so ? that will make muslim womaan marrying foreinger have no effect on the children religion. this rule was made by arabs because they are afraid of outsiders, that it ! this has nothing to do with sunna or quran
To be honest. After being convert for 25 years I have seen many things including the result of corrupted unions of (Muslim woman with non-Muslim man). This is what I have collected: *DIVORCE - due obvious religious differences! *children having NOOO understanding of religion to the point of agnostic. And these are adult children as well (35-40yrs) saying this! *Next is spiritually confused not knowing what religion is correct and toggling back and forth (bet. Christianity and Islam, etc). *Some become atheist or follow cults or in some religious limbo (e.g Scientologist, Christian, Buddhistism, Astrology, etc) Congratulations! Due to LUST you simply put MORE KUFR into the world. You may argue that could still happen with both father and mother being Muslim. But isn't that SHARIA? Father is the very important figure in family (he is the Imam, and NON Muslim man CANT do that)and have profound effects on the children even in the secular world. To see how important the father’s presence in the home we have to look at what happens in his absence!! Here are some crime statistics from America First Policy Institute. 90% of homeless/runaway children come from FATHERLESS HOMES!!! 63% youth suicides - fatherless homes! 66% Juvenile Delinquents, 20% never lived with a father Fatherless children 3-20 times more likely to be incarcerated than children from dual parent homes. Seeing this data above, image a father NON-Muslim (or father who left Islam). What do you LOGICALLY think would effect the children? Thus, the "o kids are attached to their mom more than their dad. The mother teaches them everything" you really need to re-examine that idea. Speaking of "love" what kind of love will invoke Allah's wrath? Where does it come from, "love"? Oh. Allah did what can we say about it Islamically? Its its PURE. NOT Lust which we can confuse often do to our physical desires. To be blunt, if you are drawn to a non-man in reality you really after on thing - his d**k,. There is no "healthy Muslim family" come out of that - there goes you Ramadan breaking fast(he does it its only mechanics because no faith remember?), Eid prayer, Salah home (except yourself and children because he cant lead prayer), thus your practices is screwed up. But I know the secularist, liberals would congratulate a Muslim woman marrying anybody she places regardless how sinful even at the expense of your akhira, like they care?
As a Muslim man, my advice is just because a Muslim man can marry women of the book doesn’t always mean he should. A lot of times those women are hectic at least of things if I’m being nice it’s better just a Muslim woman to be honest.
@@user-li1gp2jw8k True if she inclines to dawa early that's good. A real girI wants to serve her man no matter what the jahl sofia & secular muslimas say.
"my advice is just because a Muslim man can marry women of the book doesn’t always mean he should." And in the vast majority of cases Muslim men don't. But the problem is that the permission exists in the first place regardless of whether its exercised, similar to polygamy (even though the vast majority of Muslim men are monogamous).
Sister I want to add something else to this. I have heard from some imams that mentioned some rulings from the Hannifi and Shaffi group and they say that even for a man to marry a Christian or Jewish women would not apply today because of the fact that Christian and Jewish Women at that time were actually faith practicing women and so you would have a sense of spirituality in the house hold and thus for someone to accept Islam it would be easy. However, today the women are only in name Christian and Jewish but don't practice thus there is no spirituality and sense of obligation that a practicing women would feel. It would become a greater issue when children are brought into the picture where if they see the mother not practicing her faith and thus would also not practice islam and you have a higher chance of a person becoming a atheist or agnostic
Same with Muslim women msot of them are muslims by name only no difference what percent of Muslim women wear hijab don't free mix in uni, college and work places, don't shake hands with non mahrams don't listen to music, don't believe in feminism? Most do sadly so yeah there is no difference
I agree with u.. My Christian friend used to smoke, drink and even took drugs once to try it out. She was too bold, no control on mouth, used to swear alot .. Also people after leaving mass in church used to go to buy pork in nearby shop and eat.. Later I came to know they were involved in black magic.. That's why pork is Haram in Islam Cz some Hindus also eat wild boar In villages but such people eat Cz they are involved in black magic and want to invite negative spirits inside their body
I’m Christian and known plenty of practicing Christian women. In fact, they are so Christian that they wouldn’t even think of marrying a Muslim man, for blatantly obvious reasons.
If your religion is important marry someone from that religion. Personally what I have seen is that women in interfaith marriages tend to keep their religion and tend to raise their children in the faith. My mom who was Muslim married my Catholic father. She was not religious when she married him. She became religious later until her death. Both my sister and I are Muslim. She was our primary example, our teacher…she would say that she would never force anything but just by being exposed through her we shifted toward Islam. I will never argue against Allahs instructions but in a more modern world, I think Muslim men should seek to marry Muslim women if they wish the kids to be raised in the faith and to continue practicing throughout their life, despite the fact that they are allowed otherwise. Just my thoughts.
I agree the situation is so different today that in interfaith marriages the child will steer towards the parent who is more steadfast in their faith this is natural of course. And it’s important for child to have a framework.
@@sammycool3206 You are not being informative just mean. At the time she was not religious and not aware of Islamic law. She was married in every other way. Just consider how insensitive you sound. Please don’t respond back. Thank you.
@@sammycool3206 never said it was a fairy story. She had a hard life, plagued with war, a genocide survivor who helped so many people. You don’t know her. You are just a judgmental person convinced they are just saying the truth. She died before she probably was aware of it. She was a wonderful person and an amazing mother. Unlike you God is merciful. He has the whole story. Bye.
@@bosnianlady10 @sammycool3206 you are nobody to cast judgement, if her catholic father allowed her muslim mother to practise her faith and her children naturally were inclined to it, that is divine intervention in and of itself! Allah works in mysterious ways
I agree with you. The truth is the vast majority of Muslim men have taken the verse as a free for all to marry any woman who claims to be Christian or Jewish, but does not follow the faith remotely except for maybe celebrating some holidays. Chastity and modesty are principles in all three faiths but they're dying principles among modern day Christian and Jewish women
In the Quran in verse (18:86) Allah said that the sun set each day in a spring of water. As the creator, Allah would know the truth. But apparently, He did not.
Quran 18.86: until he reached the setting ˹point˺ of the sun, *which appeared to him to be setting in a spring of murky water,* where he found some people. it appeared to him! learn some basic language skills. have you never heard someone say; I saw the sun setting over the mountains or in the sea?
it is a very simple matter that is if a Muslim man marries a jew woman or a christian woman with big breasts, that after a few good beet- ings she would be very happy to convert to Islam. So it's only a timing difference
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Islam prevails and is not to be prevailed over." Also, because Allah decides everything out of his infinite wisdom, ultimately, we know there's a wisdom behind it. ❤ People who hate Islam use this to attack us, but they have no idea how amazing this religion is.
@@fedesetrtatio1 Your comment proves troublesome. First, Allah tells us the importance of worshipping Him alone, which is our purpose. The Quran "I did not create mankind and Jinn except to worship me." As for Hell, anyone who is given a warning and purposefully disobeys it deserves to be punished. On the other hand, those whom Allah loves and they obeyed Him will be granted forgiveness. A wise person takes the advice they're given, rather than arguing and causing fitnah.
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Muslim like you would rather bury your head in the sand and find a way to regurgitate Islamic terrorism to suit your own political agenda. However, the Muslims behind the violence are very clear about the religious certainty that compels their actions. "I am proud and honored to be a terrorist for the sake of Allah... This is Islamic religious law. I don't invent anything. I follow Islamic religious law in this." - These are the words of Umm Nidal, a Palestinian woman who sent her six sons on suicide missions against Jewish civilians in Israel. "Verily Allah has purchased the lives of the believers that theirs shall be paradise. They fight in Allah's cause, so they kill and are killed... it will NEVER be over until the day that we see our lands governed by He Allah the almighty, whose law is complete." - From Samantha Lewthwaite, the so-called 'white widow' in a poem discovered shortly after the Westgate mall massacre in South Africa. "Know that i am doing this martyrdom operation only for the sake of Allah and for His religion." - A 21-year-old member of al-Shabaab and former British college student who murdered 20 Africans.
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Sahih Bukhari (62:81) - "The Prophet said: "'The stipulations most entitled to be abided by are those with which you are given the right to enjoy the (women's) private parts (i.e. the stipulations of the marriage contract).'" According to Muhammad, the most important part of a marriage contract is the unrestricted access that a man has to his wife's vagina. In other words, the most important thing a Muslim woman brings to marriage is between her legs. (Nikah in Arabic is a term that refers to marriage in the Quran which literally means sexual intercourse) Quran (2:223) - "Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will..." Muslim men have authority over their wives' bodies as well as managing their land. Wives are to be sexually available to their husbands in every way at all times. And this verse is believed to refer to anal sex (see Bukhari 60:51), and was "revealed" when women complained to Muhammad about the practice. The phrase "when or how you will" means that women lost their case. 🤭
Islam prevails and is not to be prevailed over. Therein, in that desire to prevail, lies the problem. It's pretty arrogant actually, and imposes its will by force upon non-muslims, in the absence of any good reason. This is precisely why we have wars. I'm a follower of Hinduism. Quantum physicists like Schroedinger and Heisenberg have found this worldview to be a very reasonable one, one that aligns with the observations of modern physics. The so called "polytheism" aligns very well with the archetypes of the "collective unconscious" of Dr. Carl Jung. The non-dualist mystical traditions of Hinduism also align perfectly well with Sufism (Islamic mysticism), I really don't see why anybody should genuflect before the Quran's diktats without good reason. If Islam wishes to be respected by everyone, it has to get rid of this tyrannical attitude, this desire to prevail forcefully over everybody, and come to the table to discuss things reasonably/logically with others while not looking down on them. That's the only way forward. Muslims should look towards the Sufis, and prioritise direct experience of the divine. Maybe that alone will open their minds and enable acceptance of "others".
@@thedrasc1465 they won't even let the children pray.... They won't let muslim women to do fasting (roza) , may be initially they will let go....but after some years they'll be fed up and try to change her religiousness and of children's too. I have seen this multiple times. And the end is divorce and depression , the future of children is also at stake.
@@thedrasc1465 Но в исламе запрещено выходить замуж за не мусульман, поэтому твою точку зрения нельзя подтвердить или опровергнуть на практике, следовательно она не имеет смысла. Но мы можем посмотреть на положение не мусульман в мусульманских странах и наоборот и сравнить кто и кому предоставляет больше прав. Например у христиан-коптов, которые являются коренным народом Египта и живут на своей земле, прав в разы меньше чем у любого мусульманина в Европе, который является инородцем. невероятно но факт. Ислам является самой нетерпимой и ксенофобской религией, а все разговоры мусульман о уважении и правах - обычное лицемерие. У не мусульманки, которая выйдет замуж за мусульманина даже на собственных детей прав не будет, у нее вообще не будет прав, только куча ограничений
We should remember those Christians and jews were different from today's time , so no muslim men should marry Christian or jew women they should only marry muslim women, today's Christians and Jews are really jews and Christians secondly main purpose of marriage is to grow pious together snd grow pious children together nobody wants their children to grow up bad, secondly as a muslim men its our responsibility that we should think if we start marrying Christian and jew than where will our muslim women go and what will go on their heart , and remember it is just a permission not a recommendation
This. Many people gloss over the fact that the books Allah sent, and the books that now exists are COMPLETELY altered and changed, meaning the christians and jews now commit shirk, which is the only sin that wont be forgiven by Allah. They also dont abide by the book, and are very modern unlike islam, a religion that cannot be modernised, and even if they do practice it right, they have false beliefs. Its MUCH better to have your children be raised by a muslim women then a kuffar.
