TALKING ABOUT SQUADS...
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- Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024
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In today’s girls talk video, I decided to sit down with my friends (@SophieFergi and @IndiStar) and talk all about what you've been asking. The good, the bad and the ugly about being in squads.
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Hey hey hey comment if you would join a squad
Can I plz get a hi Chloe
if it's with you, claire, and indi yesss
Hey sophie
Hiii sophhh
Ya sure but I live in Canada
I totally agree. I couple years ago I had a few neighborhood friend that I was close with and we used to all bike around the neighborhood during the pandemic. Then we started calling ourselves, “The Biking Gang” and some younger girls in our neighborhood who we thought were annoying and sassy decided that they wanted to start their own group and we had like weird thing you had to do to join and some stuff happened and let’s just say that was a toxic friend group and I don’t talk to them as often anymore. So it was fun until we labeled ourselves as, “The Biking Gang” instead of just being friends that biked around the neighborhood.
Wow, this was a really good example.. ☺️ Exactly!
Same but they wher fake freinds and I wHAS their real one bc I will tell the names Alia Evie kissy jake Ellarose sky ivy - jai and a lot more I’m like a Close frenid their like a fake fake fake fake frenind
It makes me sad bc no one like to go on bike rides and I go on my own and they are at my house door siting their and they know my mom and dad and my name is Sophie and I love all u r name they are so cute and pritty I’m like OMG they are so close and my freinds are not
I’ve never been part of one solo squad, I’ve always loved around due to people not being the nicest and people always having cliques. I relate to this video more than you know Claire 💕
I agree with all your views. Even in school with a “group,” jealousy can happen quickly, esp when one gets by more attention, even from teachers. I am happy to see the 3 of you getting back again as friends! 😊👏👏👏❤️
Me too I Miss Sophie and Indi With Claire
Hi Claire do u play roblox
@@missrabi12 yeah she does
@@tayspotions okay then what's her user
@@missrabi12 let me check
I felt every single time that Sophie talked she was about to cry and Claire too, they were also clearly talking about piper’s squad
𝚈𝚞𝚙, 𝚢𝚞𝚙
I know right!!! That was so TOXIC and I think that is why they left
I don't like how, Claire is Piper's cousin and goes and talks to her ex Best friend(MY OPINION)
@@tivonapillay0613 ikr
@@tivonapillay0613 but Claire was friends with them when they all were in the same squad.
I feel as though you guys really addressed most of what I think needed to be said here in this video about being in groups. Sadly you three have been in some less that healthy ones in the past..so you, in many ways, are some of the best people to be getting this message out there for young potential influencers, and just people in general to hear.
However in the chat. Sophie asked a question..."would you join a squad?" I honestly don't have a quick or easy answer for that.
Being in a group or squad as far as influencing is concerned...at face value it sounds like a great idea. You get a large group of popular and talented people together and make content with each other. Having that many other personalities and experiences together in one place can lead to some truly amazing content potential. Lets be honest about it, most of us first got to know the three of you when you were a member of a group. Its typically great for your "career" as being in these groups often increases your exposure a great deal, and hence your social media numbers will increase as a result of it. Furthermore you have, in theory, a large group of friends that you can hang out with and grow with. If ran properly, and if the adults in the room keep the overall focus of the group on being a healthy place to work and grow as an influencer...I feel that Squads, or Groups, could be a great thing. Honestly, I have always felt that if it was just the kids doing all of this, with as little involvement from the parents as needed, aside from editing and camera work, that many of these groups that you speak of, would not have turned toxic like they did, certainly nowhere near as badly as they did. Its all about finding that healthy balance or creating content, but not at the expense of people's mental health and general well being. Creating a space that people can grow and flourish in with support for them should they require it.
