What hurts more is when you fall for someone who is a good person but can't be together and you can't even hate them bc you have nothing to justify that hate
I relate to that on a spiritual level...I was really friendzoned by someone I love recently and now I have to pretend like I never really liked them that much and be friends with them...It hurts
My gosh. It's so true..and falling in love with someone who's never gonna be ours and knowing that person love someone else and you Can't stop loving that person just like that..it takes time to let go and along that progress ,it hurts.and the fact that also if you're friend with that person..so damn difficult
It’s simple answer, even if that person is good , they don’t understand your worth! If someone is undermining your worth that means you can hate them however good they are! It’s so simple if you stop seeing things from rose glasses and see as how they are
This is so relatable to me. I liked a guy for 10 years,we were really good friends and I liked him a lot and dreamt of marrying him one day. I also thought that he like me back as he always cared for me always made me happy and always used to be with me. My classmates used to ship us together as everyone believed that there was something going on. It was our last day of college so I decided to propose him and told everyone and kept it as a suprise. When I was about to execute my plan as everyone was waiting he told that he wanted to share something with us. Further he pulled out a ring from his pocket and I went super happpy and was already in the air and thought this was it. He came near me and sat down and proposed to my best friend who was beside me. I was the second character of my own story.
Well, from my personal experiences I am always the second lead and somehow I always fall out of that feeling as I get engaged with other things or I start ignoring the person. And, believe me, there is always a better one and for you I would say, "God is planning someone very special for you."
I hate it when second female leads are mostly written as hateful and clingy while second male leads are the sympathetic and gentle ones. Once I begin my own novel, I'll write a second female lead that's actually understandable and lovable, one who doesn't force her love but instead, respects the male lead's choice. Edit: Thank you guys! You're giving me inspiration to finish my novel! I also acknowledge the fact that there are dramas with good natured second female leads, I'm just stating that the most commonly shown are the mean ones (Probably to entice the viewers' attention through anger😉)
They're ones like that. The ones that just accept it...give me some time, I'm thinking rn😂 but I certainly agree, the plotlines they have portray them as greedy, annoying and the guys as the opposite🥺💔 it's sad honestly
I realized, in every kdrama there’s a one person, no matter girl or boy, who’s quiet and silent most of the time. And that’s probably the characters that are similar to me
I used to like a guy when I was in high school. I was his friend, I tried to give him hints because I didn't want our friendship to break. I kept my feelings under control because my bff liked him a lot.We grew really close in 5 years, we'd started sharing everything with each other. I didn't realise that my crush had grown into love. But suddenly in the last 2 years we became distant to the point that he raerely even saw my messages in weeks. I tried to approach to him, I was too shy and puzzled to confess, so I admired him from a distance. Then I came to know that the new admission girl had taken my place. She was pretty, fit, athelete and the school's crush. Everybody liked her. He had started swooning over her too. I started to realise that why would somebody like a fat, talentless, bookworm,nerd like me. He was a scholar, a sweetheart, and the teacher's favourite. At the end of our prelims 2, i wanted to sort out our friendship, but it turned out to be a disaster. He said that he became my friend over pity due to my fat and health problems, that our friendship was nothing to him and he would never like a fatty like me and mocked my appearance,ideology and health issues. Also, the new girl who turned out to be my "bff"mocked me dirty. My heart broke and my trust died that day. That was the day I realised that I had lost my value in his life, that I had not become a second lead, rather I had become a fool in his lies. Ever since that day, I decided not to befriend any person, trust any person nor try to love a person. Till date I feel the pain I felt that day, and I hope neither me nor somebody has to go through this pain.💔💔 Edit:- Thank you for sparing your time, and reading my comment.❤️❤️
omo are you ok? please don't think you are not worthy you actually mean to a lot of people that guy is a jerk for not understanding your love I hope you find the right person who will love you for who you are and embrace you and I believe you will meet the right person in your life
@@jayeetamukhopadhyay5909 Hi! Thanks for making me realise this again. Now after 3 years from the accident I realised that I didn't need to apologize. Thanks for asking my condition, now I feel i did the right thing by breaking our "friendship", I'm happy that there are people who empathize and reassure me, thanks a lot.
Never think that you are not worthy. YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE.. Never think otherwise. Don't belittle yourself because of a jerk . You are beautiful although I can't see you I know you are beautiful and you matter. The one who truly loves you will never look at your superficial features he will love you for who you are . But first of all remember to love yourself and believe in yourself even if nobody does ♥️♥️
Feel good... Atleast you are not with someone who just get impressed on how someone's dna got combined and more over if he is saying that he did friendship with you bcz he felt pity for you then it's good that you are not friend with those anymore...
Everybody talks about 2nd male syndrome in love alarm Nobody talks about 2nd female lead syndrome in love alarm... Please she was most genuine and most patient character that has been written till yet... Still hurting in unrequited love
The fact that in kdramas, the male leads always like the girl(female lead) who is clumsy, funny, ignoring him, kinda of fighting with him. But they would never understand the second female lead who truly understands him. That hurts🥺💔❤️🩹😞
Oh my gosh..all the comments makes me wanna cry😭 sending each and everyone a virtual hugs♥ we who live a second lead character life will also find happiness..idk how that happiness will come but happiness will find us too.
