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@@catrinakimber3579 Thank you. That is a verse of a song from the '70. Three Dog Night was the name of the group..."Black and White" very good song and very good pop group.
HIS VOICE AND HIS BODY MOVEMENTS TELLES THAT HE IS A STRONG, RELIABLE MAN FULL OF CHARACTER AND CHARISMA. THE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IS AN HONEST LOVING AND LOVELY WOMAN. THEY ARE MADE FOR EACH OTHER. WISH YOU ALL THE BEST.
I am black man from Eritrea (Pastor) and dating an Afrikaans girl, its going ups and downs. The social stigma especially from the Afrikaans side, is taking toll on us and plus some of our differences in values and culture. But we pray that God will give us grace to carry on, live for His glory and make it together to the end of its fruition.
Eritrean women are some of the most beautiful women in Africa. Respectfully bro, find yourself one, and live a happy life. Having to deal with bigots for who knows how long seems not ideal. Anyway, Best of luck.
As an Eritrean born and living in Germany I struggle to understand why native Africans are stigmatised on their continental ground by descendants of immigrants. I couldn't and wouldn't it to a native German. I'm equal and yet it requires to show respect to the culture on site.
I love the honesty ❤ As a black African women I appreciate how my brother articulated the emotional scars black men have as a result of Apartheid. Our men need this kind of honest and open conversations... Even men (black) married to black women grabble with some of these issues...
This beautiful, thoughtful, respectful and mature couple are an example to all others. My advice to them is …. A perfect marriage and a perfect couple does not exist, do not search for it. Just continue to do your best for each other and your children (as you already are doing). Do not look for external validation, or for comparison. You can only find that within and between the two of you. Love is not a romantic thing, it is a concerted, determined, gritty effort that you will stand by someone, you will be their rock in the face of any opposition or obstacle . It is dedication and loyalty, not romance and rainbows, contrary to the Hollywood mirage. And your very existence is proof that anything can be accomplished if there is love.
I'm really happy that still the world has left with good people.madam a great respect for you. He is a very lucky husband and you made a right choice. God bless you.
Wow, what an impressive couple! Full of wisdom and maturity! Especially the husband radiates a special gift of wisdom & sincerity, and the wife radiates a special gift of beauty & dedication! May God continue to bless you abundantly! Greetings from Germany!
If you put Christ first ,he will make a way for and you will be victors. You guys a re blessed with wisdom and love no one cant take it away from you. Love you guys ,may the lord continue strengthening you.💪💪💪💪
This has really opened my eyes, growing up in the Uk where it is completely normal to see couples from many different cultures I am shocked by the difficulty’s you have both faced . But this is by far the most beautiful story I have ever heard ❤❤ so much wisdom in your hearts , I hope you have the best future together
Wow!! this now makes me understand the black South-Aftican psyche. In the rest of Africa, we don't feel that way: when I get a woman, no matter her colour, I still feel like a man. Heck, I've been in China, where I was the only black man in a village and I still felt like a man (so is it with many other Africans I've met there). South Africa needs to heal.
This couple just touches my soul. There's something about them warm, satisfying, and precious. May the God whose I am and to whom I belong bless, protect, and prosper this family. Blessings!
A grateful thank you to this couple. They have shared many personal issues that I always wondered about concerning mixed race marriage. Any marriage requires sacrifices. I absolutely admire this couples bravery & more importantly the respect shown to each others families. As a fellow South African, I've found this video extremely educational & beneficial. You guys should be extremely proud of the sacrifices you've made in order to follow true love. More similiar videos are required in R.S.A. Thanking you again.
Wow love is truly blind. I'm extremely humbled listening to this beautiful couples journey. May the lord continue to strengthen their support & love for each other. Great story!!
Wow, found this discussion incredibly insightful. I'd dare to say that this microcosm of South Africa as a society and the challenges we continue to struggle with when it comes to reconciliation and integration. We still have a long way to go in terms of addressing racial inequality not only from an economic perspective, but from a psychological perspective too. Religion and faith is very important to both Nhlanhla and Marne and appears to be the key ingredient to keeping things in place. Glad they're able to find commonality and use it to their advantage. All the best with the channel, this is really good content and something we definitely need to have more of in SA today.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with this at all it's what's in a person's heart not the colour of their skin love is a very beautiful thing immaterial of colour or religion😍♥️😍
@@brucepower3429 The colour of a person's skin or race does not matter count or come into it if two people genuinely have feelings for and love each other and want to be together we are all human and cannot help who we fall in love with 😍❤️😍
Congratulations to you guys. If God wants to bring people together no one can stop him. He is our only hope to our life. In God's eye there is no black or white.. There's no color to him we all his creation. Wish you all the best in your life.
The history of South Africa makes interracial marriage more challenging. European ladies intermarried in other African countries are unlikely to see their husband struggle with self esteem issues.
Sadly, it often goes the other way.. Many well-meaning European women who married African men, ended up rejected and disrespected by his family ... even financially exploited, finally tossed aside, while he got himself 'the real wife' from his own tribe... very different from what we are seeing here.
My brother, I am black, but I am 100% in your corner, camping and exploring new areas, I see it as a big opportunity in life, with great appreciation of life. I've traveled to those kinds of areas, by flying and driving.
He is very sensitive with the culture and family topics. I understand where he is coming from. However, learn to let your wife speak her mind even if it will embarrass you or cause friction with your family, friends or unsettle your societal norms. I’m an African married to a white lady and I use to be scared whenever my wife speaks her mind among my people then I realized I needed to grow and let her be. How other people hear her is not for you to determine. She is an soul and very aware of the enormity of the situation. Sit back and let her be and you’ll be as well. It’s okay the universe has way to teach others.
