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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
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  • @rachaeln5607
    @rachaeln5607 5 лет назад +864

    “My period is here, and it’s ruining my life”
    ...
    Give it a year.

    • @casper189
      @casper189 4 года назад +16

      Rachael’s Books 😂 her pregnancy sucked too

    • @_amalia_35
      @_amalia_35 4 года назад

      detective urmom then you can get the fuck off youtube ☺️

    • @ruthieloperfido9058
      @ruthieloperfido9058 4 года назад +5

      MeowMeow Kitty i mean she was very open about how miserable her pregnancy was

    • @AinsleeDawn
      @AinsleeDawn 3 года назад +1

      And now... 😂

  • @morganbishop7146
    @morganbishop7146 3 года назад +491

    this came up as a suggestion 3 years later, colleen is pregnant with twins!!

  • @marinas9361
    @marinas9361 4 года назад +727

    Here during quarantine

  • @loisknapp8034
    @loisknapp8034 7 лет назад +2670

    2:45 is the time it starts... you're welcome.

  • @masart3441
    @masart3441 6 лет назад +457

    1 year later there she is engaged and pregnant with the child of the love of her life. Oh wow

  • @noastyles9217
    @noastyles9217 3 года назад +469

    POV: You are here almost 4 years later she has Flynn and is expecting TWINS

    • @natalieelizabeth9052
      @natalieelizabeth9052 3 года назад +3

      And with the most amazing guy! Watching this now makes me so happy, little did she know that a couple years later she would have/be expecting the most beautiful family ❤️

    • @noastyles9217
      @noastyles9217 3 года назад

      @רוני פורת ameesrael chai!
      kr! btw i love your name!
      !

    • @noastyles9217
      @noastyles9217 3 года назад

      @רוני פורת yeh

    • @noastyles9217
      @noastyles9217 3 года назад

      @רוני פורת :) hope you are doing well!

    • @noastyles9217
      @noastyles9217 3 года назад

      @רוני פורת im on summer break

  • @iwantallthedogs3291
    @iwantallthedogs3291 7 лет назад +303

    Just because someone is, in any way, in the public eye, doesn't mean they shouldn't be able to say, "It's none of your business."
    There is nothing wrong with anyone sharing, or not sharing, any part of their life they choose.
    I'm lowkey nosy af, but I respect boundaries. We should wait for people to share private parts of their lives when they are ready. Not before.

  • @hanan54
    @hanan54 7 лет назад +1622

    What you clicked for is at 2:44

  • @LijGilmourHello
    @LijGilmourHello 7 лет назад +1676

    People need to realise there is more to your life beyond the camera, much love ♥️

    • @VlogGrrr
      @VlogGrrr 7 лет назад +7

      Lij Gilmour
      So true! 💕

    • @SarahSeager16
      @SarahSeager16 7 лет назад

      Lij Gilmour ❤️

    • @ctrlh5419
      @ctrlh5419 7 лет назад +5

      no shit

    • @clwnflsh
      @clwnflsh 7 лет назад

      Lij Gilmour realize*

    • @tubester4567
      @tubester4567 7 лет назад +6

      @ Jesus Christ, Realise is the correct English spelling outside the US.

  • @JB-pq7yk
    @JB-pq7yk 5 лет назад +69

    Seriously. Leave it to Colleen to get hurt and then be THANKFUL that it wasn't one of the kids. She's amazing, really.

  • @priyamanobal
    @priyamanobal 7 лет назад +562

    Why are people mad at her for not talking about her personal situations? I dont get it and it makes me mad. It's none of our business what shes feeling, people handle things differently like she said, just because someone else opens up about something hard in their lives on the internet and another person doesn't, doesn't mean they're not sad or that they dont care. It's her desicion not to talk about certain things in her life and the fact that people are being mean to her for not wanting to speak out about certain things makes me livid because 1. it's not helping the situation 2. it's not making her feel better and 3. I love her and the fact that anyone would be mean to her or mad at her for such a small reason makes me upset.

    • @marilynl335
      @marilynl335 7 лет назад +19

      S'nya H Because they view her as a product whose sole role in life is to entertain them and live up to the expectations they put upon her. In other words, she doesn't just get to be a human person.

    • @ninjaskittles4996
      @ninjaskittles4996 7 лет назад +1

      Marilyn L wrong ....

    • @flutterby8462
      @flutterby8462 7 лет назад +9

      Marilyn L no I think it's the fact that vloggers and you tubers share their lives on the internet and so people watch them go through their lives and invest their time and interests in what they do and how they live. It's true nobody should feel that they have to share everything online with people but at the same time what do they expect when they share everything else? If they're happy to show off their relationship and put out their wedding videos etc of course people are going to be interested in why they've split up. That's only natural.

    • @rachelbelanger2708
      @rachelbelanger2708 7 лет назад +10

      Flutterby 84 Of course people can show interest (even if it's not polite) but that doesn't mean they have a RIGHT to know which I think is what most people are getting at. Colleen should dictate what gets shown on her channel, and if she wants it to be happy content then good for her.

    • @Sarlat7
      @Sarlat7 7 лет назад +6

      It's not actually natural, you're projecting. I and many others find vlogging culture to present many ethical issues, including the ones being discussed, which is why I rarely ever watch them. I do enjoy Colleen's Vancouver vlogs, but that's because I live here and am interested in her LA perspective (aka I'm biased lol). But yeah, it's like she said, the West is a highly commercialized culture, even leading to us dehumanizing people for entertainment (among other things...). Luckily, we don't all see it that way and personally, I resent it.

  • @jacregina
    @jacregina 7 лет назад +828

    i really respect how you dealt with the situation by only showing positivity. just because colleen didn't show her pain online after everything happened doesn't mean she's not hurting off the camera.

    • @Hailey-nv5ze
      @Hailey-nv5ze 7 лет назад +12

      Jaclyn Regina hurting and being clinically depressed.... BIG DIFFERENCE

    • @HarryKrinkle
      @HarryKrinkle 7 лет назад +12

      +Hailey Nobody disputed that. I don't know what that comparison has to do with anything, it seems neither here nor there.

    • @sgtmian
      @sgtmian 7 лет назад +19

      Hailey what does that even mean? because she's not clinically depressed, her feelings aren't valid?

