It is stardust from whence we came; it is stardust we eternally remain. What a special journey you two had together this time. Find each other again. We do that.
“By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return.”” Genesis 3:19 NIV
Thank you for posting this. My wife died from an unidentified brain disease in her early 40s while we had an infant child. I’m realizing through seeing other people’s experiences, that terminal disease is terminal disease. It’s a difficult road for both patient and caregiver and loved ones. In some ways the road is unique but in many ways it’s not, since it’s about decline, loss of function, and ultimately death. The end of dreams and aspirations for both the patient and their spouse. It’s difficult to accept but we have to accept it. Thank you
I do respite care for adults with disabilities, it's so important that caregivers take care of themselves, it can be exhausting physically and emotionally when there's only one person to do all the care. I only have 2 clients at the moment because I am older but it's rewarding to help others. My clients are self sufficient and can do everything but needs help with shopping and taking them to appointments, to the park. I'm so glad that you took time for yourself. I'm sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing your story. 🙏❤️
I am so sorry for your loss and so grateful for you insight and love towards another human being. I do hope this video finds you well and rested and those lovely memories are at the forefront of your mind. I would love to speak with you if you ever have time. Greetings from the UK
My name is Gina, and i lost my father recently from FTD, he was hospitalized for the last two months, in and out, due to breathing complications and then hospital infections and so on. I cared for him the best way i could, since i was the only one that i could, my mother has mobility issues and my sister lives far away. I am still trying to come to terms with his loss. My whole life was caring for him, and now my world feels so empty. I also keep thinking if i have done everything right or if i could have done something better, guilt is hitting me hard sometimes...I also told him that i loved him all the time and i also told him that i know he loves me too, like you did. It is a very cruel disease. My father was 73.
@giakamar you did everything right. You loved him. Please do not blame yourself because that would hurt your father. You loved him and you were there for him and that’s all you could do. I know he is watching over you. I hope you see him in your dreams.
What a gift to both parents. All those feelings happened to me with my mother. Slowly, memories of her reminded me of our life of good times and love. Weathering all together. Forgive little things. ❤🌼🌼🌼
I do 1 on 1 with a FTD resident at a nursing home, I to believe she can understand I ask her things and she answers yes, no. I mention how hard she had worked at her job, and she sighs, and makes eyes stating yes. I mention how well she did with her daughter, and how her daughter is a happy successful young lady, well my resident had tears running down her cheeks.
Yeah, hospice care was very disappointing to me when I was caring for my mom. They keep sending me surveys and I throw them in the trash. I needed them when she was dying and they certainly were not there.
As tragic as it is to watch someone succumb to dementia, be grateful you were not burdened with the tremendous financial difficulties that can accompany this horrible disease. Unfortunately my mother wasn't so fortunate when dealing with my fathers six year battle with Alzheimer's.
Im surprised you were disappointed with palliative care. I had only good experiences with them and hospice. I'm a caregiver who specializes inALS, Alzheimer's and Parkinson's. But I know it's different from country to country. I live in US.
Just found this video. My mother in law has dementia but she is very resistant to any help. She lives with us and my world of peace is upside down ..If I don’t prep her food, all she will eat is potatoes,bread and cheese.I tried to reorient her that the person in the den is her son..
This was wonderfully put together. I'm in school to become a nurses aide and my research paper is on FTD...how were his activities of daily living handled by himself in the early stages?
Hi Mary was just sent your question today. In the early stages I was able to leave him at home but needed to prepare food and leave things out. I could only leave him for short periods, however. He did need assistance with showering and toileting but in retrospect I think helping in the early stages got him accustomed to being helped which I believe made it easier when more help was required.
Correct not many people know what FTD is and the moment they hear the word Dementia that think Alzheimers which it is not. Luckily there is a lot of info on Google when you search FTD but we need to get the word out. Thank you
It is stardust from whence we came; it is stardust we eternally remain. What a special journey you two had together this time. Find each other again. We do that.
“By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return.””
Genesis 3:19 NIV
You took such great care of him, it's heartwarming. Progressive supranuclear palsy is what Linda Ronstadt has been diagnosed with. ❤
Thank you for sharing your story. So many people don’t understand this debilitating disease.
