Currently going through this “not good enough for anything phase”. What helps is that, you do things in a way that YOU think is good and what satisfies you, subconsciously or consciously. And your opinion of good and their opinion of good can differ because of their experiences and the content that they were exposed to. So, subconsciously, your work will always be a 25/20 to yourself (unless you’re a perfectionist) while they’ll see it as a 19/20 or less because they haven’t seen some stuff that you did or they’ve seen just different stuff. So, you’ll never be good enough for anyone but yourself. So, next time if someone likes you and your work, good, if they don’t still good. The reason why you think you don’t like yourself or you hate yourself or you feel bad is because your conscious mind is internalising their opinions more than your own opinions for various reasons traumas can be a factor. But yeah, at the end of the day you’re still amazing because you know it and no one can have a valid opinion of you than yourself.
Hello! I hope you're having a great today and that you're doing better. Life gets rough, but you have no idea how strong you are. You don't know me, and I dont know you either, but I am proud that you decided to get up and live today. It might not seem like it, but that is a huge step everyday. Keep the diaries going, I will be watching these full of hope that one day you will achieve your happiness. Sincerely, Sliskoo
You're so beautiful bestie- proud of you everyday ily💕💕💕
Currently going through this “not good enough for anything phase”. What helps is that, you do things in a way that YOU think is good and what satisfies you, subconsciously or consciously. And your opinion of good and their opinion of good can differ because of their experiences and the content that they were exposed to. So, subconsciously, your work will always be a 25/20 to yourself (unless you’re a perfectionist) while they’ll see it as a 19/20 or less because they haven’t seen some stuff that you did or they’ve seen just different stuff. So, you’ll never be good enough for anyone but yourself. So, next time if someone likes you and your work, good, if they don’t still good. The reason why you think you don’t like yourself or you hate yourself or you feel bad is because your conscious mind is internalising their opinions more than your own opinions for various reasons traumas can be a factor. But yeah, at the end of the day you’re still amazing because you know it and no one can have a valid opinion of you than yourself.
Hello! I hope you're having a great today and that you're doing better. Life gets rough, but you have no idea how strong you are. You don't know me, and I dont know you either, but I am proud that you decided to get up and live today. It might not seem like it, but that is a huge step everyday. Keep the diaries going, I will be watching these full of hope that one day you will achieve your happiness.
Sincerely, Sliskoo