My Cancer Story ~ Days 4/5 Post Surgery ~ I've Had a Little Cry ~ No Movement Yet!

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  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

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  • @bymimiwithlove7087
    @bymimiwithlove7087 6 месяцев назад +3

    Hello Ashley, I had no ideal my friend. I am so sorry you are struggling. I am sending you lots of love and hugs and prayers my dear. Awe your kitty of a cat is preciousl. TFS and have a blessed week. Hugs and love from VA.

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks so much, I hope you are continuing to recover 🤗🙏🤓

  • @maysloman5313
    @maysloman5313 6 месяцев назад +4

    Sorry to hear that your going through such a difficult time did light candle at church today for your intentions. Thinking of you. Take Care

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you very much 🤗🙏🤓

  • @BettsyDoodle
    @BettsyDoodle 6 месяцев назад +2

    Sending you lots of love, healing thoughts and big gentle hugs 🩷🤗🩷🤗🩷🤗🩷🤗

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Aww, thanks so much, Dee 🤗🙏💕

  • @craftycs8917
    @craftycs8917 6 месяцев назад +2

    Good morning Ashley take care and be kind to yourself. Sendingbyou positively and healing vibes. Hugs x

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks so much, Ashleigh and Maureen, I hope you ladies are well 🤗🙏🤓

  • @alisonriley6837
    @alisonriley6837 6 месяцев назад +1

    Oh Ashley my heart goes out to you. I was thinking about you the other day and this video popped up. I wish I could take your pain away. My sister underwent a double mastectomy due to breadt cancer. This brings it home what you go through. My love 💓 comes with this comment. May you continue on your journey pain free ❤❤🎉

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  5 месяцев назад

      @@alisonriley6837 what a lovely comment, thank you so much for taking the time to leave it 🤗🙏🤓

  • @annlane1358
    @annlane1358 6 месяцев назад +1

    Aww lovely, I wish I could take the pain and discomfort away for you, just take it easy and just rest... Sometimes that is all you can do to start to heal, your body has been trhough a lot and needs time to heal... Sending you the biggest hugs ful of love, strength and healing, I know you got this! Love your ballet wrap, it is gorgeous! Take care lovely x

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      It’s very hard for me to sit and do nothing 🤣 I’ll try though 🤗🙏💕

  • @curveywoman
    @curveywoman 6 месяцев назад +2

    Prunes....they will do the trick

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      Yes, I need to get some, only question is, tinned or dried! Thank you for commenting 🤗🙏💕🤓

  • @hopesprings7812
    @hopesprings7812 6 месяцев назад +3

    You may not think you're doing well, but im in awe of you and how well youre doing. Cancer tiredness is another level of tiredness. I'm wishing for you a good sleep and a good poo 😊 💩
    You don’t look a sight, you look lovely x

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      You are too kind, Hope 🤗🙏

  • @joycetuer7951
    @joycetuer7951 6 месяцев назад +3

    Bless you Ashley. You look great for what you’ve been put through. I’m glad Blue is taking care of you. Thinking of you. Please take care

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks so much,Joyce 🤗🙏

  • @AnnieCreates-hugs
    @AnnieCreates-hugs 6 месяцев назад +1

    Oh Ashley I am so sorry you are having so much pain ! Hopefully the medication has helped it always make the pain worse when your bowels don’t work . Sending you big healing hugs 🤗🤗🤗

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      How lovely to see you here, Annie, thanks so much for your kind words 🤗🙏💕🤓

  • @judithnorfolk4739
    @judithnorfolk4739 6 месяцев назад +1

    Bless you Ashley. Take it slowly. Sending love and hugs

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      I’ll try to take it slowly but it’s hard,I’ve never been patient! 🤗🙏💕

  • @tracylouisew
    @tracylouisew 6 месяцев назад +2

    I am sending you lots of love and healing vibes. Sometimes we have to do nothing to allow our bodies to heal.😘 The ballet wrap looks absolutely beautiful. ❤🫂

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you, Tracy. I’m not much of a one for doing nothing 🤣

    • @tracylouisew
      @tracylouisew 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@paperandtwine 😆I know what you mean. I find it difficult too. Take care of yourself. 😘

  • @EmmaBakesCakes
    @EmmaBakesCakes 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hello. I’m a newbie to your channel and just wanted to say hi from Kent. I’m sorry to hear your going through this and thank you for bringing us along ❤

