hey see like .. I am 20 year i wanna ask you people like how to have self control .. l was in relationship with a girl for about 2 years and when she went to collage see breakup with me saying my father wouldnt be ready for our marriage even if you will have good sum. I will be in india"s most prestigious collage next year but i just hate her the way she left me.. i just kept her like princess. i dont wanna marry ever but for my future will casual relationship would be better??? kindly suggest and share your experience if you have any.
I am 52m, never married and no kids. In fact, I cannot even remember the last time I went out on a date! Every day is a holiday for me; I don't need the stress and aggravation.
When a woman admits that she was testing me, I tell her that every date I go on is a test, and if a woman's tests me, she failed MY test and it's over. Then I leave.
This is why it's so important to know her past, because there is a direct correlation to her past and the scope and scale of her "problems". Pay careful attention and do not give away your energy, time, focus, resources.... yourself..... to just anyone.
I’m 56 and so glad my dating and courtship years were decades ago. I’ve got my 80’s girl, and I can not even imagine dating American woman nowadays. Be cautious young men!
That's exactly the problem: You have to prove yourself. You have to be an upgrade, especially in the case of monkey branching. You need to work your butt off. You need to protect and provide. You need to and need to and need to, but never take care of your needs And for what? To make her "feel safe", to provide a comfortable life for her, to prove you can afford to provide for eventually children, to "prove yourself" in the face of endless shit tests. What does she bring to the table? Does she contribute to the race or was she waiting at the finish line to grab everything you struggle for? Does she reciprocate? Does she care? Over 90% of relationships are just one-sided. Better to respect yourself, your time and your life and go monk mode. Nobody can ever give you time and health back. Don't waste them on a leech
If you take pussy out of the equation, most of the time they bring nothing to the table, just a lot of drama, chaos, endless demands, hysterics and a ton of your money and time.
That is not a problem. Just a hard fact of human nature and being a MAN. She gives you her entire body to have your childern (if not skip) The sooner you stop blaming and take full responsibility of your life and start improving yourself the better. Competition is real so you do need to work on yourself on every single level. Workout, start a business/makemoney. Build your masculine frame. Don't look at girls too much. Rather focus on yourself, take the monk mode and CHOOSE a good woman you can see as a good mother for your children.
Been single for 14 years and 11 months. 33 now. Dating was a nightmare. If God is real, God can send a wife. This dating market in America is crazy. I had 3 brain diseases plus other stuff. Fully functional. Noone can tell I went through that. Women, hell no. I need real peace.
Absolutely, Jesus Christ YAHUSHA can send you a wife. Pray for Wisdom and Discernment through the Blood and Name of Jesus Christ YAHUSHA over everything you do and eat! ❤️❤️❤️ 🙏🙏🙏 In Jesus Christ!!! In YAHUAH, YAHUSHA, RUACH!!!
Why even bother? Renting also has its risks. The only way to win is to be self reliant, self disciplined, self controlled, and to use self restraint. Learn to live without.
I personally wouldn't keep a woman around like that even if I passed this 'test' of her. I dont want a partner who blows up like that in public and then start acting all sweet again. Reason being she will be like that again in the future and then defer responsibility of the incident 'oh I was just testing you' nonsense. I'd fine another woman or stay single.
This "sh'''te" test stuff is nonsense. They're just rude. A woman who's really interested in a man will be as nice as humanly possible; that is, until she has more tenure in the relationship or is planning a "bait-and-switch".
The phone check test is pretty simple to pass, though. This is how it's done: after the initial 'no' to the request from her to hand the phone over, you say: I will hand you over my phone, but this is going to be the last interaction we're going to have because after this im out that door. And it's going to be all your fault.
Mark Manson wrote about how before he was married, he didn't waste time on women that suck; he'd walk away mid-sentence if they got snarky or bitchy or was testing him, just a ruthless zero tolerance policy for bad behaviour. It's such an obvious approach to take yet most men have been conditioned to put up with the opposite.
IMO woman are like nice watches. It’s nice to wear one for some time but that’s it and in the end a watch is just a watch and not something that is very important.
Damn, Surge, I didn't know you were going through personal torment. You mean a lot to me, Brah, and if you need to talk, I'm all ears. Best wishes and be well.
@@TopGymOne: What does God have to do with it? Plenty of Christian marriages fail, so where is sweet Jesus, and the Holy Spirit, when lives are shattered?
💯 important to not get tied up / Involved. Stay single, Independant, keep your freedom and mental health, which equals success in life. Women more often than not, will hinder your success. It is a death trap.