Thanks you guys for sharing.This is a true love story,is bringing us all together back and white in our rainbow nation.With God in your side the Devil is defeated,you will overcome no one will stop this beautiful marriage.God bless you and kids
Absolutely FANTASTIC video. Thank you so sooo SOOO much for your 'honesty'. The video started off and I thought "Oh my goodness, are these 2 just out to make a buck or two, or joking around as an experiment " but the more I listened the more addicted I became to your amazing story, your analysis. Life is difficult- relationships and or marriage a real test. I have married someone from the same roots as me, but born and brought up in different countries. And boy, it's a challenge. So hats off and CONGRATULATIONS you guys are incredible. I wish I could share this video to the whole world. Best luck for your future. God's richest blessings (God must surely be VERY proud of the 2 of you 😉❣️)
@@africangodman6145 People prefer to live amongst their own kind and be around people who look like them and share same interests its normal , most people don't want to mix or integrate both young and older generations.
@@marthasheilds2446 And I'm here to reinforce that human trait! Africans belong with Africans. Africans marrying non-Africans MUST be banned inside ALL African nations!
@@Mo-yd8xc yes of course I would if she was the right girl and I loved her country colour race religion does not come into it with me love and happiness does greetings and love from South Wales UK 🏴♥️😍♥️
I am from Nigeria. I love you both. this is what you call real and true love. You are both looking nice, beautiful and very intellegent. May God Almighty continue to guide, protect, provide and bless you and your children. Believe me things are going to get easier as time goes on in the name of the most high.
My grandparents from my mother are a couple of different races and different religions. They got married in the midst of environmental conditions during which Indonesia was colonized by the Dutch. My grandfather is Indonesian-Arabic-Muslim & my grandmother is Dutch-Catholic. Their marriage resulted in my grandfather being given the sanction of being buried alive by his family. but fortunately my grandfather managed to save himself and moved to another city with my grandmother. Their marriage produced 5 children. My mother is the 5th child. Early journey Their family's life was faced with a tough challenge because at that time Japan colonized Indonesia, & Grandparents' families were forced to work as slaves by the Japanese invaders without being paid. After Indonesia became independent. the existence of their relationship as husband and wife is still considered strange by the Indonesian people, my grandfather is considered a traitor for marrying a colonial nation. My grandmother was seen as a fool for marrying a slave nation. But they managed to keep their love until the end of their life. & the descendants of their extended family can live in harmony, whatever the differences
I can so emphathise with the 2 of you. I met my husband 30 yrs ago and we are married for 28 yrs, we have a beautiful adult son. We come from totally different cultutes and religious backgrounds from different countries, I'm fair skin and he dark skin but respect, understanding and a give and take which is the composition of love, will conquer all. Just stay strong. Challenges is part and parcel of life but I can see that your faith will get you through it. Sterkte vorentoe ♥️
I see the joy (not happiness) Joy! but also the pain and I get both their views, i have two suggestions for them if i may 1, its a false narrative that in marriage its two families coming together this misconception is actually a big problem in marriages and society at large. its actually 3 families that are separate families and have to coexist. my fam, my wifes fam and MY FAM. this families are 3 dif families and they have to operate parallel. you cant get either fam too involved cause the lines become blurred, and humans have this capacity and habit of holding something against you, if i tell my fam about an issue or problem about my wife they might give an honest opinion or suggestion but they might hold it against her in the future with out an intention at times, its even better to discuss this with total strangers or someone that doesn't even know your wife. the respect that they give your partner is based mostly on what you tell them (and they wont forget it) and how u treat her, they will treat her the same way, so i really believe in 3 families not two families coming together, that's why the bible says a man shall leave his mother and father... not leave to stay, u must literally leave and start your own fam and start your own way of life. 2, please please please remove the idea of race in your family and lives in general, there is no such thing as a black or white person, they just simply do not exist, this is an IDEA created by a play writer in the 1600 where in the play an African king called a European commoner a white man, (remember this was just a play) and the idea of identifying race was born. what is interesting is that this idea is fairly new, i know the play was written in 1600 but that's recent history. in ancient history there's no where in reference to literature where ppl are referred to as white or black. not in the Bible, not in the Quran, not in the first books in the world from china and india now where does it refer to anyone by colour. in the bible they always referred someone by where they are from not by race, black is a colour not a person, white is a colour not a race. someone sold us an idea and we ALL bought it' and it has caused so much pain in t he world and we still feed it to this day. but i like that you have a championship mentality , God bless
Brother, I'm so happy to see your beautiful wife and your two adorable children. This is how God works. It is GOD that put you two together. May he continue to provide, bless and guide you. AMEN!!!.
I know they are a interracial couple(husband and wife) I am witnessing to people regardless of race love one another he is more reserved she is more vocal she is very active in what she believes but she respects him totally he as alot of men not only black are more background than up in the front this comes from what has been taught and what has been seen two different things in their lives so even with my husband it is a constant inner struggle to get in their right place the head of their family his wife compliments him so well she is so genuine as women we have to realize we are the helpers to our husbands we do not dominate them at all I see so many women out of order so much and they wonder why their marriages end But I am admiring these two they are so right now TOGETHER!!! Beautiful she could be an advocate for interracial marriages I am glad he has a beautiful and loving wife like her in his life and I hope he always respects her and also encourages her as well,you can see she encourages him above and beyond🎉 be well
I'm divorced live alone and lonely and also need a woman who could do the same to me good luck to a lovely couple greetings from South Wales UK ♥️🏴♥️
More blessings to you guys. There's a lot of love getting lost in the way because of how races view each other. It is hard to love someone and knowing you'll never be enough because of the color of your skin.
