Now I know the reason why like your personality so so much - even we are from total different countries and cultures. I grew up in China in the 80th. My parents were extremely not happy in their marriage. I was terrified to stay home because I could not handle the intensity in the house between them. My mum always said if it is not because of you, I would have divorced your dad long time ago. She said this when I was in primary school…and sadly I blamed myself of being in the world. One day When I just started university, I begged my parents to divorce and they said no. Because both of them work in a university they need reputation…. Anyway, long story short, I left there 10 years ago and came to Canada starting my new life all by myself and I’m so so happy! Mary, you are awesome! Keep doing what you are doing now!
When you said I’d rather be divorced and happy. Yes ma’am. My parents had a terrible marriage. My brother and I have so a lot of issues from it and PTSD. I ended the relationship a year after my daughter’s birth with her father because I felt she would be benefit more from separated parents then that clusterfuck relationship. 11 years later. The greatest choice I made. She’s a great girl and is turning 12 in two weeks.
It's so refreshing and quite comforting that there are other people who've gone through similar things as I have, and have been able to become stronger and move onto a much better life. My life is by no means perfect and I have daily struggles. But I am happier now than I think I've ever been after leaving a 14 year nightmare of a marriage. I love being alone and having the freedom to be me and not having to support the leach I was married to. Thank you for being open about your experiences. It helps me to feel better, and I think it probably helps others as well. 🥰
I know I've said this before but I swear we're sisters! I grew up in a highly dysfunctional family as well and went on to have severely dysfunctional relationships too. Thankfully I am now happily married to my complete perfect match... he's wonderful. I learned alot from the environment I grew up in though, and as much as i love my parents - i learned how NOT to parent from them. Even if I walked through bad situations the lessons I learned made me who I am today and I think I'm a pretty decent person and an okish Mom. We all have skeletons and that's ok. The older I get the more I no longer care who judges my skeletons because I bet theirs are still hiding in that closet.... mine tap dance for all to see! 🤣 Love you Mary - you're the best!
Thanks for sharing this! I admire you. I felt the exact same way growing up in my household. And to this day it still effects me. We can grow up to be different than our parents.
My dad loved my mom in a way, but she hated him. He was an abusive narcissist who couldnt pick up after himself. My mom's brother was in a very happy, very affectionate marriage, and my mom would always say something like, "see, this is what its like when people like each other." I would laugh, but I didn't understand the depth of what she was saying. He cheated on her and left, and she actually tried to get him to stay. They fought so much, too, so there's a huge depth to her own trauma around her self worth and relationships. I understood a lot of what you spoke on here.
You might not be proud of your divorces, but I'm certainly proud of you for kicking those first two to the curb. So many people stay in abusive marriages. I'm glad you escaped yours. BTW, the lazy eye story is the first literal LOL I've had from a youtube video in a long time. I'm a bad person too, apparently.
I can so relate!! I am on my 3rd marriage. Honestly, I hit the jackpot! He’s so awesome and spoils me rotten! I guess after those 2 previous marriages I deserved a great guy and so do you, if that’s what you desire!! Mary, you are great!! You are so talented and funny. Just keep on enjoying life!
I never comment and I'm subscribed to your other channel also. I just have to say you seem like a cool lady and you have alot of traits that I have and have gone through some things I have also. I see another side of your personality on this channel and I'm glad you have worked out some issues and still trying to. And having 3 divorces means nothing. I think we all in our lifetime have met people that we shouldn't have attached ourselves to. We just have to move on. I wish you happiness and success in life.
I've never been married. But I do have five kids with three guys. The last guy is actually my best friend; we just didn't work out as a couple despite trying for a decade... I do wonder if one of the many, MANY reasons why I never got married is because my parent's relationship is absolutely awful, despite their denial of this. And I feel you on the part where you said that so many people think that THEY left YOU. A lot of people assume that my baby daddies left me. I left each one 😂
There’s nothing shameful about leaving 2 abusive relationships and having a happy one with someone you happen to be divorced from. It sounds like you and Glenda the good witch have a lot of love for each other, who cares if it’s an unconventional relationship? It sucks that people judge that kind of thing, but as long as you’re happy, that’s all that matters! 😊
Hi Mary. I appreciate the realness of your life. Everyone has something they would be judged with in their lives. If it makes you feel better Mary, my mom has been married and divorced 5 times. Same in initiating them all. Proud of you both deciding to not torture yourself for the sake of a marriage license.