Good point, but MusIim men can nika two girIs, I seen non Muslim girIs seek out brothers for nika and as leaders we should test to see if they will accept dawa. It was a case 3 cousins liked the Muslim Man, 1 Muslima and 2 non muslima. There is too many week and jealous brothers and sisters who discourage this practice. Some sofia fake muslimas even call brothers zindiq, how eviI?
@@JustSmile.. Family is an organisation,where husband is the head of family and wife is his companion or helper. God has instructed man to provide for the family, both materialistically and spiritually, and woman was instructed to assist her husband in his duties. Both have their own obligations or responsibilities. Long before Islam , this standard was set by God in the Bible. But we are not here talking about obligations or responsibilities. We are talking about RIGHTS. Having the RIGHT of marring more than one wife is given to men but for women, they can't marry more than one husband. Now, this is discriminatory!
If god made rules in bible than also ALLAH made rules in Quran so we can't question on them and Islam is the only religion which gives rights to women before islam there were no authentic rights for anybody and bible and Christians are fake there are plenty of different bibles but Quran is pure till now and only one there are no miss interpretations of quran @@arnoldjackson-q2j
@@arnoldjackson-q2j😂😂😂😂 If you talk about rights then its not necessary for a women to do What is men do . If Its so then men also should birth baby otherwise it would be a discrimination. According to your logic😂😂😂😂😂
The double standard isn’t fair. Nor is allowing men to marry 4 wives ok. And one prophet marrying a 13/14 year old girl can you please elaborate on this ?
It would be a double standard, but it's also not true, Al Quran clearly says that we cannot marry disbelieving women. You can say a man marrying for women is not fair, but according to who you? Why is it that we can have multiple wives in the first place? Can a woman produce four children by four different men at one time? Can a man produce four different children by four women at one time? By what our book says does a woman have to be a part of a dual or quadruple marriage if she doesn't want to? And lastly on the topic of marriage, did ALLAH not also say that even though HE said we can have four wives we should only take one, because otherwise we will transgress limits and get ourselves into trouble? .
On the topic of the Prophet Muhammad having married a child. This is just another vicious lie against the prophet Muhammad pbuh regardless of it being a vicious lie that even Muslims tell. All I need to know about the situation, is what Al Quran says about the rules and regulations surrounding marriage. Do you know what it says on that matter?
@@jaqua7732 Surah Al-Mumtahanah 10 states that disbelievers are not lawful husbands for Muslim women, and Muslim women are not lawful wives for disbelievers. However, the verse also states that it is permissible to marry a disbeliever if their Mahr has been paid, and that the disbeliever can ask for the return of their Mahr….weird how money makes this an exception to the “rule” lol
Mashallah sister well spoken and explained, I’m assuming that you are fluent in Arabic…A muslim man is allowed to marry from Jews and Christians but a main condition put is only chaste women! المائدة verse 5, المحصنات so this condition is hard to meet in today’s non muslim community…
Unless you are referring to Amish or menonite Christians. But its permissible not a requirements. For a Muslim to marry a Christian woman there needs to be really darn good reason. There are 1.6+ billion Muslims. That should not be a problem unless ignorant ones in our ummah is holding our next generation hostage by unusual demands exaggerated mehr, wealth, standards, etc. More are converting everyday both men and women enlarging our Muslim marriage pool more.
There a neightbore who it's daughter married to a Christian man, and Both child end up being splited into two religion since their grandmother from the father side want the Boy to be a Christian and the grandmother from the mother side want the daughter being a Muslim. This woman who married Christian their Father is a Christian and the mother is Muslim. So yeah, their history already speak of itself. Even thought their are good people, they still on the wrong side of things. Just curb your desires and Follow the right path, You will be save in this world and the hereafter.
I personally know muslim women who are married to non-muslim men and the wives are allowed to follow their religion without any disruptions and their husbands even respect their religion without any objections! They are in fact very happy couples!
إن كانوا كذلك فزواجهم غير صحيح في الإسلام فهم يخالفون أساسا مهما وهو الدين. النقطه الثانيه صدقني سيحصل تقصير و عدم تفاهم من أزواجهم لأن الرجل في الإسلام هو من يكون قائما وصابرا على حقوق المرأه أكثر منها والذي يستحيل أن تجده عند شخص غير مسلم ينقصه فهم هذه التعاليم
@@LL-ns8mg No! Wrong! I know them personally! Religion does not come in between them! They have been married for ages! The women even say that the kind of respect their current non muslim husbands give them, they did not get it with their previous husbands who were muslim! So they divorced and then re-married non muslim men.
@@Backstreets247 هههههههه هل أنت متأكد من كلامك أو انك تريد تشويه سمعه الدين؟ أنا لا أقول أن المسلمين جميعهم متشابهين في الأخلاق ولكنهم مقارنه مع غيرهم أكثر إلتزاما وتحفظا للحقوق والواجبات الزوجيه
@@Backstreets247You may be right. And the couple may be a happy couple. But... the woman doing continues adultery according to Islam, which she is still following! What is point of still following a religion and then breaking its one of the core principle!
@@picachuface Because the core principle of this religion is completely pointless and makes no sense.......since it's been disproven end number of times! That's exactly what I'm trying to say!
Beautifully explained. I liked where you clarified that we are making logical assumption why Allah forbade us as he didnt told the reasons. otherwise what happened is some sister who are in these relationship say her partner isnt like that, he dont force me, he let me practice etc
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 No, this shows the short comings of Qur'an. A Muslim man can Marry a non Muslim but a Muslim woman can't do the same, this shows the bais in Qur'an, for GOD is impartial. While in Bible both men and women are not allowed to marry a non Christian , for this can lead to spiritual conflict.
@@arnoldjackson-q2j Nope it shows man is leader just like in polygyny but in bibIe they regress. Quran fix bibIe too. & in bibIe pauI I think says both can mary outside.
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 no, Paul never stated christians to marry outside but only in LORD means in Christian faith. Second, polygyny is not a Gods standard, it is true that at start of Jews history,God allowed them to practice polygamy for sometime, but this was meant to increase their population so that they can become a nation. But Jesus Christ stated standard of one woman for one man ,as Adam had only Eve. This is the original standard of God with respect to marriage. Moreover, polygamy is accounted to be equal to adultery in Bible by Jesus Christ.
@@arnoldjackson-q2j 1. Incorrect. Polygyny started with Sara offering Hajr as a 2nd wife to Ibrahim so he can have Ismail if the covenant.* So it was allowed in Islam before jueduh. 2. You have no bibIe evidence Jesus prohibit polygyny. * bibIe isn't preserved but it's oldest versions proof Islam true. Ylt Hebrew in genesis 17 it says Ismail is given 12 princes AND covenant is with Ishaq. So includes both , but in english they change the and into but.
@@cryptiik9311 I agree the expansionism is more obvious. As with the other great missionary rival Christianity one can see the competition to expand first. Not all faiths are pledged on expansionism but emphasis on the Abrahamic ideologies is like you said expansionism.
لا يوجد شيء اسمه ديانات ابراهيمية إبراهيم عليه الصلاة والسلام لم يكن يهوديا او نصرانيا بل كان حنيفا مسلما ولم يكن من المشركين وهذا بنص القرآن وجميع الانبياء والرسل عليهم الصلاة والسلام أيضا كلهم مسلمون @@Zeitaluq
If a Muslim man marries a Christian and Jewish girl, he respects her religion because it is part of his faith to believe prophet Jesus and prophet Moses. However, if Christian and Jewish man marries a Muslim woman, he does not believe in prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, so he will abuse her spiritually and emotionally
الأمر ليس كذلك نحن لا نحترم اي باطل لأنهم لا يتبعون موسى او عيسى عليهم الصلاة والسلام بل نحن أولى بالانبياء منهم لأننا اتبعنا اساس رسالة جميع الانبياء والرسل عليهم الصلاة والسلام التوحيد اساس دعوة الانبياء والرسل عليهم الصلاة والسلام وزواج الرجل المسلم من اليهودية او النصرانية بشروط وليس مطلقا يجب أن تكون المرأة مُحصنة يعني شريفة لا تزني والعياذ بالله وهذا لا تجده الان في أغلب هذه النساء
I am Muslim, and even I am thinking something wrong with ur explanation, same as the girl in this video. Cause its same argument Hindu men use trying to secure Muslim women.
So many muslim men can be abusive and don't follow these obligations at all but non-muslim men can respect their wives belief. Also, non-muslim women don't always accept islam. In 2:221 it says that you are allowed to marry a partner who's a believer (regardless if man or woman) which means women are allowed to also marry christians and jews ❤
no it's not true, stop putting out false information. Muslim women aren't allowed to marry none-muslim men. They are only allowed if the none believing men accept islam. It isn't talking about other religious that the men accept to marry a muslim woman
Nope, you do not understand what 2:221 is talking about at all. It's clearly referring to "believing" as in Muslims. The point of the verse was to say that marrying slaves who have converted to Islam is better than marrying a polytheist challenging the classism of Arabian society where a slave or an ex-slave was seen as lower than a free person.
@@iridoscyclitis Ok if that's so, then tell me how the "scholars" interpreted from that verse that muslim men can marry christian and jewish women because last time i checked it means the people of the book. I'll wait.
May Allah grant us all a righteous spouse that is the coolness of our eyes, the ease of our hearts, and May He allow us to walk through the gates of Jannah together.
sure. why not say allah grant men a wive who cant refuse sex, who accepts violence if the husband 'fears' disobiedience and has no ghira or jealousy that the patriarch can marry 4 women. also allah grant the muslim men who are the worlds most uneducated and iliterate statistically in 2024 women who will do what theyre told smh
religion guarding* Is the nonmuslim man allowing her to raise her kids islamically? yeah i dont think so and the man most likely has the authority/power/etc so its almost just common sense even without it being an explicit religious ruling. Dont like that males are typically the guardians/protectors/responsible for women? well then go live on another planet ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I love your analytical and very differentiated approach by referring to the scholars opinions and to logic. Keep going smart girl mashaAllah. May Allah redward you and Salamat from your sister from Germany
Really, but I see a lot of women marrying Muslim men. I don’t mean to insult or anything. I’m just learning. Are there different opinions, for example, because they say it is acceptable? May God bless you.😊
@@luvciel-x6l The so-called Christians do many things that are against the teachings of Bible. God has mentioned his principles in the Bible, but he don't force people to follow it ,as Jesus said only true Christians will worship God with Truth and Spirit( John 4: 23,24)
Because Islam sets aside love and prioritizes its expansion. I am an Iraqi ex-Muslim and I can tell you that Islam does not allow this because it only cares about spreading to more people; having kids means adding more Muslims to the Muslim population. It goes under the assumption that more than likely a man's influence is greater than the woman's and thus he might sway her into leaving Islam. This is an insult to the idea of love because that means that it doesn't matter how much you love him, how kind this person is, how loyal, how good and suitable as a partner he is, if he does not share the same ideas by being a Muslim, you can't marry him. That is ridiculous in my opinion and I feel sad for couples going through this experience.
