. Now the caveat comes in if you have children while being independent (by choice), then yes, that's where you ladies have it harder.
However, the social acceptance and status you receive from being a high earning achiever as a woman in this modern day is the norm, which is what makes it a bit easier to deal with. Housewives tend to get stereotyped and disrespected by the public and even by their own family (excluding their husbands, of course)
the “pick-mesha” that Shera always talks about IS Shera. She is her, and her is she. The “dusty”she always hating on, is her husband. She’s projecting her OWN misery, dissatisfaction and regret. Sure a lot of the advise she gives is good, like “have boundaries”, “ask for what you want”, and “don’t be afraid to say no” are great pieces of advice, HOWEVER the projection, the covert self hate and witchcraft??? Chile….it’s just about time before people see through iher and someone does a 50 part expose on her like Reesa Teesa vs Legion.
I can easily frame you as projecting on her, you see how stupid your take is?
I agree! She and her followers are the ultimate pick mes. I can't imagine dedicating your life to chasing males so desperately. Shera even supports women dating elderly geriatrics. Shera doesn't even care if he cheats. So she's happy with him bringing home HIV if it means she gets a pair of earrings made in China.
Shera claims she is transparent and upfront..but she isnt..least not 100%..if she was, shed be upfront on who her advice is really meant for....she should say "hey, my advice isnt for women who want to find genuine love, it isnt for women who want to be a mans peace, it isnt for women who want love a man fully, it itsnt for women wanting a genuine connection...who it is for is women who want to TARGET high value men, then drain their resources through manipulation and any other means possible".....cause that would what it would sound like if she was honest
She's creating pickmes. Those women are chasing men, pretending like they're going to "high end bars" solo just because. Like these dudes won't get why you're there by yourself. The 1st and 2nd time a rich man approached me, it was always totally random and unexpected. That's when I realized, there's no blueprint for this. She "bagged" a male heaux, a community peen, who only makes 70k a year. I don't listen to anyone whose results I don't want. It feels like her following is under a spell. This chick does all this work and didn't bag a dude ala Elon Musk? Man, get outta here.
She actually does say ALL of this except for the “draining” part. She doesn’t talk about draining the men, that would defeat her goal which is building up generational wealth. Her husband actually thanked her for pushing him to go higher. They’ve been married 18 years and have two beautiful children.
@@tossingpetals3079 she was also his side chick before she conned him into being marrying her..and lets just be real here, she didnt "push' him because she believed in him, wanted to see him do better because she loved him...she did it to elevate her own lifestyle...the fact that she can tell women ALL of that stuff you said she does say, and STILL follow her advice is down right pathetic and scary
@@carsonc29 “conned” him? Why do so many of you act as if men are these innocent little fragile darlings? HE was married and chasing after a VERY young woman. No culpability? She made sure her children were not born to men who adamantly oppose supporting their children. She made a point to stay FAR away from any men who refuse to protect and provide. Do you not see a horrible epidemic out here? She has stated MANY times that she definitely Loves her husband, they’ve been married for 18 years. I’ll end with this, when women are dragged through “Struggle Love,” heartbroken and their children toyed with they are told they “should’ve chosen better men.” However, when they seek waaaay better, they’re called “superficial gold diggers.” When they want to be left alone, they’re told they’re going to “die alone!” How about someone begin telling more men to protect and provide for their women and children and stop harming or abandoning them? Apparently women Love men or there wouldn’t be chance after chance given. Now women are tired of them and their children being victimized and getting the short end of the stick. By the way, SheRa NEVER talks about “tricking” sweet little unsuspecting men. It’s the men with money who are AFTER woman ANYWAY that she speaks about. “Refuse to let them use you up and drag you. If you’re going to be involved let them PROVIDE and PROTECT.” Men who don’t want to do this are EXTREMELY safe from the women she is speaking to. How this can be argued speaks to the state the world is in right now.
@@tossingpetals3079 oh he was definitely in the wrong for doing what he did..BUT, she could have walked away..but didnt
They need to leave this lady alone, she didn’t even ask for all of this 😂 she just want her platform to talk her talk
Defending your goddess?
Dee is so pretty. I'm sitting here trying to listen like, "Dee really is so beautiful." Awww
Right like let’s talk about it she’s stunning, her body is tea, and she gets money and her legal team don’t play
@@MrMan-vn7rg Emphasis on the legal representation!!
