50 Cent - WOMEN REQUIRE MENTAL MAINTENANCE!

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2022
  • Follow us on Social Media:
    Instagram: / billionaire_hustle
    TikTok: vm.tiktok.com/ZML21UavU/
    #50cent #relationship #marriage #motivation #ambition #business #entrepreneur #hustle #life #success #believe #hiphop #rap #redpill #manosphere
  • РазвлеченияРазвлечения

Комментарии • 2,6 тыс.

  • @lifeisgood070
    @lifeisgood070 Год назад +3814

    You go back to not even being friends when one party breaks trust at a level that cannot be repaired. - your mental image of them shifts and you realize you do not know them or their motives at all… that’s how it happens.

    • @mark3684
      @mark3684 Год назад +85

      You don’t get it

    • @vlee7217
      @vlee7217 Год назад +427

      ​@@mark3684 I think he said it perfectly actually. some people betray your trust so much you don't want to or can't be friends with them anymore because they are not who you thought they were in the 1st place.

    • @MH-et5sn
      @MH-et5sn Год назад +236

      ​@@mark3684 Na YOU don't get it.

    • @BerryMcCockiner
      @BerryMcCockiner Год назад

      @@mark3684 You're a virgin

    • @triggap47
      @triggap47 Год назад +26

      🎯🎯

  • @mr.passingthrough9232
    @mr.passingthrough9232 Год назад +2308

    You don’t really know someone until you live with them

  • @CS48293
    @CS48293 Год назад +1118

    Alot of relationships don't start with friendship. It starts with lust, intimacy, and getting a need met. So it's easy for it to fall apart because they can get that from other people as well.

    • @torachan23
      @torachan23 Год назад +43

      Damn you just dropped some knowledge

    • @amaragrace94
      @amaragrace94 Год назад +23

      Yup. That's the problem.

    • @mildrisplested4804
      @mildrisplested4804 Год назад +20

      Well said the lust is all that is into it .

    • @emefruean1658
      @emefruean1658 Год назад +40

      That’s why it’s crucial to build your relationship on a solid foundation

    • @fedoramcclaren4294
      @fedoramcclaren4294 Год назад +1

      There you go!!!

  • @ADavis-qb1hq
    @ADavis-qb1hq Год назад +436

    People start taking each other for granted. Your spouse should always be a priority.

    • @karlharris7602
      @karlharris7602 Год назад +8

      I feel what you're saying but I feel as if we can have more than just one priority at a time. You just have to put them in the right order.

    • @Remi10pm
      @Remi10pm Год назад +22

      No. Dead that. You* should be your own priority. Ppl are so fickle nd changeable. Especially women #NoCap. Not finna love another person more than myself then look "Dumb" after prioritizing the other. Counterproductive

    • @petergreen5337
      @petergreen5337 Год назад

      Yes.

    • @mentuhotepii2641
      @mentuhotepii2641 Год назад

      Keep your advice to yourself simp, stop misguiding the new generation!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @rejectionistmanifesto8836
      @rejectionistmanifesto8836 Год назад

      80% divorces are filed by women and even more should be expected for breakups. This is why the "mgtow,Manosphere,Redpill" ...etc is exploding as men aren't breaking most relationships, no matter how much people try to spin it otherwise these soft days we love in.

  • @broderickcamel1701
    @broderickcamel1701 Год назад +1218

    50 seems to be one of the most observant ponderers I've ever seen

    • @veeo2169
      @veeo2169 Год назад +9

      💯💯💯💯

    • @mocotone
      @mocotone Год назад +24

      Any interview that he does, I watch . Period.

    • @KTSE2997
      @KTSE2997 Год назад +23

      He's very educated and insightful

    • @diarakimbella2023
      @diarakimbella2023 Год назад +24

      That’s why whenever someone bashes him, I don’t judge the situation until he speaks on it. If you and him fall out I know it’s cus u crossed him in a way of no return.

    • @izzy2815
      @izzy2815 Год назад +9

      Bro you nailed! He is very intelligent!! And very observant as you mentioned!!

  • @alansjf33
    @alansjf33 Год назад +1111

    I use to not understand how people can go back to not being friends. I understand now. When things get so toxic and disrespectful, there is no point in pretending you are friends anymore.

    • @CBVideofy
      @CBVideofy Год назад +19

      💯

    • @KidCrowder
      @KidCrowder Год назад +10

      Right

    • @BingeworthyContent
      @BingeworthyContent Год назад +7

      Yup. I can relate

    • @vivianbraxton4941
      @vivianbraxton4941 Год назад +4

      Right because your not ! 🧐💯

    • @shelbymosely9931
      @shelbymosely9931 Год назад +16

      I will Never! Never!!! Get married again people put their family members into your marriage and that's what ruins a marriage and telling lies on me I did not deserve None of what my so call marriage put me thru with his people never again I didn't deserve it.

