How to Give an Awesome Best Man Speech With Ideas For A Funny & Emotional Wedding Toast

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @Black_Sheep-01
    @Black_Sheep-01 5 лет назад +69

    I'm 18. never thought i had to be best man for my 20yr old friend... i swear my heart is already racing from watching to this video.

    • @marcusson1983
      @marcusson1983 5 лет назад +2

      Prepare it and say it in front of the family 💪💪💪

    • @thomasdowd2183
      @thomasdowd2183 9 месяцев назад

      How did it go?

  • @deeuntouchable
    @deeuntouchable 5 лет назад +125

    I structured my speech from this video. And like many others, it worked and I got many compliments afterwards. I followed all the Do’s & Dont’s except for being sober. The few shots of tequila calmed my nerves

    • @juleswinnfield9097
      @juleswinnfield9097 5 лет назад +10

      I'm giving the best man speech in two weeks and needless to say faking my death feels like a great idea at the moment haha. Seriously, I ain't a funny guy and my speech structure that I've practiced so far is just awful to say the least. I've got basically the same strategy that you had, few drinks before hand, not enough to knock me down to slursville but enough to calm my nerves.

    • @blademaster9297
      @blademaster9297 5 лет назад +6

      @@juleswinnfield9097 how'd you go? Got to do mine on Jan 16. Absolutely shitting myself lol

    • @shawnsumida9677
      @shawnsumida9677 3 года назад +3

      I’m gonna be the best man at my brothers wedding. And I’m nervous mostly because I don’t do big speeches or heartfelt anything’s. My speech I wrote was too much here and there and it’s even more nerve wrecking because I just never seen a real wedding. .-.

    • @iRahz.
      @iRahz. 3 года назад

      @@juleswinnfield9097 Curious to how yours went. I'm pretty much exactly like you lol and have to make one in a couple of months. Very, very nervous.

    • @juleswinnfield9097
      @juleswinnfield9097 3 года назад +3

      @@blademaster9297 hey, sorry for the veeeerrrryyyy late reply haha, but I'm my own worse critic and thought I was horrible but apparently I did fine according the others. Truly just wish I had hindsight and remembered to breathe and know that most are going to remember the bride and groom that day. After it was over I laughed at myself for being so stressed over it.

  • @wizardmix
    @wizardmix 6 лет назад +118

    I can honestly say I followed these rules, almost to a T and for the rest of the night, people went out of their way to tell me "good speech!" Thanks random youtube video!

    • @josef.torrealba6992
      @josef.torrealba6992 5 лет назад

      Appreciate Video clip! Forgive me for butting in, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you tried - Chiveard Unique Speech Framework (do a google search)? It is a great one off product for learning how to give an outstanding wedding speech minus the normal expense. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate at last got excellent success with it.

    • @danielrojo542
      @danielrojo542 4 года назад

      Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else needs to find out about best man speeches toasts try Loctavan Best Man Strategy (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my friend got cool results with it.

    • @sergioperez-bb2ll
      @sergioperez-bb2ll 3 года назад

      I've been studying wedding speeches and found a great resource at Talking Template Bundle (google it if you are interested)

    • @wizardmix
      @wizardmix 3 года назад

      @@sergioperez-bb2ll In all honesty, I hope I have very few wedding speeches left in my life. Not that weddings aren't fantastic, they are just also daunting.

  • @SoapparentlyImGinger
    @SoapparentlyImGinger 2 года назад +5

    Like many others in these comments, I followed the structure in this video and it worked wonders! I think almost everyone came up to me and complimented me for the speech during the rest of the evening. Thank you for the help!

  • @aidenbowsa
    @aidenbowsa 5 лет назад +104

    I’m 12 and my uncle chose me as his best man. In October I have to stand up in front of people and do a speech and I’m so nervous. 😣😰🤮

    • @rocrhyme4199
      @rocrhyme4199 5 лет назад +4

      That's awesome man you got this! just practice a few times before and you'll be golden.