@@MrMan-vn7rg i love how her legal team is now just one of her many valuable traits as a person 😭😭 period. miss lawyered-up-shanell 💅🏾
Me too. The way she just looks at her computer as she’s listening lol. What a cutie she is
She telling women not to go in blind. Men cheat. They gonna cheat. Get something out of it. Why be heart broken and broke. Be smart about it. Can’t survive on love. Don’t be blindsided and stuck.
You assuming me will dry ass cheat because of your past is definitely going on BLIND 🤣💀
If that’s what u truly think that’s sad
@@andrianminer8711 proofread this comment. Retype it.
@@Yxng2tone it is. It’s sad that so many men has done this to females for present females to take precautions in today’s society.
@@lucretiashana I ain’t retyping shit this ain’t Harvard you know what I meant
Wealthy people stay wealthy because they are smart with their money. Her husband isn't a flashy celebrity that gets things for free, rented, or borrowed for a flex pic. People are focused on her house but what is she getting when that man dies? He probably has more than what it seems. I don't think the woman is stupid.
I agree
Bingo! People are just so used to the IG flexing nowadays 😂
They stay trying to find the dirt on her just because she be giving women tips to avoid dusties lol that frist woman is so hateful shes been hating on her from the beginning
Giving women tips that will lead them nowhere but looking stupid😂.
Thats how karma works you give out bad energy ppl hunt you.
@@1Individualist No such thing as karma.
What's happening is that she is polarizing. If no one dislikes you no one loves you, outside of some family members.
@@encouraginglyauthentic43 Karma
@@1Individualist Just said there is no such thing as karma, but you can stay delusional.
This is why we love dee she keeps it real and cuts through the noise
Idc I find Shera so entertaining and funny at times. some stuff she says is actually smart other stuff I side eye. People need to stop depending on people on the internet for relationship advice 🤷🏽♀️
generic comment from a generic girl
@@garden_dork dusty reply from a dusty boy
@@mikarosey Sad that your parents raised you to regurgitate buzzwords, maybe you should take a butt shot for the gram to make you feel better
can you share some examples of her advice that you've given the side eye to?
Thank you take EVERYONES advice with a grain of salt
I just love that she’s upfront, she never lies about her intentions and she’s totally honest about who her advice is for.
She lies alright.... To u women.... Geez.... you'd almost have to go to college to be this dense.... 100$ a pop.. she scraping y'all 😂
Yea... she's reeeeeeaaaaalll honest alright 😂😂😂😂😂😂
"Well at least she's honest". That sets a really low bar.
@@GullibleTarget does it? Because not everyone can be honest about their intentions when it comes to relationships
@malakhi3836 I can be upfront saying I'm short tempered and a woman beater. But as long as I'm honest about it than it's justified
Shera has actually said you can save up the money he gives you or have him help you open up your own business, so you leave with something. Basically invest in you. So not completely co-dependent.
This sounds like completely bad advice to give somebody lmao. I get if people watch her for the lols but if actually take any of these people's advice seriously then u won't be a happy person
@@brandond1947 It depends on what a person wants. If their goal is money, then well, it is what it is. Not everyone is cut out for it.
@@brandond1947How is that a bad advice so you rather the person be completely codependent and have nothing for themselves like please stop the bs 🙄
@laurenlilly100 if I remember correctly "so u not completely co dependent" was not there. If so, that's my B, I don't read well. But saying "so u leave with something" is like "I'm just using him for my own selfish gains". Thats the part I don't argee with. If u think me sayin that's bs, then it shows how closed off from reality u really r and we should take everybody who "gives advice" very
@Justinee116 I agree. I don't think everybody is cut out for that. But I do think that a lvl of transparency is needed. If this is how a person operates and is pulling someone along, then I see why so many dudes fall into redpill spaces. For me, I'm not cut out for that and if a woman was just using me like that I would be completely hurt. Get your money honestly. Don't use people (if they r ok with it then shoot for the stars lol)
2:29 not Dee actually taking notes 😂😂
1) Everyone’s preferences are different . Not everyone likes the modern build style that celebrities have . Some people prefer a nice suburban home, which in today’s economy, is hella expensive. Her home looks VERY sizable .
