Protect this wonderful man at all costs. Such a great father. You know dads who are not divorced and are in a marriage, do not take responsibility as this man has taken. Absolutely graceful. Bless you Sandeep & Revansh, thank you Divya.
It is not about father or mother. It is about who actually understand the responsibilities and take the ownership. And seems like he performs his responsibility very well. More strength to him 💪
Me being a similar person (As a single father. With a special need kid, with divorce to boot, )I saw me in him, resonated so much. The bigger responsibility , masks the idiocy that associates with divorce..every point he said, is true…you put the kid, before anything else…the small wins that our kids give, matters most than anything else…get into our world( mine and my kid), it is wonderful..you will learn a lot…
i dont even have words to share or say anything. i personally learnt my bit from Sandeep... and i am just happy that the emotions resonate with others too. you are a great father. and with utmost love n respct... i wish everything well for you n your child.loads of small wins everyday.
What a journey I must say. Though I am a close friend since last 13 years, listening it this way is a new experience for even me. I am sure so many people will get inspired and take lessons and also solace from this. Thank you Divya for doing this.
Even if I would get a chance to see the uncut version of this episode, I won’t mind watching it too …. Great episode and interestingly stitched with lots of learnings for many people
i am getting some experts too. and certainly noted this :) we always say please make your marriages work. and if they dont work.. then respctfuly make your way out.. we want the marriages to stay... and be the best... but if not then what :)
between two people.. a third..including the parents will never know exactly why and what. whats important is.. he is the father and a beautiful son has a dad trying to make a beautiful life for them. :) thank you so much for the nice words !!!
@@YoursTrulyRJDivya divya ji please discuss the topic of grief as well... I lost my dad to covid tragically in the second wave n it has left a scar that just dosent heal. It was sudden untimely n a very traumatic time. Despite being a family of doctors we lost him due to hospital mismanagement. I know ur show primarily talks on divorce but if possible discuss grief as well.
Sripriya... i am going to do this. and i have been thinking so too. you are a brave child trying to live believing in hope everyday. grief cant be defined ever by anybody for anyone. i feel you because i just know how it hurts... i promise to try and build a community where we all fit in.. and make a safe space for anybody wanting to feel heard!
Very gentle man and very sorted... Admiring.. I find no reasons for his divorce. ... Please discuss about the reason. .. We will find some other perspective also
we choose to not ask reasons because the idea is to not serve what and why. the idea is to present HOW... they coped up and so many of us who are stuck can find some light. for me.. him being a beautiful dad is the story i can learn so much from. and like u said.. totally admiring :)
People who do not have similar value system, will often breakup. People marry for very superficial attraction. They dont ever assess character and value system. This case is mature....but most people live their life playing victim card 'obviously themselves' and just blaming everyone else. Today "victimhood" has become the new status symbol because every show and podcast is looking for a sob story to highlight! 🙄. And instead of the platform only being for real victims, it becomes a stage for narcissistic attention seekers who will happily tell lies if they see you are buying their story. And people who sit down to interview, will do no research, no attempt to do balanced reporting. Bas make up lagaake, dress up hoke, empathy and sympathy ka drama chaalu. And the biggest victim in a divorce where children are involved, are always the children! 😢 Its most horrible for a child to be amidst constantly fighting parents. Its like living in a war zone all the time. Sadly, people become habituated to fight and no matter what they say in an interview "haan i feel bad for fighting"... actually they dont. Because unless they make a conscious habit to break away from a pattern with an intention to go towards peace and resolution rather than conflict, conflict cannot be resolved. Also, if one party is decent but another is toxic, it sadly remains a bad situation because that one toxic person will not let peace prevail. And the lawyers are vultures who enjoy conflict. Unki dukaan sirf ispe hi chalti hai. 😢. I wish people actually took time truly understand each others true character and understand their own. Having said this, i feel marriage as an institution is almost on way out. In a decade, i wonder if people will even bother to marry.
your angst is your choice. your judging others is your choice. and we are all entitled to our choices madam/sir. obviously you and me can not decide for two people who make that decision..so why even fence judging. but yes... if they can smile.. if I could smile again.. maybe some people wont be so bitter and take that as a point to stand again... so if you cant be kind... the least is to be not bitter:) cheers to life
Protect this wonderful man at all costs. Such a great father. You know dads who are not divorced and are in a marriage, do not take responsibility as this man has taken. Absolutely graceful. Bless you Sandeep & Revansh, thank you Divya.
Thank you
It is not about father or mother. It is about who actually understand the responsibilities and take the ownership. And seems like he performs his responsibility very well. More strength to him 💪
Thank you
Exactly ! It’s the parent who does the magic! And he’s a great parent
Me being a similar person (As a single father. With a special need kid, with divorce to boot, )I saw me in him, resonated so much. The bigger responsibility , masks the idiocy that associates with divorce..every point he said, is true…you put the kid, before anything else…the small wins that our kids give, matters most than anything else…get into our world( mine and my kid), it is wonderful..you will learn a lot…
I am sure your story is as wonderful as mine...
i dont even have words to share or say anything. i personally learnt my bit from Sandeep... and i am just happy that the emotions resonate with others too. you are a great father. and with utmost love n respct... i wish everything well for you n your child.loads of small wins everyday.
Truly inspiring. Hats off to him. !!MOSTLY UNSPOKEN TALE of a father.
You are a great father
What a journey I must say. Though I am a close friend since last 13 years, listening it this way is a new experience for even me. I am sure so many people will get inspired and take lessons and also solace from this. Thank you Divya for doing this.
