This is how my life looks like at this point. Exactly. I'm 58. Solitude has been a key factor in getting to really know myself. Not only that, it has also helped me to understand other people. I am on a disability pension. This is not what I was expecting in life, always been a go getter and "yesman". Never been unemployed or bored, ever. My misfortune or disability has turned out to be my real opportunity for me to find peace in my soul. At first I could not accept the life-changing and in some ways restrictions in my new life but it forced me to get underneath my skin and really meditate on who I really am. No, not all people understand that or my change of character. But it really does not matter (as is said here), others opinions will have to stand for themselves. It is of no concern for me. I am forever grateful having come to this insight. May all beings be happy
Happy in my retirement @60... I enjoyed doing things freely, no more rushing for paper works, meeting, seminars etc... I joined the singing group in my church and its really awesome!
At 71 years old I'm glad I stumble on this YT video. I now understand what I was seeking for: peace and solitude. Years of feeling guilt due to perceived obligation to family and friends only made me unhappy. Thank you for this episode.
I am 55 and already exactly like how you described: just for genuine meaningful connections, peace in solitude, simplicity, and value my sacred space, my sanctuary 💕🕊🙏🏼
One of those rare videos where I cannot disagree with a single word said and it describes my life and outlook to a tee! At my age, 66 I now understand why the machine does not want us to discover the benefits and beauty of solitude as it empowers people and gives them the courage to step out of the matrix and appreciate what really matters in life. Not depending on the system or seeking external validation. A life of more substance, peace, joy, appreciation, and freedom by taking control and setting boundaries. Thank you for a wonderful video.
I’m 69 ! Living the best years of my life - alone ! In solitude ! Peace and quiet in my 1800 sq ft home ! No mortgage ! No pets! No screaming kids! No nagging partner! No nosey bothersome neighbors. No friends to suck up your time and energy !
Its a great lesson given here not to tire even after your retirement. Life has to be made self fulfilling in every which way. There are challenges to overcome but at 65, its wiser not to be bogged down by them as you have till this date.Rather emerge victorious in your own little little ways in each aspects with wisdom and discerning attitude.Do not cease to live before you leave
I, me, myself, my, mine, etc. (eye roll) There are some good points in this video, but being around good people (and they’re out there) is a valuable choice when appropriate and as you see fit. Treasure them and your relationships.
Youngest of 10 children I do not talk to anybody in my family anymore. At first I felt a bit guilty but I realised I am just very very different to them and at 54 time gets very precious be careful where you spend it.❤️☘️🙏
I enjoyed the video... Solitude, Selective Relations, Setting Boundaries, Inner peace, No need for external validation all are things which I intend to practice in my life also❤❤❤
True.....re family....hit the nail.....if they are not supportive....or don't appreciate your kindness....its time to keep distance...In my case true..no matter what kindness..my younger brother is a narc.....with a mindset...n influence my other brother...because he's the golden child...n I am the scapegoat...but I keep silence...n cut him off....this has been going on for 30years...
Wow 30 years what an inspiration I just walked away 2 months ago from an entitled Dad who's ever demanding and judgemental also my unappreciative siblings.
I'm really sorry you've had to go through such a difficult situation with family for so long. It takes a lot of strength to maintain boundaries and protect your peace. I admire your resilience and decision to prioritize yourself.
So my religion advises me to keep ties of kinship. And I try but it’s so hard. But my religions also says to use your common sense and draw boundaries with those who abuse u. Sometimes I can’t stand people but sometimes I miss them. 😮
this is AI generated. I've come across similar videos on YT and they all sound almost identical. That's why I'm pretty convinced that this is an AI generated video.
I understand your concern! I assure you this content is created with real thought and effort. While AI can be used in some parts of the process, the intention is always to provide valuable insights and genuine information. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
This is just sad. Live your life, don't avoid people. You are a grown man, be a good neighbor. If you were a Christian then you wouldn't feel the need to cut people out. I am 12 weeks out from retiring, and I look forward to all my interactions, if they aren't good, I just walk away. But you do you.
Thank you for sharing your perspective. I understand your viewpoint, and it's great to hear you’re looking forward to your retirement and interactions. Everyone handles relationships differently, and I respect your approach!
It makes me laugh to see some of the channels that are going round now . I.E. after 70 it doesnt matter ! Avoid other people ! ( and here they all are on line interacting with others and counting their likes ! ) The problem with a lot of these so called loners is they got caught up in the three rings of life . The 1st ring is the engagement ring ! The 2nd ring is the wedding ring ! The third ring is the suffering ! It does not matter what age one is , once your born it really doesn't matter at all .
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don’t need to wait 65 to put this into place ___ I opened my eyes 2 years ago ___ and peace is now my motto 😊
This is how my life looks like at this point. Exactly.
I'm 58. Solitude has been a key factor in getting to really know myself. Not only that, it has also helped me to understand other people.
I am on a disability pension. This is not what I was expecting in life, always been a go getter and "yesman". Never been unemployed or bored, ever.
My misfortune or disability has turned out to be my real opportunity for me to find peace in my soul. At first I could not accept the life-changing and in some ways restrictions in my new life but it forced me to get underneath my skin and really meditate on who I really am.
No, not all people understand that or my change of character. But it really does not matter (as is said here), others opinions will have to stand for themselves. It is of no concern for me.
I am forever grateful having come to this insight.
May all beings be happy
Happy in my retirement @60... I enjoyed doing things freely, no more rushing for paper works, meeting, seminars etc... I joined the singing group in my church and its really awesome!
