Hey Violet - Guys My Age (Official Video)

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  • Опубликовано: 21 авг 2024
  • “Guys My Age” is out now.
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Комментарии • 19 тыс.

  • @jessiepaege
    @jessiepaege 7 лет назад +13184

    tHE AESTHETIC AND EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS VIDEO AND SONG AHH

  • @bellbarreiros9561
    @bellbarreiros9561 4 года назад +6895

    damn this song really brings out the worst about my daddy issues

    • @HWest-lh7kf
      @HWest-lh7kf 4 года назад +67

      I would like the comment but it's at 69, and I'm a childish 15 year old soo...
      (Update, I can like the comment now🎉)

    • @shayjegaruban7879
      @shayjegaruban7879 4 года назад +14

      painfully true ;(

    • @mercedesroberts4680
      @mercedesroberts4680 4 года назад +13

      No joke here 😂😂😂

    • @bellbarreiros9561
      @bellbarreiros9561 3 года назад +23

      @Sam707BFBC yes, there is something deeper going on: the fact that my dad didn't care to meet me until i was like 8, never wished me a happy birthday in 16 years, talked shit about people i love and was never actively present on my life lol KAKDKSKDKD 👁️👄👁️✌🏽

    • @moonstarzz
      @moonstarzz 3 года назад +14

      @@bellbarreiros9561 don't worry, my real dad left me when I was born for alcohol ❤ and my step dad stole from my family and the place he worked at. He has been to jail multiple times, as I was maybe 6 when he did. Um so yeah, that's my life

  • @kyleethepanda
    @kyleethepanda Год назад +292

    The angst this song gave me at the ripe age of 14 is amazing. Came back at 18 and Its a banger still

  • @earthworm9163
    @earthworm9163 3 года назад +1784

    hello fellow daddy issue community 🧍‍♀️✨💫

  • @avrilmadueno1804
    @avrilmadueno1804 4 года назад +13080

    Me after realizing that all my celebrity crushes are old enough to be my father

    • @lorna4980
      @lorna4980 4 года назад +185

      mood

    • @NA-vf4kc
      @NA-vf4kc 4 года назад +121

      My celebrity crush is clint eastwood😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @samipute
      @samipute 4 года назад +328

      I'm a straight dude but Robert Downey Jr. and Jonny Depp still look too good

    • @AutumnParisPets
      @AutumnParisPets 4 года назад +11

      🤣

    • @Hazyla
      @Hazyla 4 года назад +15

      Coochiejuice 4lyfe ... I have a crush on Mia talerico 😂(don’t worry I’m her age)

  • @user-zb6jr6vs6n
    @user-zb6jr6vs6n 7 лет назад +2169

    She looks like a mix of Lucy hale and bebe rhexa and her voice is like a mixture of Melanie martinez and Halsey which gives me the chills

  • @mariahgray7475
    @mariahgray7475 3 года назад +158

    i was 12 when this came out now i'm almost 17 😭 the concept of time means nothing to me anymore, i miss this era so much when this song was popping everywhere. anyways i'm so proud of how far the band has come, can't wait for the second album

    • @MEl-qt8hc
      @MEl-qt8hc 6 месяцев назад +1

      samee except i was 10 when it came out and now i’m almost 18, but i miss this era of songs

  • @chidieberenwadike4165
    @chidieberenwadike4165 20 дней назад +7

    I can't be the only one who comes back to this. It brings back memories ❤

  • @alexandriasalazar8522
    @alexandriasalazar8522 5 лет назад +4934

    I'm 25 years old and guys my age STILL don't know how to treat me. 🤣

    • @justkat2608
      @justkat2608 5 лет назад +214

      Alexandria Salazar same 🙄
      Little tip from someone who has dated up to twice my age: age doesn’t matter majority don’t know what they’re doing if you find a good one hold tight 😂

    • @katrinamareen
      @katrinamareen 5 лет назад +40

      Teach them

    • @luzalbarez1798
      @luzalbarez1798 4 года назад +13

      Okay....lol

    • @psychomami4415
      @psychomami4415 4 года назад +10

      Alexandria Salazar can’t even agree more

    • @friedonions
      @friedonions 4 года назад +21

      Maybe you don't know how to treat them xD

  • @PIPSCHTICK
    @PIPSCHTICK 5 лет назад +2579

    I'll forever call this the Sugar Daddy song

    • @TheCuteWetRat
      @TheCuteWetRat 5 лет назад +9

      P I P S C H T I C K yeeeah buddy 😎😎😎😎

    • @salimahgriffin6712
      @salimahgriffin6712 4 года назад +52

      More like the Sugar Baby Anthem

    • @nomdeplume2213
      @nomdeplume2213 4 года назад +21

      Haha im sure its a banger in strip clubs.

    • @3llevate
      @3llevate 2 года назад +9

      Nah it's that Lana song... "West coast".. shiz, "Ride" also has reverse cougar energy!

    • @sodacurt
      @sodacurt 2 года назад +7

      Or the “groomed anthem”

  • @mymch-c3x
    @mymch-c3x 11 месяцев назад +37

    HAVEN'T HEARD THIS SONG IN YEARS SO NOSTALGIC also I'm not forgiving any of you for not making this song more famous

  • @SkyBlade79
    @SkyBlade79 2 месяца назад +5

    just announced the group is breaking up. so sad, but it was great to have them in my life

  • @fab4809
    @fab4809 7 лет назад +1086

    Okay so this is "Rena and the backup band" Why can't I see or hear the other members? If I hadn't known them I would think this was a solo song. it doesn not sound like a song by a band. I really like the song BUT for a solo. The other members deserve recognition because they are as talented as Rena is. Literally the camera didn't focus on anyone faces except Rena. No one sang a line except Rena. The should all get their solo lines. They have amazing vioces. Everyone wants to see and hear their favourites. This is a BAND. I wouldn't be surprised if all the new people think of this as a solo song.

