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  • Little Women - Laurie Proposes to Jo: Laurie (Timothée Chalamet) proposes to Jo (Saoirse Ronan).
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    In the years after the Civil War, Jo March lives in New York and makes her living as a writer, while her sister Amy studies painting in Paris. Amy has a chance encounter with Theodore, a childhood crush who proposed to Jo but was ultimately rejected. Their oldest sibling, Meg, is married to a schoolteacher, while shy sister Beth develops a devastating illness that brings the family back together.
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    Cast: Saoirse Ronan, Timothée Chalamet
    Director: Greta Gerwig
    Screenwriter: Greta Gerwig
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  • @velvetupsidedown
    @velvetupsidedown 5 years ago +46179

    laurie: we look like a couple
    jo: a couple of besties

  • @anabellacarter5527
    @anabellacarter5527 6 years ago +17836

    "I can't say yes truly so I'm not going to say it at all." Stunning

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 5 years ago +6

      hi ! i've just posted my fan made video of jo and laurie !
      if you want check it out. remember watch it with quality 1080 p

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 5 years ago +5

      This is my UwU thanks it means a lot for me

    • @hoeney7815
      @hoeney7815 5 years ago +2

      Does anyone know where to watch the movie ?

    • @jaijai4710
      @jaijai4710 5 years ago

      @hoeney7815 its in netflix

    • @thomasdoe6768
      @thomasdoe6768 2 years ago +2

      And brave! ☝️^^

  • @MojitoMatt
    @MojitoMatt 3 years ago +6318

    Its so odd how you can love someone so deeply but that feeling just isn’t reciprocated. Like something is missing for them. Idk if anything is more heartbreaking than that.

    • @onlyoneyouinalltimes
      @onlyoneyouinalltimes 3 years ago +12

    • @Slow_Internet
      @Slow_Internet 3 years ago +138

      Im experiencing it right now. It truly is heartbreaking

    • @Urim4life
      @Urim4life 3 years ago +57

      @Slow_Internet I'm with you bro, same with you I never loved someone like her but to think that she still wouldn't care for me... it really is heart breaking

    • @baidikbhowmick5165
      @baidikbhowmick5165 3 years ago +34

      @Slow_Internet been experiencing it for the last 9 years. I still am not over her

    • @124Eline
      @124Eline 3 years ago +47

      Same. I've been in love with my best friend for years. But as much as he loves me, he is not now nor will he ever be in love with me. Hurts so much.

  • @amyrah4637
    @amyrah4637 5 years ago +25947

    Fun fact: Him interrupting Jo and saying 'i love you' twice was not on the script-
    I cried

  • @claudiazg9932
    @claudiazg9932 6 years ago +28640

    Coronavirus can't kill me because i died the day Jo rejected Laurie

    • @LivRomantic
      @LivRomantic 6 years ago +168

      Same✌🏻

    • @evahernandez4748
      @evahernandez4748 6 years ago +445

      When I watched the movie for the first time I cried during this scene🙁

    • @l602
      @l602 6 years ago +265

      I watched the movie 30 minutes ago and I can’t stop crying.

    • @NomadAngie
      @NomadAngie 6 years ago +328

      I died when 1995 Jo (Winona Ryder) rejected 1995 Laurie (Christian Bale), and I died again now.

    • @sumilangfamily7781
      @sumilangfamily7781 6 years ago +140

      I just can't over it why she rejected him

  • @randywhitehead9660
    @randywhitehead9660 6 years ago +6440

    They both have PERFECT hair in this scene

  • @samaymodi4626
    @samaymodi4626 4 years ago +6674

    when she says ‘except that’ at 2:39 and he turns with that glimmer of hope….Always gets me

    • @Astonelle
      @Astonelle 3 years ago +189

      Aw man IT'S SO SAD 😭😭😭

    • @hegstad9
      @hegstad9 3 years ago +251

      I believe the director told him to turn with the last glimmer of hope in his eyes ~ and then disappointment ~ too which Timothée Chalamet added the little nod ~ which the director loved.

    • @Astonelle
      @Astonelle 3 years ago +11

      @hegstad9 awh

    • @mitch8088
      @mitch8088 2 years ago +42

      ​@hegstad9 Yes! And then after the turn and nod you just see all the hope leave him for the last time 😭

    • @BLANK__ISEEYOU
      @BLANK__ISEEYOU 2 years ago +26

      And then he realizes it not what he hoped for you see his body language shift again to hopeless

  • @priyakshi.7128
    @priyakshi.7128 6 years ago +15097

    I love how she understood it by just looking at Laurie without even saying what he mean to say.

    • @estrellamarrone
      @estrellamarrone 5 years ago +270

      Exactly, that part drives me crazy!!

    • @lamdinghi
      @lamdinghi 5 years ago +348

      cause they're soulmates 🥺

    • @shrinalpatel4350
      @shrinalpatel4350 5 years ago +110

      Same. It reminded me of when oliver said something along "are you saying what I'm thinking?" in cmbyn. Both understood without actually saying anything.

    • @sarahabib7592
      @sarahabib7592 5 years ago +131

      I believe it is because a woman always knows! ...espicially when a guy looks at her with those looks

    • @darwis4769
      @darwis4769 5 years ago +106

      Because Laurie looked thirsty af lol

  • @johnsmisek02
    @johnsmisek02 5 years ago +9192

    Greta Gerwig broke my heart when she described this scene as “Laurie and Jo leaving childhood, and Laurie spent his childhood with Jo, and he doesn’t want to leave it without her”

  • @elxcvr7390
    @elxcvr7390 5 years ago +11718

    the fact that teddy was the one who said “and i’ll watch” but jo ended up watching

  • @QuantumKimchi
    @QuantumKimchi Year ago +73

    2:40 the sparkle of the hope in his eyes my god this is heartbreaking

  • @peterfrank3365
    @peterfrank3365 6 years ago +7096

    That cinematography strongly evokes a painting.

    • @anaa8060
      @anaa8060 6 years ago +51

      Greta gerwig was trying to make it represent a painting

    • @abisena43
      @abisena43 5 years ago +26

      The facial features of the actors surely helps a ton though...

    • @sherylsabanal1593
      @sherylsabanal1593 5 years ago

      An Ok movie with a mediocre performance from Timothee Chalamet!

