RHONY: Sai De Silva Reacts to Jessel Taank Labeling Her a 'Mean Girl' and More From Season 14

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  • Опубликовано: 14 дек 2024

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  • @IndigoCosmic
    @IndigoCosmic Год назад +90

    Sai take accountability! She's calling someone a liar whens she's actually a liar about her serious anger issues and being a mean girl.

  • @PhyliciaATL
    @PhyliciaATL Год назад +134

    Bless her heart...She is very abrasive and a mean girl that has zero clue.

    • @celeste7469
      @celeste7469 Год назад +8

      I watched 3 episodes and I concur. There were literal fumes coming off the woman whenever Jessel said anything. Maybe a bit of jealousy there too.

  • @BBrimunch
    @BBrimunch Год назад +169

    Sai, to say that her honesty can be mean isn’t something to be proud of. She’s mean.

  • @Sagittariusfactors
    @Sagittariusfactors Год назад +74

    Honesty does not translate to cruelty. Bullies are honest too, does that make them god?

  • @gcchair7634
    @gcchair7634 Год назад +49

    Sai needs therapy. She watched herself and didn’t see anything that needed work. She’s not anyone that I want to watch. No one is perfect but this platform isn’t to watch someone who is anti- social. Please don’t ask her back. Let Jenna be a friend of and add two more girls.

  • @strawberriesncandii
    @strawberriesncandii Год назад +56

    She can go. Sai comes across as ungrateful and vindictive and that’s wack. As an Afro Latina from NY she’s disappointing. Her bad attitude is a dub.

    • @rsingh9900
      @rsingh9900 Год назад

      Is that how she is representing
      Her people. We are caring fun people . We are kind and giving.
      Who is Sai?

    • @Escape628
      @Escape628 Год назад +1

      Agreed! The brown girls on the show kinda disappointed me ( especially Brynn & Sai) - coming from a biracial girl

    • @jessicacruz1977
      @jessicacruz1977 2 месяца назад

      That’s how I feel

  • @drkn1559
    @drkn1559 Год назад +36

    Sai holds a personal grudge against Jessel and perceives anything Jessel says as a personal attack. Jessel needs to stop being friendly to those who mistreat her and start confronting them. Why is Sai so invested in Jessel's business? She should mind her own business. Sai would face a quick reality check if she were to meddle in my affairs.

  • @kevinreynolds7839
    @kevinreynolds7839 Год назад +79

    If struggle olympics and mean girl was a person … Sai. 🍅🍅🍅

    • @kevinreynolds7839
      @kevinreynolds7839 Год назад

      She thought she was funny #Delusional

    • @YourGraceMyLady
      @YourGraceMyLady Год назад +6

      Exactly. That’s what I commented on Jessel page last week. The oppression Olympics, and nobody can win but Sai! She has to have the biggest sob story and she doesn’t have empathy for anybody else with a story

  • @misstara322
    @misstara322 Год назад +89

    I've followed Sai for years and I'm proud of her success as a Black Latina, but she probably shouldn't have done this show.

    • @kayfay7674
      @kayfay7674 Год назад +1

      She’s awful

    • @LuckyMe-d3t
      @LuckyMe-d3t Год назад +16

      She’s not black. Black Latinas are not mixed race. They are black. She’s cosplaying as a black woman. I am a black Latina. We have darker than a paper bag skin, unambiguous facial features, and 4C hair. And we have two undeniably black parents. We also don’t have to tell people that we’re black. It’s obvious

    • @rsingh9900
      @rsingh9900 Год назад

      I agree

    • @gcchair7634
      @gcchair7634 Год назад +5

      @@LuckyMe-d3t I am just reading this and trying to get into your head. I have two Afro-Latina friends from Paterson. Both of them have parents have parents who have a set of bi-racial parents…both mothers have black grandfathers and Latina grandmoms . Both of their fathers are Black the one friend is brown skin (my tone) while the other is closer to a light brown. All Black people don’t look alike and the beautiful thing about it is that we come in all different hues. To say anyone has to be darker than a paper bag to be considered Afro-Latino sounds like some 3/4 of a person stuff. That paper bag test is apart of the colorism that exist in the Black community. Please tell me you are over 50/60 years old when people ascribed to that thinking. Let’s stop hurting each other with colorism, which is meant to divide us.