    • @tundesimon564
      @tundesimon564 7 лет назад

      some of them already did

    • @ellashambo
      @ellashambo 7 лет назад +8

      Ever since the new ep it has been Rena and frens not hey Violet and I hate it

    • @xoxoctobervods
      @xoxoctobervods 7 лет назад +2

      Starr Little i agree. But Miranda and Nia did sing backup and it shows in some parts of the video. Maybe not for long but it still showed.

    • @saradavis377
      @saradavis377 7 лет назад +24

      Rena does almost all the vocals, but Miranda and Nia sing backups. This is the studio version, but when it is live all of the band is a lot more involved. It's not as electronic live. Also, if you follow them on their social medias all of the band gets attention and is credited for the song equally (except maybe Iain since he is new). I agree that many people only know Rena but that's because she is the front woman, but that happens for a lot bands. People know Luke from 5 Seconds Of Summer best because he is lead vocals and the front man. The front man/woman is always going to get the most attention. I'm happy for Hey Violet. They're finally getting the recognition they deserve with their new sound. It didn't work with alternative rock. It just didn't. I personally wasn't a fan until the Brand New Moves EP. I believe they have big things ahead for them.

    • @pixiestrikes
      @pixiestrikes 7 лет назад +4

      Fab shes the front woman you know how paramore or tonight alive they always focus on hayley or jenna? since rena is the front woman shes the one they focus on bc shes the lead.

  • @hannabeeshive
    @hannabeeshive 7 лет назад +1692

    This is my life's song damn, WHERE HAS THIS GIRL BEEN ALL MY LIFE

  • @crystalhunt5226
    @crystalhunt5226 3 года назад +59

    I cant believe it has already been so long since I was obsessed with them. I was like eleven, and this song came up on autoplay and i listened to it often and then i became conpletely obsessed with all of their music. and then better by myself came out a while after, when i wasnt as into them anymore, but I still loved it. I cant believe it's already been 2 years since that song came out. time goes by so fast when your life is uneventful.

  • @JamesPuckett123
    @JamesPuckett123 4 месяца назад +5

    7 years and still listening to this song

  • @rebeccawisniewski02
    @rebeccawisniewski02 7 лет назад +1569

    This video is the definition of Tumblr

    • @mintfudgecupcakes
      @mintfudgecupcakes 7 лет назад +4

      Rebecca Wisniewski lol so true....

    • @stellawonder7993
      @stellawonder7993 7 лет назад +18

      Rebecca Wisniewski Weird you think this is Tumblr? because I imagine a long ass essay and linked case studies to prove why the lyrics shouldn't be taken to heart. Still a hot song.

    • @sethbrown3213
      @sethbrown3213 7 лет назад +1

      Rebecca Wisniewski best comment all day.

    • @sarahs8733
      @sarahs8733 7 лет назад +14

      #tumblr #grunge #artsy = hey violet music videos

    • @milliepantaloons6801
      @milliepantaloons6801 7 лет назад +14

      A .H PRODUCTIONS I can't get this song out of my head.............

  • @princesspuffin8334
    @princesspuffin8334 4 года назад +5209

    This band is literally full of the most attractive people i've ever seen omg my gay heart

  • @dk2bhad452
    @dk2bhad452 3 года назад +2144

    Me after realizing I’m 14 and My celebrity crush is older than my biological father
    👁👄👁

    • @barenjablue7162
      @barenjablue7162 3 года назад +47

      Oh shi-

    • @dk2bhad452
      @dk2bhad452 3 года назад +52

      @@barenjablue7162 he’s my grandparents age🧍🏻‍♀️

    • @Unknown-qb3xf
      @Unknown-qb3xf 3 года назад +7

      😂💜

    • @kalliewong
      @kalliewong 3 года назад +8

      same

    • @s.o6054
      @s.o6054 3 года назад +23

      @@dk2bhad452 Bro- you good?

  • @chidieberenwadike4165
    @chidieberenwadike4165 Год назад +14

    I can't be the only one who still comes back to this. It brings back those memories ❤

  • @biancaavallone5610
    @biancaavallone5610 4 года назад +6074

    Nobody:
    Me falling in love with Robert Downey Jr who is 54 years old:

  • @shellymcclure8523
    @shellymcclure8523 7 лет назад +1341

    I'm obsessed with this song. I heard it on the radio and had to look it up

  • @JRockG123
    @JRockG123 2 года назад +16

    The beats on this song are absolutely sick AF! Love it!

    • @DonRobertson82
      @DonRobertson82 Год назад +1

      and she is sooooo hot!

    • @JRockG123
      @JRockG123 Год назад

      @@DonRobertson82 have you had a chance to check out Dua LIPA or Ava Max? Those two are absolutely adorably gorgeous as well?

  • @nivesrosy
    @nivesrosy Год назад +10

    The way this song had a grip on me when I was a teenager...now everything turns out to be painfully true👀

  • @dominikamaciejasz8698
    @dominikamaciejasz8698 7 лет назад +225

    I'm in love with the girl that's playing the drum.
    Just WOW. She's stunning and got that something in her eyes.
    Never seen something like this before.

