The women wanting tall guys is part of the wanting a man to protect them. A masculine man is attractive to a feminine woman. And masculine means strong.
You see women with these tall guys but some off them are just lanky fucks ad rsther be 5.10 and wide and strong that’s what I am 220 pounds abit off fat and muscle
As a 43 year old natty who has always stayed in the gym over the years, I can say that the vast majority of of people tend to think I'm in my mid 30's. I suggest it's mostly because of the physique. I've got a lot of muscle maturity after a good 25ish years of training and it makes me seem younger than I am. As a result, it does become a quick indicator when females key on the physique. Asking you to flex. Wanting to feel your arms. Asking if you can make your pecs bounce. Making it obvious that they recognize that you look strong and masculine. I get plenty of choosing signals based on nothing more than physical presence. So yes, be a regular at the gym. Keep this mindset. It's not about being motivated to go to the gym. It's about being disciplined. Plenty of days everything will be on point. Your eating, sleeping, energy....everything is on point and you WANT to go to the gym. But it's those days you have no energy, aren't motivated, and just want to bail, that's when the DISCIPLINE comes in. And that's where the mental development happens. Stay on point men.
Yes, Men you must go to the gym and get fit. Women love that shit! I myself go to the gym 5 days a week to weight train. I want to be in the best shape I can for my man too. Being fit is sexy. No beer bellies and dad bods. Women want hot muscular guys.
Right on. Stay in decent shape, everyone is different, I get that. I got divorced and at 37 was able to go home with 23 year olds, they didn't care I was 37. Good times.
That’s why I don’t understand the “just get money” bros. I’ve had women love me for me, and it’s an awesome feeling. I couldn’t stand knowing my girl was tolerating me because I have money. Completely ruins any chance of intimacy.
Being good looking and in shape with a good style is far far far far more important than anything else when it comes to getting women. Some people simply can NEVER get there, and I get that, but if you are average you can pretty much turn yourself into Chad-lite with some time. You will gain "game" and "personality" as a result of women being friendly towards you all of the time. It appears that Chad has game simply as a result of him having so much positive experiences with women. If you could implement Chad's brain into a 3/10 man HE WOULD NOT GET THE SAME RESULTS. You people need to understand this.
**don’t get the women they would like to have. It depends on the women you chase. 3/10 doesn’t get an 8/10 unless they have huge offsets. Better to make peace with who your equal counterpart is and actually feel love and companionship than to be bitter and lonely, living off of unrealistic “want”. Just take what you can from what he says.
100% true from personal experience lol i used to think girls were sunshine and rainbows and was making average income and had zero problems. After I got a little of what everyone calls "game" from just dating lots of different types of women + vastly increased my income... I actually feel like it's all more tiresome and complicated now than it was before. Sometimes in life you accomplish something you once thought it was great, only to find out the chase and the journey getting there was actually better than the destination.
I fully agree with this take, when a girl is physically attracted to you every word you speak is gospel. Go to the gym and then run nice guy game until you get good, thats literally a blueprint to success for any guy failing today. We already know the difference between creepy and romantic is your physical appearance.
I'm 60 but my body and looks are in the low 40s. Most people think I'm lying when I tell them my age. However I am disciplined about working out, the food I eat and no alcohol or tobacco. I get a kick out of the 20 to 30 year old girls that get the little giggle when taking to me. I don't chase women as I find it tiresome. If you stay in shape your life as a man gets much better.
59 and recently divorced, in the gym 5 days a week. I totally understand and agree with your take. The thing content creators overlook and under value is women want to be thought of as emotional and thoughtful creatures when the majority of their body count is straight up physical desire. Being in really good shape ( as opposed to being a meathead) and very casually having some swagger will keep you very busy. As for the age thing. At 59 I look like early 40s and women additionally appreciate/ desire men in this stage for various reasons. You are correct your body is both your tool and your advertisement. Keep it shape and well tuned and it will serve you well
I agree, you feel good about yourself when you stay in shape. It shows in your attitude. I’m in my mid 50s I’m loving it! Most dudes are pudgy or weak seems like these days.
I can confirm this to all be so true. Im working out right now and my wife even starting touching my muscles more. She digs it without even having to say it. Im also 5'8" and been called handsome and a handful of women would give me looks time to time. I was blessed with the good looks. I consider myself above average or handsome but being in shape is also a bonus. It's also to be healthy and be a protector. It feels good to look good. 🤷🏾♂️ Being looked at as a dude who most won't mess with is awesome. Its best when you also know how to fight too. 😎 👍🏾
Girls never looked at me until I worked out for a few years consistently. This meme about only gymbros caring about your muscle is a myth and needs to die. Get a six pack, get your deadlift to 405lbs and YOU WILL get attention from women. I promise.
Yes I am working HARD on body game 100x more than anything else. No cap I'm a bit of a pu**y when it comes to approaching. I'm man enough to know it. Lots of inner shit to deal with. But my body I have no issues lifting heavy, walking a lot, fasting and eating for growth. I really do think the better you get physically the more the mental and inner works itself out.
@@ericlarousse1149 yep just got done lifting, dips, and pushups even after a work day. Feel great. Now just have to actually talk to this cute nurse next time I see her 🤦
No bullshit, random dates are some of the best I've ever had in my life. Running errands, going to the beach randomly, etc. There's so much less pressure when it feels like you're just hanging out, compared to getting all dressed up and going to some fancy restaurant when you barely even know the person.
Totally true. I'm a 35 year old man and I can consistently get college women to come home with me. It's a mix of personality and physique. The physique gets my foot in the door and the wisdom of age and personality gets me into the bed.
I’m gonna be 35 soon and almost every new person I meet thinks I’m mid twenties. I have all my hair still and I’m in great shape, only 5’7” so my muscles look bigger because of my shorter limbs. Good habits and discipline need to start early and they will become a normal part of your life.
