"The worst she can do is say no." Her: "Sure, we can come to my place and play some Nekopara. All the catgirls are hot." This is why I say no to e-girls.
@@echd1 You're gonna say that after my comment? The worst thing women can say is actually defending lolishit in general. That's worse than a "no" or an "eww" in my eyes.
There really is not. Society has a surplus of millions of males until the early 40s after which it has too many females. Mathematically, somebody is going to have to end up alone completely regardless their will.
This video is the embodiment of the "The worst she could say is no" meme Some girls just lose interest out of nowhere, man. That's sadly how it is for us guys. I got like one girl in my entire life, and I dunno what I do for her to leave, cuz I did my absolute best to make her feel welcome into my life while keeping things casual. I was being present, funny, teasing her and giving her emotional support, gave her space when she wanted it, and one month later she just says: "Yeah, I don't think we should go on". I sincerely believe I didn't do a lot wrong, I know FOR SURE that I did my best to be a good partner, but she still lost interest. With that, I learned that you gotta be prepared for anything really. You don't know when the truck is gonna hit you again. Just keep your head up and work on yourself.
She honestly doesn't seem worth it if you worked your ass off long enough to give her the support she needed, only for her to slam the door on you like that.
I'm the GOAT of not getting b*tches: - I've talked with the grand total of 2 girls this summer. - I haven't texted with a girl for anything outside of college classes or something since forever. - I've never had a gf. - I've never asked a girl out. There is no point cause I don't see the hints and it will be an embarrassment if I do just like that. - The last time a girl was obviously interested in me was middle school and I didn't want to have a gf in middle school. - I've gone to a club 2 times and I only danced with a girl once and I don't know how to dance too so yeah... - Every girl I know atm has a bf. - I've never used Tinder because I will not get anything from it and just wasted my time and energy. I think this makes me undeniably the 🐐 in this comment section because I hold all the important records, I feel like I'm Michael Jordan of getting no b*tches.
@@smokinj0e at least I don’t have to share my hoodies or deal with the inevitable drama of relationships ✌️
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What the heck is wrong with you, @@No__direction__? When they want to wear your clothes is the best part of a relationship! Ok, maybe not *the* best part, but it's friggin' up there. ;-)
It’s a long process. I haven’t talked to too many women, only a couple. Out of all the times I tried, I went out on one ice cream date. Still a win in my book. I’m still working on my anxiety
The world has truly done us a disservice…when a man considers an ice cream date a win. 😭 our expectations to be loved and cared for by women is in the trash.
Wow this video absolutely exploded. I'm in the same situation. Just wanted to say it's normal to feel like this. Dating is just very unequal and sometimes you just feel like a piece of discarded cardboard. And it's not even your fault. Just keep aware that you're not some unlikeable beta loser. It's just how the experience goes for most of us.
You know we can respect each other now, but if there comes a time when we're competing for the same girl, that respect goes down the drain pretty quick 😂
Bro I have to be honest with you. A lot of this video is you making these seem bigger than they are, respectfully. These are pretty mundane situations that will seem miniscule as time goes on. Trust me. I get it. These situations are very impactful when it happens but they are not a very big deal. You were right in the beginning of the video, focus on yourself and someone will come along, however focusing on yourself does not just mean work out and chase ambitions (althought that is a massive part that should not be undervalued). It is also learning AND failing in social interactions. Embarrassment is pretty normal and something most of us as average men will experience. Don't be afraid and most importantly DO NOT let it hold you back from trying again. Macabre storytelling made a really down to earth video concerning issues like this and he gives amazing, REALISTIC, advise. I suggest it to those struggling. Good lucks guys. Seriously, do not give up. It is hard but not impossible.
It's not big for you but for a person with zero experience it's huge. Though ill say its a pain tbh because ive gone to 2 dates to then be ghosted. And my buddy even had sex with one girl that he knew for a while to just get the "I need some time for a relationship" so it doesn't matter what women do at this point. Its constantly playing the cat and mouse game
The best way to get girls is by ignoring them and to keep improving yourself, they are aware of how pretty they are and if you can see right through their looks they will find you more attractive
I remember a rejection that scarred me in high school. This new girl I liked started going to my school. We talked for a few weeks, but homecoming was comimg up and I asked her out. She didn't say "no.", but this random kid heard her response and yelled "He got rejected." In front of everyone. I've never felt so embarrassed, not just for me, but for her. I never saw her again after that.😢💔
It is a cope after 7 rejections when you think about women other than close friends and family all you’ll think about is what happened you have to cope
Just some advice for y’all, I know it’s super fucking annoying, but literally just be yourself. Plant the garden and let the bees come. Maybe they won’t, but there will be that one star. Maybe she’ll/he’ll make the first move? The way I am, I’m a very comedic and- smiley- Person? I just laugh and smile a lot. So, naturally, the girls I’m friends with just liked a laugh. Understandably, the main thee girls I talk to don’t exactly have the best home life or mental health (which might be why one of them is my girlfriend lol) so I’m always there to support them. Last thing, like I just stated, just be there. Listen to them. I slightly have started to understand women(somehow) and have learned that with the girls/boys that need a bit more attention, if they’re having a bad day and they tell you to leave them alone, half the time it’s when they’ll need you the most. HALF of the time. Learn significant others patters on how they behave, and use that to your advantage. Stay well, if you read this whole comment, treat yourself to something nice. I hope this did help, and that you have an amazing rest of your week.❤
I appreciate the advice! Never heard better advice to be honest. We're all human at the end of the day and if you pretend to be something you're not, you'll not get a committed relationship that lasts long. Eventually the mask slips and once it does, you'll have many awkward conversations. Just be yourself folks
@@CraniumBlackpill of your with someone who someone who only likes you for your looks that’s not gonna last. It’s not only looks, and who says cope? My gf doesn’t purely like me for my looks.
dont let the virgin teasing get to you. whoever they've been with, either they re not proud of it or they think they were insanely lucky to get with her. they re comfortable with this kinda teasing because its so insignificant to them that it couldnt ever be hurtful to anyone. ? (i re-read my comment and i ve concluded i ve mastered the art of cope over the years.)