    • @bailarinaMiri1
      @bailarinaMiri1 7 лет назад +1

      Dominika Maciejasz I agree

    • @emilyg8016
      @emilyg8016 7 лет назад +2

      Dominika Maciejasz Yahs Nia is gorgeous!

    • @beatrice7901
      @beatrice7901 7 лет назад

      Dominika Maciejasz ikr she's so gorgeous and talented♡

    • @mikaylapoggi8743
      @mikaylapoggi8743 7 лет назад

      Dominika Maciejasz Nia slays my life

    • @lindseylohan24749
      @lindseylohan24749 7 лет назад

      Dominika Maciejasz I agree omg

  • @tessa4383
    @tessa4383 7 лет назад +2184

    everyone in this band is attractive like, goddamn so beautiful

    • @genoevegriffenbay3469
      @genoevegriffenbay3469 7 лет назад +9

      Yeah in their own nice way.

    • @g33k0f9x
      @g33k0f9x 7 лет назад +5

      uhh no, the singer is hideous

    • @emeraude4831
      @emeraude4831 7 лет назад +23

      +g33k0f9x Oh my god, I think you need your eyes checked. Are you experiencing blurry vision or dizziness?

    • @g33k0f9x
      @g33k0f9x 7 лет назад

      yeah because I have a photo on my profile?

    • @emeraude4831
      @emeraude4831 7 лет назад +2

      +g33k0f9x sure that must be it

  • @donovanphillips4973
    @donovanphillips4973 4 месяца назад +4

    Still stunning 2024 🎉

  • @IReedALot
    @IReedALot 5 месяцев назад +5

    Me at 37 feeling this so damn hard, lost in the dreams of my youth. 😂❤

    • @mariastewart9820
      @mariastewart9820 27 дней назад +2

      I'm 41 and I love this song ! Plus I look incredibly young ! 😂

  • @leannzhen8203
    @leannzhen8203 5 лет назад +7824

    *daddy kink has entered the chat*

    • @vis6d
      @vis6d 5 лет назад +126

      Oml there's a comment above yours saying *daddy kink anthem*

    • @avainspires6958
      @avainspires6958 4 года назад +8

      XD

    • @Bramon83
      @Bramon83 4 года назад +11

      Indeed. 👌

    • @ilovejupiterr
      @ilovejupiterr 4 года назад +3

      LeAnn Stark 0-0

    • @marissasouders7329
      @marissasouders7329 4 года назад +16

      Are you related to Tony Stark in any way, if so I am sorry for you loss

  • @emmaw4561
    @emmaw4561 7 лет назад +1440

    this song should be in pretty little liars when the girl was kissing the teacher

  • @natashamerline
    @natashamerline 4 месяца назад +4

    Ah my anthem once again

  • @nctzenskim9453
    @nctzenskim9453 4 месяца назад +6

    2024: My fiance is 10 years older, I've never felt so loved and adored

  • @ElizabethNicoleSchwartz
    @ElizabethNicoleSchwartz 7 лет назад +1623

    this video is just so aesthetically pleasing and i love that about it, bless.

  • @HobiDuck777
    @HobiDuck777 4 года назад +9400

    Me, 2018: Guys my age don't know how to treat me..
    Me, 2020: *lesbean*

  • @jessehacker570
    @jessehacker570 3 года назад +8

    I met the drummer once at a party, she is so amazing!

  • @ivanmendez5419
    @ivanmendez5419 4 месяца назад +2

    I love Hey Violet

  • @voicedbilabialtrill2514
    @voicedbilabialtrill2514 3 года назад +1565

    I remember jamming out to this after having broken up with my then boyfriend who was my age. I went on to date older dudes who turned out the same, if not worse. It's not about the age but the person or the characteristics that you look for in a dude. Maybe this will inspire someone to take a look in the mirror and ask yourself if you subconsciously keep on looking for the same kind of person who is not a good match for you. I know it helped me figure some stuff out.

    • @mceluv7130
      @mceluv7130 2 года назад +40

      I wish others thought like you do. Age is not the key it is character. You can be in love with a man that is 10 years older So what as long as he is a good man.

    • @J3diMindTrix
      @J3diMindTrix 2 года назад +4

      it's about character, people are often drawn to the same type of persona pretty much regardless of age difference
      like a moth to a flame .. setting on a path to failure cause it's what feels familiar .. and it never works out .. sad to see really
      females are being groomed from afar now, even music like this is directing them to older men (the ones that own the record companies and promote the music - maybe even write the songs) - it's a win for them, who else benefits? nobody.. there are guys out there, attractive young band like this telling other girls not to bother with them is part of the problem, all that this is trying to achieve is sugar daddies probaly married with kids having a young plaything to manipulate.. if you know someone who can't see how tacky that is then maybe they just need counselling for daddy issues - did he walk out from young, that lack of father figure whilst growing up manifests in all kinds of confusing ways for different people.. also girls need to stop expecting to be showered with gifts and treated like a bank account (easier for older men more established in life) and seek some relatable emotional connection instead.. this is just an extension of objectifying women and now it's even coming from women (i dunno if the band wrote the track, it looks pretty manufactured to me) aimed at younger women to make them susceptible to creeps as if being older is automatically a bonus no matter who it actually is .. yet another ad campaign by the mainstream propaganda machine
      If you never give anyone your age a chance, or give up after 1 or 2 bad experiences, obviously you're not gonna develop the social skills to build a relationship with someone your own age and then this song seems like the answer

    • @lisatrif1498
      @lisatrif1498 2 года назад +8

      Gotta start with the way you view yourself like me I was use to abuse I was putting myself down didn't love myself...so the next dude seen right through my exterior knew they could take advantage of me. Now it's different I'm a beast I got a feisty side that little boys would consider me a bitch but a real man wouldn't be scared!