I empathise a lot with second leads but I also think that basically the one , the main lead needs ? is the other main lead while the second leads need the main leads to find themselves . It’s always like that and was meant to be . Likewise happens in our life , we might be the main character of our lives but we also are the extra / second leads in other people’s stories . We keep learning , getting hurt and eventually healed too thereafter .
The bus stop, the bed and the pillow, they know how much the second female lead had cried. Nobody saw them until late. Nobody. Second leads and Background characters, they are the most related to the human world. It just hurts. Just because they are damn background characters doesn't mean that they don't have feelings. Nobody deserves the spotlight, everyone does. There are no bad people. We made them. Society, they weren't meant to be. They were created. It's not anyone's fault. It's their mind's fault.Their mind never listened to their heart. No matter how bad they are, at the end of the day, their heart is always the purest but their mind is just.... - me (not a therapist) Edit: Eomma- I am famous 🥺 Anways, have a nice day and thanks for reading this comment ❤️.
It happened with me too, I used to like a guy in my batch and thought he thinks of me as his friend too. I was thinking of proposing him when he asked me for FWB (friends with benefit). I was so desperate for his approval that I thought something's better than nothing, at least he'll acknowledge me. But whenever his friends used to be around him, he acted as if he didn't knew me. It hit my pride a lot. It took a lot of strength to let go off him. And luckily didn't do anything with him. Thank god, I am the main lead now and I have my male lead, my current bf who treats me right and knows my value and appreciate it.
Most related video ever. I also liked a guy for 7 years. I had never fell in love that hard on someone. He was my one and only crush..but to him I was just a classmate. Honestly we barley even talk to eachother.5 years ago I lost contact with him course I had to go to a new clz..I tried to find him also tried to forget about him..but I couldn't_but 5 months ago I found him..I got his number from a girl. But the thing is I got that number with a heart emoji ❤️ and that's the moment I realized, that I've been a friend with his girlfriend all the time 💔 pretty dramatic right ? I also shocked after found out that..but I didn't msg him. It's not a right thing to msg him wheb he already have a gf. But I'm still moving on !
Same to me but I was one of his best friends. Moreover, I helped to get the girl that he likes. Also when he knew that I like him he agreed to be my bf for a day just so I can experience being his girl. I'm hurting 😭😭 because I felt like I had begged for his love.
Well for me seo dan is the most tragic 2nd female leads out there..cause the man she loved don't love her back and when there was someone who loved her back , he died...I love her so much:'( she didn't even got so many happy moments with Gu seung Joon......I love her😔😔
I've waited for him for 4 years. We've dated for a few months before we chose to part ways because he have a game coming and shouldn't be distracted. He said maybe we'll reunite again so I've waited hoping that day will come. In the end, I watched him got intagled with his bff that he told me she's just a friend. Then another woman again whom just crushing on him when we we're still together. Still I've remained strong and didn't let go. Waiting for him 'cause he's always giving me hints making my hopes high. In the end, I saw him chasing another girl who's a year younger than me in our school. They dated until he went to college. I saw all of it, heard about it and I act like I didn't care when I in fact I feel like breaking inside. I've only stopped my hopes when he finally told me on my birthday after he greeted me in messenger and told me he's sorry. And that was it. I wasn't even a second lead in his life, maybe I can only pass as a cannon fodder or worse just a passerby.
Perhaps nobody will care about this comment but I still want to share my experience. Well, I have this long time crush since elementary (I know I was so young lol). He's really tall, handsome, has nice eyes, friendly, and has a killer smile. We're actually friends and he's 3 years older so he graduated earlier than me. I eventually went to the same highschool with him and we're still friends. I have this one classmate who's really beautiful, talented and popular. Imagine being a freshman but was very popular that even the seniors recognize her and others are even courting her. And yes, he's one of them and they eventually got together. I was always there inside the classroom watching them everytime he drops her off and I'm not gonna say it doesn't hurt. Eventually, they broke up for I don't know what reason. One time she approached me and she said, "You like him right? Go on, you can have him." Her tone sounds like saying I'm done with him, you can pick up my trash. I didn't even know that she knew I like him but I know he's aware of my feelings for him so maybe he told her or whatever. Up to this day, what she told me is still the worst insult I received from a person and thinking about it still hurts me and still makes me feel small.