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Oh thank you so much, Emma, I hope you will come back when you have time 🤗🙏🤓

  • @jillybeelivingherlifeherwa3704
    @jillybeelivingherlifeherwa3704 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hi Ashley, if I could reach into the screen I would hug you so hard and gentle at the same time.
    You are doing amazing, you will go for #2 soon, your body feels a little shuck up, and you will feel a lot better for it.
    Gosh fancy talking to you about poop ❤ lots of love x

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      🤣🤣🤣💩 Thanks very much for your kind words, Jillybee 🙏💕🤓

  • @margewyatt1743
    @margewyatt1743 6 месяцев назад +1

    Admire your honesty, and feel for you.

  • @mrsp-notsosecretdiary
    @mrsp-notsosecretdiary 6 месяцев назад +2

    Oh Ashley, I do hope you will start feeling better soon. Please take it slowly and rest xxx The ballet wrap looks beautiful, you're so clever. xx

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Aww, thanks so much, Jo 🤗🙏

    • @Keeter904
      @Keeter904 3 месяца назад

      some things are just too "difficult" to say on here (if you know what I mean?) so pay close attention and write down the capital letters in the order that you see, understand?
      Frogs Often Leap Lightly Over Water. WILLIAM has More Adventures by Keeping In Shape. Ostriches occasionally Need X-rays. Fish Often Rest Comfortably while Ants Navigate Complex Environments Rapidly. Cats Understand Rules Easily Sometimes.
      many blessings. 👍

  • @margewyatt1743
    @margewyatt1743 6 месяцев назад +2

    Love the knitting, you looked and sounded better on the very last clip, oh and DATES, give them a try if you like them, plus a V pillow might help your poor back. ❤

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      I love dates, I’ll get Mr P&T to buy some 🤗🙏🤓

    • @margewyatt1743
      @margewyatt1743 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@paperandtwine Been thinking of you today, (Wednesday) hope there’s some improvement with all your movements 😊

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      @@margewyatt1743 thanks so much 🤗

  • @bethallan9911
    @bethallan9911 6 месяцев назад +1

    You’re such an inspiration ❤

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      Aww, that’s so kind, Beth, thank you 🤗🙏💕🤓

  • @mandie428
    @mandie428 6 месяцев назад +1

    oh ashley, im so sorry this has happened to you. i hope your pain goes away soon. thinking of you xx

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks so much, Mandie 🤗🙏💕🤓

  • @AndreatheCumbrianCrafter
    @AndreatheCumbrianCrafter 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hope you start to feel better really soon Ashley xx 😘

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks so much, Andrea 🤗 I think I’m making small improvements 🤗🙏🤓

  • @kirstenscuriosities
    @kirstenscuriosities 6 месяцев назад +1

    If I could hug you I would - sending you so much love x

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Aww, thanks, Kirsten 🤗🙏💕

  • @LornaCallaghan
    @LornaCallaghan 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sending you love and healing hugs. Take care xxx

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      Thanks so much, Lorna 🤗🙏🤓😊💕

  • @purplenanna1272
    @purplenanna1272 6 месяцев назад +2

    Bless you Ashley…always makes things worse when you can’t do number two’s.Lactulose is a waste of time for me…Laxadol is gentle but works in a few days…I went 8 days unable to go last time I had abdominal surgery 🙈…try drink as much water as you can rather than tea and coffee….boring I know but does help.Big hugs X

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      I’m actually not fancying tea or coffee very much at the moment, so water it is! I get so paranoid about my bowls, hopefully,y will be back on track soon 🤗🙏💕

  • @gigilou
    @gigilou 6 месяцев назад +2

    Really feel for you sweetheart, thinking of you. So sorry you're suffering. Sending so much love ❤❤❤

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks so much, Jen Jen 🤗🙏💕

  • @margueritepeaden3445
    @margueritepeaden3445 6 месяцев назад +1

    Ashley, I’m so sorry you’re having such a rough time. I hope by now you’ve been able to have a movement and that your pain and discomfort have eased up quite a bit. Moving around is beneficial for the soreness and will help with the back some too. But please don’t overdo and hurt yourself. Your body went through a great deal of trauma during the surgery and it’s going to take a while to recover from that, so please be kind to yourself.