2) Her man works IT . 😭 I’m sure they can afford a trip to Bora Bora if they wanted to . Just because they prefer some places over others doesn’t mean they are less successful .
3) Rich and successful are different . He’s a successful man not a disgustingly rich man . Both, however, can provide .
Just my opinions 🫶🏼 .
Him workng IT is just = middle class. He is not a CEO or VP..
@@Bubbles-qh7ez He could work a high paying job like a neurosurgeon.
Being a CEO doesn't mean upper class either.
@@encouraginglyauthentic43 The girl said IT, but you imagined neurosurgeon. The delusion is insane with y'all Shera followers.
@@NovaPrincess I thought they said, "it" in caps
Lmaooo I love Shera, making me laugh with her sprinkle sprinkle and dusties 😂
I saw that video with the kitchen and the same thought. The biggest problem with her vids is that they make the assumption there is a large supply of rich men to go around and that most men with money are dumb. Some women never stop to wonder what kind of self respecting man would stand in a house and watch his woman talk this way about him, and other men. The kind of man who would do that is one who knows she's lying 😂. Just as derrick janx god fearing wife sat in that house quiet knowing he was laying to women.
her advice is great for women who are looking for rappers and athletes..those are the guys that dont seem to have any $$ sense...men who obtained their $$ through hard work, generally arent dumb enough to fall for a woman who tries to use her advice
SHES FUNNY ASF 😭
Even tho the house not everything her goal is to never work again and send her husbands money finically free
She works HARD AF on youtube. She works harder than women with actual 9 to 5s. Shera is a working woman, not the free SAHM she claims to be.
I've been seeing clips of Shera and other content creators react to her for the longest. I've yet to see this women display any actual real signs of happiness. It's like she's emotionally checked out and is now living in her own purgatory. Women should NEVER follow the advice of someone in this state.
I find Shera funny but I agree with you. There’s times where she talks about “loving money” but doesn’t seem like she loves it. It’s kinda sad that a lot of young girls are just choosing to go after money instead of both love and money (having standards isn’t bad).
But that works for her….what people need to realize is it works for her. Some people just lack emotions could be her personality or childhood trauma. Who knows, it could because she’s a witch or dabbles in it. I find her videos hilarious, some things she says makes sense, the rest is just jokes to me.
Good luck to whoever is actually taking everything she says seriously…….. 😂😂😂
@@AllAboutPurple That's the thing. A lot of women are taking her seriously.
shes just bitter and feeding other bitter women what they want to hear. i guess thats easier than doing the work to heal.
Watch her actual videos and see for yourself
I agree with everything Dee said in this video 100%. I find it sad that some women just want someone else to take care of them and fund a lavish lifestyle like they’re a child living off of daddy’s money. Choosing being treated like shit and disposable for money that’s not yours is CRAZY. I’d rather be like the other girl in that one clip. Me and my man are stable both individually and separately while being happy and taking care of each other. And that’s not sunshine and rainbows, or unrealistic. That’s just what a good healthy relationship should be like 💀
no what’s sad is that so many women settle for men that will confidently ask for sex whenever but aren’t willing to provide anything for them. there will always be men willing to take care of women for as long as humanity goes on, because in most cases that’s their nature. some women see this and are taking advantage of the opportunity that’s there, i mean someone’s got to.
I mean if by your standard . This isn’t a video for you I mean you literally chose how you rather love and it a man who fit it . What she teaches .. you go based on what YOU REQUIRE . If you rather do that and feel morally better than other women find but this is a woman who not living for your acceptance she more freer than you 😂❤ . You literally had to shun her and it fine bevause she do the same unapologetically but one thing for sure she majority herself before she ever compare how other women decide to live she go based on her past and how she built it from
They’re more than talking down on another woman and trying to feel good based on that . 😊I rather listen to her 😮💨
I agree! There is not difference between what 'Ashera' says and prostitution.
@@Kuriouskitty-mz3qx so youd rather listen to a female that doesnt teach you how to love a man and be his peace, only to finesse him for HIS resources any way possible? yeah, you as morally empty as she is if thats how you think
@@NovaPrincess there really isnt....she is teaching women to be professional 304s
One thing I can say about Kevin was he was real and owned up to his mistakes in both his marriages. Said the first was his own fault and the second was he was tired of being a stepdad to kids that don’t respect him.
kevin wasnt real. he was bisexual & hid it & was portraying to be a high value man when really he owned zero property. he was a renter. with no assets & three failed marraiges as well as a deadbeat father to his blood children. nothing high value about him
Shera is a gem lmao. I dont always agree with her methods but you cant knock someone who has always been up front about their motives and we all see that it works for her lol.