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 5 years ago +1

      hi ! i've just posted my fan made video of jo and laurie !
      if you want check it out. remember watch it with quality 1080 p

  • @emoben3393
    @emoben3393 5 years ago +17944

    "I'm homely and I'm awkward and I'm odd-"
    "I love you Jo"
    "And you'd be ashamed of me-"
    "I love you Jo"
    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @ashcovenden803
      @ashcovenden803 5 years ago +1500

      the two i love you jo” lines were improvised by timothée & weren’t in the script, it kills me

    • @h.j.6976
      @h.j.6976 4 years ago +204

      :( I love him

    • @Angel-Konan
      @Angel-Konan 4 years ago +43

      I love your profile picture

    • @bellayurko
      @bellayurko 4 years ago +12

      @h.j.6976 P&P reference??? Mannnn

    • @astridstar2
      @astridstar2 4 years ago +10

      😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @ayaya_mandu
    @ayaya_mandu 5 years ago +12431

    When he said " and I'll watch " but it ends up being her who was watching, that got me so bad

    • @idklol7392
      @idklol7392 5 years ago +82

      YES

    • @iknowexactlywhoyouare8701
      @iknowexactlywhoyouare8701 5 years ago +112

      Christian Bale’s Laurie said the exact same thing

    • @NyanHomeschoolGirl17
      @NyanHomeschoolGirl17 5 years ago +117

      Juliet Hounsell Yeah Christians interpretation was more angsty whereas Timothee was gentle and sad, both fantastic

    • @dayagarcia3608
      @dayagarcia3608 5 years ago +90

      He also ends up watching her being happy with the tutor from NY

    • @shital387
      @shital387 5 years ago +90

      Yeah I wanted Laurie and Jo to be together so badddddd😭😭😭😭

  • @blairwaldorf7111
    @blairwaldorf7111 5 years ago +38342

    him interrupting her and saying “i love you jo” when she lists everything that is “wrong” with her kills me every time

    • @ancientnight
      @ancientnight 5 years ago +838

      It’s the most accurate when a girl tells a guy how much flawed they are and the guy just keeps on saying it... well I did it before watching this so... maybe it’s just me

    • @cheshire123
      @cheshire123 5 years ago +49

      yeees omg :((

    • @lauriemarie1983
      @lauriemarie1983 5 years ago +120

      Think this has to be up there as one of my fav movie scenes, acting is stunning, ♥️ this film ♥️

    • @lauriemarie1983
      @lauriemarie1983 5 years ago +236

      The bit the gets me is when he says "and I'll watch" 💔

    • @walawala1787
      @walawala1787 5 years ago +22

      same.... i just... cant...

  • @zazazebee
    @zazazebee 4 years ago +3680

    The whole scene is heartbreaking, but what really gets me is the little head shake at 0:20
    He knows she doesn't want to have that conversation, and he knows he can't go on without having it.
    A small detail, but it's so brilliant!

    • @LaraTang
      @LaraTang 3 years ago +79

      The way he shook his head reminded me of the mannerisms of Andrew Garfield as Peter Parker!

    • @parulkeshav474
      @parulkeshav474 3 years ago +22

      It's written so well in the book.

    • @fillademilpais
      @fillademilpais 3 years ago

      That's right 👍🏻

    • @leilagraham9081
      @leilagraham9081 2 years ago +6

      @LaraTangshut up i was literally like is it just me or is he giving andrew garfield rn

    • @Beanhill_94
      @Beanhill_94 2 years ago +20

      He’s like resigned in a way. That it has to be done. It cannot be ignored anymore.

  • @anxiousartist7401
    @anxiousartist7401 5 years ago +17319

    i’m literally obsessed with this scene when he says “and i’ll watch” AAAAAAAAAHHHHHH

  • @farahf6740
    @farahf6740 5 years ago +14606

    The way poor Laurie turns around eagerly when Jo says “except that..” breaks my heart, because he’s still hoping that she’s gonna say yes.

    • @johnrubicon-f8s
      @johnrubicon-f8s 5 years ago +221

      yea its really heartbreaking

    • @claudiaparra6860
      @claudiaparra6860 5 years ago +13

      time stamp?

    • @lindsey2432
      @lindsey2432 5 years ago +37

      @claudiaparra6860 2:39

    • @claudiaparra6860
      @claudiaparra6860 5 years ago +25

      @lindsey2432 pain😔

    • @lachicaarte
      @lachicaarte 5 years ago +98

      I always saw that part as if he turn back so keep receiving all the pain. Like affronting she her denial. I think he had already lose the hope :(

  • @rogerkincaid931
    @rogerkincaid931 6 years ago +15232

    The cinematography is breathtaking.

    • @SuperMovieLvr933
      @SuperMovieLvr933 6 years ago +168

      This movie is breathtaking on literally every conceivable level.

    • @Jo-nb9eb
      @Jo-nb9eb 6 years ago +13

      It alright

    • @lizr2728
      @lizr2728 6 years ago +36

      It's all thanks to the amazing director Greta Gerwig

    • @rogerkincaid931
      @rogerkincaid931 6 years ago +8

      @lizr2728 - You mean DP Yorick Le Saux?

    • @kross2490
      @kross2490 6 years ago +4

      Roger Kincaid must have never seen blade runner.

  • @LaaNa-eq5hc
    @LaaNa-eq5hc 4 years ago +8705

    Jo is just being honest to him. I love how she explains it, turning him down but encouraging him at the same time finding someone better.

    • @LaaNa-eq5hc
      @LaaNa-eq5hc 4 years ago +116

      And teddy's love isnt that even great because he fall for other girl that easily.

    • @dannyvista6541
      @dannyvista6541 3 years ago +337

      @LaaNa-eq5hc He has to move on eventually else he could literally go insane from that kind of love after years

    • @lenadjukic5570
      @lenadjukic5570 3 years ago +34

      I agree and i do understand that moment verry well, cause i' ve been in that position....Jo being most honest, she couldn be doing him a biger favour

    • @lilylan5870
      @lilylan5870 3 years ago +69

      I can see your point...I also think Jo's right to be honest. But...being encouraged that you can find someone else better by the one you deeply love....I don't know...that kind of feeling hurts a lot. If I were Teddy, I would feel the more she said, the more painful feeling her words caused. I probably would only hope that Jo could say no more after giving her rejection and just let me be alone, crying as much as I wish so as to let time heal me.

    • @magaencina2863
      @magaencina2863 3 years ago +101

      @LaaNa-eq5hc easily? He fell for Amy 7 YEARS later lol

  • @kaitlynmartin2075
    @kaitlynmartin2075 6 years ago +13057

    Weirdly enough, this is probably my favorite proposal scene because even though they walk away hurt, a hurtful word is never spoken between them about the other. In fact they go out of their way to insist to each other that they'll find someone to love because they hold each other in such high regard.

    • @liz5473
      @liz5473 5 years ago +10

      Never seen this movie. Where is his British accent? He’s not convincing me that his character is from whatever time period that is

    • @kaitlynmartin2075
      @kaitlynmartin2075 5 years ago +193

      @liz5473 they are in 1860s america

    • @kimmiesue318
      @kimmiesue318 5 years ago +26

      I agree with you this is my favorite scene also!!! In my opinion this scene is better than the Winona Rider and Christian Bale’s Jo and Laurie proposal scene in the 90’s version of Little Women!!

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 5 years ago

      hi ! i've just posted my fan made video of jo and laurie !
      if you want check it out. remember watch it with quality 1080 p

    • @morganmarsh1276
      @morganmarsh1276 5 years ago +37

      @liz5473 it's the late 1860s early 1870s after the american civil war. Around the Lincoln assassination/ reconstruction era

  • @JoaoVictor-me6fq
    @JoaoVictor-me6fq 5 years ago +8901

    The pause that he gives in the sentence "Say yes...and let's be happy together'' makes me think of how simple the situation is in his head.