    • @themultipurposecenter4000
      @themultipurposecenter4000 Год назад +2

      Ya I agree it is ruining her image! I followed her as well and now ppl are saying she stole her husband from another woman and got preggers before she married him. I’m not judging her because being a Christian myself, I’ve learned that we are all flawed even people in the Bible that hang out with Jesus have all lived very flawed lives filled with mistakes. But because we live in a world of social media, because most people in society are Petty they are going to bring up everything you did before the show. I would not have put my face out there more than she already has and cause myself further embarrassment, than necessary, especially if you’re gonna come off unlikable on the show. She already was getting a lot of sponsorships, and she was already making moves in the fashion industry, she really didn’t need to show if anything it hurt her more than it helped her. Again, this is all allegations of course.

  • @vilvethope
    @vilvethope Год назад +72

    Sai you’re not mean or sentimental you’re inherently cold and soulless

    • @rmes6
      @rmes6 Год назад +1

      Wow I felt the same way and you nailed it
      She had sort of miss the great RHONY like Dorinda
      I've stopped watching
      Too mean

    • @Khyarro
      @Khyarro Год назад +2

      I read those words hearing P.K from the Beverly Hills franchise lmao when he said that to Erika Jayne

  • @user-mq9gd9hm2o
    @user-mq9gd9hm2o Год назад +52

    going "from rags to riches" on your own merit usually cultivates humility and empathy. Definitely not with sai.

  • @LB-tm1oj
    @LB-tm1oj Год назад +16

    She is a mean girl and has some emotional problems. She can make this her last season

  • @andreinacarrillo1586
    @andreinacarrillo1586 Год назад +41

    I just saw the latest episode where they questioned Jessel and her husband about Vietnam! It was all levels of nasty.
    Also the commentary during the confessionals… and all the talking behind their backs. It was really incredibly unkind and out of line (what he does in Vietnam is not their problem!) - this also applies to Erin! Just very mean and classless.

    • @celeste7469
      @celeste7469 Год назад +1

      I agree. I just watched that episode. Sai and Erin’s behavior toward Jessel was just down right mean. Jessel remained poised and I’m glad she called her out.

    • @katnichelle08
      @katnichelle08 Год назад +2

      And it's none of her business what Jessel or her husband does. Leave Jessel alone!

  • @sidrahzubair1605
    @sidrahzubair1605 Год назад +15

    She was freaking mean to Jessel
    Being honest is one thing but being aggressively mean with words and facial expressions and attitude is another
    #yougettinghateforbeingmean

  • @SoulReaperReisha
    @SoulReaperReisha Год назад +25

    She’s not honest she’s a mean girl and doesn’t care about anyone but herself. Jessel is right that Erin and Sai are mean girls.

  • @velvetmonroe1049
    @velvetmonroe1049 Год назад +18

    Sia, is the liar. Jessel, said her husband was going in a “few weeks” not next week. Sia, is condescending. I don’t understand why she is so involved in Jessel marriage. Every time she opens her mouth is abt Jessel. She talk abt herself/her marriage. She’s very disrespectful and abrasive. I don’t like her!

  • @lm2519
    @lm2519 Год назад +56

    no no sai....there's a way to be honest but not abrasive. saying you're a new yorker doesn't cut it. what does it even mean i'm a "girl's girl"? please don't put women in the bucket of honest abrasive. your upbringing was difficult but you're in a place of privilege now with a loving family and a successful business that you built from the ground up. maybe you can find it in you to be more understanding of others.

  • @mariposa1933
    @mariposa1933 Год назад +39

    Her opener is “being the baddest apple” in the city. Nuff said. 🥺 She is not representing us Ricans very well. 😠🥺😳 We all aren’t that way. Abrasive, rude, loud, obnoxious, cold and immature. She started off busting chops and being funny but she is just being a jerk at this point. She was hired to be the villain. I’m over this mean girl dark path gang up crap with these shows.

    • @josiecotrona583
      @josiecotrona583 Год назад +4

      I’m sick of them myself!
      It’s not that fun to watch!

