A6 Stalogy || Plan with me || 26-2 July 2023

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  • @xxblueeyesskyexx
    @xxblueeyesskyexx Год назад +28

    I don't usually comment on videos. I rather stay silent, send a like and enjoy the content. However, I do want to say that you are an absolute star. There is no need to apologize regarding what you said at the beginning of the video. I don't know why people who are insecure about themselves and their own self worth would take the time to comment negatively on a video. If you don't like the content, simply switch it off and move on. There is no need to bring other people down with your hate. Thank you for speaking up.

  • @jessicagoodwater2751
    @jessicagoodwater2751 Год назад +16

    You are exactly correct in your rant! It is no ones business if Chris does everything for you or not! Though its obvious he doesn’t! He works and you take care of the home! That is perfectly fine! And your right that no one WANTS to clean up shit! Your doing great! And your home life is yours! So keep going! And thanks for the video!

  • @makim21
    @makim21 Год назад +3

    OMG, I'm loving your rant, because you are spot on! Way to stand up for yourself and for people working through mental health issues. No need to apologize. Thank you for keeping it real!

  • @Sharon-mr8xc
    @Sharon-mr8xc Год назад +6

    Oh wow, Becky! You tell them lady! I suffer with depression and anxiety, and some days are horrible. Thanks for the rant n video! Have a wonderful week. ❤

  • @jennichandler151
    @jennichandler151 Год назад

    Yeeees!!! Go Becky! I am SO glad you addressed this kind of B.S. and spoke up! Not everyone will speak up for themselves! Mad respect for you! ❤❤❤❤

  • @mustangsally9190
    @mustangsally9190 Год назад +2

    Babe, my husband does so much for me because my mental health is up and down and my husband is an absolute star. Please don’t dwell on the negative as they really don’t matter. You have a beautiful family and a wonderfully supportive husband. I think many people would be envious of all that you have. Please know that there are far far more people that love you and support you than those that have a negative view of your life and just like you said, the ones that have the negative view don’t matter xx

  • @luanngifford5911
    @luanngifford5911 Год назад +4

    I so so appreciate you! You talk about mental health and you have our backs! I’m always struggling to explain to people in my Church group why I don’t attend services and get more socially involved. I wish I could be more like you and say “Just F off! It’s a social anxiety disease!” Maybe I will. ❤️
    Anyway I love your PWM videos and I’m loving your videos on how to use a planner. Thank you!

  • @trehs98
    @trehs98 Год назад

    Beck, my husband does so much for me. I was medically disabled in 2013 because of my health. I couldn’t do half the things I do if it wasn’t for him. ❤Stand strong Beck, don’t let anyone upset you! You know the truth! ❤❤

  • @Specks_Page_Plans
    @Specks_Page_Plans Год назад

    Omg Becky….. THAT. RANT. WAS. AMAZING!!!!! Absolutely spot on!!

  • @RaleighBeKindCleverCurious
    @RaleighBeKindCleverCurious Год назад

    Thank you for speaking out about mental health. I continue to admire you honesty.

  • @SimpliShelli
    @SimpliShelli Год назад +2

    The planner community pressure is REAL!! Pre-orders for the upcoming year are stressful especially to those who are struggling with their current lineup. It's relieving to hear you talk about it.

  • @ultimatecin_73
    @ultimatecin_73 Год назад +1

    Kudos to you, Becky! There are way too many people out there who feel safe hiding behind their keyboards talking shit about others when they would never say it to their face. You choose to share bits about your life with us but that doesn't mean that we have the right to be telling you how you should and shouldn't be running your home or your life. You are absolutely right - it doesn't affect anyone else whether you or Chris do certain tasks in your home. People need to just keep their nose in their own business.

  • @axelledherde4694
    @axelledherde4694 Год назад

    You go girl!! I have lots of anxiety and panic attacks and my boyfriend is really the best!! He also does everything for me when i’m not able to do it for myself. If i cant do something he helps me. That is how a good relationship works. If he feels bad, he knows i will do the same for him. You are so right Becky, no one has to say how you need to behave or how you need to live your life! ❤❤

  • @paulamcdonald6400
    @paulamcdonald6400 Год назад +1

    Well said Becky. Haters are gonna hate. Take care and keep the videos coming. I look so forward to them. We all go through things in life and I appreciate you being so honest.