    • @dukewhistler
      @dukewhistler Год назад

      J

    • @Ky40291MJ
      @Ky40291MJ Год назад

      As Taylor Tomlinson said " i quit dating losers..... yeah no one realizes how hard that is...." love her to death

  • @mikaelablacconeri9575
    @mikaelablacconeri9575 6 лет назад +677

    I swear she said "cause you hold me like a walnut"

    • @xx_itsky_xx1395
      @xx_itsky_xx1395 5 лет назад +3

      Lololol

    • @purple_wolfie_
      @purple_wolfie_ 5 лет назад +44

      Who doesn't want to be held like a walnut..? 🤔

    • @amandar273
      @amandar273 5 лет назад +8

      Someone said that when the song first came out and I've never been able to hear anything else lol.

    • @abbaboobee
      @abbaboobee 5 лет назад

      😂

    • @ashleigh7362
      @ashleigh7362 5 лет назад +1

      Stop this madness

  • @SarahHeald
    @SarahHeald Год назад +5

    6 years ago!? Damn. Time flys fr

  • @311danil5
    @311danil5 3 года назад +7

    Years ago, I was in the middle of a voice lesson, and all of a sudden, my vocal coach just stops and throws up her hands and was like, "I want to start a band!" And talking how putting her middle school-aged daughter in it and all this stuff.. this is NOT what I had in mind AT ALL lol. The vocal coach was Miranda's Mom. 🤣🤣 So good. So genius!

  • @ispeakfactsoops8427
    @ispeakfactsoops8427 5 лет назад +12919

    When you break up with your 12 year old Minecraft boyfriend for a 12 and a half year old Minecraft boi

  • @Just.here.
    @Just.here. 4 года назад +6310

    I would love it if someone made a mashup of this and "teacher's pet" by Melanie Martinez

  • @taylor3233
    @taylor3233 Год назад +6

    ...just hearing this for the first time.but This is literally now the theme song for this very chapter of my life. Yes. Just so yes!

    • @bettycat4832
      @bettycat4832 Год назад

      Love this. It feels like I'm the only one who still listens to this band and everyone else grew up and forgot about them, so it's cool to see a new fan.

  • @urfathersdirtysock
    @urfathersdirtysock 3 года назад +17

    Can we all just take a moment to appreciate the colors and stuff that are set up in the background * chefs kiss *
    beautiful~~

  • @Adriana-gr4ug
    @Adriana-gr4ug 6 лет назад +2406

    ** Dates guy 2 years older **
    *listens to song on repeat for a week*

    • @vanessap6403
      @vanessap6403 6 лет назад +22

      I actually have a classmate that is 2 years older but who cares 😂

    • @katacerepinko3150
      @katacerepinko3150 6 лет назад +70

      Dates boy one year older
      Quotes this song for days

    • @bethferris7768
      @bethferris7768 6 лет назад +9

      Bella Tan that is literally me right now😂😂😂

    • @germantennesseean8438
      @germantennesseean8438 6 лет назад +12

      *18years older lmfao

    • @Scar...
      @Scar... 6 лет назад +11

      StarHaze Galaxy My mom is 41 and my dad is 37,4 years older....

  • @kaitlenn11
    @kaitlenn11 7 лет назад +3438

    'Cause you hold me like a walnut

  • @veee.n134
    @veee.n134 3 года назад +5

    Ong I keep coming back I love her songs sm she's so underated

  • @cash4coke
    @cash4coke 5 месяцев назад +2

    help this is my CHILDHOOD 😭😭

  • @rocklesson86
    @rocklesson86 7 лет назад +216

    Personally I think maturity has nothing to do with age, but who you are as a person. I know some older men who can be just as immature as younger guys.

    • @catzaj415
      @catzaj415 7 лет назад

      You are like the smartest person here!

    • @rocklesson86
      @rocklesson86 7 лет назад +13

      I would not say the smartest. I am just tired of people saying that older men know how to act versus a younger man. Some girls say they do not want to wait for a man to grow up, but new flash, we females still have some growing up to do too.

    • @minutemuse
      @minutemuse 7 лет назад

      Exactly! Thank you.

    • @DronZizzle
      @DronZizzle 7 лет назад +2

      It's a combination

    • @rocklesson86
      @rocklesson86 7 лет назад +2

      DronZizzle To me it is not a combination. I don't look at your age to see how mature you are because everyone is different.

  • @valeriyaaanka
    @valeriyaaanka 5 лет назад +8287

    No one:
    Literally nobody:
    All 15 y/o girls:

    • @Andrei-bl6mm
      @Andrei-bl6mm 5 лет назад +317

      13y/o*

    • @reggiexp69
      @reggiexp69 5 лет назад +221

      yeah even 12 years old but mainly 13 years old talking about there ex didnt know how the thread her right. or what ever.
      grow the fuck up..