  • @ktmilillo
    @ktmilillo Год назад +41

    She's out of touch with other women. Nasty bad apple with a tapeworm. Hope she isn't on next season.😮

  • @Ameras15
    @Ameras15 Год назад +41

    Sai is the ultimate mean girl! She needs to be a one and done. She won’t even engage with Jessel, it’s so horrible

  • @lowusua2416
    @lowusua2416 Год назад +18

    So...she's mean and she's a girl. But definitely not a mean girl. Sai is not self- aware. She uses brutal honesty as a shield for being brash, abrasive, and ultimately mean. And opinion is not the same as fact so her idea of telling the truth is telling her unsolicited opinion. That's immaturity. Most grow and learn to better relate to people. It's a shame she hasn't used this as a valuable growth moment.

    • @VauveAnais
      @VauveAnais Год назад

      Agreed! Well said.

    • @orchidlife9482
      @orchidlife9482 Год назад

      Sai’s lack of refinement often gets in her way. She works damn hard-harder than most bc she’s had to fight tooth and nail to become a fashion influencer at her height. Soon, her daughter’s modeling/acting career will demand a lot of her time and effort. I think a one season and done would be wise.

  • @lepanikuru3938
    @lepanikuru3938 Год назад +6

    You can be honest and not be mean..... you're 💯 a mean person, Sai!!....no self awareness, no empathy. Having a tough upbringing doesn't give you the right to be rude, abrasive and arrogant.

  • @clee1192
    @clee1192 Год назад +10

    He is looking for her to apologize but she doesn't get it. She says she's honest but unfortunately she's not honest with herself. She is a mean person and she cannot face this truth. It's too bad she doesn't use this opportunity to grow as a person.

  • @purvibahri7476
    @purvibahri7476 Год назад +22

    Honey you’re out here limiting comments on your Insta and you’re asking Jessel to be prepared with answers ? Girl BYE

  • @sheh.9163
    @sheh.9163 Год назад +11

    Sai comes across completely unaware and miserable. Insufferable.

  • @GoldieBABYpsb
    @GoldieBABYpsb Год назад +13

    I use to see Sai in passing on SM before she was on the show and her content came across as superficial and cold. Seeing her on the show confirmed what I thought about her.

    • @rmes6
      @rmes6 Год назад

      How does she earn a penny with her self absorbed privileged self
      Yikes🎉

  • @newbeginnings3859
    @newbeginnings3859 Год назад +6

    Sai is so ratchet… she may have cleaned up her wardrobe but her character is straight outta the ghetto…

  • @bethwilking6573
    @bethwilking6573 Год назад +19

    SAI is a very mean and rude person. I have not seen one part of her being real at all.
    Blaming being Hangry. Once or twice but not every single time

    • @YourGraceMyLady
      @YourGraceMyLady Год назад +1

      She has tapeworm. If that’s the case.

    • @wisdom1394
      @wisdom1394 Год назад

      ​@@YourGraceMyLadyOr an unhealthy relationship with food.

  • @AirJKB13
    @AirJKB13 Год назад +4

    Sai triggers me. She has no right to decide I’m so stupid that she has to raise her voice? Don’t need her vibe. It’s abusive. Not everyone should have to take it or match energy. She’s dragging them!

  • @keatonbanta
    @keatonbanta Год назад +8

    Apart of being honest is modifying your delivery as to not hurt the persons feelings. The lack of empathy and understanding of peoples of emotions is mean, end of story.

  • @rsingh9900
    @rsingh9900 Год назад +7

    No Sai ! Coming back and being sarcastic and do it with a smile will not change anything. Bravo please find a woman who is funny and kind and not activate . Opportunity wasted .

    • @wisdom1394
      @wisdom1394 Год назад

      Yes, get her off the show quickly.

  • @Jaedoe888
    @Jaedoe888 Год назад +17

    The worst thing is an old or aging maen girl. I was in a friend group with 60 yr old mean girls. I had to take my self right out of that Geriatric annoying mess.

  • @RemyNas24
    @RemyNas24 Год назад +18

    Go away sai , you let the side down

  • @DavidJohnson-dc8lu
    @DavidJohnson-dc8lu Год назад +19

    Clarification the watching public is calling Sai a BULLY and a home wrecker.

    • @themultipurposecenter4000
      @themultipurposecenter4000 Год назад +1

      Wait how is she a home wrecker ?

    • @YourGraceMyLady
      @YourGraceMyLady Год назад +4

      @@themultipurposecenter4000she was the side chick and working as a server at her husband’s restaurant and got pregnant right away.