LOL. If that was the case, Muslim men would be allowed to marry pagans, atheist, Zoroastrians too. Or didn't God want Muslims to expand into those areas? Stay mad Ex-Muslim. We are not missing you. Also falling in love with someone necessitates you knowing them intimately. Islam doesn't allow intermixing. So, if you are not a cultural Muslim who doesn't care much about their religion, you wouldn't fall in love with even a Muslim man let alone a non-Muslim man anyway. And if you are a cultural Muslim who is disobeying God all the time in every aspect of their life, why are you so bothered about this one issue? So that you can play victim and cry about it?
"Ex-Muslim" 🤡 These folks are usually the ones with the least knowledge, and have the most to say. If you're Iraqi, I'm assuming you can speak Arabic (then again I won't be surprised if you cannot do that too). "و من أياته أن خلق لكم من أنفسكم أزواجا لتسكنوا إليها و جعل بينكم مودة و رحمة" The word "مودة" means compassion. Why did Allah mention compassion and not love? Because love is hormonal, it fluctuates. Oxytocin, seratonin, dopamine and endorphins are all love hormones. Compassion on the other hand is consistent. You're mad at your wife, but you still have to treat her right. That compassion is what leads to love. He paired compassion with mercy "رحمة" because that's the foundation of a solid marriage, not that Disney idea of prince charming and "love at first sight" lol.
Hmm..people in the west cheated too.. besides eternal love is with God. Our main goal is going to jannah. Marriage is to attain peace.. and a secure family life that is serve to protect the children. Just look at the stats in the west..fatherless homes are highly likely to produce troublesome kids/future felon, criminals.
Where are those conditions from though? The problem is that the Qu'ran does not set any specific and objective requirements. At best some of them can be derived from hadith but the vast majority seem to be the reasoning according to scholars. Criteria like the partner being "actively religious" is up to subjective determination. As a result, barely anyone scrutinizes the religiosity of a non-Muslim partner in an interfaith marriage.
Yeah, thats why feminism movement originated from the western women cuz they apparently feel super oppressed & unsafe in their own "FREE" society, & not from muslim women in their supposedly "oppressed" society, right? 🤭 what a perfect logic. And that's why Islam is the FASTEST growing religion by convert rate & 70% of converts in the west are women despite all the media propaganda, right? Yeah, so according to ur standard, women LOOOVEEEEE to be oppressed. Cry about it 🤣 women around the world are waking up & massively converting to this OPPRESSIVE religion 😇 get ready cuz a few decades from now Islam is predicted to beat christianity as the No.1 biggest, most followed religion on earth. Once again, Allah's promise always come true 😌
Hahaha . I met so many non Muslim men. I never saw as much dis respect with these non Muslims. They ask for 50/50 relationships and use you just for pleasure for many years and then go to other women. Islam is true respect and I cannot imagine marrying outside my faith.
Sister, first of all, there is no consensus on Muslim men marrying non-Muslim women in a *non-Muslim* country. Also the ruling is not unfair to the Muslim woman. It is unfair to the children of the Muslim father. Islam allows men to marry non-Muslim women under circumstances that his children will be raised as Muslims. That is possible in a Muslim country, but it may not be possible in a non-Muslim country. This is why many Muslim scholars have prohibited inter faith marriages in the West for precisely that reason. in fact, even inside a Muslim country, it is not easy to raise a child as a Muslim if the mother - the primary nurturer - is a non-Muslim. Another thing you are missing is that Islam puts the burden of religious upbringing entirely on the father (another reason why Marriage between a Muslim woman and a non-Muslim man is discouraged ) Unfortunately, in today’s world, the fathers are not as involved in the upbringing of their children. If is haram to raise your children as non-Muslim
beautiful guidance of Allah, through the beautifully articulate words of this sister by the permission of Allah swt. may Allah give u and me barakah; wasilah of prophet Muhammad pbuh
This video raises a number of thoughts: 1) Considering the long description given of the 'duties of the husband',....one begins to wonder why would any Muslim man even want to get married at all, considering the apparently long list of "duties" and absence of receiving anything? There seems to be no benefit to the man if this description is accurate! It seems from this video that Muslim marriage is all about rights and duties that a Muslim man must fulfil to a Muslim woman,....which sounds like a job description and certainly alien to a loving marriage in which a man and woman love each other deeply and seek each other's best interests. 2) While I can follow the logic to a degree of the Muslim woman not marrying a "non Muslim" because he would not have the values expected for a Muslim marriage, it should be acknowledged that many Muslim men are not having these values either, because they are culturally Muslim and not religious in practice....in which case, being a Muslim man is not a guarantee of anything! 3) The teaching that a Muslim man can however marry a non Muslim woman who is a practicing Christian or practicing Jew, is however hypocritical and I would suggest made for the advantage of such men. However, the reason given for the Muslim woman in (2) should also apply to the Muslim man in that his values may not be respected by his 'Christian or Jewish wife', in which case, this teaching is not just hypocritical but very poor! 4) A practicing Christian or practicing Jew, is very unlikely to marry a Muslim! I'm not saying it hasn't happened or can't happen, but certainly from a Christian perspective this would be disobedience to God and therefore someone doing this, would in effect, not be truly following Jesus as a Christian and a practicing Jewish woman would want a practicing Jewish man, not a Muslim. 5) The speaker in the video makes certain presumptions about non Muslim men, by saying that they wouldn't respect a Muslim woman following her religion or support her etc - but this amounts to prejudice against non Muslim men, by making presumptions about them based upon imagination of what "a non Muslim man must be like" - which could totally inaccurate. It is possible for a non Muslim man to respect such a wife and support her, without himself being a Muslim. But moreover another presumption was made in the video, that a Muslim man can marry a practicing Christian or Jew and that he is to "respect her faith and religion and support her in it"....but this actually is only again presumption - he may not! So some of this video is based upon bias/prejudice and presumption, while other parts of it are logical.
Well thought out thinking points here. I suppose this fits in the so-called seventh century of the Common Era. Islam as with prior faiths is a missionary religion and actually at one time I think people of the book included the Zoroastrians whom were also monotheistic in a particular way. As with Judaism and Christian denominations Islam also seeks to have an identity I think as a nation like the other Abrahamic faiths called an Ummah. However the issues is in the early days these faiths competed against each other. Hence they do not want to lose the women so to speak because that means the women have key to the future and hence the females are like gold dust. Hence the strategy is laid out in scripture verses of any Abrahamic faith
Muslim man completes faith in bibIe as comforter Jesus prays for in jon 14 is in jon 16.13, the deut 18.18 prophet like Moses aka prophet Muhammad peace & blessings be on him.
Christianity and Judaism don't allow the woman to initiate a divorce. The woman would be trapped with the man by law by Christian and Judaic values. Islam permits any woman to divocre the husband if the marriage isn't functioning.
A Muslim man and woman benefit from marriage. In Islam , a woman obeys her husband. She's supposed to be grateful and do what he says. She guards the property in her chastity in his absence. She will be one who bears his children. She cooks, cleans, and makes herself look nice for him. She's not permitted to deny intimacy to her husband, except during menstruation or post natal bleeding. A woman is not allowed to leave the house without her husband's permission or divorce without a valid reason. She could literally die giving birth. Men are supposed to be protectors and providers. That's the role Allah designed. He has the right to marry up to 4 wives.
Tunisia changed this law in 2022, which allows non muslim men to marry muslim women. I am a former muslim turned christian who married a tunisian. I think the laws are changing, i am originally from India where we have many muslim men marrying non muslim women and many muslim women marrying non muslim men.
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 that law is changing in many countries, even sudan who removed islam as the state religion now allows muslim women to marry non muslim men. Tunisia removed islam as the state religion in 2022 too.
@@grapejuiceboy They oppose sharia where man can have more then 1 wife but many gf is ok. hypocrisy. MusIim men will take many wives anyway. Islam is also spreading, salafi not batil Sofia bida. Why you become Christian if Islam is truth?
@@grapejuiceboy They oppose sharia polygyny but say many gf is ok. hypocrisy. MusIim men take many wives anyway. Islam spreading, salafi not Sofia bida. Why you become Christian if Islam is haqq?
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 islam is actually declining in the east, Last year 1 million people in Pakistan left it, hundreds are leaving islam in India, Indonesia, Tunisia and Iran are rapidly declining with islam. I left islam because I don't believe that it is the truth anymore.
Very Informative! I always thought My Sisters could marry non-Muslim men, But I understand why Allah said this! May Allah reward and protect the Sisters of Islam no matter who they marry!
Not only Muslim Women but also Muslim Men can not marry Non-Muslim Women. Muslim Men could marry Non-Muslim Women(Only Ahle Kitab) during the time of Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) because then Muslims had very low female population . After Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) passed away, it is not permissable to any Muslim/Muslima to marry a non muslima/muslim.
It literally says in the Quran that Muslim men are allowed to marry only practicing Christian and Jewish women, while Muslim women should only marry Muslim men.
Were this true, it would have been abrogated in the Qur'an during the final verses that were revealed after virtually all of Arabia had converted to Islam.
A Muslim woman has more rights than other religions and ideas, and a Muslim man has many obligations and responsibilities towards his wife. So, if a non-Muslim does not fulfill Muslim women’s rights, how will we hold him accountable? He will say: Why should I do that? I am a non-Muslim. As for the Muslim man, if he does not fulfill her rights, we will be able to sue him Even a Muslim woman has rights over sexual intercourse with her husband There is a saying that says whoever is safe from punishment misbehaves The rule is not the exception and the exception is not the rule Stay aware
By the way there is no "exception" in this matter. It is fornication in sharia period. Let's see what the Quran says about it: وَلَا تَنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْمُشْرِكَـٰتِ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنَّ ۚ وَلَأَمَةٌۭ مُّؤْمِنَةٌ خَيْرٌۭ مِّن مُّشْرِكَةٍۢ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَتْكُمْ ۗ وَلَا تُنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْمُشْرِكِينَ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنُوا۟ ۚ وَلَعَبْدٌۭ مُّؤْمِنٌ خَيْرٌۭ مِّن مُّشْرِكٍۢ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَكُمْ ۗ أُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ يَدْعُونَ إِلَى ٱلنَّارِ ۖ وَٱللَّهُ يَدْعُوٓا۟ إِلَى ٱلْجَنَّةِ وَٱلْمَغْفِرَةِ بِإِذْنِهِۦ ۖ وَيُبَيِّنُ ءَايَـٰتِهِۦ لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمْ يَتَذَكَّرُونَ ٢٢١ interpretation: Do not marry polytheistic women until they believe; for a believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist, even though she may look pleasant to you. And do not marry your women to polytheistic men until they believe, for a believing slave-man is better than a free polytheist, even though he may look pleasant to you. They invite you to the Fire while Allah invites ˹you˺ to Paradise and forgiveness by His grace.He makes His revelations clear to the people so perhaps they will be mindful. surah baqarah ayat 221. The important think to see is the word " وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَكُمْ" even if he pleases you. The word أَعْجَبَ is important here because that meaning something impresses and pleases. Thus, Allah is quite aware of our feelings and emotions informing you that you can fall in "love" situation like a non Muslim and its giving us STRONG WARNINGS ABOUT THAT DANGER. look what Quran also says in the same verse, "they CALL YOU TO THE FIRE" أُولَٰئِكَ يَدْعُونَ إِلَى النَّارِ, thus there is no exception regardless how nice, respectful, he treats you, etc. there is no exception from fire when committing this act. Thus, I will never marry a polytheist women ever!