I spend up to 3 months sussing out a woman, until I think their worth my time, it never goes past that point, I wont even sleep with them, and some are lucky to even get a date. Most fail, they just don;t have what it takes to be a good woman, most are all fake and not what they seem.
When I was young, I was very vulnerable to this sort of manipulation. My "salami" was in charge, and making all the decisions. There was nothing that I could do! Now the tables have turned, and I am in charge, NOT my salami!!
@@jasonleetaiwan chad is the good looking strongbad guy who they want to breed with but he has too many options so they get pumped and dumped when hes found a new toy
My wife is the the top 20% bracket of beauty, but I always signalled her that I was willing to walk away if things don't work out well. Now she is 50 and a really nice and well rounded person. It was a lot of work but I also came out of it stronger.
back in the past you worked on establishing yourself without a woman, it took time, but when you were ready in your 20/30 or even 40s, you got to marry a teenage bride for your trouble seems like a much better and easier path to take
I have been married 50+ years and I am sat here laughing at all you are saying because I know from experience that all you say is perfectly TRUE and I have tolerated this, but for the past couple of years I have learned to not give a fuck.
I can promise you through years of experience,if you notice strange things about someones behaviour man or woman,if its not"an unusual moment brought on by circumstances "that strange thing you noticed is deep rooted and will keep happening ,and as the person gets to know you and becomes more confident with you, it will become more pronounced.
A Read Your Book Atomic Attraction, I Can Say He Is Very Valuable And A Learn Alot Of Thing's A Didn't Now Before About Attracting Girls, Thank You An A Appreciate you
This is what every teenager boy needs in life. We are programmed as men early on to sacrifice our lives for women and country. Times have changed and the program is outdated.
Hii everyone .. I am 20 year i wanna ask you people like how to have self control .. l was in relationship with a girl for about 2 years and when she went to collage see breakup with me saying my father wouldnt be ready for our marriage even if you will have good sum. I will be in india"s most prestigious collage next year but i just hate her the way she left me.. i just kept her like princess. i dont wanna marry ever but for my future will casual relationship would be better??? kindly suggest and share your experience if you have any.
I’m staying single. It’s not worth the hassle. Time energy and money invested is not worth it!
I’m 50. Lifetime notch count in the mid-60’s. They’re not worth your return of investment gents.
Believe me.
Just smash and dash.
🎯
Amen ! Your a fortunate one if you find one of those unicorns.
The problem is you’re chasing love. Use them. Not in a bad way, but if she’s not adding to your life, drop her
theyll git yu. an ur littal dogggeee tooooo
Single life is more peaceful, you have more free time and very less stress.
In my opinion "STRESS IS A KILLER".
And a LOT more $.
And the finances are sold when single.
And do what...?
But less sex tho
A ton of issues is an understatement
Yeah, he made it singular, when it should be heavily plural (tons).
Biological liability
hey see like .. I am 20 year i wanna ask you people like how to have self control .. l was in relationship with a girl for about 2 years and when she went to collage see breakup with me saying my father wouldnt be ready for our marriage even if you will have good sum. I will be in india"s most prestigious collage next year but i just hate her the way she left me.. i just kept her like princess. i dont wanna marry ever but for my future will casual relationship would be better??? kindly suggest and share your experience if you have any.
@@princearya4616these things are not learnt theoretically, you gotta learn them practically and it’s hard.
All women come with baggage, you want 1 with a small carry on not someone wheeling in 2 large luggage bags into your life
🤣
Or in my case she backed up a moving truck in my driveway full of problems.
Most are trailers full of junk.
I am 52m, never married and no kids. In fact, I cannot even remember the last time I went out on a date! Every day is a holiday for me; I don't need the stress and aggravation.
It still feels like holidays everyday too when u go to work everyday?
@@Schnee767 I work from home, my friend.
Esther Pilar; "the manipulated man' (1973). Spells it all out. It is too dangerous to even date a modern woman. Peace out.
Did you mean Esther Vilar
Vilar
It was a great book. It was written years ago and it still holds true today
Vilar***
***Esther Vilar!
In the words of R. Kiyosaki, "Know the difference between an asset or liability."
When a woman admits that she was testing me, I tell her that every date I go on is a test, and if a woman's tests me, she failed MY test and it's over. Then I leave.
Well played, sir.
No you don't.
This is why it's so important to know her past, because there is a direct correlation to her past and the scope and scale of her "problems". Pay careful attention and do not give away your energy, time, focus, resources.... yourself..... to just anyone.