@@purplebp406 Hi! I appreciate you taking the time to read my comment. As for your question, no. Actually, we never dated after that and he went to college a year later so we lost touch with each other and since I went to a different university a few years later. I don't know what he's doing right now since I haven't seen him for a long time but I believe he's doing well with his work and he's with his long time girlfriend according to some common friends we have and I'm happy for him. We're both doing well building our future separately now. It's been years since it happened and I already moved on from him a long time ago. I don't know if we still consider ourselves as 'friends' since I haven't talked to him for years but if one day I receive his wedding invitation, then that means we still are 😂
I had fallen for him but I was second lead he hated me So I moved on from him But now I have fallen again but for another person 😃 let see what Allah has chosen for me
I've always been the second option, I was never a statement, I've been betrayed by friends, heartbroken by boys.. it just fucking sucks. imagine being with someone, thinking you found the one because they treated u like a queen loved you cared for you. then slowly after dating for a year ghosting you, without saying a word, when you ask them about it all they reply is, I've been busy.. you break it off because it got emotionally abusive by them calling you names accusing you of cheating when they don't even talk to you no more.. then you find out that they fell for your best friend, they were friends with benefits for a while, until your best friend started dating another person, that's when they came back to you asking for you back. you forgive, then when your best friend breaks up with her boyfriend they take the chance to take her back... that's what happened to me, I was his second option all the fucking time, I was hurt, broken, dead. I did move on, but it still hurts because my ex best friend and him dated but broke up because one of them cheated... Love Yourself, you don't know who will stay with you in the dark, they may be with you in the light but when the lights turn off they might leave as quick as the light switch did.
how could they appreciate someone they just met and misunderstood someone that didn't leave their side since the beginning? and how could I relate to it so damn much? really freaking hate it.
I've had Four crushes I met them first but then some other skinnier prettier girl came and they start behaving col with me that's when I got to know I was the second lead
I've realized that I had also been the second female lead in my love story... Now I prefer second lead than first lead, also I feel the second lead emotions...
I have a special place in my heart for second fl because every love story I had in my life, from having crushes to relationships, I was the second female lead in the story..always
Before my 20s I always wanted the heroine to end up up hero whether in movie or drama,but now (I'm 22) all I want is justice for second leads 😅 Coz we all have to agree that 2nd lead characters are the purest & greenest characters u'll ever see in the series 😌 & that souls definitely deserves a happy ending, sadly they never get it 😢💔
I had a crush for 8 months and our situation right now is so complicated. our friendship end up like this "we don't chat anymore" we don't talk and we've never met again😢 I was hopping for a chance to have an interaction again to build up our friendship💚
POV: you secretly love your best friend and everything is going well as you know that he loves you too, he cares about you and you understand him until one day a girl enter your group circle.. it's when things going south.. you ask to yourself "what happened to us?" .. or "when did you become so cold" but you got no clue.. it's when until he said the word 'sorry' and ask you to be his best friend again but you don't want to just became his friend and you argue with him in the rain then he got a call from that girl's roomate saying she is sick as you see him ran away from you after saying "I need to go" with the worried and panic look in his face that you remember that same expression he once had in his face when he came disheveled that time you got sick. And you know that it's over between you two as you silently cry in the rain.
Omg same i feel like im such a hipocrite but its not my fault that he is so perfect aaaaaaah😭 And at the end he did that to me.. sometimes i dont understand why life is so horrible
@@gettingcalledoutontwitteri1882 i was in love with a boy and he gave me so much hope And at the end he choosed another girl... I rejected a lot of people just for him and that what i get "shit ;-;
The videos like this made me hurt for the girls that were always there and the feelings weren't reciopricated back. Then its like you can tell them but that won't change their feelings love is complicated I am so glad I haven't had like a crush in forever.
The „Why can‘t he choose me?“ question is so painful to ask. I had asked that same question myself. You love who you love, can‘t do anything about it if he truly loves someone else… no matter how hurtful it can get.
For some reasons, the longing eyes of the second female lead in Love Alarm emotionally effected me the most. The way she longingly looked at the male lead with diamond tears in her doe eyes is just urrrgghhh
Man it really hurts when you fall for only one person. Fantasize yourself with him.Don’t have too many expectations. Just want to being loved, respected and taken care of.But at the end of the day you don’t even get this small things 😅😢
the fact that they only changed because the male lead didnt like them anymore is relatable. but if i were to direct my own kdrama, i'd make the second female lead respect the male lead's choice. still, it hurts when they dont like you back 😭
I also a second lead girl in my situation . I can relate how second leads feel even it’s just drama. When someone flirt with you while they stay with their girlfriend and makes you feel like you are special that is most hard part. But always when you get swayed when you are with his friends and that’s even worse.
It really hurts when you love someone , even when your a ready to sacrifice your life for that person but in the end that person doesn't even give a fu*k.... That's me I loved him so much at the end he doesn't even know that i'm alive or dead.....