    • @pinkylolly3995
      @pinkylolly3995 5 years ago +308

      I always thought that it was awkward, as if he wasn’t really sure himself what comes after

    • @kelgirl99
      @kelgirl99 5 years ago +407

      I think he always thought that she was in love with him too and that it was just a matter of time, but that maybe she was just too scared to take that leap. Whereas he had no problem just going for it and accepting it if it doesn't work out, she just didn't want to risk their friendship

    • @gfdsa2866
      @gfdsa2866 5 years ago +25

      What's complicated about it? When it's simply Love??

    • @JoaoVictor-me6fq
      @JoaoVictor-me6fq 5 years ago +92

      @gfdsa2866 Unfortunately the feeling isn't mutual

    • @546-apoorvaranjan7
      @546-apoorvaranjan7 4 years ago +79

      @gfdsa2866 hah! I would wish love was that easy!
      Falling in love is easy ..... because of all the hormones.
      Being in love is hard it takes work and commitment and sacrifice . The amount which you would only be willing to give and suffer for if you had a solid reason- true unconditional love, which is not present here, it's just friendship and respect .Jo understands that but you and Lauri don't

  • @Aggelostououranou
    @Aggelostououranou 6 years ago +9588

    Timothee Chalamet has some crazy anime hair in this scene and I love it lol. Beautiful scene, beautiful movie.

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 6 years ago +103

      Perfect way to describe. Hahaha

    • @karson_haidi
      @karson_haidi 6 years ago +82

      My only problem with him is that he didn't seem to age the same way the girls did throughout the movie

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 6 years ago +6

      Karson Million very true.

    • @Aggelostououranou
      @Aggelostououranou 6 years ago +52

      @karson_haidi No one really seemed to age at all imo lol 😆

    • @Nattatonka
      @Nattatonka 6 years ago +16

      Nessie Jr I almost busted out loud laughing but you’re right “crazy anime hair” 😂 I love it!!!

  • @martinsocha2339
    @martinsocha2339 7 months ago +37

    3:04 And I will watch…

  • @aubegrey5645
    @aubegrey5645 5 years ago +7175

    My daily routine:
    1. Reread this chapter
    2. Rewatch this scene
    3. Recry

  • @bythewai
    @bythewai 6 years ago +7268

    The acting is so good. That slight lean in for a kiss at 1:41 and jo pushing him away as she continues talking. This scene kills me

  • @raizakm4898
    @raizakm4898 5 years ago +7300

    'I can't love anyone else Jo, I only love you"
    *Proposes to Amy

    • @amelie_thingz4471
      @amelie_thingz4471 5 years ago +432

      This confused my emotions and brains beyond belief😂😂

    • @SaraH-jn5db
      @SaraH-jn5db 5 years ago +388

      Watching it happen then in the very next scene he sees jo with another man and still looks so hurt you know it was to try to replace her not loving Amy as she is

    • @trollingaround6343
      @trollingaround6343 5 years ago +332

      @SaraH-jn5db in reality, Laurie does love Amy. They can't say everything that's in the two book of Little Women in a two hours film lmao. In the end, Amy loves Laurie and he loves her

    • @beatriceausten2791
      @beatriceausten2791 5 years ago +477

      It's hard to tell in the movie but in the books years had past in between Laurie getting rejected by Jo and pursuing Amy. Not to mention that he was still pretty young, eighteen or nineteen I believe, so he was probably being an overdramatic teenager when he said he would never love another.

    • @trollingaround6343
      @trollingaround6343 5 years ago +36

      @beatriceausten2791 exactly. the movie is good but sometimes they've mess up things like che scene avere Beth gets the piano but okay

  • @jinjin-g8b
    @jinjin-g8b Year ago +121

    I love how she lists all her flaws and all he responds with is "I love you Jo"

    • @4rtsyval
      @4rtsyval Year ago +3

      which reflects their characters at this point in the story perfectly. he's acting on a whim, not really listening to her. and she's being more centered & objective on why they're a terrible match.
      all in all, they don't work together because they're far too similar.

    • @PixelPhantom7ify
      @PixelPhantom7ify 8 months ago

      @4rtsyval They were perfect match

    • @4rtsyval
      @4rtsyval 8 months ago

      ​​@PixelPhantom7ify for best friends? sure! but as lovers? partners? nope
      they both wanted very different things in life. jo wanted to live out her life outside of societal expectations out of her OWN conviction-laurie wanted and did that out ouf rebelling and not wishing to live under his grandfather's shadow, no true, substantial purpose behind his actions.
      this would've clashed and it did, as you can see here. laurie is acting rashly and on a whim, while jo is thinking miles ahead of him before he even truly says anything.

  • @beagemini9472
    @beagemini9472 5 years ago +6114

    “ if the main character is a female, she has to be married or die”
    Jo: haha no

    • @medhavikasini
      @medhavikasini 5 years ago +197

      She did.. get married tho I think I mean she found love at the end

    • @blehh010
      @blehh010 4 years ago +109

      @medhavikasini yea. I think the writer wanted to convey that its ok to love and settle down. Your life doesn't have to be a political statement or representation of normalizing stigmas.

    • @jaxonrangerdiesel6406
      @jaxonrangerdiesel6406 4 years ago +235

      @blehh010 actually, you’re wrong. The only reason why Jo got married at the end was because the author’s publisher told her that if the protagonist is female, she has to make the female character get married at the end. The author always wanted her to remain single without marriage being the ultimate goal but changed it because of the pressure concerning women at that time. Look it up.

    • @giuliaanichini7667
      @giuliaanichini7667 4 years ago +76

      @jaxonrangerdiesel6406 yes, and that actually ruined the book for me. As a young girl I was always disappointed that she married Friedrich. As a woman now, I can probably understand it better, but it's a book for young girls after all...

    • @alicerocksell5379
      @alicerocksell5379 3 years ago +9

      Did she get married in the series? Cause in the book she did. She married friedrick the german professor.

  • @jaynew6414
    @jaynew6414 5 years ago +5211

    no one:
    jo: BESTIE VIBES ONLY, BESTIE VIBES ONLY, BESTIE VIBES ONLY

  • @kennemedia01
    @kennemedia01 6 years ago +5741

    I almost cried because of how intense it felt when Laurie confessed his feelings for her and he felt her about to push him away. When he kept telling her he loved her, I was...feeling too many emotions to even express how I felt watching this scene

    • @victoria-wildflower
      @victoria-wildflower 6 years ago +36

      You sum up exactly what I felt at the theatre ! I also almost cried, there were so many emotions going on

    • @melinav9045
      @melinav9045 6 years ago +34

      its ik sad to say i was actually balling, he loved her so much to get let down , and the fact that they didn't have a happily ever after together tore me apart. Though at the end all the loose strings were tied im still a little bit sad

    • @sevlowcreature6727
      @sevlowcreature6727 6 years ago +5

      Kennedy Evans I did cry

    • @SaraBendjafar
      @SaraBendjafar 5 years ago

      PRECISELY

    • @legomazzystar
      @legomazzystar 5 years ago +11

      Kennedy Evans and at 2:35 or so she said there was something else and he nodded hoping that she changes her mind😔😍