    • @rsingh9900
      @rsingh9900 Год назад +6

      Gossip on the street is that she stole the married man from his wife .

    • @themultipurposecenter4000
      @themultipurposecenter4000 Год назад

      @@YourGraceMyLady oh wow how do you know??? That’s why she was hiding him
      On social media! But even though she was wrong, he was the one that was married, so it was his fault lol

    • @rmes6
      @rmes6 Год назад

      ​@@YourGraceMyLadyno way
      Omg is the true wow so self righteous I'm no not really😮

  • @GG-qy2wy
    @GG-qy2wy Год назад +24

    Sour Sai.....just so rude...

  • @TSNYLDN
    @TSNYLDN Год назад +17

    One season wonder

  • @laurac9857
    @laurac9857 Год назад +14

    Dont like her.

  • @icaruswnc8285
    @icaruswnc8285 Год назад +14

    sai and long jaws silver are both stuck in a 7th grade time loop

  • @josiecotrona583
    @josiecotrona583 Год назад +15

    It’s all good to stand behind the… I’m just being honest line Sai…well no, you are just plain mean! You can be honest without being rude or mean… you just need a good dose of empathy

  • @lorenabautista2242
    @lorenabautista2242 Год назад +2

    You were not only “hangry”, you’re a very mean person. Yes, you’re honest. Honestly mean.

  • @DOTTIE25
    @DOTTIE25 Год назад +2

    She lacks genuine empathy

  • @sarahlynch3
    @sarahlynch3 Год назад +20

    As soon as I saw the title I thought of course she’s not going to admit to being a mean girl! Your mean mean mean but hey let me guess you don’t care

  • @danielaf5565
    @danielaf5565 Год назад +8

    I hope she’s one n done

  • @themultipurposecenter4000
    @themultipurposecenter4000 Год назад +3

    The show is ruining her image! Just like a lot of people I followed her Content for a very long time I and now ppl are saying she stole her husband from another woman and got preggers before she married him. I’m not judging her because being a Christian myself, I’ve learned that we are all flawed even people in the Bible that hang out with Jesus have all lived very flawed lives filled with mistakes. But because we live in a world of social media, because most people in society are Petty they are going to bring up everything you did before the show. I would not have put my face out there more than she already has and cause myself further embarrassment than necessary, especially if you’re gonna come off unlikable on the show. She already was getting a lot of sponsorships, and she was already making moves in the fashion industry, she really didn’t need the show if anything it hurt her more than it helped her. I also take into account that the women who have been on the show for an extended period of time have come off unlikable on the housewives franchise at some point, so I will try not to judge her off this one season but hopefully she reads the comments, she self reflects, and she implements changes . But first you have to see that there’s a problem before you can fix it, not judging because again, we’ve all made mistakes, and we’ve all been toxic at some point even if you’re not toxic by nature, we all have had really bad moments. hopefully she watches this season And makes changes I didn’t get a chance to watch the whole season, but it seems like she’s been acting that way throughout the whole show. If she decides to do next season, I would like to see some growth. Again, this is all allegations of course. I don’t know if it’s true. If she never did the show, I don’t think anyone would’ve really known about her and her husband shady history.

  • @kic.7679
    @kic.7679 Год назад +1

    I thought Sai was going to be so dope. smh Very disappointed. And Sai, STAY OUT OF PEOPLE'S MARRIAGES! You know better. Very mean girl behavior and it was so unappealing.

  • @laurac9857
    @laurac9857 Год назад +10

    So what will sai do for a job when she is too old to be a social media influencer lol

    • @rsingh9900
      @rsingh9900 Год назад +6

      She is representing top brands who will not tolerate her mean behavior. She has now exposed herself that she cannot get along with other women.

    • @evas9735
      @evas9735 Год назад

      Go back to waitressing and stealing husbands

  • @Bravadoh
    @Bravadoh Год назад +12

    I don’t believe your story about your mum and i think your husband cheats - taste your own medicine

    • @johnvbrussels
      @johnvbrussels Год назад +1

      I believe sai that her mother was neglectful and I would easily believe she was emotionally abused as well, alcoholics can be very difficult and it would explain a lot of how she reacts to jessel. In the parenting question no doubt sai and brynn have suffered a lot whereas Jessel was lucky. Acknowledging that is not that hard especially to validate your friend's deep maternal wounds.