    • @squidink5338
      @squidink5338 5 лет назад +208

      Dont come at me like that

    • @Trappedinglass
      @Trappedinglass 5 лет назад +54

      @@squidink5338 yo lol i feel u m8

    • @reggiexp69
      @reggiexp69 5 лет назад +13

      @Deathmations you are 12? since you replied to my comment :)

  • @chxerry.x7537
    @chxerry.x7537 3 года назад +118

    "['Guys My Age'] came up because we were talking about past relationships and about how guys can just, bottom line, be super immature," she said. "And that goes for girls too."
    "I know it's called 'Guys My Age,' but I really think that the crux of the song is not necessarily about age, but also maturity level - because a guy can be a few years older, or in his 30s or 40s, and can still be incredibly immature or not know how to treat someone else like they're a priority," Lovelis continued. "So I definitely think the idea of the song is definitely more about maturity level rather than like, 'I need a 50-year-old in my life.'" [Laughs]

    • @mceluv7130
      @mceluv7130 2 года назад +4

      I totally agree. When I say I want an older guy doesnt mean hes 40. I like older men like 5 to 10 years older cause they are more mature in mind and wonderfully more in body too. I like my strong handsome men. :)

    • @mihiduli4055
      @mihiduli4055 2 года назад +1

      true, I know younger guys than me that are more mature than older guys,so it's more about mentality

    • @chrissyholman2947
      @chrissyholman2947 2 года назад

      Remember ladies, your man will be 50 one day...

    • @victoriakathleen01
      @victoriakathleen01 2 месяца назад

      ​@@chrissyholman2947and statistically he's less likely to find you attractive once he gets to that age, because women tend to be attracted to men closer to their age, whereas older men start preferring young women 🫠

  • @theweirdkidnextdoor219
    @theweirdkidnextdoor219 3 года назад +88

    Me after figuring out that dylan o'brien is in his 30's:

  • @kirstywade554
    @kirstywade554 7 лет назад +342

    the drummer is gorgeous I'm in love

    • @isobellaaustin
      @isobellaaustin 7 лет назад +1

      she is nia, who is rena's (the lead singer) sister :)

    • @p_iss
      @p_iss 7 лет назад +1

      kirsty wade same

    • @kirstywade554
      @kirstywade554 7 лет назад +1

      Isobella Austin ah thank you!

    • @Bloomnr
      @Bloomnr 7 лет назад +1

      i know right

    • @emmablossom2458
      @emmablossom2458 7 лет назад +3

      That's Nia she's Rena's sister the pink haired girl they are beautiful I love them alot

  • @isabellalunenburg2621
    @isabellalunenburg2621 7 лет назад +815

    HER HAIR IS GOALS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @notsurebutwillbe
    @notsurebutwillbe 19 дней назад +2

    Nostalgia hits

  • @faitharnett8177
    @faitharnett8177 Год назад +7

    This song used to be relatable, but now I’m so old that guys my age DO know how to treat me! 😭

  • @Black_Ryze
    @Black_Ryze 6 лет назад +861

    Seriously, the drummer is so ridiculously cute...

  • @juliazieba5253
    @juliazieba5253 5 лет назад +310

    I love the aesthetics of this music video - the colour palette, its sweeteness, cotton candy and neons, this combinations is soo pleasant

  • @ionlywanted1thing
    @ionlywanted1thing 2 года назад +4

    On repeat, on repeat, on repeat
    This is too good and too real, i love it

  • @emmaleemeadows2600
    @emmaleemeadows2600 2 года назад +4

    this song is intoxicating

  • @eddi8371
    @eddi8371 5 лет назад +828

    This is "aesthetically" pleasing.
    (Is that how you say it?)

  • @astrid8781
    @astrid8781 7 лет назад +429

    This song is not a promotion of pedophilia, this song is about a girl who likes older guys, because those of their age do not "understand", Why people have that talent to get everything out of context?

    • @Koriography2929
      @Koriography2929 7 лет назад +10

      i mean, hell, i'm 23 and like older guys. it's amazing that people can only see one viewpoint.

    • @kamikazebanzai3525
      @kamikazebanzai3525 7 лет назад +1

      Astrid aww dang :(

    • @loxi.3819
      @loxi.3819 7 лет назад +10

      EXACTLY.. and People need to know what Pedophilia means before calling someone or something that. It's when someone is sexually attracted to prepubescent children. This girl doesn't is already developed and isn't even near in being considered prepubescent.

    • @itsmecp
      @itsmecp 7 лет назад

      Astrid exactly I'm nearly 21 for example and love the song

    • @ComickeyAnimations
      @ComickeyAnimations 7 лет назад +4

      um.... they got the context right. dont know how to touch, tease, keep, and love me. its dirty. "understand" the way you use it implies platonic and intellectual relations and thats not what this song is about. its not pedophillia cuz the girl is 18, but nothing is being taken out of context here

  • @neon8881
    @neon8881 Год назад +7

    this song got me groomed

  • @lunaniteshade9952
    @lunaniteshade9952 Год назад +2

    if they don't know how to treat you, teach them. 💅🏻👑 We teach people how to treat us and we show them by how we love ourselves.

  • @oenonetan9551
    @oenonetan9551 7 лет назад +490

    Is it just me that this music video has the riverdal vibe and aesthetic??

    • @oenonetan9551
      @oenonetan9551 7 лет назад +10

      *riverdale

    • @carlie972
      @carlie972 6 лет назад +1

      Yeah! Just more pastel

    • @sierrajade4587
      @sierrajade4587 6 лет назад +7

      It also goes quite well with the ridiculously attractive dads theme, eg. Hiram and FP. But yeah, the lighting is and visuals definitely have a Riverdale vibe.