6:20 That is so true, man! When you workout and your muscles are used by different exercises you are in your natural masculine state, that's why you feel good. Women can sniff that from a mile away, because they CRAVE that energy. Damn. She will have an orgasm right when you enter their space. Don't get me wrong, you can still fuck that thing up if you don't have a little bit of personality, but I agree with you, LFA. The way you look is very important, and matters a lot!! IF SHE DOESN'T LUST FOR YOU, WALK AWAY!
Evry time i lift weights at a gym! Woman’s are all over me!! They chase me, 😎 I’m only 5:5 tall, but they love me!! Is all about attitude!! My brothers!!!
I'm 49.. in the good old days we called body game.... the downside is that it takes lots of work and time. I'm a 5, but body game helps me a lot, bros. Especially taking ur shirt of while running or playing some sport or cycling.
I appreciate that transparency. Money will land you a wife not more women and you can get around more women you prefer with money but women want a provider man. The advantage is to be easy on the eyes. You don’t need game pretty women don’t do a thing and they get results like 90 going north it’s about being easy on the eyes. When a average guy gets a hot chick his insecurities will skyrocket and women are intimidated by a guy who is in shape and dresses sharp because people are checking him out all the time
If you have $100,000,000.00 in net worth. Trust me you’ll see the most beautiful women in the game. Buying into it, is look “Pay To Win”. If you’re broke, and good looking… great, you might have women to have fun with. But, if you’re wealthy ($200k-$700k), you’ll need no game… You can learn the game or you can buy into it.
What’s up LFA my bro…as a 51 year old dad I can attest to what you are saying is 100% true. I don’t I’m have any ‘game’ …I never felt the need to because talking to women comes naturally because u talk to them as u would talk to anyone else. And maintaining a respectable level of fitness and hygiene-I am friends with pretty much every attractive girl at my gym. There literally is no game involved-if they find u attractive and not creepy-the come up to YOU. Just talk to them like you’d talk to anyone else. That’s the only ‘game’ advice I can give.
I can say from personal experience that as a man who has game and money, you will get girls. But you will still struggle to get those girls to treat you like a priority if she doesn't lust after you. You can pull them when you have the game to help make up for your looks but she will still be slow to respond to your texts or meet up the next day.
Trying to move myself back to being a true Christian and attract a wife but you’re right LFA. You’re absolutely right nothing will substitute for masculine strength and physical attraction. In the ways that you can control. Red Pill game is over-complicated nonsensical bs
I have found that being lean, jacked, and acting normal (don't act like you workout) makes you irresistible to females. Think about it, how can they not be attracted or at least take notice to a male who is fit and has a sense of who he is? What else could they possibly be looking for? It's nature.
This happened with a mate of mine got super jacked over covid. The lad has average conversation skills but his ability with women has doubled. Seeing his results over the last year has motivated me to start lifting
@@124madcow You doing heavy compounds? They stimulate growth hormone and pack on the muscle and increase strength. Bench, deadlift, pull-ups & rows. Squats are cool, but don't overdo leg development as it detracts from a masculine physique. There's many reasons why old school bodybuilders of Arnold's era look like Greek God's (compared to bodybuilders who came after), one of them is their legs weren't so massive. The ideal woman bedding physique is low bodyfat (12%), big arms and shoulders 💪and a V-taper- basically a body that has naturally high testosterone from womb through adolescence. Good glutes are also on the list. So, do the four lifts up top and then really focus on shoulders and arms- remember the triceps make up 2/3 of the upper arm.
I think you got it a bit mixed up, but I understand what you were saying and completely agree. Women who are looking for long term relationships, don’t like extremely attractive guys, they want a guy who’s not getting chased by women. Women who are looking to date, and hookup go for the “hottest guys”..
Shit, I think this is true. Being jacked gets you attention but it doesnt make your relationship better. Look normal, have social skills and a job will get you higher quality relationships than a good body.
your right but the thing is you're pretty much "leftovers" or the beta bucks guy. at the very least, if shes done with the CC your just a dude she settled with and is complacent with you.
@@FiendTheatre this is fairy tale manosphere non-sense. Most average looking guys are in relationships as early as 20 or even earlier. The only guys who have to wait are asocial nerds who never leave their house and who only want super hot women.
@@FiendTheatre it all depends on the people bro, I know personally people who got married with women, who already have more than a few dudes under their belts, but I also know dudes who wife’s up girls from high school.. that they’ve dated and knew since HS.. they’re in their 30’s married and happy, and the those particular women didn’t put themselves out there like that. But usually it’s the beta dudes who wife up reformed 304s and yes correct, get complacent together. This one is actually the most common, I think we can agree
@@hablabamosa the woman with low standards who wants anyone who’s nice and caring etc settle for husband material.. while at the same time feed him more and get him fat and ugly looking, for her advantage, to keep him away from women. This is their low key tactic. But this will also get her to be bitchy, since she knows she can still pull guys and the fat complacent dude is stuck being fat. A fat husband who levels up and gets jacked can make his woman worry he can find someone better, and this makes her act right. It’s all a mind game we humans can play
If you look good the flesh. If you dress well. You smell good. Just look fresh and clean. Girls notice that + you are independent and got something going for yourself it matters a lot. Don’t matter if ur tall or not
I actually transformed my body by working a labor job in my late 30s. It was impossible for me to eat enough calories to be fat. Then I started lifting, built businesses on the side while sticking with my day job. It's low status and definitely not big bucks, and I mostly hide my businesses and live within my net employment income. I'm like the 60 year-old gym guys in the video. No women think I look close to my age, but the few who do are into that. In my experience and opinion you don't need to be a jacked gym dude to be above 90% of men. You just need some strength and muscle without being a fat slob. Genetics play a role, but if you are a fat slob it's 99% on you due to your lifestyle and health choices. Sleep, go for walks, lift, don't eat in a surplus if you are fat. that's pretty much it. Guys who are "too skinny" are almost non-existent in the US. The ones that are would probably be fine "lean bulking" or "maingaining" or whatever. lift, eat, rest.
