Signs of grown, emotionnal healthy men 1-Action matching word 2- taking personnal responsability if what happen in the past relationship 3- how they deal with desagrement 4- empathy, reconizing your feelings 5- trensparency and honesty
I was dating my future husband when he was going through his divorce. He has to prove to me that it was over and that he was who he said he was. He had to PROVE HIMSELF TO ME. He did and we have been happily married for 9 years. I was cautious in the beginning. I was not going to be the rebound gal . I put those wall up and was cautious. Ladies be cautious when you are dating a separated or divorced man.
listen Jonathan also, his videos are great and the book he recommends,: Hoffman process , 8 dates by Gottman, Attached by Amir Levine, Singers Unthuntered sould etc. There are great to move on, to heal your traumas from childhood adult life
This is one of my best videos....priceless. A partner who is always right / or a victim , is a sign of immaturity. I want truth....it takes two to tango. There is no perfect human being. I want a guy who can be vulnerable and acknowledge where things went wrong...not blaming his ex for everything. Love never fails. I want to deal with his true self i.e his imperfections. We need to be civil in whatever we do.
This is so helpful to hear the distinctions between going through divorced, recently divorced or long-time divorced. Thank you for you both for your insights. I wish I had known this sooner!
These are awesome tips. Dating a guy who’s divorced 3 years. 55 years old. I always thought that the rules are different in dating older guys who are divorced.
Thank you. His lack of transparency and lack of courage to be honest with me has been extremely frustrating. I have known him for years. Just tired of it all. Thank you, I will not waste my time anymore.
I like that " empathy " recognizing someone's feelings, transparency, how are we going to know each other if we can't open up to each other.Thank you.I can listen to this teaching over and over again.Thank you 🌸
You should cover dating a divorced guy with kids + xwife if there is a child custody & a divorced woman with kids dating a divorced guy with kids and without. Fairytale is great (honeymoon period ends right around 3 months mark) but we have to be realistic that 40+ women and men are most likely to have kids.
Wow! I loove this so much. I'm dating a guy whose going through a divorce. We are both in our early 50s. Thoroughly enjoyed this. This is one of the best videos. Please send more. Both of you are awesome.
So when does the "Divorced" date clock start ticking? When someone is legally separated and moves out, it can still be multi-year process. Does the limbo time while waiting it out count toward the Divorce time clock to find rebound girlfriends and work through all the negative issues?
I don’t date anyone without seeing a divorce decree. That’s a clear boundary. The clock starts after the divorce is finalized. I’m in a situation where my ex got a divorce in 2019 and called me. I was his friend however he lied and his divorce actually finalized in 2021. I waited for red flags and that was a huge one. I refused to be a rebound and cut communication. I never engaged in intimacy and I’m so happy I made that chose. Now he’s rebounding with other women in which he’ll break their heart.
@@Hollygdorsey1 Can you please help me with my situation? Sorry in advance for a long post. I do not have much success in finding a man who respects my boundries. I believe in friendships before any physical contact. The problem is that men that I’ve met do not want to be friends first and try to kiss me pretty soon (1 or 2 date). I always refuse the kiss, and it always ends there. Recently, I’ve met a new man and he invited me for a coffee. He is a cop and has a 14 year old son. He picked me up from my place and I asked where exactly I would like to go out. I said I prefer if he chooses a place. In that moment he proposed his appartment. I refused and proposed a coffe place on town. Then he said that he can’t show me in public as he is not yet divorced. My heart sunk. He can only invite me to his place for coffee as his reputation is important for him and people might see us in public. Apparently only 1 week left till divorce. I did not know how to react. I was really disappointed. I proposed a short walk outside of his building but he insisted to visit him. After a long convincing and promise that he won’t be forcing me to sleep with him, I went to his place. He seemed nervous and smoked a lot of cigarettes. Did not want to talk too much about his divorce, although I asked a few questions. Anyways, he tried to touch and kiss me but I told him that it should have a meaning for me and for now it is too fast. I also added that we can stay friends for now and get to know eachother but he replied that he wants cuddles and fun and that he is afraid of women. We ended our meeting on a friendly note with a big hug. Then he brought me back home and we parted. It’s been more than 2 weeks now and I haven’t heard from him. I sended him a short text to ask how he is doing. He red it but did not reply. I would really appreciate your advice. What would you do in my situation? Would you react differently? What should I do next? Is it ok to call & him now to find out if he got divorced? Was me not kissing him a deal brakes for him? Also, I know that when dating, we should wait with sex but what about a kiss? Sometimes I feel that I am too strict and overthinking. Please help me to figure this out 🙏
@@shalimar29in my opinion; The person you mentioned did not respect your boundaries and moved away from you when he did not get what he wanted, I think you should not call him again.