  • @hannahtarek7974
    @hannahtarek7974 8 months ago +76

    him trying to kiss her and she backs away so fast so he just gives up kills me everytime 01:40

    • @choisweets
      @choisweets 7 months ago +8

      I NOTICED THIS TOO 😭😭

  • @hanaahanafi532
    @hanaahanafi532 6 years ago +2895

    "and I'll watch" that pause he made before saying this made this scene perfect

    • @-chenlanying5818
      @-chenlanying5818 10 months ago +2

      And he did. Near the end of the movie when Amy told Jo she's in love with the professor

  • @desmona8225
    @desmona8225 5 years ago +4696

    The open grass field they’re in, them both arguing, the wind going by fast, the yellow Jo’s wearing, and the messy hair portrays childhood so obviously yet it’s such a hidden detail. I love it so much

    • @jordanscoville5033
      @jordanscoville5033 4 years ago +117

      Also the fact that the vest that Jo is wearing was worn by Laurie in another scene where Jo jokingly get down on one knee and offers Laurie the ring that he then wears on his left ring finger for a good part of the rest of the movie

    • @hermione9445
      @hermione9445 3 years ago +1

      A hot lrish girl ..

    • @Daisyviolettbeauty
      @Daisyviolettbeauty 3 years ago +8

      Not me crying over this DETAIL

    • @hermione9445
      @hermione9445 3 years ago

      @Daisyviolettbeauty
      Me neither . she's hot .lol .

  • @binhn.c.7003
    @binhn.c.7003 5 years ago +5256

    This scene alone wins it for me. It always annoyed me how in the other versions the proposal scene is always so peaceful, with Jo just calmly trying to reason with Teddy. In this one they let them quarrel and you can truly tell how desperate he is to be with her and how desperately she is trying to show him that she doesn’t want that.
    They’re actually fighting and I love that for some reason lol

    • @fatimagutierrez888
      @fatimagutierrez888 5 years ago +213

      The reason i like it better is because it shows more passion, whereas if they were more calm it wouldn’t feel as realistic or as heartbreaking, it feels as if they care more in this version.

    • @deborahmaeomalza7697
      @deborahmaeomalza7697 4 years ago +32

      I absolutely agree! Although I have loved the other version the direction of the whole movie was superb for even first-time watchers in understanding the end and how each character revealed themselves, worthy of how they ended up with. This scene, was beautifully and more captivatingly portrayed than other versions, the fighting, the desperation of Laurie, and Jo's insistent rambling trying to explain herself. It all just captured the very moment as it should be. The cinematography is also swelled, it easily became a part of my list of movie adaptations worth rewatching.

    • @mariogar766
      @mariogar766 4 years ago +27

      It's a modern scene... very modern... we see movement, feeling, touch... in the other versions it is everything calm and surreal...
      1933 and 1949 Jo reiects Laurie embrace him 😳
      In 1994 Laurie Kisses Jo 😳
      Here they are more realistic...
      She reiects him...
      He becomes furios and sad...
      They make higher their voice tone screaming... Realistic!!
      she is sad too because don't love him as a lover but love him the same as an important person in her life (a soulmate without being her boyfriend) and don't want to miss him...
      CHAPEAU Saoirse and Timothé

    • @jasminnoack3075
      @jasminnoack3075 4 years ago +8

      Because the other scene had this passive aggressiveness that just... sucks!

    • @lola.cruz916
      @lola.cruz916 4 years ago +9

      Because it's a more realistic portrayal of the human condition

  • @Sthuthukile
    @Sthuthukile Month ago +18

    2:10 I like this part because it shows that she's thought about it, but couldn't picture them having a life together. The fact that he only had to look at her and she knew, means it was always in the back of her mind but she didn't want to face the truth.

  • @newjerseydiablo
    @newjerseydiablo 5 years ago +7985

    Why can’t Timmy and Saoirse ever be in a movie where they finally just end up together? Seriously, their chemistry together is just so beautiful!

    • @empousi3947
      @empousi3947 5 years ago +60

      Because the feelings for each over are not neutral

    • @empousi3947
      @empousi3947 5 years ago +51

      I meant mutual

    • @taylorswiftfan1423
      @taylorswiftfan1423 5 years ago +81

      Because that didn’t happen in the book....

    • @suktadas9737
      @suktadas9737 5 years ago +21

      Exactly, if not in the original book why ruin it the movie.

    • @bea8827
      @bea8827 5 years ago +7

      I need

  • @Sauceinmyrice
    @Sauceinmyrice 5 years ago +4020

    Lady bird : *Timothée rejects Saoirse*
    Little women : *Timothée gets rejected by Saoirse*
    Me : what next?

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 5 years ago +323

      THEY WILL NEVER END IN A MOVIE TOGETHER I THINK...

    • @rs-cg7wo
      @rs-cg7wo 5 years ago +107

      What’s next is that Greta will forbid them from getting together

    • @NehaSingh-ty2vk
      @NehaSingh-ty2vk 5 years ago +42

      Saoirse is actually attracted to girls - Ammonite.😂

    • @Nostalgio
      @Nostalgio 5 years ago +42

      They’ll be true lovers in the next one.

    • @kaitlynmartin2075
      @kaitlynmartin2075 5 years ago +18

      Saoirse and Timothée get together...?

  • @akshitagupta6015
    @akshitagupta6015 5 years ago +5154

    To this date I don't know how Timothee didn't get nominated for best supporting actor at the Oscars for this.

    • @heatherbukowski2102
      @heatherbukowski2102 5 years ago +250

      the male category is always dominated by older actors for some reason

    • @akshitagupta6015
      @akshitagupta6015 5 years ago +5

      @heatherbukowski2102 Damn

    • @helens1016
      @helens1016 5 years ago +41

      Because he's not that good

    • @alisiofficial
      @alisiofficial 5 years ago +45

      @helens1016 wait, why? i thought this scene was amazing?

    • @helens1016
      @helens1016 5 years ago +134

      @alisiofficial He performed well, and he was once nominated for an Oscar for Call Me By Your Name. But this just wasn't his best work in my opinion. Saoirse was nominated for her performance here which I think was absolutely deserved. She truly outshined him in this. It almost makes you feel bad for Chalamet, lol.

  • @j.r.nessary8582
    @j.r.nessary8582 4 years ago +1953

    “I love my liberty too well to be in any hurry to give it up.” Ugh. I feel that! But I also feel Laurie’s heartbreak. This scene forever just hits me right in all the feels every time.

    • @kelgirl99
      @kelgirl99 3 years ago +49

      The funny thing is. She loves being free. And I don't think Laurie would have ever pushed her to give up the things she enjoyed. I get that she didn't love him. But in my opinion, it didn't make sense that she'd end up with the teacher dude either. Laurie, out of anyone in the world, would understand her personality and prospects and would be the one to support them.

    • @realdavidjones1623
      @realdavidjones1623 3 years ago +1

      @kelgirl99 I thought she was called Laurie and he was called joe, wow

    • @kelgirl99
      @kelgirl99 3 years ago +2

      @Real David Jones No. His hame is Theodore Lawrence, so all the girls call him Laurie. And Jo's name is short for Josephine.