Lol at 4:40! This happened to me, not to long ago. I’m now nearly as attractive as I was in my earlier to mid 20’s. I just have to lose a little more weight.
I really can resonate with the video. Game is overrated, but I also seen where it can really add to a guy whose good lookings pulling ability. Working in the sports supplement field for years, I was always around more muscular guys. Being one of the few that didn't juice or use prohormones to enhance myself. That being said, many people would be shocked to know how insecure alot of really muscular guys are. My one friend/work colleague who was around 6ft, jacked, and had a face like the reality tv guy "Chad Johnson". We use to talk about women and what not. At the time we were both in our late 20s, and I assumed his count to be triple digits by looking at him. Turns out, his lay count was 4. He would later confide in me he had small D, and he never slept with a random for fear of rejection. What really reasonates with me, is the part where you said when youre too on point with looks and built women won't want you for a relationship. This is a 100% true. Being in sales, and meeting lots of couples. Its rare when I see a man whose better looking than a female. The majority of the time, the female is noticeably more attractive. The advantage I have in being in the top 10% looks/physique, most women show lust from the jump. And the majority of the time, women will come straight to your house/no date needed.
I was watching this on my way to work and once you said there’s a lot of fucking people out here and said you probably look dumb asf I was just dying of laughter. Keep up these videos on your evening walks, I fuck with em 💪🏽💯, thanks LFA
“Sorry 5/10 and under, I’m not in that boat. Can’t relate to that.” 😂 That Shit is funny to me. I’ve never had a fresh outta the gym or in the gym regularly physic but I have had really hard physically demanding jobs that kept me in shape. I’ve always gotten a lot of dimes without too much effort. Good stuff regardless. I think LFA is lucky with the good genetics.
He mentioned Locario who is the realest. But Locario does severely underestimate the importance of the body game. I am listening more to Rom Wills nowadays but using Locario techniques when necessary.
I can attest to the difference of loosing some body fat and gaining muscle (lots of pull-ups) and the spike in looks from women in their 20's and up I get (I'm mid 40's but have a pretty young face). One of my goals was to lose fat in my face to create greater definition which I did. The main starting point for this was quitting alcohol a couple years back and going mostly keto. I don't want to "game" women, but illicit real attraction to make my interactions better.
Them early to mid 40s really hit if you aren’t a fat piece of shit or a lame. 💯 I turn 42 this year and it’s been fucking awesome for me. Money, great body, I’ve been married for 14 years, but if all that shit went away, I’d be fucking DANGEROUS. I don’t outright act on what I know, but I will admit, it’s causing some funny reactions from my wife. Can’t run with the status quo when you’re hitting the wall and your man is chilling in the prime years of his life. 💯 Love it bro!
Positive thinking and positive vibes will attract everyone. Energy can be more powerful than a hot body and a cute face. Enjoy your weekend LFA . Quack quack 🦆 🌲🌲
This is true, but the thing is that if your thoughts and self-image are where they "should be", ie you're mentally and emotionally at a high level, your body will mirror that. Our bodies are reflections of how we percieve ourselves. So someone not being in shape is actually a very good indicator that they are not actually in a genuinely positive mental state.
First time i disagree with you. Never been my experience. From my 20's into my early 30's i was a total gym rat. Met people all the time from diverse backgrounds. Had more attention from dudes giving me cred for my biceps then females ever did. I was benching reps of 325lbs. at the time. The females i encountered were always about skinny doper dudes, dudes with high profile jobs = bank! These dudes today would be deemed simps and betas. And now that I'm older i see young females with soft core dudes all the time. 90% of women have green eyes...money eyed females. Bottomline. Keep on brother, most of your content is on point
This so called game is indeed an illusion. You really gotta work on yourself, get in shape and your skills. Looks are the primitive approach, but a crucial one. People who are claiming that "looks alone don't matter" are simply lazy and just lying to themselves.... I recently started working out again, once I overcame my cold....
Having a decent body, not too much overweight is good. Make shure your shoulders are wider than your waist and that alone will do wonders. Going to the gym and getting fit will boost your confidence not only for women but for other aspects of your life
@@madlok9114damn chief 405x5??? Congratu fking tions brah. That a lot more than most men can dream of lmao. Hopefully u still got some of the fat? Powerlifting>Aesthetic
Yea I really think people need to workout, run, be in their best physical shape. Be their best selves, even when they're in relationships. I think a major cause of divorce is people letting themselves get sloppy.
Facts...I played college football, so I lifted ALOT. I was always very laid back, slightly shy and aloof in my early 20's in college. I was never the OVERT cocky jock character out in public, like a lot of my teammates, to GET attention from chicks. Since middle school, girls always liked my becuae 1) I was handsome 2) mysterious becuase I was shy. When I'd go out to clubs/bars (in other cities) I never announced I was an college athlete. They would approach or stare. Athletic builds attract women.
Yeah man working out does get you more than having game. I would say my game is pretty low but I'm a really good-looking guy, and I go to the gym four times a week. I don't mean to sound arrogant but I was just saying. Either way I still get some of the most beautiful woman ever, and I swear more often than not they give me their number without me asking. I'm dead-ass serious
Your comment is pointless apart from you humble bragging about being good looking 😂 you’re like these women that think their achievements are due to them as opposed to their genetics
The title is so funny 😂 as a bi guy, this is new to me (joining in on the conversation of sex with other guys) but this is like the talks I’ve never had with father/brother
I've got some friends that over time they build impressive massive bodies. when the time comes words don't come out from their mouths and atraction sparked by shinny body goes away..
I am a very muscled guy, all my older male friends keep on telling i look like a beast. Get compliments from random male strangers from time to time. Yet with women it doesn't do anything, it like they are blind to a viking walking around them, both in the climbing gym or at a public sauna, no looks at all
11:59 Better Bachelor explained how delayed gratification can't be applied on MOST Women. They want a good sneakylink or a brand new car only to find out they been pumped and dumped and or serious credit card debt with their vehicles. You my sir are a GENIUS!!!!!! Even way ahead of the game itself!