Hi Alex, Dating Divorced Damm " These Mens Are Broken. I Feel That These Mens need to Learned & Educate in Counseling and Staying in A Healthy Solid Mind Set to Be Ready for A Next Relashionship Commitment Transition. Being Stable is important. Challenges are going to be there.
One of my inspiring videos, respect for Jonathan. Your wit n wisdom is undeniably the greatest. I could listen to these two guys for times on end. Very mature n grown up men deserve all my love n respect. May u grow from strength to strength.
LOVE this. 👏👏👏👏👏 THANK YOU!!!!! My guy friends said the divorced man I'm talking to has red flags because he hid the fact that he has children. He said his wife probably told them he's dead, and they lived in Idaho, they won't need any financial help because they're covered with the wife's family finances. He has also hid the fact that he's divorced now online. However, I do see he meets all 5 of these criteria. Maybe I'll take my time and see if that's it. He said he changed his profile to talk to me because he knew I wanted a man with no children.
If he hid the fact about his children, that’s the biggest 🚩 red flag ever. Those kids definitely have trauma from the loss of a father. He’s definitely not a Godly man. Being a father is not just financial, it’s spending time with children as well.
Alex,this gentleman is a 5. You're the best, I learn so mush from coaches and guy guys don't just set up peoples to date, you are setting patterns for lifetime relationships. So much of our feelings are right but listening to you/team it gives confirmation. I just love your coaching. Just you or any team you choose.
I'm absolutely thrilled by this video! Never have I resonated so deeply with such RUclips content! OMG! Thank you both so very much, amazing coaches :) Every topic here is incredible value! Had to watch twice! I appreciate this so very much guys! 🙏🙌👍🤗
Thank you for the Video! I am myself going through a divorce (we are separated since two years but divorce by church is complicated). I would love to know what men think about such a situation?
I met a recently divorced military guy & (I'M also recently divorced)...I felt a connection in that first meeting, so I gave him my #. Never had done anything like that. He texted me & over the next week, we chatated back and forth. He asked me to lunch 1wk later, we had a good lunch, 1.5hr of talking, laughing & having a good time. He even said we should get together again. The next day I received a text of multiple apologies, telling me he isnt ready & not looking for a Relationship right now and can't meet my energy or be the man I deserve. He tried, but he has things to work on. He wants to be friends. I responded with understanding being just divorced myself...he said he appreciates me, but had to be real and open, its not you its me. But now what?! He seems like a well put together man and I dont mind being friends...is there any chance of not being friends later or was that it?