    • @haleybowkley5150
      @haleybowkley5150 6 лет назад

      YES

  • @Euph0rigenic
    @Euph0rigenic 7 лет назад +1045

    Hey Violet + The Weeknd...Would be amazing. XD

  • @SaMira-gb6vg
    @SaMira-gb6vg 6 месяцев назад +1

    I used to love this song when I was a teen, now I see it in a way different light. Age gaps are a different thing between 2 adults, but teenager +adult is wrong, even if its just 3 or 4 years different. If he‘s dating highschoolers it’s not bc he thinks you’re his soulmate. It’s bc women his age won’t touch him. You probably just realize it, when you’re his age and see people the age you were. Be safe 💗

  • @_jjosefina.
    @_jjosefina. 4 месяца назад +5

    Still listening in 2024 😩🩷

  • @gabbage_yt8435
    @gabbage_yt8435 5 лет назад +883

    0:18
    *Cause you hold me like a wallnut*

    • @ashruowo
      @ashruowo 5 лет назад +7

      Gabbage
      XD

    • @Paula-nu5cb
      @Paula-nu5cb 5 лет назад +50

      Am I the only person that hear "woman" not "wallnut" ???

    • @teresaolalde3473
      @teresaolalde3473 5 лет назад +7

      Pauline Lov LMFAOO I DID TOO I thought she just liked the way people hold walnuts?? but it’s “woman” lmaoo

    • @hewwo659
      @hewwo659 5 лет назад

      Lol

    • @vis6d
      @vis6d 5 лет назад +31

      I hear a mix of women and wallnut ;-;
      *wallman*

  • @intertwined5626
    @intertwined5626 6 лет назад +485

    sugar daddy anthem

    • @kylecorreia4919
      @kylecorreia4919 5 лет назад +1

      Exactly LoL

    • @kylecorreia4919
      @kylecorreia4919 5 лет назад +5

      I'm in my mid 30s I'd NEVER date a GIRL in her 20s..I don't need a daughter.

    • @goldenmemes51
      @goldenmemes51 5 лет назад

      @@kylecorreia4919 you should read black dragon blog then

    • @kylecorreia4919
      @kylecorreia4919 5 лет назад

      @@goldenmemes51 why?

    • @xennial80sxberner
      @xennial80sxberner 5 лет назад +4

      @@kylecorreia4919 That's more of a little sister than a daughter bro (I'd say over 15 years is when it gets more like a parental age difference), but I agree. Why would any guy want to be a sugar daddy? Wouldn't it just make you feel prematurely old? MILFs are way better lol

  • @eviemarie20
    @eviemarie20 Год назад +2

    I remember singing this song at top of my lungs..now I am with someone much older than me and knows how to treat me & I'll never go back to some the same age.

  • @MyLittleSky
    @MyLittleSky 7 месяцев назад +1

    I wish I was born earlier to listen to this song in its time. Now I'm 18 and listenin to it 7 years later and wow. I feel like I missed lots of good songs..

  • @nightvisions8
    @nightvisions8 6 лет назад +800

    Teenage beans like me, listen up: Like older people, whatever. That's not really something to be ashamed of, it's your preference, fine. But DO NOT go after them. It's unsafe and you can get very hurt. Always wait until you're eighteen or older. I just wanted to put that out there.

    • @sierrajade7875
      @sierrajade7875 5 лет назад +100

      ALSO. Beware of guys significantly older than you. There's a reason women their age won't date them. And even if they're totally normal, generational gaps pose a pretty big obstacle. Not saying it can't be done, but it's hard to relate to someone that much older or younger than you.

    • @24karatramen93
      @24karatramen93 5 лет назад +44

      true - love who you want but be careful. i personally think that you can date older guys at whatever age as long as you're both mature and prepared for the relationship. and also make sure you're not being manipulative and/or manipulated, cause that happens a lot with big age gaps

    • @xotbirdox
      @xotbirdox 5 лет назад +20

      Sierra Jade As long as you're 18 though, it doesn't matter. Like I get that with teenagers but people who aren't minors should be able to date anyone that is also of age. Honestly, I totally disagree with the whole "you won't be able to relate to each other" thing. My parents are 18 years apart and they were together for 23 years and raised two kids, including me. Personally, I usually date women around my age (I'm 20) but I love older men. Men usually have to be at least 5 years older than me for me to be attracted to them, idk why but that is the way it is for me. My boyfriend is turning 27 in December and even though our age gap isn't as big as some others, it's still there and I don't think that it affects our relationship in any way. I tend to be attracted to men that are anywhere from 25-70, no joke. But I am completely of age so it shouldn't matter imo.

    • @kylecorreia4919
      @kylecorreia4919 5 лет назад +4

      @@xotbirdox Sounds like my ex gf..if they are pushing 60 she's into them. It's called "daddy issues".

    • @xotbirdox
      @xotbirdox 5 лет назад +8

      @@kylecorreia4919 Not always. Some people literally just like older men and that's it. That's the only reason that they pursue age gap relationships. I don't have any daddy issues at all and yet, I love older men. My dad died when I was young but before that, he was a wonderful father and loved me and my brother to death. You shouldn't make presumptions about people. I literally just find older men hot, there's no deeper meaning to it.

  • @latteemiele2018
    @latteemiele2018 5 лет назад +405

    I posted this on fb and my crush (mid 40s) started flirting with me. But he controlled/manipulated me thinking I was young and dumb. Be careful of older men, ladies...they want to use and abuse you...not all men tho. I'm way happier with my boyfriend who is 2 months younger than me. He just gets me and respects me as an equal. I feel like this relationship is healthier.