About a year ago I asked a girl out a date, got left on read, 4 months later after i forgot about her existence, she texts me out of the blue at 1am asking me to cashapp her $20. No, i didn't give her any money. I sent one text back asking her what she needed it for, she said she was at a restaurant and she forgot her money at home. I then left her on read. KARMA.
1 tip. Think of a girl as just another guy but don't be akward or do anything sus 2 tip. Try to actually talk to them they probably have a bunch of other guy talking to them they wont think anything of it 3 tip. Respect boundaries and try to shimmy out information like what they like if they are in a relationship 4 tip. Talk to them often dont be too comfortable or friendly or something because then they will see you like a sibling or something instead of actually liking you 5 tip. Try to spend as much time as possible with them dont spend every seconds with them or else you might seem desperate only stay with them every second if you and her agree you are good friends 6 tip. Make the teacher think you are friends if the teaher is cool they will pair you up with them in a project or smth and you and her could go to eachother's house without it seeming weird
bro in seventh grade i was working with this one girl and i kinda liked her, then one day this guy called us a cute couple as a joke, and then she was like "dude, you already know im gay" and i was so shocked and devastated
You just gotta have enough confidence to spark some conversation But keep to yourself a little bit: the more mysterious you are, the more girls want to get to know you. Don't be too loud or too giddy, no one wants a giddy guy. Don't be too thirsty, instead of chasing girls, let them chase you. And finally, hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Obviously, ur not prince charming, so ur not gonna get every girl, but rizz boosts ur chances of getting one.
Talk to them to spark conversation but don’t talk too much because there’s no mystery. Be nice to her but not too nice because that makes you a ‘nice guy’ and boring. Don’t chase her but you always have to be the one to make the first move. You see how these standards are impossible to actually follow?
You literally just explained what made Moist kriitical so depressed in his freshman year of college. Dont follow this advice. Literally just alk, you’d be surprised how many friends you’d make if you just talked.
@@blorpblorp2984true but you gotta be good at talking to make friends n shit. I’ve tried talking to a lot of people and when I do people usually jus wanna avoid me. You gotta have some charisma to you to “just talk” and make friends.
I'm 33 years old and a virgin. I work part-time milking cows and I do well financially. I'm proud to never had a relationship because I have self-respect. A lot of men go in relationship with women who treat them poorly. Ignoring women who are attracted to me is like a hobby. One reason I do well financially is because I never pay anything to a woman except my mother. I don't have emptiness in my life because I have faith in Jesus-Christ. I lack affection in my life, but I'm not empty. Sadly, a lot of people look in the other sex for a way to fill in the emptiness. They learn the hard way that not the reality.
First, I don't do really well financially. All lot of women do more money than me. I don't care because I like my job. Second, I will go to live in the woods in the near future. Almost all women need more confort to live. I'm good without electricity and no running water. Third, the good christian women of my age are taken. The others went with non-christian men. Some of them are as promiscious as non-christian women or even more. A lot of them have weak father, so they are not really feminine. Fourth, without a woman in my life I have more time to do meaningful things. I like to help people, so I take my freedom in life to do it. I also don't need to chase money because I live frugally. I'm fine with a part-time job. Less stress and more freedom. I don't chase happiness, but I'm happier than the majority of people in life because of my way of living. Do you plan to marry a christian woman?
In the first comment, I wrote I do well financially and in the second I wrote I don't do well financially!!! I work part-time (22-24 hours by week), so I don't make a lot of money annually. I don't want to do more money in a job I don't like. In the past, I work a lot, so I have a lot of saving. Alone, I do well financially. In couple I will not do well financially.
You had God and Jesus by your side because you didn't do it this long which showed them you had a pure heart unlike all the sinners that did it before marriage. Doing it before marriage shows you have no self respect since you're giving someone pleasure that might turn down your proposal in the future, and if they turn that down, it means they never loved you to begin with and were just in it for the validation and benefits. Don't let them use you bro. Notice how overly nice women are at church? Is because they have a pure heart. Atheists only see people by their looks because they're too arrogant and picky over everything
So it was one of those realizations I had in middle school that, as you kids would say I didn’t have any “rizz”. The girls I wanted didn’t want me. Same thing with high school, had a couple of close calls and just eventually was like “I’m just going to get though school and college will be different.” College wasn’t different, I was a few years into it, not really wanting to be in college and I was ordered to not drop out, so I failed out (that was as close to rebellious I’ve ever been). The kind of women I can get, I’d just as soon be alone than mess with that. Modern dating just isn’t for me, it’s just past me by. I’m ethically against dating single moms because having been that kid, I don’t want to put other kids through that. The main reason I don’t kill myself is because I got “US Civil War” on my apocalypse Bingo card, and I’m one away from Bingo, damn if I’m not curious.
Everybody keeps saying workout and get your money up and then girls will like you but if I have to make these changes for them to like me then they don't really like me
Its funny because they can stay the exact same. U go from peter parker to spiderman with money just to be able to attract the average chick that works at wendys and you’re supposed to be happy about that. Mean while some fat f’ck is dating some sexy thick anime chick because she knows that that guy will never be able to cheat and worship her
You guys don’t realize how lucky you are. Women just suck the life out of you. You are all 100% blessed and you don’t even know it. My advice to you is don’t Try to get girls. If a girl is into you she will come to you and you will know it. Any girls that you have to do anything other than just be nice and treat them with respect to get them to pay attention to you is just going to end up taking advantage of you and some will down right humiliate you and F you over. Also, never accept friend zones. Girls just use guy friends and they laugh about it behind your back. Seriously, work on yourself. Be yourself. If it never happens, then trust me your life will still be 100% better than the dumb guy who gets played and used. It may be this way for girls who date guys also. I don’t know I’ve never dated any guys.