I live by the saying " if they are talking about me, they are leaving someone else alone". People are so judgemental but I could care less anymore what people think of me 😊
I started watching this while struggling to stay awake and do my nighttime skin routine. I wasn’t prepared for how deep this was going to get. I’ve been a viewer for many years on my regular channel (I’m sorry I’m logged in over here, I’m super against people leaving comments while using their asmr channel, as so many people do it to be fake and get clicks). But so much of this resonated with me. My parents divorced when I was 17 and they were miserable for years before. My dad told me was I was 13 that if my mom survived cancer he was going to leave her, and then when I was 16 he told me they were going to divorce when I turned 18. I made a comment about it once to my mom, and she was horrified because she didn’t know he was planning. Marriage and relationships are hard and I think things are really changing. Like your friend who lives separately from her SO. Sometimes that works best. Love the quote about leeches too, I have never thought about it like that. I won’t host leeches, cut em off. You are a really special lady Mary, and I feel lucky to be here learning from your life experiences and having a few laughs along the way. I’m glad you have Glenda the good witch. ❤️ Ps: I was so sure you were in the tub until halfway through the video 😂
My dad and stepmom have had separate bedrooms for ages. They say it’s one of the best things for marriage. They have their own spaces where things can be exactly how they like them. When they want to be together they can visit each other, but otherwise they have room to spread out, no one controlling their space, they have privacy as a default. I think separate bedrooms and bathrooms can be great for a marriage.
My husband and I are in our early 40's and have had separate bedrooms for the last 10 years at least. It's fantastic for all the reasons you mention and for us, sleep schedules, sleep needs, temperature preferences, etc. Can't recommend it enough
"What other people think of you is none of your business" - are words to live by. Also, I think people are awfully small minded and would probably always assume the man was the one who left in all marriages. That's how they are. Apparently even in today's world people think women need a man, but the men don't need a woman 🙄.
Honey I’m 66 years old and I’ve had 5..I also kicked all of them out..the 5th divorce was 13 years ago..they all lied about themselves until we got married them the truth all came out. 😊👍🏻
PS: Being married three times is not a failure at all. Especially given the fact you were the one who chose to leave, it just shows how much self-respect and self-love you have.
One less marriage, and never in a cult, but everything else I've also experienced. I think you're totally right to be up front - stops all the whispering behind your back!
My father was an alcholic,he stopped drinking, 20 years ago,but my childhood was traumatic for me and my sister,but my mother did not divorced him,she put up with it ,like you say ,and now we all worked it out,but it is always traumatic even if we are adults,and I have always had wrong men,and now a I am 40 years old,and I found a man that is 54 years old,and I have never felt better,even if he is older,and he is great ,and treats me like a queen,and that is what we all deserve.Sorry if my english is not wery good. I just had to write this after this video All the best Anita
Mary, you are awesome! If you are not entertaining, you’re insightful. It’s like …you’re a friend and we just had coffee 😂. I wish you had a p.o.box, I would love to send u a little something something! 🙂 You’re amazing! Stay gold!! 👍
I love you Mary! I really do.. i seem to love everything you seem to get negative comments about 🤣🫣🤣 Your accent 😌 Your honesty Your acceptance of everyone (hence the rule no religion and no politics 😊) I just love you ❤️ i hate how fake social media is and you’re like a breath of fresh air x
You and I should be besties! I have been married three times too, still married to the third one, barely..lol. I have an eating disorder only the opposite way, I am a food addict. Depression? My best friend and am in therapy as well. I LOVE your honesty and being real which is why YOUR channel is my favorite! XO
I just turned 40 and maybe a year or two ago I went out with this guy who said he was 46. That was actually stretching it for me already, but then I ran a background check and it turns out he was 54! I gave him a couple of chances to be honest and eventually told him I knew. He was like, "well, I was going to tell you on our 3rd date" - WTF? I later asked him why he lies and he said, "I don't have anything in common with women my age." We ended up dating for awhile but I never actually trusted him. I just texted him a few weeks ago and he said he's dating someone else. She's probably 30 or something and thinks she's dating a 40 year old. There's a reason all his pics are filtered haha. Also, as a therapist, thank you for advocating for mental health ❤️
Mary, you are exceptionally courageous for sharing all of the hardships that you have gone through in your life. You are positively influencing the lives of so many viewers by sharing your story, as your experiences are relatable to people from all walks of life. It is heartbreaking to see how much turmoil you have dealt with, but you have taken those situations and become a beacon of joy for so many viewers. Thank you for sharing your light with the world.