    • @EskimoHugz
      @EskimoHugz 5 лет назад +34

      my boyfriend is 2 months younger than me too.... are we soul sisters???? 😳 also, thanks for pointing out the dangers of dating with an age gap without generalizing. advice done right 🖤🖤

    • @pixiefairy0455
      @pixiefairy0455 5 лет назад +7

      Latte & Miele if you don't mind me asking how old were you at the time ?

    • @menace2819
      @menace2819 5 лет назад

      Well said

    • @jinni2001
      @jinni2001 5 лет назад +4

      @@pixiefairy0455 fr..not to be rude tho

    • @anabitch6737
      @anabitch6737 5 лет назад

      Xgg

  • @rueroops2040
    @rueroops2040 18 дней назад +2

    So when I was 19 I dated a 27 year old and needless to say he was terrible to me, he didn't respect my boundaries and did a lot to make me feel uncomfortable.
    After that when I was 20 I dated a guy that was 21 because i thought someone my age would be more understanding but he didn't have the emotional maturity to treat me right.
    So here I am now, 22 and dating a 25 year old who won't even hold my hand without my permission and I'm vibing to this song because really dating an older guy is only worth it if he's emotionally mature and a gentleman.
    I'm so glad I found a man that treats me right!

  • @nkathamwendwa379
    @nkathamwendwa379 2 года назад +5

    life really is a full circle at 18 I was singing this and now it's my life 💞

  • @Iriwatf
    @Iriwatf 6 лет назад +359

    I remember when this first came out I was afraid to like it just in case my mom figured out I did.
    HAHA

    • @bababooey6222
      @bababooey6222 5 лет назад +2

      SAME LMAO

    • @ahhwe-any7434
      @ahhwe-any7434 5 лет назад

      I was thinking the opposite before I read this. As the mom.

    • @pixiefairy0455
      @pixiefairy0455 5 лет назад

      3dolla SpicyRamen I didnt know what the song meant at the time but now it's another story😏

  • @NotAnotherKuromi
    @NotAnotherKuromi 7 лет назад +89

    The drummer has awesome hair.

    • @su5990
      @su5990 7 лет назад +21

      I thought she was a guy and I said "damn, he is cute." then the camera focused on her and I was like 'wtf?!"

    • @NotAnotherKuromi
      @NotAnotherKuromi 7 лет назад +32

      Azra Su Akbaş Then did you think 'damn she is cute?'

    • @amariemoonlight
      @amariemoonlight 7 лет назад +1

      Sammy Ariel NIAAAAA😍😍

    • @su5990
      @su5990 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@NotAnotherKuromiI found my comment and I actually want to to say, turns out I'm a lesbian 🗿 I started to date with girls like right after this MV 💀

  • @Billy123bobzzz
    @Billy123bobzzz 3 года назад +4

    One of the best songs EVER!

  • @dianamcfalls2796
    @dianamcfalls2796 Год назад +2

    Me realizing this was the 90s teen song. Us born in the 80s and teens in the 90s feel this more then any other. At 16yrs old I was dating a 26yr old... and my mother didn't even blink an eye😬 as a mother now... No way NEVER would I allow it!!

  • @shannondaylie563
    @shannondaylie563 4 года назад +11310

    Daddy issues anthem

  • @chewbaccamcclain7662
    @chewbaccamcclain7662 7 лет назад +3904

    Her outfit is so cute

  • @stefanybenton
    @stefanybenton 5 месяцев назад +7

    I’m 30 & dating a guy that’s 50 & I feeeeeeel this song to the core ❤

  • @madisonkyle3505
    @madisonkyle3505 Год назад +9

    I just turned 30 a week ago and I started seeing a man who is 52 and this song is pretty applicable. 😍

  • @zodiacmagic-xd8cw
    @zodiacmagic-xd8cw 7 лет назад +283

    1:32 remind me of Stranger Things when that thing is about to come out of the wall lol

  • @gevianarif
    @gevianarif 7 лет назад +558

    This video is perfect for Riverdale!

    • @ashdiff
      @ashdiff 7 лет назад

      Gevian Ichsandrie OHGODYES

    • @sandragirlovan7570
      @sandragirlovan7570 7 лет назад

      Gevian Ichsandrie YUUUUSSSS

    • @EmoWolfPlays
      @EmoWolfPlays 7 лет назад +1

      Shit damn right it is

    • @makkenziedavis3597
      @makkenziedavis3597 7 лет назад +1

      Ikr I heard this song in a Riverdale edit

    • @boop6171
      @boop6171 7 лет назад +1

      Gevian Ichsandrie what riverdale? is this the archie riverdale or something else?

  • @daynagonzalez9697
    @daynagonzalez9697 3 года назад +6

    My family:he’s 40
    Me:Andddd whats your point geese leave me and Tom Alone 🙄🤌🏽

  • @abimon76
    @abimon76 3 года назад +5

    don't mind me, just reliving my 2016 "halsey-troye sivan-the fault in our stars-tumblr" era

  • @MaryJaneOctane
    @MaryJaneOctane 7 лет назад +792

    As someone in an age gap relationship, I can totally relate. Guys my age don't know shit... Healthiest relationship I've ever been in 😍

    • @bradenballentine6158
      @bradenballentine6158 7 лет назад +7

      Mary Jane Octane same. I'm 19 and my gf is 17 and she loves it cuz she says I'm wayyyyy more mature.