  • @ricksmith7232
    @ricksmith7232 Год назад +104

    If a relationship is founded on lust and not friendship it’s doomed to fail

    • @KikiNation1
      @KikiNation1 Год назад +2

      Half of them do 😊

    • @gankhammer9926
      @gankhammer9926 Год назад +2

      Vice versa too, if just friendship and minimum lust it’s doomed

    • @fran791
      @fran791 Год назад +3

      Yeah you need both from both people
      Reciprocity in both friendship, values, generosity and attraction.
      Kinda difficult to find but once you have found it, you're all good.
      Also the two people need to both be mature adults with meaningful values, not two childish narcissists

    • @vlynettemcnulty5102
      @vlynettemcnulty5102 Год назад +2

      ​@@fran791
      ABSOLUTELY.
      💯💯👏🏾👏🏾
      You have to START off with Friendship, and then BLEND into Romantic, Strong, Heatful 'Intimacy', Loyalty, and SAME Religious, Moral 'Values', for a relationship to work.
      💯💯👏🏾👏🏾

    • @williamlevy6964
      @williamlevy6964 9 месяцев назад

      No no no. If a relationship is founded on lust or friendship it is doomed to fail. You must dominate her emotionally, mentally and physically. Otherwise she will dominate you. Women can't help it. Ignore the bitchy young ones screeching about feminism and equality. They are simply projecting their insecurities (envy). In truth they still chase bullies who dominate them and abuse men who establish "friendship" with them. i've heard women complain about never having a friendship with men and blaming men for it. The truth is, if you are a bully you will never have a friend because you are a bully to them, not a friend. You have to be a friend to make a friend. I don't think I've met a woman who has a friend. Only in communities where God's law is the law. God's dead in our countries. Never ask a woman for a relationship twice. Ideally you shouldn't ask at all and let her ask you. It's important for establishing dominance to make her chase. Let them call you sexist and misogynistic. You are literally better off alone than with a bully.

  • @angelabankston1538
    @angelabankston1538 Год назад +94

    That's why you have to take you're time and get to know each other before you go to the next level with that person.

  • @prestokrs1
    @prestokrs1 Год назад +189

    How is 50 so wise and so petty? 🤣😂

    • @midastouch5606
      @midastouch5606 Год назад +69

      I wise man can play a fool but a fool can’t play a wise man

    • @Tee9156
      @Tee9156 Год назад +21

      it takes the highest level of deductive reasoning to operate at the peak level of pettiness.

    • @iREZARECTEM
      @iREZARECTEM Год назад +19

      He’s an entertainer and he’s giving the people what they want. It keeps him relevant - and it also keeps the cash flowing lol
      If you think about it, he’s tapping into his lower self to match the frequency level most of his fan base are at.

    • @STREETLIFE167
      @STREETLIFE167 Год назад +3

      Could I change your DNA? Can You? Boo Boo aka Curtis Jackson aka 50 Cent, is from South Side Jamaica Queens. Where are you from? I'll bet you took elements of where you're from with you wherever your life's journey took you. It's a twist on the age old saying: "You can take the person out of the hood, but you can never take the hood out of the person."

    • @JamaicanemeraldQueen
      @JamaicanemeraldQueen Год назад +7

      Pettywise😅

  • @toinetterae7477
    @toinetterae7477 Год назад +306

    From strangers to friends, to lovers. Then from lovers, to friends, and strangers again. Some people go from lovers to enemies .

    • @adullatifdiol9327
      @adullatifdiol9327 Год назад +7

      That me and my ex

    • @adullatifdiol9327
      @adullatifdiol9327 Год назад +9

      We are sworn enemy for life and the funny thing is we have kids together

    • @toinetterae7477
      @toinetterae7477 Год назад +2

      WOW

    • @daviddrumwright6420
      @daviddrumwright6420 Год назад +6

      Been there
      But that person,we settled our differences and now back to being good friends and I'm happy with that

    • @toinetterae7477
      @toinetterae7477 Год назад +4

      I can relate. It took about ten years, but we worked it out.

  • @Badmomsclub
    @Badmomsclub Год назад +6

    You hit the nail on the head 50! Absolutely!! Money cannot lure a woman away from a man that she is loyal to. And that’s a fact!

  • @jadefox6406
    @jadefox6406 Год назад +41

    50’s Mind is soooo fricking sexy right now it’s amazing 😊

  • @BobbyFlay14
    @BobbyFlay14 Год назад +585

    That chain and bracelet is nuts. 50 just a level headed guy who had a rough childhood and was loved by his mother. Every man needs the love of a good woman

    • @humblebee4611
      @humblebee4611 Год назад +45

      More importantly they need a good father, or positive male figure growing up

    • @bleedblue9657
      @bleedblue9657 Год назад +22

      His mother died when he was young

    • @BobbyFlay14
      @BobbyFlay14 Год назад +13

      @@bleedblue9657 still had the love of a good woman in the most important years of his life

    • @BobbyFlay14
      @BobbyFlay14 Год назад +4

      @@humblebee4611 I can vouch for that.

    • @meshe9203
      @meshe9203 Год назад +3

      I know I'm a little distracted by the chain and bracelet. Trying to focus on what he's saying but my eyes keep shifting towards his neck and wrist.

  • @DeathRowMakaveli
    @DeathRowMakaveli Год назад +161

    50 is a Harvard mind.. Im never getting tired listening to him.. since I was a teen

    • @mchristpmc2152
      @mchristpmc2152 Год назад +1

      I appreciate your profile. From 1 MC to another. Greatness on another level.

