The comedian Doug Stanhope was making fun of Dr. Drew Pinsky "specializing" in celebrity clients and said its like a gynecologist specializing in Scandinavian college girls.
People tend to automatically think that a mental health therapist must be emotionally healthy themselves. When the exact opposite can be true. This is very apparent in the case of Eugene Landy.
I work with the intellectually disabled at a non-profit living facility. I'm in more of a peer support position rather than a case manager. A case manager is supposed to be responsible and helping the clients with their money and all this stuff..... But we've had a few that did not have their life together like worse than the clients except the only difference was that they didn't have an intellectual disability. We had one guy stealing from all his clients. And I guess he didn't realize that we do audits on all our clients accounts.... Such a moron. And then this other lady had her kids taken away from her and her house condemned because she was living in such filth and squalor but she would come and be a case manager for people you know?
As a schizoaffective individual, I'm always so excited when I come across another individual with the disorder who manages to have a productive and successful life! mad goals!
Snap! I really love to see positive schizoaffective representation. We’re either forgotten about or portrayed and axe wielding maniacs usually, so this is great to see!
Never forget, for all of Brian's success and productivity, he went through absolute hell at multiple points of his life. You're not alone in your aspirations, or your struggles. Stay loved, my friend, I'm sure you're making the most of the hand you've been dealt
Thank you for covering this important case. Brian Wilson is indeed a musical genius and was horribly manipulated by this bad actor. Fortunately, his family was willing to fight to free him from Landy’s suffocating grasp and get him legitimate mental healthcare. Brian is still doing well to this day and is quite happy and productive, which is good news to his many fans.
It's a bit of poetic justice that after Landy wrote himself into Brian's will, I guess thinking he would die young due to his health issues and previous drug abuse, Brian ended up outliving him.
Love and Mercy is one of the best biopics I’ve ever watched and highly recommend to get an idea of what happened between the two. Really well done film.
@@organismgel1043 A lot of people don't understand that Pet Sounds was basically a Brian Wilson solo project.. the other members were used like a backup band following all of Brian's writing and production.
Yesyesyes, i got on here to see if anyone else had seen or mentioned that film. It's so heartbreaking and real. I'm so glad that someone felt moved to make that film. 💗
My father got sober 29 years ago, thanks to amazing treatment counselors and his own strong desire to stay sober. I hate that we have "professionals" taking complete advantage of people who need real aid.
After 30 years of MDD and the horror of ‘treatments’ all those years, I went for TMS treatments in desperation and was CURED. Sometimes I can’t believe it. Very thankful to science and whoever invented this. Can’t recommend it enough. After one therapist told me I’d have to cry everyday of my life I say you are wrong. Science saved me from all the bad therapists I’ve had. Many thanks.
🎼"God only knows what I’d be without you"🎵 indeed! Gene really appropriated those lyrics to encapsulate Brian’s view of their "therapeutic" _[NOT!]_ relationship.
Resilience is absolutely the important lesson here. I was shocked learning Brian’s disorder but happy to hear he outlived Gene and wasn’t doomed by his circumstances.
Yeah being part of a multisuccessful band. If he'd decided to drop out of the spotlight and recover in silence (which was probably for the better) but he was never that headstrong, even in his most creative period, his decisions were ultimately driven by the desires/needs of the band, hence no 'SMiLE' in '66-'67. I'm ASD and it's easy to relate to the feeling of being weighed down by what you've been struggling with while your strengths (seemingly few but extremely prodigious, almost obsessive) are at a means of exploitation. He wanted others' approval badly so that it would be easier to ignore or slag off everyday criticism, both internally and no doubt externally. At that point in the 80s people were convinced he was incapable of making hits. He was always an eccentric and difficult to conversate with even though he was 1 of if not the most candid, empathetic, and forgiving in his level of the music business of that era. He entered his 40s and like every popular musician aging into their third decade of recording, he made meandering yacht rock garbage with the ugly, dated production tricks of its time. No one bothered a Steve Winwood or an Aretha Franklin for toning down their image in the 80s. I think it's partly due to the ableist slant most in the biz had to manipulate Brian. Imagine being told constantly that your genius was allegedly taken away from you. And that drugs essentially "omit genius" when it's really due to your unsupportive, parasocial family and the wishes of industry execs who have the luck of not having the lineage of mental illness in their bloodline. I'd possibly overmedicate too if I were in Brian's shoes. Even when just experiencing it secondhand, having to console someone having a schizophrenic episode, from what they're describing *isn't* pretty.
This was actually really good. You should consider doing a video on Brian’s brother Dennis Wilson. He also has a very interesting case that involves Charles Manson.
Yeah, that was outrageous. I'm glad that she finally got out from under that whole court order. One person who wasn't happy to see that happen, however, is her greedy Dad. He had been getting her checks all that time.
I’ve seen so much fame worship while living in LA. I wasn’t in love with it. I left. It’s hard bc fame is powerful. Thank you, Grande, for another excellent analysis.
I saw Russell Brand talking about being famous. Ge described being at a football game and the people in the crowd turned away from the game to gawk at him. it sounded creepy. Being famous for being really talented is a great fantasy, but I suspect it would suck in a lot of ways.