I am a Christian and there was a girl in high school I had a crush on but when I heard her name and realized that she was Muslim, I immediately backed off because I knew very well that I would likely get her in trouble with her family. So, we ended up being friends instead.
☪ Chapter: Regarding Hitting Women Iyas ibn Abdullah ibn Abu Dhubab reported the Messenger of Allah as saying: Do not beat Allah's handmaidens, but when Umar came to the Messenger of Allah and said: Women have become emboldened towards their husbands, he (the Prophet) gave permission to beat them. >
You keep talking about rights and equality…. But it’s not equal. Guys in Islam have more rights than women. So many jumah prayers do guys skew the words and teachings to favor the men. Men and women should be equal. The Quran was written during a different time. I know many non Muslim husbands who respect Muslim women more than Muslim husband.
A Muslim man or woman loves their Creator, who created them, and His Messenger more than their family and themselves, as our Messenger told us. This is achieved by learning Islam more and more
@mriconic0 no offense another question, If your children one day decide that they don't want to stay muslim than should you cut off all contact with them? genuine question....
Just as there could be Muslim men who don't follow Allah's commands, there can be non-Muslim men who love their wives and follow how she wishes to be treated, which would fall in line with Allah's commands.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Any man who has a daughter, does not slight her, does not prefer his son over her, and raises her until she reaches maturity will enter Paradise." Another Hadith, the Prophet Muhammed (peace upon him) said, "The only one more merciful than a mother is Allah." In the Quran Allah says, "Whoever works righteous, whether male or female, while he (or she) is a true believer, such will enter Paradise, not the least injustice shall be done."
A Muslim woman has more rights than other religions and ideas, and a Muslim man has many obligations and responsibilities towards his wife. So, if a non-Muslim does not fulfill Muslim women’s rights, how will we hold him accountable? He will say: Why should I do that? I am a non-Muslim. As for the Muslim man, if he does not fulfill her rights, we will be able to sue him Even a Muslim woman has rights over sexual intercourse with her husband There is a saying that says whoever is safe from punishment misbehaves The rule is not the exception and the exception is not the rule
It is not hypocrisy, because the sexes are different from each other. There are things that are bad for women but not for men. It would be hypocrisy to forbid or condemn a thing but to commit it yourself. But this is not the case here. If men and women were equal both physically and psychologically then one could argue that, but women and men are different both physically and psychologically.
Also, if a man is a non-Muslim, how is he supposed to lead me as a woman in prayer? Will I fast Ramadan alone? Will I teach Islam to my kids alone? Will I go to church with him on Christmas or Easter? I mean. How will I respect him if he does not say la Ila ha illAllah Muhammad Rassoulullah? 🤔.
Does most of this not equally apply to non-Muslim women with Muslim men as well? The men will also have to fast Ramadan alone, they will have to teach Islam to the kids alone, and they will also feel obligated to partake in their partner's religious celebrations to some degree. Muslim men somehow manage to respect their partners despite them not committing to the shahada but this is something somehow beyond Muslim women? Of course, the only way this would not apply to Muslim men is that if that means that they would be pushing their partners to do all of those Islamic things with them.
A recent matter was brought to my attention. I was wondering if you could please make a video about the following situation: A Muslim man and his Muslim wife live together, where the man discovers years after marriage his wife is a staunch Feminist. Her Feminist beliefs and values are causing havoc in the marriage. What should they do? It's heading towards divorce for all the wrong reasons.
"where the man discovers years after marriage his wife is a staunch Feminist" Why did this take years to discover? Did the man not bother to get to know the woman whatsoever before he got married? They never discussed their outlook on gender roles, how work would be divided in the household, how the kids would be raised, etc. before they decided to get married?
If Allah never made a reason to his decisions then we shouldn’t make “logical” answers. You can’t argue and reason with Allah. His word is the last and we need to accept it. No explanation is needed.
Sister, many brothers are looking for good Modest and Islam practicing sisters for marriage. If you are not finding a husband. Just consider that please, what are brothers seeing? Visa versa I'm sure.
Assalamu alaikum Sister * This Uncle Mohamed * May Allah JFO grant you Jannatul Firdaus for the sound Dawah you're doing * As per following verse in the Quran: Fussilat 41:33 And who is better in speech than one who invites to Allah and does righteousness and says, "Indeed, I am of the Muslims. * God bless
In Christianity, it is strongly discouraged for either sex to marry someone from a different religion. It creates unnecessary complications, especially when raising kids.
A faith system believes that people that follow it are saved and those that do not follow it are condemned in the afterlife. If we go by the book, Christians cannot marry non-Christians. Jews cannot marry non-Jews (atleast not anyone that does not follow the Naohide laws). Also, non-hindus are not even part of the caste system and do not follow the dharma anyway, thus they are condemned. When this is The Norm in all places (going by the book of those faiths), people like to pick on Islam and Muslims.
this is quite literally the first time i’ve ever seen a muslim woman speak this logically on this matter. i’ve used the exact same points and many more against MUSLIM WOMEN and they still somehow don’t understand and continue to argue for the sake of arguing may allah grant you jannat-al firdaws as well as a righteous spouse that makes the path to jannah for both you and him easy
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 This may be true, but a scholar, sheikh, or religious leader generally is more qualified to speak on these issues. They can best do it since they're of knowledge.
In islam marriage is considered as holy. Marriage completes half faith. If anyone marries non Muslims they lose their faith in Islam because it’s haram relationship. All deeds, prayers and charity wasted. Because it becomes lifelong zina. Even if you marry a non believer you cannot call yourself a Muslim . Calling yourself Muslim being in haram relationship is like throwing water in sea. It doesn’t make any sense
❤ In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. To believe in ۟ and for the servant of a good one, and if you like you, if I am in your widespread, and if I am Forgiveness with his permission, and his time is clear to people, so that they may remember} [Surah Al-Baqarah: 221]❤❤❤
We are all human beings. We are no different from each other. Any man and woman united by love are therefore eligible for marriage. Religions divide human beings and offer human beings nothing but hatred, division, hatred, and inherited historical grudges.
Every commandments of Allah is for our own good in this dunya until akhirah.
Befor quran came what did u follow sister please tell me
@@clinton3130 before the quran every tribes and people had a messenger sent to them
@@benimarusasaka9127 who was the last prophet before quran came
@@clinton3130in islam before Muhammad sws it was Jesus
Jesus said :holy spirit will come to talk about me what i taught.there is no another truth.if u read the gospel you will know the truth.
Also kids are attached to their mom more than their dad. The mother teaches them everything. Also there is a deep love between a mother and her child.
so ? that will make muslim womaan marrying foreinger have no effect on the children religion.
this rule was made by arabs because they are afraid of outsiders, that it !
this has nothing to do with sunna or quran
But the kid's mom is more attached to the kids' dad. :p
Know this, a female cant even raise its own child without relying on men.
Is there evidence to back this up. I know many narcistic mothers, who treated their children worse than their dads.
To be honest. After being convert for 25 years I have seen many things including the result of corrupted unions of (Muslim woman with non-Muslim man).
This is what I have collected:
*DIVORCE - due obvious religious differences!
*children having NOOO understanding of religion to the point of agnostic. And these are adult children as well (35-40yrs) saying this!
*Next is spiritually confused not knowing what religion is correct and toggling back and forth (bet. Christianity and Islam, etc).
*Some become atheist or follow cults or in some religious limbo (e.g Scientologist, Christian, Buddhistism, Astrology, etc)
Congratulations! Due to LUST you simply put MORE KUFR into the world. You may argue that could still happen with both father and mother being Muslim. But isn't that SHARIA? Father is the very important figure in family (he is the Imam, and NON Muslim man CANT do that)and have profound effects on the children even in the secular world.
To see how important the father’s presence in the home we have to look at what happens in his absence!! Here are some crime statistics from America First Policy Institute.
90% of homeless/runaway children come from FATHERLESS HOMES!!!
63% youth suicides - fatherless homes!
66% Juvenile Delinquents, 20% never lived with a father
Fatherless children 3-20 times more likely to be incarcerated than children from dual parent homes.
Seeing this data above, image a father NON-Muslim (or father who left Islam). What do you LOGICALLY think would effect the children? Thus, the "o kids are attached to their mom more than their dad. The mother teaches them everything" you really need to re-examine that idea.
Speaking of "love" what kind of love will invoke Allah's wrath? Where does it come from, "love"? Oh. Allah did what can we say about it Islamically? Its its PURE. NOT Lust which we can confuse often do to our physical desires. To be blunt, if you are drawn to a non-man in reality you really after on thing - his d**k,. There is no "healthy Muslim family" come out of that - there goes you Ramadan breaking fast(he does it its only mechanics because no faith remember?), Eid prayer, Salah home (except yourself and children because he cant lead prayer), thus your practices is screwed up. But I know the secularist, liberals would congratulate a Muslim woman marrying anybody she places regardless how sinful even at the expense of your akhira, like they care?
As a Muslim man, my advice is just because a Muslim man can marry women of the book doesn’t always mean he should. A lot of times those women are hectic at least of things if I’m being nice it’s better just a Muslim woman to be honest.
I feel it will cause resentment down the line unless the lady is open to her husbands faith and how practising he is in general.
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True if she inclines to dawa early that's good. A real girI wants to serve her man no matter what the jahl sofia & secular muslimas say.
Most revert marriages end up in divorce withinin 5 years.
"my advice is just because a Muslim man can marry women of the book doesn’t always mean he should."
And in the vast majority of cases Muslim men don't. But the problem is that the permission exists in the first place regardless of whether its exercised, similar to polygamy (even though the vast majority of Muslim men are monogamous).
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There is no problem in the din of Islam, it's just ppl don't understand it's wisdoms.
Sister I want to add something else to this. I have heard from some imams that mentioned some rulings from the Hannifi and Shaffi group and they say that even for a man to marry a Christian or Jewish women would not apply today because of the fact that Christian and Jewish Women at that time were actually faith practicing women and so you would have a sense of spirituality in the house hold and thus for someone to accept Islam it would be easy. However, today the women are only in name Christian and Jewish but don't practice thus there is no spirituality and sense of obligation that a practicing women would feel. It would become a greater issue when children are brought into the picture where if they see the mother not practicing her faith and thus would also not practice islam and you have a higher chance of a person becoming a atheist or agnostic
Same with Muslim women msot of them are muslims by name only no difference what percent of Muslim women wear hijab don't free mix in uni, college and work places, don't shake hands with non mahrams don't listen to music, don't believe in feminism? Most do sadly so yeah there is no difference
اليهود والنصارى منذ زمن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم وحتى قبله لم يكونوا على حق لان رسالة موسى وعيسى عليهما الصلاة والسلام حُرِّفَت بعد مدة قليلة جدا
And Muslim men can’t marry Christian’s who believe in the trinity because it’s basically polytheism.