As long as you're happy, that's what matters. Sometimes the perfect relationship for you isn't conventional and that's perfectly okay. And tbh whether the future holds something more for Glenda the Good Witch and you or not, I appreciate that you provide an example of what healthy exes can be.
Sometimes I don't get why some things with editing and videos are such a big deal.It looks just fine with you looking "at the wrong dot".Still enjoyable🥰 Oh and also the video quality is awesome and the white luminous backround is so nice!
Mary, this was 6 months ago I realize that, but I’m telling you to make that tomato pie if you haven’t yet. I thought it sounded weird until I tried it but holy crap it’s amazing! The mix of cheese and mayo baked on top did not sound good but it’s so freaking good. Anyway, I really enjoy these videos!
I’m sooo glad it hasn’t only happened to me! I was dating a guy online for about 4 months. We sent pictures and FaceTimed and I never noticed anything. And then when we met up the first time, he had a lazy eye! He never mentioned it and I realized his pictures never showed it and he never faced me head on when we would video chat. I was shocked and like you said didn’t know where to look or what to do. I just wasn’t prepared for that situation.
Can relate to you Mary so much ! Been married once for 12 years together 15 we should never of got married !! Been single ever since I just attract the wrong ones lol x I’m turning 50 soon 😬
I think a lot of your long term followers are rooting for you and Glenda, but if that relationship doesn't look conventional who cares? Anything goes as long as you're happy :-) Separate bedrooms, houses, schedules - it doesn't matter! x
The lazy eye thing is distracting...I have a lazy eye when I am tired or intoxicated😂 I know its distracting and it confuses people but like you said we can't help it
I remember talking to a guy that I just met who had a lazy eye. I was 17 and never saw one before. I didn’t know where to look or if he was still talking to me. He said “ im talking to you” because I couldn’t tell. 😂 I was so embarrassed.
I never knew what a healthy marriage or relationship looked like growing up either, I always thought I’d never get married or have children luckily I married a wonderful man and have a beautiful daughter
Wait... your Walmart has mannequins!?? Oh I agree on the Walmart employees feeling like if a person needs help they run.. rude people lol.. one time my daughter wanted to try on something and we walked everywhere for anyone to let us in, I went up front and the lady said she can page some help when she had time, I called the store 2 times and nobody would come... I finally had to have my child crawl under and let herself in! Ridiculous!
My sister has a lazy eye and now has glasses to correct it, but I can tell you it is so hard not to laugh at them because you know they can’t help it but it is so damn funny
The name of it is "River Road". You can find a link to the Kindle edition, just search for the title and "book by Mary". She also read in on her other channel, there's a playlist there for those videos.
She said that you can find it on Amazon.com Or you can ask her on Facebook about it. She will most likely be able yo give you a response there. She gets alot of comments on RUclips, so it gets hard for her to keep up with all our comments. 😊😊
Mary, if you were to marry Glenda the good witch again, does that count as a fourth marriage or a reconstituted third? I know that probably sounds so silly, but I just can’t stop thinking about it 😂❤️
Love your openness and honesty Mary, it's definitely the way to be. Just one question, did you make this video sitting in the bath? It's not an issue, I'm just interested 😂
Mary, goddamn I love you. You are a rockstar. Not sure if you've done a video on your cult experience, but I would really love to watch it if you have one. Otherwise, request please?
Your childhood sounds very similar too mine… my parents were for the most part very unhappy with their marriage and it occasionally got very abusive which I had to witness as a child… I also happen to be queer so trust me life isn’t easy for me. But now I look at it as an important life lesson learnt, which is that true happiness doesn’t have to do with you circumstances and societal expectation don’t matter
Mary, I am less interested in judging you than I am interested in learning from your's, mine, ANYone's experiences. Even for married persons, we can learn from this. It's a people thing.
I wrote a book that you can listen to me read in a 17-part video series on my other channel, in the "River Road" playlist. It's a fiction novel loosely based on my experiences in the group, and other people's experiences. I don't plan to do a whole "storytime" type video on my experience because it's not exactly fun to sit and reminisce about. I did talk about it here last November, though: ruclips.net/video/yLMuTieUDyU/видео.html
It turns out that I was looking at the wrong dot throughout this video. Sorry about that!