@@carolnahigian9518 he wasn’t too far gone when he met his first wife, they were really in love. There are videos of them looking at each other during concerts (she was a singer too) and you can see how in love they were.
@@funkid500 - I thought Debby's comment was insightful and not in the least the words of a "weirdo" who is "trying hard". I have to ask: What made you write that at her?
@@funkid500 - Oh, are you replying to me? If so, was your original comment actually aimed at Stewart Nelson? (Neither were obvious due to your comments not being addressed towards a name such as Nelson's or mine)
It's too bad narcissists rarely seek therapy. They also don't tend to benefit much from it if they get into it, cause they think they know more than the therapist and can explain everything away with "he/she was a bad therapist." The principle of autonomy means anyone can nope out of therapy that isn't court ordered. Being held involuntarily as a danger to self/others rarely involves much in the way of therapy.
As a major fan of Brian and the Beach Boys since 1969, and I mean obsessed, this is a very sad although interesting chapter in the Brian Wilson saga. The positive aspect of Landy's treatment was getting Brian into shape: losing a lot of weight and getting off all dangerous substances. The worst was doping Brian up so much that Brian couldn't think straight. The tragedy was that Brian is a beautiful and kind soul and has never really been the same since his association with Landy. However Brian is a very strong person and has never given up. He continues to tour and record and is still Brian Wilson.
I am a clinical psychologist in Southern California. Like many psychologists and psychiatrists, we have some celebrity patients. Maintaining boundaries is essential will all patients and celebrities are no different. Confidentiality must be maintained. In the mental health community, it was common knowledge that Landy was exploiting Brian. It was distressing that it took so long for the board of psychology to revoke his license. Generally, the California Board is quite aggressive with their enforcement.
Jeff Lynne, another rock legend, once talked about the time when he produced a song (Let it shine) for Brian‘s 1988 solo album. He said that Brian was very nice, but the working conditions were so bad that it was an experience which Lynne wouldn‘t have wanted to repeat. As I later read the books about Brian‘s life, including his autobiographies (the first one having been practically written by Landy himself, as Brian has admitted he hadn‘t even read the final draft) and seen the docs, it became clear that Lynne had talked about the 24/7 control by Landy and his team. Yes, Landy did save Brian‘s life in 1983, as he was on the verge of killing himself, but then he took total control over Brian‘s life, as we all know. Or as Mike Love said, Brian „became the goose that laid golden eggs“. A prime example of a therapist who went way too far and eventually had paid the price.
Thanks Dr. Grande, my jaw hit the floor when I saw this. How despicable! I just can't even imagine. Your videos are so great. Also, I watched the one where you explained how you put your videos together, the research, to the technical aspects, and how much time it takes. It must be exhausting. You take the time, which I believe is what makes them so excellent, funny at times, and for me very helpful quite often. Thanks for all of your hard work. From Erick.
That was a brilliant analysis. I had no idea of the control this man, had with Brian Wilson. In a strange, way I'm so pleased that Brian out lived Gene,the though of this man,riding on the coat tails, of a musical genius, like Brian Wilson, doesn't go down too well. Thank you Dr Grande, I did find it as well as good vibrations.
Could you also take a look on Dennis Wilson’s case? Very talented and under appreciated musician. He had a lot of demons due to his abuse from his dad and more. His death effectively ended the BB’s in the 80s.
@@Rutoenfit there’s a story of Manson showing up at Dennis’ new house and saying “this bullets for you, the rest is for your family” or something to that effect. Dennis reportedly knocked Manson to the curb and beat him real bad. Manson never saw Denny again. Van Dyke Parks told this story.
The Beach Boys are one of my favorites 🙂✌️ 🎄Happy Holidays to Dr Grande and his entire RUclips community And an early congratulations on a million subs 😀👍😎
@@cottontails9003 Haha, yes, thanks! Although this fairy tale makes me sad because it is a metaphor for what happens in real life. Not sure why a story like this is only meant for young children when old children need it just as much! Hope you have a merry holiday!
Thank you for the story. I also enjoyed the two song title funds that you put in there. Finally I will say I actually didn’t meet Brian Wilson a number of years ago. He was working a private event where I was and I actually thought he was going to die. He sat down too quickly and a microphone stand fell on his head. It was actually the weight portion that keeps it balanced. He was fine and everything was OK. I later went up to him and thanked him for making the greatest car songs of all time. He said you’re welcome and that’s all I said to him. It was the best minute of my life
In most outpatient settings we have levels of care that address a patient’s needs without robbing them of their autonomy or just robbing them. Gene reminds me a bit of Phil McGraw TBH, with his fascination with celebrity and status.
Oh, this should be interesting. Thank you, Grande. I had a boat, nothing fancy, in the marina and people said Dennis Wilson drown in our marina, pier 44.
This is such a sad case at so many levels. Similarly, I have seen Nutrition Counselors stringing clients along for years, without any reasonable justification for doing so. I find it appalling and unethical. In the end, the client is the one paying the ultimate price. Very thoughtful review, thank you Dr. Grande!❤️
So pleased you have covered this topic. In my opinion Gene was a snake oil salesman. A frustrated rock star who lived vicariously through Brian, at his most vulnerable time.