LFA, the only things you need to be a man are a y chromosome, the associated internal/external equipment, and the age of 18. Lifting metal objects doesn't make you a man. Biological standards have already been met. When the ultrasound tech, midwife, or OB doc says "it's a boy", it's done. Lift all you like, but at the end of it, you're just gaining weight. If the consensus is "Lifting weights gets me laid", and the majority follow and/or accept that premise, then it's no longer impressive. You're just a follower at that point, but then again so are most women, so I suppose you're right in a way. Birds of a feather follow each other. Standards and preferences for what a "man" is SOCIALLY defined as varies from person to person. I think we as humans should focus more on basic biological standards, because everything else is purely subjective and at times shallow. No matter how skinny, ugly, or unmotivated I am, I'll always be a man. Not your kind, but still a man. Societal expectations be damned. If I die a virgin, so be it. At least I'll have a clean STD panel. As far as I'm concerned, women should be asking us out, considering for 100+ years they've been steadily driving us away by trying to be us. That might not be masculine, but it would certainly redress the 4 waves of feminism. Plus, it would show they actually want us in their lives, instead of us trying in vain to convince them to stay in ours. Just sayin'.
Woman are biologically attracted to resources since the dawn of time. Like we are attracted to fertility. I'm not saying you shouldnt workout but be well rounded in everything including fitness and finance. These chicks were young and only wanted a dude to atleast have a car. They grow up and want resources, stability and home. I dont think this point is valid. The sexual market place has changed since we were in high school and college and with social media. To say just working out will get you chicks is an L. Sure, might work for younger and gullible chicks. But need to improve all aspects of your life to keep them as they grow up. On Fresh and Fit they mostly choose the dad bod over in shape as long as he makes more money.
Having a lot of money definitely doesn't help because by the time you slept with a girl you've spent almost no money on her anyway, so you could be the complete brokie you're a multi-millionaire and it wouldn't matter. It's having had done things in life that gives you an increased status or perceived status and girls can see that right away. So if you know you're really good at something, whether it be business, or getting girls, that is infinitely better than just having money. The gym also works similar, you look at yourself and you know I look darn good and other people are noticing that and it shows in your actions.
He's right, if you just want to hook up. I'm an older gentleman with 45% scars from an accident. Women love bad boys and mystery and are emotional creatures. Most of these women have their beta male providers too but are unsatisfied.
Evolutionary standpoint. A genetically superior man or a man who appears genetically superior will be attractive to women. One of the benefits of working out guys
IF you think that pumpign iron is good for your physical looks, wait til you figure out how good it is for your calm, your self esteem and your spiritual swagger
I did it because I have always been skinny with long arms said meh why not try to bulk up 😎😅 that and it was the only thing that helped me with the T virus if you grew up in the post social media era spitting game is all we had really at getting girls before iPhones and Facebook I mean.
The women wanting tall guys is part of the wanting a man to protect them. A masculine man is attractive to a feminine woman. And masculine means strong.
You see women with these tall guys but some off them are just lanky fucks ad rsther be 5.10 and wide and strong that’s what I am 220 pounds abit off fat and muscle
It’s true I’m a skinny guy that is a natural born fighter but when you actually beat up the jacked guy you just look like a psycho lol
Thank you for this ground breaking news ..
@@jeffriggins9106 your welcome.
@@alexlandy7422 there is no such thing as a natural born fighter... lmao
As a 43 year old natty who has always stayed in the gym over the years, I can say that the vast majority of of people tend to think I'm in my mid 30's. I suggest it's mostly because of the physique. I've got a lot of muscle maturity after a good 25ish years of training and it makes me seem younger than I am. As a result, it does become a quick indicator when females key on the physique. Asking you to flex. Wanting to feel your arms. Asking if you can make your pecs bounce. Making it obvious that they recognize that you look strong and masculine. I get plenty of choosing signals based on nothing more than physical presence. So yes, be a regular at the gym.
Keep this mindset. It's not about being motivated to go to the gym. It's about being disciplined. Plenty of days everything will be on point. Your eating, sleeping, energy....everything is on point and you WANT to go to the gym. But it's those days you have no energy, aren't motivated, and just want to bail, that's when the DISCIPLINE comes in. And that's where the mental development happens. Stay on point men.
100%
Thanks for mindset check. Will try to implement. Motivation never works long term.
Yes, Men you must go to the gym and get fit. Women love that shit! I myself go to the gym 5 days a week to weight train. I want to be in the best shape I can for my man too. Being fit is sexy. No beer bellies and dad bods. Women want hot muscular guys.
How many times a week do you go? I only go 2
Right on. Stay in decent shape, everyone is different, I get that. I got divorced and at 37 was able to go home with 23 year olds, they didn't care I was 37. Good times.
Can you share more ... where, how did you meet them
@@yoi1818go out on weekends
Working out, finding a style, & acting like a solid man WILL get you action. Rom Wills preaches the body game heavy you should check him out.
Rom Wills is the OG! Literally the godfather of body game. Love your channel too Tarik
Boney S.W in this bitch, respect ☝
check ou JostenJ too he has gold nuggets on these subjects
Body game nation 💪🏾
Shout out you and Rom Wills!!!!
That’s why I don’t understand the “just get money” bros.
I’ve had women love me for me, and it’s an awesome feeling. I couldn’t stand knowing my girl was tolerating me because I have money. Completely ruins any chance of intimacy.
Same. I had more girls in to me for me when I was poor. Having a lot of money complicates things a lot.
@Nitrodamous seen girls asking how much men make
Being good looking and in shape with a good style is far far far far more important than anything else when it comes to getting women. Some people simply can NEVER get there, and I get that, but if you are average you can pretty much turn yourself into Chad-lite with some time. You will gain "game" and "personality" as a result of women being friendly towards you all of the time. It appears that Chad has game simply as a result of him having so much positive experiences with women. If you could implement Chad's brain into a 3/10 man HE WOULD NOT GET THE SAME RESULTS. You people need to understand this.