See? I learned something today. 🤣
😂
Looking at the wrong part of the camera just like that cross eyed catfish 🤣😂
If you were curious, green dot in the corner indicates audio recording
I was thinking that the whole time….Mary look the other way 😂
The irony of you telling the lazy eye story while looking at the wrong camera lens had me dying laughing
38 plus tax 😂😂😂
I spat my water out when she said that omg 🤣
Now I know the reason why like your personality so so much - even we are from total different countries and cultures. I grew up in China in the 80th. My parents were extremely not happy in their marriage. I was terrified to stay home because I could not handle the intensity in the house between them. My mum always said if it is not because of you, I would have divorced your dad long time ago. She said this when I was in primary school…and sadly I blamed myself of being in the world. One day When I just started university, I begged my parents to divorce and they said no. Because both of them work in a university they need reputation…. Anyway, long story short, I left there 10 years ago and came to Canada starting my new life all by myself and I’m so so happy! Mary, you are awesome! Keep doing what you are doing now!
When you said I’d rather be divorced and happy. Yes ma’am. My parents had a terrible marriage. My brother and I have so a lot of issues from it and PTSD. I ended the relationship a year after my daughter’s birth with her father because I felt she would be benefit more from separated parents then that clusterfuck relationship. 11 years later. The greatest choice I made. She’s a great girl and is turning 12 in two weeks.
It's so refreshing and quite comforting that there are other people who've gone through similar things as I have, and have been able to become stronger and move onto a much better life. My life is by no means perfect and I have daily struggles. But I am happier now than I think I've ever been after leaving a 14 year nightmare of a marriage. I love being alone and having the freedom to be me and not having to support the leach I was married to. Thank you for being open about your experiences. It helps me to feel better, and I think it probably helps others as well. 🥰
I needed these giggles tonight, thank you Mary for always being authentic and unapologetically YOU ❤😂
"I've been salty all my life" :D "I got more luggage than the airport" I love these!
"I could see why because I'm a crusty bitch" lmao I love you mary!!
Mary you are wonderful being so open. I love it!
I know I've said this before but I swear we're sisters! I grew up in a highly dysfunctional family as well and went on to have severely dysfunctional relationships too. Thankfully I am now happily married to my complete perfect match... he's wonderful. I learned alot from the environment I grew up in though, and as much as i love my parents - i learned how NOT to parent from them. Even if I walked through bad situations the lessons I learned made me who I am today and I think I'm a pretty decent person and an okish Mom. We all have skeletons and that's ok. The older I get the more I no longer care who judges my skeletons because I bet theirs are still hiding in that closet.... mine tap dance for all to see! 🤣 Love you Mary - you're the best!
One of the realest people on social media. Love it. I bet I can speak for everyone when I say…. We could be great friends. :)
“GOD I’m a terrible person” meanwhile I’m laughing at every eye joke 🤣🤣
Thanks for sharing this! I admire you. I felt the exact same way growing up in my household. And to this day it still effects me. We can grow up to be different than our parents.
My dad loved my mom in a way, but she hated him. He was an abusive narcissist who couldnt pick up after himself. My mom's brother was in a very happy, very affectionate marriage, and my mom would always say something like, "see, this is what its like when people like each other." I would laugh, but I didn't understand the depth of what she was saying. He cheated on her and left, and she actually tried to get him to stay. They fought so much, too, so there's a huge depth to her own trauma around her self worth and relationships. I understood a lot of what you spoke on here.
I usually just watch your ASMR channel so it’s different to see you so transparent about your personal life and at a normal volume. 😆
Oh thank you!
I've always wondered if you and Glenda the good witch would marry again after the kids are grown. Thanks for sharing.
You might not be proud of your divorces, but I'm certainly proud of you for kicking those first two to the curb. So many people stay in abusive marriages. I'm glad you escaped yours.
BTW, the lazy eye story is the first literal LOL I've had from a youtube video in a long time. I'm a bad person too, apparently.
“I’m a crusty bitch”, I felt that. Lol
I can so relate!! I am on my 3rd marriage. Honestly, I hit the jackpot! He’s so awesome and spoils me rotten! I guess after those 2 previous marriages I deserved a great guy and so do you, if that’s what you desire!! Mary, you are great!! You are so talented and funny. Just keep on enjoying life!