  • @seaseajacques
    @seaseajacques Год назад

    People really like sticking their two cents in people lives. People need to stop throwing negativity on people's social media. Thanks Becky I suffered with anxiety last year it was so hard for me and then I found journaling and knitting which helped me. I love your channel! I brought the pencil case and brought the fake Tote bag 😁😁 I live in Dubai 🙂 try not to come during the summer right now it's 50 degrees!! 🥲🥵🥵

  • @JustScribble
    @JustScribble Год назад

    Everyone’s family situation is different and how your family balances responsibilities for what ever reason - jobs, mental health, physical health, desire - doesn’t matter to anyone else. That’s your family and how you do it and no one else gets a vote. And no one should judge because they don’t know your situation or why your split is that way and it doesn’t matter bc it’s not their life!
    Also you most definitely needed the new dog. koby (I don’t know if I spelled that right 😂) has been a a god send for you. In the videos you’ve had in the time since you’ve had him I’ve noticed such a shift in you. You are more energetic, more positive, more focused on function and getting this done and over all sound happier. I think he’s been an amazing addition to your family and was needed for your mental and physical health

  • @elahm76
    @elahm76 Год назад

    Well spoken! I need to rely on my family because of MS. We have a dog and last week I got a little puppy and nearly everyone think that I made a mistake. But it's me having to be in my home 24/7 and I also know that our other dog needs a playmate. Yes, I need to take full responsibility for our new pup but I don't care and that is MY decision to make. I invest my energy into my dogs, not only my family. If I'd been able t work, meet colleagues and my friends as I need to feel happy I wouldn't need my dogs. I don't think those who have no disability, mental or physical, understands how lonely it can be being home all the time and hardly ever meet other people. And if they don't - they need to keep their months shut. Show some empathy instead! Hugs from Sweden

  • @emmajane-ukcraftingmemories
    @emmajane-ukcraftingmemories Год назад

    My husband does everything around our house and for the kids. He does 100% of the school runs and works 6 days a week for us because I have a physical disability. I wish I could do more but I struggle just to even get out of bed and to the toilet let alone do more. I feel so guilty about it but I physically can't do more and hate it as life never used to be like this but my health declined so much and he now has to take me everywhere so I tend to go out of the house just once a month as I feel so bad I'm unable to do stuff. You are AMAZING Becky xx

  • @anidemjess5875
    @anidemjess5875 Год назад

    You are exactly right Becky I totally agree with you. And alaso if I leave a comment I try and make positive whats the point of leaving a negative comment. I had kidney cancer (also had an op on my back when i was 8 scoliosis) and needed to rely on my family and my hubby to help me, sometimes it hurts to bend down or pick up a 8 litres bottle of water 8 years later, and I'm in no way of shame asking for my hubby to help to pick it up. People shoudln't be afraid to ask for help if they need it. Becky love your videos and some of your sets ups are lucky, i'd love to copy them, but just haven't got the inpsiration as you have. You go girl love your videos keep them up. Hope you have a good week xx

  • @kimlewis940
    @kimlewis940 Год назад +1

    You are so gangster and I love it..stand up for yourself

  • @tyresseferguson2462
    @tyresseferguson2462 Год назад

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 go hard on them! If I don't agree with something a creator said, I just don't comment because it's none of my business since I'm coming for the content and not their personal life. I applaud you for being open about your mental health struggles and even if you didn't have any, if your husband was nice enough to clean up behind the dog because you didn't want to then that's a great husband.

  • @funinpjs
    @funinpjs Год назад

    So agree with you. Bless you and Chris.

  • @JoleeSO
    @JoleeSO Год назад

    I love ranting Becky❤

  • @jennifergrillofoster
    @jennifergrillofoster Год назад

    I completely LOVE you and that you are open and honest about your mental health. There have been many times my 23 year old married daughter has called me, she in north Texas and me in northeast Tennessee, because she's having a bad mental day and she needs help. Help to get out of bed or the house or something. Her husband is also in the military and isn't always there.
    Sometimes I can't physically feed myself but guess what? Cats get fed. Sometimes all I can do is flop in to bed but the cats get taken care of. I have MS and fibro and arthritis and Sjogren's as well as depression and anxiety.
    Life can be too much and complaining can help. As can b*tching about the stupid people. LOL

  • @l.m.schmidt5363
    @l.m.schmidt5363 Год назад

    You tell them girl! Luv Ya!

