I hate everything about this book, no one talks about how Ben literally stalked Fallon, sexually assaulted her and literally had abusive thoughts for her when she tried to run away from him, y'all must love toxic relationships
She edited the sa out of newly published books so you wouldn’t know about it unless you looked up the book yk. I listened to the audiobook and it was in there and itwas so weird and uncomfortable to sit through
You enjoyed this book? My sister is a burn victim. She had an accident in the kitchen when she was in high school and has scarring because of it. When I heard about this book I was horrified. How dare Colleen Hoover sit there and write a book about an abusive relationship where the burn victim has no self confidence. I understand what she was trying to do, but it is in incredibly poor taste for her to write about burn victims as if they have no self confidence and are doomed to be stuck with people who will use that knowledge to abuse them throughout their relationships. The most disturbing part is that she writes the book as though this relationship is normal. It’s not. This is offensive and for people to read this book and give it five star reviews is, quite frankly, ignorant. Not only does she exploit the character’s self confidence issues because she is a burn victim, but she uses it as a fetish. WHY IS THE ENTIRE BOOK BASED ON TURNING A HORRIFIC EVENT INTO A FETISH? To use burn victims, who genuinely have self confidence issues because of their scars, as a way to make your character insecure is disgusting.
Haven't finish the book yet but so far, i hate it. It felt like i was reading a daydream fantacy land of some men who have 0 bitches and doesn't know how to talk to girls, like wtf ? Why would u tell a girl, on the FIRST day you meet, who isn't even flirting w with, that u thought of her in her underwear ??? What makes u think it was a good idea ? Try that irl and any girl will think ur a weirdo cause IT IS weird. I swear Ben can sometimes act like such a creep
I damn agree with you! I just read 3 chapters and I don't think I will be able to read the next pages 🤢and the way he was undressing her on the first day ewww...she wasn't even stopping him. She should have kicked him out with a slap 😑
bro i started reading this book and its one of the most uncomfortable books ive ever read. i HATE ben and i HATE colleen hoover. im never gonna read any of her works ever again.
YESS! All of her books as the same thing with the same toxic and abusive elements in it, I don’t understand why so many people love her books and adore her work, plus imo the covers of her books are tacky
Ikr she literally had to edit it out and re-release it to not include the SA scene. You know your book is bad when you have to re-edit and re-publish it
People just blindly praise Colleen Hoover just because one of her books got TikTok famous, they now assume that every single one of her books needs to be praised no matter how offensive or lack of awareness the subject matter is
Wdym that's basically all of them... I'm honestly scared of how popular she is, think of all of the young girls reading these books bc they're popular and thinking that all the abuse is "normal" and "sexy" and "cute" bc CoHo glorifies it all. "Oh it's okay for him to abuse her and trample all over her boundaries and act like an incel because he has trauma and they're in love" BARF. It gives me chills like actually- but yeah thankfully a lot of people are speaking out about this stuff
The book really was good in the first half and then suddenly the Jordyn situation happened and I was like fucking shocked... I really wished Fallon was thinking too deeply but when Ben accepted the fact, l knew that this was the point from where the book is really getting messed. Although the ending was satisfactory, I still don't feel Fallon should have forgiven Ben after knowing what he did to her😢😢😢
Yess. I really liked the book. And i really liked Ben in the beginning. The way he encouraged her and all but then that Jordyn part really caught me off guard and was a little disappointed . The manuscript made me cry but after reading the entire thing I was silently wishing she forgave him but didn't get back with him. Cuz even tho he didn't mean for it to happen he should have confronted her with the truth the minute he saw her. Otherwise I liked the book. Lots of people seem to hate it and I can understand why. But please don't judge me 😩
I just finished it ends with us I’m literally broken whenever I think about it I cry but I still wanna read whats a good Coleen Hoover book to read after it ends with us
I picked it up today just because I heard really good things about it and I have only read 20 pages so far and I am dreading reading the rest I don't like ben already...
Hey sis thanku sm for this review i really needed it i actually ordered Colleen Hoover's books and i didnt knew anything abt November9 thnku and tbh how are you doo pretty wow i love ur accent too😳😚
I liked it too cause it was funny but the fact that she forgave ben SO easily just shocks me. Like he said sorry and then shes like its fine, kiss me and make me eggs 💀
Jesus Christ loves you so so much! He can give you true freedom peace and happiness and joy! You can follow Him! He hears you and He is there for you! He can HEAL you from every sickness- mental or physical
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that ( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Stop fucking hating on this book…this is so good ben was basically grieving on his mother’s demise…when he did that and with no intention of burning fallon…it was all an accident and ben repents it so much….he loved fallon with all of his heart…although the scars were because of him but he supported her throughout and he was the one who lit her confidence’s candle….c mon guys this book is so great….a man who loves a girl not because of guilt but because actually how beautiful she was in spite of scars, her character was so heart warming for him….and fallon too was completed by ben.❤
@@sushwetamondal848 I think anyone who sets a home intentionally on fire, deserves to be charged with attempted murder, because firefighters put their lives at risk trying to put it out, and also fire spreads very easily, and it could have spread to burn down other homes and lead to deaths that way. This is an incredibly evil thing to do and the male character in this book was cringey and disgusting the entire time.