    • @marcusson1983
      @marcusson1983 5 лет назад +1

      😎 prepare it and say it to your family... 💪💪

    • @loganduckthomas1best697
      @loganduckthomas1best697 5 лет назад

      Same bro

    • @mannygalindo7355
      @mannygalindo7355 5 лет назад

      You got this!!!

    • @JakeSippyy
      @JakeSippyy 5 лет назад

      I.D .D.S I’m in the exact same situation except the wedding’s in September. Super nervous about it

  • @WolfyOnRappelz
    @WolfyOnRappelz 5 лет назад +7

    My brother let me know he was getting married with 20 days to spare. He surprisingly named me his best man and I'm super thankful for this video. I

  • @anthonychavez4376
    @anthonychavez4376 3 года назад +5

    When he said “bring out their tears” it was like an order and not a suggestion 😳

  • @evdances
    @evdances 4 года назад +7

    I'm doing a best man's speech in July, thanks for this!

  • @wilsonbrownofficial2828
    @wilsonbrownofficial2828 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this guide . Just about to write my speech out … three days to go.

  • @lucioluciolucio
    @lucioluciolucio 5 лет назад +31

    Wait. As you introduce yourself, you tell people how you know the groom (#1). Then #3 is Explain how you know the groom. Again?

  • @AnthonyNSaetern
    @AnthonyNSaetern 2 года назад +3

    welp wish me luck guys, i got a speech next week!!

  • @rodgabriel6953
    @rodgabriel6953 5 лет назад +6

    well this really helps.. im about to do it next week, so thanks alot (:

  • @julianfox9286
    @julianfox9286 5 лет назад +35

    I can’t figure out why the wall behind him keeps moving around.

    • @carlosmendez3757
      @carlosmendez3757 5 лет назад

      Kudos for the Video clip! Excuse me for the intrusion, I would love your thoughts. Have you considered - Chiveard Unique Speech Framework (search on google)? It is a great exclusive product for learning how to give an outstanding wedding speech minus the headache. Ive heard some great things about it and my m8 at very last got amazing results with it.

    • @jimmygutz7304
      @jimmygutz7304 5 лет назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @victorrojas1037
      @victorrojas1037 5 лет назад +1

      Excellent Video clip! Sorry for butting in, I would love your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Chiveard Unique Speech Framework (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a good one of a kind guide for learning how to give an outstanding wedding speech minus the normal expense. Ive heard some super things about it and my GF at very last got cool results with it.

  • @rasilaherman4769
    @rasilaherman4769 6 лет назад +6

    Thanks! What a great to the point video!

  • @MrTomdemma
    @MrTomdemma 6 лет назад +14

    soo dont bring up the fact that they met on tinder... k

  • @badideaboys4714
    @badideaboys4714 5 лет назад +4

    Although this didnt hep, it did reaffirm my speach.

  • @aloksankhe
    @aloksankhe 7 лет назад +27

    Can you make a video about Umbrellas? It will be really nice as I wish to purchase one very soon. And I need to take it out for both my work and casual occasions.
    Thank you for you all the content. I enjoy it a lot.
    Wish you a great day ahead.

    • @aloksankhe
      @aloksankhe 7 лет назад +6

      Also the kind of shoes I can wear with lots of rains. Thank you!

    • @rcbuggies57
      @rcbuggies57 7 лет назад +1

      boots or just take a look at the hanger project channel, they use a sole protector that has waterproofing

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  7 лет назад +5

      We will put it on our to do list.

    • @teleanucristina2550
      @teleanucristina2550 7 лет назад

      This is just superb, been searching for "speech order" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Heyonnor Speechless Eradicator - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.

    • @wlatz24
      @wlatz24 7 лет назад

      Alok Sankhe interesting points ,if anyone else is searching for best man toast try Loctavan Best Man Strategy ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my neighbor got great results with it.

  • @alwaysup22
    @alwaysup22 3 года назад +2

    Very nice, thanks for these tips!

  • @492292001
    @492292001 7 лет назад +5

    Raphael congratz on 100,000 subscribers, you should do a video about it like everyone else.