🙂being second lead in someone's life is very funny 😂 you love them stay with them in every situation but someone new comes and that new ends up making you apart from that one 💔
I liked this one guy so much like a lot I only thought of him and yes he was my first crush of my life but the sad part is he liked my own best friend it's really hurting and sad but it's okay I am trying to get better day by day I am broken from inside I am losing my confidence but you know what life goes on 💜
This happens a lot when second female lead steals or tries to steal the male lead or just someone they was with before from female lead they automatically get hate and most people don’t like them but when it’s opposite they only see how the second lead torments the female lead and gets mistreated but in reality the second female was mistreated first and it’s sad I get that they can fall out of love of like someone else but they could have at least have broken up with them or cut ties before anything escalated (not that this happens all the time) I respect second female leads good or bad because they have a reason for how they act but if they are doing something like bullying the female lead for no reason then that’s different not all of them are alike but they all have something in common.
I feel like I’m just a side character in my own story because the person I I’ve loved doesn’t loves me and he treated me like I was important and special for him and now he doesn’t even look at me it feels numb inside I don’t want to cry but I can’t stop remembering the old days
You can be a side character in other people life but you are the main character in your life. that is a fact. GOD'S PLAN ALWAYS BETTER THAN YOUR PLAN. I hope you will find your true lover one day.💗💝💘
When i was in 3 grade i liked a boy, we were veryy good friend, in our class people use to ship me with him. Amd one of his friends told me that he liked me back but when we were in 4 grade he started to ignore me till 6 grade and i got tired of it. I told my bff that i dont like him but deep inside i still did. Two days later she told she likes him, and i was very shocked but i didnt say anything. She became closer with him, and then they started liking eachother, and now they are official and i am happy for her. But no worries i have anime crush they are way better than the real ones. Oh and i left my bff cuz she was wayy too toxic so i now have new friends. Sometimes i meet him and he just walk pass me and say nothing.
Hey its me after 1 or maybe 2 year. I would just say i misunderstood him. After g8 i realised that he wasnt actually dating her the thing was that she liked him but he never did. Grade 8 was the year of me hanging out with new people. I felt like a new person, happy and laughing. The thing was that me and him still didnt talk. But rn i am in grade 9 i am in the same class as him and he started talking to me. I started having that feelings again for him
Becuz when i fell for him long time back i Loved him but niw i started liking him again. My friends used to say maybe he likes me but i didnt believe them, cuz he used to stare at me alot. He asked for my insta. We chatted. And we became more closer. One day i asked him do u like me. He said i should ans first. I told him no u have to ans than he said....... yes he does. I was sooooooo shock, than i replied back me too i like u. Than now we are together and let me just tell u this. This boi that i loved back than also liked me but was too scared and i thought he liked another girl infact he liked me. So all those years he kept that love with him. Just wanf to tell you guys when i read my old text in the comment there is a huge difference back in grade 3 and nkw in grade 9. Its weird we met in the begining and now we meet again and get together... wow..
i just want the second lead to be more like having the feeling to give up on the boy in sadness and not having the intention to hurt the girl he/she likes...they still can feel the resentment and the unfair feeling but if that how fate goes, u cant do anything w it...it might sounded cliche alr but that's how most of us can relate
"I am a SFL of his life,who smile fakely,did a lot of sins as acting victim towards my crush to get his attention even he is my bff's bf back then i thought i was right ,Due to that i lost my bff and beautiful experiences of high school life I become to have self esteem to do Rs or having friends fearing that i might make mistakes again. I am still redeeming myself alone as i am not worthy of being loved or to be loved by .To 1%of who read this,i wish you won't go through loniness with sins.🍁
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"No one teaches you what to do. When a good man hurts you." -Ms. Taylor Swift
If you dont mind me asking.... in which song did she quote this?
@@hazelgrace263 happiness (if I remembered correctly)
"You know you've hurt him too"
@@avi4875 thank you!!!!
@@hadesthedeadsgod7188 yeah!
Second female leads in kdramas are the ones that relate to me the most...
Me to
And I relate to background character
Same here:)
Same bro
Honestly
What hurts more is when you fall for someone who is a good person but can't be together and you can't even hate them bc you have nothing to justify that hate
I relate to that on a spiritual level...I was really friendzoned by someone I love recently and now I have to pretend like I never really liked them that much and be friends with them...It hurts
My gosh. It's so true..and falling in love with someone who's never gonna be ours and knowing that person love someone else and you Can't stop loving that person just like that..it takes time to let go and along that progress ,it hurts.and the fact that also if you're friend with that person..so damn difficult
It’s simple answer, even if that person is good , they don’t understand your worth! If someone is undermining your worth that means you can hate them however good they are! It’s so simple if you stop seeing things from rose glasses and see as how they are
@@Killjoy1204 just because you like someone he or she is not obliged to like you back
its not undermining one's worth
sometimes one can't help feeling
Oh shit that's what I feel right now
1:18
That "you only met her, so why is it her when I've been by your side for 10 years" hits so damn close to home
I'm so sorry
@@gettingcalledoutontwitteri1882 awwn thank u, it be like that sometimes i guess😂
Dude like seriously she was the only second female lead who did wrong things but still owns the heart !!! 💜💫
What's the kdrama name
@@moopycheyenne5998 True Beauty
This is so relatable to me. I liked a guy for 10 years,we were really good friends and I liked him a lot and dreamt of marrying him one day. I also thought that he like me back as he always cared for me always made me happy and always used to be with me. My classmates used to ship us together as everyone believed that there was something going on. It was our last day of college so I decided to propose him and told everyone and kept it as a suprise. When I was about to execute my plan as everyone was waiting he told that he wanted to share something with us. Further he pulled out a ring from his pocket and I went super happpy and was already in the air and thought this was it. He came near me and sat down and proposed to my best friend who was beside me. I was the second character of my own story.