    • @pinkcokesugarbear4633
      @pinkcokesugarbear4633 7 лет назад +1

      Hailey I'm glad you know what's going on. Lol

    • @rileyallen152
      @rileyallen152 7 лет назад +10

      He also said he wasn't clinically depressed because he didn't get an official diagnosis so he doesn't actually know. But that's besides the point. We don't know what she deals with off camera.

  • @cristinaquijada4394
    @cristinaquijada4394 7 лет назад +1536

    Part of being an adult is realizing what is and what isn't appropriate to talk about publicly. The older you get, the more you realize that your incredibly personal life doesn't have to be shared so publicly. It's called privacy and respect. Younger people don't understand this because they have yet to experience a marriage or children or a real private life and what comes along with having that constantly exposed especially when they don't want to. I can see it in your face Colleen when you are struggling thru something. It's something very familiar to me and I understand not wanting to share that part of you. Just know that you have a bit of an older crowd behind you that knows what you mean. Take care of you and the rest will fall into place. 💜

    • @carolinea3906
      @carolinea3906 7 лет назад +45

      Cristina Quijada yes! I wish people would realize that while her job is (partly) to film her life, it's still her JOB. There are things I don't talk about at work because I isn't appropriate or it isn't anyone's business or I just plain don't want to. Colleen is certainly entitled to keep personal separate from professional, just like every other adult on the planet.

    • @emilybrown3132
      @emilybrown3132 7 лет назад +4

      Cristina Quijada 💜💜💜

    • @charlottethekitten8513
      @charlottethekitten8513 7 лет назад +15

      Cristina Quijada yes! I'm not apart of the older crowd because I am still a kid but I still agree with you. Kids need to understand that some things are personal and they don't need to know everything about her. Before asking things so personal, they should think if they would want to share something like that about themselves. Come on and just give Colleen some space. She shows us so much love and respect we need to show her at least an equal amount but probably more

    • @pinkcokesugarbear4633
      @pinkcokesugarbear4633 7 лет назад +1

      Cristina Quijada it's ok to talk about it with class no one has been unclassy

    • @Hailey-nv5ze
      @Hailey-nv5ze 7 лет назад +11

      Cristina Quijada And it's also ok for adults to share their feelings as they cope 🙄🙄

  • @Krexv
    @Krexv 7 лет назад +57

    To the people in the comments: Don't make Colleen talk about her personal issues on the camera if she doesn't want to simply because you think it would be good gossip or interesting. Maybe you all try to justify it by saying that she's not being honest with us, but you all need to remember that you are not entitled to know her personal issues. For all she knows, we could be crazy stalkers or serial killers. She's a real person too. Never forget that.

  • @UGAgradRN
    @UGAgradRN 7 лет назад +873

    I think this will make him feel better. Sometimes you just want to know that you're not out of your mind and that you're not the only one who is being affected so strongly by a situation. Even when you're an adult. It's not immature.

    • @fi0rella
      @fi0rella 7 лет назад +86

      ugagradrn It's extremely immature when he's begging for her attention on camera, when he knows most of his viewers are Colleen's and maaaany of them are too young to understand anything about serious relationship break-ups. If he needs to talk to her, he should do it off camera, like most people would. It forces her to make this video to get people off her back cause she's not crying on camera same as he is. It's not fair to Colleen. He's a cool guy, but he needs to grow up! Or get help off camera. I know he's seeing a therapist now, so props to him. Read this comments on this video! These guys have no idea what a grown up relationship is! They feel they're watching a movie or a TV series. It's his fault for over-sharing.

    • @Goblinfire
      @Goblinfire 7 лет назад +71

      True. He is a grown man, and as a grown man, with his own career and life, he has the right to make his own choices. Personally, Ive seen a lot of people doing just with, click baiting, using the drama, throwing peoples names around, etc. I do think that is immature. I think it's the heart behind it. As far as I've seen, he's rarely, if at all, used her name. They've both been very separated from each other, and he's now talking HIS life, and his feelings. It's definitely different because it is this public platform, that yes, she can see if she chooses to, and all the fans on either side can attack the other side and complicate it, but he isn't aggressively calling anybody out. I now view them as two separate people, and they both are just living and communicating their separate lives. Though a part of that may be related to the other, I still don't think that's wrong. That's kind of how it is, due to the fact that they both were obviously huge parts of each others lives. We don't have the right to say how they should and shouldn't live their lives.

    • @ada3360
      @ada3360 7 лет назад +2

      ugagradrn but obviously he wont watch this...

    • @bryanclark1246
      @bryanclark1246 7 лет назад +2

      ugagradrn fuck him

  • @ruthlynam7380
    @ruthlynam7380 7 лет назад +2020

    Expected this video after Josh's new videos..

  • @kindajess3280
    @kindajess3280 7 лет назад +1311

    GIRL, IT FELL ON YOUR HEAD?? WHAT ARE YOU DOING GET THAT MONEY 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @VlogGrrr
      @VlogGrrr 7 лет назад +4

      Kinda Jess
      😂😂💕

    • @Alexis-ec9cl
      @Alexis-ec9cl 7 лет назад +7

      Kinda Jess me af

    • @workingonmetime6801
      @workingonmetime6801 7 лет назад +3

      Kinda Jess hahahaha 😆😆😆😆

    • @TomYafai
      @TomYafai 7 лет назад +5

      make sure u get well soon colleen, maybe my videos on my channel make u
      happy, make sure to check it out ! greetings from manchester

    • @kindajess3280
      @kindajess3280 7 лет назад +47

      Memit Averland LOOKS LIKE SOMEBODY TRIED TO GET THAT MONEY BUT FAILED. TRY AGAIN HONEY

  • @deadpimpz
    @deadpimpz 7 лет назад +2000

    Moment of silence for Colleen's brows....

    • @jessican6451
      @jessican6451 7 лет назад +20

      steven Claessen oh

    • @solt635
      @solt635 7 лет назад +11

      steven Claessen damn no need to get horny

    • @sofiac600
      @sofiac600 7 лет назад +9

      steven Claessen even though what JChristian said was not the nicest thing that doesn't give you the right to be mean to him. As my father always says "two wrongs don't make a right

    • @deadpimpz
      @deadpimpz 7 лет назад

      Okay then.