I think it speaks volumes that so many people who talk about these topics can only speak on the extreme types of partners. Everyone either dates bums or money-hungry CEOs.
What happened to dating other working people and living a comfortable lifestyle with occasional splurging on both of yall?
It's called social media and reality.
When people find out that there are people who live life leisurely and don't have to work a 9-5 they naturally want it for themselves.
Also inflation has destroyed the fabricated dream that is the middle class.
I’m with you Dee. I watched a few of her videos and the background aesthetic didn’t match her commentary and the message she was sending. I didn’t understand how she was preaching about “getting the bag” and being taken care of while living so basically. I’m still confused.
Why did I go look for the video of the brown cabinets 😂 the black appliances is definitely not giving high end
it's also good to mention that soul mates do exist but not for everyone. the world is never fair. just like some people are born rich and some poor, some with talent and some with not, people are born and destined for different blessings. I believe most of us have to compromise in love to different degrees. some of us are definitely unlucky and have no destined true love and some of us are super lucky and have a destined true love. just like literally every other blessing in the world. why would love be any different? to give up on love is different though. I understand the urge though because nothing is guaranteed in life even when you try your absolute best
Soul mates don't exist your just delusional.
If you truly believed in that then you would have to be okay with the possibility that you are destined for failure.
She's cool and I'm saying this as a man.
Shera is the auntie I always wanted 😭
dee commentary elevated this video to 100% HAHAHHAHAHAHH
I’ve been watching dee since like 2020 , and i have NEVER disagreed with her . Dee shannel is probably the sanest person I’ve heard speak
Her candidness, which so many women admire, is her way of venting her frustration and resentment towards her simp of a husband. I'm certain she falls asleep wondering what it's like to share a bed with someone she's truly in love with, someone her own age. It's a longing she knows she'll never fulfill.
You think a conventionally attractive women who condones/advises cheating wouldn’t just find another young fine man on the side for emotional support/other things? If she wanted to, she would’ve, but it seems like that’s something she does not want. This sob story fan fiction means nothing.
“A longing she will never fulfill” as if she wasn’t young & in love at one point lmaooo..falling in love and sleeping next to someone is the easier thing ever, it literally takes nothing
in a society full of Summer Walker’s and Cardi b’s, Shera is needed lmao.
How in the world is she better? 😂
Damn I wish we could watch some of her funniest clips, this lady is hilarious🤣🤣
There’s a middle ground but some women do not want to settle for “middle ground” this shouldn’t effect you
crazy cuz I know her through youtube from like 5- 8 years ago or so and she was just a witch doing witch things and now I see her on here and its crazy cuz I forgot about her. She got me introduced to chaos magick but always knew she had a weird sugar baby side to her too
Hilarious, I watched her years ago too but as an ASMR, kinda wholesome stay at home mom vibe channel. I was surprised when she popped back up as this "sprinkle sprinkle lady."
@@Mr.Rabot6688 you say this as if the holy icon (jesus himself) wasn’t out here practicing alchemy - turning water into wine and shi. being a psychic and giving out prophesies. boy bye 😭😂
@@Mr.Rabot6688 google the definition of psychic and clairvoyant (which is a psychic ability) - which means clear seeing - and then get back to me. because jesus was both of those things. he saw what other people couldn’t. and if you don’t know about people’s psychic abilities or intuition (whatever you want to call it) having differing stages of development then you’re just ignorant. clearly jesus didn’t need to develop his psychic abilities because he was the highest manifestation of god in human form. but if you’re going to sit here and say that you don’t believe that jesus was a strong clairvoyant (clear seeing), therefore making him all knowing, then that’s disrespectful. your bible shows so. which means that you don’t believe that he had the abilities that he had. which means that you don’t believe what the bible tells you about the man who your religion is based off of. that doesn’t sound very christian to me lmaoo
@@Mr.Rabot6688 and he was a doctor. he healed a blind man who everyone refused to help. he was a miracle healer. again - that story is in the bible. you claim to be a christian/a follower of the bible but you’re clearly not lmaooo
@@nayatarot777 A lot of y'all love following narcissists. You literally don't care that she changes up her persona to whatever is trendy and whatever will earn her money. She is NOT a SAHM living a rich lifestyle! She works more hours than career women with 9 to 5s who WFH and get paid 6 figures. Ask me how I know. :)
Would she even care about being a side chick? She's there for the money 😂😂😂😂
What money she’s broke if she had money she wouldn’t be needing superchats off RUclips
but they keep saying she a girls girl, you can't be that and be a side chick
When Dee took out the pen😂😂😂😂😂 Took tf out
Yes, their is definitely a middle ground their not only 2 options
Dee, you such a real one. Dead ass be healing the terror I have towards dating women because of all this crazy shit online.