That is the problem though...That is not at all what happens. All too often these groups bring out the absolute worst in people. The potential to make large sums of money being a successful influencer, is a large part of the problems that these groups have. Parents get blinded by the size of a paycheck, and soon it is all they seem to be able to think about. This obsession with money, like a poison, spreads quickly to all aspects of the group. Soon, it turns into parents arguing and fighting over things like "how much screen time my daughter is getting", or "why are all the good video ideas going to that person" and so on. These arguments turn increasingly petty, as soon you will hear full blown arguments about topics that don't mean anything like a girl changing her hair color to the same as another girls, or arguments about where people are standing in certain shots "my kid needs to be in front!". Soon, its basically a weekly ordeal, if not a daily ordeal, for the kids to be sitting there while the parents are acting like 5 year old brats that didn't get a toy in their happy meals. Worse, is often one or two of the parents becomes the ring leader of sorts, and starts telling everyone else what to do constantly. This toxic and hostile energy, almost always gets directed at the influencers. I have read, and seen myself, grown adults yelling at their kids for a simple mistake. Or worse, they start yelling at other people's kids for next to nothing or just to belittle them in order to make their kid look better or get more attention. Parents often get their kids involved in this putrid mentality too and start encouraging them to sabotage their own friends in the group in order to increase their "position" in the group. That is when the "poison" spreads to the influencers fully. Because if you are in a toxic situation, it also brings out the worst in you. That is when you hear about backstabbing, talking behind people's backs, and overall just people acting like bad friends. It really becomes a very unfun, unsafe, unhealthy, and even emotionally dangerous place for people to be. This leads to a lot of mental health issues. I feel a lot of this behavior is because the amount of stress that everyone is constantly put under in these groups. That stress is eventually going to come out somewhere, and most of the influencers are not going to take it out on their parents, so naturally it gets directed at each other, or worse gets internalized. Then you touched on one of the most toxic elements of these groups in the video as well, and that is the emphasis that often is put on exclusivity. Where often the adults pass rules that prevent the members of the group from doing content with people outside of that group. This, in extreme cases is even done to the point that they wont allow members to even hang out with people outside of their group. This is so unhealthy for anyone's mental state for two main reasons. The first being that you have no control over who your own friends are and who you can spend time with. But also it puts a psychological element of control added to the group that people might not fully understand. Basically, it makes it so leaving that group, means you must also leave all of your friends behind, and potentially never be allowed to spend time with them again. In one well known incident, a person left a group and all her friends were forced to even block her on social media(that still bothers me)...And sadly, this wall of text only scratches the surface of how toxic a group can become if its run by the wrong people...
So, I agree with you three, as good as being in groups was for the three of your "careers", the other parts of it, the negatives involved, were not worth it. Sadly, the three of you got caught up in other people's greed, desire to live vicariously through their kids, and self destructive personal behaviors. I think though that, the lessons that you three learned from that experience, will help you and guide you for the rest of your lives. You three have seen first hand how these groups can be. You have seen that often the adults in the room are just kids in big bodies. You have felt the mental stress and pressures applied with being in these groups. I feel that you will use this knowledge to better yourselves and better your lives. It took a lot of strength to get out of those situations, and it takes great wisdom to learn the lessons from them that you all have learned and shared with us here. Be mindful and proud of what you have overcome. Use it, not just in your life, but the lives of others as you continue down the path. One day, when you have kids of your own(if you choose to) use the experiences of this time to guide them through their own journeys. Never forget where you have been, even if you have no desire to return, for the lessons of the past are always a guide for what lies ahead. Most importantly, never let those people that have wronged you in the past darken your spirit. A deed done is a reflection of the person that did it, never the person it is done to.
I also should mention, that it is my belief that the three of you, have parents that care for you greatly, and are not part of the problem. I feel that they have found the healthy balance that I spoke of, and that they should be the model for other influencer parents. I cannot imagine Ashley or Heather getting on one of your accounts to curse out a 11 year old fan that said a opinion they didn't like, but sadly I have seen that very thing happen. Its...sad(ill simply say that, I try to be polite if I can)
Try to look at it this way, at least that experience is over now. Onward down the path to the next stop of the journey, and we will be here with you for as long as we can. You have our support in whatever you do, all that remains is for you to decide where the journey is going next. Have a wonderful weekend
Woah.
wow 😯
@@zainab9966 Yeah, this topic is one that sadly I have personal experience with so when I hit post, even I was a little shocked at how long it had become. If people look at that wall of text and say "Nope"...I completely understand lol
u wrote a whole essay -😭
I just sat here and read that whole thing😶
I feel like a squad is very different to a friendship group bc in a squad there is a leader and that’s where the jealousy comes from however a friendship group doesn’t always have a leader. Even though friendship groups might not have specific leaders, they can still be extremely toxic bc of things like there being duos that just ignore everyone sometimes. I’m in a friendship group of six like this and it’s very toxic a lot of the time but the problem is it is only one girl. I personally agree with everything you’re saying as I can verify that all of it is true. Parents do play a key role in how the children react as we get advice when everything is so chaotic and sometimes that advice just makes everything worse. Even though a lot of groups are in the industry you are in, parents have so much influence and it isn’t necessarily the best thing. All I can really say now is that I’m happy you guys are all over the toxicity you’ve been through and I hope for the best for you guys! xxx
I agree. I was in a squad once and I thought that they were my best friends but then they just left me and never talked to me again and I cured for weeks and your guys talk helped me ❤️ ❤️ thx
Omg thank you so much for all the likes
yalls friendship is so cute
Joining a squad to make comedian content of RUclips together would be great
I love this comment Tiff! 😭
@@ClaireRockSmith glad you love it!