It sounds like you had a genuine connection, and I can understand why you're wondering if there's more potential. It’s possible that with time, his feelings could change, but it’s also important to be realistic and focus on what you need right now. If you're open to being friends, that's great, but make sure you're clear on your own boundaries and emotional needs moving forward. If you're unsure about how to navigate this situation or relationships after a divorce, one-on-one coaching could be really helpful in gaining more clarity. www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
I am dating a guy who he is my childhood friend....though i lost contact in between .....again i came in a contact for last two years.....then i came to know he had a relation which he broke up as a result his family pressurized him to marry another girl ....he did....he compromised for his family.....but just aftr this marriage .....they set apart one in Italy and the guy in India......he never even tried to work out his marraige......he said me he want to give divorce .....because there is no sign of marraige .....now again he came in a dilema .....if family doesnt want him to give divorce ....if the girl doesnt agree.....on the other hand we r in relation as we have nice compatibility.......when i tell him to take initiative....he fears.....neither he leaves me......PLZ HELP ME ALEX HOW COULD I HELP BOTH OF US
Im dating a newly divorced guy and i deciding to ask him date 2 or 3 girls and call me after .. I don't wanna be a rebound and i dont want to be with him just for sex .. Trusting God for great results.
What if by asking him those questions (about his last relationship or what was he grateful for) you will make him think more about his ex and maybe miss her? Is it not better to just watch his actions, try to be his platonic friend first and if he refuses then leave him the heck alone?
Aww..this is so nice to hear and informative.idid makealot of dinners for the last, as i.prefer to eat healthy at home, The last one wasn't matched maturity on both our parts, but I truly believe now I'm my best self and have attracted someone amazing because I have worked so hard these last 1.5 years.you are also wonderful and skilled.
Jonathan is a king😊his content is relatable...the wit n wisdom is mind blowing. Thank you Alex for roping him into your space..Never before have I heard so much truth n honesty.👌👌👌
Here's the thing about "equal investment." Men need to start recognizing how much a woman of quality invests in dating outside of the check after dinner. Personally, I invest hundreds of dollars in clothes, jewelry, shoes, handbags, hair and makeup, nails, skincare...and the list goes on. I show up looking like someone he's proud to be with and like i care what he thinks. Now, when he shows up in jeans and a hoodie and then expects to also go dutch or have me treat, at least in the beginning, it's actually insulting to me. No woman wants a man who takes her for granted or isn't willing to recognize what it takes to be a desirable woman.
Hi Coach Alex & Coach Jonathon Good Night's From Singapore! How Can A Single Woman Wants To Communicate Or Talked To A Divorced Man If He Is Not Speaking Or Connect Emotional Through His Separated Ex-Spouse If It Is Regarding About A Child Or A House? Will An Emotional Or Avoidant Be Mindful About His Second Partner Or He Pulled Back To Healed His Wounded-Heart First Before Pursuing Again With A Woman He Wants To Court Or He Is Reflected At His Ex-Wife's InFidelity's Or He Is Thinking Hard To Having A New Relationship To Attracted A ConFident Independant Woman If He Is Really Serious With Her? Will A Guy Or A Man Wants A Long-Term Commitment Or He Is Having A Rebound Relationship?
Guess the dynamics are not that much different than when your spouse passes away as opposed to being divorced..only that your ex remains alive..Jonathan, still don’t think you are ready, and being a recent widow, neither am on..it sure takes a long, long, time!
I have been the hurt the worst by a 50yo guy who had never been married. Complete emotional child. Dating two women at the same time for over a month. Ugh.
I am dating with an guy frm november who has divorced on last yr September..He is an awesome human being, sooo sooo genuine,honest,kind bt short tempered..He is not committed as he is not ready for any commitment again,cz he has trust issues on girls.He wants a good personality frm me,that's y he doesnt want me to talk wid his friends who are unknown to me..Bt i love him so much so i wanted to keep a good frndshp with his friends too..So i wish them in a occasion..Aftr some months i talked to his one frnd about him again now he is vry angry to me,he is thinking i wanted disrespected him infront of them,basically he misunderstands me n he thinks dat m like his ex wife only who alwz used to disrespect him..He is not talking to me now bt i love him so much,i can't live without him so plz let me know what should I do now?