    • @DeathRowMakaveli
      @DeathRowMakaveli Год назад +6

      @@mchristpmc2152 thank you my G I wish you all the best in life

    • @neshacrese
      @neshacrese Год назад +1

      Same here!!!!

    • @andrewanderson7912
      @andrewanderson7912 Год назад +3

      Fif is no fool

    • @pearlsndiamonds
      @pearlsndiamonds Год назад +3

      He speaks facts. 🙌 one switched on individual.

  • @skrypture1162
    @skrypture1162 Год назад +26

    The problem is people throw that friend word around too easily..

    • @karenleeM
      @karenleeM Месяц назад +1

      This comment ☝️❤️

  • @hopelove1595
    @hopelove1595 Год назад +7

    Because crossing the line from friendship into intimacy changes e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g. Revealing one's feelings, expressing emotions, having expectations (realistic & unrealistic), sharing bodies and body fluids changes a friendship and it can't be the same, again because you've crossed the line into the intensity which intimacy brings. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @steez1megalodon839
    @steez1megalodon839 Год назад +951

    Truth be told, by 50 the philosopher.....💪🏽

    • @sharkdeepwater8
      @sharkdeepwater8 Год назад +7

      Not quite a philosopher. But I get what you are saying. His perspective is unique.

    • @trippybangs190
      @trippybangs190 Год назад +3

      Fr this man keeps dropping gems

    • @59DGO59
      @59DGO59 Год назад +10

      Unpopular opinion : People should stop listeining to rappers or athletes as they are philosophers

    • @tommiesolomon3145
      @tommiesolomon3145 Год назад +3

      He's rich. Not a philosopher XD And also the reason things go the way he thinks. Money

    • @bodosam7798
      @bodosam7798 Год назад +3

      @@59DGO59 you can stop listening to them I won't.

  • @yolondaharrington5665
    @yolondaharrington5665 Год назад +228

    Omg a man who gets it. That maintenance is a thing. If I feel love I can always give love.

    • @DonBrowsing
      @DonBrowsing Год назад +31

      I think you only heard what you wanted to hear.

    • @BestPropertyDealz
      @BestPropertyDealz Год назад +5

      How does a man initiate mental maintenance on his woman?
      Men need to learn these things and I'm hearing it for the first time.

    • @spacebabyksworld
      @spacebabyksworld Год назад +15

      @@BestPropertyDealz women operate on matters of the heart. If you take your time and let her know you genuinely care about how she feels whether right or wrong, she’ll be way more open to your leadership and guidance and what you can teach her. Money sex and other pleasures are just bonuses

    • @BestPropertyDealz
      @BestPropertyDealz Год назад +10

      @@spacebabyksworld that's literally what I've been trying to do ever since I started dating. In fact, I became a sucker for love and a simp. I gave too much love and too much time plus too much attention, and they punished me with cheating and disrespect.
      I learnt to not care so much, and it seems like it has made ladies sit up and take me seriously.
      Now that I'm planning to get married soon, I don't want to make the same mistakes with whoever I'm going to meet. Hence, my questions.
      I still don't understand everything you've explained so far.

    • @ergonsam7205
      @ergonsam7205 Год назад +8

      @@BestPropertyDealz ur on the right path. Dont care too much. Ur kindness will always be used against u with regards to women. U need to set the boundaries and lay down the law from the onset of the relationship. That u will no that any BS or stupid attitudes from her. She must first and foremost show respect at all times. Remember respect supersedes love

  • @rowenaallen353
    @rowenaallen353 Год назад +56

    Most times, people who are attracted for the wrong reason, can only fake it for so long. The real person will show up, and most times, they won’t like that person! Never fake who you really are for no reason! Always be true to you!

  • @debberacoleman3932
    @debberacoleman3932 Год назад +31

    When that person you love and give your all too. Be the best you that you can be, and they break that bond by cheating or being toxic, it's like you never knew them at all.

  • @PYC000
    @PYC000 Год назад +262

    If you've ever seen a woman pushing her elderly husband around in a wheelchair everywhere, you can be sure he treated her with love during their marriage. And she has a loving smile on her face.

    • @anonspectre1796
      @anonspectre1796 Год назад +14

      immediately when you said that I imagined a sugar baby..

    • @PYC000
      @PYC000 Год назад +23

      @@anonspectre1796 That's unfortunate.

    • @anonspectre1796
      @anonspectre1796 Год назад +3

      @@PYC000 unfortunate indeed. I guess I thought that because that's kind of the standard now

    • @PYC000
      @PYC000 Год назад +14

      @@anonspectre1796 Not everyone's.

    • @anonspectre1796
      @anonspectre1796 Год назад +1

      @@PYC000 well gee I hope so🤣

  • @gagecortez7983
    @gagecortez7983 Год назад +56

    Idk man over the years seeing this guy speak on so many different angles in life....very intelligent individual

    • @TSM-tv8hy
      @TSM-tv8hy Год назад +4

      You guys call everything intelligent when all anyone of you have to do is use common sense because all he spoke is common sense stuff

  • @SaintComeProductions
    @SaintComeProductions Год назад +56

    You can break a bond to the point that every time you see that person it's painful . It's better no not be "friends".