I just did that lost 10 000 to a (.......)
You are so right.
Yes pay attention to a woman's problem and past
48 laws of power. Read rule #10
I’m 56 and so glad my dating and courtship years were decades ago. I’ve got my 80’s girl, and I can not even imagine dating American woman nowadays. Be cautious young men!
Pray for us bro . These girls are crazy. Pretty but crazy
Make it western women...
Been there, 2 years of PTSD followed. It's like I have seen the Devil.
I know what you mean, recooperation takes time.
Never judge a book by its cover.
Lucifer was the most beautiful angel.
Idk what was in his head and thought to defy the being who made him
ha ha, I lived with that Devilette.... what a mess she left
It's amazing how they turn on a dime into pure venom-spitting demons so quicky. Everyone thinks my woman is different. No she's not!
That's exactly the problem:
You have to prove yourself. You have to be an upgrade, especially in the case of monkey branching. You need to work your butt off. You need to protect and provide. You need to and need to and need to, but never take care of your needs
And for what? To make her "feel safe", to provide a comfortable life for her, to prove you can afford to provide for eventually children, to "prove yourself" in the face of endless shit tests.
What does she bring to the table? Does she contribute to the race or was she waiting at the finish line to grab everything you struggle for? Does she reciprocate? Does she care?
Over 90% of relationships are just one-sided. Better to respect yourself, your time and your life and go monk mode. Nobody can ever give you time and health back. Don't waste them on a leech
If you take pussy out of the equation, most of the time they bring nothing to the table, just a lot of drama, chaos, endless demands, hysterics and a ton of your money and time.
That is not a problem. Just a hard fact of human nature and being a MAN. She gives you her entire body to have your childern (if not skip) The sooner you stop blaming and take full responsibility of your life and start improving yourself the better. Competition is real so you do need to work on yourself on every single level. Workout, start a business/makemoney. Build your masculine frame. Don't look at girls too much. Rather focus on yourself, take the monk mode and CHOOSE a good woman you can see as a good mother for your children.
Was gonna say, a one-way relationship is parasitic, not symbiotic.
Been single for 14 years and 11 months.
33 now. Dating was a nightmare. If God is real, God can send a wife. This dating market in America is crazy.
I had 3 brain diseases plus other stuff. Fully functional. Noone can tell I went through that. Women, hell no. I need real peace.
God is real ✝️🏴
You're preaching to the choir.
Absolutely, Jesus Christ YAHUSHA can send you a wife. Pray for Wisdom and Discernment through the Blood and Name of Jesus Christ YAHUSHA over everything you do and eat!
❤️❤️❤️
🙏🙏🙏
In Jesus Christ!!!
In YAHUAH, YAHUSHA, RUACH!!!
Try Dispenza meditations here on youtube to change your frequency. I know you can ask God and attract a good woman.
I wish this content was out fifteen years ago. Thank you I will share it with my son.
More like 50 yrs. for me.
Would have saved me a lot of pain & grief..
You have to be able to walk away... Bravo on him!
... and never look back.
and stay away
Rent don't buy.
Why even bother? Renting also has its risks. The only way to win is to be self reliant, self disciplined, self controlled, and to use self restraint. Learn to live without.
Why complain about women only to turn around and give them your money?
@@roderickcortez138: Good on you, Brah.
@@roderickcortez138at least you know for what you pay. If no good product you can change without lawyer.
I personally wouldn't keep a woman around like that even if I passed this 'test' of her. I dont want a partner who blows up like that in public and then start acting all sweet again. Reason being she will be like that again in the future and then defer responsibility of the incident 'oh I was just testing you' nonsense. I'd fine another woman or stay single.
Test me and that would be the first and only time.
Somehow I better understand spousal a now
This "sh'''te" test stuff is nonsense.
They're just rude.
A woman who's really interested in a man will be as nice as humanly possible; that is, until she has more tenure in the relationship or is planning a "bait-and-switch".
The phone check test is pretty simple to pass, though. This is how it's done: after the initial 'no' to the request from her to hand the phone over, you say: I will hand you over my phone, but this is going to be the last interaction we're going to have because after this im out that door. And it's going to be all your fault.
Mark Manson wrote about how before he was married, he didn't waste time on women that suck; he'd walk away mid-sentence if they got snarky or bitchy or was testing him, just a ruthless zero tolerance policy for bad behaviour. It's such an obvious approach to take yet most men have been conditioned to put up with the opposite.