Is the process the same for women? I’m curious. I’m going through a divorce. I never viewed divorce as an option so did everything to make myself happy despite my husband not putting much emotional/mental/physical effort into our relationship. He decided while I was pregnant that he wasn’t happy in our marriage and had feelings for another woman. I went through the five stages of grief/divorce in about a four month period but now I just feel so done and ready to move on. I’m in therapy, on antidepressants, and have built a good support system. I’m fine with being single for two years, but also don’t feel it’s necessary
I’ll add that my responsibility in our marriage ending was that I was very insecure when we first got married. I deep down knew I shouldn’t marry my soon to be ex-husband but I was too insecure to end it because I didn’t want to deal with the pain of a breakup.
Namaste from napal 🙏😊iam in confused i have a friend from france .he is going to be duvirce but before his divorce he wanna come to nepal for visit me fo start realationship but iam very confused .?should i go in relationship with him before hus divorce or should i wait for his divorce so that i can make relationship with him ?please give me some advice thank you .
Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear about this! I know Coach Alex would love to help you through this but he needs to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
Could it be a double edged sword if the guy speaks highly of their ex &/or takes all the blame of the divorce? Double edged sword meaning could this also mean theyd take the ex back ?
Dating a divorced man,women have to be very careful because emotional damage they been through hardly they we take serious about whoever women come close in their life,most of them become a player trust me I been there and done that,no matter how good how serious you are just don’t really get them to open their mind and hearts very much only 10 percent if whoever lucky enough to rebuild their life with the rest of them already damaging by badly divorced.just watch out all ladies out there by mindful how to involve this kind situation good luck to all ladies out there 😊
1. What did you learn about your self from your past relationship? 2. What would you most greatful for in your last relationship? 3. What was your pattern of dating?
The part about female energy made me sad. He was juggling many at once incl me just bc he wanted to fill the void, he liked me but he was not ready. Hence he was for the quanitity dating online. And then once those great men are ready they dont have to sit on dating apps, they get together with the next women they meet live. I never meet such guys live. Will he come back...?
Hey Beatrice, I know how complicated this can be. I want to help you! Let's set up a coaching call together so we can go over what to do and your next steps moving forward. www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
5 Qualities Men Seek In A Women (GIFT): jonathonaslay.com/qualities
Signs of grown, emotionnal healthy men
1-Action matching word
2- taking personnal responsability if what happen in the past relationship
3- how they deal with desagrement
4- empathy, reconizing your feelings
5- trensparency and honesty
I was dating my future husband when he was going through his divorce. He has to prove to me that it was over and that he was who he said he was. He had to PROVE HIMSELF TO ME. He did and we have been happily married for 9 years. I was cautious in the beginning. I was not going to be the rebound gal . I put those wall up and was cautious. Ladies be cautious when you are dating a separated or divorced man.
listen Jonathan also, his videos are great and the book he recommends,: Hoffman process , 8 dates by Gottman, Attached by Amir Levine, Singers Unthuntered sould etc. There are great to move on, to heal your traumas from childhood adult life
I have a newly divorced man. Very Nice gentleman. What suggestions or advice do you have?
How did he prove? Was he spending time and committed to you early on or did he say the classic- im not ready, wanna take it slow?
I m here 😍😍❤❤
Thank you!
This is one of my best videos....priceless. A partner who is always right / or a victim , is a sign of immaturity. I want truth....it takes two to tango. There is no perfect human being. I want a guy who can be vulnerable and acknowledge where things went wrong...not blaming his ex for everything. Love never fails. I want to deal with his true self i.e his imperfections. We need to be civil in whatever we do.
Thank you so much for your kind words... honored to be interviewed by Alex.
Great point, definitely agree!
Two of the best coaches together.. Priceless✌️🤗👌
Awe... thank you 🙏
Hello dear how are you doing
This is so helpful to hear the distinctions between going through divorced, recently divorced or long-time divorced. Thank you for you both for your insights. I wish I had known this sooner!
So glad you are here.
Happy to hear this content resonated with you... thank you 😊
These are awesome tips.
Dating a guy who’s divorced 3 years.
55 years old.