Damnn hits hard because literally last week a girl I've been talking to, flirting with (she flirted back) and went out with got together with another guy who she had a crush on and had been texting the entire time in front of me but eh, it is what it is update: they broke up after "being together" for 6 days💀
Damn man, but you dodged a bullet there... You know what's worse, you could have been talking to her for a while and the guy she got together for 6 days could have just hit perhaps the after the first 3 days probably. But in this case she had a crush so it's possible. This type of situation is everywhere. Thanks for sharing.
Bro uploaded when I needed it ‼️‼️ Legit the girl I was crushing over started dating someone else and worst thing is that this dude she started dated was my friend
I'm focusing right now on improving social interaction with any person, if there was 1 advice i would give to any person, it's to learn to sincerely listen what the person is saying in front of you. It's gonna improve your interaction to a point where it will go naturally when you discuss with another person. Now i enjoy my conversation alot more with any person i see, if a girl want to be friend with me, fine, if she wants to be in a relationship with me, why not 😊 Talking to other people should be something fun to do for you, not something that feel annoying.
I still don’t get girls but I’m far closer than I ever was When I started to workout Chased my Goals aka music And went to more social events like parties makes it a lot more easier to find people who will like you for you and trust me just don’t date a girls you find attractive it usually does not end well find someone who has a personality the enhances yours you got this guys believe in you
@@deeznuter4828 I’m being completely honest bro idk what it is either 😭😭 Ppl compliment my looks all the time, I have lots of talents and I’m pretty smart. Maybe it’s cause I’m quiet and keep to myself?? Once again they rarely talk to me unless they HAVE to or like once in a blue moon 😭😭 they look at me more than anything
I've had a couple of relationships but I'd pretty much consider myself to have occasional, extremely rare luck instead of any actual rizz. Pretty relatable and funny vid, especially about tinder lmao
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Honestly being confident and funny have helped out with my dating life by 10x. But I’m not gonna lie I’m 6’1 and pretty good looking and I wouldn’t have gotten the initial interest without those features I didn’t do shit for. Looks get you the girls interest, personality keeps em. Good luck boys
@@TheTiredhermit not true, I’m 6 feet and considered very handsome by almost everyone I know and always had girls that were interested since age 14, but it wasn’t until age 18 when I improved my social skills that I finally KEPT their interest long enough to sleep with them
Easy fix to the class situation step 1: Approach her, and start cooking. Make sure you compliment her so that the purpose of the conversation is clear. Step 2: Leave mid conversation, don't let it last longer than 5 min. You got stuff to do anyways. Step 3: Make her approach you. Don't even look in her general direction after that. Step 4: Repeat. It only takes a girl watching you presumably losing interest just to start talking to another girl once to try and re-attain that validation. If they don't they didn't want you bad enough anyways, and it would have failed. That play will work that field over. GL
I used to get absolutely zero interaction with women. Then I got really heavy into self inprovement, fashion, gym, etc and ended up on the complete opposite end of the spectrum. I kind of regret being a part of hookup culture more than when I got zero play
A girl who wants chased instead of just being a normal human who communicates isn't worth anyone's time besides guys looking for one nighters, because deep down that's all they want. All consenting adults so whatever, but I've always hated liars, especially people lying to themselves.
To me most of the pain is self caused. People put to much weight in a relationship. It makes sense since it’s how our species continues, but people now (due to stimulus from so many different places and voices) put too much weight on having a relationship. If it’s all you focus on it’s gonna get you nowhere. Focusing on other things and letting the chips fall where they may leads to better results. It’s not easy and sometimes I struggle with it myself, but most of the perceived negatives are told to you by people who have no b*tches either. Focus on you and helping others and good things will come your way.
I just feel like as I grew older I lost the ability to enjoy my life by myself. When I had this one massive crush last year that I put a lot of courage and energy into and I was doing really well mentally back then, but as you can probably imagine I didn't get what I wanted. Nowadays I'm just sort of depressed all the time even tho I have some fun things in my life.
@@jom1718 Yeah that was highschool for me I liked a girl but I was a shy loser who had no social skills or similar interests, she was an angel who took care of children as a camp counselor and was apart of charities for sick children. Later found out she banged several classmates from summer camp that her middle school had and her nudes were in everybodies phone. I think it was because she had cancer and wanted to live well before she died, she didn't die so I guess it followed her it repulsed me. Immediatly I thought I might just be sexist or a puritan but it just seemed sickening to me so I stopped looking at her. Then I was in this class junior year and this girl who I thought was cute sat next to me in different classes at one point we were in this yoga program for stress and one excercise is you sit with closed eyes in front of someone then open your eyes and talk while staring into them for fifteen minutes, apparently this releases the chemical that gives the effect of love plus she was single after a bad breakup so I just felt perfectly confident. We met up on valentines and I kissed her after we talked about life it was beautiful but it didn't last, her friends hated me because I was white and I felt awkward kissing in public or in class I regret it heavily because one night we were texting before bed and I told her like an idiot to sound cool that there was another girl I liked but this other girl didn't even know who I was I just didn't want to sound desperate, so she freaked out and when went to school the next day she told everyone in my school that I was an asshole her friends laughed at me and then other guys just said I blew it and they would take a shot now. Some said I was lucky cause she had std's which was never confirmed so I just got angry stares from her and her two bff's till school was over. I was so alienated that I didn't go to prom or to graduation, the lesson never tell the truth to women, don't go to a school where racism is okay against your group of people and finaly avoid things when you aren't ready or learn how to be ready in the first place.
@stagthechainsawbeserker3926 Bro you need to just relax and take time to grow up. Why in the world would you even be interested in someone if her friends hate white people lol like come on she will obviously be a degenerate too.
You did nothing wrong honestly, mostly ran into the wrong people or had wrong times. Just keep up the experience and you'll eventually know what to do or find.