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and your journey and a super evil eye to your bond. we need friends like you two
God bless you son. You are such a wonderful father
sandeep is an extra ordinary father... friend.. colleague.. and i guess just readin these beautiful lines for him makes me happy
@@YoursTrulyRJDivya it’s so lovely to see he is surrounded by good friend like you all
Great sir ji salute to you i am single mother
hugggss
Wow loved it recently started watching ur videos..loving it ..❤❤
Thank you so much . made dil se and i hope what i thought of ...dreamt of.. works for everyone:)
Even if I would get a chance to see the uncut version of this episode, I won’t mind watching it too …. Great episode and interestingly stitched with lots of learnings for many people
Thank you so much 😊
sandeep and me spoke for two hours :) it was so tough to cut it short :) but i am super glad you liked it!
Very good & emotional but at the same time, quite an educational episode Divya. Hats off to Sandeep.
Thank you
thankaaa daddy!!!
Very true. Divorce journey is not easy and people around us make it more horrible.
Surrounding ourselves with supportive people and focusing on our well-being can make a big difference.
And so finding the right connections and feeling emotionally safe is need number 1
What a wonderful father 🙏🙌
wdou a doubt!! :)
A good emotional interview ❤🧿
He is really a good father ☺️
that is exactly what matters today!! i was so happy hearing him and looking at that sparkle in his eyes
Please discuss some reasons behind separation so that people can save or seperate in their marriage 🙏
i am getting some experts too. and certainly noted this :) we always say please make your marriages work. and if they dont work.. then respctfuly make your way out.. we want the marriages to stay... and be the best... but if not then what :)
Best video Divya ji... such a calm, patient sorted man. Hard to believe someone divorced him.... at least at face value pe yehi lagta hai.
between two people.. a third..including the parents will never know exactly why and what. whats important is.. he is the father and a beautiful son has a dad trying to make a beautiful life for them. :) thank you so much for the nice words !!!
@@YoursTrulyRJDivya divya ji please discuss the topic of grief as well... I lost my dad to covid tragically in the second wave n it has left a scar that just dosent heal. It was sudden untimely n a very traumatic time. Despite being a family of doctors we lost him due to hospital mismanagement. I know ur show primarily talks on divorce but if possible discuss grief as well.
Sripriya... i am going to do this. and i have been thinking so too. you are a brave child trying to live believing in hope everyday. grief cant be defined ever by anybody for anyone. i feel you because i just know how it hurts... i promise to try and build a community where we all fit in.. and make a safe space for anybody wanting to feel heard!
god bless him ...whats a beautiful father
glad you liked it!
Totally relatable..
can i send a virtual hug. i really hope you get all the courage and happiness... and saying the least.. we are all here:)
Beautiful conversation!
thank you so much
Great Episode ma'am....but I think reason of divorce should also be shared with viewer if your guest want to share
but the reasons are for two people only. if they spoke and moved on.. why should we even touch that. :)
Loved this episode
our team is elated. thank you.. i come home learning so much..and her energy is :)
Very gentle man and very sorted... Admiring.. I find no reasons for his divorce. ... Please discuss about the reason. .. We will find some other perspective also
we choose to not ask reasons because the idea is to not serve what and why. the idea is to present HOW... they coped up and so many of us who are stuck can find some light. for me.. him being a beautiful dad is the story i can learn so much from. and like u said.. totally admiring :)
please myst must ask reason for divorce it really helps
Lovely human being...
When people like him get divorced, I feel very sad..
Why don't I see men like him in real life?
destiny... we meet who we supposed to meet.. and we fail because we pass with amazing results in some other exam someday :) i wish you loads of love
@@YoursTrulyRJDivya 😘😘🙏
People who do not have similar value system, will often breakup. People marry for very superficial attraction. They dont ever assess character and value system. This case is mature....but most people live their life playing victim card 'obviously themselves' and just blaming everyone else. Today "victimhood" has become the new status symbol because every show and podcast is looking for a sob story to highlight! 🙄. And instead of the platform only being for real victims, it becomes a stage for narcissistic attention seekers who will happily tell lies if they see you are buying their story. And people who sit down to interview, will do no research, no attempt to do balanced reporting. Bas make up lagaake, dress up hoke, empathy and sympathy ka drama chaalu. And the biggest victim in a divorce where children are involved, are always the children! 😢
Its most horrible for a child to be amidst constantly fighting parents. Its like living in a war zone all the time. Sadly, people become habituated to fight and no matter what they say in an interview "haan i feel bad for fighting"... actually they dont. Because unless they make a conscious habit to break away from a pattern with an intention to go towards peace and resolution rather than conflict, conflict cannot be resolved. Also, if one party is decent but another is toxic, it sadly remains a bad situation because that one toxic person will not let peace prevail. And the lawyers are vultures who enjoy conflict. Unki dukaan sirf ispe hi chalti hai. 😢. I wish people actually took time truly understand each others true character and understand their own. Having said this, i feel marriage as an institution is almost on way out. In a decade, i wonder if people will even bother to marry.
your angst is your choice. your judging others is your choice. and we are all entitled to our choices madam/sir. obviously you and me can not decide for two people who make that decision..so why even fence judging. but yes... if they can smile.. if I could smile again.. maybe some people wont be so bitter and take that as a point to stand again... so if you cant be kind... the least is to be not bitter:) cheers to life
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Thank you
Stop asking fathers how they do it. They do as good job as a nurturing parent is able to do.
you got to ask because fathers irrespective dont champion the art of expressing. so that is that and the intent is love..i hope you see that too :)