I always thought that the rules are different in dating older guys who are divorced.
hello alex i would like us to chat more ......you can message me on my gmail staceyclement007@gmail.com
Thank you. His lack of transparency and lack of courage to be honest with me has been extremely frustrating. I have known him for years. Just tired of it all. Thank you, I will not waste my time anymore.
Glad this was helpful.
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My favorites coaches together👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I'm honored, thank you.
I like that " empathy " recognizing someone's feelings, transparency, how are we going to know each other if we can't open up to each other.Thank you.I can listen to this teaching over and over again.Thank you 🌸
Love that!
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I appreciate you Alex for such a guest,
Also you Jonathan for sharing your priceless experiences🙏;
"Personal development, self help, spirtual work"💎.
Thank you so much for watching!
You should cover dating a divorced guy with kids + xwife if there is a child custody & a divorced woman with kids dating a divorced guy with kids and without.
Fairytale is great (honeymoon period ends right around 3 months mark) but we have to be realistic that 40+ women and men are most likely to have kids.
Wow! I loove this so much. I'm dating a guy whose going through a divorce. We are both in our early 50s. Thoroughly enjoyed this. This is one of the best videos. Please send more. Both of you are awesome.
I thought you did an amazing job selecting Jonathan A. to collaborate with you. He definitely connected people who are my age, his age. Thank you.
Thank you, very kind of you to say. Much appreciated.
So when does the "Divorced" date clock start ticking? When someone is legally separated and moves out, it can still be multi-year process. Does the limbo time while waiting it out count toward the Divorce time clock to find rebound girlfriends and work through all the negative issues?
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I don’t date anyone without seeing a divorce decree. That’s a clear boundary. The clock starts after the divorce is finalized. I’m in a situation where my ex got a divorce in 2019 and called me. I was his friend however he lied and his divorce actually finalized in 2021. I waited for red flags and that was a huge one. I refused to be a rebound and cut communication. I never engaged in intimacy and I’m so happy I made that chose. Now he’s rebounding with other women in which he’ll break their heart.
@@Hollygdorsey1 Can you please help me with my situation? Sorry in advance for a long post.
I do not have much success in finding a man who respects my boundries.
I believe in friendships before any physical contact. The problem is that men that I’ve met do not want to be friends first and try to kiss me pretty soon (1 or 2 date). I always refuse the kiss, and it always ends there.
Recently, I’ve met a new man and he invited me for a coffee. He is a cop and has a 14 year old son. He picked me up from my place and I asked where exactly I would like to go out. I said I prefer if he chooses a place. In that moment he proposed his appartment. I refused and proposed a coffe place on town. Then he said that he can’t show me in public as he is not yet divorced. My heart sunk.
He can only invite me to his place for coffee as his reputation is important for him and people might see us in public. Apparently only 1 week left till divorce.
I did not know how to react. I was really disappointed. I proposed a short walk outside of his building but he insisted to visit him.
After a long convincing and promise that he won’t be forcing me to sleep with him, I went to his place. He seemed nervous and smoked a lot of cigarettes. Did not want to talk too much about his divorce, although I asked a few questions.
Anyways, he tried to touch and kiss me but I told him that it should have a meaning for me and for now it is too fast.
I also added that we can stay friends for now and get to know eachother but he replied that he wants cuddles and fun and that he is afraid of women.
We ended our meeting on a friendly note with a big hug. Then he brought me back home and we parted.
It’s been more than 2 weeks now and I haven’t heard from him. I sended him a short text to ask how he is doing. He red it but did not reply.
I would really appreciate your advice.
What would you do in my situation?
Would you react differently? What should I do next? Is it ok to call & him now to find out if he got divorced? Was me not kissing him a deal brakes for him?
Also, I know that when dating, we should wait with sex but what about a kiss? Sometimes I feel that I am too strict and overthinking.
Please help me to figure this out 🙏
@@shalimar29in my opinion; The person you mentioned did not respect your boundaries and moved away from you when he did not get what he wanted, I think you should not call him again.
fantastic! open, honest, humble
Thank you.