😭😭😭😭
@@ClaireRockSmith I love you
Here is my 2cents on this: it’s ok to have squads, it’s ok to have groups, and it’s even ok to have labels, but when you step into trying to control someone, or say they can’t hang out with anyone else, that is a problem, and I can see why you girls don’t want to be part of squads anymore. But please know from my life’s experience, it is ok to have groups and be able to have other people in your life.
This is so true, I had friends stab me in the back when part of “groups” they were extremely jealous of my achievements and spread lies about me, so I ignored them and straight up blocked and deleted their numbers
This is about squads and Tiffany
Exactly
Probably 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
let's just take a minet to just say both Sophie and Indi are fidgeting with there jeans🤣🤣🤣
I feel you guys❤️ joining a squad is a lot of work and drama💙 so I hope you guys are happy and not get into anymore drama!! 💙❤️💕
Claire I am so happy that you gave us this advice I had this problem before and now I listen to u guys now I am not in no drama because of ur advice!!
Like I kinda agree but I think it’s mainly pointed at people that share their life with the internet because there can be some really good and healthy group of friends
Not Sophie acting like her mom is any better. We've all seen those dirty dms she wrote about karrissa, brooklyn, and sarah...
This is about pipers squad and Tiffany
Hi Claire I love your videos and you give me a lot of inspiration.
I was in a toxic squad and you literally gave me a lot of inspiration I only have one real friend and you help me a lot.
Thank you so much girl.We support you in anything you do. We love you❤❤❤
My favorite part of this video is when Indi gave her really good advice!
I love u claire and sophie so much
CLAIRE LOVE YOU THIS VIDEO WAS SO GOOD
LOVE YOU GUYS
i didn't even recognise Sophie for a second she looks like Kendal and kylie Jenner mixed together
GIRLS!!! Good talk. I think it is important that you talk about this things and also other things. Dont do it to much. Stay strong girls
Amazing Video Claire As Usual Your Video Never Disappointed Reese Excuse Me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Btw I Can’t Wait For the Last Two Episode of Who Claire❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much!! I can't either 💕
@@ClaireRockSmith Your Welcome
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tophie was like when they block u 😂
Indi was like Accurate Accurate 😂
Comment if you would join a squad
I agree the parents are the reason
Why do Sophie thinks Pipers sqaud is toxic
I want to join piper’s squad no hate
Me too no hate to claire
Me too
But why? I would like to hear your thoughts and arguments on this.
After everything we’ve seen with our own eyes and everything we’ve heard from old members (and they’re all pretty much in agreement on how toxic environment those groups often are) why?
There was a time I admired the squads myself. C’mon it’s cool. It looks like a lot of fun and for a girl that is not so popular and doesn’t have that much friends - like me It sure seemed all like a teenage daydream.
After that I’ve educated myself more and looked some things up… Seen a few videos from people that know much more about this topic than I do. And have no longer any want to join one myself.
I am not hating or saying your opinion is wrong, I’d just like to have a conversation about this because I am genuenly interested.
@@coconutwaffle4999 I have a friend group that I am technically a leader of because I bring people in plus friend groups aren’t always toxic
@@coconutwaffle4999 Did we say something wrong
You guys are so pretty!love your outfits!
Thank you so much!!
Your whole channel is talking about old subjects that you say you want to "move on from". You bring it up on ever video and them swear you dont want drama.
Right, all they do is talk bad about them. but if they weren't in Piper's squad they would most likely not be anywhere close to where they are today.
also, both of u did so good acting on who's claire
I think yall directing thos to pipers squad 🤔 👀
I love the editors work
I agree as well. Great video :) I loved it and currently have a squad but, you're right lots can go wrong.