    • @realdavidjones1623
      @realdavidjones1623 3 years ago

      @kelgirl99 thank you :)

    • @AnnaBellaChannel
      @AnnaBellaChannel 3 years ago +18

      Laurie should have given Jo a few years to enjoy her early adulthood freedom and then asked her when she was 23 years old and he would have got a different answer. Laurie wanted to take his playmate into adulthood with him.

  • @haileymay1656
    @haileymay1656 6 years ago +3257

    Bruh imagine be able to be in a love story with Timothee TWICE

    • @dishitagupta6582
      @dishitagupta6582 5 years ago +7

      Whats the other one!?

    • @dishitagupta6582
      @dishitagupta6582 5 years ago +4

      @violet-ut6hg oo thanks

    • @dishitagupta6582
      @dishitagupta6582 5 years ago +4

      @Hermione Lovegood if i were a boy i would definitely love that

    • @lupitavelez6036
      @lupitavelez6036 5 years ago +5

      Dishita Gupta im a girl and i love her and timmy

    • @temtech9730
      @temtech9730 5 years ago +48

      @Hermione Lovegood Saoirse Ronan is very beautiful and crazy talented. Too bad in every time she appears on screen they can only ask the pronunciation of her name.

  • @raihanaradhana2246
    @raihanaradhana2246 6 years ago +4862

    imagine being as attractive as Timothee but still got rejected. rip me

    • @malex027
      @malex027 6 years ago +174

      if he gets rejected... what can WE expect

    • @xxXmmxx
      @xxXmmxx 6 years ago +188

      Not everything is about looks. You can't love someone just because of their beauty

    • @10ksubsbeforeschoolstarts63
      @10ksubsbeforeschoolstarts63 5 years ago +25

      And that’s on David Dobrik and Madison Beer but Timothée is Madison

    • @malex027
      @malex027 5 years ago +4

      @10ksubsbeforeschoolstarts63 Omg yes

    • @cinematicsxiao
      @cinematicsxiao 5 years ago

      hi ! i've just posted my fan made video of jo and laurie !
      if you want check it out. remember watch it with quality 1080 p

  • @merick1453
    @merick1453 6 years ago +2785

    1:41 Notice how Laurie leaned for a kiss but Jo kinda pushed back.. man that must’ve hurt.

    • @ang-gh8gg
      @ang-gh8gg 5 years ago +137

      Mark Christian he’s even staring right at her lips :/

    • @curemysin
      @curemysin 5 years ago +11

      FR 😔

    • @sophierose9246
      @sophierose9246 5 years ago +14

      Kudos to Jo March. I couldn't turn down all of that.

    • @dreamsteddybearsmaster
      @dreamsteddybearsmaster 5 years ago +2

      LOL I never noticed that... great eyes you have

    • @muscari5482
      @muscari5482 5 years ago +34

      Why is everyone only talking about Timmy? Clearly Jo wasn’t ready in this scene and I admire that she held onto what she felt and rejected him instead of giving in, especially in a society that pressures women into marriage.

  • @bluecali4na
    @bluecali4na 4 years ago +2355

    You can still love someone and not want or be in a relationship with them. That’s what makes this scene so powerful.

  • @samginoble2397
    @samginoble2397 5 years ago +7158

    I wonder if the camera angle was intentional. They’re standing on a hill so it will seem like one has the high ground and the other appears smaller. In the beginning of the scene Laurie is in the “smaller” position because he is confessing his feelings and being vulnerable, but when Jo speaks truthfully about her probably never getting married, Laurie appears to have the high ground and walks away leaving Jo at a low point. Maybe I analyze to much but I thought it was cool

  • @leah6154
    @leah6154 5 years ago +579

    i never forget how jo always knew laurie secretly loved her. and she always hoped that he wouldn’t bring it up- and she wanted to love him back but couldn’t

  • @dakota6190
    @dakota6190 5 years ago +12355

    he loved her too early.
    she loved him too late.
    :(

    • @jcrocks6698
      @jcrocks6698 5 years ago +1287

      No. He had a crush on her and she never loved him as anything more than a friend or brother.

    • @kawaiipopsimmer542
      @kawaiipopsimmer542 5 years ago +1560

      Honestly it was kind of complicated I don’t think she ever really loved him in the way he claimed to love her...in the end she said she regretted not saying yes to him and when the mom asked if she loved him she couldn’t say she did..all she said is she wanted to be loved by someone and could learn to love him in that way and her mom responded then that’s not love. She was lonely and felt like she had lost her best friend and then later on found out her LITTLE SISTER married someone who was like her soul mater (not a romantic soul mate) which crushed her.

    • @RachelBlackburn
      @RachelBlackburn 5 years ago +101

      @kawaiipopsimmer542 you worded that so perfectly

    • @elanalewis3065
      @elanalewis3065 5 years ago +383

      she never loved him she was just lonely

    • @dakota6190
      @dakota6190 5 years ago +8

      @elanalewis3065 true

  • @Saloomi_5
    @Saloomi_5 7 months ago +17

    2:16 I love you Jo after she names what “wrong” with her 💔😔

  • @anaa8060
    @anaa8060 6 years ago +3703

    The movie is almost identical with the book in this scene

    • @karisalove4356
      @karisalove4356 6 years ago +7

      Could u tell me where is this place in real ?

    • @littlems4540
      @littlems4540 6 years ago +22

      Karisa Love I think they actually shot it in Massachusetts but I’m not sure

    • @anaa8060
      @anaa8060 6 years ago +28

      Karisa Love they shot it in Massachusetts this specific view I’m not sure where but some were in Boston and some in Cambridge

    • @loveharrydaily
      @loveharrydaily 6 years ago +28

      Ana Alves I was reading the chapter the other day... the main difference is that Laurie thinks she’s really in love with Friedrich and that’s why she’s turning him down. He can’t accept that she can’t love him the way he loves her. 😪

    • @ph2913
      @ph2913 6 years ago +5

      Karisa Love I’m pretty sure they shot this scene at Gibbet Hill in Groton, Massachusetts

  • @taylorsscarf1381
    @taylorsscarf1381 5 years ago +1312

    1994: kissing and quietly sharing feelings in a forest
    2019: screaming and sadness on a hill

  • @joefaithfull1674
    @joefaithfull1674 5 years ago +4532

    Advantages of being called Joe: I get to shut my eyes during this scene and pretend Timmy is talking to me

  • @mwilliford200
    @mwilliford200 2 years ago +408

    The part where he asks if there’s anything more (2:33) and she says no causing him to turn away in complete defeat but then she say’s “except…” and he immediately turns back around to listen closely, holding on to any little amount of hope he has left… gotta love that!

    • @skyaltaria
      @skyaltaria Year ago +5

      he looks at her with so much hope, and then you can SEE his jaw harden in disappointment when she closes the door on him (again). amazing!!!!