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that ( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that ( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that ( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that ( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Yeah I mean just commit arson and say I am sorry! Fixed 👍🏻 Stupid people using their brains and hating on such a profoundly loving character... and for what??? Arson??? Attempted murder ??? Oh come on
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that ( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that ( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that too ( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Your English was great! But people are upset since she romanticized SA and abuse, apologizing doesn't change that. And if I'm not mistaken wasn't he the one who started the fire? You can't make up excuses for something bad and then expect it to be ok.
@@celineortiz6213Well, first of all, thank you for your kindness because i'm not very confident in this situation (english is my second language, and i just started one year ago, so that's the reason) Second, i didn't read the original book i mean in English, and it was translated in my native language, so there were lots of parts that were removed from the book And third , actually, after i read this book, i thought about it a lot, and i know He made a huge mistake but i understood that if i were him, i would definitely burn the guy who's hurt the person/ people i love, although he was wrong after all
ben has so many red flags. plus he literally sa’ed her in a deleted scene. and coho just romanticised the abusive relationship.
That's terrible
I hate everything about this book, no one talks about how Ben literally stalked Fallon, sexually assaulted her and literally had abusive thoughts for her when she tried to run away from him, y'all must love toxic relationships
You are my favourite person
In which chapter it was??
Sorry I forgot
When did he stalk her and SA her and abusive thoughts about her?? I forgot
@@maryamrana7626 you've either not read it or you just don't care unless there is smut
@@mfsatan please tell the chapter no.
i feel like this book has 10000 covers
Why is it that all good reviews on this book never seem to mention the SA that happens or how creepy and weird Ben is and how many red flags he has??
She edited the sa out of newly published books so you wouldn’t know about it unless you looked up the book yk. I listened to the audiobook and it was in there and itwas so weird and uncomfortable to sit through
@@breabundy5529 brooo
"inspiration" girl be fucking forreal he stalked her tf wrong w yall omg... 😭🙏
It sounds disgusting
I have to read this since the characters meet every year on my birthday!
You enjoyed this book? My sister is a burn victim. She had an accident in the kitchen when she was in high school and has scarring because of it. When I heard about this book I was horrified. How dare Colleen Hoover sit there and write a book about an abusive relationship where the burn victim has no self confidence. I understand what she was trying to do, but it is in incredibly poor taste for her to write about burn victims as if they have no self confidence and are doomed to be stuck with people who will use that knowledge to abuse them throughout their relationships. The most disturbing part is that she writes the book as though this relationship is normal. It’s not. This is offensive and for people to read this book and give it five star reviews is, quite frankly, ignorant. Not only does she exploit the character’s self confidence issues because she is a burn victim, but she uses it as a fetish. WHY IS THE ENTIRE BOOK BASED ON TURNING A HORRIFIC EVENT INTO A FETISH? To use burn victims, who genuinely have self confidence issues because of their scars, as a way to make your character insecure is disgusting.
This book has genuinely broke me
same bro
@Amira me neither, unfortunately
Haven't finish the book yet but so far, i hate it. It felt like i was reading a daydream fantacy land of some men who have 0 bitches and doesn't know how to talk to girls, like wtf ? Why would u tell a girl, on the FIRST day you meet, who isn't even flirting w with, that u thought of her in her underwear ??? What makes u think it was a good idea ? Try that irl and any girl will think ur a weirdo cause IT IS weird. I swear Ben can sometimes act like such a creep
I damn agree with you! I just read 3 chapters and I don't think I will be able to read the next pages 🤢and the way he was undressing her on the first day ewww...she wasn't even stopping him. She should have kicked him out with a slap 😑
THANK YOU, finally someone who isn't glorifying his stalking creepy behaviour 😭
Girl cuz he IS A CREEP and a criminal! This book needs a trigger warning at beginning and definitely can’t be classified under romance genre.