I never comment and I'm subscribed to your other channel also. I just have to say you seem like a cool lady and you have alot of traits that I have and have gone through some things I have also. I see another side of your personality on this channel and I'm glad you have worked out some issues and still trying to. And having 3 divorces means nothing. I think we all in our lifetime have met people that we shouldn't have attached ourselves to. We just have to move on. I wish you happiness and success in life.
I've never been married. But I do have five kids with three guys. The last guy is actually my best friend; we just didn't work out as a couple despite trying for a decade... I do wonder if one of the many, MANY reasons why I never got married is because my parent's relationship is absolutely awful, despite their denial of this.
And I feel you on the part where you said that so many people think that THEY left YOU. A lot of people assume that my baby daddies left me. I left each one 😂
There’s nothing shameful about leaving 2 abusive relationships and having a happy one with someone you happen to be divorced from. It sounds like you and Glenda the good witch have a lot of love for each other, who cares if it’s an unconventional relationship? It sucks that people judge that kind of thing, but as long as you’re happy, that’s all that matters! 😊
💯 agree with this comment!!!
Hi Mary. I appreciate the realness of your life. Everyone has something they would be judged with in their lives. If it makes you feel better Mary, my mom has been married and divorced 5 times. Same in initiating them all. Proud of you both deciding to not torture yourself for the sake of a marriage license.
oops. I forgot I am on my boyfriend's RUclips. @kaylarichardson6813 My B.
“It looked like this eye was looking at me but I wasn’t so sure” 😂😂😂😂😂
It's SO satisfying when you talk about foods and, veggies/fruits in particular the accent is giving!
I live by the saying " if they are talking about me, they are leaving someone else alone". People are so judgemental but I could care less anymore what people think of me 😊
And still you rise above your raising!! I love your candor. You are an absolute inspiration and a source of humor and peace for me. 💛💛💛
I started watching this while struggling to stay awake and do my nighttime skin routine.
I wasn’t prepared for how deep this was going to get. I’ve been a viewer for many years on my regular channel (I’m sorry I’m logged in over here, I’m super against people leaving comments while using their asmr channel, as so many people do it to be fake and get clicks).
But so much of this resonated with me. My parents divorced when I was 17 and they were miserable for years before. My dad told me was I was 13 that if my mom survived cancer he was going to leave her, and then when I was 16 he told me they were going to divorce when I turned 18. I made a comment about it once to my mom, and she was horrified because she didn’t know he was planning.
Marriage and relationships are hard and I think things are really changing. Like your friend who lives separately from her SO. Sometimes that works best.
Love the quote about leeches too, I have never thought about it like that. I won’t host leeches, cut em off.
You are a really special lady Mary, and I feel lucky to be here learning from your life experiences and having a few laughs along the way.
I’m glad you have Glenda the good witch. ❤️
Ps: I was so sure you were in the tub until halfway through the video 😂
I love your videos! I'm in the dating pool right now. At 42 and OMG! I'm about to lose my mind 🤣😂
Holy , I’m crying laughing watching this.
“ he had a bitchin lazy eye” killed me 🤣
My dad and stepmom have had separate bedrooms for ages. They say it’s one of the best things for marriage. They have their own spaces where things can be exactly how they like them. When they want to be together they can visit each other, but otherwise they have room to spread out, no one controlling their space, they have privacy as a default. I think separate bedrooms and bathrooms can be great for a marriage.
My husband and I are in our early 40's and have had separate bedrooms for the last 10 years at least. It's fantastic for all the reasons you mention and for us, sleep schedules, sleep needs, temperature preferences, etc. Can't recommend it enough
“I like to make all new mistakes over time” fav line of this vid 😂
I love how open and honest you are about everything.
you are so comforting i love that you have this channel now :)
"What other people think of you is none of your business" - are words to live by. Also, I think people are awfully small minded and would probably always assume the man was the one who left in all marriages. That's how they are. Apparently even in today's world people think women need a man, but the men don't need a woman 🙄.
I Love You Mary!!! Thank you for being Real!!!
Hind sight is a wonderful teacher. Bless you, Mary, for being true to yourself.
Honey I’m 66 years old and I’ve had 5..I also kicked all of them out..the 5th divorce was 13 years ago..they all lied about themselves until we got married them the truth all came out. 😊👍🏻
"GOD I'M A TERRIBLE PERSON!"
No Mary, you're just too funny for words.
PS: Being married three times is not a failure at all. Especially given the fact you were the one who chose to leave, it just shows how much self-respect and self-love you have.
One less marriage, and never in a cult, but everything else I've also experienced. I think you're totally right to be up front - stops all the whispering behind your back!