  • @n1te
    @n1te 28 дней назад +1

    I feel that 50 Cent is one of the most underrated thinkers of our time.
    He's seen as a rapper thug, but he's very insightful, and gentle...

  • @classactkirk
    @classactkirk Год назад +101

    I've never heard anyone touch down on this,this is so real

    • @toniemcfadden296
      @toniemcfadden296 Год назад

      this is so true..if a man can't keep up with a woman matinance spoiling her you will get further trust me.. 👠 then we are better off alone, it's nothing against a man but I don't want McDonald's lol

    • @VwapTrader
      @VwapTrader Год назад +3

      @@toniemcfadden296 huh

    • @honorworks6
      @honorworks6 Год назад

      @@VwapTrader lmaoo

    • @mariolsinanaj5942
      @mariolsinanaj5942 Год назад

      Yep says 50 the Bitch man

  • @samuelhepburn2636
    @samuelhepburn2636 Год назад +35

    It goes back because one them wasn't genuine, one of them was waiting for the right time to let their true colors show......

  • @richardschoonover2682
    @richardschoonover2682 Год назад +4

    I agree. I've had 4 major relationships. I'm still with the 4th 22 years now. I'm still friends with the other 3. How you go from loving to hating. It doesn't make sense. Now when we first broke up there was some fucked up feelings. But after a little time you get over it. It's nice to know how someone is doing.

  • @abbygaileallbright0620
    @abbygaileallbright0620 Год назад +8

    This is the type of relationship I wanted. After 50 years on this earth, it never happened. It’s nice to know people like me exist! I agree w/ 50’s idea of adult relationships. He understood my assignment.❤️

  • @detroitMC313
    @detroitMC313 Год назад +106

    That ending -- it happens when one of the people are fake and it's beyond heartbreaking to come to grips that it was all fake and all of that love was given in vain.

    • @iversonHOF-ux5mg
      @iversonHOF-ux5mg Год назад +3

      🗣️OMS👏🏿!

    • @reneachilds8111
      @reneachilds8111 Год назад +3

      But, it happens. And, there are many ways to deal with hatred n deception. One SHOE don't fit all...THINK!

    • @dontplay3088
      @dontplay3088 Год назад +1

      Were im at now sadly

    • @dontplay3088
      @dontplay3088 Год назад +1

      I feel like a knife has been put threw my heart I feel weak n sick.

    • @iversonHOF-ux5mg
      @iversonHOF-ux5mg Год назад +4

      Don't Play....🗣️ Believe me when I tell you the Bounce back will be satisfying...Keep Your head up!

  • @G1Z
    @G1Z Год назад +128

    You don’t start off being friends. U start off lying to each other pretending to be the perfect match cuz you like them. You can only fake for so long. So after you’re married the facade fades away and the real emerges and a lot of times you weren’t a good fit to begin with. 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @alorabanks5895
      @alorabanks5895 Год назад +8

      So true

    • @daGhost187
      @daGhost187 Год назад +39

      Speak for yourself. If you find yourself faking to begin with then you started wrong by not being yourself.

    • @G1Z
      @G1Z Год назад +12

      @@daGhost187 you’re right, nobody puts on a front when they first meet someone they find attractive. As a matter of fact no one gets dressed up to go out to look their best, they just go out looking like whatever. Thanks for reminding me.

    • @eb4478
      @eb4478 Год назад +21

      @@G1Z No he’s making sense. Don’t start with deception. Be yourself

    • @G1Z
      @G1Z Год назад +6

      @@eb4478 that’s the best move for sure, it’s just that it’s not reality for most, especially the younger you are. I’m just stating a fact.

  • @sarah_d.o.z.
    @sarah_d.o.z. Год назад +3

    Exactly my future husband and myself have been friends since 2019. We connect on a spiritual level and emotional level, everything else is falling in place. No sex, until we are married. He is worth the wait as well as myself. He Knows me mentally better than I know myself.

  • @prettysavage6524
    @prettysavage6524 Год назад +8

    My Hubby gets deep. Ppl love to hate this Man but one thing about him is , he'll ALWAYS speak the Truth.💞😊

  • @AllAmericanLarry
    @AllAmericanLarry Год назад +60

    A relationship become work and that’s why they say don’t start businesses with your friends 😂

  • @James-ue2df
    @James-ue2df Год назад +82

    That beat in the back will always be 🔥

    • @290revolver290
      @290revolver290 Год назад +1

      🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @troyg.173
      @troyg.173 Год назад +8

      When G-Unit was the truth

    • @UnitedPacci
      @UnitedPacci Год назад

      @@troyg.173 What is the name of the beat?

    • @amil5656
      @amil5656 Год назад +4

      ​@@UnitedPacci wanna get to know you - G-unit

    • @UnitedPacci
      @UnitedPacci Год назад +1

      @@amil5656 thanks!!

  • @dezyriquez5764
    @dezyriquez5764 Год назад +9

    There will always be one person in the relationship that will not be grateful for his mate and thinks he can do better as soon as he thinks he got her or as soon as she thinks she got him!! Often times they never do better and then want to return with all the excuses

  • @WasItSomethingUSaid
    @WasItSomethingUSaid Год назад +1

    50 speak real shhhh he's very intelligent and in tune

  • @Screech032
    @Screech032 Год назад +264

    "Familiarity breeds Contempt."