Even when you fail at getting a girl, you may have missed a very toxic bullet. So I hope y'all get into a relationship that both you and your partner are well the average couple as in you love eachother but also hate eachother(because reasons) sometimes.
Even if it is this tough you should never give up and i know it sounds cliché. I mean im 17 and was terrified of approaching for no reason but the more you approach the easier it becomes until you can do it so easily and calmly and so often that ur garantueed to get a girl even if it takes a couple more attempts
You gotta be a hooligan, party animal rockstar, or a chad with indomitable will. Or just be super blessed physically. This is the only 3 ways you’re gonna get a girl to like you more than an ounce. At least these r the guys I can see getting laid. Honestly I should claim to know nothing because I’ve had women reject me for nerds before. We must just be un-select
Gotta admit im kinda surprised. Youre not exactly a bad lookin dude based on youre face reveal. Also being confident enough to talk about your Ls like its no big deal at least gives the imoression youre pretty secure with being yourself and a little more mature than most. From what ive seen (and ladies correct me if im wrong) girls (at least the ones worth persuing) seem to like that in a guy. I would think youd be having pretty good luck. Either way man keep on keepin on im sure youll find the right one eventually.
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The biggest lie ever told is “the worst she can say is no”
"Im 9"
@@voltagegames12And I thought her saying ew was bad
"The worst she can do is say no."
Her: "Sure, we can come to my place and play some Nekopara. All the catgirls are hot."
This is why I say no to e-girls.
The worst she can say is eww
@@echd1 You're gonna say that after my comment? The worst thing women can say is actually defending lolishit in general. That's worse than a "no" or an "eww" in my eyes.
I don’t fear rejection. I fear humiliation and a possible legal case because it’s 2023 and I’ve seen one too many stories.
For reall
If only women just rejected us. The worst part is the redicule and mockery, and the accusations of being creepy or weird, just for saying "hi".
@@martindrengenxbox360u ever approached a woman?
@@martindrengenxbox360Bro gets his worldview from the internet
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"There's someone for everyone"
The world's biggest lie
Frrrr😭
fr. its the hugest lie to exist.
Every time I hear that I think to myself…bullshit
There really is not. Society has a surplus of millions of males until the early 40s after which it has too many females. Mathematically, somebody is going to have to end up alone completely regardless their will.
Yeah, you would think but that is not reality.
This video is the embodiment of the "The worst she could say is no" meme
Some girls just lose interest out of nowhere, man. That's sadly how it is for us guys.
I got like one girl in my entire life, and I dunno what I do for her to leave, cuz I did my absolute best to make her feel welcome into my life while keeping things casual. I was being present, funny, teasing her and giving her emotional support, gave her space when she wanted it, and one month later she just says: "Yeah, I don't think we should go on".
I sincerely believe I didn't do a lot wrong, I know FOR SURE that I did my best to be a good partner, but she still lost interest. With that, I learned that you gotta be prepared for anything really. You don't know when the truck is gonna hit you again. Just keep your head up and work on yourself.
She honestly doesn't seem worth it if you worked your ass off long enough to give her the support she needed, only for her to slam the door on you like that.
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Skill issue (I cant pull either)
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If some girl says "You're a nice guy, but-" stop her there and just leave.
She doesn't deserve you king, and you could do better.
🤣 Yeah, you already know where this is going!
Fr. Just say no so both our time is not wasted
I'm not ready for a relationship = I'm not ready for a relationship with you.
It means she found a better option
I'm the GOAT of not getting b*tches:
- I've talked with the grand total of 2 girls this summer.
- I haven't texted with a girl for anything outside of college classes or something since forever.
- I've never had a gf.
- I've never asked a girl out. There is no point cause I don't see the hints and it will be an embarrassment if I do just like that.
- The last time a girl was obviously interested in me was middle school and I didn't want to have a gf in middle school.
- I've gone to a club 2 times and I only danced with a girl once and I don't know how to dance too so yeah...
- Every girl I know atm has a bf.
- I've never used Tinder because I will not get anything from it and just wasted my time and energy.
I think this makes me undeniably the 🐐 in this comment section because I hold all the important records, I feel like I'm Michael Jordan of getting no b*tches.
Fair point, but I think I've beat you on this one
I probably am better at not getting b*tches because I did everything you did but at least 1 girl was interested in you
@@raghey5672 how?
there's people that haven't talked to any
No I'm pretty sure there's a lot of guys who don't even talk to girls 💀
It's always when you think it's going to happen that it doesn't, but it's when you think it's over that you get closer, sometimes getting W's
Then it falls apart all over again
I’ve accepted the single life. *Freedom.* ✌️
More like the single life chose you
@@smokinj0e at least I don’t have to share my hoodies or deal with the inevitable drama of relationships ✌️
What the heck is wrong with you, @@No__direction__? When they want to wear your clothes is the best part of a relationship! Ok, maybe not *the* best part, but it's friggin' up there. ;-)
Yep I’m done dating it’s all bunch of bullshit
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To be honest with everyone sometimes being unlucky with girls is a good thing. Like i can remember how many bullets i had dodged.
That is the good part
@@ordinarylittlebastard3248That's the best part especially if you grew up in the Balkans where the dating is much worse.
I got hit with a armor piercing round...
@@johnins0mnia584same fmj be hurting
Ong gotta count ur blessings
I'm 31 and have been solo for 8 years. This video is fucking hilarious. Thank you for sharing this experience. Lol.
"There's someone out there for you"
Trust me if you an unattractive guy there is nobody out there for you
Correction: "There's someone out there for you"
Chances are I don't like the person who has a crush on me
Hate when people say this fr
@@spiritual9574Fr infact even if there was it’s out of pity& she or he will regret their decision because of the many Better options
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Well, become attractive
It’s a long process. I haven’t talked to too many women, only a couple. Out of all the times I tried, I went out on one ice cream date. Still a win in my book. I’m still working on my anxiety
Imagine meeting up with a girl and not fukcing her, brutalll
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U doing better than a lot of guys watching this vid well done
The world has truly done us a disservice…when a man considers an ice cream date a win. 😭 our expectations to be loved and cared for by women is in the trash.