Love you guys think about moving to Canada . As a black man who has dated out of my race i can tell you you will not get half the pain you are getting there. God bless
It’s eye opening to hear. I am a lucky dude, here in Washington state interracial marriage is common and biracial kids are even more than blacks in number.
Love you so much guys, I thank God for your relationship and telling you true side of your story and I believe it will open many people's minds and have a great impact to this generation. Be strong and put your trust in the Lord, you are surely going to accomplish God's purpose. Forward ever and backwards never. All the glory belongs to our God . ❤
It takes bravery to be in a mixed Relationshiop especially Black and white, People fantasised about how their love and the sex will be like you know. May God guide this couple because in a Racial South Africa they will face loads of stare and commentaries.
Your love is just beautiful to see. This lady is so beautiful yet so humble. How were raised to think of whites honestly is not encouraging but thank you guys for sacrificially sharing your love life to bring about positivity. With your story my mind has been transformed. God bless you.
This was such a thoughtful, sensitive conversation t witness. Thank you to this couple for sharing their experience so far. My very best wishes to you both and to your respective families as you continue to navigate your ways forward in life and in your spiritual journey.
I also understand about inferiority. The Afrikaans community is very difficult to live within as a black person. They are stuck in their ways and a lot believe blacks are inferior. So, when you have to come into every room and be seen by even the one who finds you most dear the same way, gets tiring. I puffed my chest up and I became a larger and "louder" in presence version of myself who rolled with the punches. And, it is very difficult to keep it up. Some people like you and some don't.
I just want to say keep the faith guys. I'm coloured and so is my wife, and there are times when I have to make a point of letting her know that I'm the head of the house because I'm carrying most of the responsibilities. We resontly had a thing about her father who wanted to say in my house. Sometimes she makes me feel like I'm the help. If she was white I would have blamed her better-than attitude on her race, when it was just a bad attitude. Secondly, her family gets more of our time. Seeing her parents almost every day. Think Megan Trainer and the bible called it. I'm cheering for you and your beautiful family.
I am so happy for you guys because I can see that you love each other which is very important in marriage. Marriage is not easy regardless of whether it is a multiracial marriage or not never allow a third party in your marriage, if you do the marriage won't survive. May the grace of God be upon you and your children.
SA. Slowly but surely. We are on our good way. There are good things coming. Good days are coming. Greetings from Germany. GOOD LUCK .❤ Omnia vincit Amour. Love Concor everything
Your story is amazing. Love conquers all things. God is love and where love is, He is there. He has and will carry you, no problem to big that He cannot solve. I pray that God will go before you and remove all the hindrances and obstacles that stop God's plan and purpose for your lives. It won't be easy at times, but you can by the power given to you by God and have already paved the way for future generations. May God bless you as you journey together, showing the world that love has no colour.
Beautiful interview . Authentically honest.... Taking on responsibility. This is truly a higher level of romans 8:13 constant mortification of the flesh. You just get to see how many of us Christians Romans 12:2 still has to find expression. But we keep the faith
Ke a lerata guys. I watch this so many times. I don't see race but love. I learn what marriage is as wedding is just an event. Mostly, I see God in this marriage. May God bless you and may He keep you till you are grannies so the generation to come will learn from you.
MR. AND MRS. HLONGWANE!!I APPRECIATE THE SHARING OF HOW YOU MET AND YOUR MARRIAGE JOURNEY. NHLANHLA; YOU'VE FOUND YOURSELF A GOOD WIFE AND SHE'S SO SWEET WHEN ADDRESSING YOUR CHILDREN... IT WAS WORTH WATCHING AND IT'S EDUCATIONAL AS WELL!!! THANK YOU ALL. I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST IN YOUR FAMILY LIFE!!!! //WARM REGARDS FROM SWEDEN
Well done guys... really appreciated this... I pray that u grow together from strength to strength as a loving family together..... in Jesus Name.... keep the faith all things are possible.... 🙌🙌🙏
Don't listen or think of what people say. Love conquers all it's between both of you once u love each other that's it. With God in the relationship you guys will make it. We were made by one creator the only difference is skin color which changes nothing one handy made blood run through each other veins not water in one and blood through the other. May God continue to bless and keep ur family.
Greetings to you and your lovely family. I love the way you address your life of partnership. The divine connections. Overcoming the racial hurdles. Working through the economic process. Even while being yourselves. Although I am an older person, I would like to interact with you for various reasons to which it is prudent for me not to divulge at this time. . I want to visit Africa soon and who knows we could have dinner or breakfast or lunch for all I care. God bless you and enriched your lives together. Please stay in touch.
You owe no one on this earth an explanation for your choice or your intention. You act on YOUR values, choices and decisions. Nobody out there makes those rules EXCEPT the GOOD MAN ABOVE and YOU act on his guidance. We are all HIS people and everyone unique so live a happy life with AN ABUNDANCE of BLESSINGS. Social media can be a toxic den of very angry unhappy ungrateful ungodly souls. I was Blessed with precious values such as....... IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A KIND WORD TO SAY THEN KEEP QUIET. NEVER LET THERE BE THE NEED TO HAVE TO GO BACK AND APOLOGIZE. thank you for sharing your story but do remember... You deserve YOUR happiness. Lovely couple lovely video🙏💝💐💕🌈
This couple is awesome! The woman is white but black at heart. She's such an amazing person from what I have heard. May God go before you and bless you both.
