I love this message. I pull away from my twin because he is in a different space completely. Toxic energy. He lies, and try to act like he is healing or getting help, just for us to get back together and he’s the same. Our energies are completely different. At one time I matched with him and toxicity, now it is intolerable.
I’m so grateful you did the work to be here in these present moments💪👁️🫶 And to all the twin flames out there…we are needed, we are necessary and we ARE doing this individually yet together🔥💜🔥
Loooove this. Understanding your Attachment Style and Communication Style is so crucial. I'm the avoidant, detached Hermit in my relationship. I so had to learn how to articulate myself when I need space. My partner appreciates my honesty. But it was crucial that I stop hiding and working for ten hours straight when shit gets hard. So important to do the work. ❤❤🎉
Thank you for the insight! My TF is completely in self preservation mode, unwilling to look at themselves, blame me for everything.. stonewalling me… but I’m using this time to focus on my own healing ❤️🩹, self-love and sekf awareness on any patterns that I need to change. I did set boundaries with him, and let him know I couldn’t keep giving to an unbalanced relationship… besides the secrets and hidden things.. I still showed up in love until I had to set a firm line. He may never recognize his ways.. and and if not.. I will be okay on my own as a strong independent woman. I send love to him and forgiveness. ❤
Both my husband and I struggled with things, he’s run and I’d get triggered but I always always knew where it was coming from and loved him that much more. We’ve struggled with our relationship at times but we’re in a much better place now. He finally realized his issues, I realized mine long ago but they came out at times due to his needing to heal ect. This journey has been something I can never imagine going through without him and God. Wonderful people like you help us as well along the way 🧡🙏🏻😍😇
Wow. I've watched dozens upon dozens of your videos over the past couple of years...and I've been able to literally see the progress you've made in increments. I can even see the trajectory of your energy and what the vibe of your desired manifestations feel like.. but THIS. THIS video...is beautiful. Like a little bit mind-blowing how absolutely open and genuine and comfortable you're projecting yourself. Or rather, allowing yourself to be. Very inspirational. Thank you bunches. It makes my heart happy. 😊
Thank you for this. I do look back sometimes and see a scared little kid that wants to serve but also be enough. And now I know I am so enough as I truly am! 😢 big love
Aaaawwweee Nicole, hope you girls are fine. Sooo happy to see you are back. I must admit I haven't checked in for a bit but somehow this vid appeared on my feed. Thank you!!! Many blessings your way!!!
Thank you Nicole. Been continuously working on this exact same thing. Been working through the internal Family Systems and writing through this releasing the old patterns. My teacher wants me to get a bit deeper in my writing. This was very helpful and so needed.
My twin flame died of an overdose 2 weeks ago and I’m in soul shock and miss him so much. We had a whole life planned together. He relapsed and it was the straw that broke the camels back. I don’t understand why this had to happen to me. It’s so heart breaking. He was my bestest friend in the universe and I tried my best to help him but meth won in the end. Will I ever find love again? Will anyone ever compare to him? It’s so heart breaking
I am so sorry to hear this dear one. Nothing I am going to say will make the pain shift but I want you to know that you are not destined to “not” find love again. What ever higher plan is happening is not seen yet. I am holding so much love for you during the grief that you are experiencing. I will pray for you.
Thank you so much for holding space for me while I feel this pain. It’s really surreal to go through this experience. We shared the most incredible bond and unconditional love. Something that gave me life force and made me so excited about life. We chanted everyday “we belong together forever” and had planned out our dream life. But he relapsed just before it was about to all become reality. A part of me imagines that maybe his soul will step into another body that is healthier than his was and come find me, or maybe he wasn’t my true twin and my true twin is still out there.. it’s all labels I know, but it helps when one is in such shock and pain and loss to have these kind of thoughts because it gives a bit of hope. I’m only 34 and still have another 50 years on earth at least. I thought I’d met my match and that God had answered all my prayers. I miss how we used to laugh everyday and talk about everything and anything and give each other support on every level. We called each other our Angel and we genuinely believed that’s what we were to each other. I miss his heart of gold and his beautiful voice that spoke to my soul
Thanks, but what about when the avoidant tells you he is not in love and never will have romantic feelings towards you, are we allowed to set healthy boundaries with 0 contact?
i just throw the baby out with the bathwater bc i dont see the value of emotional relationships. maybe its the virgo in me. i dont believe the other person likes me if they treat me wrong so i just leave, thinking they wanted that.... so its for my own safety i just leave
Best message on Anxious Energy Styles & the TF JOURNEY.
I love this message. I pull away from my twin because he is in a different space completely. Toxic energy. He lies, and try to act like he is healing or getting help, just for us to get back together and he’s the same. Our energies are completely different. At one time I matched with him and toxicity, now it is intolerable.
sounds like my story too 😖
I’m so grateful you did the work to be here in these present moments💪👁️🫶 And to all the twin flames out there…we are needed, we are necessary and we ARE doing this individually yet together🔥💜🔥
Realest and most comprehensive and LOVE infused explanation of ..😭😭😭😭😭 thank you 🙏 and bless bless you.
Loooove this. Understanding your Attachment Style and Communication Style is so crucial.
I'm the avoidant, detached Hermit in my relationship. I so had to learn how to articulate myself when I need space. My partner appreciates my honesty. But it was crucial that I stop hiding and working for ten hours straight when shit gets hard.