@@BASSFZz Ha, yeah ok
Wow this video absolutely exploded.
I'm in the same situation. Just wanted to say it's normal to feel like this. Dating is just very unequal and sometimes you just feel like a piece of discarded cardboard. And it's not even your fault.
Just keep aware that you're not some unlikeable beta loser. It's just how the experience goes for most of us.
R.i.p to our fallen Conrad's for trying to talk with girls just to get rejected. Im part of it and it hurts. Ive been friend zone 2 times
You know we can respect each other now, but if there comes a time when we're competing for the same girl, that respect goes down the drain pretty quick 😂
Amateur numbers, I'm at 7 😃
Conrad my boi
Conrad? Like Conrad Verner?
I’m at 23😭😭
Bro I have to be honest with you. A lot of this video is you making these seem bigger than they are, respectfully. These are pretty mundane situations that will seem miniscule as time goes on. Trust me. I get it. These situations are very impactful when it happens but they are not a very big deal. You were right in the beginning of the video, focus on yourself and someone will come along, however focusing on yourself does not just mean work out and chase ambitions (althought that is a massive part that should not be undervalued). It is also learning AND failing in social interactions. Embarrassment is pretty normal and something most of us as average men will experience. Don't be afraid and most importantly DO NOT let it hold you back from trying again.
Macabre storytelling made a really down to earth video concerning issues like this and he gives amazing, REALISTIC, advise. I suggest it to those struggling. Good lucks guys. Seriously, do not give up. It is hard but not impossible.
One of the very comments that actually make sense🔥
Link to the video/channel?
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It's not big for you but for a person with zero experience it's huge. Though ill say its a pain tbh because ive gone to 2 dates to then be ghosted. And my buddy even had sex with one girl that he knew for a while to just get the "I need some time for a relationship" so it doesn't matter what women do at this point. Its constantly playing the cat and mouse game
The only reason I even am able to talk to women is because my house where I grew up was all girls. 😬
Otherwise, I would literally have zero rizz. 😭
Dang I only have a older sister, but my social skills with the ladies are decently ok
@@GamerBoy.1761 True. Most of my friends are girls.
Lol im the opposite of you then man, I have 4 brothers but I mean...I'm interested in dating but at the same time not..
Fr ong lil bro.
If most of a guys friends are girls then they gay. I seen it.
The best way to get girls is by ignoring them and to keep improving yourself, they are aware of how pretty they are and if you can see right through their looks they will find you more attractive
I remember a rejection that scarred me in high school. This new girl I liked started going to my school. We talked for a few weeks, but homecoming was comimg up and I asked her out. She didn't say "no.", but this random kid heard her response and yelled "He got rejected." In front of everyone. I've never felt so embarrassed, not just for me, but for her. I never saw her again after that.😢💔
I’m sorry that happened ): but at least you tried to ask her, I could never have the courage to do that 😭
You a survivor
I would self delete
Damn bro, did she kill herself? My condolences
@@dest1ny205 No. I came across her Facebook early on. She's in another state now.
@@dest1ny205 wait what
As a no b*tchian i can say that i endure the constant pain in my mind realizing i will never get any females ☺️🔥🔥💯💯
Having no friends is worst
True
Yeah this was me in high school
my current state.
I don't get B*tches? Well, maybe the B*tches don't get me. Ever thought of it like that?
Bro this 100% a cope bro 😭
But you spittin tho
It’s not cope if it’s true. Cope is capping to keep sane.
nah bro we just ugly🤩
@@zktstfr ☠☠
It is a cope after 7 rejections when you think about women other than close friends and family all you’ll think about is what happened you have to cope
Just some advice for y’all, I know it’s super fucking annoying, but literally just be yourself. Plant the garden and let the bees come. Maybe they won’t, but there will be that one star. Maybe she’ll/he’ll make the first move? The way I am, I’m a very comedic and- smiley- Person? I just laugh and smile a lot. So, naturally, the girls I’m friends with just liked a laugh. Understandably, the main thee girls I talk to don’t exactly have the best home life or mental health (which might be why one of them is my girlfriend lol) so I’m always there to support them. Last thing, like I just stated, just be there. Listen to them. I slightly have started to understand women(somehow) and have learned that with the girls/boys that need a bit more attention, if they’re having a bad day and they tell you to leave them alone, half the time it’s when they’ll need you the most. HALF of the time. Learn significant others patters on how they behave, and use that to your advantage. Stay well, if you read this whole comment, treat yourself to something nice. I hope this did help, and that you have an amazing rest of your week.❤
I appreciate the advice! Never heard better advice to be honest. We're all human at the end of the day and if you pretend to be something you're not, you'll not get a committed relationship that lasts long. Eventually the mask slips and once it does, you'll have many awkward conversations. Just be yourself folks
Mostly agree
Cope, its all looks
@@CraniumBlackpill of your with someone who someone who only likes you for your looks that’s not gonna last. It’s not only looks, and who says cope? My gf doesn’t purely like me for my looks.
@@CraniumBlackpill it is, and you are still left with the same two options, try or die.
All up to you.
dont let the virgin teasing get to you. whoever they've been with, either they re not proud of it or they think they were insanely lucky to get with her. they re comfortable with this kinda teasing because its so insignificant to them that it couldnt ever be hurtful to anyone. ?
(i re-read my comment and i ve concluded i ve mastered the art of cope over the years.)
About a year ago I asked a girl out a date, got left on read, 4 months later after i forgot about her existence, she texts me out of the blue at 1am asking me to cashapp her $20. No, i didn't give her any money. I sent one text back asking her what she needed it for, she said she was at a restaurant and she forgot her money at home. I then left her on read. KARMA.