After listening, I have a lot of respect for you two.. I remember 50 years ago when an interracial couple was simply "not done" in many parts of the U.S. Now, things have changed so much and society has progressed.. This will also occur in SA.. It takes time.. A lot of time..
Am I the only person who finds its disturbing that they were in a church, one place that's actually supposed to be a safe space without any judgment that actually disapproved of their relationship? 🤨😟😦.
Churchgoing has become nothing but a cultural thing. Folks don't give two fucks about what they are meant to stand for in those culty like organisations. It's those kind of people that sing 'Jesus loves all the children of the world' the loudest. Lol. Not surprising at all. Bigots! hiding behind some book.
What an absolutely beautiful couple. God definitely brought you two together. People who judge and hate will have to answer to the Almighty, our Holy Father one day. Nhlanhla & Marne you are the light and the conquers.' The one who conquers, I will grant him to sit with me on my throne, as I also conquered and sat down with my Father on his throne. God Bless you both and your children. Nhlanhla, you are a true gentleman and Marne you are so beautiful and what a smile!! Keep smiling laughing and enjoy life. You can be with whomever you choose-😊 Come live in the UK!!!
Dear God Loving couples After my morning prayer ,i came across your video (since every Thursday i pray for families).I was in tears listening to your story.Nhlanhla you are the head in your Family, love your wife as Christ love the church..Morne submit but not be inferior. You spoke of your leaders not approving your relationship and you had to choose Ministry or her, that leader need deliverence. Stay away from families that create tensions around you.(its a suggestion) For your children sake.You have better things to worry about with your wife, than backwards people who need to repent and be delivered , I am praying for God's wisdom over your life,i will make it a mission to pray for you every Thursday. Remember coulor is just a shares,but we created in His Image, Love you guys.Christ Favored woman
See how God works. There's nothing impossible for God to do. He always works in a very miraculous way. All you need to do is to allow him to come into your life and he will do wanders. You guys are a great example for the world to see.
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That lady truly loves her husband, she's a good example.
"The ink is black, the paper is white, together, we learn to read and write". The LORD be with your family always. From Puerto Rico with love in GOD.
🙌🏾Love it❤️
@@achatwithgoitse Gracias
Love that is analogy thank you
@@catrinakimber3579 Thank you. That is a verse of a song from the '70. Three Dog Night was the name of the group..."Black and White" very good song and very good pop group.
@@catrinakimber3579 Thank you.
HIS VOICE AND HIS BODY MOVEMENTS TELLES THAT HE IS A STRONG, RELIABLE MAN FULL OF CHARACTER AND CHARISMA. THE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IS AN HONEST LOVING AND LOVELY WOMAN. THEY ARE MADE FOR EACH OTHER.
WISH YOU ALL THE BEST.
I am black man from Eritrea (Pastor) and dating an Afrikaans girl, its going ups and downs. The social stigma especially from the Afrikaans side, is taking toll on us and plus some of our differences in values and culture. But we pray that God will give us grace to carry on, live for His glory and make it together to the end of its fruition.
Better move away from South Africa and move to the Netherlands, UK or Canada where it is more open to interracial couples.
Kidane Good Luck with your Afrikaans Woman,
Eritrean women are some of the most beautiful women in Africa. Respectfully bro, find yourself one, and live a happy life. Having to deal with bigots for who knows how long seems not ideal. Anyway, Best of luck.
As an Eritrean born and living in Germany I struggle to understand why native Africans are stigmatised on their continental ground by descendants of immigrants. I couldn't and wouldn't it to a native German. I'm equal and yet it requires to show respect to the culture on site.
Félicitations pour votre mariage ❤❤❤bravo ne lâche jamais et bon courage @kidaneh4348
This is a real marriage founded on an abiding love and respect for each other.
God bless you two and your family
Can't stop smiling throughout this interview ..what a lovely couple
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I love the honesty ❤ As a black African women I appreciate how my brother articulated the emotional scars black men have as a result of Apartheid. Our men need this kind of honest and open conversations... Even men (black) married to black women grabble with some of these issues...
They’re such a lovely couple… You can see how much they love each other… Beautiful ❤
One thing I love about marriage, especially interracial marriage, is that two people get to create their own new culture ❤️
That's it!
These are true Christians. Well done to them... what an example! 🙏
I love you together guys, especially the way you are chilled, soft, and laid back.
May the good Lord bless you abundantly.
wow, such an articulate and deep thinking couple... may God bless them and show the way forward.
Guys, you are an inspiration to the human race. I am a Jamaican living in Brisbane's for 3 to an Australian lady over 25, yes. Am impressed ❤
Stop lying! They are a DISGRACE!!! An African marrying a European on African soil turns my stomach!!!
@@DrUmarJohnson1you have no say or authority in the lives of others, so focus on your school you damn pig
I love the vulnerability. We praying for you guys. Your resilience means a lot ❤️
This beautiful, thoughtful, respectful and mature couple are an example to all others. My advice to them is …. A perfect marriage and a perfect couple does not exist, do not search for it. Just continue to do your best for each other and your children (as you already are doing). Do not look for external validation, or for comparison. You can only find that within and between the two of you. Love is not a romantic thing, it is a concerted, determined, gritty effort that you will stand by someone, you will be their rock in the face of any opposition or obstacle . It is dedication and loyalty, not romance and rainbows, contrary to the Hollywood mirage. And your very existence is proof that anything can be accomplished if there is love.