  • @evelynsmith4291
    @evelynsmith4291 Год назад

    Hi Becky,
    I feel you on that commenter. My husband spoils me rotten. As for our relationship it’s 50/50 and as for that person leaving that comment like that . I deal with mental health a lot. So I feel you and how much I appreciate you and your videos. You help me everyday deal with my mental health. My husband does a lot for me specially on my bad mental health days… As for right now it’s my turn to take care of my hubby because he had a stroke and a heart attack. Chris loves you and it doesn’t matter what negative nelly has to say..

  • @ollieshopesanddreams8017
    @ollieshopesanddreams8017 Год назад

    Yay! Go Becky! ❤✅x

  • @MariaRodriguez-ip9yc
    @MariaRodriguez-ip9yc Год назад +1

    Love you videos! Thanks you for sharing your struggles with mental health. Is there any way that you can do a video on just trackers, how to set up and different ways to do them. I’m just starting using my planer more productively. I love seeing your trackers. I just don’t understand then. Sorry for rambling.

  • @Rebecca-creates
    @Rebecca-creates Год назад

    Just love the rant and you are so right! I wish I could have ranted like that instead of keeping it inside.
    Oh, I can't wait to hear your thoughts on the new planner lineup. Keep smiling!

  • @zephyr2073
    @zephyr2073 Год назад +1

    I'm so glad you're helping your daughter learn how to study while also making sure she doesn't stress herself out too much! As a teen I would base my entire self-worth on my grades and felt like a failure whenever I got a bad grade. I would literally obsess over academic results because I felt like it was the only thing I was good at. My mental health deteriorated so bad in high school and the first few years of uni because of it that I started getting very dark thoughts. My parents never knew!! It went on for way too long before I managed to break out of that mindset, and it breaks my heart to know a lot of students think that way too.
    So once again, thank you. We need to make sure our kids take their studies seriously while also not worrying themselves sick over grades.

  • @annehare4273
    @annehare4273 Год назад

    Go Becky you tell ‘em to piss right off.xx

  • @mrsfoxezplans-akatonifox1315
    @mrsfoxezplans-akatonifox1315 Год назад

    WTF is wrong with people I live by the saying “dont judge others until you walk a mile in their shoes” - I live with Chronic pain and am constantly in and out of hospital had 32 operations and sometimes (like last night) my pain is 9/10 and I’m crying - my man cooks every night and mostly does all the laundry to help me - I have a cleaner because I cant do it. Our lives are OUR LIVES and the people in our life love us and want us to be comfortable if we struggle with Mental health or Chronic pain or any other condition WE NEED support and no one can judge us. Also I love that you have a supporting man and as if you dont do things for him too but you dont say I did this for Chris or I did that for Chris its not our normal speak.
    Becky I love how normal you speak you dont fluff for the videos you show us your true self and that is why I binge watch your videos its why I’m here. If people dont like it then switch the F off
    I even cried in front of the camera in one of my videos because what I was talking about was effing tough to say.
    Let’s keep it real people lets be supportive and realise we all live very different lives and do the best we can with what we have been dealt with - no one ever chooses to have Mental Health issues or chronic pain I’d give up it in a heart beat if there was a cure but there isn’t so it is what it is.
    Love your work and keep being Becky🎉

  • @karonnashor1775
    @karonnashor1775 Год назад

    you tell em!!! love you

  • @tyresseferguson2462
    @tyresseferguson2462 Год назад

    I would love to see a video on how you decide your planning system for the next year.

  • @treevinos
    @treevinos Год назад

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ashleeplansalot3374
    @ashleeplansalot3374 Год назад

    I love that you are just 100% honest. You tell them! You’re right, there’s so many different situations out there, and if it’s not your situation then don’t comment on it. Like people loveeee to take care of their loves who need it. So maybe that person insulted Chris too. Anyways, I love all the cursing though! Made me laugh so much!