    • @naija395
      @naija395 Год назад +30

      For women

    • @Donni_P
      @Donni_P Год назад +3

      - Jay Electronica

    • @henryeweama2270
      @henryeweama2270 Год назад +4

      simple

    • @l.rod.8558
      @l.rod.8558 Год назад +16

      Yup for men that's called peace

    • @dezcuts5319
      @dezcuts5319 Год назад +5

      These pros ain’t loyal. 50 was saying low key he has no intention to get married because of that reason. Same here.

  • @dontchaknownogud5466
    @dontchaknownogud5466 Год назад +18

    Because most people get what they want & then it becomes something that is overlooked instead of valuable. So some people really aren't ready for something real until they see that A real connection is hard to find.

  • @cjrsalinas7334
    @cjrsalinas7334 Год назад +4

    Friendship carries you when times are tough. It allows the emotions to deepen.

  • @Gareths-Guilty-Pleasures
    @Gareths-Guilty-Pleasures Год назад +2

    Having a women for many men is like being a carer for someone with special needs. It's hardwork having to do everything for someone unpredictable that doesn't know what she wants 😂😂.

  • @ModernDayRenaissanceMan
    @ModernDayRenaissanceMan Год назад +21

    Men & women have different motivation in the long run so our goals align for only so long. We become friends thinking we can bring the other side to our way of thinking. "This man will move in with me, have my kids, support me etc" Men will think "If I can just get her to stop doing x,y or z, maybe eat right, exercise, then I'll move in with her, but I don't want kids, & she needs a part time job."
    We fight for that middle ground under the guise of "compromise." We share our ideal life & in the start both sides are blinded by love & only see what we like & both sides are AGREEABLE. So they give more thinking that is going to make the other side change.
    Now depending on how much patience each side has + maybe months maybe years, the patience runs out. You start to see poor communication because no one wants to say what their true motives were because they came into this trying to change the other person - even if just a little. They don't want to admit that. So they blame the other side. "I asked you to move in with me & you never did." - & that's a warning sign - she is telling you that she doesn't think you don't love her because you haven't done x,y,z. Maybe you didn't start a business, get married, whatever.
    Same for you, you counter her argument with "I can't move in because we can't afford it, why don't you ever keep a job? You told me you'd work a part time job?" Now she isn't hearing you... You expect her to provide & she is figuring out you aren't going to be the sole provider. In today's day & age average men can't do that & that turns women off.
    So now you're learning shiet ain't gonna change. You stay together & fight it out for a year or 2. She gets fatter & lazier & you refuse to move in or commit more because she hasn't done anything to warrant it & she won't do anything to warrant it because she sees you as not being worth it. It's a betrayal on both sides that really started on day ONE.
    Because no one is ever 100% honest up front & when you ARE.... they will walk out on you. We all know this. I've tried that approach. Hundreds of women just leave. But when "I play the game." I get 4 - 7 years out of a woman. Better that than being alone.
    I would prefer not to do it that way but you do the result that rewards you the best. Life is a game of rewards. We evolve to do what works. Women hate brutal honesty. Some men as well. Until we as a society value that ... Love will turn to hate.

    • @eb4478
      @eb4478 Год назад

      Decent point my brotha.
      But how do you play the game?

    • @Lala-th8in
      @Lala-th8in Год назад

      Indifferent not hate☕

    • @drea0795
      @drea0795 Год назад

      Super selfish, but I get it.

    • @ftdcp4459
      @ftdcp4459 Год назад +1

      Yep!!!! A lot of children end up in bad situations because of this. The woman wants children. The man doesn’t. If both are honest with each other about it, they breakup and move on. Sometimes however, one will lie and pretend to have the same goals and that never ends well.

  • @str8dollarsigns
    @str8dollarsigns Год назад +10

    when the truth unravels and that person becomes what youve been avoiding

  • @GoodluckOyegorom
    @GoodluckOyegorom 4 дня назад

    The legacy that YOU ARE building for The future hope 50 CENT is so much good SENIOR MAN.

  • @SandraBTateRAW
    @SandraBTateRAW Год назад +2

    Great points here as usual. Let me just add that 50 here is saying "...if done properly" through and through the solid foundation are built on both sides based on true friendship. Adding trust, support, respect, honesty, and ❤️ , NOW, you have an amazing connection to grow on.🤑🙏🏼💯❤️🥰

  • @diyoverhauler5432
    @diyoverhauler5432 Год назад +47

    If you can go back that means somebody’s heart wasn’t all the way in it in the first place.

    • @Juwanhiddengems
      @Juwanhiddengems Год назад +2

      False

    • @diyoverhauler5432
      @diyoverhauler5432 Год назад +4

      @@Juwanhiddengems it’s not unconditional love if you can go back people make mistakes you can’t always go back and change what was done But you can put steps in place to make up for it and fix it that way.

    • @G1Z
      @G1Z Год назад +3

      No, sometimes people just aren’t compatible. They think differently or grow in two different directions. You can’t really fix that.

    • @diyoverhauler5432
      @diyoverhauler5432 Год назад +3

      @@G1Z trying to fake it til you make it 🤦🏾

    • @Skinny_Pimp
      @Skinny_Pimp Год назад

      Why are you holding on to the past. Weak boy. Move on she left.