    • @Wtnd911
      @Wtnd911 7 лет назад +68

      lol im 19 and my man is 29 almost 30. two years isnt that much

    • @MaryJaneOctane
      @MaryJaneOctane 7 лет назад +57

      Braden Ballentine No offense sweetheart but 2 years is not an age gap. I'm 29 and my man is 51. I'm not knocking your maturity level. You could be an old soul. Glad you're happy!

    • @21secndsatthediscbtsastro39
      @21secndsatthediscbtsastro39 7 лет назад +71

      I'm sorry but I can't help but laugh at when someone says 'my man'. I just laugh my ass off.

    • @MaryJaneOctane
      @MaryJaneOctane 7 лет назад +7

      21secondsatthedisco lol why does it make you laugh so hard?

  • @Gabriella-ho6np
    @Gabriella-ho6np 7 лет назад +5322

    this song made me want to hit up my old chemistry teacher

    • @shaner15
      @shaner15 7 лет назад +35

      Gabriella Beauty same

    • @glm557
      @glm557 7 лет назад +157

      Gabriella Beauty Lmao did you pass on spelling?

    • @blackbird5381
      @blackbird5381 7 лет назад +9

      Gabriella Beauty lmho 😂

    • @andyandfriends7882
      @andyandfriends7882 7 лет назад +358

      Gabriella Beauty i think you need to hit up your old english teacher

    • @shelly123mm
      @shelly123mm 7 лет назад +26

      Did not expect that bass int he begin yesssss

  • @scarlett1635
    @scarlett1635 3 года назад +18

    no one:
    me in love with: johnny depp, jeffery dean morgan, robert downey jr, and hugh jackman😏

  • @magnushallen7919
    @magnushallen7919 Год назад +2

    Great pop/rock song that reached a peak at 68 on Billboard hot 100 in 2017. Should have been a bigger hit.

  • @musicswimsbacktome6201
    @musicswimsbacktome6201 5 лет назад +20089

    it’s a great song, but PSA for teens, older people can and will use your naivety to their advantage. Be careful!!!

    • @musicswimsbacktome6201
      @musicswimsbacktome6201 5 лет назад +1078

      Bright Lilly I feel like these kind of songs portray the younger girl as empowered but they don’t show the implicit imbalance of power that comes with these types of relationships.

    • @mattmfg3138
      @mattmfg3138 5 лет назад +98

      So true!!

    • @awhellyeah12
      @awhellyeah12 5 лет назад +102

      That’s a good psa

    • @jessicah9311
      @jessicah9311 5 лет назад +751

      💯 Relationships with large age gaps can be very toxic due to the imbalance of power and experience. It should be a HUGE red flag if a man in his thirties, for example, claims he has anything in common with a girl under the age of 18.

    • @dinodino5602
      @dinodino5602 5 лет назад +14

      ++

  • @haihau8301
    @haihau8301 7 лет назад +797

    0:18 Cause you hold me like a walnut 😂

  • @natnatbat
    @natnatbat 11 месяцев назад +3

    omg this came out when I was 16...22 now. I can't believe that I'm feeling nostalgia from this!! ahaha!

  • @SirSipsSlushies
    @SirSipsSlushies 3 месяца назад +3

    singing this at 14 goes crazy....."now I'm getting attention from a grown up."

  • @pinkbutterfly413
    @pinkbutterfly413 7 лет назад +2989

    was this song written by aria montgomery

    • @coco-de5vj
      @coco-de5vj 7 лет назад +32

      pinkbutterfly413 I swear Aria Montgomery is a character from pretty little liars? Lmao

    • @mzziie
      @mzziie 7 лет назад +28

      pinkbutterfly413 I just understood what you meant lmao

    • @akisiat
      @akisiat 7 лет назад +48

      IM DEAD LMAO

    • @madinazahid829
      @madinazahid829 7 лет назад +2

      bahahah

    • @crystalhobii7304
      @crystalhobii7304 7 лет назад +6

      pinkbutterfly413 lol 😂😂😂 i understand now 😂😂

  • @mostcreativenickname
    @mostcreativenickname Месяц назад +1

    “From the Outside” was one of the first physical CDs I’ve ever owned. I was 14 at the time. So sad hearing the news :(

  • @KevinEMcCord2282
    @KevinEMcCord2282 3 года назад +10

    we all had our own lyrics for this song.

  • @amandaconrad7848
    @amandaconrad7848 7 лет назад +602

    heard this song on Radio Disney. RADIO DISNEY!!!!! IM APPALLED!!!!

    • @brianahhildebrand925
      @brianahhildebrand925 7 лет назад +51

      Amanda Conrad I mean, it's a good song, but definitely not for tweens..

    • @amandaconrad7848
      @amandaconrad7848 7 лет назад +20

      i know!!! Not for the 8 year old I nanny!!! I didn't realize radio disney played this crap!

    • @haroldsmith7148
      @haroldsmith7148 7 лет назад +7

      That is sick

    • @haroldsmith7148
      @haroldsmith7148 7 лет назад +11

      Brianah its not a good song for anyone. Its hyper produced brainwashing satanic shit from Holywierd. The girl is not pretty, nor talented, and the song sounds the same as every other sick POS out of the poisonous industry.

    • @brianahhildebrand925
      @brianahhildebrand925 7 лет назад +33

      Harold Smith I think she is more than pretty, and I enjoy this song. Then again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. This is one of the very few songs that I do like of mainstream radio-play music. But we can all have opinions. I didn't find anything satanic about this, however. I don't understand where you're coming from with that.