  • @SC-hd7et
    @SC-hd7et Год назад

    love the soft colors and stickers from mozter coffee co makes my day today

  • @darlacornelius9303
    @darlacornelius9303 Год назад

    I got the tote bag dupe too and love it!!! My puppy does too, she fits in it so when she sees me put it on she thinks it's time to go bye bye! Lol

  • @talishavining2576
    @talishavining2576 Год назад

    👏👏👏

  • @BudgetsWithELMA
    @BudgetsWithELMA Год назад

    Great video ❤

  • @aaalicinha
    @aaalicinha Год назад

    Wow, ppl can be such jerks. I slept in today while my husband cleaned the cat’s vomit for me. 😂 Love your vids Becky! 💛 Hope you have some fans to cool you off. 😊 It’s been like 37 degrees here in TX & we are under excessive heat warnings every day. 🥵

  • @QueenOfOverdoing
    @QueenOfOverdoing Год назад

    I don’t understand why some people have to throw the negativity out there like that. The wonderful thing about the internet, and RUclips is no exception, is, if you don’t like what you’re seeing or hearing then you can just mosey on past it. Just leave.
    I agree with the comment prior to me…99.9% of the time I just simply enjoy the content while I, myself, am also plannering. I love how real you are and if you want to talk about cow farts then you should do that!
    But seriously, mental health is a real and an important thing and more people should talk about it to being more awareness.
    And you are right, who cares what your dynamic is with Chris! That’s your business and partners are supposed to help and support. That’s what it’s all about!
    You do you!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @quinnphillips1276
    @quinnphillips1276 Год назад +1

    Lol - When you say 26 degrees, everyone in America is like "wait what is that in fahrenheit?"

  • @shanzee4121
    @shanzee4121 Год назад

    Sterling Ink just started their pre-order for the 2024 Common Planners. She has a lot of new sizes, layouts, and cover colors. I am thinking about trying the Standard size and putting it in my TN.
    She has a video explaining all the new options.

  • @fishheads08
    @fishheads08 Год назад

    So, first off I am a new sub to your channel and I love it. Second, I am in the States and regularly use *sentence enhancers* (I swear like nobody's business) and because of your accent, I have never heard it sound so classy 🤣Well said, lady. Well said.

  • @moniquedeguia-jones5570
    @moniquedeguia-jones5570 Год назад

    Good luck to Kasey!

  • @JustScribble
    @JustScribble Год назад

    13:56 yes!!! I hate the music playing with the talking. I can’t hear them and it’s distracting. But I also hate the videos with no talking and just music 🎶 while they plan. So I switch off 😅

  • @lunaluxaz
    @lunaluxaz Год назад

    Omg first five minutes made me love you even more! 😂😂💗

  • @JustScribble
    @JustScribble Год назад

    It’s been in the 100s here for so long and we hit 117 with the heat index twice last week and the humidity is ridiculous. We are melting

  • @adrianeedgell9780
    @adrianeedgell9780 Год назад

    I just LOVE you!! Such an awesome person - glad you don't take any shit and you shouldn't! XOXO

  • @BurgessTaylor
    @BurgessTaylor Год назад

    I rarely comment because I usually watch your videos as I plan or journal, but I understand-haters gonna hate, especially I have learned that the negative comments are either trolls or negative, insecure people. I love your videos. And like you I struggle with mental health. I now just delete those kinds of comments or react with sweet sarcasm. 😊

  • @trehs98
    @trehs98 Год назад

    Good Luck KC on all your test❤❤❤

  • @LifeByDenise
    @LifeByDenise Год назад +1

    How hot is it? I live in Philadelphia. The temperature isn't always the issue. It is the humidity that hits you like a wall.

  • @superpsychomomplansandsaves
    @superpsychomomplansandsaves Год назад

    my 17 year old son is in japan right now and its super hot down there , he wont wear shorts and only wears dark clothes so i can only wonder how hes handling it , but he says he is fine

  • @qcbabez
    @qcbabez Год назад

    OMG I fucking love this rant... Had to SUBSCRIBE... fuck the negative nancys! YASS....

  • @funinpjs
    @funinpjs Год назад

    Like you explained PRN. Now I went through personal support worker what these abbreviations mean.