I agree with u.. My Christian friend used to smoke, drink and even took drugs once to try it out. She was too bold, no control on mouth, used to swear alot .. Also people after leaving mass in church used to go to buy pork in nearby shop and eat.. Later I came to know they were involved in black magic.. That's why pork is Haram in Islam Cz some Hindus also eat wild boar In villages but such people eat Cz they are involved in black magic and want to invite negative spirits inside their body
I’m Christian and known plenty of practicing Christian women. In fact, they are so Christian that they wouldn’t even think of marrying a Muslim man, for blatantly obvious reasons.
If your religion is important marry someone from that religion. Personally what I have seen is that women in interfaith marriages tend to keep their religion and tend to raise their children in the faith. My mom who was Muslim married my Catholic father. She was not religious when she married him. She became religious later until her death. Both my sister and I are Muslim. She was our primary example, our teacher…she would say that she would never force anything but just by being exposed through her we shifted toward Islam. I will never argue against Allahs instructions but in a more modern world, I think Muslim men should seek to marry Muslim women if they wish the kids to be raised in the faith and to continue practicing throughout their life, despite the fact that they are allowed otherwise. Just my thoughts.
I agree the situation is so different today that in interfaith marriages the child will steer towards the parent who is more steadfast in their faith this is natural of course. And it’s important for child to have a framework.
@@sammycool3206 You are not being informative just mean. At the time she was not religious and not aware of Islamic law. She was married in every other way. Just consider how insensitive you sound. Please don’t respond back. Thank you.
@@sammycool3206 never said it was a fairy story. She had a hard life, plagued with war, a genocide survivor who helped so many people. You don’t know her. You are just a judgmental person convinced they are just saying the truth. She died before she probably was aware of it. She was a wonderful person and an amazing mother. Unlike you God is merciful. He has the whole story. Bye.
@@bosnianlady10 @sammycool3206 you are nobody to cast judgement, if her catholic father allowed her muslim mother to practise her faith and her children naturally were inclined to it, that is divine intervention in and of itself! Allah works in mysterious ways
I agree with you. The truth is the vast majority of Muslim men have taken the verse as a free for all to marry any woman who claims to be Christian or Jewish, but does not follow the faith remotely except for maybe celebrating some holidays. Chastity and modesty are principles in all three faiths but they're dying principles among modern day Christian and Jewish women
Allah knows best
Allah ﷻ says so clearly in the Quran.
In the Quran in verse (18:86) Allah said that the sun set each day in a spring of water. As the creator, Allah would know the truth. But apparently, He did not.
Quran 18.86: until he reached the setting ˹point˺ of the sun, *which appeared to him to be setting in a spring of murky water,* where he found some people.
it appeared to him! learn some basic language skills. have you never heard someone say; I saw the sun setting over the mountains or in the sea?
it is a very simple matter that is if a Muslim man marries a jew woman or a christian woman with big breasts, that after a few good beet- ings she would be very happy to convert to Islam. So it's only a timing difference
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The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Islam prevails and is not to be prevailed over." Also, because Allah decides everything out of his infinite wisdom, ultimately, we know there's a wisdom behind it. ❤ People who hate Islam use this to attack us, but they have no idea how amazing this religion is.
@@fedesetrtatio1 Your comment proves troublesome. First, Allah tells us the importance of worshipping Him alone, which is our purpose. The Quran "I did not create mankind and Jinn except to worship me." As for Hell, anyone who is given a warning and purposefully disobeys it deserves to be punished. On the other hand, those whom Allah loves and they obeyed Him will be granted forgiveness. A wise person takes the advice they're given, rather than arguing and causing fitnah.
Muslim like you would rather bury your head in the sand and find a way to regurgitate Islamic terrorism to suit your own political agenda. However, the Muslims behind the violence are very clear about the religious certainty that compels their actions.
"I am proud and honored to be a terrorist for the sake of Allah... This is Islamic religious law. I don't invent anything. I follow Islamic religious law in this." - These are the words of Umm Nidal, a Palestinian woman who sent her six sons on suicide missions against Jewish civilians in Israel.
"Verily Allah has purchased the lives of the believers that theirs shall be paradise. They fight in Allah's cause, so they kill and are killed... it will NEVER be over until the day that we see our lands governed by He Allah the almighty, whose law is complete." - From Samantha Lewthwaite, the so-called 'white widow' in a poem discovered shortly after the Westgate mall massacre in South Africa.
"Know that i am doing this martyrdom operation only for the sake of Allah and for His religion." - A 21-year-old member of al-Shabaab and former British college student who murdered 20 Africans.
Sahih Bukhari (62:81) - "The Prophet said: "'The stipulations most entitled to be abided by are those with which you are given the right to enjoy the (women's) private parts (i.e. the stipulations of the marriage contract).'"
According to Muhammad, the most important part of a marriage contract is the unrestricted access that a man has to his wife's vagina. In other words, the most important thing a Muslim woman brings to marriage is between her legs. (Nikah in Arabic is a term that refers to marriage in the Quran which literally means sexual intercourse)
Quran (2:223) - "Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will..."
Muslim men have authority over their wives' bodies as well as managing their land. Wives are to be sexually available to their husbands in every way at all times. And this verse is believed to refer to anal sex (see Bukhari 60:51), and was "revealed" when women complained to Muhammad about the practice. The phrase "when or how you will" means that women lost their case. 🤭
Islam prevails and is not to be prevailed over. Therein, in that desire to prevail, lies the problem. It's pretty arrogant actually, and imposes its will by force upon non-muslims, in the absence of any good reason. This is precisely why we have wars.
I'm a follower of Hinduism. Quantum physicists like Schroedinger and Heisenberg have found this worldview to be a very reasonable one, one that aligns with the observations of modern physics. The so called "polytheism" aligns very well with the archetypes of the "collective unconscious" of Dr. Carl Jung. The non-dualist mystical traditions of Hinduism also align perfectly well with Sufism (Islamic mysticism), I really don't see why anybody should genuflect before the Quran's diktats without good reason.
If Islam wishes to be respected by everyone, it has to get rid of this tyrannical attitude, this desire to prevail forcefully over everybody, and come to the table to discuss things reasonably/logically with others while not looking down on them. That's the only way forward. Muslims should look towards the Sufis, and prioritise direct experience of the divine. Maybe that alone will open their minds and enable acceptance of "others".
Muhammad who ??? ruclips.net/video/u5C0yk7cVZI/видео.html&ab_channel=TheArchive
It is to preserve islam.
If they had a choice, they would choose.
Why preserve a religion so intolerant and evil? Just let it fade away and the world will breathe a sigh of relief.
You kind of proved her point. Non Muslim men don't respect the religion and therefore would not give a Muslim woman her rights according to Islam
@@thedrasc1465how did this comment prove her point or disprove it? It seemed to be entirely different from her point
@@thedrasc1465 they won't even let the children pray.... They won't let muslim women to do fasting (roza) , may be initially they will let go....but after some years they'll be fed up and try to change her religiousness and of children's too.
I have seen this multiple times. And the end is divorce and depression , the future of children is also at stake.
@@thedrasc1465 Но в исламе запрещено выходить замуж за не мусульман, поэтому твою точку зрения нельзя подтвердить или опровергнуть на практике, следовательно она не имеет смысла. Но мы можем посмотреть на положение не мусульман в мусульманских странах и наоборот и сравнить кто и кому предоставляет больше прав. Например у христиан-коптов, которые являются коренным народом Египта и живут на своей земле, прав в разы меньше чем у любого мусульманина в Европе, который является инородцем. невероятно но факт. Ислам является самой нетерпимой и ксенофобской религией, а все разговоры мусульман о уважении и правах - обычное лицемерие. У не мусульманки, которая выйдет замуж за мусульманина даже на собственных детей прав не будет, у нее вообще не будет прав, только куча ограничений
We should remember those Christians and jews were different from today's time , so no muslim men should marry Christian or jew women they should only marry muslim women, today's Christians and Jews are really jews and Christians secondly main purpose of marriage is to grow pious together snd grow pious children together nobody wants their children to grow up bad, secondly as a muslim men its our responsibility that we should think if we start marrying Christian and jew than where will our muslim women go and what will go on their heart , and remember it is just a permission not a recommendation
This. Many people gloss over the fact that the books Allah sent, and the books that now exists are COMPLETELY altered and changed, meaning the christians and jews now commit shirk, which is the only sin that wont be forgiven by Allah. They also dont abide by the book, and are very modern unlike islam, a religion that cannot be modernised, and even if they do practice it right, they have false beliefs. Its MUCH better to have your children be raised by a muslim women then a kuffar.
Good point, but MusIim men can nika two girIs, I seen non Muslim girIs seek out brothers for nika and as leaders we should test to see if they will accept dawa. It was a case 3 cousins liked the Muslim Man, 1 Muslima and 2 non muslima.
There is too many week and jealous brothers and sisters who discourage this practice. Some sofia fake muslimas even call brothers zindiq, how eviI?
I've seen brothers marry women who are Atheist, Hindu, Agnostic, or anything else. Those marriages are all invalid. Why is no one speaking on this?
Marying someone that does not protect chastity and does not consider belief in God as essential, is not a good idea.
لا تحرم ما أحل الله
If muslim men can marry non muslim women, non muslim men CAN AND WILL marry muslim women
maybe but in general non muslim men not like hijabs and niqabs and all this so they prefer marry christians and other more :)
A Muslim man can Marry a non Muslim women but the vice versa is not allowed. This shows the bais in Islam .
Islam obligates men to care for and provide for women, but the vice versa is not obligatory. Is this bias too?
@@JustSmile.. Family is an organisation,where husband is the head of family and wife is his companion or helper. God has instructed man to provide for the family, both materialistically and spiritually, and woman was instructed to assist her husband in his duties. Both have their own obligations or responsibilities. Long before Islam , this standard was set by God in the Bible.
But we are not here talking about obligations or responsibilities. We are talking about RIGHTS. Having the RIGHT of marring more than one wife is given to men but for women, they can't marry more than one husband. Now, this is discriminatory!
If god made rules in bible than also ALLAH made rules in Quran so we can't question on them and Islam is the only religion which gives rights to women before islam there were no authentic rights for anybody and bible and Christians are fake there are plenty of different bibles but Quran is pure till now and only one there are no miss interpretations of quran @@arnoldjackson-q2j
@@arnoldjackson-q2j😂😂😂😂 If you talk about rights then its not necessary for a women to do What is men do . If Its so then men also should birth baby otherwise it would be a discrimination. According to your logic😂😂😂😂😂
If muslim men can marry non muslim women, non muslim men CAN AND WILL marry muslim women
The double standard isn’t fair. Nor is allowing men to marry 4 wives ok. And one prophet marrying a 13/14 year old girl can you please elaborate on this ?
It would be a double standard, but it's also not true, Al Quran clearly says that we cannot marry disbelieving women.
You can say a man marrying for women is not fair, but according to who you?
Why is it that we can have multiple wives in the first place?
Can a woman produce four children by four different men at one time?
Can a man produce four different children by four women at one time?
By what our book says does a woman have to be a part of a dual or quadruple marriage if she doesn't want to?
And lastly on the topic of marriage, did ALLAH not also say that even though HE said we can have four wives we should only take one, because otherwise we will transgress limits and get ourselves into trouble?
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@@jaqua7732 yes women have had two babies at once by two different men it is possible
On the topic of the Prophet Muhammad having married a child.