Hi Alex,
Dating Divorced Damm "
These Mens Are Broken.
I Feel That These Mens need to Learned & Educate in Counseling and Staying in A Healthy Solid Mind Set to Be Ready for A Next Relashionship Commitment Transition.
Being Stable is important. Challenges are going to be there.
No. They are not broken. They are human.
One of my inspiring videos, respect for Jonathan. Your wit n wisdom is undeniably the greatest. I could listen to these two guys for times on end. Very mature n grown up men deserve all my love n respect. May u grow from strength to strength.
This is such an important topic . Please delve more into this subject!!!
Alex, I am dating a French man who has been divorced for years. Thanks for sharing this.
You're very welcome
Good to see the two of you together
Thank you for your support!
Great video and great advice - thanks for the video...
Do you care for a chat
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LOVE this. 👏👏👏👏👏 THANK YOU!!!!! My guy friends said the divorced man I'm talking to has red flags because he hid the fact that he has children. He said his wife probably told them he's dead, and they lived in Idaho, they won't need any financial help because they're covered with the wife's family finances. He has also hid the fact that he's divorced now online.
However, I do see he meets all 5 of these criteria. Maybe I'll take my time and see if that's it. He said he changed his profile to talk to me because he knew I wanted a man with no children.
If he hid the fact about his children, that’s the biggest 🚩 red flag ever. Those kids definitely have trauma from the loss of a father. He’s definitely not a Godly man. Being a father is not just financial, it’s spending time with children as well.
Big NO!!!!
Jewel ..cute you are ..let's marry
Alex,this gentleman is a 5. You're the best, I learn so mush from coaches and guy guys don't just set up peoples to date, you are setting patterns for lifetime relationships. So much of our feelings are right but listening to you/team it gives confirmation. I just love your coaching. Just you or any team you choose.
Yes I always so appreciate the gestures
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Great video! 😉...My two favorite guys.🤗
I love Jonathon's energy... He's amazing as well. 😍
awe... thank you, Grace, much appreciated.
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I'm absolutely thrilled by this video! Never have I resonated so deeply with such RUclips content! OMG! Thank you both so very much, amazing coaches :) Every topic here is incredible value! Had to watch twice! I appreciate this so very much guys! 🙏🙌👍🤗
Thank you for the Video! I am myself going through a divorce (we are separated since two years but divorce by church is complicated). I would love to know what men think about such a situation?
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Searched and came to this video.Loved the advice so much.Thank you so so much.❤❤❤
You are so welcome!
Hello Alex and Jonathan! I want to say thank you for this video..I learned alot.. this is so amazing!👍
Edz, Happy to hear this helped. Much appreciated.
Excellent!!!! Best interview I’ve seen between dating coaches
Thank you so much for watching!
I met a recently divorced military guy & (I'M also recently divorced)...I felt a connection in that first meeting, so I gave him my #. Never had done anything like that. He texted me & over the next week, we chatated back and forth. He asked me to lunch 1wk later, we had a good lunch, 1.5hr of talking, laughing & having a good time. He even said we should get together again. The next day I received a text of multiple apologies, telling me he isnt ready & not looking for a Relationship right now and can't meet my energy or be the man I deserve. He tried, but he has things to work on. He wants to be friends.
I responded with understanding being just divorced myself...he said he appreciates me, but had to be real and open, its not you its me.
But now what?! He seems like a well put together man and I dont mind being friends...is there any chance of not being friends later or was that it?
It sounds like you had a genuine connection, and I can understand why you're wondering if there's more potential. It’s possible that with time, his feelings could change, but it’s also important to be realistic and focus on what you need right now. If you're open to being friends, that's great, but make sure you're clear on your own boundaries and emotional needs moving forward.
If you're unsure about how to navigate this situation or relationships after a divorce, one-on-one coaching could be really helpful in gaining more clarity.
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Two of my favorites!!! Yeah. Great stuff
Great content and tips and very relevant to the divorced man. I appreciate the insight.