At 71 years old I'm glad I stumble on this YT video. I now understand what I was seeking for: peace and solitude. Years of feeling guilt due to perceived obligation to family and friends only made me unhappy. Thank you for this episode.
I started when I was 50 years old. I never been happier.Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge.
I am 55 and already exactly like how you described: just for genuine meaningful connections, peace in solitude, simplicity, and value my sacred space, my sanctuary 💕🕊🙏🏼
One of those rare videos where I cannot disagree with a single word said and it describes my life and outlook to a tee!
At my age, 66 I now understand why the machine does not want us to discover the benefits and beauty of solitude as it empowers people and gives them the courage to step out of the matrix and appreciate what really matters in life. Not depending on the system or seeking external validation. A life of more substance, peace, joy, appreciation, and freedom by taking control and setting boundaries. Thank you for a wonderful video.
I’m 69 ! Living the best years of my life - alone ! In solitude ! Peace and quiet in my 1800 sq ft home ! No mortgage ! No pets! No screaming kids! No nagging partner! No nosey bothersome neighbors. No friends to suck up your time and energy !
Solitude is my happy place. I love puttering around doing art and takng breaks. Never alone with my guides and angels. Love is eternal.
65 and Loving and safeguarding my solitude
Its a great lesson given here not to tire even after your retirement. Life has to be made self fulfilling in every which way. There are challenges to overcome but at 65, its wiser not to be bogged down by them as you have till this date.Rather emerge victorious in your own little little ways in each aspects with wisdom and discerning attitude.Do not cease to live before you leave
Beautifully said! Life is about finding fulfillment and overcoming challenges at every stage. Thank you for sharing such inspiring thoughts!
I, me, myself, my, mine, etc. (eye roll) There are some good points in this video, but being around good people (and they’re out there) is a valuable choice when appropriate and as you see fit. Treasure them and your relationships.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
Youngest of 10 children I do not talk to anybody in my family anymore. At first I felt a bit guilty but I realised I am just very very different to them and at 54 time gets very precious be careful where you spend it.❤️☘️🙏
I enjoyed the video... Solitude, Selective Relations, Setting Boundaries, Inner peace, No need for external validation all are things which I intend to practice in my life also❤❤❤
You’ve articulated so many things I’ve struggled to understand myself
I have learnt a lot. It makes me right that I am not wrong about people's around me. Thanks for sharing excellent summary.
You can thank the family system for instilling guilt for paying attention to yourself.
True
But "balance" is the key word in life.
it is true. As I age, I value my peace most.
Put myself first
There's limit to isolate from society as so many elderlys die alone for days and weeks without anyone knowing.
I choose to die alone in peace. It’s a good thing. Why do I care if no one knows?
True.....re family....hit the nail.....if they are not supportive....or don't appreciate your kindness....its time to keep distance...In my case true..no matter what kindness..my younger brother is a narc.....with a mindset...n influence my other brother...because he's the golden child...n I am the scapegoat...but I keep silence...n cut him off....this has been going on for 30years...
Wow 30 years what an inspiration I just walked away 2 months ago from an entitled Dad who's ever demanding and judgemental also my unappreciative siblings.
I'm really sorry you've had to go through such a difficult situation with family for so long. It takes a lot of strength to maintain boundaries and protect your peace. I admire your resilience and decision to prioritize yourself.
Thank you 🎻
You are super full of wisdom
Thank you. Good information. Nairobi, Kenya 🎉
So True 🙏 Thanks for your valuable guidance 🙏
I learned this video for self care
Pure wisdom
What all you said is actually a journey to attain ‘MOKSHA’, accepted well for thousands if years in Hindu and Jain religions, in India, and elsewhere!
It’s a life changing to read this Thanks from Indonesia
Excellent
So my religion advises me to keep ties of kinship. And I try but it’s so hard. But my religions also says to use your common sense and draw boundaries with those who abuse u.
Sometimes I can’t stand people but sometimes I miss them. 😮
don’t need to wait 65 to put this into place
this is AI generated. I've come across similar videos on YT and they all sound almost identical. That's why I'm pretty convinced that this is an AI generated video.
On point
I understand your concern! I assure you this content is created with real thought and effort. While AI can be used in some parts of the process, the intention is always to provide valuable insights and genuine information. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
This is just sad. Live your life, don't avoid people. You are a grown man, be a good neighbor.
If you were a Christian then you wouldn't feel the need to cut people out.
I am 12 weeks out from retiring, and I look forward to all my interactions, if they aren't good, I just walk away. But you do you.
Thank you for sharing your perspective. I understand your viewpoint, and it's great to hear you’re looking forward to your retirement and interactions. Everyone handles relationships differently, and I respect your approach!
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I thank you for putting yourself out there, that is something I would not do. I hope you continue to have a great retirement.
It's got nothing to do with whether you are a Christian or not .
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You are right, I feel sad when I think about people isolating themselves.
That is just my opinion.
Bravo
Good idea
Cast a cold eye
On life , on death ,
Horseman pass by !
It makes me laugh to see some of the channels that are going round now .
I.E. after 70 it doesnt matter !
Avoid other people ! ( and here they all are on line interacting with others and counting their likes ! )
The problem with a lot of these so called loners is they got caught up in the three rings of life .
The 1st ring is the engagement ring !
The 2nd ring is the wedding ring !
The third ring is the suffering !
It does not matter what age one is , once your born it really doesn't matter at all .
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Do you think that human being as a social creature is nonsense? Insane.
How awful!
If you want to discuss what’s bothering you, I’m here to listen.
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Brain shrinks not socialising though ?
Works until you get sick - and this AI voiceover is pathetic - by the way you are getting a thumbs down 🤨👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻
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