Why You Keep Attracting Narcissists

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 71

  • @alexandriajenkins9295
    @alexandriajenkins9295 2 месяца назад +13

    Excellent interview! As someone who survived a narcissist, it is very empowering to be able to leave. Anger and faith is what helped give me energy to say enough. Thanks for sharing this!

  • @meenameena-dd2zy
    @meenameena-dd2zy 16 дней назад

    This was an excellent interview. I used to be married to a narcissist. Before the word "narcissist" became a catch phrase, we used to call it egotistical. Thank God we're no longer married, and have NO intentions of ever going back, because my life is more peaceful; but I pray for him. I hope he gets help eventually.

  • @Twinkzification
    @Twinkzification Месяц назад +2

    healthy confidence is very different from narcissism!!!!

  • @20pearlzrock32
    @20pearlzrock32 2 месяца назад +13

    Thank you for sharing. This is my soon to be ex-husband. I didn’t realize until we got married. He was a totally different person in the courtship and showed his true self afterwards and more so once I got pregnant. I got my fill when I went into labor 2 months early because of stress. I filed for divorce after my child was discharged from the NICU and saw he didn’t care about us.

  • @Practitionher
    @Practitionher 2 месяца назад +15

    They are asking ALL the questions , that we , the viewers wants to know ❤

    • @jesusisable7052
      @jesusisable7052 2 месяца назад +2

      This is True ! I like that she said do self evaluation during interactions with narcissists. Are you agreeing with stuff that you don’t agree with .

    • @wendyb17
      @wendyb17 2 месяца назад

      💗

    • @wendyb17
      @wendyb17 2 месяца назад

      @@jesusisable7052 💗

  • @whprose
    @whprose Месяц назад +2

    First and foremost, I really commend you guys on casting such a wide net in your topics of discussion. Very informative and engaging with this one. I went from listening to this while working to pausing the work and giving this my undivided attention and took notes.
    Lots to unpack - my key light bulb moments were:
    1 - They want what they want when they want it and they feel entitled to have it.
    2 - No one should ever have to justify their hurt at being mistreated by someone whose abusive.
    3 - The passive aggressive types - love that’s conditioned by expectations and not for just being yourself.
    4 - The talk about narrator voices, and when using a narrator voice, you speak of what you’re experiencing, you don’t become what you’re experiencing.
    5 - And save the best for last - The “D’s - Denial, Defend, Devalue, Dismiss, Distraction
    We’ve all had to deal with narcissists, especially in our personal and professional relationships. this was very informative and insightful. Kudos to you ladies for bringing more awareness to this topic. ✨💫

    • @AwfTheRecord
      @AwfTheRecord  Месяц назад +1

      We really appreciate that you noticed this. Definitely want to bring a wide range of discussions in to trigger these exact types of conversations. Thank you!

    • @juliawhetstone5768
      @juliawhetstone5768 22 дня назад

      Your #1 Is My #1..I Have Dealt With A Man Like That And He Tries To Turn It Around Like He Is Being Attentive And Making Me Feel Important..Chosen..
      Damn..

  • @ducky0916
    @ducky0916 2 месяца назад +5

    I am so glad that you reposted the video. I got a notification this morning and listened to this wonderful helpful podcast on the way to driving my kids to school. It was very enlightening and I listened to it with my 12th grade daughter who will be majoring in psychology next year so it was a great learning tool and insightful for her as well! I am so glad the two of you are walking your God given paths. You are using your platform and your content is relevant and reaching mini who are struggling and so many of your topics. . This topic really resonated and thank you for checking the boxes of what I already knew in my own personal relationship and what I don’t want to deal with anymore🙌🏽

  • @latishaturner5114
    @latishaturner5114 2 месяца назад +10

    Love this podcast!!❤

  • @Twinkzification
    @Twinkzification Месяц назад +3

    there are definitely female narcissists because my mother is one and she ruined my self esteem for most of my life… after a lifetime of damage that she caused the whole family using me as the scapegoat i finally cut her off-after a cancer diagnosis. i just couldn’t deal with her selfish behavior and a life threatening illness at once.

  • @sydonnierobinson5688
    @sydonnierobinson5688 Месяц назад +2

    Great episode. Covered all the basis

  • @MarvinPhotoCouture
    @MarvinPhotoCouture Месяц назад +1

    Excellent and helpful!

  • @KC-dx1yo
    @KC-dx1yo 2 месяца назад +4

    Wow this was so informative. Also changed my perspective on a lot of things, Wendy is so insightful and kind.

  • @neish5486
    @neish5486 2 месяца назад +3

    Ladies,thank you so much for addressing this. Needed and necessary. 👍🏽🙏🏽

  • @freespiritmara
    @freespiritmara Месяц назад +2

    I love this new podcast so much!