As someone who's been fascinated by Brian's story for several years, I'm glad you covered this case! There are so many interesting aspects to it, for those who want to go beyond what you could cover here. I personally feel that Brian was so drawn to Landy because he was reliving the trauma he experienced from his father, another abusive and controlling man who desired fame. Brian's story is both sad and inspiring.
I have a question @ Dr. Todd Grande 🙋🏼♀️ Do you think that some individuals go into the mental health field because they KNOW they will hsve access to emotionally vulnerable patients that they can exploit? Not unlike some members of the clergy or law enforcement or educators do? Never mind. I think I just answered my own question. A person with a predatory nature will do whatever they can - including going into a certain career field- to be in charge of vulnerable people they can exploit. 👿
The brilliance, the innovativeness, the piercing beauty of the Brian Wilson song Surf's Up is serioulsly on par with masterworks like A Day in the Life and Strawberry Fields Forever. To my ears, Brian Wilson's Pet Sounds and SMiLE Sessions era output represents a pinnacle of 20th century music.
As always, thank you Dr. Grande! As a survivor of therapist abuse, I could not agree with you more, sir! On the upside, I now know how to help others who might still be victims.
💕💕💕Thanks for the analysis of one of the people that I had always wondered about! It’s so awful Brian was taken advantage of in that way. You’re rocking that beautiful shirt, Dr. Grande! Hope you have a wonderful Christmas 🎄🎄❤️
Lord................amazing to learn from your video that stories of such are actually REAL.............. many thanks Vin. Festive best wishes. Really respect your Conclusion of the subject in your video.
What an incredibly moving video you put together, Dr. Grande! ♡♡ Is there much else worse than a complete abuse of power?! It was crushing to hear how he abused somebody who was truly vulnerable! I can't believe how sad it was to hear you describing someone who has schizoaffective disorder- a condition I never even knew existed. I wish you a very Merry Christmas, Dr. Grande! ☃️ You are truly a gift that keeps on giving, and I thank you deeply for all that you give us!! 💞xo
Dr Grande, great video as usual. Could talk about some great examples where people overcame their own fears, depression or other psychological issues and became healthy? Is it even possible that such people exist?
On-point analysis, Dr. Grande! I'm glad you covered this-- would you ever consider covering Richard Chase? He was quite unusual for a number of reasons so thought it would be a good analysis for you.
This brings a whole new meaning to the song that says "laying in bed, just like Bryan willson did" I never knew a lot of his story despite being a fan of the beach boys. Great video doctor!
Merry Christmas everyone. I know Brian Wilson, he was my neighbor. I can't believe my luck that you, Dr Grande are looking at this case now. My name is Michael Hughes and I was born in Belfast, Northern Ireland in January 1973. Shortly after, my family moved to the town of Portmarnock, a seaside town, north of Dublin. An enclave for the rich. We just considered it home. On our weekend trips to the ice cream store in Malahide my father would point out.... That's were the beach boy lives. This is around 1977 to 1979. Interestingly enough, we emigrated to Toronto, Canada in 1981 were I grew up listening to a band, the Barenaked Ladies who had a hit song, Brian Wilson. A song about how Brian lay in bed, suffering from mental illness after being a huge star. Well, now you know where he spent some of that time. Crazy!
I'm reading your book, Doctor Grande !!! --I can't put it down !!! --Also, thank you for this excellent video (but it's interrupting my reading time) 😌
Narcissism, avarice, and power. Thank you for another poignant video. It's great to know that even mental health professionals are not spared these kinds of critiques. As you mentioned in earlier videos, therapists can be helpful or harmful.
SO glad I trawled through your archives cause I was going to ask you to do this case if you had not already! Just found your channel a few days ago and enjoy it very much.
Hey Dr. Grande, I love your work! I have found your personality disorder videos extremely helpful since I am studying clinical psychology. Can you analyze the case of David Reimer? I feel this would be an interesting analysis due to the nature of the story. Thanks!
@@mrparlanejxtra i used to buy herojn from a guy and he would be scamming same old lady's all the time, they basically paid him to be there, apparently called one his mom I heard from one guy. It makes sense
This guy sounds like he wanted to BE Brian Wilson. Or at least control him enough so he could live his lifestyle. Psychologists shouldn't have much outside contact with their patients. If there's a emergency, yes. Otherwise, no. But, it's famous people, so anything goes. I could see this situation happening again. Sad. I was hoping you'd do this one. It was great! Thanks. ☺
@@matissetrixie7796 I agree. He really needed help, and he just got abused by this so called psychologist. If he had a good therapist, he might have gotten so much better and so much quicker. It's very sad for Brian.
Seems a lot of comparisons can be drawn between Eugene Landy and TV personality Phil McGraw. Scary the manipulation tactics both these men use on vulnerable people. Great analysis as always Dr. Grande!!