Did she accept? Does your best friend know about your crush, aka that "boy".
Well, from my personal experiences I am always the second lead and somehow I always fall out of that feeling as I get engaged with other things or I start ignoring the person. And, believe me, there is always a better one and for you I would say, "God is planning someone very special for you."
@@moonwater1370 nah I told her she's just like girl you jealous
@@moonwater1370 ikr gods there but still hurts😕
This bestie shit hurts the most... 😭💀
I hate it when second female leads are mostly written as hateful and clingy while second male leads are the sympathetic and gentle ones. Once I begin my own novel, I'll write a second female lead that's actually understandable and lovable, one who doesn't force her love but instead, respects the male lead's choice.
Edit: Thank you guys! You're giving me inspiration to finish my novel!
I also acknowledge the fact that there are dramas with good natured second female leads, I'm just stating that the most commonly shown are the mean ones (Probably to entice the viewers' attention through anger😉)
I hope I can read that story
Sometimes I feel like the second female lead would have been better love choices
Great...Please tell me if you finish your novel ... Will love to read it..I will buy 😎 ....
They're ones like that. The ones that just accept it...give me some time, I'm thinking rn😂 but I certainly agree, the plotlines they have portray them as greedy, annoying and the guys as the opposite🥺💔 it's sad honestly
Put your head on my shoulder...a cdrama has an understanding 2nd female lead
The fact that almost everyone here relates to the second female lead more instead of the main lead. Tells so much~
Exactly! This comment section is so comforting. Like to see so many ppl relate doesn't make me feel so bad
Fact that they are not bad characters makes it difficult to not feel for them
I realized, in every kdrama there’s a one person, no matter girl or boy, who’s quiet and silent most of the time. And that’s probably the characters that are similar to me
Hope you are doing well
Me too
"First we trust the wrong one and when the right one comes we stop trusting" I can relate to this line so much
Second female leads are literally the definition of - " I loved you first, but then she came in your life "
Real 🙂❤️🩹
first lead is only 1% girls in real life
that's why 99% relates to second lead
😂lucky ones 1% girls yeah
I used to like a guy when I was in high school. I was his friend, I tried to give him hints because I didn't want our friendship to break. I kept my feelings under control because my bff liked him a lot.We grew really close in 5 years, we'd started sharing everything with each other. I didn't realise that my crush had grown into love. But suddenly in the last 2 years we became distant to the point that he raerely even saw my messages in weeks. I tried to approach to him, I was too shy and puzzled to confess, so I admired him from a distance. Then I came to know that the new admission girl had taken my place. She was pretty, fit, athelete and the school's crush. Everybody liked her. He had started swooning over her too. I started to realise that why would somebody like a fat, talentless, bookworm,nerd like me. He was a scholar, a sweetheart, and the teacher's favourite. At the end of our prelims 2, i wanted to sort out our friendship, but it turned out to be a disaster. He said that he became my friend over pity due to my fat and health problems, that our friendship was nothing to him and he would never like a fatty like me and mocked my appearance,ideology and health issues. Also, the new girl who turned out to be my "bff"mocked me dirty. My heart broke and my trust died that day. That was the day I realised that I had lost my value in his life, that I had not become a second lead, rather I had become a fool in his lies. Ever since that day, I decided not to befriend any person, trust any person nor try to love a person. Till date I feel the pain I felt that day, and I hope neither me nor somebody has to go through this pain.💔💔
Edit:- Thank you for sparing your time, and reading my comment.❤️❤️
omo are you ok? please don't think you are not worthy you actually mean to a lot of people that guy is a jerk for not understanding your love I hope you find the right person who will love you for who you are and embrace you and I believe you will meet the right person in your life
@@jayeetamukhopadhyay5909 Hi! Thanks for making me realise this again. Now after 3 years from the accident I realised that I didn't need to apologize. Thanks for asking my condition, now I feel i did the right thing by breaking our "friendship", I'm happy that there are people who empathize and reassure me, thanks a lot.
Never think that you are not worthy. YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE.. Never think otherwise. Don't belittle yourself because of a jerk . You are beautiful although I can't see you I know you are beautiful and you matter. The one who truly loves you will never look at your superficial features he will love you for who you are . But first of all remember to love yourself and believe in yourself even if nobody does ♥️♥️
Feel good... Atleast you are not with someone who just get impressed on how someone's dna got combined and more over if he is saying that he did friendship with you bcz he felt pity for you then it's good that you are not friend with those anymore...
@@Nonametocall True! I took time to learn the lesson. But still, thanks a lot!