    • @PeriodPrincess
      @PeriodPrincess 7 лет назад +28

      Those are her eyebrows every day lmao. The only reason it looks odd is because she doesn't have any eyeshadow, lashes, lipstick, or anything. Soooooooo don't even lmao

  • @josll5169
    @josll5169 7 лет назад +335

    People need to realize that everyone deals with bad things in life differently. I know that when I am upset, I talk about it because it helps *ME* I also know that when some of my friends go through things, for them they don't like talking about it because it helps *them*. Colleen doesn't have to tell us everything that's going on in her life because it's ***_her life_* she chooses what she wants to share and what she doesn't. this doesn't mean she isn't hurting and it also doesn't mean she is throwing shade. let people deal with their pain in their own way whether it is talking about it in vlogs or just staying silent. let her life her life they way she deems fit. I love you so much Colleen and I support you 100% ❤

  • @EarlsFamilyVlogs
    @EarlsFamilyVlogs 7 лет назад +159

    I can imagine how exhausting it can be to be away from your family and main support system. Hoping this editing time flies by but it the best way full of great memories and happy days!

  • @hollye3133
    @hollye3133 7 лет назад +199

    Colleen, thank you for this. It is so easy to separate another one's self with the feelings we assume the are or are not going through, but it was so refreshing to hear first hand from you how you are approaching things. It gives me more respect for you, as I can imagine it is not always easy talking about deeply personal things online. I think that by being comfortably open with your viewers gives us more of a sense of connection to you, so thank you!

    • @Hailey-nv5ze
      @Hailey-nv5ze 7 лет назад +6

      Holly E 😂😂😂😂 Its the same thing she said when it first happened.

    • @hollye3133
      @hollye3133 7 лет назад +9

      Keeping in mind that was 9 months ago. A lot has presumably happened over that time, along with a whole new wave of emotions as well as dealing with life moving on etc... which is why I'm not comparing then to now.

  • @rileyhogan1253
    @rileyhogan1253 7 лет назад +1605

    is it only me or was I the only one looking at Colleen's brows?

    • @Samantha-oj8zm
      @Samantha-oj8zm 7 лет назад +87

      RILEY Hogan I was too. The color is too harsh. She needs to have a light hand when doing them. It's too dark for her

    • @lexiemarshall8566
      @lexiemarshall8566 7 лет назад +1

      RILEY Hogan same here it's different?

    • @mariwomp
      @mariwomp 7 лет назад +27

      RILEY Hogan WHY CANT YOU PEOPLE RESPECT HOW SHE LOOKS

    • @rileyhogan1253
      @rileyhogan1253 7 лет назад +9

      Marisol Gonzalez I love Colleen for who she is I just think they look different

    • @macyg3467
      @macyg3467 7 лет назад +4

      Marisol Gonzalez at least you have some respect😊

  • @cassandrac4592
    @cassandrac4592 7 лет назад +180

    Colleen, I 100% agree with you.
    People need to understand that one does not (really it's should not) need to share every single detail, moment, etc. in their life. Especially online. Keep staying positive and surrounding yourself with bubbles of happiness xx

  • @_16mai29
    @_16mai29 7 лет назад +756

    Why don't you guys talk to each other? That's the best way to eliminate the internet bothering you guys. The only reason you've both turned to your vlog cameras is because there are somethings that have been left unsaid... so the best solution is to talk about it face to face. Regardless of how hard it might be. It'll give both of you a good closure.

    • @km-pu7sl
      @km-pu7sl 7 лет назад +24

      Macy Rok They probably do talk to each other

    • @azroniyo7402
      @azroniyo7402 7 лет назад +52

      he made few videos mentioning the whole thing and people r probably tweeting her about it, hence the response. i dont know what's the big deal. she just said that everyone copes with shit differently and she copes with it by not talking about it. he's different. and that's ok. that's literally all she said here.

    • @johnnyk.2952
      @johnnyk.2952 7 лет назад +20

      Yeah it's pretty ridiculous that she refuses to speak to him.

    • @saturnskies3897
      @saturnskies3897 7 лет назад +54

      Really no ones business. If she wants to talk to him she will talk to him.

    • @Cloudykaia
      @Cloudykaia 7 лет назад +29

      its her life. if she chooses not to talk about him or to him thats her choice. its not anyones place to tell her how to deal with HER life.

  • @Flameysaur
    @Flameysaur 7 лет назад +1427

    damn her eyebrows...........

  • @scottjohnson789
    @scottjohnson789 7 лет назад +506

    the fact that ypu have to make a video to say that you are dealing with your personal issues personally is sad. we support you!

    • @friangle
      @friangle 7 лет назад +64

      Scott Johnson tell that to the 12 year olds that keep pressuring both of them...

  • @beyond-6372
    @beyond-6372 7 лет назад +1728

    They're basically subtweeting each other but through videos lol. It sucks so bad that they both have to suffer through this. We can only hope and send positive happy light their way 💓

    • @janelles9312
      @janelles9312 7 лет назад +73

      Beyond- I think the only reason Colleen talked about it is because Josh's videos are getting a little out of hand. Like, not everything has to be out there for people to know

    • @spideywidey100da
      @spideywidey100da 7 лет назад +52

      That is his decision tho if talking about it helps him just like not talking about it works for her then both are okay they are both being respectful towards eachother in the process so i see nothing wrong with either approach. Like she said everyone is different and deals with things differently and on their own journey

    • @WhiteRaven696
      @WhiteRaven696 7 лет назад +45

      It's not subtweeting. Subtweeting is throwing jabs at each other. Both of them are walking on eggshells to not mention each other because they don't want to hurt each other. This is literally the exact opposite of subtweeting.

    • @pinkcokesugarbear4633
      @pinkcokesugarbear4633 7 лет назад +24

      Beyond- I just don't but it... she's trying to protect her image he's trying to not commit suicide big difference

    • @TheAmandafox
      @TheAmandafox 7 лет назад +33

      PinkCoke Sugarbear You could not have misunderstood her more. She is not trying to protect her image, she's trying to protect him. Also, she clearly said that she's hurting too. She just chooses not to speak about it publicly. She clearly stated that choosing to not speak about her private pain, doesn't mean it doesn't exist, only that she doesn't want to speak publicly about it and risk hurting the people that she loves, including him.

  • @cupcakeadventures8770
    @cupcakeadventures8770 3 года назад +16

    Who else is wondering if she still has her wedding videos up from her first marriage and will she tell Flynn and the twins that she is married before Erik?