  • @superpsychomomplansandsaves
    @superpsychomomplansandsaves Год назад

    girl you tell it like it is ,

  • @nichola4265
    @nichola4265 Год назад

    Well said. I suffer from severe anxiety and agoraphobia and have bad days. Big hugs to you. ❤❤

  • @fishheads08
    @fishheads08 Год назад

    Also, I am curious, I know you use a Cousin -- how do you use your Stalogy in conjunction with your Cousin? I have an A6 and am trying to figure out how to use the two together...

  • @plancreatecope
    @plancreatecope Год назад

    Screw them Becky. Shit like that would piss me off. I am relying on my two kids to help around the house. I have fibromyalgia and have many problems. So many people are so mean and nasty behind a keyboard.

  • @jennifersullivan7909
    @jennifersullivan7909 Год назад

    Well done on the rant! People do not understand how much their comments can affect someone.
    I'll also say those little keyboard warrior assholes have never squared up face to face and it shows.

  • @marypatterson1860
    @marypatterson1860 Год назад

    What kind of planner is this in this video?

  • @nataliepuckett8106
    @nataliepuckett8106 Год назад

    Tell them! People need to stay out of other people’s business and out of their marriages! My mom did everything for my dad when he had cancer and depression and he took care of her the last 10 years of her life when she was disabled. It was their business.
    And it’s very clear Chris doesn’t do everything for you for anyone who watches, but it’s still no one else’s business how the two of do things in your marriage.