  • @LEXercise
    @LEXercise Месяц назад +1

    Another great episode. Very informative. 👌🏾

  • @tonyarose9181
    @tonyarose9181 Месяц назад +1

    Best advice from her. Listen to yourself,

  • @dawnravenel2473
    @dawnravenel2473 2 месяца назад +10

    Hey beautiful queen sisters, love what you are doing, thank you for the info.

  • @juliemack791
    @juliemack791 2 месяца назад +3

    Very informative discussion.

  • @janellebaird735
    @janellebaird735 2 месяца назад +2

    Impaired is an excellent way of explaining it

  • @ayannamcook
    @ayannamcook Месяц назад +2

    Emotionally immature and void to others

  • @stephaniebowen1541
    @stephaniebowen1541 Месяц назад +2

    Wow that sounds like someone WE ALL know 😮

  • @marjorielouissaint4886
    @marjorielouissaint4886 2 месяца назад +4

    My lord this is so informative 😮

  • @linda_lawson
    @linda_lawson 2 месяца назад +3

    This is very helpful. Thank you.

    • @wendyb17
      @wendyb17 2 месяца назад

      💗

    • @juliawhetstone5768
      @juliawhetstone5768 22 дня назад +1

      WoW..I Have Been Involved With A Narcissist..I Share Have Been Because I Am Distancing..
      When Your Guest Said..They Want What They Want When They Want It..For Me It Was Him Showing Up To "Surprise" Me But Really Being There To Get What He Wanted..I Am Thankful After 10 Plus Year I Am Finally Saying I Am Done..Thank You Ladies For This Confirmation..LOVING Your Topics And Interviews..

  • @sheront2u
    @sheront2u 2 месяца назад +2

    This was so good and informative. I listened early this morning. Definitely made me aware and more mindful of people. I noted when Wendy said to ask , " Are you having trouble in your universe? " 🤣🤣

  • @dewdan11dnd46
    @dewdan11dnd46 2 месяца назад +2

    💝🌟This, was a superb, listen. Thanks for sharing your wisdom💟😎💫🥰

  • @toyabonilla6797
    @toyabonilla6797 Месяц назад +1

    ooo this is a good one guys 🥰

  • @hs-qk9qf
    @hs-qk9qf 2 месяца назад +3

    Hit those 👍🏽 folks!

  • @cecewd405
    @cecewd405 4 дня назад

    My boss is one, this very description! I've seen so-called "thugs" with more compassion than her. Personally, I think she IS evil until/if she decides to change.

  • @ayannamcook
    @ayannamcook Месяц назад +1

    Vulnerable or Covert narcissist address that.

    • @ayannamcook
      @ayannamcook Месяц назад

      They are the big bad wolf!

  • @msreid
    @msreid Месяц назад +1

    chile she just described my mother and i'm only 7:40 mins in smhh

  • @imi_xo
    @imi_xo 12 дней назад

    Does anyone know what Jeanette's hairstyle is here? So beautiful! 🥹

    • @AwfTheRecord
      @AwfTheRecord  11 дней назад

      Yene Damtew at Aesthetics Salon in Arlington VA :) but I go to a few stylists there. They’re all great 💕

  • @jesusisable7052
    @jesusisable7052 2 месяца назад +2

    ❤❤

  • @nicolem969
    @nicolem969 2 месяца назад +2

    From the thumbnail I thought this was Angela from 90 day fiancé 😂🙈

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways Месяц назад +1

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @curlyb4c95
    @curlyb4c95 2 месяца назад +3

    Who is this lady? She wasn’t introduced. Curious.

    • @AwfTheRecord
      @AwfTheRecord  2 месяца назад +10

      Hey, she is a world renowned narcissism expert and author on the topic. We introduce her in the first 15 seconds

    • @teajay8010
      @teajay8010 2 месяца назад +3

      Her name is Wendy Behary

    • @Poohsister8
      @Poohsister8 2 месяца назад +1

      She was introduced. Her name is Wendy Behary!

    • @Poohsister8
      @Poohsister8 2 месяца назад +1

      Her name is Wendy Behary!

    • @nca4794
      @nca4794 2 месяца назад +5

      Sometimes the video can start in the recommendations before actually selecting it. That's how you missed it.

  • @erinelise21
    @erinelise21 2 месяца назад +27

    Everyone can have narcissistic tendencies. But JESUS saves, heals, and delivers ✝️

    • @AfroMillennialMomma
      @AfroMillennialMomma 2 месяца назад +7

      That sounds just like something my narcissistic mom would say funny enough

    • @lateishaclement
      @lateishaclement 2 месяца назад

      Oversimplified narcissism is harmful, especially to those who are victims of it.

  • @davidasingleton8943
    @davidasingleton8943 2 месяца назад

    You keep attracting narcissist because you’re a narcissist… DUH!