  • @7snowdog
    @7snowdog 5 years ago +2229

    Everyone is all about the rejection but can we talk for a moment about how Jo feels about herself? I mean, she seems to feel totally worthless and insecure. She kept hearing from Meg what she shouldn't do, what she shouldn't say, how she should look like or what she should be wearing, so she eventually believed she can't be loved for who she really is. That actually made me sad the most in this scene.

    • @emilywandosen8472
      @emilywandosen8472 5 years ago +86

      Her family despised her so much. In
      the book i felt it more. Amy and Meg especially. Jo and Beth are the best
      I couldnt stand Amy and Meg they were plain. Especially meg

    • @7snowdog
      @7snowdog 5 years ago +49

      @emilywandosen8472 i know, right? I couldn't stand it reading the book. And seriously, i liked Jo much more, she just was herself the whole time and didn't try to fit in. Meg just wanted Jo to be the next version of her while Jo was awesome the way she was, though no one except this guy seemed to notice. I liked Jo and Beth too, i found Amy annoying and Meg seemed a bit arogant to me.

    • @susanalopez5052
      @susanalopez5052 5 years ago +97

      Jo practically hides behind her insecurities. Meg tells her to not say “cristopher colombus” so she says it louder. Amy tells her to brush her hair so Jo wears it loose and tangled. She amplifies her insecurities to the max in a way of defiance and to seem confident but deep down she is still insecure about who she is. Which is like, a mood

    • @7snowdog
      @7snowdog 5 years ago +29

      @susanalopez5052 i think by doing so she forces them to accept her the way she is. Like, no matter what they say, she still does things her way. Which doesn't change the fact it hurts her they can't just take her for what she is, and she indeed feels insecure.

    • @NabihaKhan303
      @NabihaKhan303 5 years ago +2

      :/

  • @shattermirror
    @shattermirror 5 years ago +451

    It's interesting how both Jo and Amy understand immediately what he's asking before he says it and refuse it just as fast.

    • @4rtsyval
      @4rtsyval Year ago

      they're the most similar to each other. so yeah, it figures

  • @charlenemoore4301
    @charlenemoore4301 5 years ago +541

    Timothée and Saoirse both killed this scene

  • @graycen3910
    @graycen3910 4 years ago +1213

    when she says “except that” and he comes back nodding to allow her to state what she wants, that just shows how much he loves her. he was willing to hear her out even though he knew she wasn’t going to say yes, he still listened.

    • @PhilipClyde
      @PhilipClyde 3 years ago +69

      Well he probably came back cause he thought she might change her mind

  • @thebravelass
    @thebravelass 5 years ago +669

    I love Laurie's nod at 2:40 when Jo said, "except that." He was like go on, say it 😭😭😭

    • @anbn_21
      @anbn_21 3 years ago +8

      like he want listen to her whatever she told to him 😭

  • @user-bk1dv5st9z
    @user-bk1dv5st9z 5 years ago +3762

    1:40 the moment when he leans for kiss and jo avoids... my heart....

  • @saoirse1624
    @saoirse1624 5 years ago +758

    I honestly don’t think I’ll ever get over how his hair looked in this scene...

  • @heyitsali96
    @heyitsali96 3 years ago +340

    The fact that I have watched this scene so many times and it is still utterly devastating shows just how well done it is.

  • @geniehossain3738
    @geniehossain3738 5 years ago +537

    “and I’ll watch” is probably the most relatable expression of unrequited love in all of literature.

  • @Eva-ed4ed
    @Eva-ed4ed 5 years ago +2775

    The bittersweetness of this scene is so strange. It makes you feel something; not only pitty for Teddy, but also something deep for Jo. It’s knowing that there are some very pure feelings behind the characters in this scene. We have Teddy, who has been in love with this girl that seems like her soulmate since he met her. And then is Joe, who loves Teddy but can’t correspond his feelings, and is doing her absolute best to try to not break his heart without giving up her true self. I wouldn’t like this scene so much of the feelings were reciprocated. I like the purity of two individuals who love each other but want different things from the other. It’s the unavoidable love, the unavoidable harm, the unavoidable loneliness. Two people with a connection that ends up being painful of how much they care for each other; one with an unrequited love, the other one by hating hurting the person she is the closest to.

    • @Giojourney
      @Giojourney 3 years ago +12

      They loved each other and truly the ending scene seemed so forced to me like Jo didn’t want to be there at all, I think there’s a deeper meaning wanted by the writer but after the ending I hated her lol

    • @mahnoorrafiq6803
      @mahnoorrafiq6803 3 years ago +5

      finally someone who understands!!!

    • @massielniazoa5531
      @massielniazoa5531 2 years ago

      Thanks for this 🌸

  • @melaniegonzalez261
    @melaniegonzalez261 5 years ago +553

    Almost forgot to watch this today

  • @hamzamir7784
    @hamzamir7784 4 years ago +75

    The way he repeats "I love you, Jo." while she's listing her flaws.

  • @elle5305
    @elle5305 5 years ago +419

    2:40 when she said 'except that-' and cut herself off and he turned back instantly, giving her a little nod as though to say 'go on, i'm listening' my heart died a little

  • @Bklyngurl85
    @Bklyngurl85 6 years ago +812

    She loved him, but wasn’t in love with him and in there lies the difference between romantic and platonic love.

  • @GabiHannah1
    @GabiHannah1 5 years ago +898

    2:40 when Jo speaks again Laurie thinks that she changed her mind and gives a little nod waiting for her to accept his proposal 😭😭😭😭

    • @srch-10
      @srch-10 5 years ago +13

      frick

    • @giorgiabuttitta4366
      @giorgiabuttitta4366 5 years ago +37

      I could’ve lived on without knowing that piece of information that broke my heart

    • @vaishnavirao904
      @vaishnavirao904 5 years ago

      Why did you made me notice that !?!???😭

  • @katiecurran4893
    @katiecurran4893 3 years ago +436

    It's heartbreaking for both of them because Jo doesn't want to hurt him and Laurie's situation is self explanatory.

    • @basrahg.250
      @basrahg.250 2 years ago +9

      He's wearing the ring that Jo gave him! He has loved her for a long time, ever since he knew her, and he wanted to marry her, and now, in the advanced stages of the movie, he is still wearing Joe's ring, and I believe that he still loves her and will not stop loving her, and Amy is still Joe's sister, and he loved Amy, but his love for Joe is of the eternal kind that ends and will continue forever despite From his marriage.

  • @jodiemarie9901
    @jodiemarie9901 5 years ago +998

    Every one dying over the “and ill watch” but the “you can’t?” Is killing me

    • @SaraBendjafar
      @SaraBendjafar 5 years ago +5

      ME

    • @ellena211
      @ellena211 5 years ago +4

      Jodie Marie where do they say “you can’t?”

    • @SaraBendjafar
      @SaraBendjafar 5 years ago +7

      @ellena211 1:05

    • @jodiemarie9901
      @jodiemarie9901 5 years ago +15

      Helen when joe starts talking and she says i dont know why i cant love u, i have tried and i cant, he goes ‘you cant?’ Really sadly and quietly

    • @지영-v7b
      @지영-v7b 5 years ago +6

      Yeah... That little pause before he says it kills me

  • @maaarianr6848
    @maaarianr6848 5 years ago +784

    2:40 omg when he turns around you can SEE the vulnerability and hope in his eyes. Timothee ate this role.