Everybody talks about 2nd male syndrome in love alarm
Nobody talks about 2nd female lead syndrome in love alarm... Please she was most genuine and most patient character that has been written till yet... Still hurting in unrequited love
The fact that in kdramas, the male leads always like the girl(female lead) who is clumsy, funny, ignoring him, kinda of fighting with him. But they would never understand the second female lead who truly understands him.
That hurts🥺💔❤️🩹😞
Oh my gosh..all the comments makes me wanna cry😭 sending each and everyone a virtual hugs♥ we who live a second lead character life will also find happiness..idk how that happiness will come but happiness will find us too.
I empathise a lot with second leads but I also think that basically the one , the main lead needs ? is the other main lead while the second leads need the main leads to find themselves . It’s always like that and was meant to be . Likewise happens in our life , we might be the main character of our lives but we also are the extra / second leads in other people’s stories . We keep learning , getting hurt and eventually healed too thereafter .
The bus stop, the bed and the pillow, they know how much the second female lead had cried. Nobody saw them until late. Nobody. Second leads and Background characters, they are the most related to the human world. It just hurts. Just because they are damn background characters doesn't mean that they don't have feelings. Nobody deserves the spotlight, everyone does. There are no bad people. We made them. Society, they weren't meant to be. They were created. It's not anyone's fault. It's their mind's fault.Their mind never listened to their heart. No matter how bad they are, at the end of the day, their heart is always the purest but their mind is just....
- me (not a therapist)
Edit: Eomma- I am famous 🥺
Anways, have a nice day and thanks for reading this comment ❤️.
Wow... How could you not call yourself a therapist, we're all therapist's in our own ways
Thanks for your words they comforted me:)
@@abdulazeem8071 your welcome :)
It happened with me too, I used to like a guy in my batch and thought he thinks of me as his friend too. I was thinking of proposing him when he asked me for FWB (friends with benefit). I was so desperate for his approval that I thought something's better than nothing, at least he'll acknowledge me. But whenever his friends used to be around him, he acted as if he didn't knew me. It hit my pride a lot. It took a lot of strength to let go off him. And luckily didn't do anything with him.
Thank god, I am the main lead now and I have my male lead, my current bf who treats me right and knows my value and appreciate it.
Glad to hear that u met your soulmate 🌻
@@kavindukaveesha215 thank you
Second leads needs also some sympathy cuzz there are the one who suffer more pain in compared to other leads cuzz i can understand
Especially female second lead because only male second lead gets some sympathy
Most related video ever. I also liked a guy for 7 years. I had never fell in love that hard on someone. He was my one and only crush..but to him I was just a classmate. Honestly we barley even talk to eachother.5 years ago I lost contact with him course I had to go to a new clz..I tried to find him also tried to forget about him..but I couldn't_but 5 months ago I found him..I got his number from a girl. But the thing is I got that number with a heart emoji ❤️ and that's the moment I realized, that I've been a friend with his girlfriend all the time 💔 pretty dramatic right ? I also shocked after found out that..but I didn't msg him. It's not a right thing to msg him wheb he already have a gf. But I'm still moving on !
Sometimes ,we must go on .
Just wait ,it will take some time but you'll get the one you deserve for
You'll find the right one for you, girl. Take care ❤️🥰
I wish you get someone who will love you just like you love him..😊
I guess... You should text him !
Same to me but I was one of his best friends. Moreover, I helped to get the girl that he likes. Also when he knew that I like him he agreed to be my bf for a day just so I can experience being his girl. I'm hurting 😭😭 because I felt like I had begged for his love.
Well for me seo dan is the most tragic 2nd female leads out there..cause the man she loved don't love her back and when there was someone who loved her back , he died...I love her so much:'( she didn't even got so many happy moments with Gu seung Joon......I love her😔😔
Yeah! It made me cry!! Why does he have to die! Wah!
she made me cry was so sad for her xx
Ahh This is honestly the first multi-edit ever, where I have witnessed the Emperor : Owner Of The Mask finally getting some attention.
It is so sad when the second FL dies in that drama. Indirectly everyone was actually saved because of her and not because of the main leads
ikr Hwa Gun is my favorite second lead .
@@Xsan98713 sameee
So true
I've waited for him for 4 years. We've dated for a few months before we chose to part ways because he have a game coming and shouldn't be distracted. He said maybe we'll reunite again so I've waited hoping that day will come. In the end, I watched him got intagled with his bff that he told me she's just a friend. Then another woman again whom just crushing on him when we we're still together. Still I've remained strong and didn't let go. Waiting for him 'cause he's always giving me hints making my hopes high. In the end, I saw him chasing another girl who's a year younger than me in our school. They dated until he went to college. I saw all of it, heard about it and I act like I didn't care when I in fact I feel like breaking inside. I've only stopped my hopes when he finally told me on my birthday after he greeted me in messenger and told me he's sorry. And that was it. I wasn't even a second lead in his life, maybe I can only pass as a cannon fodder or worse just a passerby.