This is just another vicious lie against the prophet Muhammad pbuh regardless of it being a vicious lie that even Muslims tell.
All I need to know about the situation, is what Al Quran says about the rules and regulations surrounding marriage.
Do you know what it says on that matter?
@@jaqua7732 Surah Al-Mumtahanah 10 states that disbelievers are not lawful husbands for Muslim women, and Muslim women are not lawful wives for disbelievers. However, the verse also states that it is permissible to marry a disbeliever if their Mahr has been paid, and that the disbeliever can ask for the return of their Mahr….weird how money makes this an exception to the “rule” lol
@@TTKS818 do you see how disingenuous you are, did I ask if one woman could have a baby by two different men?
Mashallah sister well spoken and explained, I’m assuming that you are fluent in Arabic…A muslim man is allowed to marry from Jews and Christians but a main condition put is only chaste women! المائدة verse 5, المحصنات so this condition is hard to meet in today’s non muslim community…
what about big breasts?
Christian and Jews women never marry muslim men because you people never allowed muslim women to marry to Christian or jew men
Unless you are referring to Amish or menonite Christians. But its permissible not a requirements. For a Muslim to marry a Christian woman there needs to be really darn good reason. There are 1.6+ billion Muslims. That should not be a problem unless ignorant ones in our ummah is holding our next generation hostage by unusual demands exaggerated mehr, wealth, standards, etc. More are converting everyday both men and women enlarging our Muslim marriage pool more.
There a neightbore who it's daughter married to a Christian man, and Both child end up being splited into two religion since their grandmother from the father side want the Boy to be a Christian and the grandmother from the mother side want the daughter being a Muslim.
This woman who married Christian their Father is a Christian and the mother is Muslim.
So yeah, their history already speak of itself. Even thought their are good people, they still on the wrong side of things.
Just curb your desires and Follow the right path, You will be save in this world and the hereafter.
I personally know muslim women who are married to non-muslim men and the wives are allowed to follow their religion without any disruptions and their husbands even respect their religion without any objections! They are in fact very happy couples!
إن كانوا كذلك فزواجهم غير صحيح في الإسلام فهم يخالفون أساسا مهما وهو الدين. النقطه الثانيه صدقني سيحصل تقصير و عدم تفاهم من أزواجهم لأن الرجل في الإسلام هو من يكون قائما وصابرا على حقوق المرأه أكثر منها والذي يستحيل أن تجده عند شخص غير مسلم ينقصه فهم هذه التعاليم
@@LL-ns8mg No! Wrong! I know them personally! Religion does not come in between them! They have been married for ages! The women even say that the kind of respect their current non muslim husbands give them, they did not get it with their previous husbands who were muslim! So they divorced and then re-married non muslim men.
@@Backstreets247
هههههههه هل أنت متأكد من كلامك أو انك تريد تشويه سمعه الدين؟
أنا لا أقول أن المسلمين جميعهم متشابهين في الأخلاق ولكنهم مقارنه مع غيرهم أكثر إلتزاما وتحفظا للحقوق والواجبات الزوجيه
@@Backstreets247You may be right. And the couple may be a happy couple. But... the woman doing continues adultery according to Islam, which she is still following! What is point of still following a religion and then breaking its one of the core principle!
@@picachuface Because the core principle of this religion is completely pointless and makes no sense.......since it's been disproven end number of times! That's exactly what I'm trying to say!
Alhumdullilah Allah knows his creation better than we know ourselves 😊😊😊
I m proud of you. There are the girls like you still. May Allah protect you from evil eyes. May Allah always keep you happy
Beautifully explained. I liked where you clarified that we are making logical assumption why Allah forbade us as he didnt told the reasons. otherwise what happened is some sister who are in these relationship say her partner isnt like that, he dont force me, he let me practice etc
Muslim girls marry non muslim men too
Masha'allah Sister, Your explanations are well appreciated. May ALLAH continue to guide, bless and protect you. Jazakallahu Khair.
Great explanation
May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤
Aameen summa Aameen ❤
Alhamdulillah, nice explanations from you sis...😊
It's a ancient jew and Christian. Not jew and Christian today.
1. You are not right
2. An ancient*. We use "an" article before the vowel
Women follow the religion of their spouses and men are the head of the household.
Quran 7.157.
Men can show how Quran completes bibIe and fixes it.
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 No, this shows the short comings of Qur'an.
A Muslim man can Marry a non Muslim but a Muslim woman can't do the same, this shows the bais in Qur'an, for GOD is impartial.
While in Bible both men and women are not allowed to marry a non Christian , for this can lead to spiritual conflict.
@@arnoldjackson-q2j
Nope it shows man is leader just like in polygyny but in bibIe they regress.
Quran fix bibIe too. & in bibIe pauI I think says both can mary outside.
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 no, Paul never stated christians to marry outside but only in LORD means in Christian faith.
Second, polygyny is not a Gods standard, it is true that at start of Jews history,God allowed them to practice polygamy for sometime, but this was meant to increase their population so that they can become a nation. But Jesus Christ stated standard of one woman for one man ,as Adam had only Eve. This is the original standard of God with respect to marriage. Moreover, polygamy is accounted to be equal to adultery in Bible by Jesus Christ.
@@arnoldjackson-q2j 1. Incorrect. Polygyny started with Sara offering Hajr as a 2nd wife to Ibrahim so he can have Ismail if the covenant.* So it was allowed in Islam before jueduh.
2. You have no bibIe evidence Jesus prohibit polygyny.
* bibIe isn't preserved but it's oldest versions proof Islam true.
Ylt Hebrew in genesis 17 it says Ismail is given 12 princes AND covenant is with Ishaq. So includes both , but in english they change the and into but.
Thank you so much for making this sister. I've wondered about this a lot, and now I finally understand 🤗💗
This is totally Misguiding
I think the key is because Islam is a missionary religion. It wants to expand
of course we want to expand that part is obvious
@@cryptiik9311 I agree the expansionism is more obvious. As with the other great missionary rival Christianity one can see the competition to expand first. Not all faiths are pledged on expansionism but emphasis on the Abrahamic ideologies is like you said expansionism.
لا يوجد شيء اسمه ديانات ابراهيمية إبراهيم عليه الصلاة والسلام لم يكن يهوديا او نصرانيا بل كان حنيفا مسلما ولم يكن من المشركين وهذا بنص القرآن وجميع الانبياء والرسل عليهم الصلاة والسلام أيضا كلهم مسلمون @@Zeitaluq
@@mahamedrahman5453 Sorry you make no sense as I do not understand your language
@@Zeitaluq اتكلم عن الديانات الابراهيمية التي ذكرتها لا يوجد شيء مثل هذا
May Allah bless you Sister!
If a Muslim man marries a Christian and Jewish girl, he respects her religion because it is part of his faith to believe prophet Jesus and prophet Moses. However, if Christian and Jewish man marries a Muslim woman, he does not believe in prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, so he will abuse her spiritually and emotionally
Does this paralyzed thinking help you to sleep well at night?
Don`t use your opinion as a "kind of hadith" that's very weak
الأمر ليس كذلك نحن لا نحترم اي باطل لأنهم لا يتبعون موسى او عيسى عليهم الصلاة والسلام بل نحن أولى بالانبياء منهم لأننا اتبعنا اساس رسالة جميع الانبياء والرسل عليهم الصلاة والسلام التوحيد اساس دعوة الانبياء والرسل عليهم الصلاة والسلام وزواج الرجل المسلم من اليهودية او النصرانية بشروط وليس مطلقا يجب أن تكون المرأة مُحصنة يعني شريفة لا تزني والعياذ بالله وهذا لا تجده الان في أغلب هذه النساء
All are human being. You do not have the basic knowledge of human life 😀
I am Muslim, and even I am thinking something wrong with ur explanation, same as the girl in this video. Cause its same argument Hindu men use trying to secure Muslim women.
So many muslim men can be abusive and don't follow these obligations at all but non-muslim men can respect their wives belief. Also, non-muslim women don't always accept islam. In 2:221 it says that you are allowed to marry a partner who's a believer (regardless if man or woman) which means women are allowed to also marry christians and jews ❤
no it's not true, stop putting out false information. Muslim women aren't allowed to marry none-muslim men. They are only allowed if the none believing men accept islam. It isn't talking about other religious that the men accept to marry a muslim woman
Nope dear christians of rightious path are not availabale they are mostly athiest and are practising idol worship in chruches as well.
@@nehaasharijit6523 I was talking about real christians and they're not atheists.
Nope, you do not understand what 2:221 is talking about at all.
It's clearly referring to "believing" as in Muslims. The point of the verse was to say that marrying slaves who have converted to Islam is better than marrying a polytheist challenging the classism of Arabian society where a slave or an ex-slave was seen as lower than a free person.
@@iridoscyclitis Ok if that's so, then tell me how the "scholars" interpreted from that verse that muslim men can marry christian and jewish women because last time i checked it means the people of the book. I'll wait.
Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuhu sister! Jazāk Allāhu Khayran for this video!
Beautiful teachings, Sister! May Allah SWT reward and bless you!
Thank you for this it's very insightful Masha Allah.
Welcome to the RUclips sister ❤🎉
I am a new Subscriber from San Francisco California, well come to RUclips and hope your chanel grow faster, alhamdulila your explanation is great
If muslim men can marry non muslim women, non muslim men CAN AND WILL marry muslim women
If muslim men can marry non muslim women, non muslim men CAN AND WILL marry muslim women
May Allah grant us all a righteous spouse that is the coolness of our eyes, the ease of our hearts, and May He allow us to walk through the gates of Jannah together.
sure. why not say allah grant men a wive who cant refuse sex, who accepts violence if the husband 'fears' disobiedience and has no ghira or jealousy that the patriarch can marry 4 women.
also allah grant the muslim men who are the worlds most uneducated and iliterate statistically in 2024 women who will do what theyre told smh
beautifully explained, thank you. I was always confused about this topic, but i knew it was for the better, and Allah is All- Knowing, All-Wise
Good explanation thanks sister for helping other with this
Bec. this is a men conquering religion. Logic.
It's basically just a glorified form of mate-guarding
religion guarding* Is the nonmuslim man allowing her to raise her kids islamically? yeah i dont think so and the man most likely has the authority/power/etc so its almost just common sense even without it being an explicit religious ruling. Dont like that males are typically the guardians/protectors/responsible for women? well then go live on another planet ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I love your analytical and very differentiated approach by referring to the scholars opinions and to logic. Keep going smart girl mashaAllah. May Allah redward you and Salamat from your sister from Germany
Nice explanation, may Allah bless you sister
1 Corinthians 7: 39 clearly says that a Christian, whether man or woman, should marry only in LORD, means should marry only in Christian faith.
She is speaking about Islamic faith rulings not Christianity
Really, but I see a lot of women marrying Muslim men. I don’t mean to insult or anything. I’m just learning. Are there different opinions, for example, because they say it is acceptable? May God bless you.😊
@@luvciel-x6l The so-called Christians do many things that are against the teachings of Bible. God has mentioned his principles in the Bible, but he don't force people to follow it ,as Jesus said only true Christians will worship God with Truth and Spirit( John 4: 23,24)
@@luvciel-x6lmuslim girls also marry non muslim men
ولكنكم مع الأسف لاتتبعون تعاليم دينكم مالسر ياترى ؟
In the country where I live two people can marry independent of their religion.