Great analysis as always Dr. Grande. Once again I just love your humor. It's at least half the reason I watch you so faithfully the other half is I almost never disagree with you. Perhaps you are always right or maybe we are like minded people😁
Another great analysis Dr. Could you take a look into the 2013 unsolved death of Kendrick Johnson? I would love to hear your take on that, plus the new documentary about his case is about to drop! Cheers!
amazing, amazing, amazing. beach boys are one of my favorites (they're stuck in my head right now) and this has always been an interesting case to me. now dr. grande is talking ab it
Episode Suggestion. Marilyn Manson. He’s got a current story that came out this week in The Rolling Stone. His substance abuse and so-called “bad girl cages” he places his girlfriends in is just psychotic. So I request this analyzation. It can never be as good as today’s episode, but it will blow everyone’s mind. Thank you Dr Grande. Your the best at what you do, bar none.
The comedian Doug Stanhope was making fun of Dr. Drew Pinsky "specializing" in celebrity clients and said its like a gynecologist specializing in Scandinavian college girls.
Doug Stanhope is a treasure.
That's classic
😂
Dr. Drew, Dr. Oz and Dr. Phil all make me want to puke! They're only interested in wealth and fame.
😂😂
People tend to automatically think that a mental health therapist must be emotionally healthy themselves. When the exact opposite can be true. This is very apparent in the case of Eugene Landy.
So true!
Some of the most messed up people I know were therapists.
I work with the intellectually disabled at a non-profit living facility. I'm in more of a peer support position rather than a case manager.
A case manager is supposed to be responsible and helping the clients with their money and all this stuff..... But we've had a few that did not have their life together like worse than the clients except the only difference was that they didn't have an intellectual disability.
We had one guy stealing from all his clients. And I guess he didn't realize that we do audits on all our clients accounts.... Such a moron.
And then this other lady had her kids taken away from her and her house condemned because she was living in such filth and squalor but she would come and be a case manager for people you know?
In Treatment, that show with Gabriel Byrne, on HBO dramatized that.
@@amyholman354 how are you doing? Merry Christmas 🎁🎄 in advance
As a retired Substance Abuse clinician I really appreciate this critique. I dont know why I didnt think of getting me a few clients at 20K monthly.
If you are really bad at it, there will be tons of repeat customers.
I heard the best way to get off drugs is spending all your money
@@kodiekulp I did that and it worked
You have a soul maybe?
Here! Take my money!!
As a schizoaffective individual, I'm always so excited when I come across another individual with the disorder who manages to have a productive and successful life! mad goals!
Snap! I really love to see positive schizoaffective representation. We’re either forgotten about or portrayed and axe wielding maniacs usually, so this is great to see!
Never forget, for all of Brian's success and productivity, he went through absolute hell at multiple points of his life. You're not alone in your aspirations, or your struggles. Stay loved, my friend, I'm sure you're making the most of the hand you've been dealt
Thank you for covering this important case. Brian Wilson is indeed a musical genius and was horribly manipulated by this bad actor. Fortunately, his family was willing to fight to free him from Landy’s suffocating grasp and get him legitimate mental healthcare. Brian is still doing well to this day and is quite happy and productive, which is good news to his many fans.
It's a bit of poetic justice that after Landy wrote himself into Brian's will, I guess thinking he would die young due to his health issues and previous drug abuse, Brian ended up outliving him.
Important case? LOL no.
Love and Mercy is one of the best biopics I’ve ever watched and highly recommend to get an idea of what happened between the two. Really well done film.
Yeah agreed! And likewise, everyone should listen to Pet Sounds... Because it's so good
@@organismgel1043
A lot of people don't understand that Pet Sounds was basically a Brian Wilson solo project.. the other members were used like a backup band following all of Brian's writing and production.
Where can I watch it ?
Yesyesyes, i got on here to see if anyone else had seen or mentioned that film. It's so heartbreaking and real. I'm so glad that someone felt moved to make that film. 💗
Agree. That movie made me fall back in love with the beach boys.
It really does show how easy it is for some people to take advantage of people that are in need of help.
My father got sober 29 years ago, thanks to amazing treatment counselors and his own strong desire to stay sober. I hate that we have "professionals" taking complete advantage of people who need real aid.
You’re cute
@@HexagonFL- Her comment is interesting, isn't it? She makes good points.
I also agree with her.
After 30 years of MDD and the horror of ‘treatments’ all those years, I went for TMS treatments in desperation and was CURED. Sometimes I can’t believe it. Very thankful to science and whoever invented this. Can’t recommend it enough. After one therapist told me I’d have to cry everyday of my life I say you are wrong. Science saved me from all the bad therapists I’ve had. Many thanks.
Hi Debora how are you doing?
That's wonderful! Maybe there is hope for me.
What is MDD? TMS? Thanks for sharing.
@@JoJoJoker major depressive disorder; transcranial magnetic stimulation (I just looked this one up)
@@filipefigueiredo9847 interesting.
A lot of celebrities with mental health problems and addiction disorders are often surrounded by people who benefit from the celebrity not improving.
"Not getting 'Good Vibrations' - Brilliant Dr. Grande. Excellent Analysis, too
🎼"God only knows what I’d be without you"🎵 indeed! Gene really appropriated those lyrics to encapsulate Brian’s view of their "therapeutic" _[NOT!]_ relationship.
Resilience is absolutely the important lesson here. I was shocked learning Brian’s disorder but happy to hear he outlived Gene and wasn’t doomed by his circumstances.