  • @2010kalex
    @2010kalex 5 лет назад +315

    "My period is here and it's ruining my life"
    *story of my life* 🤣😂

    • @peepoo6623
      @peepoo6623 5 лет назад

      Kai Alexandria I’m 9 and didn’t get it tet

    • @peepoo6623
      @peepoo6623 5 лет назад

      Yet*

    • @Incegnito_27
      @Incegnito_27 4 года назад +6

      @@peepoo6623 Well when you get it make sure to watch some videos about how to put on a pad , put in a tampon ,or ask you guardian , friend , etc. Have some bendyral just in case you can't go home or something. Eat healthier , drink more water , exercise, more than P.E. Also you can drink plain cranberry juice with some lemon or lemonade. Just some suggestions from someone has experienced this .

  • @lillianaallen7994
    @lillianaallen7994 3 года назад +24

    now she is pregnant with twins and is soooo happy!!! we love you colleen!!

  • @jordashian99
    @jordashian99 7 лет назад +31

    I've been going through a lot of depression and anxiety related things for the last three years of my life. Therapy has changed my life. Went to several different people until I found the right fit. Life gets easier, but it always lingers. Haven't cut in over 8 months! Proud of myself for that, but it just proves that people can overcome sadness. Colleen, you are a strong, beautiful individual and a lot of people believe in you! You just gotta believe in yourself and believe that others in your life can get through hardships as well.

    • @friangle
      @friangle 7 лет назад +3

      Jordan Ruhnke congratulations for not cutting for 8 months! That's awesome

    • @therusticbelle4802
      @therusticbelle4802 7 лет назад +4

      I just wanted to say I may not know you, but I'm thinking of you today.

    • @sharm1015
      @sharm1015 7 лет назад +1

      meeeeè toooo

    • @jordashian99
      @jordashian99 7 лет назад

      friangle thank you so much. ❤️

    • @jordashian99
      @jordashian99 7 лет назад

      TheRusticBelle thank you. ❤️ Each day gets easier. I just need to remember I'm worth it.

  • @AllysonGailBricks
    @AllysonGailBricks 7 лет назад +98

    i started going to therapy because you and the gabbi show normalized it :) been going for 7 months now.

    • @JadaytheVOC
      @JadaytheVOC 7 лет назад +8

      Oreo Emesis it may be fine to most people but some people can get bullied for it. I know that when I spoke to a school or college councillor people found out and I got ridiculed for it and stopped going.
      It just depends on the people and the situation.

  • @hotpinkscrubs
    @hotpinkscrubs 7 лет назад +301

    I personally like that you aren't putting out passive aggressive videos. We know you're hurting and have been hurting. But that is your business and I respect that! I've been watching your vids for years, and I love to laugh with you and support you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-py2fx5wp1o
    @user-py2fx5wp1o Год назад +36

    So funny to know that behind the scenes she *_WAS_* talking about it to her underage fans💁

  • @CheekyThrill
    @CheekyThrill 7 лет назад +24

    "Being mean and unkind doesn't help anyone, so, just don't do it." Love this, and I couldn't agree more.

  • @ItsVivNicole
    @ItsVivNicole 7 лет назад +1256

    Queen!!!!!!! *LIKE IF YOU'RE EXCITED ABOUT SEASON 2!*

    • @gracehack8709
      @gracehack8709 7 лет назад +2

      Vivian Nicole Sotello I'm soooo excited!!!

    • @MoonlightLunatic
      @MoonlightLunatic 7 лет назад +13

      I'M SO EXCITED!! But the sad part is the release is on October 14! It's so long time!

    • @georgiabrown8994
      @georgiabrown8994 7 лет назад +3

      Ariana Grande Dubsteps thank you so much i didn't know when it was coming out

    • @paigeelizabeth7924
      @paigeelizabeth7924 7 лет назад +3

      Ariana Grande Dubsteps 125 days! 😭

    • @MoonlightLunatic
      @MoonlightLunatic 7 лет назад +1

      Your Soooooo Welcome Georigia :D

  • @hoperobinson2760
    @hoperobinson2760 7 лет назад +313

    Love you Collen. I can see you hurt. I completely respect your choice to keep your pain more private, and I just hope and pray when you're ready you find the love you deserve.

    • @amw7303
      @amw7303 6 лет назад

      Hope Robinson I agree

    • @GhANeC
      @GhANeC 6 лет назад +3

      ?? I thought it was pretty clear that she's not exactly the one who's that hurt. But other people recently in her life ARE. Whether or not because of something she did. And she's trying to respect them.

    • @BirdsofSt4rs
      @BirdsofSt4rs 6 лет назад

      colleen* ?

    • @isabella-dl3sb
      @isabella-dl3sb 5 лет назад

      Hope Robinson E R I K *dances awkwardly but happily*

    • @ireneandherguitar
      @ireneandherguitar 5 лет назад

      your prayers worked! When you're with someone for so many years, it's so hard to switch off. And sometimes this forces you to live in a relationship that does not fully satisfy you. You see in the other half a comfort zone, which does not allow you to explore other parts of yourself. She left him, now they are both happy and are experiencing new feelings, new adventures.

  • @coopertrooper1117
    @coopertrooper1117 7 лет назад +705

    Eyebrows. Eyebrows.

    • @JustThatLauren
      @JustThatLauren 7 лет назад +36

      Maddison Mary Yeah because that's what's important. 😒

    • @juliesalerno8944
      @juliesalerno8944 7 лет назад +7

      Maddison Mary is that the point of the vid. oh yea didn't think so!

    • @NGT4LIFE
      @NGT4LIFE 7 лет назад +17

      i was thinking the same thing to be honest.

    • @bel2799
      @bel2799 7 лет назад +9

      She wears HER make up SHE WANTS

    • @chopstickvic6119
      @chopstickvic6119 7 лет назад +2

      What are you trying to achieve by commenting this

  • @kayladees461
    @kayladees461 7 лет назад +446

    I'm about to get chewed up and spit out for this.
    honestly I do not agree, I feel like he has his own channel, followers, and people as she has hers. I feel like what he wants to say on his channel is his choice, just like what she wants to say is her choice. I feel like he uses his channel for emotional support, she uses hers for positive content and funny comical things . so they have different reasons and motives for posting videos. I don't feel he was being vindictive in any way. everyone heals different. I feel like he needs more suport , where as she looks at the positive side and its enough for her to speak with friends and family. he is just looking for someone to tell him he is allowed to feel.