What a wonderful couple. Mature, loving, embracing the challenges of married life. Loving wishes and all success to them!!!
I'm really happy that still the world has left with good people.madam a great respect for you. He is a very lucky husband and you made a right choice. God bless you.
Love that you couldn’t stay away from each other. True love. We glad you worked out! 😍🥰
Big ups to this couple for speaking up about these challenges. I pray they remain strong and they allow the word of God guide them in their marriage
Wow, what an impressive couple! Full of wisdom and maturity! Especially the husband radiates a special gift of wisdom & sincerity, and the wife radiates a special gift of beauty & dedication! May God continue to bless you abundantly! Greetings from Germany!
You guys are so beautiful and adorable together! When God brings a man and woman together it’s just such a wonderful thing to see.
People should be free to love whomever they want , you two keep loving one another!
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Vous avez raison Madame ❤❤🎉🎉un peux de couleur ça fait du bien, depuis Canada 🇨🇦 Montréal 😊😊😊😊
If you put Christ first ,he will make a way for and you will be victors. You guys a re blessed with wisdom and love no one cant take it away from you.
Love you guys ,may the lord continue strengthening you.💪💪💪💪
This has really opened my eyes, growing up in the Uk where it is completely normal to see couples from many different cultures I am shocked by the difficulty’s you have both faced . But this is by far the most beautiful story I have ever heard ❤❤ so much wisdom in your hearts , I hope you have the best future together
Uk is very segregated and divided right now not everyone is mixing many are against it in the UK people prefer thier own kind.
Wow!! this now makes me understand the black South-Aftican psyche. In the rest of Africa, we don't feel that way: when I get a woman, no matter her colour, I still feel like a man. Heck, I've been in China, where I was the only black man in a village and I still felt like a man (so is it with many other Africans I've met there). South Africa needs to heal.
This couple just touches my soul. There's something about them warm, satisfying, and precious. May the God whose I am and to whom I belong bless, protect, and prosper this family. Blessings!
Loved. Learned. God bless yous. Keep on shining. God bless.
Year after year we ask for new part, it will really motivate up & coming interracial couples
There's hope for humanity. Love never fails🙏🏽
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A grateful thank you to this couple. They have shared many personal issues that I always wondered about concerning mixed race marriage. Any marriage requires sacrifices. I absolutely admire this couples bravery & more importantly the respect shown to each others families. As a fellow South African, I've found this video extremely educational & beneficial. You guys should be extremely proud of the sacrifices you've made in order to follow true love. More similiar videos are required in R.S.A. Thanking you again.
Very articulate, conscious, profound pair. Amazing and impressive. Lovely couple.
I'm glad you guys chose to speak about this topic. It's quite sensitive and we need to speak about it. Thank you
It is a sensitive topic especially within the African Continent and Movement.
Wow love is truly blind. I'm extremely humbled listening to this beautiful couples journey. May the lord continue to strengthen their support & love for each other. Great story!!
Wow, found this discussion incredibly insightful. I'd dare to say that this microcosm of South Africa as a society and the challenges we continue to struggle with when it comes to reconciliation and integration. We still have a long way to go in terms of addressing racial inequality not only from an economic perspective, but from a psychological perspective too. Religion and faith is very important to both Nhlanhla and Marne and appears to be the key ingredient to keeping things in place. Glad they're able to find commonality and use it to their advantage. All the best with the channel, this is really good content and something we definitely need to have more of in SA today.
Thank you for your astute comment. We appreciate the positive feedback!
There's absolutely nothing wrong with this at all it's what's in a person's heart not the colour of their skin love is a very beautiful thing immaterial of colour or religion😍♥️😍
Color of the skin will always count.
@@brucepower3429 The colour of a person's skin or race does not matter count or come into it if two people genuinely have feelings for and love each other and want to be together we are all human and cannot help who we fall in love with 😍❤️😍
Congratulations to you guys. If God wants to bring people together no one can stop him. He is our only hope to our life. In God's eye there is no black or white.. There's no color to him we all his creation. Wish you all the best in your life.
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The history of South Africa makes interracial marriage more challenging. European ladies intermarried in other African countries are unlikely to see their husband struggle with self esteem issues.
Yes , i believe that is true .
There is still racial stigma in South Africa because of the history of that country.
It depends the stigma also is an issue in Ghana somewhat.
Sadly, it often goes the other way.. Many well-meaning European women who married African men, ended up rejected and disrespected by his family ... even financially exploited, finally tossed aside, while he got himself 'the real wife' from his own tribe... very different from what we are seeing here.
@@NarnianLady You have said it quite well and right.
My brother, I am black, but I am 100% in your corner, camping and exploring new areas, I see it as a big opportunity in life, with great appreciation of life. I've traveled to those kinds of areas, by flying and driving.
He is very sensitive with the culture and family topics. I understand where he is coming from. However, learn to let your wife speak her mind even if it will embarrass you or cause friction with your family, friends or unsettle your societal norms. I’m an African married to a white lady and I use to be scared whenever my wife speaks her mind among my people then I realized I needed to grow and let her be. How other people hear her is not for you to determine. She is an soul and very aware of the enormity of the situation. Sit back and let her be and you’ll be as well. It’s okay the universe has way to teach others.
