we lost our baby
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- The story of losing our baby to trisomy 13. This is a very personal thing for us to talk about, but we thought it might help others going through something similar. My heart goes out to anyone thats been in this position. You are in my heart and my prayers. You're not alone.
my instagram: / saraijones
jalens instagram: / jalen.conway
my vlog channel: / heyitssarai
Disclaimer: I am not a medical professional. I'm sharing my personal experience. Consult a medical professional or healthcare provider if you're seeking medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment.
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This video actually put me to tears--i cant imagine what you two are going through. Ill keep you both in my prayers, time will heal but he will always be with you.
Same 😩❤
Same
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she’ll be fine.
You and Jalen are so strong for sharing this with the world. Love you Sarai!! ❤
This video brought me to tears..the fact that you went through all this footage just to share it with the world is so strong. You and your entire family are in my prayers. I love you Sarai ❤️😭
"We're going to be the best parents ever..." You already guys are! ❤ Take your time.
I’m late to commenting, but something I learned that I share with my friends who have unfortunately had miscarriages is: the moment you become pregnant your dna is changed forever. You may not have him physically inside you anymore but his dna is now apart of yours so you will always carry a part of him around for the rest of your life ❤️❤️
Oh my goodness, this brought tears to my eyes 💕
This truly stuck with me your comment. I lost my son last month and it’s been extremely unbearable. Thank you for these words ♥️
Praying gods protection
Being such a long time supporter, the loss of Seven aches my heart. You have always been my safe space since I was so young. I’m sixteen now and after years of looking up to you, I truly want to say I am sorry. You two don’t deserve this. I can see the love in both of your guys’ eyes every time you look at each other. It’s unconditional love. Jalen said it, you guys are going to be amazing parents one day and I know it for sure. Your passion for eachother shows that one day your next little munchkin is going to endure that same love and feel safe in y’all’s arms. I’m not religious, but I know somehow, somewhere, Seven is watching y’all. and always will be.
Sarai and Jalen, you guys are so strong and I can fathom how hard this is and will be for y’all. Please, do whatever you need, and whatever you can in your power, to heal.
beautifully said
sending you guys love, you have an angel guiding you forever 💗
Sarai, it’s been so long since we last talked but I wanted to let you know I am sending you both a huge heart of love. I can’t imagine what you went through and are still going through. He will be watching over you for forever. ❤️🌈
A rainbow🌈 baby is the baby that comes after losing one.
I love both of you
@@DIVINEKAOZ i thought it was a purple butterfly unless that’s when you have twins and 1 of them doesn’t make it
@@jacksononipad1319 yes that's correct.
the little footprints.. 🥺 I’m so sorry you both went through this. I lost my baby in November at 9 weeks, it was devastating. But this baby felt your love and no pain. You have gained an angel 👼
Lmao they monetized this video LMAO
@@Aaron-ru6ldshe gets paid for all of her videos. What’s your point?
@@leishaapark You have to go out of your way to put ads on a video, It's clear they are doing this only for the money.
I had the same at 23 years old. Super unexpected. Baby passed away on his own at almost 15 weeks. I know your pain it’s unbelievable. A year later I can still barely function.
I am so incredibly sorry. I will pray for strength and healing for you ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss of your baby💔😭😭😭 that makes me want to cry hugs to you
The part where you were in your car crying, my heart shattered and I just wanted to reach through the screen and give you the biggest hug. I am sending you and Jalen many condolences and love. Your precious boy will never been forgotten.💙
I’m so, so sorry. When I was 20 weeks pregnant my baby was diagnosed with a fatal neural tube defect and I had to terminate my pregnancy. It was earth shattering. Praying for you guys ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss
Am so sorry for your loss
Am sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry for your loss 😢❤
From someone that struggles with infertility, thank you for using your platform to share your story. It’s not easy to open up about this topic, and I just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone. Struggling with pregnancy loss, and infertility is such an isolating experience. You are helping so many women feel less alone, and feel like they don’t have to keep their struggle to themselves. Healing is hard, and there’s no time frame to when you need to feel better. Grief comes in waves, but better days will come. Sending all the love your way!