    • @twilit
      @twilit 7 лет назад +79

      she actually says that everybody deals with pain differently. what do you not agree with

    • @finneganion
      @finneganion 7 лет назад +44

      you literally reiterated her own video back.

    • @Ela11432
      @Ela11432 7 лет назад +17

      I think you're pretty much agreeing with everything she said.

    • @kileyannferguson6232
      @kileyannferguson6232 6 лет назад +3

      Kayla Dees Yes, she can, but it might hurt him, and she cares about him

    • @Hoosje11
      @Hoosje11 6 лет назад +6

      Slandering someone is not OK.

  • @adamdavis8434
    @adamdavis8434 7 лет назад +536

    Why can't she say Josh's name?

    • @deboraalfacee
      @deboraalfacee 7 лет назад +51

      Adam Davis well I guess she can she just doesn't want to lol why say it if you know she's talking about him?

    • @lilyp7326
      @lilyp7326 7 лет назад +209

      Have you ever tried openly talking about someone who you went through something like that with and say their name? It's hard

    • @halfsucked-mang0
      @halfsucked-mang0 7 лет назад +159

      he hardly says her name either

    • @kridjiti
      @kridjiti 7 лет назад +80

      It is also something that she doesn't want to draw attention to. Both of them realise it's more mature to not mention exactly what it is because of new viewers who might not know or people who don't really care.

    • @ctrlh5419
      @ctrlh5419 7 лет назад +62

      legal issue

  • @kazziebot8008
    @kazziebot8008 7 лет назад +82

    You have every right to decide what you do and don't want to share about your life. And it's not because you are having a good time in a video that you may not be going through a difficult situation in your personal life. How you choose to deal with it is what is right for you.
    Also, if people are mad that you are having a good time, screw 'em.

  • @Taedybear
    @Taedybear 7 лет назад +164

    What happend to her eyebrows...

  • @iamkatielouise
    @iamkatielouise 7 лет назад +7

    I really appreciate it. I admit I've been curious about your feelings and the explanations on your life (although I don't ever write hateful comments) but now that I've seen this, it makes a lot of sense why you aren't talking about it. And I can let go of that curiosity knowing your intentions. That is truly brave kind and mature of you!

  • @EmmaDevlin2
    @EmmaDevlin2 7 лет назад +482

    ummm u dont have to share personal shit with the world. u dont owe anyone anything so personal and vulnerable. if you were to randomly change content or stop uploading then yeah fill us in but personal shit is not our business its not your obligation to tell us ❤❤❤❤

    • @samina1580
      @samina1580 7 лет назад

      eggplant iguana why are u being rude

    • @danotheparsnip
      @danotheparsnip 7 лет назад +11

      Ghostube Ghostliy They're not being rude...

    • @___idkmynamedoyouknowit___3806
      @___idkmynamedoyouknowit___3806 7 лет назад

      eggplant iguana STFU OR GTFO

    • @sobzileon5251
      @sobzileon5251 7 лет назад +10

      Sarah Meneus they weren't being rude... why would they need to shut the fuck up or get the fuck out ?

    • @erinxxx7764
      @erinxxx7764 7 лет назад

      Pippa is too Good for this world THAT PICTURE OF LIN IS SO GOOD

  • @Mahmadein
    @Mahmadein 7 лет назад +32

    I just feel so horrible that Colleen felt obligated to post this. This is coming after Joshua's video and it's just sad that Colleen has to post a video to explain herself. We support you Colleen!

  • @EverlyBeverly19
    @EverlyBeverly19 7 лет назад +167

    Haven't even seen it yet but just know we are all here for you no matter what ❤️

  • @variaeyf
    @variaeyf 7 лет назад +624

    It looks like a response to Josh's video, I just feel like it was adressed directly to him

    • @KrisD007
      @KrisD007 7 лет назад +4

      WhiteMeve and?

    • @variaeyf
      @variaeyf 7 лет назад +34

      and that's my thoughts which I wanted to share with the world

    • @user-bb8lj4wh2j
      @user-bb8lj4wh2j 7 лет назад +74

      And I think that's a good thing. I personally feel that he shits all over Colleen in his vlogs making it seem that she has no feelings and she did all the wrong. I really want to watch them both but until he also can start moving on with his content it's pretty hard.

    • @treebles
      @treebles 7 лет назад +18

      WhiteMeve ~ it wasnt for him. but since he is sharing his pain, that stirs the haters that talk smack + throw shade online.
      haters back off! 💜💄💋👸🏻💋💄💜

    • @user-bb8lj4wh2j
      @user-bb8lj4wh2j 7 лет назад +23

      Flutterby 84 I personally don't think it could come as a surprise and also that he was not with fault. I understand that he can't get over it and I don't think Colleen is over it either but he always keeps it in his video and it gives me a bad taste in my mouth knowing he make his money on sorrow and throwing shade. I honestly like them both but I think I need to let him deal before watching. I wish them both the best.

  • @caitlove2046
    @caitlove2046 3 года назад +11

    you can just tell by looking at her now that she is so much happier and thriving with her beautiful growing family

  • @rebeccapage8679
    @rebeccapage8679 4 года назад +12

    This video showed up on my recommended and I’m commenting to show you some appreciation. So proud of you for how far you’ve gone through life after such a devastating time. Love you Colleen 💜

  • @hollyerinn
    @hollyerinn 7 лет назад +13

    i'm so happy to hear when famous youtubers have healthy boundaries with their media outlets. it's a damn good thing and a lot of people don't realize that. good on you, colleen!

  • @ansleynelson5816
    @ansleynelson5816 7 лет назад +60

    I totally respect what your saying about what to say and what not to say on the internet. I love you❤️

    • @eva_vert8942
      @eva_vert8942 7 лет назад +4

      Yes respect. It's all about respect. People have their opinions about her private life, but it's none of their business. Just respect that she doesn't want to show it to us, her decision.

  • @mary-je7lf
    @mary-je7lf 7 лет назад +525

    Starts at 2:44 !!