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  7 лет назад +1

      Thank you, we might. Just moved to a new space so things still have to be set up but we will get there.

  • @pgplaysvidya
    @pgplaysvidya 6 лет назад +8

    don'ts:
    * don't tell the groom that he'll be at the beck and call of his wife forever
    * don't tell the groom that he'll only be saying lines like "yes dear" forever
    * don't belittle the groom
    This goes for the maid of honor. The amount of time I had to sit there listening to her bad mouth the groom..I really don't ever want to go to a wedding ever again.

  • @Swizzle9708
    @Swizzle9708 6 месяцев назад

    Guys biggest tip is to keep it short. Even if you think you’re funny the worst case scenario is you try a joke it misses but it’s over in 2-3 minutes. BEST case scenario people are laughing and someone mentions they wish it was longer. Also don’t go after the bride

  • @matthewrobinson6872
    @matthewrobinson6872 6 лет назад +3

    Gonna be the best man in October I'm a writer so everyone is expecting something good lol

  • @akshaypotdar1840
    @akshaypotdar1840 7 лет назад +3

    Hi, can we wear a bow tie with a regular collar or does it always have to be a wing collar? Thanks

    • @boyscout244
      @boyscout244 7 лет назад

      I think casual bowties work with regular spread and medium collars. I tried to stay away from super wide collars but thats my opinion

    • @akshaypotdar1840
      @akshaypotdar1840 7 лет назад

      Thanks Brian for the reply. I am planning to wear one with a regular collar. It's for an anniversary dinner.

    • @christopherlagasse5363
      @christopherlagasse5363 7 лет назад

      And plus wing collars are pretty rare nowadays.

  • @vgrazzzyy
    @vgrazzzyy 2 года назад

    see my problem is that my friends bride lives out of state so i don’t really know what to say about her. i’ve only seen her a hand full of times. i know she is a great person though

  • @CalebOliver
    @CalebOliver Год назад

    Thank you

  • @soulsurfer639
    @soulsurfer639 2 года назад

    Great advice, thank you :)

  • @rockoruiz5009
    @rockoruiz5009 5 лет назад

    This is harder than i thought!!! Any advice???

  • @gamblerscop7769
    @gamblerscop7769 6 лет назад +9

    And now I'm more nervous to give my speech...

    • @LloydChristmasAspen
      @LloydChristmasAspen 5 лет назад +3

      Tell me about it lol, mine is 9 months away and I'm shitting it

    • @beruk2pac
      @beruk2pac 4 года назад

      @@LloydChristmasAspen how did you go?

    • @LloydChristmasAspen
      @LloydChristmasAspen 4 года назад +2

      @@beruk2pac man I absolutely nailed it. Preparation is key. I went to a speech coach, worked wonders. And how did yours go

  • @WakoJacKooo
    @WakoJacKooo 3 года назад

    if its one thing im gettin boxed off in 2021,, is my best mates speech ,, its january now and the wedding is not till august lol ,, im proper nervous but this video im already thankin :)

    • @steezyweazle
      @steezyweazle 3 года назад

      I got one in July Joe, we got this

  • @titan97warrior69
    @titan97warrior69 3 года назад

    What if I’m best man and I haven’t been all that close to the groom or the bride until this past year and I’m just groomsman because I’m his brother

  • @dphighdog4
    @dphighdog4 2 года назад

    My incomplete speech is due in 4 hours ... wep ... off the top it is!

  • @kae8450
    @kae8450 Год назад +1

    I just found out that my account was once hacked to post a comment here.

  • @BradyCunningham-k6z
    @BradyCunningham-k6z 4 года назад +2

    I am 14 and I need to come up with a good speech

  • @mmazz414
    @mmazz414 5 лет назад

    Is... the wall moving in the background!?

  • @aerodylluk2543
    @aerodylluk2543 5 лет назад +1

    You have saved my arse sir!