Sending you so much love. This was heartbreaking to watch but I know this will help so many future families who go through the same thing or have a scare. Love you so much he will be with you forever 🤍
I can see the hurt in your eyes and hear it in your voices. I can’t imagine the emotions you guys have been going through. I’ve watched you for years and have been inspired by your strength and growth you’ve had. God will never leave you, just lean upon him and be there for each other. Sending so much love. ❤️
You two are in my heart, thoughts, and prayers DAILY!!!! Sending you so much healing love and comfort!!! Please please please take all the time you need to grieve, to heal, and to process everything! Seven is with you ALWAYS and I know he is still watching over you both so proud of your strength!!!!! He is with you!! 💙💙💙💙
I can only imagine how hard it was to edit this. Please take all the time you and Jaylen need. Sending lots of love your way❤️❤️❤️
I’m so sorry about this
I’m hesitant to watch this as I lost my daughter at 16.4 weeks. But it’s important that you know you’re not alone. I had a genetic test on her placenta and there were NO abnormalities. Her heart just stopped one day. I actually went into full blown labor and delivered her vaginally. It was devastating. It’s devastating knowing, it’s devastating not knowing. I am so, SO sorry for the loss of your angel baby. Sending healing thoughts❤️❤️
this is really so heartbreaking, watching the beginning footage just made me so sad seeing how excited you and your families were. i’m sorry you’re going through this, i can’t even imagine, but i’m glad you guys have so many people in your life who are there for you and are doing their best to support and help you. big BIG hugs to both of you, take all the time and breaks you need. also seven is such a beautiful and unique name, i hope you continue to see 7s all around you so you’re reminded he’s always with you
sending you both so much love & my condolences. i know there's no words that could take away this pain & hurt. stay strong jalen & sarai 💓💓
This was so raw and real. I’m sending you both hugs. I’m so sorry for this devastating loss ❤️
My heart is out to you. I lost my pregnancy this past week. Don’t ever give up, your baby boy is watching you every step of the way. Guardian angel for life. 🤍 Hugs
I am so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️ praying for you
I’m sorry for your loss ❤️
Sending you love 💕
I am so sorry for your loss he or she is watching you too every step of the way sending you love and strenght ❤️
so so sorry for your loss ♥️
You’re stronger than I am. My baby girl stopped moving when I was 36 weeks. I went into labor and just held her and hated a lot of things. It’s been 2 years and I still can’t really share anything about her. I have her ashes in my room. Thank you for this video.
Sorry hun😭💔❤🙏
Sarai, i'm so so sorry. Sending you both so much love. You're so brave to share your experience and i'm sure it will help so many people🤍
oh sarai, i’m so sorry about this. my mom went through a miscarriage and it was so hard for her. but she got through it with time and you will too. we all love you and ur for sure in our prayers
growing up watching your videos it feels like you’re my close friend who i’ve known for years and watching this video just completely breaks my heart into little pieces. i’m so upset that you have to go through something as awful as this but you don’t know how incredibly strong you are. take your time, grieve, go through the whole process and i know you will come out an even stronger person who can take on anything in life. love you and jalen so much, i’m so sorry for your loss. r.i.p. seven❤️
i’m in absolute tears 😭
she had to go through all this footage and go thru all these emotions and my heartbreaks for them they are so strong sending love and prayers for you both
This was my thought she made a beautiful video sharing the experience and had to relive everything. This is heartbreaking 💔
I’m very sorry for your loss and your family’s loss. Thank you for sharing your experience on here. I feel like this video will be SO helpful for so many people going through something similar. ❤️
I miscarried a year ago and never told anybody but my bestfriend who passed away shorty after. I thought I felt okay and healed since then but this just hit different. I’m in tears. I’m sorry for your loss I’ve been watching u since were 16. Don’t give up!
8 weeks currently & every day I’m terrified! I’m sorry you lost your baby boy. I will be praying for your entire family.
sarai, i have been a follower for so many years at this point. i’ve always looked towards you as my older sister and you’ve held such a special place in my heart. i am so incredibly shocked at the news, and know there have been many tears shed for for you, jalen, and seven. i cried the whole video and continue to cry now. no one should ever have to go through this, but God knew you three would be able to handle it. like you said, you both will see seven again one day, and he will continue to love and support you both and your future children from above. i love you both more than words can express🖤 you’ve got people from all over the world thinking of you and praying for you. continue to stay strong.
I’m so sorry about this. I can’t believe that this happend to you guys. Sending prayers
It’s crazy to me how someone left this in a voicemail. Test results of ANY concern should be discussed, not just left on a VM. I had an irregular PAP one time, and they didn’t leave a voicemail. I’m so sorry you are having to deal with this. Sending all my love.
I was thinking the same thing
I think this makes sense, she didn't pick up the call so the doctor left the voice mail so she could find out the news as soon as possible and the doctor also said to call her back.