Great takeaway.
Yeah being part of a multisuccessful band. If he'd decided to drop out of the spotlight and recover in silence (which was probably for the better) but he was never that headstrong, even in his most creative period, his decisions were ultimately driven by the desires/needs of the band, hence no 'SMiLE' in '66-'67. I'm ASD and it's easy to relate to the feeling of being weighed down by what you've been struggling with while your strengths (seemingly few but extremely prodigious, almost obsessive) are at a means of exploitation. He wanted others' approval badly so that it would be easier to ignore or slag off everyday criticism, both internally and no doubt externally. At that point in the 80s people were convinced he was incapable of making hits. He was always an eccentric and difficult to conversate with even though he was 1 of if not the most candid, empathetic, and forgiving in his level of the music business of that era. He entered his 40s and like every popular musician aging into their third decade of recording, he made meandering yacht rock garbage with the ugly, dated production tricks of its time. No one bothered a Steve Winwood or an Aretha Franklin for toning down their image in the 80s. I think it's partly due to the ableist slant most in the biz had to manipulate Brian.
Imagine being told constantly that your genius was allegedly taken away from you. And that drugs essentially "omit genius" when it's really due to your unsupportive, parasocial family and the wishes of industry execs who have the luck of not having the lineage of mental illness in their bloodline. I'd possibly overmedicate too if I were in Brian's shoes. Even when just experiencing it secondhand, having to console someone having a schizophrenic episode, from what they're describing *isn't* pretty.
This was actually really good. You should consider doing a video on Brian’s brother Dennis Wilson. He also has a very interesting case that involves Charles Manson.
Sounds like he's about as ethical as whoever has been treating Britney Spears for the past 13 years
@@brianchappell4054 she did have a therapist though who must have been complicit
@@brianchappell4054 who do U think coerced the mental health clinician 🤔
Yeah, that was outrageous. I'm glad that she finally got out from under that whole court order. One person who wasn't happy to see that happen, however, is her greedy Dad. He had been getting her checks all that time.
I’ve seen so much fame worship while living in LA. I wasn’t in love with it. I left. It’s hard bc fame is powerful. Thank you, Grande, for another excellent analysis.
I saw Russell Brand talking about being famous. Ge described being at a football game and the people in the crowd turned away from the game to gawk at him. it sounded creepy. Being famous for being really talented is a great fantasy, but I suspect it would suck in a lot of ways.
how Did Mrs Brian Wilson even Stay married at all??????
My mom slapped me and told me my cousin Rachael has Down syndrome
Highly unethical behaviour on the part of the so-called therapist. Talk about a dual relationship!
@@carolnahigian9518 he wasn’t too far gone when he met his first wife, they were really in love. There are videos of them looking at each other during concerts (she was a singer too) and you can see how in love they were.
Reminds me a lot of Elvis relationship with his manager. Lots of control and manipulation when Elvis was vulnerable.
Hi Debby how are you doing?
Quit trying so hard weirdo
@@funkid500 - I thought Debby's comment was insightful and not in the least the words of a "weirdo" who is "trying hard".
I have to ask: What made you write that at her?
Stewart Nelson comments this on a lot of women’s comments
@@funkid500 - Oh, are you replying to me?
If so, was your original comment actually aimed at Stewart Nelson?
(Neither were obvious due to your comments not being addressed towards a name such as Nelson's or mine)
God only knows that I am in my room and I get around to always watching Dr. Grande’s analyses!
Hi Catherine how are you doing?
Bro what are you doing
Well done.
Sounds like the therapist needed a therapist more than his patient.
Hi Maureen how are you doing?
Are you an AI
Definitely. I think half of them do.
It's too bad narcissists rarely seek therapy. They also don't tend to benefit much from it if they get into it, cause they think they know more than the therapist and can explain everything away with "he/she was a bad therapist." The principle of autonomy means anyone can nope out of therapy that isn't court ordered. Being held involuntarily as a danger to self/others rarely involves much in the way of therapy.
The demand for control, dependence on the clinician reminds me of some aspects of the Britney Spears case. Greed.
As a major fan of Brian and the Beach Boys since 1969, and I mean obsessed, this is a very sad although interesting chapter in the Brian Wilson saga. The positive aspect of Landy's treatment was getting Brian into shape: losing a lot of weight and getting off all dangerous substances. The worst was doping Brian up so much that Brian couldn't think straight. The tragedy was that Brian is a beautiful and kind soul and has never really been the same since his association with Landy. However Brian is a very strong person and has never given up. He continues to tour and record and is still Brian Wilson.
I am a clinical psychologist in Southern California. Like many psychologists and psychiatrists, we have some celebrity patients. Maintaining boundaries is essential will all patients and celebrities are no different. Confidentiality must be maintained. In the mental health community, it was common knowledge that Landy was exploiting Brian. It was distressing that it took so long for the board of psychology to revoke his license. Generally, the California Board is quite aggressive with their enforcement.