I truly admire your candor.
Tomato pie is my favorite! You can even use ramekins to make just the filling. 🍅 🥧 😍
My father was an alcholic,he stopped drinking, 20 years ago,but my childhood was traumatic for me and my sister,but my mother did not divorced him,she put up with it ,like you say ,and now we all worked it out,but it is always traumatic even if we are adults,and I have always had wrong men,and now a I am 40 years old,and I found a man that is 54 years old,and I have never felt better,even if he is older,and he is great ,and treats me like a queen,and that is what we all deserve.Sorry if my english is not wery good.
I just had to write this after this video All the best Anita
Mary, you are awesome! If you are not entertaining, you’re insightful. It’s like …you’re a friend and we just had coffee 😂. I wish you had a p.o.box, I would love to send u a little something something! 🙂
You’re amazing! Stay gold!! 👍
I love the mannequin story XD that shirt is adorable, I would totally wrestle a mannequin for it too!
I love you Mary!
I really do.. i seem to love everything you seem to get negative comments about 🤣🫣🤣
Your accent 😌
Your honesty
Your acceptance of everyone (hence the rule no religion and no politics 😊)
I just love you ❤️ i hate how fake social media is and you’re like a breath of fresh air x
Thank you Mary for being true and real!!!
You are my spirit animal!!!!!
I have a glass of white wine + ramen noodles listening to this full on XD
I laughed so hard, I cried!!! 😂
You and I should be besties! I have been married three times too, still married to the third one, barely..lol. I have an eating disorder only the opposite way, I am a food addict. Depression? My best friend and am in therapy as well. I LOVE your honesty and being real which is why YOUR channel is my favorite! XO
Mary I adore you! You're so relatable and I feel like I'm listening to one of my besties
❤️ I think Glenda the good witch is your Rachel haha
Your skin looks so wonderful !! 🤍
I just turned 40 and maybe a year or two ago I went out with this guy who said he was 46. That was actually stretching it for me already, but then I ran a background check and it turns out he was 54! I gave him a couple of chances to be honest and eventually told him I knew. He was like, "well, I was going to tell you on our 3rd date" - WTF? I later asked him why he lies and he said, "I don't have anything in common with women my age." We ended up dating for awhile but I never actually trusted him. I just texted him a few weeks ago and he said he's dating someone else. She's probably 30 or something and thinks she's dating a 40 year old. There's a reason all his pics are filtered haha.
Also, as a therapist, thank you for advocating for mental health ❤️
Mary, you are exceptionally courageous for sharing all of the hardships that you have gone through in your life. You are positively influencing the lives of so many viewers by sharing your story, as your experiences are relatable to people from all walks of life. It is heartbreaking to see how much turmoil you have dealt with, but you have taken those situations and become a beacon of joy for so many viewers. Thank you for sharing your light with the world.
“A bitchin’ lazy eye” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
As long as you're happy, that's what matters. Sometimes the perfect relationship for you isn't conventional and that's perfectly okay. And tbh whether the future holds something more for Glenda the Good Witch and you or not, I appreciate that you provide an example of what healthy exes can be.
Sometimes I don't get why some things with editing and videos are such a big deal.It looks just fine with you looking "at the wrong dot".Still enjoyable🥰
Oh and also the video quality is awesome and the white luminous backround is so nice!
Mary, this was 6 months ago I realize that, but I’m telling you to make that tomato pie if you haven’t yet. I thought it sounded weird until I tried it but holy crap it’s amazing! The mix of cheese and mayo baked on top did not sound good but it’s so freaking good. Anyway, I really enjoy these videos!
Proud of you!!! Your a strong woman doing great for yourself live life and have fun!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
I’m sooo glad it hasn’t only happened to me!
I was dating a guy online for about 4 months. We sent pictures and FaceTimed and I never noticed anything. And then when we met up the first time, he had a lazy eye! He never mentioned it and I realized his pictures never showed it and he never faced me head on when we would video chat. I was shocked and like you said didn’t know where to look or what to do. I just wasn’t prepared for that situation.
OMG, I really want to see Carl handling luggage now. LOL
Can relate to you Mary so much ! Been married once for 12 years together 15 we should never of got married !! Been single ever since I just attract the wrong ones lol x I’m turning 50 soon 😬
By the way River Road really helped me understand a cult and how it happens to a person. Opened my eyes,
Ditto!