  • @avajsalazar
    @avajsalazar 5 years ago +2277

    at 1:43 you can tell that laurie wants to kiss jo so badly

    • @TheBinisaMix
      @TheBinisaMix 5 years ago +120

      And I get butterflies from this very moment. 🦋🦋🦋

    • @mai.vancon
      @mai.vancon 5 years ago +44

      Well he should’ve gone for it. That might’ve changed her mind

    • @katelynbrown98
      @katelynbrown98 5 years ago +281

      @mai.vancon
      No. He did the right thing respecting her expressions and feelings of protest.

    • @ketiberezhiani7024
      @ketiberezhiani7024 5 years ago +8

      i was thinking the same thing

    • @jaybird5589
      @jaybird5589 5 years ago +144

      I like that at 1:42-1:43 he leans in like he’s going to kiss her but she leans back. Those little moments of body language acting is what helps make this scene so great agghhh

  • @JoshuaFagan
    @JoshuaFagan 5 months ago +6

    I've been watching this scene a lot lately. I just had something similar happen to me (as I think a lot of us have, which is why this hits so strongly). Just a good friend I deeply loved romantically and thought might love me back--but she didn't. She said she didn't feel that way toward anyone and didn't think she ever would. And the terrible thing is she was considerate and sympathetic and even apologetic: there was absolutely nothing to get angry at her for, and she did absolutely nothing wrong. She was and still is a reliable, caring friend. She just couldn't return my affections. I don't know what you're supposed to do with that, I really don't.

  • @hindbakrari733
    @hindbakrari733 5 years ago +9685

    The Kate Winslet and Leo Dicaprio of our generation

  • @explorerv561
    @explorerv561 5 years ago +696

    0:40 I find that part to be one of the most human lines in this amazing scene when Laurie states everything he gave up for Jo and then adds the panicked “and it’s fine” to justify himself

  • @KP-zd3hc
    @KP-zd3hc 5 years ago +251

    The fact that Jo’s rejection of Laurie is set against this beautiful, picturesque backdrop just makes this all the more heartbreaking...

  • @barcioi.
    @barcioi. Month ago +2

    1 minute of silence for Laurie

  • @tikiblacher6393
    @tikiblacher6393 6 years ago +363

    “And I’ll watch” kills me every time, I mean who didn’t start hysterically crying.
    I swear everyone was crying in themovie theater

    • @alondratovar186
      @alondratovar186 5 years ago +1

      I was looking for a comment like this; it breaks my heart every time i watch this video

  • @hweirachel
    @hweirachel 5 years ago +336

    Life lesson: If you’ve loved or sacrificed an amount for someone, don’t expect to be loved the same amount in return. Love is not a bank transaction. And the person you have a crush on doesn’t owe you anything.

    • @kevinjimenez5283
      @kevinjimenez5283 5 years ago +9

      That's love. You only give

    • @besanissa428
      @besanissa428 5 years ago +8

      love is not a debt.

    • @Pantano63
      @Pantano63 5 years ago +2

      She regretted rejecting him later on, though.

    • @renebaebae0600
      @renebaebae0600 4 years ago +13

      @Pantano63 no she is not. At the end she ends up with another person right? The teacher guy. She regretted it only bcs she felt alone, not bcs she truly loved her.

    • @Pantano63
      @Pantano63 4 years ago +1

      @renebaebae0600 So she regretted it like I had said? Nice we can agree.

  • @Nattatonka
    @Nattatonka 5 years ago +418

    “And I’ll watch” let’s admit that hits everyone hard in some way.

  • @SpeedySecrets215
    @SpeedySecrets215 4 months ago +6

    It's painful to be the one in Jo's position and no one talks about it

  • @audreyteo1312
    @audreyteo1312 5 years ago +3094

    i feel like their relationship perfectly encompasses the idea of loving someone vs. being in love with someone. Both in the books and in the movie, Jo loved Laurie but she was never truly in love with him. I'm glad that both of them come to the conclusion that they love each other platonically and I think that's beautiful.

    • @mfjdv2020
      @mfjdv2020 4 years ago +117

      Platonic love is often the best foundation for a lasting relationship, as it's less selfish and demanding. One doesn't expect so much as in romantic love. Platonic love generally lasts longer than romantic love. However each case is different.

    • @newyorkcity6454
      @newyorkcity6454 3 years ago +7

      @mfjdv2020 I agree with you

    • @jessicaluk74
      @jessicaluk74 3 years ago

      So true

    • @thekidd2323
      @thekidd2323 3 years ago +11

      @mfjdv2020 yeah sadly most media and such tell you that unless your heart flutters all the time it’s not love.
      People have a very VERY large misconception of what love is in western societies

    • @Veganstega
      @Veganstega 3 years ago

      @thekidd2323Right, this is only a western thing. Totally!

  • @stayloverskz
    @stayloverskz 6 years ago +274

    My feelings😭😭😭😭😭
    How he keeps saying "I love you Jo" maaaannn

  • @tali5235
    @tali5235 6 years ago +229

    “And I’ll watch” hurts

  • @franciscaestrada6086
    @franciscaestrada6086 2 years ago +13

    1:41 it killlls me everytime how Laurie is trying to kiss her...

  • @sharonw8995
    @sharonw8995 5 years ago +108

    That choke in his voice before he says "I figured you'd love me". You can feel his pain.

  • @adak4874
    @adak4874 6 years ago +2363

    He loved her so early, she loved him so late

    • @cheezyfilmsproductions1842
      @cheezyfilmsproductions1842 5 years ago +553

      She didn't love him though. In the end she reconsidered because she was lonely and depressed. Feeling heartbroken at Beth's death, and just wanting the comfort of her best friend back.

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 5 years ago +115

      Cheezy Films Productions yep... I think it’s ok to ship them... but other people go so overboard sometimes and hate her for breaking his heart. We should never be with someone out of pity or loneliness. I love that their relationship shows that soul mates come in all shapes and sizes.

    • @RV-mk9ry
      @RV-mk9ry 5 years ago +84

      Pingu Nootson They would have been terrible together. Jo was right. Her dreams were different. She shouldn’t have had to accept a proposal from a man who she always saw as a friend and lose the freedom she already had. Jo was very against a life like that. And the fact that she didn’t love Laurie probably made it much easier for her to say no. I love Jo’s character for her determination. I think she’s wonderful. But I don’t think Laurie was her soulmate. What they had was cute and fresh and new. But it would have ended in disaster.

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 5 years ago +34

      R V exactly. And taking into account that Laurie has no female figures in his life. Of course he’s gonna fall in love with the first thing he sees! Not downplaying their chemistry, but I think if he had a mother or sisters, he wouldn’t fall for his friend quite as hard as he did. So it makes sense that Louisa wrote him that way.

    • @RomanZolanski123
      @RomanZolanski123 5 years ago +1

      Nishita kunder I mean I never said he didn’t love her

  • @josephineemarch
    @josephineemarch 5 years ago +272

    The amount of times I have watched this scene is unhealthy...