1 tip. Think of a girl as just another guy but don't be akward or do anything sus
2 tip. Try to actually talk to them they probably have a bunch of other guy talking to them they wont think anything of it
3 tip. Respect boundaries and try to shimmy out information like what they like if they are in a relationship
4 tip. Talk to them often dont be too comfortable or friendly or something because then they will see you like a sibling or something instead of actually liking you
5 tip. Try to spend as much time as possible with them dont spend every seconds with them or else you might seem desperate only stay with them every second if you and her agree you are good friends
6 tip. Make the teacher think you are friends if the teaher is cool they will pair you up with them in a project or smth and you and her could go to eachother's house without it seeming weird
Thx my man
You don’t need your teacher’s permission you probably used chat gpt to write that
@@Karcz1 no I didn't besides your teacher can be very helpful
tip one is impossible to think of her as a homie without doing sus things
@@prohexxx627exactly
Wurdie never fails to make our toes wiggle ❤️
Pause.
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Ayo 🤨
Trauma dumpists, frequent party/ club goers. Red flags
bro in seventh grade i was working with this one girl and i kinda liked her, then one day this guy called us a cute couple as a joke, and then she was like "dude, you already know im gay" and i was so shocked and devastated
wow that's insane
Happened to me too 😂😅😢
With club shawty, she probably wanted you to lay it down and you didn't so she found someone who would
You just gotta have enough confidence to spark some conversation
But keep to yourself a little bit: the more mysterious you are, the more girls want to get to know you.
Don't be too loud or too giddy, no one wants a giddy guy.
Don't be too thirsty, instead of chasing girls, let them chase you.
And finally, hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Obviously, ur not prince charming, so ur not gonna get every girl, but rizz boosts ur chances of getting one.
Talk to them to spark conversation but don’t talk too much because there’s no mystery. Be nice to her but not too nice because that makes you a ‘nice guy’ and boring. Don’t chase her but you always have to be the one to make the first move.
You see how these standards are impossible to actually follow?
You literally just explained what made Moist kriitical so depressed in his freshman year of college. Dont follow this advice. Literally just alk, you’d be surprised how many friends you’d make if you just talked.
“Mysterious”💀
@@blorpblorp2984true but you gotta be good at talking to make friends n shit. I’ve tried talking to a lot of people and when I do people usually jus wanna avoid me. You gotta have some charisma to you to “just talk” and make friends.
Nah bro don’t be mysterious 💀
I'm 33 years old and a virgin. I work part-time milking cows and I do well financially. I'm proud to never had a relationship because I have self-respect. A lot of men go in relationship with women who treat them poorly. Ignoring women who are attracted to me is like a hobby. One reason I do well financially is because I never pay anything to a woman except my mother. I don't have emptiness in my life because I have faith in Jesus-Christ. I lack affection in my life, but I'm not empty. Sadly, a lot of people look in the other sex for a way to fill in the emptiness. They learn the hard way that not the reality.
Brother in Christ, why are you not looking for Christian women? I'm curious
First, I don't do really well financially. All lot of women do more money than me. I don't care because I like my job.
Second, I will go to live in the woods in the near future. Almost all women need more confort to live. I'm good without electricity and no running water.
Third, the good christian women of my age are taken. The others went with non-christian men. Some of them are as promiscious as non-christian women or even more. A lot of them have weak father, so they are not really feminine.
Fourth, without a woman in my life I have more time to do meaningful things. I like to help people, so I take my freedom in life to do it. I also don't need to chase money because I live frugally. I'm fine with a part-time job. Less stress and more freedom. I don't chase happiness, but I'm happier than the majority of people in life because of my way of living.
Do you plan to marry a christian woman?
In the first comment, I wrote I do well financially and in the second I wrote I don't do well financially!!!
I work part-time (22-24 hours by week), so I don't make a lot of money annually. I don't want to do more money in a job I don't like. In the past, I work a lot, so I have a lot of saving. Alone, I do well financially. In couple I will not do well financially.
You had God and Jesus by your side because you didn't do it this long which showed them you had a pure heart unlike all the sinners that did it before marriage. Doing it before marriage shows you have no self respect since you're giving someone pleasure that might turn down your proposal in the future, and if they turn that down, it means they never loved you to begin with and were just in it for the validation and benefits. Don't let them use you bro. Notice how overly nice women are at church? Is because they have a pure heart. Atheists only see people by their looks because they're too arrogant and picky over everything
So it was one of those realizations I had in middle school that, as you kids would say I didn’t have any “rizz”.
The girls I wanted didn’t want me. Same thing with high school, had a couple of close calls and just eventually was like “I’m just going to get though school and college will be different.”
College wasn’t different, I was a few years into it, not really wanting to be in college and I was ordered to not drop out, so I failed out (that was as close to rebellious I’ve ever been).
The kind of women I can get, I’d just as soon be alone than mess with that. Modern dating just isn’t for me, it’s just past me by.
I’m ethically against dating single moms because having been that kid, I don’t want to put other kids through that.
The main reason I don’t kill myself is because I got “US Civil War” on my apocalypse Bingo card, and I’m one away from Bingo, damn if I’m not curious.