Thanks you guys for sharing.This is a true love story,is bringing us all together back and white in our rainbow nation.With God in your side the Devil is defeated,you will overcome no one will stop this beautiful marriage.God bless you and kids
She isn't white.
Amen and Amen
Absolutely FANTASTIC video. Thank you so sooo SOOO much for your 'honesty'. The video started off and I thought "Oh my goodness, are these 2 just out to make a buck or two, or joking around as an experiment " but the more I listened the more addicted I became to your amazing story, your analysis. Life is difficult- relationships and or marriage a real test. I have married someone from the same roots as me, but born and brought up in different countries. And boy, it's a challenge. So hats off and CONGRATULATIONS you guys are incredible. I wish I could share this video to the whole world. Best luck for your future. God's richest blessings (God must surely be VERY proud of the 2 of you 😉❣️)
This is such a thoughtful , fruitful conversation, May God this wonderful couple , God bless you for your boldness.
The key thing is to ensure that you don't let prejudices from any angle creep into your personal spaces.
Everyone like it or not has racism and prejudice it's a human trait .
@@marthasheilds2446 Exactly, that's why there will never be peace because of the attitude of some humans.
@@africangodman6145 People prefer to live amongst their own kind and be around people who look like them and share same interests its normal , most people don't want to mix or integrate both young and older generations.
@@marthasheilds2446 I agree 💯% it's less complicated too. I have my preference to stick to my own kind. I love me some Chocolate lol.
@@marthasheilds2446 And I'm here to reinforce that human trait! Africans belong with Africans. Africans marrying non-Africans MUST be banned inside ALL African nations!
What an awesome couple, I watched it till the end and they both warmed my heart!
I can't really stop watching or listening to you guys because I love interracial or mixed races, I don't know why
You're like me
Would you marry an African foreign national?
@@Mo-yd8xc yes of course I would if she was the right girl and I loved her country colour race religion does not come into it with me love and happiness does greetings and love from South Wales UK 🏴♥️😍♥️
I am from Nigeria. I love you both. this is what you call real and true love. You are both looking nice, beautiful and very intellegent. May God Almighty continue to guide, protect, provide and bless you and your children. Believe me things are going to get easier as time goes on in the name of the most high.
My grandparents from my mother are a couple of different races and different religions. They got married in the midst of environmental conditions during which Indonesia was colonized by the Dutch. My grandfather is Indonesian-Arabic-Muslim & my grandmother is Dutch-Catholic. Their marriage resulted in my grandfather being given the sanction of being buried alive by his family. but fortunately my grandfather managed to save himself and moved to another city with my grandmother. Their marriage produced 5 children. My mother is the 5th child. Early journey Their family's life was faced with a tough challenge because at that time Japan colonized Indonesia, & Grandparents' families were forced to work as slaves by the Japanese invaders without being paid. After Indonesia became independent. the existence of their relationship as husband and wife is still considered strange by the Indonesian people, my grandfather is considered a traitor for marrying a colonial nation. My grandmother was seen as a fool for marrying a slave nation. But they managed to keep their love until the end of their life. & the descendants of their extended family can live in harmony, whatever the differences
Inspiring story. It shows that love knows no boundaries nor limitations.
I love your background simply interesting.
Amazing story, thank you for sharing
I can so emphathise with the 2 of you. I met my husband 30 yrs ago and we are married for 28 yrs, we have a beautiful adult son. We come from totally different cultutes and religious backgrounds from different countries, I'm fair skin and he dark skin but respect, understanding and a give and take which is the composition of love, will conquer all.
Just stay strong. Challenges is part and parcel of life but I can see that your faith will get you through it. Sterkte vorentoe ♥️
What a lovely message absolutely beautiful amen to everything you have said good luck greetings from South Wales UK, 🏴♥️😍♥️
@@martinpugh1008 ♥️🙏
They were ment to be together ❤️ God is love ❤️ my blessings n love to both of you ❤️ n long live sweethearts 💞❤💞❤
I see the joy (not happiness) Joy! but also the pain and I get both their views, i have two suggestions for them if i may
1, its a false narrative that in marriage its two families coming together this misconception is actually a big problem in marriages and society at large. its actually 3 families that are separate families and have to coexist. my fam, my wifes fam and MY FAM. this families are 3 dif families and they have to operate parallel. you cant get either fam too involved cause the lines become blurred, and humans have this capacity and habit of holding something against you, if i tell my fam about an issue or problem about my wife they might give an honest opinion or suggestion but they might hold it against her in the future with out an intention at times, its even better to discuss this with total strangers or someone that doesn't even know your wife. the respect that they give your partner is based mostly on what you tell them (and they wont forget it) and how u treat her, they will treat her the same way, so i really believe in 3 families not two families coming together, that's why the bible says a man shall leave his mother and father... not leave to stay, u must literally leave and start your own fam and start your own way of life.
2, please please please remove the idea of race in your family and lives in general, there is no such thing as a black or white person, they just simply do not exist, this is an IDEA created by a play writer in the 1600 where in the play an African king called a European commoner a white man, (remember this was just a play) and the idea of identifying race was born. what is interesting is that this idea is fairly new, i know the play was written in 1600 but that's recent history. in ancient history there's no where in reference to literature where ppl are referred to as white or black. not in the Bible, not in the Quran, not in the first books in the world from china and india now where does it refer to anyone by colour. in the bible they always referred someone by where they are from not by race, black is a colour not a person, white is a colour not a race. someone sold us an idea and we ALL bought it' and it has caused so much pain in t he world and we still feed it to this day.
but i like that you have a championship mentality , God bless
That's what love is! Well done couple! God Bless you!
