Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
What if you've unfortunately done all these mistakes post break up? And the last interaction with the Ex turned to unfriending on FB/IG 1 week ago 2 months after breakup. But you have to see them one more time to untangle a logistical issue next week, but the prior week was horrible with the blocking and the begging? Is there a chance to make this interaction positive to respect yourself when they look so poorly of you now? Should I try to avoid seeing them ans let a friend handle it? Thanks!!
When you see your ex, be polite and only discus the logistical issue. If they bring the relationship, breakup, the last argument, you can discuss like adults. Other than that, it’s just business now.
@TheLoveFix-Nick Thank you for responding to me and your advice. Last week was so bad and since then I have been blocked essentially so there's nothing I should do or say to let him know I am finally going to allow him to have the breakup and take ownership of that?. This will probably be the last time I see him and I know I've validated his decision to break up with me with my lack of control. (We were together 6 years, engaged 2 years ago). Thank you again. I wish I saw all this 2 months ago!
Me personally there is only 1 out of the 8 ex’s I do wanna go back because I mess up and wanna start over. But it’s just for the best to move on and find someone else and not make those same mistakes again
Starting over can also mean starting a new relationship with the same person. Another big mistake people tend to do, is to resurrect the old relationship after it has already died.
The last convo I had with my ex I was pretty angry, simply because she was making getting my stuff back more difficult than it needed to be. After I told her I would drop my keys off, I told her to leave me alone. Is that the same as declaring no contact? I'm not expecting her to return, just curious.
What happens if you did everything wrong for the last six months absolutely everything wrong is it a wrap or is there any? Hope she texted me said that she wish we could be friends. I told her I didn’t think I could authentically be just friends. That’s where I’m at right now. I don’t know what to do.
I hear you man, and I’m sorry to hear you’re going through it. You can’t do anything about the past, you can only focus on the here and now. There is always a possibility an ex can back, but assuming they won’t will probably keep your expectations in check, and give you time to level up. If she did come back, who she gonna find? The guy she left or the guy they levelled up? Levelling up is win win.
Smart contact, buddy. You only discuss the kids where needed. Stay polite and on point. Stay on your centre. Level up as a man and father. You’ve got this. 😊😊💪💪
we were in the verge of reconciliation and i asked her if she was in love with me took me back to NC. yippie!!!
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
I hear you man.
It’s okay to still love, miss and want her.
I promise, it gets easier and you’re going to be fine.
What if you've unfortunately done all these mistakes post break up? And the last interaction with the Ex turned to unfriending on FB/IG 1 week ago 2 months after breakup. But you have to see them one more time to untangle a logistical issue next week, but the prior week was horrible with the blocking and the begging? Is there a chance to make this interaction positive to respect yourself when they look so poorly of you now? Should I try to avoid seeing them ans let a friend handle it? Thanks!!
When you see your ex, be polite and only discus the logistical issue.
If they bring the relationship, breakup, the last argument, you can discuss like adults.
Other than that, it’s just business now.
@TheLoveFix-Nick Thank you for responding to me and your advice. Last week was so bad and since then I have been blocked essentially so there's nothing I should do or say to let him know I am finally going to allow him to have the breakup and take ownership of that?. This will probably be the last time I see him and I know I've validated his decision to break up with me with my lack of control.
(We were together 6 years, engaged 2 years ago). Thank you again. I wish I saw all this 2 months ago!
Im back again a year later after another failed relationship
I’m sorry to hear that.
I hope you’re okay.
What video do I watch if I've already done these 5 things..... ?
You work on yourself for you. That’s all any of us can do.
My whole channel is geared towards that.
I hope you’re okay.
Me personally there is only 1 out of the 8 ex’s I do wanna go back because I mess up and wanna start over. But it’s just for the best to move on and find someone else and not make those same mistakes again
Starting over can also mean starting a new relationship with the same person.
Another big mistake people tend to do, is to resurrect the old relationship after it has already died.
Is a month long enough for her to reach out
The last convo I had with my ex I was pretty angry, simply because she was making getting my stuff back more difficult than it needed to be. After I told her I would drop my keys off, I told her to leave me alone.
Is that the same as declaring no contact? I'm not expecting her to return, just curious.
I would say it’s more of a boundary.
What happens if you did everything wrong for the last six months absolutely everything wrong is it a wrap or is there any? Hope she texted me said that she wish we could be friends. I told her I didn’t think I could authentically be just friends. That’s where I’m at right now. I don’t know what to do.
I hear you man, and I’m sorry to hear you’re going through it.
You can’t do anything about the past, you can only focus on the here and now.
There is always a possibility an ex can back, but assuming they won’t will probably keep your expectations in check, and give you time to level up.
If she did come back, who she gonna find? The guy she left or the guy they levelled up?
Levelling up is win win.
What do you do if you have kids?
Smart contact, buddy.
You only discuss the kids where needed.
Stay polite and on point.
Stay on your centre.
Level up as a man and father.
You’ve got this. 😊😊💪💪
😂😂😂 so true, i fucked up. I became a beta