  • @mrbojangles8133
    @mrbojangles8133 Год назад

    something about how well he did in finding het can work

  • @unknown-hf8jj
    @unknown-hf8jj 2 года назад

    Hi im 15 and yes I will be a best man in my Aunts wedding haha am kinda nervous

  • @unvcht5046
    @unvcht5046 6 лет назад +352

    I'm literally preparing 1 hour before the wedding. *MUSLIMS FOR TRUMP 2020*

    • @sanjaydevit502
      @sanjaydevit502 6 лет назад +34

      I thought I was bad doing it the day before 😂

    • @jamesmcmanama9034
      @jamesmcmanama9034 6 лет назад +10

      How'd it go?

    • @KrisVic91
      @KrisVic91 6 лет назад +5

      Jesus christ, how was that?

    • @8iTsAT
      @8iTsAT 6 лет назад +3

      +UniversalChat Chat Excellent Video! Excuse me for chiming in, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you considered - Chiveard Unique Speech Framework (should be on google have a look)? It is an awesome one of a kind guide for learning how to give an outstanding wedding speech without the headache. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my cooworker got excellent success with it.

    • @jiayunxiao509
      @jiayunxiao509 6 лет назад +3

      same

  • @mattiusgabe7354
    @mattiusgabe7354 3 года назад

    I'm freakin nervous about mine LOL

  • @throwaway6617
    @throwaway6617 7 лет назад

    Hello,
    Please don't be mad, but I feel like that tie is not the best that you could had chosen. I don't know why, maybe is the lack of enough contrast or the lapels being too wide for that tie. Can you tell me why you chose that? You are a better dresser then me and I know the mistake is on my part.
    Thank you.

  • @janirk7831
    @janirk7831 4 года назад +1

    There are several factors in making a great speech such as making it funny not boring and not too long One plan I discovered that successfully combines these is the Jasontas Best Speech (google it if you're interested) definately the no.1 course i've seen. look at this amazing site.

  • @petarsimic5733
    @petarsimic5733 5 лет назад

    Hey everyone, the best results that ive had was with the Talking Template Bundle (i found it on google) definately the best course that I've followed.

  • @katemorgan8850
    @katemorgan8850 2 года назад +1

    im literally hoping i just get booed away once i open my mouth oh my god this is gonna be horrible lol

  • @JayquanDeMarcusWashington
    @JayquanDeMarcusWashington 2 года назад +1

    I have 1.5 days to come up with something..

    • @jayevans819
      @jayevans819 2 года назад +1

      How did it go bro? Any tips?!

  • @JS-bi6ic
    @JS-bi6ic 5 лет назад +6

    im giving a best man speech in a week and i barely know either of them (almost shotgun wedding)

  • @nithishkumar7916
    @nithishkumar7916 4 года назад

    There are several factors in writing a great speech such as making it entertaining not boring and not too long One plan I discovered that succeeds in merging these is the Jasontas Best Speech (check it out on google) definately the no.1 info that I've seen. look at this incredible website.

  • @ChrisG1104
    @ChrisG1104 2 года назад +4

    Is it ok if you just have a sweet, heartfelt speech and don't have any jokes in the best man speech?

  • @rcdanger
    @rcdanger 6 лет назад

    The best man should compliment the bridesmaids on looking stunning very early on in the speech.

  • @fedezzefelbudapestet6493
    @fedezzefelbudapestet6493 2 года назад +1

    Blood alone makes the wheels of history *Stomps fist on desk*

  • @gleensabuero1101
    @gleensabuero1101 7 лет назад +3

    I've been researching into wedding speeches and discovered a fantastic website at Talking Template Bundle (google it if you're interested)

    • @johnly5702
      @johnly5702 5 лет назад

      That is good to hear, I have searched for it and I became very successful, too successful that I make too much money to spend. Have you ever heard of bohemian rhapsody ( search AOL) ? My friend is cool but he failed at it.