Happy to hear this resonated with you...
Love 💕 this advice! It clears up so much for me .. 🙏Thank you to both of you! I am 42 and dating men in midlife...
I am more aware 🙂
You are so welcome!
Wow! You two have really helped me understand so much! I’m going to listen to this again.
Glad it was helpful!
Empathy ,such an underrated trait.
I am dating a guy who he is my childhood friend....though i lost contact in between .....again i came in a contact for last two years.....then i came to know he had a relation which he broke up as a result his family pressurized him to marry another girl ....he did....he compromised for his family.....but just aftr this marriage .....they set apart one in Italy and the guy in India......he never even tried to work out his marraige......he said me he want to give divorce .....because there is no sign of marraige .....now again he came in a dilema .....if family doesnt want him to give divorce ....if the girl doesnt agree.....on the other hand we r in relation as we have nice compatibility.......when i tell him to take initiative....he fears.....neither he leaves me......PLZ HELP ME ALEX HOW COULD I HELP BOTH OF US
the 2 best coaches
This is such Great advice!!! God bless you both. ❤️
You are beautiful let's talk
Im dating a newly divorced guy and i deciding to ask him date 2 or 3 girls and call me after .. I don't wanna be a rebound and i dont want to be with him just for sex .. Trusting God for great results.
Good perspectives... They even scared me
I really appreciate you both. Jonathan your knowledge is splendid. I sure would like you to be my coach!
Wow, thank you!
Pamela, So happy to read this content resonated with you and I am honored.
What if by asking him those questions (about his last relationship or what was he grateful for) you will make him think more about his ex and maybe miss her? Is it not better to just watch his actions, try to be his platonic friend first and if he refuses then leave him the heck alone?
Aww..this is so nice to hear and informative.idid makealot of dinners for the last, as i.prefer to eat healthy at home, The last one wasn't matched maturity on both our parts, but I truly believe now I'm my best self and have attracted someone amazing because I have worked so hard these last 1.5 years.you are also wonderful and skilled.
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Jonathan is a king😊his content is relatable...the wit n wisdom is mind blowing. Thank you Alex for roping him into your space..Never before have I heard so much truth n honesty.👌👌👌
Excellent advice.
Glad it was helpful!
Happy to hear it helped!
Great and really it's practically work in my life recently ..
I appreciate you sir
Here's the thing about "equal investment." Men need to start recognizing how much a woman of quality invests in dating outside of the check after dinner. Personally, I invest hundreds of dollars in clothes, jewelry, shoes, handbags, hair and makeup, nails, skincare...and the list goes on. I show up looking like someone he's proud to be with and like i care what he thinks. Now, when he shows up in jeans and a hoodie and then expects to also go dutch or have me treat, at least in the beginning, it's actually insulting to me. No woman wants a man who takes her for granted or isn't willing to recognize what it takes to be a desirable woman.
I love this video.
This was great
Hey
My 2 favourite life couches working together 🙏🏼🦋🐞
Love that!
Hi Coach Alex & Coach Jonathon Good Night's From Singapore! How Can A Single Woman Wants To Communicate Or Talked To A Divorced Man If He Is Not Speaking Or Connect Emotional Through His Separated Ex-Spouse If It Is Regarding About A Child Or A House? Will An Emotional Or Avoidant Be Mindful About His Second Partner Or He Pulled Back To Healed His Wounded-Heart First Before Pursuing Again With A Woman He Wants To Court Or He Is Reflected At His Ex-Wife's InFidelity's Or He Is Thinking Hard To Having A New Relationship To Attracted A ConFident Independant Woman If He Is Really Serious With Her? Will A Guy Or A Man Wants A Long-Term Commitment Or He Is Having A Rebound Relationship?
Guess the dynamics are not that much different than when your spouse passes away as opposed to being
divorced..only that your ex remains alive..Jonathan, still don’t think you are ready, and being a recent widow,
neither am on..it sure takes a long, long, time!