please touch grass and quit the dramatics lol. women within your tax bracket will not be going to you for a lavish lifestyle. the average civilian in these streets will not be chasing after your annual 36k. terror 😂
@@sumeya1923I’m sorry that you couldn’t respond to this person with compassion instead of hate. He has a legit fear of being used of what he does have and instead of reassuring him that it’s not true and maybe changing his opinion a little you’ve instead solidified his or her stance. Congratulations! You’ve succeeded in continuing toxic cycles.
Look 90% of men have no money. No one is into you for your 25k
unless you’re a wealthy man, what do you have to fear? you’re going to be in the category of an average man with average women. and the gold digging women won’t even be looking your way. your fear is irrational af. go outside and actually speak to and get to know women instead of learning about women that you don’t even know through a screen 😂😂
@@PersianTangelo THANK YOU 😂 the only women that i know who are getting taken care of (in my family and amongst acquaintances) are with WEALTHY men or men that make quite a bit more than the average man out here. the rest of them who aren’t in that category are footing the bills on almost everything. he needs to get offline and touch grass fr
Tech jobs pay really well but compared to a celebrity’s income or even a successful RUclipsr it falls short, also the guy is quite old so this just might be his luxury. Dee gets paid very well so her ideals of luxury would be on another level, my point is that based on what the individual has already experienced and I doubt this lady has such experiences
Not the dog shxt out of his mistresses 🤣
I swear you learn something new everyday! I've never heard of any of this or this woman 🤯
I fw Shera, she has always been honest about her values and how she ranks them so I dont see how this would be controversial, plus she funny and entertaining as hell😂 Sprankle sprankle chile😭
But nah this gotta be the best Dee rant yet, definitely agree with everything you said, Lord knows ima hopeful* romantic its just nice to hear from both sides of the coin and Shera is cutthroat
You don’t think it’s dangerous to prey on hurt young girls to try to manipulate use men for money and put them in dangerous domestic situations? You cross the wrong man over his money you won’t live to see money real talk
I love Shera and her videos. I don’t put too much into what she’s saying it’s all entertainment.
She speaks on the ups, what she’s use to. ✨
I agree, I couldn't live like that
By 23 24 you know the love shit dead lol marriage is definitely a business and tamron is a terrible interviewer.
Yea I dont agree wit nun this woman say. She was funny sometimes but when I found out she was a side chick turned wife it all makes sense now. And she a WITCH!?? AW NAH.
She levelled all the way up. 😊
Pickmeisha
@@kaylaleave I kno u are
@@Cameo96_ youre gonna be a side chick for free anyways
Jasmine Guy wasn’t really working … we all hear about the struggles of a black actress. Her husband probably had a regular job, she was suing him for child support. They already had owed the government so yes I think she was struggling, different world royalties check was probably the largest portion of her income
I agree that the dark side needs to be brought up more. People act like "$$$" is the cure all variable that can turn a mediocre relationship into the best youve ever had, but there was recently a domestic violence case where a husband k*lled his wife and daughter then himself in an $8 million dollar home! Money at the end of the day can't buy love or happiness.
And also I read in a comment that her man works in IT and it just has me wondering, if creators like Shera are out here saying "Why not get taken care of by men with $$$ for the rest of your life?" GIRL why not go into IT by yourself and BECOME the rich man that you speak of? I personally think you benefit a lot more because you have your OWN career, your OWN education, your OWN skillset, and your OWN resume that you can rely on with or without a partner so you don't have to follow all these miniscule rules just to hold someone down or keep them in the picture. I'm saying this as a girl in IT like yeah there's girls that do SW and have sugar daddies to get them thru the IT education but even then, it's better to have your OWN degree and certificate even if you end up meeting a guy and not using it, you know?