Awesome, many blessings to you. Myself and my wife are married 10 years this month, and all glory to our Jesus.
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Brother, I'm so happy to see your beautiful wife and your two adorable children. This is how God works. It is GOD that put you two together. May he continue to provide, bless and guide you. AMEN!!!.
I know they are a interracial couple(husband and wife) I am witnessing to people regardless of race love one another he is more reserved she is more vocal she is very active in what she believes but she respects him totally he as alot of men not only black are more background than up in the front this comes from what has been taught and what has been seen two different things in their lives so even with my husband it is a constant inner struggle to get in their right place the head of their family his wife compliments him so well she is so genuine as women we have to realize we are the helpers to our husbands we do not dominate them at all I see so many women out of order so much and they wonder why their marriages end But I am admiring these two they are so right now TOGETHER!!! Beautiful she could be an advocate for interracial marriages I am glad he has a beautiful and loving wife like her in his life and I hope he always respects her and also encourages her as well,you can see she encourages him above and beyond🎉 be well
The way she looks at him 😍😍😍 I need a woman who can look at me like this.
Yeah, I noticed that too. She loves him deeply.
I'm divorced live alone and lonely and also need a woman who could do the same to me good luck to a lovely couple greetings from South Wales UK ♥️🏴♥️
Forget it with today's modern women with all their expectations.
More blessings to you guys. There's a lot of love getting lost in the way because of how races view each other. It is hard to love someone and knowing you'll never be enough because of the color of your skin.
You are an inspiration. An Encouragement in faith. 'God actually will answer your prayer', as Marne says
Love you guys think about moving to Canada . As a black man who has dated out of my race i can tell you you will not get half the pain you are getting there. God bless
It’s eye opening to hear. I am a lucky dude, here in Washington state interracial marriage is common and biracial kids are even more than blacks in number.
This is inspiring! Thank you for sharing your experiences.
Love you so much guys, I thank God for your relationship and telling you true side of your story and I believe it will open many people's minds and have a great impact to this generation. Be strong and put your trust in the Lord, you are surely going to accomplish God's purpose. Forward ever and backwards never. All the glory belongs to our God . ❤
It takes bravery to be in a mixed Relationshiop especially Black and white,
People fantasised about how their love and the sex will be like you know.
May God guide this couple because in a Racial South Africa they will face loads of stare and commentaries.
They truly love each other.
Look at the body language.
Look at the way they look at each other...I love it.
She's such a strong amazing woman , he has picked a winner there .
He didn't pick her, Someone above sent her to him
She picked him, a gentleman, so kind and wise. Amazing people. Like hearts come together.
Your love is just beautiful to see. This lady is so beautiful yet so humble. How were raised to think of whites honestly is not encouraging but thank you guys for sacrificially sharing your love life to bring about positivity. With your story my mind has been transformed. God bless you.
This was such a thoughtful, sensitive conversation t witness. Thank you to this couple for sharing their experience so far. My very best wishes to you both and to your respective families as you continue to navigate your ways forward in life and in your spiritual journey.
Black and white is so beautiful, don't worry about what people say. Stay strong and stay blessed.
I also understand about inferiority. The Afrikaans community is very difficult to live within as a black person. They are stuck in their ways and a lot believe blacks are inferior. So, when you have to come into every room and be seen by even the one who finds you most dear the same way, gets tiring.
I puffed my chest up and I became a larger and "louder" in presence version of myself who rolled with the punches. And, it is very difficult to keep it up. Some people like you and some don't.
I just want to say keep the faith guys. I'm coloured and so is my wife, and there are times when I have to make a point of letting her know that I'm the head of the house because I'm carrying most of the responsibilities. We resontly had a thing about her father who wanted to say in my house. Sometimes she makes me feel like I'm the help. If she was white I would have blamed her better-than attitude on her race, when it was just a bad attitude. Secondly, her family gets more of our time. Seeing her parents almost every day. Think Megan Trainer and the bible called it. I'm cheering for you and your beautiful family.
You guys are such a very beautiful couple. Yes people can be so cruel. You guys were meant for each other!!! Stay strong guys! We are with you!
What a beauty woman of God that you married what gave you.God bless you. He is humble man that he loves God . Let God bless you more.
I am so happy for you guys because I can see that you love each other which is very important in marriage. Marriage is not easy regardless of whether it is a multiracial marriage or not never allow a third party in your marriage, if you do the marriage won't survive. May the grace of God be upon you and your children.
You are both wonderful people, a gift to us
You guys are beautiful! Your story is amazing and I wish you and your children peace and blessings always!
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SA. Slowly but surely. We are on our good way. There are good things coming. Good days are coming. Greetings from Germany. GOOD LUCK .❤ Omnia vincit Amour. Love Concor everything
I am glad the revolving around racial discrimination in marriage is growing everyday. lovely couple
I loved the honesty of their answers
Nhlanhla’s mum sounds like a beautiful kind lady
Your story is amazing. Love conquers all things. God is love and where love is, He is there. He has and will carry you, no problem to big that He cannot solve. I pray that God will go before you and remove all the hindrances and obstacles that stop God's plan and purpose for your lives. It won't be easy at times, but you can by the power given to you by God and have already paved the way for future generations. May God bless you as you journey together, showing the world that love has no colour.