You can designate on your chart if you are comfortable releasing results over VM or not
Some doctors have forms that if you check a certain box they can leave semi detailed voice mails/results. I know I checked it so my doctor would leave details
I would prefer to hear over voicemail then to have to call back and wait until the doctor is free, not knowing what is going on
I found out on Dec, 5, I was 4 weeks. On my birthday Jan 18 at 10 weeks we lost our baby. I can’t explain the pain we feel and the unanswered questions we have. This video made me feel not alone.
OHHH MYY GOD. I cant believe. I found out I was pregnant at 5 dec (my birthday) that I am 4 weeks pregnant.
On january 18 i had my D&C procedure
... I couldn't relate to a comment more.
Been here since pizza, ranch and cherry coke and my heart breaks for you guys. My favorite people to watch by far. I’m so sorry you’re going through this pain❤️❤️
I’m so sorry. This is honestly heartbreaking to watch, it’s making me cry😭 you guys are my favourites 🥺❤️ all my love and prayers❤️
So sorry for your loss. What you’re going through is unimaginable. My heart go eat out to you and your family. Stay strong, he’ll always be with you💙💙
My daughter was stillborn at 20 weeks, we have no known cause. This video had me in tears for you, no couple ever deserves this. No words I can say can help your pain, but I am sending too many prayers & good vibes. There is no greater pain then loosing a child, lean on each other❤️ we did cremation aswell, and I know the feeling of having nothing of them😭 my heart is broken for you both. Our rainbow baby came a year and a month later, she was covered in Angel kisses, I truly believe her sister did that. You are never alone😭❤️
This video put me to tears. I can’t believe what you two are going through right now. I am so sorry for your loss, Take as much time as both of you need, and we will always be here with you guys! He will always be with us and watch over you guys! Thank you for sharing your experience on here, I know this will help a lot of family’s out there that are going through the same as you! I have watched you for a long time through all the good and bad, and I love you and support you so much! I’m sending you and your family lots of love and prayers!❤️❤️
My heart goes out to your family. The pain is unexplainable and heart wrenching. I was in tears watching this as it took me back to my miscarriage. You never think it will happen to you until it does 😭 I pray the Lord provides you with comfort knowing Seven is watching over you guys. When you are ready I am sure he would love a sibling and that rainbow baby will be a blessing 💕
This video brought me to tears..the fact that you went through all this footage just to share it with the world is so strong. You and your entire family are in my prayers. I love you Sarai ❤️
She has an editor thank god he's amazing to her
When I tell you I was crying I mean I was bawling my eyes out the entire time. My heart hurts so bad for you guys. I’ve watched you Sarai since you were in high school and I can’t imagine what you are going through. You are such a tough cookie and inspire me every day. Nothing but love for you girl 💕💕💕💕
You can see the pain in his eyes and how much he's been crying. I'm sorry guys. I hope the best and healing to you
oh sarai, there are no words to heal your pain. He will ALWAYS be with you. I am so happy you have jalen by your side and an amazing family to help you through these times. You both are so strong. This is a heartbreaking video but the small clips of you excited and telling your family were beautiful, and I know seven see's it, and I know he felt how much he was loved. Your rainbow baby is coming and can't wait to meet you. Stay strong my girl. ❤
The fact that I used to watch your hair routines 12 years ago and now you’re posting this..I feel like I grew up with you in a sense. I really feel for you and I am so sorry this happened. It’s hard to imagine a worse pain. We love you and support you.
I also feel the same way...
I think I used to watch her in 2013/14 and recently just found her again… danggg
Hey Sarai, I've been watching you since 2012. Watching you excited to tell your family, then crying in your car absolutely broke my heart and broke me out to tears alongside with you. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss... I can't even imagine the pain you and Jalen must be going through. I am sending you and your family so much love
My heart goes out to you and your family.
Also, thank you for sharing such a private part of your life with us. You are so incredibly strong.
No one ever deserves this pain. You guys will be amazing parents one day and sevin will be looking down, loving you forever.
I bawled my eyes out throughout this whole video. Im so sorry, you and Jalen are both so strong for sharing this!