**don’t get the women they would like to have.
It depends on the women you chase. 3/10 doesn’t get an 8/10 unless they have huge offsets. Better to make peace with who your equal counterpart is and actually feel love and companionship than to be bitter and lonely, living off of unrealistic “want”. Just take what you can from what he says.
Very true.
100% true from personal experience lol i used to think girls were sunshine and rainbows and was making average income and had zero problems. After I got a little of what everyone calls "game" from just dating lots of different types of women + vastly increased my income... I actually feel like it's all more tiresome and complicated now than it was before. Sometimes in life you accomplish something you once thought it was great, only to find out the chase and the journey getting there was actually better than the destination.
It's mostly about purpose and income... unless you're dating a naive 18 yo that only asks you have a car
@@stylewithaltitudeGirls don't give a shit about your income. If they do, you missed something...
I fully agree with this take, when a girl is physically attracted to you every word you speak is gospel.
Go to the gym and then run nice guy game until you get good, thats literally a blueprint to success for any guy failing today.
We already know the difference between creepy and romantic is your physical appearance.
Ain’t that the truth
Facts
What you mean by run nice guy game. I've heard not to be a nice guy anymore.
Im 64 my beautiful gal is 44...not really attracted to gals my age anymore...stay in shape !
Listen to the man !
I'm 60 but my body and looks are in the low 40s. Most people think I'm lying when I tell them my age. However I am disciplined about working out, the food I eat and no alcohol or tobacco. I get a kick out of the 20 to 30 year old girls that get the little giggle when taking to me. I don't chase women as I find it tiresome. If you stay in shape your life as a man gets much better.
59 and recently divorced, in the gym 5 days a week. I totally understand and agree with your take. The thing content creators overlook and under value is women want to be thought of as emotional and thoughtful creatures when the majority of their body count is straight up physical desire. Being in really good shape ( as opposed to being a meathead) and very casually having some swagger will keep you very busy. As for the age thing. At 59 I look like early 40s and women additionally appreciate/ desire men in this stage for various reasons. You are correct your body is both your tool and your advertisement. Keep it shape and well tuned and it will serve you well
I agree, you feel good about yourself when you stay in shape. It shows in your attitude. I’m in my mid 50s I’m loving it! Most dudes are pudgy or weak seems like these days.
I can confirm this to all be so true. Im working out right now and my wife even starting touching my muscles more. She digs it without even having to say it. Im also 5'8" and been called handsome and a handful of women would give me looks time to time.
I was blessed with the good looks. I consider myself above average or handsome but being in shape is also a bonus. It's also to be healthy and be a protector. It feels good to look good. 🤷🏾♂️
Being looked at as a dude who most won't mess with is awesome. Its best when you also know how to fight too. 😎 👍🏾
Girls never looked at me until I worked out for a few years consistently. This meme about only gymbros caring about your muscle is a myth and needs to die. Get a six pack, get your deadlift to 405lbs and YOU WILL get attention from women. I promise.
How will they know you have abs unless you walk around shirtless like a douche?
Damn I was with you till the deadlift point. It’s irrelevant to being aesthetic which is what women like
@@thechosenone93 facts
my cousin is short nd has a lean body nd he still gets no action
Yes I am working HARD on body game 100x more than anything else. No cap I'm a bit of a pu**y when it comes to approaching. I'm man enough to know it. Lots of inner shit to deal with. But my body I have no issues lifting heavy, walking a lot, fasting and eating for growth. I really do think the better you get physically the more the mental and inner works itself out.
Agreed. It's damn hard to be depressed and sad when your fucking exercising!
@@ericlarousse1149 yep just got done lifting, dips, and pushups even after a work day. Feel great. Now just have to actually talk to this cute nurse next time I see her 🤦
Follow Christ
@@rockyp32 that's vague and unhelpful at best.
@@7figurebrian beleive in Jesus Christ he died for you hookups and the world will never fulfill you
You're right. Rom Wills has been preaching this
No bullshit, random dates are some of the best I've ever had in my life. Running errands, going to the beach randomly, etc. There's so much less pressure when it feels like you're just hanging out, compared to getting all dressed up and going to some fancy restaurant when you barely even know the person.
Totally true. I'm a 35 year old man and I can consistently get college women to come home with me. It's a mix of personality and physique. The physique gets my foot in the door and the wisdom of age and personality gets me into the bed.
I’m gonna be 35 soon and almost every new person I meet thinks I’m mid twenties. I have all my hair still and I’m in great shape, only 5’7” so my muscles look bigger because of my shorter limbs.
Good habits and discipline need to start early and they will become a normal part of your life.
I look up to people like you brotha!! I’m 23 almost 24 and I know I got a long way to go, but I’m glad I can hear stories like this. Makes me happy
Ain't you worried about going to hell?
@@DaltonRoseeLikewise. I’m 26 almost 27, let’s go brutha!
@@dustygearheadwhere and how do you meet them. Tinder?
6:20 That is so true, man! When you workout and your muscles are used by different exercises you are in your natural masculine state, that's why you feel good. Women can sniff that from a mile away, because they CRAVE that energy. Damn. She will have an orgasm right when you enter their space. Don't get me wrong, you can still fuck that thing up if you don't have a little bit of personality, but I agree with you, LFA. The way you look is very important, and matters a lot!!
IF SHE DOESN'T LUST FOR YOU, WALK AWAY!
True words
100% agree, getting your body right & having a masculine demeanor will trump game in some ways more often than not
It doesn't hurt to have both. It shouldn't be an either or argument.
Evry time i lift weights at a gym! Woman’s are all over me!! They chase me, 😎 I’m only 5:5 tall, but they love me!! Is all about attitude!! My brothers!!!
Are you for real bro ?? I am 5’6” and I am insecure 😢
u kant be 5'5 kuz my cousin is 5'5 nd he still gets no women even doe he lifts weights
You might be delusional cuz gym has limited space, they could just working out
I'm 49.. in the good old days we called body game.... the downside is that it takes lots of work and time.