I hated the book from chapter1
I have just read the whole thing because i don't like not finishing books
It was cringe not worth it
I read it and it’s horrible
bro i started reading this book and its one of the most uncomfortable books ive ever read. i HATE ben and i HATE colleen hoover. im never gonna read any of her works ever again.
Soulmate
YESS! All of her books as the same thing with the same toxic and abusive elements in it, I don’t understand why so many people love her books and adore her work, plus imo the covers of her books are tacky
@@LuzuraHater the books covers look like covers of y/n fanfiction
This book is messed up, Colleen Hoover is messed up for portraying this kinda relationship as just sad romance
it was inspired by her it was stalking her in a weird obsession and then having abusive thoughts and manipulating her !!
Pretty sure this is the book Colleen Hoover glorified a SA scene 💀
Ikr she literally had to edit it out and re-release it to not include the SA scene. You know your book is bad when you have to re-edit and re-publish it
@@Short_insomniac_ Fr and even then that book is so problematic lmao
People just blindly praise Colleen Hoover just because one of her books got TikTok famous, they now assume that every single one of her books needs to be praised no matter how offensive or lack of awareness the subject matter is
@@Short_insomniac_ It honestly scares me how so many young girls will go into relationships thinking those red flags are green flags.
Wdym that's basically all of them... I'm honestly scared of how popular she is, think of all of the young girls reading these books bc they're popular and thinking that all the abuse is "normal" and "sexy" and "cute" bc CoHo glorifies it all. "Oh it's okay for him to abuse her and trample all over her boundaries and act like an incel because he has trauma and they're in love" BARF. It gives me chills like actually- but yeah thankfully a lot of people are speaking out about this stuff
The book really was good in the first half and then suddenly the Jordyn situation happened and I was like fucking shocked...
I really wished Fallon was thinking too deeply but when Ben accepted the fact, l knew that this was the point from where the book is really getting messed.
Although the ending was satisfactory, I still don't feel Fallon should have forgiven Ben after knowing what he did to her😢😢😢
Yess. I really liked the book. And i really liked Ben in the beginning. The way he encouraged her and all but then that Jordyn part really caught me off guard and was a little disappointed . The manuscript made me cry but after reading the entire thing I was silently wishing she forgave him but didn't get back with him. Cuz even tho he didn't mean for it to happen he should have confronted her with the truth the minute he saw her. Otherwise I liked the book. Lots of people seem to hate it and I can understand why. But please don't judge me 😩
I just finished it ends with us I’m literally broken whenever I think about it I cry but I still wanna read whats a good Coleen Hoover book to read after it ends with us
Ugly love✨
Ugly love for sure !
Ugly love hell yeah
the sequel to It Ends with Us is out now too!!
Read IT STARTS WITH US, it's out now and I've read it♥️
It's so good♥️
The Infiltrator. I laughed so hard. Its comedy gold 😂
This guy makes a huge effort to avoid going to jail.
if it’s up to me I love this book
This book bored the hell out of me. I got into a reading slump because of it.
This is my favorite CoHo book❤❤❤
Love your hairstyle 🤩🥰
i hate this book so much
same :)
the whole thing has gotten little girls romanticizing creepy stalkers 🤡
@@hmmm5265 all her books have these kind of characters. I'm surprised not many people call her out for it.
What was the meaning behind Ben's tattoo ??
It was Ben's favourite things meaning he fell in a selfless love
November 9th is my birthday 🥳
I picked it up today just because I heard really good things about it and I have only read 20 pages so far and I am dreading reading the rest I don't like ben already...
Read its sequel it satrts with us u will seriously smile at the end
I cant read colleen hoover....her books just arent for me, but this actually sounds kinda good
The main love interest raped his girlfriend
Is it just me who HATED this book? Ben was the reason behind all the mess plus he cheated on fallon with his sister in law makes me sick.
r u okay i mean i see you shaking 🥺
Dude how many cups of coffee did you drink before filming this
can you please tell me the page count of this book. mine just came today and it is 307 pages long while google says this book is 340 pages long?😭
@@agente.pinguim i've got the english version for myself
@@shreyanshisingh0906 I can't really help you because I am not an english reader, but if it's not an edition issue, I don't really know. Sorry! ☹️
@@agente.pinguim hey it's okay! :)
@@shreyanshisingh0906 good luck so! ;)
I have 310 pages!
Hey sis thanku sm for this review i really needed it i actually ordered Colleen Hoover's books and i didnt knew anything abt November9 thnku and tbh how are you doo pretty wow i love ur accent too😳😚
It romanizes SA and abuse. Not "inspirational" like she says. Good luck
btw I love your profile picture!
@@celineortiz6213 omg thnkuuu🙈🐯
@@celineortiz6213 okurrr😚😚
It's November 9 :-)
It's November 9 today....