  • @meaganreams72685
    @meaganreams72685 Год назад

    OMG BECKY FUCK 🖕WHOEVER SAID THAT I'M SO GLAD YOU SAID SOMETHING AND DEFENDED YOURSELF (NOT THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE TO) BC THIS IS YOUR CHANNEL HUN ...YOURS AND YOURS ONLY....YOU CAN SAY WTFE YOU WANT AND YES EVEN IF ITS ON YT IT'S STILL YOUR BUSSINESS NOT THERES ...w/e you decide to share with us (your subscribers) it's up to you!! & I'll be damned if any of us should be judging you or making you feel bad bc of something you wanted to get off your chest and talk about while you're filming a video you shouldn't have to deal with negative bullshit comments like that bc I also struggle with mental health I suffer from depression, real bad anxiety.. now me and my man aren't together like married but we've been together for it'll be 17 years this September(and we both wear rings so we're basicly married) and thank God I did find a man like him that supports me and deals with my craziness and knows how to deal with my crazy
    Mental Statewhen I'm having a bipolar episode or I'm depressed or wtfe it might be any given moment!!!& thank God I found a man like that and I totally understand where you're coming from I wouldn't want to pick up dog s*** in the middle of the day or at night LOL so I definitely wouldn't be doing it in the early hours of the morning cuz I'm not a morning person even if I was I still want to be picking up dog s*** so I get where you're coming from people tell me all the time like some of my few friends & my sister's n my mom are always saying YOUR SO FN LUCKY N SO SPOILED MEAGAN YOU DONT HAVE TO DO ANYTHUBG BC MICHAEL SPOILS YOU OMG N BLAH BLAH FN BLAH....N I'M THE TYPE OF PERSON I SAY WTF I WANT WHEN THE FUCK I WANT NO MATTER WHAT N IDK IF THAT'S A BLESSING OR A CURSE BUT I'VE ALWAYS BEEN LIKE THAT SO I LET THEM KNOW YES MICHAEL DOES DO ALOT FOR ME AND OUR CHILD (WE HAD TOGETHER) N WTF CARES IF HE COOKS...I CLEAN UP THE MESS AFTERWARDS (EVEN THOUGH I HATE CLEANING TOO LOL BUT WE WOUKD STARVE TO DEATH IF WE HAD TO DEPEND ON ME FOR THE COOKING N YES MICHAEL DOES ALOT MORE THEN MOST HUSBANDS/BFS DO BUT HE also knew who how I was like with my mental health Etc and he knew the type of person I was I don't know how to cook I don't like to clean and I'm not your typical stay-at-home-mom type woman I'm just not I don't go to PTA meetings I don't join the like Mom's clubs at school I don't fn care too if I'm being totally honest n I'm not trying to talk shit ab the woman that do I'm just trying to let you know I'm not your typical "housewife/stay at home mom" Now I do things I clean my son n 'husband's ' clothes are always washed n folded n put up they don't ever have to worry about things like that but Chris sounds alot like Michael n I honestly don't know how I found such a great man but I do know I deserve him n you deserve Chris and whatever works for y'all in yalls household ...THATS Y'ALLS BUSSINESS REGUARDLESS IF YOU SHARE LIL THINGS WITH US SUBSCRIBERS HERE N THERE THAT WOMAN HAD NO RIGHT TO SAY WTF SHE SAID AND HONESTLY BECKY I LOVE WHEN YOU SHARE LIL BITS OF YOUR LIFE N MENTAL HEALTH STRUGGLES BC IT REMINDS ME I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE!! AND IM SO GLAD THAT YOU BRING AWARENESS TO IT (AND AREN'T ASHAMED OR EMBARRASSED BC OF IT) I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL I'VE BEEN WATCHING YOU FOR A GOOD 2 YRS NOW I WANNA SAY N ON MY OFF DAYS IT SEEMS LIKE I ALWAYS CLICK ONE OF YOUR VIDEOS WHERE YOUR BEING JUST HILARIOUS N I JUST WANT TO SAY THANK YOU FOR THAT BC UNLESS YOU SUFFER FROM MENTAL ILLNESS OF SOME KIND PPL WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHAT PPL THAT DO STRUGGLE WITH IT GO THROUGH ON A DAILY BASIS ...SO PLS DONT LET THAT PETTY ASS JEALOUS WOMAN (BC SHE REALIZED HOW GREAT CHRIS IS N SHE DON'T HAVE A MAN OR SHES JUST A MISERABLE PERSON) BUT IDG WHY WOMAN HAVE TO SIT THERE TAKE THE TIME OUT OF THERE DAY TO COMMENT OR SAY SOMETHING TO FN BRING ANOTHER WOMAN DOWN....WHY CAN'T WE JUST SUPPORT EACH OTHER N LIFT EACH OTHER UP? AND JUST BE DESCENT HUMANS? THERES ENOUGH HATE N EVIL IN THE WORLD ALREADY SO LET'S TRY N BRING BACK SOME GOOD AND KINDNESS AND BE THE TYPE OF PERSON OTHER PPL DONT MIND BEING AROUND BC WERE NOT STRAIGHT UP C*NTS! LOL I'M SORRY I KNOW I WAS A LIL MEAN IN SOME PARTS OF MY COMMENT BUT I JUST COULDN'T NOT SAY ANYTHING BC I KNOW EXACTLY HOW IT FEELS TO BE 'PUT DOWN' AND TALKED TO THAT KIND OF WAY N IT SUX SO I'M TELLING YOU THAT YOU ARE AN AMAZING WIFE N MOM FROM WHAT YOU SHARE ON YOUR CHANNEL WITH US SO FAR ....I CAN JUST TELL BY YOUR ENERGY N THINGS YOU SAY YOUR GENUINELY A GOOD PERSON N I KNOW CHEIS N YOUR KIDS RECOGNIZE THAT BECKY N HUN THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS FUCK THESE WOMAN THAT WANT TO HATE!! HOPE TOU HAVE A GREAT REST OF YOUR DAY 😉👏

    • @Whoopsididitagainco
      @Whoopsididitagainco  Год назад +1

      Sorry Hun, took me awhile to reply, but I really wanted to reply to this message and take the time to express my appreciation to you. I won hundred percent agree with everything that you have said, and I’m so happy that my channel is a safe place for you. You’re so right people who don’t suffer with mental health. Don’t understand what we go through on a daily basis. I won’t take shit from anyone that’s why I called out the comment and vented about it. I can’t stand people that belittle Mental Health. Your comment honestly struck a chord within me. We sound like we should be identical twins LOL thank you so much for taking the time to write your comment. I really do appreciate it.

    • @meaganreams72685
      @meaganreams72685 Год назад

      😉

  • @dietcokemad
    @dietcokemad Год назад

    I fuckingg love you ❤

  • @Coffeeandplannerz
    @Coffeeandplannerz Год назад

    I wonder if it’s the same person who always puts nasty comments on my videos but I leave them up for people to see how childish she is lol

  • @ellengraves8146
    @ellengraves8146 Год назад +1

    I absolutely cannot stand when people play music when they are talking. It drives me insane!