I'm a 5, but body game helps me a lot, bros. Especially taking ur shirt of while running or playing some sport or cycling.
I appreciate that transparency. Money will land you a wife not more women and you can get around more women you prefer with money but women want a provider man. The advantage is to be easy on the eyes. You don’t need game pretty women don’t do a thing and they get results like 90 going north it’s about being easy on the eyes. When a average guy gets a hot chick his insecurities will skyrocket and women are intimidated by a guy who is in shape and dresses sharp because people are checking him out all the time
If you have $100,000,000.00 in net worth. Trust me you’ll see the most beautiful women in the game.
Buying into it, is look “Pay To Win”.
If you’re broke, and good looking… great, you might have women to have fun with. But, if you’re wealthy ($200k-$700k), you’ll need no game…
You can learn the game or you can buy into it.
Its refreshing to see the beautiful neighborhood as your giving advice
These are great videos LFA, I feel like I’m there with ya taking a walk brother while you’re dropping knowledge! Much respect.
What’s up LFA my bro…as a 51 year old dad I can attest to what you are saying is 100% true. I don’t I’m have any ‘game’ …I never felt the need to because talking to women comes naturally because u talk to them as u would talk to anyone else. And maintaining a respectable level of fitness and hygiene-I am friends with pretty much every attractive girl at my gym. There literally is no game involved-if they find u attractive and not creepy-the come up to YOU. Just talk to them like you’d talk to anyone else. That’s the only ‘game’ advice I can give.
I can say from personal experience that as a man who has game and money, you will get girls. But you will still struggle to get those girls to treat you like a priority if she doesn't lust after you. You can pull them when you have the game to help make up for your looks but she will still be slow to respond to your texts or meet up the next day.
Chad doesnt need game if he gets buff basically should be the title
I support your message bro. Thanks for your perspective
chiill style of vid man, one of the OGS who helped me find my way in the modern age, thanks for being an online big bro to me and many others
He right you got a great shirtless photos helps alot
Trying to move myself back to being a true Christian and attract a wife but you’re right LFA. You’re absolutely right nothing will substitute for masculine strength and physical attraction. In the ways that you can control. Red Pill game is over-complicated nonsensical bs
I have found that being lean, jacked, and acting normal (don't act like you workout) makes you irresistible to females. Think about it, how can they not be attracted or at least take notice to a male who is fit and has a sense of who he is? What else could they possibly be looking for? It's nature.
This happened with a mate of mine got super jacked over covid. The lad has average conversation skills but his ability with women has doubled.
Seeing his results over the last year has motivated me to start lifting
How you doing now ?
@@dingdong6005 not bad making gains
@@124madcow
You doing heavy compounds? They stimulate growth hormone and pack on the muscle and increase strength. Bench, deadlift, pull-ups & rows.
Squats are cool, but don't overdo leg development as it detracts from a masculine physique. There's many reasons why old school bodybuilders of Arnold's era look like Greek God's (compared to bodybuilders who came after), one of them is their legs weren't so massive.
The ideal woman bedding physique is low bodyfat (12%), big arms and shoulders 💪and a V-taper- basically a body that has naturally high testosterone from womb through adolescence. Good glutes are also on the list. So, do the four lifts up top and then really focus on shoulders and arms- remember the triceps make up 2/3 of the upper arm.
Facts physical presence is key.
I think you got it a bit mixed up, but I understand what you were saying and completely agree. Women who are looking for long term relationships, don’t like extremely attractive guys, they want a guy who’s not getting chased by women. Women who are looking to date, and hookup go for the “hottest guys”..
Shit, I think this is true. Being jacked gets you attention but it doesnt make your relationship better. Look normal, have social skills and a job will get you higher quality relationships than a good body.
your right but the thing is you're pretty much "leftovers" or the beta bucks guy. at the very least, if shes done with the CC your just a dude she settled with and is complacent with you.
@@FiendTheatre this is fairy tale manosphere non-sense. Most average looking guys are in relationships as early as 20 or even earlier. The only guys who have to wait are asocial nerds who never leave their house and who only want super hot women.
@@FiendTheatre it all depends on the people bro, I know personally people who got married with women, who already have more than a few dudes under their belts, but I also know dudes who wife’s up girls from high school.. that they’ve dated and knew since HS.. they’re in their 30’s married and happy, and the those particular women didn’t put themselves out there like that.
But usually it’s the beta dudes who wife up reformed 304s and yes correct, get complacent together. This one is actually the most common, I think we can agree
@@hablabamosa the woman with low standards who wants anyone who’s nice and caring etc settle for husband material.. while at the same time feed him more and get him fat and ugly looking, for her advantage, to keep him away from women. This is their low key tactic.
But this will also get her to be bitchy, since she knows she can still pull guys and the fat complacent dude is stuck being fat.
A fat husband who levels up and gets jacked can make his woman worry he can find someone better, and this makes her act right. It’s all a mind game we humans can play
If you look good the flesh. If you dress well. You smell good. Just look fresh and clean. Girls notice that + you are independent and got something going for yourself it matters a lot. Don’t matter if ur tall or not
thank You , Blessings , Truth Spoken 😊🤗💖
I actually transformed my body by working a labor job in my late 30s. It was impossible for me to eat enough calories to be fat. Then I started lifting, built businesses on the side while sticking with my day job. It's low status and definitely not big bucks, and I mostly hide my businesses and live within my net employment income. I'm like the 60 year-old gym guys in the video. No women think I look close to my age, but the few who do are into that. In my experience and opinion you don't need to be a jacked gym dude to be above 90% of men. You just need some strength and muscle without being a fat slob. Genetics play a role, but if you are a fat slob it's 99% on you due to your lifestyle and health choices. Sleep, go for walks, lift, don't eat in a surplus if you are fat. that's pretty much it. Guys who are "too skinny" are almost non-existent in the US. The ones that are would probably be fine "lean bulking" or "maingaining" or whatever. lift, eat, rest.