  • @randomreels4074
    @randomreels4074 5 months ago +4

    A broken heart heals but a silent one haunts. Rejection fades eventually, regret doesn’t. Always fight for your dreams.
    There is no shame in getting rejected.

  • @kawaiii-chantsuntsun7863
    @kawaiii-chantsuntsun7863 5 years ago +543

    Laurie's messy hair was a kill. I was shot right through my heart.

  • @jamoyky1
    @jamoyky1 5 years ago +194

    2:56 "I think you'll find someone and love them and you will live and die for them because that's your way, and you will... and I'll watch"
    damn... that hurt

    • @Jeminids
      @Jeminids Year ago

      It’s a great detail how he’s using gender-neutral pronouns

  • @angelameetsworld4394
    @angelameetsworld4394 6 years ago +407

    2:32 that "anything more?" gave me major Mr Darcy after he gets rejected vibes

  • @sophi4345
    @sophi4345 5 months ago +4

    i see myself in both

  • @maryrose9856
    @maryrose9856 5 years ago +503

    "Listen, you're gonna find some lovely and accomplished girl who will love you and adore you and she's gonna make a fine mistress for your fine house "
    yeah, well apparently its your sister, Jo

    • @slaonestephens7575
      @slaonestephens7575 5 years ago +40

      Of all the men in the world she had to marry her sisters best friend who loved her sister before her

    • @Chelbelle1983
      @Chelbelle1983 5 years ago +43

      @slaonestephens7575 you can’t help who you fall for. Amy loved Laurie. Jo did not. Even when she changed her mind she was doing so because she was lonely. I’m glad he ended up with Amy.

    • @EmGahan
      @EmGahan 5 years ago +2

      Totally agree, Amy's description!

  • @snowflakes7344
    @snowflakes7344 4 years ago +709

    When I read this in the book for the first time, I kept re-reading it again and again, it was such a strong moment. I love that they made this scene almost the same as the book.

    • @motorcyclephoenix7109
      @motorcyclephoenix7109 4 years ago +29

      I know they did fantastic and he TOTALLY embodied just EXACTLY how Laurie felt in the book the way it all just came pouring out just wow ❤😍 The tragic beauty of how sad this scene is also I noticed throughout the movie their always chasing each other this is them chasing each other one last time and leaving childhood behind going separate ways unfortunately😢💔

    • @TheZealousNobleman
      @TheZealousNobleman 2 years ago +1

      What book is it, I wish to ask?

    • @thanmaya3851
      @thanmaya3851 2 years ago

      Its the same title "little women" by ​louisa may alcott
      The movie adaptation is just as good as the original book@TheZealousNobleman

    • @dishbanerjee
      @dishbanerjee Year ago

      Me too! I remember re-reading this chapter "Heartache" so many times. Totally broke me.

  • @juliadulat8692
    @juliadulat8692 6 years ago +151

    This scene is a definition of heartbreak

  • @itssab2845
    @itssab2845 4 years ago +220

    Laurie helped to bring out the child hidden within Jo. Laurie was someone she could have moments of fun with, without having to think about the difficulties of her life. Laurie added the fun like her sisters did. However, Jo by nature was serious, ambitious, wanting to do something in life and Laurie could never be that man who would motivate her or take interest in her writing. He could never encourage her. Yes, of course, he could love her but Jo didn't need the love at the time Laurie proposed to her, she already had love from her sisters and that for her was enough.
    The only reason Jo wrote that letter to Laurie at the end and wanted him back in her life is because at that specific point in her life, she was truly lonely - she lost a sister (Beth), she soon realised how her other sisters (Meg and Amy) were happy with life but she wasn't. Laurie could perhaps bring that happiness back. But no she was wrong, true happiness lied in her writing, in the time she spent by herself, I'd say that's when Jo really discovered herself and therefore wrote the amazing book she did!

    • @Reu8enofleon
      @Reu8enofleon 3 years ago +17

      Finally, a satisfying explanation rather than “your soulmate just isn’t the person you end up with”. This really explains the why behind it all despite everything that was said and done

    • @TasnimAnwar
      @TasnimAnwar 2 years ago

      The comment I was searching for! Thank you! 😊

    • @RoseFrance
      @RoseFrance 2 years ago

      Perfectly said ❤ Definitely the best explanation and summary I'm looking for.❤

    • @bhosdaa001
      @bhosdaa001 2 years ago +2

      What do you expect from a guy that you rejected.
      Still wait and comes to you when you feel lonely after you didn’t say yes to him ?
      Oohh what a delusional mindset
      Sick L generation ❌

    • @georgeASD
      @georgeASD Year ago

      it sucks how normalized this kind of thinking has become. "true happiness lied in her writing" l've seen too many women lying to themselves with that exact argument, just to find later in life to be wrong and feel lonely.... so much male attention in early life makes women think thats a cheap thing that comes easy. they think love will be waiting for them when they feel like it, but in reality you get only a few good shots in life and youre done.

  • @nvembertrbl
    @nvembertrbl 5 years ago +3275

    Jo is such a mature young women, there's a truth in everything she said in defense on why she didn't want to marry him... Laurie loves her with a mere expectation on they wanted to be happy, but Jo sees everything in reality. So, that's a very mature of her to think like that, because most young women, especially in current generation sees marriage as pure happiness, but they don't see the reality to it, the responsibility you have to carry, the chemistry you need to find to make it last, it's not just love.. it is much more than that. I love this scene so much.

    • @546-apoorvaranjan7
      @546-apoorvaranjan7 4 years ago +86

      Thank God someone in comment section understands it

    • @Aethelhadas
      @Aethelhadas 4 years ago +67

      I thought everybody is on Laurie’s side and I don’t get it at all. I agree.

    • @aiyisss-2914
      @aiyisss-2914 4 years ago +73

      Thank goodness for this comment because I'm once in Jo's place and people seems to get angry at me. I just stated what I feel and my view. That's all ').

    • @ttee2304
      @ttee2304 4 years ago +23

      Definetely! People don't even seem to really understand Jo in that scene.

    • @stutim3987
      @stutim3987 4 years ago +1

      I agree

  • @hennesseyyxo
    @hennesseyyxo 6 years ago +260

    “I love you Jo, I love you Jo”.

  • @luli5100
    @luli5100 5 years ago +249

    You can see the hope in his eyes when he turns around when Jo says she has one more thing to say and then it fades away, this scene it's portrayed perfectly.

  • @nelle6363
    @nelle6363 3 years ago +320

    I'm in love with this scene. I just spent the last 20 minutes watching and rewatching. It's so refreshingly natural. They talk over each other, the intense ramping up of movement at the beginning and winding down to the stillness at the end, Laurie's small desperate movement to kiss her at 1:41 and her pulling away, the wordless changes in expression when the other person makes significant argument points. And the editing is flawless. The editors give *significantly* more screentime to Laurie and his reactions than Jo's, amplifying the heartbreak of the situation and allowing Chalamet's stellar performance to truly shine. It feels real, and I think that why I keep returning to this clip.
    I've yet to see the movie, but this scene has me sold.