  • @manuelaguiar4675
    @manuelaguiar4675 7 лет назад +202

    I understand your position, you are doing the right thing. whoever is angry at you is just being disrespectful and stupid so don't worry bout it.

    • @TheNopeness
      @TheNopeness 7 лет назад +13

      She was disrespectful by accepting a marriage proposal and saying "I do" when she didn't mean it.

    • @aminah9634
      @aminah9634 7 лет назад +40

      The Nopeness A lot of people say "I do," and mean it, but things don't always work out. You don't know what happened, so judging he based on how her personal life is totally bogus. She meant it. She wouldn't have stayed with him for like 6 years, and then have said "I do," and not meant it.

    • @Psyteth
      @Psyteth 7 лет назад +16

      The Nopeness what are you, 12?

    • @myzelleutube
      @myzelleutube 7 лет назад +1

      Aminah Ali 8 years all together I believe.

    • @aminah9634
      @aminah9634 7 лет назад +4

      Athena Myzelle I think it was 7 years; I said 6 years, because they dated for about 6 years, I think.

  • @1HalfbloodPrince
    @1HalfbloodPrince 7 лет назад +11

    I dont get why people feel like Colleen needs to discuss it. "Well she puts her life on the internet", "Thats what happens when you vlog your life" blah blah blah. So what? You can want to know all her personal drama all you want, but she DOES NOT owe any viewers any explanation. If he wants to discuss his feelings thats great. Thats how he wants to deal. If she would rather keep it personal thats fine too. You dont get to decide or judge how someone deals with a tragic situation. No vlogger or youtuber, or any person for that matter, HAS to tell you everything personal going on in their life.

    • @delfinaquintero9353
      @delfinaquintero9353 6 лет назад

      Absolutely you don’t have to tell anyone anything that you don’t want to talk about is difficult to trust people anyways later people will use the information to hurt you more or criticize you or talk behind your back

  • @kiyabourdeau
    @kiyabourdeau 4 года назад +30

    I’m watching this during quarantine lol but Colleen is the most honest yet respectful and supportive person and quite frankly the most real person on RUclips and I really love her and she’s helped me through some tough times as well

  • @emmamanalo9028
    @emmamanalo9028 7 лет назад +711

    Every 5th like dies...
    LET THE GAME BEGIN!

  • @sweezie3672
    @sweezie3672 7 лет назад +15

    This is why I love Colleen. She's so honest but respectful at the same time.

  • @Mara-vj6ve
    @Mara-vj6ve 7 лет назад +31

    Last time I was this early people could actually think of something witty to comment

    • @jaysmith3623
      @jaysmith3623 7 лет назад +1

      Mara I'm going to assume that was back when people found you attractive.
      #imsatisfiedwithmyself,okay?

    • @tatertotstudios5040
      @tatertotstudios5040 7 лет назад +6

      Dog Lover YO! Colleen's channel is supposed to be a place of comfort and positivity. I suggest you leave if you don't have anything nice to say.

  • @danikad6459
    @danikad6459 5 лет назад +3

    Why is everybody talking about her eyebrows she is beautiful. God made everyone unique in there own way. If you can't say something nice don't say it at all

  • @marygrace7200
    @marygrace7200 7 лет назад +8

    "Stay kind and, pffff cat hair" 6:30. My new catchphrase😂

  • @elijahf
    @elijahf 7 лет назад +8

    Really appreciate you doing you. Dealing with pain in whatever way is best for you is what you gotta do. serious props for being respectful and kind throughout a lot of bs. That takes guts.

  • @JodiBeans411
    @JodiBeans411 7 лет назад +59

    Colleen, we know you are hurting. How you are processing through this journey is entirely up you, and only you know what's best. I think you have handled things with grace and respect. I wish only the best for you both.

    • @JodiBeans411
      @JodiBeans411 7 лет назад

      "entirely up to you" sorry, typo.

  • @mzfeliciab7
    @mzfeliciab7 7 лет назад +6

    I admire the fact you keep your personal life personal while still sharing so much. I think a lot of the viewers are young and don't get that respect factor for keeping certain things private. Keeping busy and trying to stay positive is how I cope as well so I understand where you're coming from. Keep doing you and forget what anyone else thinks. It's your life, not theirs 😊

  • @toni-th1ut
    @toni-th1ut 7 лет назад +16

    when im in pain i talk to God.He's always there for me no matter what and i know i can trust him.

  • @house_of_mouse__
    @house_of_mouse__ 7 лет назад +11

    "I know I'm doing the right thing. Bye."
    I love it. Colleen you're the best.

  • @hanna2612
    @hanna2612 7 лет назад +35

    Hey Colleen (I know you probably won't see this but why not) about the mirror situation be carful for a concussion because it really sucks to have one!! (I probably don't need to say this cause you are very smart and would know this but yeah). Be carful girl and try not to get hurt again!!! Ilysm!!!

    • @lucyhays1664
      @lucyhays1664 7 лет назад +4

      Hanna McConnell *careful

    • @hanna2612
      @hanna2612 7 лет назад +1

      lucy hays thanks! Auto correct (was typing with French keyboard!)

  • @myzelleutube
    @myzelleutube 7 лет назад +12

    I said the same thing recently in another video comment section that not everyone copes in the same way and we don't all wear our hearts and emotions on our sleeve. It is nice that you addressed it, but it is definitely your life to live and you have a lot going on. We love you and wish you the best XOXO

  • @amyajohnson5634
    @amyajohnson5634 7 лет назад +500

    I love you girl but you need to do something with your eyebrows

    • @user-um5qc2bb7j
      @user-um5qc2bb7j 7 лет назад +10

      Amya Johnson I ❤️ sperm

    • @AllZombieGuru
      @AllZombieGuru 7 лет назад +9

      oh myy goshh i was like.... what hahahahaa. she need that brow kit dohhhh

    • @Crazyconfedy
      @Crazyconfedy 7 лет назад +8

      Amya Johnson yikes I think she did do her eyebrows... she just did a bad job..I think lol

    • @samsosa7234
      @samsosa7234 7 лет назад +9

      Thank you for saying this so nicely cause if I were her I'd want someone to tell me if my brows needed help lol

    • @lilyjameson5156
      @lilyjameson5156 7 лет назад +5

      They look like they're pasted on. Unfortunately, they're not. Lol.