Jeff Lynne, another rock legend, once talked about the time when he produced a song (Let it shine) for Brian‘s 1988 solo album. He said that Brian was very nice, but the working conditions were so bad that it was an experience which Lynne wouldn‘t have wanted to repeat. As I later read the books about Brian‘s life, including his autobiographies (the first one having been practically written by Landy himself, as Brian has admitted he hadn‘t even read the final draft) and seen the docs, it became clear that Lynne had talked about the 24/7 control by Landy and his team. Yes, Landy did save Brian‘s life in 1983, as he was on the verge of killing himself, but then he took total control over Brian‘s life, as we all know. Or as Mike Love said, Brian „became the goose that laid golden eggs“. A prime example of a therapist who went way too far and eventually had paid the price.
Thanks Dr Grande, I’ve seen this requested more than once. The wealth and status of celebrities makes them vulnerable to parasitic relationships.
Hi Carolyn how are you doing?
@@stewartnelson5381 why do you keep saying hello to everyone?
@@eadweard. and who are you?
@@eadweard. how dare you talk to me in a mannerless way ?
@@stewartnelson5381 This isn't the right place for speed dating.
“Wouldn’t It Be Nice” if Landy was gone. Nicely played, sir.
Thanks Dr. Grande, my jaw hit the floor when I saw this. How despicable! I just can't even imagine. Your videos are so great. Also, I watched the one where you explained how you put your videos together, the research, to the technical aspects, and how much time it takes. It must be exhausting. You take the time, which I believe is what makes them so excellent, funny at times, and for me very helpful quite often. Thanks for all of your hard work. From Erick.
That was a brilliant analysis. I had no idea of the control this man, had with Brian Wilson. In a strange, way I'm so pleased that Brian out lived Gene,the though of this man,riding on the coat tails, of a musical genius, like Brian Wilson, doesn't go down too well. Thank you Dr Grande, I did find it as well as good vibrations.
Yes. All my thoughts in this comment! :)
@@annal7364 Thank you. Love your comments too
I read the Brian Wilson “autobiography” which was written by Landy. Such a sad situation.
Could you also take a look on Dennis Wilson’s case? Very talented and under appreciated musician. He had a lot of demons due to his abuse from his dad and more. His death effectively ended the BB’s in the 80s.
Logan, I agree on this one.
@@radiorob7543 wasn’t one of The Beach Boys involved with Charles Manson for a short time?
If he hadn't picked up 2 hitchhiking Manson girls in '68, those terrible murders might never of happened. He never recovered from that guilt.
@@Rutoenfit there’s a story of Manson showing up at Dennis’ new house and saying “this bullets for you, the rest is for your family” or something to that effect. Dennis reportedly knocked Manson to the curb and beat him real bad. Manson never saw Denny again. Van Dyke Parks told this story.
@@DivineBearFalcon oh heck yeah. That song is creepy.
Eugene was living his celebrity dream through Brian.
Great video Dr Grande!!
The Beach Boys are one of my favorites 🙂✌️
🎄Happy Holidays to Dr Grande and his entire RUclips community
And an early congratulations on a million subs 😀👍😎
The wolf thought to himself, "Aha! This tender little creature will be a plump morsel!" 🐺
Another sad version of the story. Thanks Dr. G.
Anna , that is really cute 😂🙈🙉🙊
@@cottontails9003 Haha, yes, thanks! Although this fairy tale makes me sad because it is a metaphor for what happens in real life. Not sure why a story like this is only meant for young children when old children need it just as much! Hope you have a merry holiday!
@@annal7364 Same to you my beautiful friend, and yes I agree with you 🌷🌹🌼🌲
Caught your play on words, "wouldn't it be nice." Thanks for your versatility. Happy Christmas to you and your family. 🎄
Hey Zaddy, I haven't logged on in a awhile, you're looking handsomely refreshed.
Bet he smells really good too! 😊
Thank you for the story. I also enjoyed the two song title funds that you put in there. Finally I will say I actually didn’t meet Brian Wilson a number of years ago. He was working a private event where I was and I actually thought he was going to die. He sat down too quickly and a microphone stand fell on his head. It was actually the weight portion that keeps it balanced. He was fine and everything was OK. I later went up to him and thanked him for making the greatest car songs of all time. He said you’re welcome and that’s all I said to him. It was the best minute of my life
In most outpatient settings we have levels of care that address a patient’s needs without robbing them of their autonomy or just robbing them.
Gene reminds me a bit of Phil McGraw TBH, with his fascination with celebrity and status.
Doctor Shell: Absolutely! Soooo reminiscent of Dr. Phil's fascination w/ fame.
Good call on that one
Oh, this should be interesting. Thank you, Grande. I had a boat, nothing fancy, in the marina and people said Dennis Wilson drown in our marina, pier 44.
“Wouldn’t it be nice if Gene was out of the picture.’ 😂 Hilarious!
Ohhhhh...Dr. Grande I have Missed your analysis the last week. I'm having withdrawals!
Hi Julie how are you doing?
This is such a sad case at so many levels. Similarly, I have seen Nutrition Counselors stringing clients along for years, without any reasonable justification for doing so. I find it appalling and unethical. In the end, the client is the one paying the ultimate price.