You are an amazing lady, Gina ❤ thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for posting this. My wife died from an unidentified brain disease in her early 40s while we had an infant child. I’m realizing through seeing other people’s experiences, that terminal disease is terminal disease. It’s a difficult road for both patient and caregiver and loved ones. In some ways the road is unique but in many ways it’s not, since it’s about decline, loss of function, and ultimately death. The end of dreams and aspirations for both the patient and their spouse. It’s difficult to accept but we have to accept it. Thank you
Sorry for your loss ❤❤
I do respite care for adults with disabilities, it's so important that caregivers take care of themselves, it can be exhausting physically and emotionally when there's only one person to do all the care. I only have 2 clients at the moment because I am older but it's rewarding to help others. My clients are self sufficient and can do everything but needs help with shopping and taking them to appointments, to the park. I'm so glad that you took time for yourself. I'm sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing your story. 🙏❤️
Thank you so much for sharing your story .... absolutely beautiful and heartwrenching. ❤
I am so sorry for your loss and so grateful for you insight and love towards another human being. I do hope this video finds you well and rested and those lovely memories are at the forefront of your mind.
I would love to speak with you if you ever have time. Greetings from the UK
You are an amazing. You showed your care for shows what love is all about, for better or worse.
My name is Gina, and i lost my father recently from FTD, he was hospitalized for the last two months, in and out, due to breathing complications and then hospital infections and so on. I cared for him the best way i could, since i was the only one that i could, my mother has mobility issues and my sister lives far away. I am still trying to come to terms with his loss. My whole life was caring for him, and now my world feels so empty. I also keep thinking if i have done everything right or if i could have done something better, guilt is hitting me hard sometimes...I also told him that i loved him all the time and i also told him that i know he loves me too, like you did. It is a very cruel disease. My father was 73.
@giakamar you did everything right. You loved him. Please do not blame yourself because that would hurt your father. You loved him and you were there for him and that’s all you could do. I know he is watching over you. I hope you see him in your dreams.
What a gift to both parents. All those feelings happened to me with my mother. Slowly, memories of her reminded me of our life of good times and love. Weathering all together. Forgive little things. ❤🌼🌼🌼
This lady is an angel!!
I do 1 on 1 with a FTD resident at a nursing home, I to believe she can understand I ask her things and she answers yes, no. I mention how hard she had worked at her job, and she sighs, and makes eyes stating yes. I mention how well she did with her daughter, and how her daughter is a happy successful young lady, well my resident had tears running down her cheeks.
RIP George!
Thank you for the story. I'm 68. It made me think.
Thanks for sharing your story.
Thank you for this video I know it’s hard we have Alzheimer’s runs in our family. It’s my turn now I’m at the start. My poor kids.
Have you notice changes in you?
How do you know it started?
A big hug x
Yeah, hospice care was very disappointing to me when I was caring for my mom. They keep sending me surveys and I throw them in the trash. I needed them when she was dying and they certainly were not there.
As tragic as it is to watch someone succumb to dementia, be grateful you were not burdened with the tremendous financial difficulties that can accompany this horrible disease. Unfortunately my mother wasn't so fortunate when dealing with my fathers six year battle with Alzheimer's.
Yes. I was thinking that as well. Moderate wealth would change everything.
I’m sure she is grateful.
Sorry for your loss😢. You did well my dear. The Lord is pleased.
The Lord is pleased!! What absolute drivel
God bless you Gina ❤❤
Amazing couple, you're an amazing lady Gina x
Im surprised you were disappointed with palliative care. I had only good experiences with them and hospice. I'm a caregiver who specializes inALS, Alzheimer's and Parkinson's. But I know it's different from country to country. I live in US.
Just found this video. My mother in law has dementia but she is very resistant to any help. She lives with us and my world of peace is upside down ..If I don’t prep her food, all she will eat is potatoes,bread and cheese.I tried to reorient her that the person in the den is her son..
This was a beautiful video🌹🌹🌹
This was wonderfully put together. I'm in school to become a nurses aide and my research paper is on FTD...how were his activities of daily living handled by himself in the early stages?
Hi Mary was just sent your question today. In the early stages I was able to leave him at home but needed to prepare food and leave things out. I could only leave him for short periods, however. He did need assistance with showering and toileting but in retrospect I think helping in the early stages got him accustomed to being helped which I believe made it easier when more help was required.
May God bless you🙏🏼
Thank you…
You fought for him...
Laughter is the best RX!
Wow
Sit ftd
What is FTD? RUclips reaches people around the world who may not know what those letters stand for. Very sorry for your sad story.
Correct not many people know what FTD is and the moment they hear the word Dementia that think Alzheimers which it is not. Luckily there is a lot of info on Google when you search FTD but we need to get the word out. Thank you
Frontotemporal dementia or frontotemporal disorders (FTD)