  • @theziggy6974
    @theziggy6974 7 лет назад +4

    The sad thing about it is when YOU DO talk about things that make you sad or depressed ot get emotional peeps rip into you about that too. You can't win. SMH. Love ya Colleen, stay strong and keep trucking!

  • @Shadowthehedgehog623
    @Shadowthehedgehog623 6 лет назад +1

    I've seen a lot of comments saying that she got over it quickly but honestly I think it only seems that way because when she makes videos, she is happy and she's not thinking about it. We don't know how she is when the cameras are off or when she's in therapy

  • @chanelp7557
    @chanelp7557 7 лет назад +377

    just wanna put your eyebrows closer together...

    • @StinkyDustyBird
      @StinkyDustyBird 7 лет назад +36

      Chanel P I want to wipe half the thickness off

    • @StinkyDustyBird
      @StinkyDustyBird 7 лет назад +25

      Hmmmm no, that won't work....she needs brow help though, lighter maybe, the thumbnail is hilarious

    • @Hanohanohano
      @Hanohanohano 7 лет назад +5

      Tammy she really does.

    • @TheBabsterSpeaks
      @TheBabsterSpeaks 7 лет назад +15

      or she could just have her eyebrows however she wants, since it's not your life, nor are they your eyebrows. if her eyebrows annoy you so much, don't watch her videos

    • @Hanohanohano
      @Hanohanohano 7 лет назад +9

      TheBabsterSpeaks or we can continue to voice our opinions. No one needs to stop watching anything.

  • @BarbieBando
    @BarbieBando 7 лет назад +8

    *"If You Truly Loved Yourself , You Could Never Hurt Another" - Buddha* I Admire You So Much For Staying True To Yourself And Being The Bigger Person 💖 And Can I Just Say How GORGEOUS Vancouver Is ?! 😍

  • @BethLaraTMB
    @BethLaraTMB 3 года назад +4

    this video has always stuck in my mind for some reason - especially the part sitting down infront of the wire fence. I literally see it in dreams - so weird

  • @sunpi
    @sunpi 6 лет назад +8

    It is best to keep it private and we respect that

  • @cristinaquijada4394
    @cristinaquijada4394 7 лет назад +7

    You have an amazing family back home, why wouldn't you miss them?!

  • @KayleeMccoyTheGeekQueen
    @KayleeMccoyTheGeekQueen 7 лет назад +4

    bless you colleen
    remember ignore the haters they just don't understand your pain
    I love you and I don't understand why people are hating on you for being human. everyone is like that and everyone is different so bless you so much colleen I want to hug you so bad

  • @kirby6966
    @kirby6966 7 лет назад +46

    ok, that was 9pm?! I need to go to Vancouver

    • @cleem1100
      @cleem1100 7 лет назад +6

      Kirby Reyes In winter it gets dark at like 4pm but when it starts getting to summer sunset is like 9 or 10

    • @kirby6966
      @kirby6966 7 лет назад +1

      yah, I think it's called equinox and solstice, not sure

    • @lulucanpy3513
      @lulucanpy3513 7 лет назад +9

      Kirby Reyes most places in Canada stay light out really late in the summer, since they're pretty far north, even the places really close to the border (like Vancouver). If you head far enough north you get 24 hours of sunlight.
      On the other hand, it gets dark super early in the winter 😂

    • @melissagregg5643
      @melissagregg5643 7 лет назад +7

      Come to Alaska. It doesn't get dark. 😂

  • @linzic1986
    @linzic1986 7 лет назад +79

    mature and respectful way to do it unlike the other side who is using this whole thing as clickbait and being very immature recently.

    • @sandpapertea2846
      @sandpapertea2846 4 года назад

      Linzi C wth is ur profile pic XD

    • @linzic1986
      @linzic1986 4 года назад +1

      @@sandpapertea2846 no idea I made this RUclips channel about 8 years ago I don't remember picking the picture 😂

    • @sandpapertea2846
      @sandpapertea2846 4 года назад

      Linzi C XD

  • @WhateverIsTrue01
    @WhateverIsTrue01 7 лет назад +338

    While I respect your position, I think it is important as well to show that life isn't perfect, it isn't all glitz and glamour. If that's what you show to us on screen, that's what people will assume... I think it's important to see that it's OKAY not to be okay, you know? 😁 😁 😁

    • @jadeolivia3061
      @jadeolivia3061 7 лет назад +8

      I think so, too.

    • @rachelbelanger2708
      @rachelbelanger2708 7 лет назад +13

      WhateverIsTrueASMR She's shown us so many times before when she's been upset about something. I have never once thought her life was perfect by watching these vlogs because I know we don't see everything. If people are getting the wrong idea about life and that it's a perfect fairy tale, maybe they shouldn't watch if it will affect them that much.

    • @VlogGrrr
      @VlogGrrr 7 лет назад +15

      WhateverIsTrueASMR
      Unfortunately, though, sometimes you have to keep pressing on and not wallow in your own crap. She has a Netflix show that she's working on and tours and shows that she's doing, and those are things she needs to focus on and not let the drama get in the way of. Yes, shit happens and life is not perfect, but if you just press on, you can still be happy and reach your goals and be successful. So how about don't try to bring her down with more drama and just encourage and support her. 💕

    • @WhitneyTheExPat
      @WhitneyTheExPat 7 лет назад +7

      I think the more people seem "perfect", the more likely they're actually not. Seems to me she's running from her feelings, perhaps. She's burying herself in work, surrounding herself with friends and distracting herself with fun. It's so easy for everything to look great but when all that goes away...

    • @laurae8895
      @laurae8895 7 лет назад +2

      Preach!

  • @sophiahampton5520
    @sophiahampton5520 7 лет назад +32

    LOVE YOU😘😘😘 (early squad where you at???)

  • @hayleatoledo8379
    @hayleatoledo8379 7 лет назад +56

    Did anybody else watch josh's video about her ?

    • @janelles9312
      @janelles9312 7 лет назад +5

      Beauty DIY yep, another one today if I'm correct

    • @AngwyJawni
      @AngwyJawni 7 лет назад +3

      what did he say?

    • @user-um5qc2bb7j
      @user-um5qc2bb7j 7 лет назад

      RheigaShio ^

    • @AngwyJawni
      @AngwyJawni 7 лет назад

      did he say that?