  • @andresouth1596
    @andresouth1596 Год назад +115

    Gotta look beyond the love
    Once the love fades
    Do u like this person enough to stay

    • @MarkyGarvey
      @MarkyGarvey Год назад +1

      Keyword: Enough

    • @kronos1017
      @kronos1017 Год назад +2

      Love never fades, butterflies and initial excitement do

    • @RaphaelDawkinsCombatRadio
      @RaphaelDawkinsCombatRadio Год назад

      @@kronos1017 Bullsh*t.

    • @gsoe9894
      @gsoe9894 Год назад

      Who staying with someone they don’t love and why would you want be around someone who doesn’t love you lol tff type of question is that

  • @MsYooToob
    @MsYooToob Год назад +1

    50 has been through so much trauma in his life and still sounds like he is emotionally intelligent. God bless

  • @alyssawoodman
    @alyssawoodman Год назад +1

    Can we take a moment and appreciate the sheer magnitude of that gold chain?!?!?!?!

  • @ginasoriano998
    @ginasoriano998 Год назад +27

    That's why 50 will always be on top. He is sooo far ahead in his wisdom it's incredible!👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  • @juantubey
    @juantubey Год назад +15

    It’s called life, brother 50… that’s why they say it’s a thin line between love and hate. And I will add “…especially for people who are run by emotions”.
    Unfortunately, a lot of people are run by emotions.

    • @Lala-th8in
      @Lala-th8in Год назад

      It's called indifferent not hate☕

    • @incognegro2315
      @incognegro2315 Год назад

      Because that’s what usually makes it a relationship/marriage. It’s has a great deal of emotion.

  • @janelljenkins5190
    @janelljenkins5190 Год назад

    People will show you who they are - believe them the 1st time. “Energy never lies”

  • @tarahpi7821
    @tarahpi7821 Год назад

    You said it! What went wrong goes back to what seemed to be right in the beginning. There’s no more “maintenance,” no intimacy, no bond, no connection and it crumbles.

  • @creolepie
    @creolepie Год назад +6

    This Man is so Intelligent🖤🖤🖤 but also so petty😂😂😂

  • @godd3387
    @godd3387 Год назад +35

    I was thinking this the other day how love turns to hate and back to love again

  • @kennettabradford6566
    @kennettabradford6566 Год назад +1

    Yep 50 is absolutely right. I like him

  • @stevem2323
    @stevem2323 Год назад

    One of the smartest rappers out there, in entertainment as general.

  • @nakkamusic3370
    @nakkamusic3370 Год назад +11

    That's some real shit right there. Deep. I never understood how u can not like the person after madly loving the person. Either love is a present thing, or respect is an absent thing (for it to work) u can't have both🖤🇹🇹.

    • @privatepo5876
      @privatepo5876 Год назад

      I suppose that it varies on the scenario. Personally speaking I understand that I looked at things differently from my partner and eventually outgrew my partner mentally. Who I was 20 years ago, is not who I am now. I’ve gotten better in clarity and less energy for nonsense the older I got. We eventually moved into different wavelengths of understanding.

  • @debbiethompson14
    @debbiethompson14 Год назад +16

    I think you can go back to not being friends because uh cause the palpitation of the relationship was not built on honesty it was built on presenting a good image. Then come eventually the real you comes out and it's not very attractive.

  • @s_h_a_w_n_d_a8903
    @s_h_a_w_n_d_a8903 Год назад +1

    Gotta give it to this guy. He’s so savvy, even when it comes to relationships. Kudos to 50. 👏🏽👏🏽. Can’t no woman get over on him. Nobody can.

  • @jenniferwhittington5817
    @jenniferwhittington5817 Год назад

    That type of relationship lasts. MIRACLES PEACE FAITH AND BLESSINGS 🙏🏾✝️🙏🏾

  • @jdantigua1999
    @jdantigua1999 Год назад +39

    Word UP.
    Loyal and consistent.

  • @ChicknCoopTv
    @ChicknCoopTv Год назад +4

    Damn.. he dropped gems I didn't even know I needed to hear.

  • @aprilallen2365
    @aprilallen2365 9 месяцев назад

    Yes sir 50! Mental maintenance= LOYALTY for sure.

  • @CarollemMen-cl8nz
    @CarollemMen-cl8nz Месяц назад

    So right 50 Cents.
    You want loyalty to you.
    Take that man. I'm with you.

  • @nathanangerson8595
    @nathanangerson8595 Год назад +4

    I absolutely agree, women definitely need and deserve mental maintenance. If I'm with a girl. She's going to be a priority to me. And if I'm not a priority to her? Then it's not healthy. Somethings definitely off, and it's on her behalf. She's looking for something different. And she's just going to have to keep looking. I'll shut shit down real quick. No matter what my feelings are. I'm always going to love and respect myself first.

  • @g.ravenlight7899
    @g.ravenlight7899 Год назад +64

    He gets it!!!! He really gets it!!!

    • @nikscott6644
      @nikscott6644 Год назад

      But do you?

    • @g.ravenlight7899
      @g.ravenlight7899 Год назад

      @@nikscott6644 Ms. Do you?