  • @cripticdarkmatter1401
    @cripticdarkmatter1401 5 лет назад

    My dad is the best man and I’m scared

  • @SubjectRandom21
    @SubjectRandom21 6 лет назад +4

    The sad thing is, this won't work for everyone. I've seen best man speeches last for 15 to 20 mins, some of them were totally hilarious but others were dragged out boredom. I suppose the core of a best man speech is to keep it short/shortish but very very funny with a hint of slight embarrassment, coz everyone wants to hear the juicy gossip.

  • @Innocent_Igima
    @Innocent_Igima 5 лет назад

    Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else is searching for try Loctavan Best Man Strategy (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my co-worker got amazing success with it.

  • @k.c.slawncare6046
    @k.c.slawncare6046 7 лет назад +2

    Hey, gents, prom is soon and I'm going through a dilemma. I'm going with a very comely woman and have pretty well everything sorted out. Having no transportation, as my parents wouldn't want to drive me, I enlisted the help of a friend with a 1963 Chevrolet Biscayne. That's transportation covered. Next, although it should be a given, I didn't know if I should pull the trigger on the corsage, and I did because that's customary. Here's my dilemma. Despite the appearances of a 1963 Chevrolet and a corsage, my mother insisted on a matching boutonniere. I'm becoming anxious now because as silly as it sounds, I'm worried that that's going one step too far and I may come off as "trying too hard" which is something that I don't wish to portray. What are your thought, guys, am I merely overreacting about a boutonniere, should a Boutonniere be as customary as a corsage? I don't want to convey the wrong idea to her, nor other people. Also, any women in the comments, I'd like your opinions as well.

  • @aprilmeorat2313
    @aprilmeorat2313 4 года назад +1

    Kudos for the video content! Sorry for the intrusion, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Chiveard Unique Speech Framework (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a great one of a kind guide for learning how to give an outstanding wedding speech without the hard work. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my work buddy at very last got excellent results with it.

  • @djilaliramdane9488
    @djilaliramdane9488 5 лет назад

    I've been researching into wedding speeches and found a fantastic resource at Talking Template Bundle (google it if you're interested)

  • @lindafair7770
    @lindafair7770 4 года назад

    There are many factors in making a great speech such as making it entertaining relevant and the right length One plan I found which succeeds in merging these is the Jasontas Best Speech (check it out on google) without a doubt the no.1 info that I have ever heard of. look at this great resource.

  • @armin4594
    @armin4594 4 года назад +1

    Many thanks, been searching for "what does the groomsmen do at a wedding?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Aanharlotte Outstanding Authority - (do a google search )?
    It is a smashing exclusive guide for discovering how to get pre-written and tested groomsmen speeches without the hard work. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my brother in law got cool results with it.

  • @MrOrionwalker
    @MrOrionwalker 7 лет назад +1

    interesting points ,if anyone else wants to discover best man speeches for a wedding try Loctavan Best Man Strategy ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my cousin got excellent success with it.

  • @igorsidelkovsky7944
    @igorsidelkovsky7944 4 года назад

    Just wonderful, I have been researching "what to say when you ask your bridesmaids?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Senyatt Acclaimed Smasher - (just google it ) ? It is a good one of a kind guide for learning how to do an amazing maid of honor speech minus the hard work. Ive heard some great things about it and my neighbour got excellent success with it.

  • @dalilama2419
    @dalilama2419 5 лет назад +1

    Rambled through the entire video jumped all over the place and I’m supposed to take this jokers advice come on.

  • @mikejokis9600
    @mikejokis9600 3 года назад +1

    I have spent months studying wedding speeches templates and discovered an awesome resource at Talking Template Bundle (check it out on google)

  • @ashleygomez2839
    @ashleygomez2839 3 года назад

    Hey everyone, the best success that ive ever had was by following the Talking Template Bundle (just google it) definately the most useful info that I have ever followed.

  • @djilaliramdane9488
    @djilaliramdane9488 3 года назад +1

    Kudos for the Video clip! Forgive me for the intrusion, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you thought about - Chiveard Unique Speech Framework (just google it)? It is a great exclusive guide for learning how to give an outstanding wedding speech minus the hard work. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my old buddy Taylor at last got excellent results with it.