So important to do the work. ❤❤🎉
Wow, after 5 years, you came up on my RUclips feed.
How are you two doing?
I send you my respect and love ❤️
'let's run with the lineages!' ...love that! 🤣 Super helpful, thanks Nicole! 🙏
Thank you for the insight! My TF is completely in self preservation mode, unwilling to look at themselves, blame me for everything.. stonewalling me… but I’m using this time to focus on my own healing ❤️🩹, self-love and sekf awareness on any patterns that I need to change. I did set boundaries with him, and let him know I couldn’t keep giving to an unbalanced relationship… besides the secrets and hidden things.. I still showed up in love until I had to set a firm line. He may never recognize his ways.. and and if not.. I will be okay on my own as a strong independent woman. I send love to him and forgiveness. ❤
This is real and raw and perfect! Much needed in the community! Unmasked. Total authenticity and very powerful! 🙏💛💫
Oh my goodness! I've been stone walling... thank you for helping me identify my awful and abusive behavior.
You are amazing!!! 😢 it’s beyond powerful to admit this. You will be able to respond differently
Both my husband and I struggled with things, he’s run and I’d get triggered but I always always knew where it was coming from and loved him that much more. We’ve struggled with our relationship at times but we’re in a much better place now. He finally realized his issues, I realized mine long ago but they came out at times due to his needing to heal ect. This journey has been something I can never imagine going through without him and God. Wonderful people like you help us as well along the way 🧡🙏🏻😍😇
Wow. I've watched dozens upon dozens of your videos over the past couple of years...and I've been able to literally see the progress you've made in increments. I can even see the trajectory of your energy and what the vibe of your desired manifestations feel like..
but THIS. THIS video...is beautiful. Like a little bit mind-blowing how absolutely open and genuine and comfortable you're projecting yourself. Or rather, allowing yourself to be.
Very inspirational. Thank you bunches. It makes my heart happy. 😊
Thank you for this. I do look back sometimes and see a scared little kid that wants to serve but also be enough. And now I know I am so enough as I truly am! 😢 big love
@@TwinFlameRevolution absolutely! Amen! ❤️
Aaaawwweee Nicole, hope you girls are fine. Sooo happy to see you are back. I must admit I haven't checked in for a bit but somehow this vid appeared on my feed. Thank you!!! Many blessings your way!!!
We are excellent over here!!
Thank you Nicole. Been continuously working on this exact same thing. Been working through the internal Family Systems and writing through this releasing the old patterns. My teacher wants me to get a bit deeper in my writing. This was very helpful and so needed.
Thank you. It takes a lot of courage to be authentic. Great vid!
Thank you Nicole for bringing in this message! Thank you for helping us step outside ourselves and see who we are as individuals in this TF dynamic.
This was amazing ❤
Epic. Thank you!
❤️❤️👏 I love that part about the lineage made me laugh out loud😂
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thank you
I feel that 💖💖💖 xxx
Good morning Nicole 💖
GOODMORNING!
My twin flame died of an overdose 2 weeks ago and I’m in soul shock and miss him so much. We had a whole life planned together. He relapsed and it was the straw that broke the camels back. I don’t understand why this had to happen to me. It’s so heart breaking. He was my bestest friend in the universe and I tried my best to help him but meth won in the end. Will I ever find love again? Will anyone ever compare to him? It’s so heart breaking
I am so sorry to hear this dear one. Nothing I am going to say will make the pain shift but I want you to know that you are not destined to “not” find love again.
What ever higher plan is happening is not seen yet.
I am holding so much love for you during the grief that you are experiencing. I will pray for you.
Thank you so much for holding space for me while I feel this pain. It’s really surreal to go through this experience. We shared the most incredible bond and unconditional love. Something that gave me life force and made me so excited about life. We chanted everyday “we belong together forever” and had planned out our dream life. But he relapsed just before it was about to all become reality. A part of me imagines that maybe his soul will step into another body that is healthier than his was and come find me, or maybe he wasn’t my true twin and my true twin is still out there.. it’s all labels I know, but it helps when one is in such shock and pain and loss to have these kind of thoughts because it gives a bit of hope. I’m only 34 and still have another 50 years on earth at least. I thought I’d met my match and that God had answered all my prayers. I miss how we used to laugh everyday and talk about everything and anything and give each other support on every level. We called each other our Angel and we genuinely believed that’s what we were to each other. I miss his heart of gold and his beautiful voice that spoke to my soul
Also.... 3:33 😊😂❤
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what if both people ghost ? thats my situation. i wish i could get off this twin flame bs
This came at the perfect time. Thank You for thus, and all of the work You do ❤🫂
Thanks, but what about when the avoidant tells you he is not in love and never will have romantic feelings towards you, are we allowed to set healthy boundaries with 0 contact?
What if he toold me to stay away from him..... and next time i saw him i managed to ignore him..... so do you think i did the right thing?
I have huge problem with sleeping and noises ! By the smallest sound I wake up and can’t go back to sleep ! Can you help? Please
How old are dov and Nicole? Anyone?
Unfortunately, this does not work for me, he is very stubborn😔
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i just throw the baby out with the bathwater bc i dont see the value of emotional relationships. maybe its the virgo in me. i dont believe the other person likes me if they treat me wrong so i just leave, thinking they wanted that.... so its for my own safety i just leave
Narcissist and empath relationship. Sounds like just twin flame relationship. You guys confuse people
Thank you