    • @g.ravenlight7899
      @g.ravenlight7899 Год назад

      @CJ Wilkins Do You?

    • @Lala-th8in
      @Lala-th8in Год назад

      Oh watevea stop it☕

    • @camquest6108
      @camquest6108 Год назад

      Okay since he gets it could you explain lady to man? What is this mental maintenance and how does one conduct it?

  • @sallytheresethompson1083
    @sallytheresethompson1083 9 месяцев назад

    Who's Rooting U ? Who's Loving U True! It's the HEART 💖 of the matter that matters🍀

  • @baked921
    @baked921 Год назад

    This is beautifuly put. 50 is one of the smartest people that are in a spot light. More young men need to listen to his words.

  • @slippyquack7672
    @slippyquack7672 Год назад +5

    The reason why we often can't go back to being friends, or worse- enemies, is because boundaries get crossed and because of the "comfort" in thinking that they aren't going to go anywhere, they often do and say the most disrespectful things to each other.. things that they wouldn't even do or say to an enemy. Or when cheating is involved, like.. everything that was built up and that lead to marriage or whatever, all of that gets disrespected. The friendship, the love, the respect, the time, the family and other friends. At that, after everything has been disregarded, there's no "friendship" to go back to.

  • @ismp7633
    @ismp7633 Год назад +12

    no loyalty, no faithfulness, equals to betrayal and the relationship/ friendship was all a lie. They become your enemy.....

    • @0Shane13
      @0Shane13 11 месяцев назад

      The Bible says love your enemies

  • @jennifervalencia-garcia326
    @jennifervalencia-garcia326 Год назад +3

    I just went thru this and not being respected and showing appreciation can change it real fast

  • @DonDodda9743
    @DonDodda9743 Год назад +1

    Very intellectual young man,his parents did a great job,of raising him, 5'f is very underrated,when it comes to his mind set,in terms of smartzzzzz 💫👑

  • @barbaraweber3084
    @barbaraweber3084 Год назад +371

    He's pic is in the dictionary under the word intelligent.

    • @margyritchie2702
      @margyritchie2702 Год назад

      Brilliant

    • @sM0kish
      @sM0kish Год назад +26

      Definitely not yours. "He's"....

    • @balkanjoker8754
      @balkanjoker8754 Год назад +2

      @@sM0kish Hahaja

    • @kis005
      @kis005 Год назад +7

      What dictionary have you got with pictures in it?

    • @emotee3523
      @emotee3523 Год назад +6

      I think you mean "HIS" not, "HE'S".

  • @leonfrancis3418
    @leonfrancis3418 Год назад +4

    Dude is talking about a regular relationship where things just ended because of small disagreements or growing apart.
    He's not talking about your traumatic relationship where someone slashed your tires and smashed your homeboy, people in the comments.
    Because in that case, it's obvious why two people can't be friends.
    Reading through the lines is tuff.

  • @stephanieg3554
    @stephanieg3554 Год назад

    Yasss 50 got it right... WOMEN AIN'T GAS (give a shhh) about Financing always most of the time they can get it themselves.🎉❤🙌🏽💃🏽🥺

  • @yvonneferrer6035
    @yvonneferrer6035 Год назад

    Yesss there's still REAL WOMEN OUT HERE

  • @jeremyweiss206
    @jeremyweiss206 Год назад +16

    Real talk 50 cent 🔥

  • @draco2xx
    @draco2xx Год назад +27

    if u end the relationship amicably then both can go back to being friends but once the other backstabbes and do grimey shady things that relationship is forever tarnished, cant go back to friends after that

  • @damienjeremyweir4543
    @damienjeremyweir4543 Год назад

    50 has so much sense, I always admire his intellect. Im a lucky one after much bad luck in relationships. My wife is my best friend and much more.

  • @esthermichellesanders-john8985

    50 cent is all grown up and mature. He's learned some things. Kudos.

  • @bellacairothehookqueen5373
    @bellacairothehookqueen5373 Год назад +9

    Wow...I didn't realize this...but yes...I am literally like this...because the mental maintenance from him is on point🤔...wow.

    • @samoriab5999
      @samoriab5999 Год назад

      What kind of mental maintainance..a shrink like what y'all mean?

    • @mentlinc
      @mentlinc Год назад +6

      @@samoriab5999 he has to keep reminding her weekly almost daily why she's with him to make her feel more important than she is

    • @PrinceGadi340
      @PrinceGadi340 Год назад +1

      @@mentlinc So become a simp?? 😂😂

    • @mentlinc
      @mentlinc Год назад

      @@PrinceGadi340 it's called leadership

    • @PrinceGadi340
      @PrinceGadi340 Год назад

      @@mentlinc Making a woman feel as if she’s doing you a favor by being with you is leadership? I guess I’m a horrible leader, I gotta step up my game

  • @travisrowe7697
    @travisrowe7697 Год назад +28

    It’s because one person has been lying, unfaithful, or using the other person for something. If both feel that way, it doesn’t change

    • @Chris-lg8rm
      @Chris-lg8rm Год назад

      He’s saying in the process of being in a relationship he doesn’t understand why people are lovers only and not both lovers and friends, that idea right there is like 50s chain GOLD…💯💯

    • @spenser6353
      @spenser6353 Год назад +1

      50 should know. He been beefing with his baby mom forever

  • @nargaseverson9040
    @nargaseverson9040 Год назад

    This is why I like 50 Cent telling the truth

  • @luvroxie4589
    @luvroxie4589 Год назад +3

    That’s why I love 50, he keeps it real💝Message 💝

  • @shiningonesskillsontheplat8461
    @shiningonesskillsontheplat8461 Год назад +9

    Only people with an agenda can go from saying they love to hating you.