When I watched it's okay not to be okay I didn't notice gyuyong much but now she is one of my fav actress
So excited for her upcoming dramas
Second female leads: "What is my purpose"
Kdrama writers: "to watch someone you love love, somebody else..."
Every fangirl will understand second female lead character 😌
So sad, bad so true.
WTF
Sometimes second female leads deserve much better 😔😔😔
Perhaps nobody will care about this comment but I still want to share my experience.
Well, I have this long time crush since elementary (I know I was so young lol). He's really tall, handsome, has nice eyes, friendly, and has a killer smile. We're actually friends and he's 3 years older so he graduated earlier than me. I eventually went to the same highschool with him and we're still friends. I have this one classmate who's really beautiful, talented and popular. Imagine being a freshman but was very popular that even the seniors recognize her and others are even courting her. And yes, he's one of them and they eventually got together. I was always there inside the classroom watching them everytime he drops her off and I'm not gonna say it doesn't hurt. Eventually, they broke up for I don't know what reason. One time she approached me and she said, "You like him right? Go on, you can have him." Her tone sounds like saying I'm done with him, you can pick up my trash. I didn't even know that she knew I like him but I know he's aware of my feelings for him so maybe he told her or whatever. Up to this day, what she told me is still the worst insult I received from a person and thinking about it still hurts me and still makes me feel small.
Wow that's bad so are you with him now or what happened between you [ if you don't feel telling than it's ok ❤]
@@purplebp406 Hi! I appreciate you taking the time to read my comment. As for your question, no. Actually, we never dated after that and he went to college a year later so we lost touch with each other and since I went to a different university a few years later. I don't know what he's doing right now since I haven't seen him for a long time but I believe he's doing well with his work and he's with his long time girlfriend according to some common friends we have and I'm happy for him. We're both doing well building our future separately now. It's been years since it happened and I already moved on from him a long time ago. I don't know if we still consider ourselves as 'friends' since I haven't talked to him for years but if one day I receive his wedding invitation, then that means we still are 😂
@@misssheen3777 Good.. 😂
@@misssheen3777 u will get ur main lead which u deserve too 😌
I had fallen for him but I was second lead he hated me
So I moved on from him
But now I have fallen again but for another person 😃 let see what Allah has chosen for me
And he have fallen for me too.. Now we are couples
Yes, Allah choose the best for us.👍
are you gay? just asking bc your name is usually a male's where i live lol
@@st4rg3zing for your kind information I am a girl and this is a girl name.
I am a muslim
@@tabassumkhan2831 I had a friend named tabassum and he was a guy so I got confused lmao
Main leads are good ,but we know actually how it feels to be a second lead,
I've always been the second option, I was never a statement, I've been betrayed by friends, heartbroken by boys..
it just fucking sucks.
imagine being with someone, thinking you found the one because they treated u like a queen loved you cared for you.
then slowly after dating for a year ghosting you, without saying a word, when you ask them about it all they reply is, I've been busy..
you break it off because it got emotionally abusive by them calling you names accusing you of cheating when they don't even talk to you no more..
then you find out that they fell for your best friend, they were friends with benefits for a while, until your best friend started dating another person, that's when they came back to you asking for you back. you forgive, then when your best friend breaks up with her boyfriend they take the chance to take her back...
that's what happened to me, I was his second option all the fucking time, I was hurt, broken, dead.
I did move on, but it still hurts because my ex best friend and him dated but broke up because one of them cheated...
Love Yourself, you don't know who will stay with you in the dark, they may be with you in the light but when the lights turn off they might leave as quick as the light switch did.
how could they appreciate someone they just met and misunderstood someone that didn't leave their side since the beginning?
and how could I relate to it so damn much? really freaking hate it.
I've had Four crushes I met them first but then some other skinnier prettier girl came and they start behaving col with me that's when I got to know I was the second lead
Drama name plisss 0:10 - 0:11
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I've realized that I had also been the second female lead in my love story... Now I prefer second lead than first lead, also I feel the second lead emotions...
I have a special place in my heart for second fl because every love story I had in my life, from having crushes to relationships, I was the second female lead in the story..always
Developing feelings for wrong person is like developing self distraction to self damage while committing your feeling's to them
My all time favourite Kang soo jin
This was bittersweet❤💔❤️🩹 firstly, they are hardly ever talked about, it's always the guys, plus, they're the ones I usually connect with the most🤧❤
Second leads are my fav. Cause I See Me in them 🙂🌊
One thing I never thought I would experience, was to feel like second female lead in my own story.