Masha Allah Sister. Excellent distinguisxplanation. May almaighty Allah take care of you.
As a muslim man , I personally would never marry a non muslim women. Why risk my akhira for this short life.
Because Islam sets aside love and prioritizes its expansion. I am an Iraqi ex-Muslim and I can tell you that Islam does not allow this because it only cares about spreading to more people; having kids means adding more Muslims to the Muslim population. It goes under the assumption that more than likely a man's influence is greater than the woman's and thus he might sway her into leaving Islam. This is an insult to the idea of love because that means that it doesn't matter how much you love him, how kind this person is, how loyal, how good and suitable as a partner he is, if he does not share the same ideas by being a Muslim, you can't marry him. That is ridiculous in my opinion and I feel sad for couples going through this experience.
LOL. If that was the case, Muslim men would be allowed to marry pagans, atheist, Zoroastrians too. Or didn't God want Muslims to expand into those areas? Stay mad Ex-Muslim. We are not missing you. Also falling in love with someone necessitates you knowing them intimately. Islam doesn't allow intermixing. So, if you are not a cultural Muslim who doesn't care much about their religion, you wouldn't fall in love with even a Muslim man let alone a non-Muslim man anyway. And if you are a cultural Muslim who is disobeying God all the time in every aspect of their life, why are you so bothered about this one issue? So that you can play victim and cry about it?
Lol tell that to the west where cheating, hookup culture, divorces, children being born out of wedlock, OF girls are being normalized😂😂
"Ex-Muslim" 🤡
These folks are usually the ones with the least knowledge, and have the most to say.
If you're Iraqi, I'm assuming you can speak Arabic (then again I won't be surprised if you cannot do that too).
"و من أياته أن خلق لكم من أنفسكم أزواجا لتسكنوا إليها و جعل بينكم مودة و رحمة"
The word "مودة" means compassion. Why did Allah mention compassion and not love? Because love is hormonal, it fluctuates. Oxytocin, seratonin, dopamine and endorphins are all love hormones. Compassion on the other hand is consistent. You're mad at your wife, but you still have to treat her right. That compassion is what leads to love. He paired compassion with mercy "رحمة" because that's the foundation of a solid marriage, not that Disney idea of prince charming and "love at first sight" lol.
Nonsense. Nice try anyway
Hmm..people in the west cheated too.. besides eternal love is with God. Our main goal is going to jannah. Marriage is to attain peace.. and a secure family life that is serve to protect the children. Just look at the stats in the west..fatherless homes are highly likely to produce troublesome kids/future felon, criminals.
Muslim man can marry the "people of the book". There are many conditions in which if we think properly, none or very very few meets the criteria.
Where are those conditions from though? The problem is that the Qu'ran does not set any specific and objective requirements. At best some of them can be derived from hadith but the vast majority seem to be the reasoning according to scholars. Criteria like the partner being "actively religious" is up to subjective determination. As a result, barely anyone scrutinizes the religiosity of a non-Muslim partner in an interfaith marriage.
Simple truthful answer. OPPRESSION.
Highest children born out of wedlock, OF girls, divorces are in the west😂😂😂
Yeah, thats why feminism movement originated from the western women cuz they apparently feel super oppressed & unsafe in their own "FREE" society, & not from muslim women in their supposedly "oppressed" society, right? 🤭 what a perfect logic. And that's why Islam is the FASTEST growing religion by convert rate & 70% of converts in the west are women despite all the media propaganda, right? Yeah, so according to ur standard, women LOOOVEEEEE to be oppressed. Cry about it 🤣 women around the world are waking up & massively converting to this OPPRESSIVE religion 😇 get ready cuz a few decades from now Islam is predicted to beat christianity as the No.1 biggest, most followed religion on earth. Once again, Allah's promise always come true 😌
Hahaha . I met so many non Muslim men. I never saw as much dis respect with these non Muslims. They ask for 50/50 relationships and use you just for pleasure for many years and then go to other women. Islam is true respect and I cannot imagine marrying outside my faith.
How are women in Islam oppressed? Are u delusional ?
Yes you're being oppressed honey which is why you're hating on us Muslims. Also don't act like you know our religion Islam better than us Muslims do.
Sister, first of all, there is no consensus on Muslim men marrying non-Muslim women in a *non-Muslim* country. Also the ruling is not unfair to the Muslim woman. It is unfair to the children of the Muslim father. Islam allows men to marry non-Muslim women under circumstances that his children will be raised as Muslims. That is possible in a Muslim country, but it may not be possible in a non-Muslim country. This is why many Muslim scholars have
prohibited inter faith marriages in the West for precisely that reason. in fact, even inside a Muslim country, it is not easy to raise a child as a Muslim if the mother - the primary nurturer - is a non-Muslim. Another thing you are missing is that Islam puts the burden of religious upbringing entirely on the father (another reason why Marriage between a Muslim woman and a non-Muslim man is discouraged ) Unfortunately, in today’s world, the fathers are not as involved in the upbringing of their children. If is haram to raise your children as non-Muslim
Peace to all our Muslim sisters! 🤲
Thank you for the information. May GOD continue to bless you
MashAllah. Beautifully explained dear sister. May He see it fit to reward you with good.
knowledge is power 🌎
beautiful guidance of Allah, through the beautifully articulate words of this sister by the permission of Allah swt. may Allah give u and me barakah; wasilah of prophet Muhammad pbuh
...I am looking into Islam and found your video to be 'accommodating'. Many Thanks
This video raises a number of thoughts:
1) Considering the long description given of the 'duties of the husband',....one begins to wonder why would any Muslim man even want to get married at all, considering the apparently long list of "duties" and absence of receiving anything? There seems to be no benefit to the man if this description is accurate! It seems from this video that Muslim marriage is all about rights and duties that a Muslim man must fulfil to a Muslim woman,....which sounds like a job description and certainly alien to a loving marriage in which a man and woman love each other deeply and seek each other's best interests.
2) While I can follow the logic to a degree of the Muslim woman not marrying a "non Muslim" because he would not have the values expected for a Muslim marriage, it should be acknowledged that many Muslim men are not having these values either, because they are culturally Muslim and not religious in practice....in which case, being a Muslim man is not a guarantee of anything!
3) The teaching that a Muslim man can however marry a non Muslim woman who is a practicing Christian or practicing Jew, is however hypocritical and I would suggest made for the advantage of such men. However, the reason given for the Muslim woman in (2) should also apply to the Muslim man in that his values may not be respected by his 'Christian or Jewish wife', in which case, this teaching is not just hypocritical but very poor!
4) A practicing Christian or practicing Jew, is very unlikely to marry a Muslim! I'm not saying it hasn't happened or can't happen, but certainly from a Christian perspective this would be disobedience to God and therefore someone doing this, would in effect, not be truly following Jesus as a Christian and a practicing Jewish woman would want a practicing Jewish man, not a Muslim.
5) The speaker in the video makes certain presumptions about non Muslim men, by saying that they wouldn't respect a Muslim woman following her religion or support her etc - but this amounts to prejudice against non Muslim men, by making presumptions about them based upon imagination of what "a non Muslim man must be like" - which could totally inaccurate. It is possible for a non Muslim man to respect such a wife and support her, without himself being a Muslim. But moreover another presumption was made in the video, that a Muslim man can marry a practicing Christian or Jew and that he is to "respect her faith and religion and support her in it"....but this actually is only again presumption - he may not! So some of this video is based upon bias/prejudice and presumption, while other parts of it are logical.
Well thought out thinking points here. I suppose this fits in the so-called seventh century of the Common Era. Islam as with prior faiths is a missionary religion and actually at one time I think people of the book included the Zoroastrians whom were also monotheistic in a particular way. As with Judaism and Christian denominations Islam also seeks to have an identity I think as a nation like the other Abrahamic faiths called an Ummah. However the issues is in the early days these faiths competed against each other. Hence they do not want to lose the women so to speak because that means the women have key to the future and hence the females are like gold dust. Hence the strategy is laid out in scripture verses of any Abrahamic faith
Muslim man completes faith in bibIe as comforter Jesus prays for in jon 14 is in jon 16.13, the deut 18.18 prophet like Moses aka prophet Muhammad peace & blessings be on him.
Christianity and Judaism don't allow the woman to initiate a divorce. The woman would be trapped with the man by law by Christian and Judaic values. Islam permits any woman to divocre the husband if the marriage isn't functioning.
A Muslim man and woman benefit from marriage. In Islam , a woman obeys her husband. She's supposed to be grateful and do what he says. She guards the property in her chastity in his absence. She will be one who bears his children. She cooks, cleans, and makes herself look nice for him. She's not permitted to deny intimacy to her husband, except during menstruation or post natal bleeding. A woman is not allowed to leave the house without her husband's permission or divorce without a valid reason. She could literally die giving birth. Men are supposed to be protectors and providers. That's the role Allah designed. He has the right to marry up to 4 wives.
@@shimmer4771 re: _"He has the right to marry up to 4 wives."_ = Adultery
Very well explained Masha Allah and she covered all the important points.
Tunisia changed this law in 2022, which allows non muslim men to marry muslim women. I am a former muslim turned christian who married a tunisian. I think the laws are changing, i am originally from India where we have many muslim men marrying non muslim women and many muslim women marrying non muslim men.
May Allah not bless Tunisia until they change especially who made that decision but guide them to return to following Islam.
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 that law is changing in many countries, even sudan who removed islam as the state religion now allows muslim women to marry non muslim men. Tunisia removed islam as the state religion in 2022 too.
@@grapejuiceboy They oppose sharia where man can have more then 1 wife but many gf is ok. hypocrisy. MusIim men will take many wives anyway. Islam is also spreading, salafi not batil Sofia bida. Why you become Christian if Islam is truth?
@@grapejuiceboy They oppose sharia polygyny but say many gf is ok. hypocrisy. MusIim men take many wives anyway. Islam spreading, salafi not Sofia bida. Why you become Christian if Islam is haqq?
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 islam is actually declining in the east, Last year 1 million people in Pakistan left it, hundreds are leaving islam in India, Indonesia, Tunisia and Iran are rapidly declining with islam. I left islam because I don't believe that it is the truth anymore.
Very Informative! I always thought My Sisters could marry non-Muslim men, But I understand why Allah said this! May Allah reward and protect the Sisters of Islam no matter who they marry!
Nice islamic knowledge about the life of muslims great fantastic vedio
Well explained
MashaahAllah
But no many trying to learn and understand our deen. May Allah guide us all. Ameen
Sister ❤❤ may ALLAH bless you for to Conway the Islamic faith teachings. A brother in faith from Italy
Not only Muslim Women but also Muslim Men can not marry Non-Muslim Women. Muslim Men could marry Non-Muslim Women(Only Ahle Kitab) during the time of Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) because then Muslims had very low female population . After Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) passed away, it is not permissable to any Muslim/Muslima to marry a non muslima/muslim.
You are not right. Show us the source where this is said
It literally says in the Quran that Muslim men are allowed to marry only practicing Christian and Jewish women, while Muslim women should only marry Muslim men.
Were this true, it would have been abrogated in the Qur'an during the final verses that were revealed after virtually all of Arabia had converted to Islam.