Always hide your income from women and the U.S.S.A. government.
what type of businesses did you start ?
Lol at 4:40! This happened to me, not to long ago. I’m now nearly as attractive as I was in my earlier to mid 20’s. I just have to lose a little more weight.
LFA blessed his block with a walk in slippers.
100 percent true.. the best advice ever, very realistic and honest.. mp LFA. See yahh
I really can resonate with the video. Game is overrated, but I also seen where it can really add to a guy whose good lookings pulling ability. Working in the sports supplement field for years, I was always around more muscular guys. Being one of the few that didn't juice or use prohormones to enhance myself. That being said, many people would be shocked to know how insecure alot of really muscular guys are. My one friend/work colleague who was around 6ft, jacked, and had a face like the reality tv guy "Chad Johnson". We use to talk about women and what not. At the time we were both in our late 20s, and I assumed his count to be triple digits by looking at him. Turns out, his lay count was 4. He would later confide in me he had small D, and he never slept with a random for fear of rejection.
What really reasonates with me, is the part where you said when youre too on point with looks and built women won't want you for a relationship. This is a 100% true. Being in sales, and meeting lots of couples. Its rare when I see a man whose better looking than a female. The majority of the time, the female is noticeably more attractive. The advantage I have in being in the top 10% looks/physique, most women show lust from the jump. And the majority of the time, women will come straight to your house/no date needed.
I was watching this on my way to work and once you said there’s a lot of fucking people out here and said you probably look dumb asf I was just dying of laughter. Keep up these videos on your evening walks, I fuck with em 💪🏽💯, thanks LFA
Being jacked and shredded will give you celebrity status. I've experienced it many times.
You literally cannot go wrong with being jacked. You will always be more attractive the more you work out. Period
Giggachad Lfa
You’re a brother indeed!!
👍🏽
“Sorry 5/10 and under, I’m not in that boat. Can’t relate to that.” 😂 That Shit is funny to me. I’ve never had a fresh outta the gym or in the gym regularly physic but I have had really hard physically demanding jobs that kept me in shape. I’ve always gotten a lot of dimes without too much effort. Good stuff regardless. I think LFA is lucky with the good genetics.
He mentioned Locario who is the realest. But Locario does severely underestimate the importance of the body game. I am listening more to Rom Wills nowadays but using Locario techniques when necessary.
Great video dude love your authenticity 🤘🏽
I can attest to the difference of loosing some body fat and gaining muscle (lots of pull-ups) and the spike in looks from women in their 20's and up I get (I'm mid 40's but have a pretty young face). One of my goals was to lose fat in my face to create greater definition which I did. The main starting point for this was quitting alcohol a couple years back and going mostly keto. I don't want to "game" women, but illicit real attraction to make my interactions better.
Them early to mid 40s really hit if you aren’t a fat piece of shit or a lame. 💯
I turn 42 this year and it’s been fucking awesome for me. Money, great body, I’ve been married for 14 years, but if all that shit went away, I’d be fucking DANGEROUS.
I don’t outright act on what I know, but I will admit, it’s causing some funny reactions from my wife. Can’t run with the status quo when you’re hitting the wall and your man is chilling in the prime years of his life. 💯
Love it bro!
am I another dude who knew this because he started to train at age 14 but was even afraid to call other dudes out who didn't know shit about training?
You DO have a male model face! Don’t sell yourself short. Enjoy your videos. From a woman’s perspective you are always on point.
Positive thinking and positive vibes will attract everyone. Energy can be more powerful than a hot body and a cute face. Enjoy your weekend LFA . Quack quack 🦆 🌲🌲
Nail it
This is true, but the thing is that if your thoughts and self-image are where they "should be", ie you're mentally and emotionally at a high level, your body will mirror that. Our bodies are reflections of how we percieve ourselves. So someone not being in shape is actually a very good indicator that they are not actually in a genuinely positive mental state.
@@T3merity Well said. Truth
Enjoy your weekend 🌲
Now imagine what positive vibes+ a great body can do for you !
@@Saou11 exactly right! Have a Rock’in weekend!
Great message
It's always windy in Oklahoma
First time i disagree with you. Never been my experience. From my 20's into my early 30's i was a total gym rat. Met people all the time from diverse backgrounds. Had more attention from dudes giving me cred for my biceps then females ever did. I was benching reps of 325lbs. at the time. The females i encountered were always about skinny doper dudes, dudes with high profile jobs = bank! These dudes today would be deemed simps and betas. And now that I'm older i see young females with soft core dudes all the time. 90% of women have green eyes...money eyed females. Bottomline. Keep on brother, most of your content is on point
Sincere charm goes a long way
This so called game is indeed an illusion. You really gotta work on yourself, get in shape and your skills. Looks are the primitive approach, but a crucial one. People who are claiming that "looks alone don't matter" are simply lazy and just lying to themselves....
I recently started working out again, once I overcame my cold....
Pumping iron is the best. I miss the brick wall behind LFA tho.
Having a decent body, not too much overweight is good. Make shure your shoulders are wider than your waist and that alone will do wonders. Going to the gym and getting fit will boost your confidence not only for women but for other aspects of your life
i was super jacked all my life but powerlifter bodyfat, it DID NOT HELP AT ALL , so stay lean :)
I was bench pressing 405 for 5 btw, never got any copmliments and rarely from other men either, i think they were just intimidated
@@madlok9114damn chief 405x5??? Congratu fking tions brah. That a lot more than most men can dream of lmao. Hopefully u still got some of the fat? Powerlifting>Aesthetic
@@madlok9114 Facts you need a fit muscular physique not a bulky PL or BB look
Yes lean physique is the name of the game.
You weren’t jacked you were just fat
6 pack bathroom selfies do work on the apps. Don't let anyone fool you
The Vibe of this man is the truth lol
True, true. If you make the effort to look good, all is way easier: workout, well groomed, dressing style
It’s called body game, @Rom wills talks about this
Yea I really think people need to workout, run, be in their best physical shape. Be their best selves, even when they're in relationships. I think a major cause of divorce is people letting themselves get sloppy.