As always, a cooking video sounds great.
LMAO I have a lazy eye (not to a crazy extent but I can control it) and it’s hilarious when I show it to ppl it’s literally my trademark :D
I think a lot of your long term followers are rooting for you and Glenda, but if that relationship doesn't look conventional who cares? Anything goes as long as you're happy :-) Separate bedrooms, houses, schedules - it doesn't matter! x
The lazy eye thing is distracting...I have a lazy eye when I am tired or intoxicated😂 I know its distracting and it confuses people but like you said we can't help it
can i just say your skin is glowing? dang.
You have lived a life!! ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
I cannot believe you get any hate Mary you are such a sweet and funny soul !
I remember talking to a guy that I just met who had a lazy eye. I was 17 and never saw one before. I didn’t know where to look or if he was still talking to me. He said “ im talking to you” because I couldn’t tell. 😂 I was so embarrassed.
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I LOVE this side of Mary!
I never knew what a healthy marriage or relationship looked like growing up either, I always thought I’d never get married or have children luckily I married a wonderful man and have a beautiful daughter
Wait... your Walmart has mannequins!?? Oh I agree on the Walmart employees feeling like if a person needs help they run.. rude people lol.. one time my daughter wanted to try on something and we walked everywhere for anyone to let us in, I went up front and the lady said she can page some help when she had time, I called the store 2 times and nobody would come... I finally had to have my child crawl under and let herself in! Ridiculous!
38 plus tax😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭☠
Oh Mary, I relate to the leech ex-husband! Thanks for this video, you’re awesome 👏🏻
You may not think so Mary, but you sure as hell are a pretty princess 🌼
My sister has a lazy eye and now has glasses to correct it, but I can tell you it is so hard not to laugh at them because you know they can’t help it but it is so damn funny
I'd love to hear more about your therapy sessions, if you don't mind. I'm on the fence about trying it. Your book?! Where can we read it?
The name of it is "River Road". You can find a link to the Kindle edition, just search for the title and "book by Mary". She also read in on her other channel, there's a playlist there for those videos.
She said that you can find it on Amazon.com
Or you can ask her on Facebook about it. She will most likely be able yo give you a response there. She gets alot of comments on RUclips, so it gets hard for her to keep up with all our comments. 😊😊
Oooooo I loooooove tomato pie...very rich, very delicious
I'm just recently realized that you have a secong channel and I love it ✨
That's it. We are the same person.
Mary, if you were to marry Glenda the good witch again, does that count as a fourth marriage or a reconstituted third? I know that probably sounds so silly, but I just can’t stop thinking about it 😂❤️
I don't count it as a fourth. Call it 3.5.
I never know where to look when I talk to lazy eye friends.
I love these vlogs so much♡
Love your openness and honesty Mary, it's definitely the way to be.
Just one question, did you make this video sitting in the bath? It's not an issue, I'm just interested 😂
Mary, goddamn I love you. You are a rockstar. Not sure if you've done a video on your cult experience, but I would really love to watch it if you have one. Otherwise, request please?
ruclips.net/video/yLMuTieUDyU/видео.html
38 + tax 😂
Awwwww I hope yall get back together!!!!! Hey atleast it'd be a cool story lol
Your childhood sounds very similar too mine… my parents were for the most part very unhappy with their marriage and it occasionally got very abusive which I had to witness as a child… I also happen to be queer so trust me life isn’t easy for me. But now I look at it as an important life lesson learnt, which is that true happiness doesn’t have to do with you circumstances and societal expectation don’t matter
This video is too funny 😂
we have something called tomato pie in philadelphia but i doubt it’s the same thing.
I wonder if it was a glass eye. I have 2 friends with glass eyes and I can never tell where they are looking for which one is the fake.
Mary, I am less interested in judging you than I am interested in learning from your's, mine, ANYone's experiences. Even for married persons, we can learn from this. It's a people thing.
I wanna hear more about this cult. I am fascinated by cults.
I wrote a book that you can listen to me read in a 17-part video series on my other channel, in the "River Road" playlist. It's a fiction novel loosely based on my experiences in the group, and other people's experiences.
I don't plan to do a whole "storytime" type video on my experience because it's not exactly fun to sit and reminisce about. I did talk about it here last November, though: ruclips.net/video/yLMuTieUDyU/видео.html
LMAO THIS IS SO FUNNY
Damn I need to move to the u.s I’ve been a cleaner for over 25 years lol x