    • @Bravadoh
      @Bravadoh Год назад +1

      @@johnvbrussels jessel was asked to say her story
      Not listening to it and then calling her a liar is ridiculous. She said her parents didn’t support her emigrating and she was on her own financially but she had a uncle. How would they feel if someone questioned their stories is what i am trying to say?

    • @johnvbrussels
      @johnvbrussels Год назад

      for sure I agree, but it's not excessive for Jessel to acknowledge that the pain Sai bears may be beyond regular conversation@@Bravadoh

  • @malloriedina5159
    @malloriedina5159 Год назад

    Her biggest takeaway should actually be not telling peoples secrets.

  • @lydiafomuso7168
    @lydiafomuso7168 Год назад +2

    I hate the fact that I don’t like Sai as much anymore.

  • @VauveAnais
    @VauveAnais Год назад +2

    I'm still unclear what "a girl's girl" has to do with her unbecoming behavior. Even if she's referring to this term on the most surface level- it's the very opposite of what she projects. Sai is gross on so many levels.

  • @trintube68
    @trintube68 Год назад +1

    I do not care for this person.

  • @harrypizza8573
    @harrypizza8573 Год назад +5

    What’s up with that wig

  • @nunya530
    @nunya530 Год назад +2

    She’s not very self reflective lol

  • @katnichelle08
    @katnichelle08 Год назад +1

    I think she's a mean girl when it comes to Jessel.

  • @ruth6596
    @ruth6596 Год назад +1

    sai needs to watch this video back and do some self reflection because it seems like she doesnt know herself. Everything she says she isnt has been proven wrong. every. single.time

  • @warmfuzzy7270
    @warmfuzzy7270 Год назад +1

    Honesty without compassion is brutality and Sai is the QUEEN OF MEAN😢 The irony of Sai always screaming OWN IT while she chronically crucifies others and rarely takes responsibility 😢 GOD help you. We stopped watching because your behavior is so disgusting 🤢 I hope you leave the show so we can watch again.

  • @MarinaDhanyal
    @MarinaDhanyal Год назад +10

    Completely disingenuous and pretentious woman... I hope that she does NOT return...

  • @AirJKB13
    @AirJKB13 Год назад

    Erin, serve something everyone can eat if you’re only serving ONE THING!

  • @yvettetorres7829
    @yvettetorres7829 Год назад +1

    Sai is so unlikable

  • @haptkkf33d
    @haptkkf33d Год назад +1

    Wow. Talk about tooting ones own horn.

  • @mikeyteladoo5230
    @mikeyteladoo5230 Год назад +1

    We all know if Sai what is the one getting called liar then there would be an actual problem. But I think she thinks she can just bully around jessel and say whatever she wants.

  • @wandagreene3062
    @wandagreene3062 Год назад +2

    I like PAVIT, alot! He's more engaging than the other husbands. Erin is more of a mean girl than SAI, who just OWN's who she is, like it or not! Jenna so far is just boring, the jeans and jacket look, has been around for year's. Brynn, is trying to hard( Sonya Morgan) Ubah, and Jessel, are very entertaining. Overall, TOGETHER, it's Great CASTING! Im here for it.

  • @KayeOliver-e1i
    @KayeOliver-e1i Год назад

    Sai! Is insufferable. She was committed to not liking Jessel and stuck with her commitment! Baddest apple my ass! More like a rotten apple. Throw it away! I hate to generalize but PR are some of the most real humble hard working ppl I have ever met! I have disliked a housewife so much.

  • @moon230686
    @moon230686 Год назад +4

    All the comments are so negative, yes she was mean to Jessel, but they just meant. She's telling the truth but needs to deliver it without screaming.

    • @rsingh9900
      @rsingh9900 Год назад +4

      What truth? Sai are you still there

    • @kayrod420vegan9
      @kayrod420vegan9 Год назад

      This is exactly what I’m saying.
      I also don’t think she was being mean, people can’t see the actual problem with this situation (because the show has labeled Sai a mean girl) until they are put in the same situation.
      Sai is such an honest person it sucks that this is what’s portrayed of her

  • @marianicholls2741
    @marianicholls2741 Год назад +1

    Sai...just made for this show...brash, ignorant and aggressive!