They talking about pipers rockelle squad😭 btw I love you all girls
I feel so sad bc ik they've been through that and like thats just rlly sad for my bc u desver more and when shopie left pipers squad I stopped whatching❤
Yes but even in just a friends group, there is always going to be a natural leader. That's just human nature. If you have a group of friends and you all decide to go see a movie, you can have 3 people wanting to see 1 movie, 2 other people wanting to see another movie and 2 other people wanting to see a third movie, so someone has to step up and take charge or nothing would get settled. That's why even in a friends group, there is always someone seen as the leader
honestly this is a good vid for content creators there was a few comments that were good for people who go to public school but it’s obvious they were talking abt pipers squad i think it would be over if people stopped talking abt each other
Hey Claire I think you proved a really good point theres so much that could go wrong when youre in a squad and squads can be really toxic btw I cant wait for the next episodes of who’s Claire
You guys are the best friend trio love ya guyss ❤️❤️
Yea if you’re in a squad sometimes it could get a little toxic like a lot of backstabbing or a lot of arguments
Tiffany watching this like 🤬😳😤
HEY CALIRS!YOU ARE STUNNING!WERE DID YOU GET THAT SHIRT I LOVE IT!!!! 10:12 IS SO TRUE I MYSELF DO SUPPORT A SQUAD BUT THAT TRUE 👍 😔
I feel like you guys were talking a bit about pipers squad and I like to see why you left
Love your vids claire
we all know they are talking abt pipers squad
I have not been in a squad but I have had groups of friends some of them back stabbed me and lied to me and some just straight up ignored me one day with no reason but I have amazing friends now. Just like Claire, indi, and Sophie are amazing friends
I love y’all’s outfits ngl😊
Same
how last time i seen your channel it was at 100k wow claire!
Why 😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I thought you were going to post another episode of who's Claire please do me and my sister love ur channel
TOMORROW!!! 😭😭
@@ClaireRockSmith OMG THANK YOU UR THE BEST (can we please be friends)
Hi Claire how are you and yes like you said you don't need to be a part of a group or squad also thanks for making my day you are being such an inspiration
omg u guys should have a podcast!!!
So moral of the story squads are dance moms 🥴
this is so funny because we all know who they’re talking about😂
Hey am a lito behind why don't you make videos with symonne anymore 😭
Amazing, I loved this video!
Ik what happened between your friends or must I say backstabbers and parents
And the same thing happened I have no friends at school and it’s sad
ayyy the comments are back on
Dance party!
Pov:ur in a friend group
Heyy hey 👋! Omg Sophie and indi just the coolest Clare you pretty funny girl cool video ! 💙🦋💙
Love your videos...xoxo
Is that's Sophie? Haven't seen her in ages
yes
But really, what is the difference between having a friends group and having a squad? Isn't it the same thing?
Love you Claire and Sophie also indi
Thank you for this video I have recently been in a group of girls and I was the one who is the co-owner of the group and they will start to be a lot of drama between these two girls and then I figure it out I was hanging with the wrong crowd and now I have two loving friends Leah and Alana and they are my best friends forever and now I realize that they’re the best friend anyone could ever ask for so guys don’t be in a group unless you actually know that you will like it because I did not like my group and now I am loving friends at the end it all turns out good in someway by the way love you Claire Sophie and Indy
i would join a squad but at the same time idkk
Why was Sophie her tearing her jean
I love your videos so much Claire 💖
Man y'all are so pretty
Claire l love you I love you videos slay girl l love your outfit
Hey claire
I would join for sure❤
I WILL JOIN THE SQAUD
I love your content!!!
omg love u guys
One word… you all know what I’m about to say
I was expecting a yes when they asked if they missed any squads so I think a lot of things happend
I agree with Sophie to just be friends and not to be in a squad
Y’all look so beautiful ❤️
Awesome video I really like it lot it was cool and you made awesome video
I would love to join a sqaud especially one with you and Clarie and sofie
yes
I have joined a group
Love you so much Claire
I would but I'm in Australia(yes)
Not bad, 11/10
I Would if The People are cool If not No Way Jose
Can we also talk about bullying?
I agree i have friends then they bullied me like so i left the school pls reply Claire
Yes plz Do not trust groups
Lol
Clarie looks like a person who I know from Ashland
Where's symonne?
But also I wouldn’t want to be in a toxic sqaud😊
You are just voting for your mom because they are your mom's they are also parent so they are also among of drama about squad
I’m coming to you because I knew you would be the right person because you have had lots of drama and I’m begging you please respond back I need some advice I have one traumatic friend And we’ve tried to kick her out many times you got that she always pressures us then one blames it on me and then they all blame it on me and it was all my fault and now we’re back at it again what should we do we need to do something but we don’t know what to do please help me please
Watch your channel 4 years l Word Love to join