Never trust them. You have to pay for their problems and they have no remorse destroying you.
Absolutely zero. Sociopaths.
The are a ticking time bomb 💣..No matter how safe you think you are, eventually it goes boom 💥..
IMO woman are like nice watches.
It’s nice to wear one for some time but that’s it and in the end a watch is just a watch and not something that is very important.
❤
The question is what was your purpose in being with a woman in the first place
Wtf 😂
Funny thing about luxurious watches is that I've always wanted one. Eventually got one... and realized that I've nothing to wear it with lol
If only I had stumbled upon this in early 2020. :( Would have saved me 3 years of a fate worse than hell.
I Hope the experience grew you stronger and closer to God, God bless.
Damn, Surge, I didn't know you were going through personal torment. You mean a lot to me, Brah, and if you need to talk, I'm all ears. Best wishes and be well.
@@TopGymOne: What does God have to do with it? Plenty of Christian marriages fail, so where is sweet Jesus, and the Holy Spirit, when lives are shattered?
3 years is better than 30
I have been married for 26 years. We both keep our separate areas of life, and do not cross those lines.
Really glad for you
What do you mean you keep your separate areas of life? Can you give some examples?
i am a peaceful man, and i hate unnecessary dramas
Stay single play the field own your wealth and health. Peace & Freedom brothers
💯 important to not get tied up /
Involved. Stay single, Independant, keep your freedom and mental health, which equals success in life. Women more often than not, will hinder your success. It is a death trap.
She fell back in line, temporarily.
So he beat level 1.
Now the question is how many more levels does he want to play?
That's what I was thinking. It's like he is giving this one a pass because he saw her picture and she's "very beautiful."
I spend up to 3 months sussing out a woman, until I think their worth my time, it never goes past that point, I wont even sleep with them, and some are lucky to even get a date. Most fail, they just don;t have what it takes to be a good woman, most are all fake and not what they seem.
Good on you, Brah. That's how I rolled with it.
I bought the audiobook.
Well structured, well read.
Highly recommended
I also like the fact that he narrates his own audiobook as well
I'm 66 never married have no regrets I have more money and I have my peace of mind
Thanks for posting bro. You explain these topics in a unique way. Keep up the good work 💪
When I was young, I was very vulnerable to this sort of manipulation. My "salami" was in charge, and making all the decisions.
There was nothing that I could do! Now the tables have turned, and I am in charge, NOT my salami!!
That happens a lot! 😂
Young man's burden
If you're not CHAD, getting a woman and retaining a woman is gonna get a lot of hard work.
CHAD?
Chad doesn't always retain women. A lot of times they go from Chad to Chad.
But Chads don´t want to retain a woman.
@@vekilos Correct.
@@jasonleetaiwan chad is the good looking strongbad guy who they want to breed with but he has too many options so they get pumped and dumped when hes found a new toy
Always be on your mission first and let everything else fall in line to this.
Well "this" can destroy your mission and end goals.
@@chriskitchen4772 that's what I just said lol. Chasing P shouldn't be your life mission
Godbless bro
That letter "b" made all the difference 😅😂
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This guy is a savior
Know your Self-worth, don't be cheap or simp and don't chase wait for a choosing signals, if you shoot your shot and she agrees 'Cool' if not move On.
The ability to move on is an essential to avoid their craziness.
The lack of knowing is the real problem.
Not knowing their intentions is and not been prepared is what Screws you up big time
Yes I definitely agree with you. And knowing, in my opinion, is hot and miss, you never really know the outcome
All this work..... What's the pay off?
Divorce!!! She gets it all you get nothing!!!
Get a prenum!!! Or stay single!!
None whatsoever ! So you get laid so what ! In the big picture that makes up very little time . Enjoy your life and stay away from women
My wife is the the top 20% bracket of beauty, but I always signalled her that I was willing to walk away if things don't work out well. Now she is 50 and a really nice and well rounded person. It was a lot of work but I also came out of it stronger.
I wished I knew this ahead of time.
On point as always.
This man is a genius. One thing they don’t teach you in school is how different men and women think and how to deal with relationships.
yeah I am not paying some Ferrari price tag for used geo metro with a laundry list of issues no thanks.
They sure don't come easy !
This is one of your best videos. Thank you!
We need a man who can "SEE" woman "true color" like him!!!!!!
God protect this man
Later in life, friends fade, even family fades. Life is more fulfilling if you have a partner to share with the golden years.