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      I’ll try, Marguerite, thank you 🤗🙏💕🤓

  • @cmcarpenter123cardsandthings
    @cmcarpenter123cardsandthings 6 месяцев назад +3

    I hope you have had luck with the Lactulose. They gave me that when I was in hospital and it didn't work at all. But you are eating fibre and moving a bit so that should help. Beware of the codeine though as that can cause constipation. It's not a win win situation is it? Big hug ❤❤❤❤

    • @angelaredman3373
      @angelaredman3373 6 месяцев назад +1

      Awhh, bless you, Ashley. I find lactulose is not any good for me. Laxido, plenty of water helps but doesn't always work. I take pregabalin and cocodamols. Medication is the worst for upsetting your bowels. Thinking of you sweetheart. Xxx

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      No it certainly isn’t! I’m trying not to take the pain killers 🤗

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      @@angelaredman3373 thank you 🤗

  • @christinenewton8129
    @christinenewton8129 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm so sorry for you being under the weather I know you'll have good and bad days Ashley hunni you ever need a chat don't hesitate to email me. I'm here for you ❤❤ huge hugs xx

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks, Christine 🤗🙏🤓💕

  • @karinberonius8799
    @karinberonius8799 6 месяцев назад +1

    Oh dear. I hope the medicines will help. Your belly certainly is more colourful, but still, it looks good considering what you've been through. Give Blue a chin scratch from me. It's obvious she takes her duty as a caregiver very seriously. 😸🤗

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      I will, though she’s been missing in action today! 🤗🙏🤓💕

    • @karinberonius8799
      @karinberonius8799 6 месяцев назад

      @@paperandtwine 🤗😸

  • @prudencelay6067
    @prudencelay6067 6 месяцев назад +1

    Get and take a stool softener immediately! It is no joke to be blocked up - ask me how I know this? I almost ended up in hospital because of it. Pain killers are very constipating. They should have made sure you stated on the stool,softener right home from the hospital. You may now need an enema. I didm- I needed 2 actually and was close to surgery….

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      Oh no 😱 What a nightmare, I hope you are fully recovered 🤗🙏🤓💕

  • @amberskintyrecrafts6326
    @amberskintyrecrafts6326 6 месяцев назад +1

    Don't push yourself too hard you're doing great. Maybe sleeping on the sofa will help you sleep and help your back 🤗❤

  • @tinagillhamevans667
    @tinagillhamevans667 6 месяцев назад +1

    Re getting out of bed could you stand a dining chair next to your bed at the top end so that you can get the help to stand with that. As to sitting up in bed, get your legs over the side first and use them as a fulcrum to sit up,

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      Great ideas, I’ve pretty much got a system now which is different to how I talked about. Things are a bit easier on that front 🤗🙏💕🤓 Merci beaucoup 💕😘

  • @martha_makes_art
    @martha_makes_art 6 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank, Martha 🤗🙏💕🤓

  • @laura2051
    @laura2051 6 месяцев назад +1

    💐🥰

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you, Laura 🤗🙏💕🤓

  • @chattybatty7726
    @chattybatty7726 6 месяцев назад +1

    Just take things easy and don’t push yourself …… I really enjoy listening to LBC a radio .if you haven’t heard of it its a talk station each hour sometimes a couple of hours a different subject is discussed and phone in with their opinion ….iv actually phon a couple of times but quite some time ago ……there is only one presenter I don’t like but I can’t remember his name he plays stupid dittys on and off right through his hours …..
    Vanessa feltz has just joined the team but iv not heard her yet .I really like her and she would be one of my dinner party guests if we did the who would you have at a dinner party 💕🕶️x

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      I watch LBC here on RUclips, love Carol Vordermann, Sheila Fogherty and James O’Brien to name a few. Dinner party guest? In my current mood, Someone funny like Tony Hancock or Sid James 🤗🙏💕🤓

  • @lesleyayres2267
    @lesleyayres2267 6 месяцев назад +1

    sorry to hear you are still not doing so well. Hope it improves soon, maybe after the stitches are gone
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      Yes, perhaps, they are dissolving ones so probably got another couple of weeks to go 🤗 Thank you for commenting 🤗🙏💕🤓

  • @margaretflaxman
    @margaretflaxman 6 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤

    • @paperandtwine
      @paperandtwine  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you, Margaret 🤗🙏🤓😊