    • @namelessforeverr
      @namelessforeverr 7 лет назад

      RheigaShio IN THE VIDEO NO, BUT IN ONE COMMENT!!!! I THINK ITS IN THE VIDEO WHERE HES TALKING ABOUT DEPRESSION
      I have the ss

  • @melissaneher6903
    @melissaneher6903 7 лет назад +7

    I think some people need to realize that you are a grown adult, and that your life isn't a sitcom. You are able to choose what you talk about in your life on camera because it's YOUR life. Talking about difficult things/events in a public way might be cathartic for some (and is their choice), but it also breeds a one-sided perspective where others start to fill in the unsaid details because they feel like they have a right to know. I commend you for not only thinking about yourself, but also the other party involved. Just because your career involves entertaining the public and sharing your life doesn't mean that you should feel obligated to talk about something that isn't going to help you feel better/cope with the situation. And to the people that think otherwise, guilting or harassing someone for not speaking or showing that they are affected by an event that is upsetting and life-changing is immature. Keep doing you, girl!

  • @eva_vert8942
    @eva_vert8942 7 лет назад +2

    "Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always"
    - SKAM

  • @moviolaman
    @moviolaman 6 лет назад +1

    Into every life a little rain must fall. Time heals all wounds. Later on in life you'll look back and say to yourself I'm ok with it now.

  • @heyguys6178
    @heyguys6178 7 лет назад +51

    Can season 2 pls have a theme song sang by colleeennn!!! I love her voice💕💕💕💕💙😍

    • @zainabsadil
      @zainabsadil 7 лет назад +1

      yesssss

    • @qwan6568
      @qwan6568 7 лет назад

      hayden to ohhhhhhhh girl 50 likes I was fifty!!!!

  • @IvonRocks15
    @IvonRocks15 7 лет назад +39

    Gus' face actually cracks me up 😂😂😂😍❤️

  • @66views
    @66views 5 лет назад +114

    How's here in 2019
    Just me ok i knew that

  • @suzzette1980
    @suzzette1980 7 лет назад +1

    Coleen is not hurting because she never loved him enough. She loved the idea of having someone who loved her unconditionally, but she didnt love him ever. Maybe she tought she would love him with time, but it didnt happen. You all will see within time. People make mistakes.

  • @Barbiecakes808
    @Barbiecakes808 7 лет назад +1

    So glad you are OK.You should really get it checked out, specially since it hurt so bad you couldn't sleep . : (

  • @siszam
    @siszam 7 лет назад +258

    It looks like you draw your eyebrows on with a black sharpie

    • @alymosier8738
      @alymosier8738 7 лет назад +22

      Please leave. Negative comments don't help.

    • @victoriaf8571
      @victoriaf8571 7 лет назад +29

      Aly Mosier Doesn't mean they're not true 😂

    • @JustThatLauren
      @JustThatLauren 7 лет назад +10

      Victoria Fleuty they look fine. y'all are actual children and putting WAY too much importance on something miniscule.

    • @21phansyeeingatthediscowit66
      @21phansyeeingatthediscowit66 7 лет назад +6

      Victoria Fleuty they actually look fine to me why is that all people are talking about

    • @juliesalerno8944
      @juliesalerno8944 7 лет назад

      21 Potheads! at the disco ikr

  • @sorayac1306
    @sorayac1306 7 лет назад +29

    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE RUclips, make a setting that RUclipsrs can make videos only for their subscribers! So if you are not subscribed to the channel, you can't watch the videos. I have heard Colleen talk about wishing she made videos only for the people who support her. Everyone who agrees, please like so that Colleen will see this!

    • @AW-ej8ss
      @AW-ej8ss 7 лет назад +11

      If you cannot handle a little bit of criticism, being a RUclipsr is not for you. Why would Colleen do that anyways? She doesn't make RUclips videos for her children fans. She makes RUclips videos for money. Why would she restrict her audience to just "supporters"?? Even if that was an option, anyone can still subscribe and write whatever comments they please. I think it's crazy that people feel you should be able to ban people for hurting someone's feelings. Grow up.

    • @purplelonghorn07
      @purplelonghorn07 7 лет назад +5

      that makes no sense. How would they get new subscribers?

    • @sorayac1306
      @sorayac1306 7 лет назад +3

      Sorry if this comment offended anyone. It was just a suggestion.

    • @fifihudson3450
      @fifihudson3450 7 лет назад +1

      It offended nothing but your own intelligence. Common sense is a real thing... try it.

    • @4forevergirl4
      @4forevergirl4 6 лет назад

      I think they can if they set their videos to private, unless if that’s changed recently.

  • @julezrulez11
    @julezrulez11 7 лет назад +3

    Ooh girl I always break out when I start my period I'm happy someone else goes through that too

  • @thattheatrejen9987
    @thattheatrejen9987 6 лет назад +1

    I deal with my pain through music and musical theatre and performing and also crying it out while I listen to sad songs

  • @kaileyllewellyn
    @kaileyllewellyn 7 лет назад

    That's understandable and you don't have to talk about what went on personally and emotionally with you. It's good that you talk to your family, friends and a guidance counselor. I don't understand why people would think you are being rude about not sharing. What some people don't realize is that nobody has to share anything they don't want to share on social media. So you have the right. Btw I break out on my chin on my forehead, and sometimes near my nose, etc. Basically I break out on my face when close to my period, while on my period or after my period. Sometimes it's before and all during and after. And also I love your cat so cute. I love cats ❤

  • @emberann4
    @emberann4 7 лет назад +21

    You need to go make sure you don't have a concussion!

  • @Nick-pw9qk
    @Nick-pw9qk 7 лет назад +6

    DIDNT REALIZE HOW MUCH I MISSED HEARING THE OUTRO SONG

  • @kalibrown1289
    @kalibrown1289 3 года назад +8

    Little baby Gus 😭🥰

  • @yesleknotlaw6798
    @yesleknotlaw6798 6 лет назад +1

    You are definitely NOT a bad person for wanting to keep your private life PRIVATE. Your fans should respect that.

  • @NaTeesha85
    @NaTeesha85 7 лет назад +1

    Omg, Colleen, you could be concussed! Please take care of yourself-- be careful and monitor your symptoms. 💜

  • @savannahs2179
    @savannahs2179 3 года назад +3

    Watching from 2021 and we finally made the list of people you share with!