i can’t even imagine what you’re going through, but i sent you so much love and strength, you’re not alone ! and i wish you so much well
The pain, excitement and love was so abundant in this. I can feel every single emotion through the screen. We love you guys so so much. We’re thinking of you as you navigate through this hard time.❤️❤️❤️
I really know what your going through i just delivered my baby girl and she was still born i was 7 months im just as lost as u are im crying everyday just take it one day at a time all of us are here for you
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️
I am so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️
As a labor and delivery nurse I am
Thinking of you guys. I have cared for multiple women with this condition in their pregnancy. You are not alone. You are strong, and you are so strong for sharing your story with the world. It’s something not a lot of people talk about. Thinking of you through this time ♥️
You both are so unbelievably strong, I can not even imagine. My heart goes out to you and your family, and God is watching over you and protecting you. We love you Seven
I miscarried in October and again right after in November. Me and my husband bawled our eyes out watching this. We completely understand you guys and what you are going through. One second I want to be numb the next I want to cry the next I want to be so mad at my body. We are strong and we will have our babies one day. Sending all the positive vibes your way for the future. Loves
Sending love and prayers to you and your husband 😔🙏❤
@@kiamah7522 thank you so much ❤️
Praying for you, I’m so sorry. I’ve had several losses myself. I personally did go on to have 2 healthy, happy babies and I hope you go on to have your rainbow baby (or babies) in the near future as well. Sending positive vibes and “baby dust” your way ✨🤍
@@LaurenWoz421 taking all the good baby vibes thank you 🙏
Hope you’re doing well!
This is so personal, thank you for sharing with us. Moments like this that is not immediately shared is why viewers should not ask personal questions in the comments. The content creator is going through Lord knows what and viewers are meddling posing reminder questions.
I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through. I’m in tears and I just can pray for you guys. You guys are so strong. I just wish I could give you a hug so tight. God bless you and may He give you all the peace and rest you need🧡
I’m so sorry for you guys loss. 🥺❤️ I lost twins at 20 weeks pregnant back in February 2021. I went in for my 2nd or 3rd ultrasound & they said they no longer had heartbeats 😭💔 after losing them I didn’t want to try again but I got pregnant again late March 2021. I was super happy but also super scared bc I had lost the twins the month before & didn’t want to lose this one. I went for my first ultrasound at 7 weeks but I sadly lost the baby again @9weeks in late may2021😭💔 my due dates were sept. 19, 2021 & Dec. 14, 2021. Losing them took a lot of my happiness away and I got super depressed but one thing I will always love is the marks my babies left me, my stretch marks. ❤️ I am now at a better place & im starting to try to get pregnant again. But only God knows when is the right time and he’ll bless me with a beautiful baby or babies. I am a mommy of 3 beautiful babies w angel wings. ❤️
I’ve followed you since I was a young teen. I’m so sorry you had to experience this, Sarai. Keeping you and your family in my prayers💛
Wow this was tough to watch 😪cant even imagine what you guy's are going through. This sucks . Praying for you and your families . Seven was so loved ❤️
I balled my eyes out through the whole video. Knowing the pain your going through makes me so sad. My thought are with y’all.
WE LOVE YOU SEVEN!!!!!! 777
I'm so sorry for you both. My heart goes out to you 🥺💔
I had a missed miscarriage back in 2010, I was 14 weeks pregnant at the time and had a D&C too. It's still painful to this day, time is a great healer and I wish I could say it takes the pain away but it doesn't really. It's good that you have each other 💖 Fly high Seven 💖
I've watched you since you were so young, and it breaks my heart that you're experiencing this pain. I'm so sorry for your loss. ♥
omg I can’t imagine how hard it was to edit this video for you, it was so hard for me to watch this video it really touched my heart, my love goes out to you guys 💕 stay strong god has a plan, thank you so much for sharing something so personal, ✨❤️ i love you guys sending out prayers 🙏🏻
I’m so sorry for your guys’s loss. I can’t even imagine. Sending you guys all the love in the world ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’ve been watching you since pizza ranch and cherry coke. I have looked up to you for so long, i can’t imagine what yall are going through but you are so strong and yall will get through this💗
Coming from someone who went through a miscarriage i understand that pain but dont give up hope give yourself time to heal. If and when your ready to try again it took me months and now have my rainbow baby i have faith in you for healing and if you try again that it will work
I’m so sorry this is happening to you and your family. I’ve been through this with my son. He would be 7 this year. Take all the time to feel and heal that you need. Losing a child is never going to be something you will “get over”. He will always be loved and thought of.