I live in Tulsa too! Haha I went to TCC too!
Facts...I played college football, so I lifted ALOT. I was always very laid back, slightly shy and aloof in my early 20's in college. I was never the OVERT cocky jock character out in public, like a lot of my teammates, to GET attention from chicks. Since middle school, girls always liked my becuae 1) I was handsome 2) mysterious becuase I was shy. When I'd go out to clubs/bars (in other cities) I never announced I was an college athlete. They would approach or stare. Athletic builds attract women.
8:10 - 8:26 ...story of my life
Rom wills would agree 💯
Dude you speak facts and so funny while doing it lol 😂
I just realized, I made a similar video a few years back the same way, just walking around and talkingshit LOL
LFA the realist mf on RUclips
Isaiah 4:1
I've basically always said this. Raw attraction trumps everything..
Yeah man working out does get you more than having game. I would say my game is pretty low but I'm a really good-looking guy, and I go to the gym four times a week. I don't mean to sound arrogant but I was just saying. Either way I still get some of the most beautiful woman ever, and I swear more often than not they give me their number without me asking. I'm dead-ass serious
Your comment is pointless apart from you humble bragging about being good looking 😂 you’re like these women that think their achievements are due to them as opposed to their genetics
Just being in the gym is a good opportunity there are a lot of women there
True True
The title is so funny 😂 as a bi guy, this is new to me (joining in on the conversation of sex with other guys) but this is like the talks I’ve never had with father/brother
Real boss be like 🏋️♂️
I've got some friends that over time they build impressive massive bodies.
when the time comes words don't come out from their mouths and atraction sparked by shinny body goes away..
That means you deffo co-sign on Rom Wills body game philosophy
That’s what people keep saying
I am a very muscled guy, all my older male friends keep on telling i look like a beast. Get compliments from random male strangers from time to time. Yet with women it doesn't do anything, it like they are blind to a viking walking around them, both in the climbing gym or at a public sauna, no looks at all
Retention does ❤
Lol you have always worked out, i can tell
11:59 Better Bachelor explained how delayed gratification can't be applied on MOST Women. They want a good sneakylink or a brand new car only to find out they been pumped and dumped and or serious credit card debt with their vehicles.
You my sir are a GENIUS!!!!!! Even way ahead of the game itself!
Don't only think gym/fitness. Think complex movements like pull ups , sports ...
Damn wtf This vid just showed up on my feed. I just dropped outta TCC lmao
LFA, the only things you need to be a man are a y chromosome, the associated internal/external equipment, and the age of 18. Lifting metal objects doesn't make you a man. Biological standards have already been met. When the ultrasound tech, midwife, or OB doc says "it's a boy", it's done. Lift all you like, but at the end of it, you're just gaining weight. If the consensus is "Lifting weights gets me laid", and the majority follow and/or accept that premise, then it's no longer impressive. You're just a follower at that point, but then again so are most women, so I suppose you're right in a way. Birds of a feather follow each other. Standards and preferences for what a "man" is SOCIALLY defined as varies from person to person. I think we as humans should focus more on basic biological standards, because everything else is purely subjective and at times shallow.
No matter how skinny, ugly, or unmotivated I am, I'll always be a man. Not your kind, but still a man. Societal expectations be damned. If I die a virgin, so be it. At least I'll have a clean STD panel. As far as I'm concerned, women should be asking us out, considering for 100+ years they've been steadily driving us away by trying to be us. That might not be masculine, but it would certainly redress the 4 waves of feminism. Plus, it would show they actually want us in their lives, instead of us trying in vain to convince them to stay in ours. Just sayin'.
Woman are biologically attracted to resources since the dawn of time. Like we are attracted to fertility. I'm not saying you shouldnt workout but be well rounded in everything including fitness and finance. These chicks were young and only wanted a dude to atleast have a car. They grow up and want resources, stability and home. I dont think this point is valid. The sexual market place has changed since we were in high school and college and with social media. To say just working out will get you chicks is an L. Sure, might work for younger and gullible chicks. But need to improve all aspects of your life to keep them as they grow up. On Fresh and Fit they mostly choose the dad bod over in shape as long as he makes more money.
Stop coping man. Women aren't attracted to money they use simps to get money! Attraction is only looks and body!
Stength means security AND resoruces
No women wants a weak man. Stop with the cope.
Bro having a good shape man is also part of resources believe me
@@NB-yu4lj Never said that learn to read. I said well rounded and fitness is mandatory
Agreed
Jump on test & the game changes even more
Having a lot of money definitely doesn't help because by the time you slept with a girl you've spent almost no money on her anyway, so you could be the complete brokie you're a multi-millionaire and it wouldn't matter.
It's having had done things in life that gives you an increased status or perceived status and girls can see that right away.
So if you know you're really good at something, whether it be business, or getting girls, that is infinitely better than just having money.
The gym also works similar, you look at yourself and you know I look darn good and other people are noticing that and it shows in your actions.
He's right, if you just want to hook up. I'm an older gentleman with 45% scars from an accident.
Women love bad boys and mystery and are emotional creatures. Most of these women have their beta male providers too but are unsatisfied.
@@yeehaw-bw8ns and it's mainly looks that attracts both genders not the bad boy or crazy part
So Basically I can pull some cheeks from developing a physique if my game is bad, and also how can we learn and traits of game
Evolutionary standpoint. A genetically superior man or a man who appears genetically superior will be attractive to women. One of the benefits of working out guys
IF you think that pumpign iron is good for your physical looks, wait til you figure out how good it is for your calm, your self esteem and your spiritual swagger
I did it because I have always been skinny with long arms said meh why not try to bulk up 😎😅 that and it was the only thing that helped me with the T virus if you grew up in the post social media era spitting game is all we had really at getting girls before iPhones and Facebook I mean.
Learning game is just a big waste of time, too much effort put into it for little results