Because she wants to live leisurely.
i love her idc what anyone says
I think those backgrounds are just screen savers, maybe for her protection she doesn’t want anyone to see what her house looks like. Besides, even if she wasn’t actually taking her own advice, her advice is still gold
The problem with "reality of the world" is, we're not making any improvements whatsoever. Congrats
A witch? 😭😭😭 this is just an hot ass iconic mess and I support it because the viewers are the dummies 😭 if you gotta get relationship advice from someone on the internet and you don’t know anything about them then you deserve to have a failed relationship, Man or woman
Keep doing what you’re doing sprinkle sprinkle 😂😂
So right, but then, I figured out that all opinions on the internet are from losers who have time to make an account 😂😂😂
You say this like you're not the average person who won't end up forgotten.
Who cares 🤣 she’s happy, loved, and has beautiful daughters and a great life, I’d rather someone like her giving advice and take it with a grain of salt then women preaching to the young girls that they should be a pickmeisha.
On point Dee with this take.
I’ve never heard about this woman before but to every person out there in the world do what works for y’all and y’all’s relationship. If 50/50 works for you good if building together from the ground up then good for y’all. Do what works for YOU everyones situations and morals and relationships is different.
The sprinkle sprinkle woman is having fun, leading as many astray as possible and monetizing it. She understands her audience and uses her character to feed them and sell her product. Dee Shanell, when you said her videos seem old, they were giving 2013 vibes or something like that, then to find out that she started about 10 yrs ago speaks to how huge the divide between the older and younger people is. For a women to pass up all her female family members and their wisdom when it comes to relationships is because no-one listens to anyone older than them anymore and maybe they don't even have relationships with family members, so what happens, we all make the same mistakes that have been made for 10's of years. The fact that you think 10 years ago is an "old" video is strange to me, but quite a normal thought today. My granny was born in 1935, her mom was born 1909, her mom was born 1870, which to me, someone whose interests lie in knowing my-story, seems like yesterday, once you start digging into the origins of your own family. Again, the sprinkle lady understands her audience, a portion of women who are very disconnected from the females in their families who have myriad experiences and wisdom to offer, which would require them to light their candle in older family members. Do the right thing.
Shera used to do ASMR videos, which I liked lol. She seemed sweet to me. I don't care about any of the other stuff she was talking about.
Her Witch channel just as old as the "level up" channel, If you're a Christian girlie be on your way and stay prayed up for the next 20-30 years of your singlehood.
She's toxic. Next!!
Yall shes living her truth. And that’s something you guys cant continue to get upset with. It’s HER life. She projects yes, . But she’s not the law. Take what applies and mold it how you need to. Not everything she says I agree with. However some of her advice is very true. We give our bodies up for free and get played all the time. And don’t let them work for anything. Give men everything without THE RING or the title. Not everything she says is hell but take everything with a grain of salt. And some of her advice has helped me ALOT
Not every woman is giving away her body for free. You act like if a woman is not having sex with an old man, she’s somewhere sleeping with a dusty for free. There are women who have self worth and good Christian values who also marry men who provide and protect them.
For an old man to chase a girl he can be a father to, it means he’s sleazy and go to the hospital and ask the nurses how many of those man have herpes and hiv. If you’re going to go down that road, know that you’ll most definitely catch something eventually. Besides, James was married and had a side chick when Shera settled for him. Is that the man to choose as a father to your kids?
There are women whose husbands aren’t old sleaze bags and these men also have a moral code.
If you think all men are awful and you just need to settle for a rich, awful one, it shows your scarcity mindset.
There are moral men who can still provide. You don’t need to settle for an old man with worms on his d
Dee do you react to any reality tv on your Patreon?
She lives on MLK in the hood in Houston TEXAS .
My problem with the "allowing" cheating is you basically cant trust him enough to not cheat but you can trust him enough to use a condom... doesnt make logical sense not happening trust is trust if they lie a little they will lie a lot arrivaderci to that is what i say 😂
That's because the men you're used to dealing with don't care about their health.