Beautiful interview . Authentically honest.... Taking on responsibility. This is truly a higher level of romans 8:13 constant mortification of the flesh. You just get to see how many of us Christians Romans 12:2 still has to find expression. But we keep the faith
Ke a lerata guys. I watch this so many times. I don't see race but love. I learn what marriage is as wedding is just an event. Mostly, I see God in this marriage. May God bless you and may He keep you till you are grannies so the generation to come will learn from you.
MR. AND MRS. HLONGWANE!!I
APPRECIATE THE SHARING OF HOW YOU MET AND YOUR MARRIAGE JOURNEY.
NHLANHLA; YOU'VE FOUND YOURSELF A GOOD WIFE AND SHE'S SO SWEET WHEN ADDRESSING YOUR CHILDREN... IT WAS WORTH WATCHING AND IT'S EDUCATIONAL AS WELL!!! THANK YOU ALL. I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST IN YOUR FAMILY LIFE!!!!
//WARM REGARDS FROM SWEDEN
Well done guys... really appreciated this... I pray that u grow together from strength to strength as a loving family together..... in Jesus Name.... keep the faith all things are possible.... 🙌🙌🙏
I love you guys.... You inspired me to go for what I want, what is immersed deep in me. God bless you...
Wonderful, brilliant couple. All the best and God bless.💝💙💜
Don't listen or think of what people say. Love conquers all it's between both of you once u love each other that's it. With God in the relationship you guys will make it. We were made by one creator the only difference is skin color which changes nothing one handy made blood run through each other veins not water in one and blood through the other. May God continue to bless and keep ur family.
Greetings to you and your lovely family. I love the way you address your life of partnership. The divine connections. Overcoming the racial hurdles. Working through the economic process. Even while being yourselves. Although I am an older person, I would like to interact with you for various reasons to which it is prudent for me not to divulge at this time. .
I want to visit Africa soon and who knows we could have dinner or breakfast or lunch for all I care. God bless you and enriched your lives together. Please stay in touch.
Marriage is a hard hard gig. Im happy u pulling the strings in a positive way!
Wow, what a testimony & please guys can yoy pls do ur own motivation show on moja love, we need couple like you guys, thanks&God bless
You owe no one on this earth an explanation for your choice or your intention. You act on YOUR values, choices and decisions. Nobody out there makes those rules EXCEPT the GOOD MAN ABOVE and YOU act on his guidance. We are all HIS people and everyone unique so live a happy life with AN ABUNDANCE of BLESSINGS. Social media can be a toxic den of very angry unhappy ungrateful ungodly souls. I was Blessed with precious values such as....... IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A KIND WORD TO SAY THEN KEEP QUIET. NEVER LET THERE BE THE NEED TO HAVE TO GO BACK AND APOLOGIZE. thank you for sharing your story but do remember... You deserve YOUR happiness. Lovely couple lovely video🙏💝💐💕🌈
Well done both of you! Long may you continue to grow together. God Bless you!
This couple is awesome! The woman is white but black at heart. She's such an amazing person from what I have heard. May God go before you and bless you both.
After listening, I have a lot of respect for you two.. I remember 50 years ago when an interracial couple was simply "not done" in many parts of the U.S. Now, things have changed so much and society has progressed.. This will also occur in SA.. It takes time.. A lot of time..
Can this play on sabc or mzansi magic? I think South Africa needs to hear This.
Am I the only person who finds its disturbing that they were in a church, one place that's actually supposed to be a safe space without any judgment that actually disapproved of their relationship? 🤨😟😦.
Church is a place for pastors to make money,after all Jesus is a main character in a novel called a Bible 🤣🤣🤣
Church will amaze u
Churchgoing has become nothing but a cultural thing. Folks don't give two fucks about what they are meant to stand for in those culty like organisations. It's those kind of people that sing 'Jesus loves all the children of the world' the loudest. Lol. Not surprising at all. Bigots! hiding behind some book.
@@gamepool8517 you must not be okay
Stay blessed and live happily ever after.A couple that prays together,stays together .❤
What an absolutely beautiful couple. God definitely brought you two together. People who judge and hate will have to answer to the Almighty, our Holy Father one day.
Nhlanhla & Marne you are the light and the conquers.' The one who conquers, I will grant him to sit with me on my throne, as I also conquered and sat down with my Father on his throne. God Bless you both and your children. Nhlanhla, you are a true gentleman and Marne you are so beautiful and what a smile!! Keep smiling laughing and enjoy life. You can be with whomever you choose-😊 Come live in the UK!!!
God bless you both..long live, happiness . from Philippines!
Pls pray for me for peaceful mind.
Ek jou van jou man. Groetjies an almal tuis. Baie gelukkeg mooi familie, mooi kinder. Groetjie van Duitsland.❤
Beautiful pple. God bless me with someone serious leading to marriage ,lhave really suffered with dating app 🙄
Dear God Loving couples
After my morning prayer ,i came across your video (since every Thursday i pray for families).I was in tears listening to your story.Nhlanhla you are the head in your Family, love your wife as Christ love the church..Morne submit but not be inferior.
You spoke of your leaders not approving your relationship and you had to choose Ministry or her, that leader need deliverence.
Stay away from families that create tensions around you.(its a suggestion)
For your children sake.You have better things to worry about with your wife, than backwards people who need to repent and be delivered ,
I am praying for God's wisdom over your life,i will make it a mission to pray for you every Thursday.
Remember coulor is just a shares,but we created in His Image,
Love you guys.Christ Favored woman
See how God works. There's nothing impossible for God to do. He always works in a very miraculous way. All you need to do is to allow him to come into your life and he will do wanders. You guys are a great example for the world to see.
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