For a guy who gets rejected all the time I am with yall who get no girls😊
I get rejected, ghosted, ignored, treated like I’m invisible and like shit
@@BrianWaller-qe7grthen start acting like them and ignore them. They're only attracted to those that are desirable from being hard to get
Everybody keeps saying workout and get your money up and then girls will like you but if I have to make these changes for them to like me then they don't really like me
Its funny because they can stay the exact same. U go from peter parker to spiderman with money just to be able to attract the average chick that works at wendys and you’re supposed to be happy about that. Mean while some fat f’ck is dating some sexy thick anime chick because she knows that that guy will never be able to cheat and worship her
Even though he has no game…
He has W as the first letter in his name for a reason 💀
You guys don’t realize how lucky you are. Women just suck the life out of you. You are all 100% blessed and you don’t even know it. My advice to you is don’t Try to get girls. If a girl is into you she will come to you and you will know it. Any girls that you have to do anything other than just be nice and treat them with respect to get them to pay attention to you is just going to end up taking advantage of you and some will down right humiliate you and F you over. Also, never accept friend zones. Girls just use guy friends and they laugh about it behind your back. Seriously, work on yourself. Be yourself. If it never happens, then trust me your life will still be 100% better than the dumb guy who gets played and used. It may be this way for girls who date guys also. I don’t know I’ve never dated any guys.
keep up the good work LOVE your vids can sit here for hours watching your content
Damnn hits hard because literally last week a girl I've been talking to, flirting with (she flirted back) and went out with got together with another guy who she had a crush on and had been texting the entire time in front of me
but eh, it is what it is
update: they broke up after "being together" for 6 days💀
She's free real estate.
@@Shadders2010 fr💀
That's a red flag more than anything else
Damn man, but you dodged a bullet there... You know what's worse, you could have been talking to her for a while and the guy she got together for 6 days could have just hit perhaps the after the first 3 days probably. But in this case she had a crush so it's possible.
This type of situation is everywhere. Thanks for sharing.
so she got d'ed down by chad and he moved on and now she needs the next guy to atone for it
i feel you wurdie 😔
Another normie. How old are you? 13 it sounds like.
69 likes, please don't ruin it
I can't tell if I'm just ugly, or if I just can't carry on a conversation cause whenever another human approaches me I turn on mute.
Bro uploaded when I needed it ‼️‼️
Legit the girl I was crushing over started dating someone else and worst thing is that this dude she started dated was my friend
Why is it bad that your friend got a girl...just cause you think she's hot too
I'm focusing right now on improving social interaction with any person, if there was 1 advice i would give to any person, it's to learn to sincerely listen what the person is saying in front of you.
It's gonna improve your interaction to a point where it will go naturally when you discuss with another person.
Now i enjoy my conversation alot more with any person i see, if a girl want to be friend with me, fine, if she wants to be in a relationship with me, why not 😊
Talking to other people should be something fun to do for you, not something that feel annoying.
thanks you for making great videos
concrats on the 100K
I love your videos
Keep tryin bub it’ll come. Don’t give up
Congrats Wurdie on 100k!
Congrats on 100k! Been there since 50k.
I know this pain and I know all of us do😢
I fear rejection so much I haven’t even tried
@@Endrgamr262same dude
Same.
i just dont want bitches cause i wanna focus on school 😭@@Endrgamr262
@@Endrgamr262 literally me
Congrats on 100k wurdie 🔥🔥🔥
Congrats on 100k love your vids ❤
You know its a good day when Wurdie uploads
I still don’t get girls but I’m far closer than I ever was
When I started to workout
Chased my Goals aka music
And went to more social events like parties makes it a lot more easier to find people who will like you for you and trust me just don’t date a girls you find attractive it usually does not end well find someone who has a personality the enhances yours you got this guys believe in you
RUclips algorithm has been frighteningly accurate lately.
I feel you man.
“Dome piece” is the funniest thing I’ve ever heard 😂😂😂😂😂
I can relate to this on a personal level except I get no guys. I’m trying not to focus on it much and trynna apply to college but I feel ur pain 😭
Really? Unless u are a 1/10 or the weird type we will strike up some convo😂
@@deeznuter4828 I’m being completely honest bro idk what it is either 😭😭
Ppl compliment my looks all the time, I have lots of talents and I’m pretty smart. Maybe it’s cause I’m quiet and keep to myself?? Once again they rarely talk to me unless they HAVE to or like once in a blue moon 😭😭 they look at me more than anything
The relation factor is so spot on: the dancing, the no rizz, the unexpected shift, it’s that close. I’m touched tbh
I've had a couple of relationships but I'd pretty much consider myself to have occasional, extremely rare luck instead of any actual rizz. Pretty relatable and funny vid, especially about tinder lmao
THIS MORNING I WOKE UP TODAY IN THIS MORNING IN THE MORNING I WOKE UP THIS MORNING I WOKE UP AND REMEMBER THAT EVERY MORNING THAT I WAKE UP I WILL- I WOKE UP THAT FUCKING DAY JUST REMEMBER THAT 🗣🗣🔥🔥‼️‼️
I gave up in 2nd grade now here I am 5 years later
It's a good day when wurdie uploads
the story about talking to the girl in class then the she goes for the other guy is too relatable it hurts.
Honestly being confident and funny have helped out with my dating life by 10x. But I’m not gonna lie I’m 6’1 and pretty good looking and I wouldn’t have gotten the initial interest without those features I didn’t do shit for. Looks get you the girls interest, personality keeps em. Good luck boys
You’re 6’1 & good looking lol you existing is enough for them.
@@TheTiredhermit not true, I’m 6 feet and considered very handsome by almost everyone I know and always had girls that were interested since age 14, but it wasn’t until age 18 when I improved my social skills that I finally KEPT their interest long enough to sleep with them
@@TheTiredhermit my looks got my foot in the door, but none of that mattered until I learned how to carry myself
@@joedirago14 very true I can see that but I can’t even “knock at the door” if you understand me lol I’ll have to gym max
@@TheTiredhermit well I’m assuming you’re a man, so if they don’t want you at your door you gotta just knock anyway 🤷♂️
Congrats on 100k🎉🎉
Congrats on 100k🎉 💯!!!
Easy fix to the class situation
step 1: Approach her, and start cooking. Make sure you compliment her so that the purpose of the conversation is clear.
Step 2: Leave mid conversation, don't let it last longer than 5 min. You got stuff to do anyways.
Step 3: Make her approach you. Don't even look in her general direction after that.
Step 4: Repeat.
It only takes a girl watching you presumably losing interest just to start talking to another girl once to try and re-attain that validation. If they don't they didn't want you bad enough anyways, and it would have failed.