  • @halfmanhalfamazing7392
    @halfmanhalfamazing7392 Год назад +7

    Understand Bro 50, because after you marry her you think the maintenance over with, but it's not and you stop maintaining her. Maintenance is from the time she wake up until the time she goes to sleep. And if you can Maintenance yourself while you're awake do it. And if you love what your doing it will never feel like work while you maintaining the Maintenance in you and your woman.

  • @scottamaral5073
    @scottamaral5073 Год назад +1

    I always think wow this dude is intuitive, but then I remember he had great role models, his grandparents. He talks about them all the time.

  • @Kozmikgoddiz77
    @Kozmikgoddiz77 Год назад

    I say the NOT BEING FRIENDS thing often… complete agreeable

  • @sunsayidrahsad936
    @sunsayidrahsad936 Год назад +8

    Became friends but did not get to know one another.

  • @laurenk.7325
    @laurenk.7325 Год назад +10

    I've been married for 22 yrs, as of next month, too my
    "Best Friend!" ❤️
    I'm eternally greatful and humbled to my
    "HIGHER POWER," for this life altering connection!
    In the beginning, "OUR" foundation started out as a friendship, which slowly grew stronger and progressed in time.
    This soul connection, has emotionally gotten us through the toughest of times.
    It's also allowed us to truly relish and be greatful for our blessings! ❤
    {Shrugs} 🙂
    "JUST" my lil ole thoughts and opinion!

  • @TheLord.IsMyShepherd
    @TheLord.IsMyShepherd Год назад

    50 had some real gems in this clip

  • @dollym.8780
    @dollym.8780 Год назад

    100% True and if it's done properly, she WILL be loyal!! It's when she is taken advantage of, used, abused, taken for granted that ish goes sideways!
    I have learned for as crazy as I always thought 50 was, he is wise, funny and smart about the relationship game. Keep on bringing that wisdom! Say it louder so the thought process can change!

  • @jahminastephens8026
    @jahminastephens8026 Год назад +4

    That friendship basis really pulls you through the hard times

  • @skimaskcitizen301
    @skimaskcitizen301 Год назад +5

    Fif lost me INSTANTLY " women require maintenance....Not financial." 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @KangTheDigitalNomad
      @KangTheDigitalNomad Год назад +1

      He's saying the finesse a man in the idea they want his money when you will find those that want to connect with a man on the mental maintenance part of it's why you see sooo many sometimes pretty attractive women BEING SUBMISSIVE to dudes you would categorize as a nobody or bum but the mental maintenance is being fed it's RedPill 102. That a woman will provision for a man if he provides something it could be peace of mind all kinds of sh!t I've seen OF "that's/304's" f*ck with dudes that just "keep them grounded" no matter how much she makes on OF she runs back with the same dude even after all her EMOTIONAL UPS AND DOWNS

  • @meichellehuff4021
    @meichellehuff4021 Год назад +1

    I respect and love what Fifty is becoming!!

  • @jujusoliel2579
    @jujusoliel2579 Год назад

    I agree. …. It just stops when someone Screws up. And when u screw up U
    F %#^ed
    Sometimes unrepairable

  • @onewmnman
    @onewmnman Год назад +26

    After they divorce you and talk half your stuff…why would you wanna be friends with them.

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp Год назад +2

      If your concerned about “half my stuff” while in a marriage no wonder the other person picked divorce. That setting the marriage to fail. Instead of looking at the assets as jointly owned that you and your spouse use for the betterment and growth as a couple you see it as “my stuff” “mine mine mine” it’s about “me” selfish way to think. A divorce lawyer on a RUclips video made the point that going into a marriage with a prenup almost always sets the marriage to fail. One party is already looking for a way out (prenup) before the marriage even happens.

    • @onewmnman
      @onewmnman Год назад

      @@Bri-nc8yp stfu, this is about being or not being friends afterwards.

    • @kingmichaeln1
      @kingmichaeln1 Год назад

      lol I think they only happen when y’all end back and can’t even be friends no more

    • @PronounceGaming
      @PronounceGaming Год назад +2

      @@Bri-nc8yp Except he didn't say that he was thinking about half his stuff "while in a marriage". You wrote that entire paragraph based on not reading his comment properly.

  • @robbjohnson509
    @robbjohnson509 Год назад +3

    Damn 50. I have a lady just like this .👍

  • @ladyshorty6989
    @ladyshorty6989 Год назад +1

    #FACTS!!! YOURE DEFINITELY RIGHT ABOUT IT 50!!

  • @beckybnyc322
    @beckybnyc322 Год назад +5

    The man talks facts on facts always keeps it 💯 #FriendsFirst #Lovers4Eva