Have to keep this in mind when you really like her.
I dated a beautiful girl, 8 months later i looked like Santa on the day before christmas. (The baggage) 😵💫
I've been married for 26 years. Best decision I ever made.
Golden advice.
Absolutely!
back in the past you worked on establishing yourself without a woman, it took time, but when you were ready in your 20/30 or even 40s, you got to marry a teenage bride for your trouble
seems like a much better and easier path to take
Good job 👍 keep sending more videos like this 💯🧠💪
Stay Single in 2024/25 is the key to a good life 🎉
She fell back into line and so he then accepted this psycho at that point. Brilliant.
movies & phones don't mix; no drama queen ain't no fkn royalty.
Great video, I enjoyed every detail.
What a champion that man is 🏆
Bro the thumbnail 💀
Why does it have to be so difficult when it could be so easy
I have been married 50+ years and I am sat here laughing at all you are saying because I know from experience that all you say is perfectly TRUE and I have tolerated this, but for the past couple of years I have learned to not give a fuck.
Thank you for the extreme clarity. Wow, tough crazy world out there.
I can promise you through years of experience,if you notice strange things about someones behaviour man or woman,if its not"an unusual moment brought on by circumstances "that strange thing you noticed is deep rooted and will keep happening ,and as the person gets to know you and becomes more confident with you, it will become more pronounced.
Agreed..
Best way to overcome this dilemma is to draw the women in. Not with money or appearance.
That girl needs a dad, not a boyfriend. Always find out what their relationship with their father is like.
Or just rent them.
The gospel - young men must listen to Chris and be very careful
No one wants to talk about dating. Like how it is a modern western invention. And now we're seeing the fruits of it.
Your Body Language is very good especially the almost buddhist clasping your hands together!
Dangerous -Michael Jackson
I'm what you call a "three strikes & you're out" type of man-got married & divorced 3 times-no way I will try for a 4th.
Good video💯
Learn to be alone. Happiness comes from within.
A womans soul was created below. Led Zeppelin [ Dazed and Confused ]
stay single no woman no cry! thank you for the video👍🏼
SUBBED!
Stay safe boys😅
Eeeww…
Totally true, exact situations also happened to me. Crazy.
I bought the book and it is genius!!! Everything he writes about are cited (the studies he draws upon) in the back of the book.
My man is so true . The "tests" are so real.
A Read Your Book Atomic Attraction,
I Can Say He Is Very Valuable And A Learn Alot Of Thing's A Didn't Now Before About Attracting Girls,
Thank You An A Appreciate you
the thumbnail had me 💀💀💀💀
Where is that statue from?
This is what every teenager boy needs in life.
We are programmed as men early on to sacrifice our lives for women and country.
Times have changed and the program is outdated.
The attraction and novelty of the hairy kitty soon wears off. More of the owners are liabilities. There are a few good ones, but very few.
This is great...........for 14 year olds.
Most "men" are no more mature than 14-year-olds, see the example above with his mother issues.
Great informational video,keep it up.❤🎉😊👏💯🎯🧠👑🙌😎👌🙂👍🙋🤠💪
O think both men, women, and all, come with a need to be understood and recognised before engagement.
The ROI is seriously negative. No thank you.
At least she is welling to show him her phone which is extremely rare nowdays
@MrMMK777 Yeah ...but that's after she cleared her phone.
Married almost 30 years. Yes, this gentleman is correct but the tradeoffs can balance out.
Hii everyone .. I am 20 year i wanna ask you people like how to have self control .. l was in relationship with a girl for about 2 years and when she went to collage see breakup with me saying my father wouldnt be ready for our marriage even if you will have good sum. I will be in india"s most prestigious collage next year but i just hate her the way she left me.. i just kept her like princess. i dont wanna marry ever but for my future will casual relationship would be better??? kindly suggest and share your experience if you have any.
After seeing this video and reading the comments I think I’m going into monk mode
Guys. I'm in my 6th decade of life.
* Beauty is a curse for humans.
Yes Peace is underrated🫡
I dislike the way CC (closed captioning) spelled HEY. I prefer HAY. My grandmother was a horse.
Are we talking about succubus here? I solve this issue by using the backdoor
For sex or for exits?😅
I'm staying single 😌
I was drawn-in because of the title.
I use the 10 week program,
100 percent right 🫡
i'm not tryna give no one a lifestyle upgrade lmao short term flings >>>
Very important point
Can anyone think of a better symbol for this topic than the Venus fly trap?
And then God created APMs.