That play will work that field over. GL
okay shit this makes sense, but how do you cook exactly
Instructions unclear, I died alone
Instructions unclear, after cooking her, I served her with fava beans and a nice Chianti... now what?
I used to get absolutely zero interaction with women. Then I got really heavy into self inprovement, fashion, gym, etc and ended up on the complete opposite end of the spectrum. I kind of regret being a part of hookup culture more than when I got zero play
Congrats on 100k❤
I'm pretty good at getting phone numbers but then I have no idea what to do
talk abt random stuff
Initiate a hangout
Me too 😭
Call the phone number
I feel you bro😢
A girl who wants chased instead of just being a normal human who communicates isn't worth anyone's time besides guys looking for one nighters, because deep down that's all they want. All consenting adults so whatever, but I've always hated liars, especially people lying to themselves.
When you realize that getting girls is plural thus you get multiple girls which is bad
Congratulations on 100k
To me most of the pain is self caused. People put to much weight in a relationship. It makes sense since it’s how our species continues, but people now (due to stimulus from so many different places and voices) put too much weight on having a relationship. If it’s all you focus on it’s gonna get you nowhere. Focusing on other things and letting the chips fall where they may leads to better results. It’s not easy and sometimes I struggle with it myself, but most of the perceived negatives are told to you by people who have no b*tches either. Focus on you and helping others and good things will come your way.
But are you getting bitches now ?
I just feel like as I grew older I lost the ability to enjoy my life by myself. When I had this one massive crush last year that I put a lot of courage and energy into and I was doing really well mentally back then, but as you can probably imagine I didn't get what I wanted. Nowadays I'm just sort of depressed all the time even tho I have some fun things in my life.
@@jom1718 Yeah that was highschool for me I liked a girl but I was a shy loser who had no social skills or similar interests, she was an angel who took care of children as a camp counselor and was apart of charities for sick children. Later found out she banged several classmates from summer camp that her middle school had and her nudes were in everybodies phone. I think it was because she had cancer and wanted to live well before she died, she didn't die so I guess it followed her it repulsed me. Immediatly I thought I might just be sexist or a puritan but it just seemed sickening to me so I stopped looking at her. Then I was in this class junior year and this girl who I thought was cute sat next to me in different classes at one point we were in this yoga program for stress and one excercise is you sit with closed eyes in front of someone then open your eyes and talk while staring into them for fifteen minutes, apparently this releases the chemical that gives the effect of love plus she was single after a bad breakup so I just felt perfectly confident. We met up on valentines and I kissed her after we talked about life it was beautiful but it didn't last, her friends hated me because I was white and I felt awkward kissing in public or in class I regret it heavily because one night we were texting before bed and I told her like an idiot to sound cool that there was another girl I liked but this other girl didn't even know who I was I just didn't want to sound desperate, so she freaked out and when went to school the next day she told everyone in my school that I was an asshole her friends laughed at me and then other guys just said I blew it and they would take a shot now. Some said I was lucky cause she had std's which was never confirmed so I just got angry stares from her and her two bff's till school was over. I was so alienated that I didn't go to prom or to graduation, the lesson never tell the truth to women, don't go to a school where racism is okay against your group of people and finaly avoid things when you aren't ready or learn how to be ready in the first place.
@stagthechainsawbeserker3926 Bro you need to just relax and take time to grow up. Why in the world would you even be interested in someone if her friends hate white people lol like come on she will obviously be a degenerate too.
You did nothing wrong honestly, mostly ran into the wrong people or had wrong times. Just keep up the experience and you'll eventually know what to do or find.
Congrats on 100K SUBS🎉🎉
My best friend Kaylee and I would always smile at each other. She's the best.
I'm gonna say "don't blame me blame my anxiety" lol
Even when you fail at getting a girl, you may have missed a very toxic bullet. So I hope y'all get into a relationship that both you and your partner are well the average couple as in you love eachother but also hate eachother(because reasons) sometimes.
Yo 100k congrats man
I focus on myself. I don’t need em. 💀
I'll focus on myself. I don't want em.😅
Todays young generation gets no girls
A new gym bro has joined us that day
CONGRATS ON 100K!!!
Friendly reminder that there were around 308 gifs in this video, and Burdie- sorry *"wurdie"* showed up twice.
Respect tbh
Never began.
Life is shit.
Never getting anyone bro! And my mother even lies to me on a daily basis about it!
My peace and sanity comes first 😊
Even if it is this tough you should never give up and i know it sounds cliché. I mean im 17 and was terrified of approaching for no reason but the more you approach the easier it becomes until you can do it so easily and calmly and so often that ur garantueed to get a girl even if it takes a couple more attempts
Man birdie get that bag, girls are temporary while
Money is forever
Money ain’t everything lol. I’m a teenager who doesn’t gotta pay bills but has a job. I enjoy my job just cus it’s a distraction from being single.
Money is cope if you ugly unless you use it for surgery.
The worst thing someone can say you is - you have a chance
Fuck bro don't give up yall!!
Someone is out there for us
Man we gotta be duke dennis 😭
ill know these feelings all my life then
You gotta be a hooligan, party animal rockstar, or a chad with indomitable will. Or just be super blessed physically. This is the only 3 ways you’re gonna get a girl to like you more than an ounce. At least these r the guys I can see getting laid. Honestly I should claim to know nothing because I’ve had women reject me for nerds before. We must just be un-select
Gotta admit im kinda surprised. Youre not exactly a bad lookin dude based on youre face reveal. Also being confident enough to talk about your Ls like its no big deal at least gives the imoression youre pretty secure with being yourself and a little more mature than most. From what ive seen (and ladies correct me if im wrong) girls (at least the ones worth persuing) seem to like that in a guy. I would think youd be having pretty good luck. Either way man keep on keepin on im sure youll find the right one eventually.
Honestly I just want someone to love me for who I am
Good luck with that
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