Not only do all her books glorify abuse, but you “love her writing” P L E A S E she writes worse than I did in 4th grade.
i am thinking of getting this!
I haven’t read anything from Colleen what’s the best book to start off with? In your opinion:)
You’re pretty!!!
It Ends With Us
@@bouchrabakhyi867 thanks, ordered it!!!
i think @boucha bakhyi's rec is really good! it ends with us is great.
also thanks so much
Verity was my fav but to start off definitely "it ends with us"
@@jadasifuentes381 true
I started this comment as a joke, but the fact is I really know porn novels and movies that are way better overall than it’s crappy ass abonination !
Your hair is cute
I just bought it to read how horrible it is :)
I just finished the book and loved it
Omg my Bday 🎉🎉🎉❤
November 9 is coryxkenshions birthday
Bruh November 9 is my birthday
finally someone who doesn’t religiously hate on colleen hoover
You mean a bad person??
how is she a bad person?
@@hiralvaidya9752
I. HATE. BEN. FROM. THE. BOTTOM. OF. MY. CORE.
You are so beautiful ❤️
Thanks so much
I liked it too cause it was funny but the fact that she forgave ben SO easily just shocks me. Like he said sorry and then shes like its fine, kiss me and make me eggs 💀
I just love this book ❤️
Jesus Christ loves you so so much! He can give you true freedom peace and happiness and joy! You can follow Him! He hears you and He is there for you! He can HEAL you from every sickness- mental or physical
girl bye
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that
( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
I love Colleen Hoover books 💖😊
Have you read Verity? Is it in the same vein as all the others or more different?
@@EllaPinkert it's so different and dark and mature
The harmful books of the woman who blocked her son's sexual assault victim
Her hands were shivering
Stop fucking hating on this book…this is so good ben was basically grieving on his mother’s demise…when he did that and with no intention of burning fallon…it was all an accident and ben repents it so much….he loved fallon with all of his heart…although the scars were because of him but he supported her throughout and he was the one who lit her confidence’s candle….c mon guys this book is so great….a man who loves a girl not because of guilt but because actually how beautiful she was in spite of scars, her character was so heart warming for him….and fallon too was completed by ben.❤
Oops sorry about the attempted murder of your dad and burning your house down….yeah that’s…..not ok
@@kayligothere wasn't any attempted murder he just wanted to burn that GODDAMN car
@@sushwetamondal848 I think anyone who sets a home intentionally on fire, deserves to be charged with attempted murder, because firefighters put their lives at risk trying to put it out, and also fire spreads very easily, and it could have spread to burn down other homes and lead to deaths that way. This is an incredibly evil thing to do and the male character in this book was cringey and disgusting the entire time.
it was an amazing story.
Why are you shaking
Probably anxiety lmao
@@EllaPinkert i thought you were so shocked reading the book that you were shaking lol
@@charxpearls lol that works too (:
I didn't like this book
hate this book eww
Why r u shaking so much
Why are you shaking like that girl..
I read this book a few months ago and loved it🤍🤍🤍5/5 stars but I just reread it on November 9th 2022 and still loved it so much
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that
( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that
( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that
( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that
( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Yeah I mean just commit arson and say I am sorry! Fixed 👍🏻 Stupid people using their brains and hating on such a profoundly loving character... and for what??? Arson??? Attempted murder ??? Oh come on
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that
( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Finallyy found a comment i have been looking for
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that
( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Exactly, the people here confuse me so much
Exactly;-; the people here confuse me so much
I recommend Alizee's review of November 9
Well i've finished this book lately and although everyone says that it was awful i just can't understand why? He was sorry about what he had done so what is the problem with that? Plus, he thought his mother died because of her father i'm 100% sure that if i were him i would do that too
( sorry if there is any mistake , i'm not very good at english==)
Your English was great! But people are upset since she romanticized SA and abuse, apologizing doesn't change that. And if I'm not mistaken wasn't he the one who started the fire? You can't make up excuses for something bad and then expect it to be ok.
@@celineortiz6213 he didn't expect Fallon to forgive him, did you not read the last letter thingy?
@@celineortiz6213Well, first of all, thank you for your kindness because i'm not very confident in this situation (english is my second language, and i just started one year ago, so that's the reason)
Second, i didn't read the original book i mean in English, and it was translated in my native language, so there were lots of parts that were removed from the book
And third , actually, after i read this book, i thought about it a lot, and i know He made a huge mistake but i understood that if i were him, i would definitely burn the guy who's hurt the person/ people i love, although he was wrong after all