Very thoughtful review, thank you Dr. Grande!❤️
How are you my beautiful friend? 😀🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷
@@cottontails9003 Hi Julianne!😃
I am fine, hope all is good with you as well!💕🤗😘
@@rejaneoliveira5019 Thank you Rejane, everything is great. 😊
Been waiting for this one, thanks Dr. Grande. Please consider Charles Lindbergh and especially his interest in eugenics.
Great suggestion. I bet a lot of people don't know the whole story. It is interesting.
Great idea-I really believe that Lindbergh was behind his baby's "kidnapping."
@@johnstalberg9983 Yes, definitely seems suspicious to me, as well.
He had three families (US and Germany) who were unaware of each other. A man of secrets.
@@shombie2737 I understand that dna testing has confirmed he fathered at least 5 children in Germany.
So pleased you have covered this topic. In my opinion Gene was a snake oil salesman.
A frustrated rock star who lived vicariously through Brian, at his most vulnerable time.
As someone who's been fascinated by Brian's story for several years, I'm glad you covered this case! There are so many interesting aspects to it, for those who want to go beyond what you could cover here. I personally feel that Brian was so drawn to Landy because he was reliving the trauma he experienced from his father, another abusive and controlling man who desired fame. Brian's story is both sad and inspiring.
I have a question @ Dr. Todd Grande 🙋🏼♀️ Do you think that some individuals go into the mental health field because they KNOW they will hsve access to emotionally vulnerable patients that they can exploit? Not unlike some members of the clergy or law enforcement or educators do? Never mind. I think I just answered my own question. A person with a predatory nature will do whatever they can - including going into a certain career field- to be in charge of vulnerable people they can exploit. 👿
Hi Dena how are you doing?
@@stewartnelson5381 stop it. You are spamming the comment section trying to chat people up.
Consider yourself reported.
Dena , I agree with you no profession is free of predators preying on and taking advantage of the vulnerable.
Therapists that take advantage of patients should not only have their license yanked but they should also be jailed.
The brilliance, the innovativeness, the piercing beauty of the Brian Wilson song Surf's Up is serioulsly on par with masterworks like A Day in the Life and Strawberry Fields Forever. To my ears, Brian Wilson's Pet Sounds and SMiLE Sessions era output represents a pinnacle of 20th century music.
I love the song touches "good vibrations" and "wouldn't it be nice" 😆 sad story though.
Dang, Dr. G! By the time I watch one of your videos, you’ve already put out two more. Thanks, sir.
As always, thank you Dr. Grande! As a survivor of therapist abuse, I could not agree with you more, sir! On the upside, I now know how to help others who might still be victims.
Another great analysis.Thank you Dr. Grande!
💕💕💕Thanks for the analysis of one of the people that I had always wondered about! It’s so awful Brian was taken advantage of in that way. You’re rocking that beautiful shirt, Dr. Grande! Hope you have a wonderful Christmas 🎄🎄❤️
Glad Dr Grande gave Brian the respect & recognition he deserves, esp w that last statement 👌👌👌👏👏👏
Lord................amazing to learn from your video that stories of such are actually REAL..............
many thanks
Vin.
Festive best wishes. Really respect your Conclusion of the subject in your video.
I don't know where but your analysis sends me there, Dr. Grande.
What an incredibly moving video you put together, Dr. Grande! ♡♡
Is there much else worse than a complete abuse of power?! It was crushing to hear how he abused somebody who was truly vulnerable! I can't believe how sad it was to hear you describing someone who has schizoaffective disorder- a condition I never even knew existed.
I wish you a very Merry Christmas, Dr. Grande! ☃️
You are truly a gift that keeps on giving, and I thank you deeply for all that you give us!! 💞xo
Dr Grande, great video as usual. Could talk about some great examples where people overcame their own fears, depression or other psychological issues and became healthy? Is it even possible that such people exist?
My supervisor always tells me "never work harder than the client" and boy did that seem to be the case here.
On-point analysis, Dr. Grande! I'm glad you covered this-- would you ever consider covering Richard Chase? He was quite unusual for a number of reasons so thought it would be a good analysis for you.
Very intriguing case and great analysis.
Thank you, Dr. Grande.
This brings a whole new meaning to the song that says "laying in bed, just like Bryan willson did" I never knew a lot of his story despite being a fan of the beach boys. Great video doctor!
I can’t get over how many different shirts you have. Great analysis! I’ve always had an interest in Brian Wilson and his life.
hey doc! i hope you have a wonderful wednesday!
Merry Christmas everyone. I know Brian Wilson, he was my neighbor. I can't believe my luck that you, Dr Grande are looking at this case now. My name is Michael Hughes and I was born in Belfast, Northern Ireland in January 1973. Shortly after, my family moved to the town of Portmarnock, a seaside town, north of Dublin. An enclave for the rich. We just considered it home. On our weekend trips to the ice cream store in Malahide my father would point out.... That's were the beach boy lives. This is around 1977 to 1979. Interestingly enough, we emigrated to Toronto, Canada in 1981 were I grew up listening to a band, the Barenaked Ladies who had a hit song, Brian Wilson. A song about how Brian lay in bed, suffering from mental illness after being a huge star. Well, now you know where he spent some of that time. Crazy!