I have been the hurt the worst by a 50yo guy who had never been married. Complete emotional child. Dating two women at the same time for over a month. Ugh.
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Why are you so cute Alex ... your energy and smile is contagious 😊
Very interesting subject👍 i guess i am "divorced man" since birth)😂😂 always searched for person who can make a team - not just love and sex👍
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I am dating with an guy frm november who has divorced on last yr September..He is an awesome human being, sooo sooo genuine,honest,kind bt short tempered..He is not committed as he is not ready for any commitment again,cz he has trust issues on girls.He wants a good personality frm me,that's y he doesnt want me to talk wid his friends who are unknown to me..Bt i love him so much so i wanted to keep a good frndshp with his friends too..So i wish them in a occasion..Aftr some months i talked to his one frnd about him again now he is vry angry to me,he is thinking i wanted disrespected him infront of them,basically he misunderstands me n he thinks dat m like his ex wife only who alwz used to disrespect him..He is not talking to me now bt i love him so much,i can't live without him so plz let me know what should I do now?
I am curious. What books are good to read for a newly divorced man?
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Is the process the same for women? I’m curious. I’m going through a divorce. I never viewed divorce as an option so did everything to make myself happy despite my husband not putting much emotional/mental/physical effort into our relationship. He decided while I was pregnant that he wasn’t happy in our marriage and had feelings for another woman. I went through the five stages of grief/divorce in about a four month period but now I just feel so done and ready to move on. I’m in therapy, on antidepressants, and have built a good support system. I’m fine with being single for two years, but also don’t feel it’s necessary
I’ll add that my responsibility in our marriage ending was that I was very insecure when we first got married. I deep down knew I shouldn’t marry my soon to be ex-husband but I was too insecure to end it because I didn’t want to deal with the pain of a breakup.
Namaste from napal 🙏😊iam in confused i have a friend from france .he is going to be duvirce but before his divorce he wanna come to nepal for visit me fo start realationship but iam very confused .?should i go in relationship with him before hus divorce or should i wait for his divorce so that i can make relationship with him ?please give me some advice thank you .
Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear about this! I know Coach Alex would love to help you through this but he needs to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link:
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
My whole life keep dating divorced men 🤣 totally my topic
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Love you both 😘
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Thank you so much!
I love him too! :)
Could it be a double edged sword if the guy speaks highly of their ex &/or takes all the blame of the divorce? Double edged sword meaning could this also mean theyd take the ex back ?
It is all about quality sweetheart not quantity
Dating a divorced man,women have to be very careful because emotional damage they been through hardly they we take serious about whoever women come close in their life,most of them become a player trust me I been there and done that,no matter how good how serious you are just don’t really get them to open their mind and hearts very much only 10 percent if whoever lucky enough to rebuild their life with the rest of them already damaging by badly divorced.just watch out all ladies out there by mindful how to involve this kind situation good luck to all ladies out there 😊
i love this! 😘
1. What did you learn about your self from your past relationship?
2. What would you most greatful for in your last relationship?
3. What was your pattern of dating?
I recognize the five signs but I still don’t trust him and I am moving on and letting go 🤷🏿♀️✌🏿
The part about female energy made me sad. He was juggling many at once incl me just bc he wanted to fill the void, he liked me but he was not ready. Hence he was for the quanitity dating online. And then once those great men are ready they dont have to sit on dating apps, they get together with the next women they meet live. I never meet such guys live. Will he come back...?
He is a divorced man,Alex he wants to marry me, but he is still keeping photos of his ex wife in social media, help plz.
Hey Beatrice,
I know how complicated this can be. I want to help you! Let's set up a coaching call together so we can go over what to do and your next steps moving forward.
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Woah that's handsome one there
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If another woman doesn't want him stay away because there probably is something wrong with him.The best advice just date a younger man lol
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Hope YOU never get divorced...
Divorce has become a cliche now !!
they are broke and broken. don't do it
They can have financial issues and are often times wounded.
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