"A muslim man can marry women of other faiths but muslim women cant"
sounds so logical, secular, respecting free will of women and what not. :|
of course that first sentence is the only thing you took from the video 😂 also, Islam is not secular - and doesn’t have to be :)
@@mariaelyoussifSister, then why Allah allows muslim Men to marry girls of other faiths if islam is not secular and tolerant toward other faiths.
@@Chikku_meena because those are faiths sent down by god himself… also its people of the book aka not seculars or polytheists.
A Muslim woman has more rights than other religions and ideas, and a Muslim man has many obligations and responsibilities towards his wife.
So, if a non-Muslim does not fulfill Muslim women’s rights, how will we hold him accountable? He will say: Why should I do that? I am a non-Muslim.
As for the Muslim man, if he does not fulfill her rights, we will be able to sue him
Even a Muslim woman has rights over sexual intercourse with her husband
There is a saying that says whoever is safe from punishment misbehaves
The rule is not the exception and the exception is not the rule
Stay aware
By the way there is no "exception" in this matter. It is fornication in sharia period. Let's see what the Quran says about it:
وَلَا تَنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْمُشْرِكَـٰتِ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنَّ ۚ وَلَأَمَةٌۭ مُّؤْمِنَةٌ خَيْرٌۭ مِّن مُّشْرِكَةٍۢ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَتْكُمْ ۗ وَلَا تُنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْمُشْرِكِينَ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنُوا۟ ۚ وَلَعَبْدٌۭ مُّؤْمِنٌ خَيْرٌۭ مِّن مُّشْرِكٍۢ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَكُمْ ۗ أُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ يَدْعُونَ إِلَى ٱلنَّارِ ۖ وَٱللَّهُ يَدْعُوٓا۟ إِلَى ٱلْجَنَّةِ وَٱلْمَغْفِرَةِ بِإِذْنِهِۦ ۖ وَيُبَيِّنُ ءَايَـٰتِهِۦ لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمْ يَتَذَكَّرُونَ
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interpretation:
Do not marry polytheistic women until they believe; for a believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist, even though she may look pleasant to you. And do not marry your women to polytheistic men until they believe, for a believing slave-man is better than a free polytheist, even though he may look pleasant to you. They invite you to the Fire while Allah invites ˹you˺ to Paradise and forgiveness by His grace.He makes His revelations clear to the people so perhaps they will be mindful. surah baqarah ayat 221.
The important think to see is the word " وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَكُمْ" even if he pleases you. The word أَعْجَبَ is important here because that meaning something impresses and pleases. Thus, Allah is quite aware of our feelings and emotions informing you that you can fall in "love" situation like a non Muslim and its giving us STRONG WARNINGS ABOUT THAT DANGER. look what Quran also says in the same verse, "they CALL YOU TO THE FIRE" أُولَٰئِكَ يَدْعُونَ إِلَى النَّارِ, thus there is no exception regardless how nice, respectful, he treats you, etc. there is no exception from fire when committing this act. Thus, I will never marry a polytheist women ever!
Thanks shaykha innit
very well explained👍
In the Quran it is written- for the believer women there is believer man and for believer man there is believer women
Because the Muslim women would be prone to leave Islam and also her kids.
Thats because Islam is only a postive for the men 😂
I am a Christian and there was a girl in high school I had a crush on but when I heard her name and realized that she was Muslim, I immediately backed off because I knew very well that I would likely get her in trouble with her family. So, we ended up being friends instead.
I m Muslim man here, Any Muslims women want married just tell me, i will accept first 4😂
☪ Chapter: Regarding Hitting Women
Iyas ibn Abdullah ibn Abu Dhubab reported the Messenger of Allah as saying:
Do not beat Allah's handmaidens, but when Umar came to the Messenger of Allah and said: Women have become emboldened towards their husbands, he (the Prophet) gave permission to beat them. >
You keep talking about rights and equality…. But it’s not equal. Guys in Islam have more rights than women. So many jumah prayers do guys skew the words and teachings to favor the men. Men and women should be equal. The Quran was written during a different time. I know many non Muslim husbands who respect Muslim women more than Muslim husband.
Can marry but have to leave Islam.
what if a muslim woman falls in love with the non muslim man?
A Muslim man or woman loves their Creator, who created them, and His Messenger more than their family and themselves, as our Messenger told us.
This is achieved by learning Islam more and more
@@ahmedmorgan6831 Doesn't answer my question....
@@Ruisan-yr9xu she cant stay in contact as long as the man isnt a muslim.
@mriconic0 no offense another question, If your children one day decide that they don't want to stay muslim than should you cut off all contact with them? genuine question....
That's a great question, only a crazy person will abandon their child because they disagree.@@Ruisan-yr9xu
Just as there could be Muslim men who don't follow Allah's commands, there can be non-Muslim men who love their wives and follow how she wishes to be treated, which would fall in line with Allah's commands.
Please just marry within the faith it’s a little bit easier
MashaAllah sister very beautiful knowledge you have.
Muslims women have more higher values mothers sisters wifes daughters the status of mother (heaven is under her feet) check out
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Any man who has a daughter, does not slight her, does not prefer his son over her, and raises her until she reaches maturity will enter Paradise." Another Hadith, the Prophet Muhammed (peace upon him) said, "The only one more merciful than a mother is Allah." In the Quran Allah says, "Whoever works righteous, whether male or female, while he (or she) is a true believer, such will enter Paradise, not the least injustice shall be done."
It's called love and respect for one another. This is why you religious people don't understand about true love and don't respect other people.
hypocrisy
A Muslim woman has more rights than other religions and ideas, and a Muslim man has many obligations and responsibilities towards his wife.
So, if a non-Muslim does not fulfill Muslim women’s rights, how will we hold him accountable?
He will say: Why should I do that? I am a non-Muslim. As for the Muslim man, if he does not fulfill her rights, we will be able to sue him
Even a Muslim woman has rights over sexual intercourse with her husband
There is a saying that says whoever is safe from punishment misbehaves
The rule is not the exception and the exception is not the rule
It is not hypocrisy, because the sexes are different from each other. There are things that are bad for women but not for men. It would be hypocrisy to forbid or condemn a thing but to commit it yourself. But this is not the case here. If men and women were equal both physically and psychologically then one could argue that, but women and men are different both physically and psychologically.
@@yusufmuller5178and vice versa. For example, in Islam, men are not allowed to wear gold or silk, but a woman can.
No, it's not. Allah designed this out of his infinite wisdom. Do not say this. You just disagree.
@@ahmedmorgan6831 why she wear burkha not men ?
I’m a Muslim at heart and soul. My sister married a non Muslim men, my family disowned her for life.
Good 👍
THAN your sister is no more Muslim and your sister don't do nikkah so she is not marry she just doing zinah
This is the effect of secular education. Your family didn't give your sister Islamic education beside. Probably your from India?
@@AnwarHossain-ej4md We’re from Bangladeshi, doesn’t matter if it’s India or Pakistan, Islamic law goes to all the Muslims around the world.
Good for her.
She gained a husband, and lost nothing of worth.
Also, if a man is a non-Muslim, how is he supposed to lead me as a woman in prayer? Will I fast Ramadan alone? Will I teach Islam to my kids alone? Will I go to church with him on Christmas or Easter? I mean. How will I respect him if he does not say la Ila ha illAllah Muhammad Rassoulullah? 🤔.
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Does most of this not equally apply to non-Muslim women with Muslim men as well? The men will also have to fast Ramadan alone, they will have to teach Islam to the kids alone, and they will also feel obligated to partake in their partner's religious celebrations to some degree. Muslim men somehow manage to respect their partners despite them not committing to the shahada but this is something somehow beyond Muslim women? Of course, the only way this would not apply to Muslim men is that if that means that they would be pushing their partners to do all of those Islamic things with them.
A recent matter was brought to my attention. I was wondering if you could please make a video about the following situation:
A Muslim man and his Muslim wife live together, where the man discovers years after marriage his wife is a staunch Feminist. Her Feminist beliefs and values are causing havoc in the marriage.
What should they do? It's heading towards divorce for all the wrong reasons.
"where the man discovers years after marriage his wife is a staunch Feminist"
Why did this take years to discover? Did the man not bother to get to know the woman whatsoever before he got married? They never discussed their outlook on gender roles, how work would be divided in the household, how the kids would be raised, etc. before they decided to get married?
If Allah never made a reason to his decisions then we shouldn’t make “logical” answers. You can’t argue and reason with Allah. His word is the last and we need to accept it. No explanation is needed.
No free will in Islam
Sister, many brothers are looking for good Modest and Islam practicing sisters for marriage. If you are not finding a husband. Just consider that please, what are brothers seeing? Visa versa I'm sure.
People need to know this detailed reason behind why that is the case. Not just to take it as an offense
Assalamu alaikum Sister * This Uncle Mohamed * May Allah JFO grant you Jannatul Firdaus for the sound Dawah you're doing * As per following verse in the Quran: Fussilat 41:33 And who is better in speech than one who invites to Allah and does righteousness and says, "Indeed, I am of the Muslims. * God bless
💚Great Explanation 😍
In Christianity, it is strongly discouraged for either sex to marry someone from a different religion. It creates unnecessary complications, especially when raising kids.
May Allah reward you ameen
A faith system believes that people that follow it are saved and those that do not follow it are condemned in the afterlife. If we go by the book, Christians cannot marry non-Christians. Jews cannot marry non-Jews (atleast not anyone that does not follow the Naohide laws). Also, non-hindus are not even part of the caste system and do not follow the dharma anyway, thus they are condemned.
When this is The Norm in all places (going by the book of those faiths), people like to pick on Islam and Muslims.
this is quite literally the first time i’ve ever seen a muslim woman speak this logically on this matter. i’ve used the exact same points and many more against MUSLIM WOMEN and they still somehow don’t understand and continue to argue for the sake of arguing
may allah grant you jannat-al firdaws as well as a righteous spouse that makes the path to jannah for both you and him easy
Brothers and sisters, please be careful when we are interpreting the Quran verses.
May Allah (SWT) keep us steadfast on his deen, ameen.
Yes, it's best to be done by a scholar or sheikh or anyone of knowledge.
@@shimmer4771
It is also fard for MusIims to seek knowledge and teach it per Sura Asr.
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 This may be true, but a scholar, sheikh, or religious leader generally is more qualified to speak on these issues. They can best do it since they're of knowledge.
mashallah tabarakallah Allahumma barik . So eloquent.
Well said. This is great thought. Every religion should adopt this😂😂. Marry in their own religion.
In islam marriage is considered as holy. Marriage completes half faith.
If anyone marries non Muslims they lose their faith in Islam because it’s haram relationship. All deeds, prayers and charity wasted. Because it becomes lifelong zina.
Even if you marry a non believer you cannot call yourself a Muslim . Calling yourself Muslim being in haram relationship is like throwing water in sea. It doesn’t make any sense
❤ In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. To believe in ۟ and for the servant of a good one, and if you like you, if I am in your widespread, and if I am Forgiveness with his permission, and his time is clear to people, so that they may remember}
[Surah Al-Baqarah: 221]❤❤❤
We are all human beings. We are no different from each other. Any man and woman united by love are therefore eligible for marriage. Religions divide human beings and offer human beings nothing but hatred, division, hatred, and inherited historical grudges.
In Islam it goes too much about Laws,not about the God of Love.