Very interesting. Amazing job. I love how you use part of the hit songs in this video.
The third lesson gives so much hope to all people who struggle with mental health issues ✨. Thank you Dr. Grande and Merry Christmas 🎄🙂.
I have enjoyed some movies, but celebrities seem to lose their grasp on reality. Truly, every job is a service to someone else, even celebrities.
That being said the doctor had mad skills. Pun intended.
He worked insane. hours.
Another great video and analysis, Doc. I love this channel.
As always thank you Dr Grande for your insightful video, and good vibrations to you too 💐🌷
“…lying in bed, just like Brian Wilson did,” by the Barenaked Ladies has much more context now!
An excellent assessment - following a brilliant and consistent format. very enjoyable.
Brian was my favorite Beach Boy.
Beach Boys concert was my first concert.
Always interesting.
Thank you.
Peace 💕😻
Plaid on point as per usual 👍
I'm reading your book, Doctor Grande !!! --I can't put it down !!! --Also, thank you for this excellent video (but it's interrupting my reading time) 😌
Narcissism, avarice, and power. Thank you for another poignant video. It's great to know that even mental health professionals are not spared these kinds of critiques. As you mentioned in earlier videos, therapists can be helpful or harmful.
Also not obeying boundaries!
A million subs for Christmas.
Another great video DOC😎
This is a very interesting case and have always wanted to see it covered more
SO glad I trawled through your archives cause I was going to ask you to do this case if you had not already! Just found your channel a few days ago and enjoy it very much.
Hey Dr. Grande, I love your work! I have found your personality disorder videos extremely helpful since I am studying clinical psychology.
Can you analyze the case of David Reimer? I feel this would be an interesting analysis due to the nature of the story. Thanks!
Thank you for another great Video 😃
This happens today with computer techs and gym instructors. They try to hook themselves into life long contracts with people.
@@SpecialBlanket they try to worm their way in to peoples lives like parasites hacking and molesting them.
@@mrparlanejxtra i used to buy herojn from a guy and he would be scamming same old lady's all the time, they basically paid him to be there, apparently called one his mom I heard from one guy. It makes sense
This guy sounds like he wanted to BE Brian Wilson. Or at least control him enough so he could live his lifestyle. Psychologists shouldn't have much outside contact with their patients. If there's a emergency, yes. Otherwise, no. But, it's famous people, so anything goes. I could see this situation happening again. Sad. I was hoping you'd do this one. It was great! Thanks. ☺
Very interesting point of view. I felt so sorry for Brian who really needed help.
@@matissetrixie7796 I agree. He really needed help, and he just got abused by this so called psychologist. If he had a good therapist, he might have gotten so much better and so much quicker. It's very sad for Brian.
Oh thank you for your perspective on this Doc!
Seems a lot of comparisons can be drawn between Eugene Landy and TV personality Phil McGraw. Scary the manipulation tactics both these men use on vulnerable people. Great analysis as always Dr. Grande!!
True, but at least Phil didn't move in with anyone. Not that I like Phil. He's a fraud, too.
Very glad youve done this case/relationship. Thank you
Juhu!* Our doctor is back into therapy! Christmas is coming closer. Great idea, doctor. 🙂
* means "Yay"
The doctor is in! Love it! 😙
Mrs. R - Now we learned something! Thanks!
yay!!! I'm excited for this one. thanks, Dr. Grande ☺️
Great analysis as always Dr. Grande. Once again I just love your humor. It's at least half the reason I watch you so faithfully the other half is I almost never disagree with you. Perhaps you are always right or maybe we are like minded people😁
This was a good one Dr.Grande🙏
Being a celebrity increases your risk of being around narcissistic people..*cough Mike Love..
Another great analysis Dr. Could you take a look into the 2013 unsolved death of Kendrick Johnson? I would love to hear your take on that, plus the new documentary about his case is about to drop! Cheers!
God only knows what we’d do without Dr. Grande’s insight regarding these cases.
Always interesting doc.. idk where you find these cases.. but keep up the good work!!;)
amazing, amazing, amazing. beach boys are one of my favorites (they're stuck in my head right now) and this has always been an interesting case to me. now dr. grande is talking ab it
Thanks for the content
1 millions subs is good vibrations!
Episode Suggestion. Marilyn Manson. He’s got a current story that came out this week in The Rolling Stone. His substance abuse and so-called “bad girl cages” he places his girlfriends in is just psychotic. So I request this analyzation. It can never be as good as today’s episode, but it will blow everyone’s mind. Thank you Dr Grande. Your the best at what you do, bar none.
Did anyone really agree to date MM and not expect to be put in a cage now and again?
He did one on MM already. Quite a while back.
@@LDiamondz no kissing? I have a missed an episode in a very long time. And I have not seen it. Thank you for telling me about it.
@@LDiamondz Correction. No kidding?
@@keithbrunson7190 Yeah, It's called 'Analysis of Evan Rachel Wood's allegations of Se***l Abuse.' He sounds pretty creepy.
Brian released one of his best albums in 1988. I think Landy was helpful though he probably took some financial advantages.
A hundred blessings for everyone 🙏 ✨ 💛 ❤ 🙌 💓