  • @Oldfarmlady
    @Oldfarmlady Год назад

    Here's the thing..she's playing victim Olympics with her backstory. For the life of me idk why people do this. Hell I used to do it to. The whole ohhh I suffered more so my success is more relevant crap. 😅😅😅It's weird and at the end of the day doesn't matter at all.

  • @amandahenderson6145
    @amandahenderson6145 Год назад

    Stop being up Erin's butt

    • @KayeOliver-e1i
      @KayeOliver-e1i Год назад

      Thank you! I would be able take her “brutal honesty” if she wasn’t selective about who she was brutally honest with. She def don’t give everyone the same energy. She’s a bully

  • @nadiabouyahia7987
    @nadiabouyahia7987 Год назад

    Mean 😢😢😢 too te bon

  • @floral35
    @floral35 Год назад

    covert narcissist.

  • @mattiekim
    @mattiekim Год назад +3

    Sai isn’t a mean girl, she’s a New Yorker. TRUE New Yorkers are real. They spit the truth and they call a spade a spade. No games. If y’all think Sai’s a mean girl… don’t go to NYC, cause you’re not cut out for it wussies.

    • @nunya530
      @nunya530 Год назад +2

      The problem is that she’s not “spitting truth”. She’s making assumptions and insinuations. So ya…she is a mean girl. And if she’s a poster child for New Yorkers then I’m sorry to say…you are calling yourselves fake.

  • @danielaf5565
    @danielaf5565 Год назад

    Funny? lol

  • @marysmith3847
    @marysmith3847 Год назад

    Sai may be Meanish but she and Erin just do not tolerate B.S. which is what Jessel was giving. Jeckyll is like aJack in the Box popping up with a different story every week. Read her BIO - she moved to NYC for the show. Andy all but confirmed on reunion !

  • @cwilliams9148
    @cwilliams9148 Год назад

    All of us in these comments can be mean intentionally or not. Get off your high horse. She is not a bully! Bethany Frankle was a bully! You loved her so pipe down

  • @keikei3301
    @keikei3301 Год назад

    Sai is a straight shooter. To the point. Jessel talks in circles and never gets the point across; it’s hard to follow her. Let’s be real, Jessel doesn’t speak linearly and has terrible communication. Jessel says a lot of bs instead of being clear, direct, and succinct so a lot of New Yorkers are gonna call out her bs. The way she communicates is really terrible. Can’t stand it

  • @amberelliott6202
    @amberelliott6202 Год назад +3

    I absolutely love Sai! I totally understand her point and no matter what Jessel wants to compare her life not relate. Relating with others comes naturally not 'hey I too I lived with an alcoholic' which we can clearly tell are drastically different. Sai is not harsh just real and Jessel talks on circles and is not clear as well as confident in herself. She wants validation this is Real Housewives

  • @labethabartholomew251
    @labethabartholomew251 Год назад +4

    Love Sai ❤️ she was very entertaining

  • @KA-eu9sy
    @KA-eu9sy Год назад +2

    #TeamSai
    Jessel is socially inept. ( So is her husband Pavit. Calling Sai bipolar?! No! No! )

    • @franxxxi856
      @franxxxi856 Год назад +23

      Okay Sai 😘😂

    • @purvibahri7476
      @purvibahri7476 Год назад +18

      David? Is that you?

    • @YourGraceMyLady
      @YourGraceMyLady Год назад +13

      #teamjessel hi Sai! You made a couple troll accounts huh on IG too I saw

    • @rsingh9900
      @rsingh9900 Год назад +12

      The bipolar statement was out of frustration. He quickly retract. He should have not.. sai is clueless and mean

    • @cameronalexander1111
      @cameronalexander1111 Год назад +7

      It’s giving Erin

  • @kayrod420vegan9
    @kayrod420vegan9 Год назад

    SAI IS NOT MEAN! She says what people are thinking or what they would say to your friend when no one’s around. Shes a grown woman who doesn’t need to lie or over indulge with anyone if she doesn’t like them.
    I think she guards her space and in a society where everyone talks shit behind peoples backs and are not honest when they talk shit, Sai sees this and if she prides herself on honesty, she doesn’t like Jessel privileged princess behavior cry for help!