He only loves me when all is alright, but when we have a fight he seems to forgot who I really am. It is hard like this, this feeling of not having the right to complain. It hurts to realize that he shows love to me only when all his good between us, but when we have a fight, it seems he doesn't even know me, who and what I am to his life. Especially those days he will say very hurtful things to me, making me feel like he does not love me like he did in the beginning. It hurts because you love him, but on the other side of that love is the pain I feel when I am not in good terms with him. For some, this is a shallow reason, but for others, this is a heavy burden (especially when one is personallly experiencing it). It hurts because this came from the one whom I've loved and trusted to be on my side. It hurts because I never get that ease of mind, that I am forced to overthink, knowing he loves me as well, but when are fighting, it seems I don't know him at all. The hard part is when I try to explain my side, but he won't listen and just respond "You are just OA" (for expressing my feelings?), acting like he is always right, not considering my feelings too. Isn't it hard that I can't understand him, him always blaming me for issues that we both should talk about as a couple. It is too tiring, too disgusting going through the same issues over and over again, with that feeling that not once did I do anything right. When I am angry, he gets much more angrier. It is a lonely feeling to realize that I just have to bear it and learn to live with the pain. I know that there is no perfect relationship. We all make mistakes. We all have our shortcomings. But our partner can see our shortcoming, and so should be the one (even with my shortcomings) to still be by my side no matter what. So, he should just remember that he should just love his partner. You cherish every moment with each other. Because remember, that we can't undo what's been done. And out of all the good things I've done, it is I who feels guilty for the loss. For him: imagine that you are hurting the person that was sent to heal you. And sometimes, it's actually too late to make things right. Remember that your partner is the best thing you ever lost. And you will realize that when it's too late....
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He only loves me when all is alright, but when we have a fight he seems to forgot who I really am.
It is hard like this, this feeling of not having the right to complain.
It hurts to realize that he shows love to me only when all his good between us, but when we have a fight, it seems he doesn't even know me, who and what I am to his life. Especially those days he will say very hurtful things to me, making me feel like he does not love me like he did in the beginning.
It hurts because you love him, but on the other side of that love is the pain I feel when I am not in good terms with him.
For some, this is a shallow reason, but for others, this is a heavy burden (especially when one is personallly experiencing it).
It hurts because this came from the one whom I've loved and trusted to be on my side.
It hurts because I never get that ease of mind, that I am forced to overthink, knowing he loves me as well, but when are fighting, it seems I don't know him at all.
The hard part is when I try to explain my side, but he won't listen and just respond "You are just OA" (for expressing my feelings?), acting like he is always right, not considering my feelings too. Isn't it hard that I can't understand him, him always blaming me for issues that we both should talk about as a couple.
It is too tiring, too disgusting going through the same issues over and over again, with that feeling that not once did I do anything right. When I am angry, he gets much more angrier. It is a lonely feeling to realize that I just have to bear it and learn to live with the pain. I know that there is no perfect relationship. We all make mistakes. We all have our shortcomings. But our partner can see our shortcoming, and so should be the one (even with my shortcomings) to still be by my side no matter what. So, he should just remember that he should just love his partner. You cherish every moment with each other. Because remember, that we can't undo what's been done. And out of all the good things I've done, it is I who feels guilty for the loss. For him: imagine that you are hurting the person that was sent to heal you. And sometimes, it's actually too late to make things right. Remember that your partner is the best thing you ever lost. And you will realize that when it's too late....
So much relate here... exactly the same how he is@@oldstinkyfrancois43