I haven’t finished watching. But thank you for sharing your story. Such a vulnerable thing to talk about, but you’re helping so many people
Heart breaks for you guys. So sorry you guys had to go through this. Sending you love.💕 One day 🙏🏻
im so sorry serai, please remember this isn’t your fault. your family is with you 100% of the way. your amazing and im so sorry for your loss of your baby. remember he or she is a rainbow baby now. they are proud of you already💕
Sending love, hugs & prayers. I am so sorry to hear that this happened. My heart breaks for you guys. May God surround you with peace and comfort during this difficult time ❤️❤️❤️
i've been watching you since 2011. this truly breaks my heart, i couldn't stop crying. please take as much time as you need to recover we'll all be here waiting for you, i'm sending all my love to you both ❤
Sarai and Jalen- my heart goes out to you as I cannot imagine what you are going through. You are such an amazing and loving couple, Sarai I have watched you since you were 14 and I was 12. Jalen, I absolutely loved you ever since Sarai introduced you on this channel. My heart breaks for you both, but I promise you Seven is looking down on you now and for the rest of this life. You guys are so strong, and your RUclips fam are always here to support you both. I pray for healing for the both of you and that God gives you all the strength and love you need during this time. Seven is a light and will continue to shine bright, you’ll see him when you look at the sky and he will give you signs. Although I have never gone through this before, I have had friends that have and I know you guys will touch many hearts with this and be a light to others. You both are so strong to share your story, and we support you guys always. 💓
Sending so much love to you both. As someone who has lost 2 babies, I feel your pain. ❤️ better days are coming and he’s with you 💙
This was so sad to watch 😢sending both of you endless love and positivity 🤍🤍
Seven is with you. When I watched this it was “#17 On Trending”. Sending you guys love! ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss. The pain of losing my 3 is something my 4 kids on earth still talk about.....we talk about them often. They will always be a special part of your heart.
I almost cried when I saw ur ig post and stories.... Rip seven, hope yall doing ok❤️👼
I cried the entire video. I’ve never felt so deeply for someone else before. Bless Jalen’s heart he was so sweet towards you the entire time. You guys will always be the most amazing parents. We will always remember you, sweet baby boy 💙
I’m so sorry for your loss 💔 He will always be with you
U guys are so strong and seven will always be with u guys. My heart aches for what happened to you guys. He will be with you guys throughout your future and with your future children. So much love for you guys I’m so sorry no one should ever go through this.❤️
The way your entire family was so supportive..you just know that baby was going to be loved immensly
This was so hard to watch, but so necessary for so many mamas that have lost babies. I’m so sorry for you and Jalen’s loss 🥺💕 Sending you guys so much love, strength, healing & prayers. 👼🏻
This video has me on a rollercoaster of emotions. I can hardly imagine what you two are going through.
Your baby boy is with you forever, and wherever you are. Always.
Sending you all the love and support.
He is looking out for you always.
I’m so sorry for your loss. You and Jalen and your family are in my prayers and thoughts.
I’m only 20 and was told I was miscarrying 4 days after Christmas at 8 weeks, my hCg levels were dropping and sac was no longer there while my uterus was filled with debris. I was prescribed misoprostol January 3 2022, it was the worst pain mentally and physically and I’m still trying to get through it. Miscarriages are more common than people think, and spreading awareness is going to help so many. Thanks for sharing your story! Your little Angel is always going to be with you 🤍
I cannot imagine what you two are going through, this hurts my heart. 🥺 You guys are still considered amazing and loving parents! ❤️ You have an amazing guardian angel watching over you and your future kiddos. The next one will be your rainbow baby, and you guys will be amazing parents to them as well. 🌈 Sometimes the universe unfortunately doesn’t deal us the card we expected, and I am sending love to both of you. I am so sorry you and your families are going through this. You both are still such amazing parents for whenever the cards are dealt in your favor. Praying for you guys. ❤️
My heart truly goes out to both you and Jalen😪I can’t imagine the pain that y’all are both in right now🤍Lean on God to comfort you. We love you🙏🏾💙
When he said we’re gonna be the best parents ever my heart shattered, I’m so sorry for your loss love 😔🤍
Bawling my eyes out and I’m only 6 min in.
The amount of love and joy for the lil babe.. my heart hurts extremely for you and Jalen. He will never be forgotten. ❤️
Hey sarai I just watched your video. I went through a miscarriage in February, I had found out I was pregnant in November as well. Know you are not alone. Love you💗 you are strong
I’m so sorry, I can’t even imagine what y’all are going through. I will keep both of you in my prayers♥️
My heart breaks for you both. I could not imagine going through something so hard. Sending all of the positivity and strength to you. 💔
There’s no words to take the pain you’re going through away, sending all my love and condolences to you both and your whole family❤️ xoxo
i cannot imagine the pain you are both in. i have no words. my heart goes out to you guys, you deserve the world ♥️
The amount of strength it takes to not only experience that but to share it with everyone is incredible. My heart goes out to the three of you
My heart literally breaks for them don't think I've ever cried so much to a strangers pain I hope u find peace and learn how to heal and process this arwful tragedy so sorry for your loss 💜💗🧡💙💛💚
I am sending you both so much love. I can’t begin to imagine the pain you guys may be feeling but I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason you both now have a guardian angel protecting you from above. Thank you both for educating us on T-13 and sharing this chapter of life with us love you guys ♥️♥️♥️