You can't say it's not true because people can only think from their own reality.
I'm a man btw.
@@encouraginglyauthentic43 Nothing to do with me at all its about the women in the video where the woman "allows" her man to cheat because "a man will cheat anyway, so just allow him" ...and then says she "trusts" that he will use a condom... a man you can't even trust just to not cheat on you... idk but a man i cant trust to simply not cheat is not a man i will trust with anything
She giving yah the method to getting thrown out the crib in 2.5💯
Lol
Facts.💯
@TooSharpENT the men we prefer to date dont call property, “crib”. & u would first have to own a property to be able to throw someone out, go get your money up & work towards that 💖 guarantee u dont own a home, you have the lingo of a renter 💀
@ I got an apartment an I worked for mine. I don’t even wanna think about what u do for the stuff u might own 🤢🤢🤢
oh my god what a sad view on relationships this people have. Also as Dee says. pay your own damn bills
Her voice sounds like Sherell from rhoa
OMG. I can't believe she is famous. Lol. We used to debate each other on Facebook back in the day. This is hilarious. Yeah, she really does believe all that. shes speaks on. She's not making it up. Her arguments have never changed. I can vouch for that.
37:25 🤭💀
Carmela Soprano immediately comes to mind.
She keeps it real and is the voice for the younger women dealing with modern men. But I can’t with the witch craft.
A financial advisor looking to manipulate and use others to help gain what she wants is not a wise move and doesn’t give somebody long term stability. Lmao
Dee said “a white refrigerator”?
That clip from the movie, I never saw it yet 😅
40:14 PREACH!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
15:17 you right shes settling for a basic life, and a ten mill house aint enough dee, 20,25 the least.
I mean from the numbers and statistics women living like that never really gain much once they get up in age
Lollol so there’s nothing wrong with controlling a man’s mind with evil spirits (that will turn on her eventually) if you can’t find a man? That’s playing with your life.
2:54 he didnt even actually explain the term 😢
I know this is off topic but didn't dee say before in the past when watching the art video that she wanted to start painting or making art did she just give up on it like singing
I legit thought you were Chloe bailey
I’m sorry the lady with the white headphones is the problem with women in this world she is clearly in her masculine energy and that stand off nasty attitude is why she’s jealous of what sheera has
@10:49 He died while spending time with a woman he was dating so didn’t really die alone. Not that we can literally take someone with us anyway.
He died alone. He was unmarried and without his children. If you die in a hospital with nurses did you not die alone?
Dee react to Dee Shanell showcasing her psychic abilities part 2
She's happy and that's all. that counts.
OH IM EARLY HAYY DEE
14:29 yes boo cause i was side eying that picture frame.
Dees mentality is A1 need more people online that spreads her type of mentality and not like that “sprinkle sprinkle” mentality 🙄
Honestly just seeing her on my TL i never really believed anything she said. Like most of her "advice" is so far fetched even in this video where shes talking about the ATM "trick" like i doubt that would work on any sane person. I think she dated this man that is was doing better than her shes obviously funny and decided to make content that isn't necessarily authentic. even through this video i agree with dee saying her life doesn't even seem lavish. She just seems liike a regular degular woman that saw men having these crazy takes and decided to do the same thing.
dee have you ever actually dated a millionaire? cause ur mindframe sounds like what average men feel about this topic. i actually date millionaires & one of my exes who plays for the sixers told me he doesn’t mind if a woman is a golddigger & doesn’t mind giving her a lot of his money as long as “shes beautiful & he gets to sleep with her”. the only men who actually have a problem with or worry about golddiggers seem to be the men with zero gold 💖 that ex took care of me financially for yearsss with no issue
And where is he now? Lol he’s an ex for a reason apparently. The millionaires I’ve dated were god awful. I choose to get it myself, and not depend on a man to take care of me babes. It infantilizes us and puts us in such a vulnerable, dependent position. It’s not a flex to be in that role, imo
React to his unpopular opinions
kevin samuels had results. why get married again, as a man, when u tried that? most of them arent worth it. he already has kids, so theres no point. he told men when not to get married too.
😂😂 chick repellants closeted 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Drizzle Drizzle 😁
These women want to be independent and wanna leave all traditional roles , but we’re supposed to stick to ours and be the providers. Fuck out of here let them kick rocks.😂 drizzle drizzle