Before my 20s I always wanted the heroine to end up up hero whether in movie or drama,but now (I'm 22) all I want is justice for second leads 😅 Coz we all have to agree that 2nd lead characters are the purest & greenest characters u'll ever see in the series 😌 & that souls definitely deserves a happy ending, sadly they never get it 😢💔
The person who doesn't get the person he /she loves and respects his or her decision is a most strongest person ❤️❤️
when we were young?? im speechless! soo good to see themm
I had a crush for 8 months and our situation right now is so complicated. our friendship end up like this "we don't chat anymore" we don't talk and we've never met again😢 I was hopping for a chance to have an interaction again to build up our friendship💚
My favourite video ever literally I cry when I watch this video .......this hell feeling 🙂
POV: you secretly love your best friend and everything is going well as you know that he loves you too, he cares about you and you understand him until one day a girl enter your group circle.. it's when things going south.. you ask to yourself "what happened to us?" .. or "when did you become so cold" but you got no clue.. it's when until he said the word 'sorry' and ask you to be his best friend again but you don't want to just became his friend and you argue with him in the rain then he got a call from that girl's roomate saying she is sick as you see him ran away from you after saying "I need to go" with the worried and panic look in his face that you remember that same expression he once had in his face when he came disheveled that time you got sick. And you know that it's over between you two as you silently cry in the rain.
this hits different, almost made me cry :(
It really hurts when you reject lot of guy's just for one person and at the end of the story he doesn't choose u ..🥲🥲
You deserve better
Omg same i feel like im such a hipocrite but its not my fault that he is so perfect aaaaaaah😭
And at the end he did that to me.. sometimes i dont understand why life is so horrible
@@shitsuki_ wdym if i may ask
Yes
@@gettingcalledoutontwitteri1882 i was in love with a boy and he gave me so much hope
And at the end he choosed another girl...
I rejected a lot of people just for him and that what i get "shit ;-;
Either it's friendship or love one sided always hurt..💔
My most Favourite Second Female Lead is Kim Hwa-gun from The Emperor Owner Of The Mask.
I would really love a k-drama from a second female lead pov, something similar to Extraordinary You.
why do I cry for the 2nd female leads I don't even relate with them😭 naurr man- they deserve better✋😔
The videos like this made me hurt for the girls that were always there and the feelings weren't reciopricated back. Then its like you can tell them but that won't change their feelings love is complicated I am so glad I haven't had like a crush in forever.
True love is when you sacrifice your happiness for the sake of your love to see him/her happy with someone else 🥀
The „Why can‘t he choose me?“ question is so painful to ask. I had asked that same question myself. You love who you love, can‘t do anything about it if he truly loves someone else… no matter how hurtful it can get.
this is a work of art 🥺❤️🩹
For some reasons, the longing eyes of the second female lead in Love Alarm emotionally effected me the most. The way she longingly looked at the male lead with diamond tears in her doe eyes is just urrrgghhh
Man it really hurts when you fall for only one person. Fantasize yourself with him.Don’t have too many expectations. Just want to being loved, respected and taken care of.But at the end of the day you don’t even get this small things 😅😢
Coming second in position doesn't hurt but in love coming second hurts so bad .
i feel like second leads are the ones that i can relate to the most especially nam joo-ri and kang soo-jin...
The quality..✨💅
Nothing hurts the most than the moment of realization that you just have been assuming all this time
All these years I've been the second lead....
One day I'll be the main lead and I wouldn't let you go:)
This song gat me tearing up 🥺
it is painful when the second leads are one's who do everything for the main leads, but doesn't get what they have done for😢🥺🥺🥺😭😭
Ame este video. No sé porque cada vez que veo más dramas me vuelvo un personaje de ellos que siempre pierde en el amor
My life is just like a kdrama second female lead.....
the fact that they only changed because the male lead didnt like them anymore is relatable.
but if i were to direct my own kdrama, i'd make the second female lead respect the male lead's choice. still, it hurts when they dont like you back 😭
The only thing they did wrong was loving a person who didn't feel the same way about them😢
I also a second lead girl in my situation . I can relate how second leads feel even it’s just drama. When someone flirt with you while they stay with their girlfriend and makes you feel like you are special that is most hard part. But always when you get swayed when you are with his friends and that’s even worse.
U make them look innocent but for some reason I can fell their pain😔
Kang sujin hits different . Love you girl be strong ❤❤❤❤❤
Here i am crying over second female leads at 2am
Second female leads are what I relate to the most…not that I’m rich…or pretty…or badass…yeah yk what nvm…
It really hurts when you love someone , even when your a ready to sacrifice your life for that person but in the end that person doesn't even give a fu*k.... That's me I loved him so much at the end he doesn't even know that i'm alive or dead.....
🙂being second lead in someone's life is very funny 😂 you love them stay with them in every situation but someone new comes and that new ends up making you apart from that one 💔
I liked this one guy so much like a lot I only thought of him and yes he was my first crush of my life but the sad part is he liked my own best friend it's really hurting and sad but it's okay I am trying to get better day by day I am broken from inside I am losing my confidence but you know what life goes on 💜
Thank you for your like 💜
DON' T WANNA CRY FOR THE PROBLEM BUT IT HURT SO BAD
you had to pick this song and most of these characters i dont know but im really to start a meltdown!
Don't ever yall cry over someone that don't deserve you and don't see your worth and move on you are ml in your own life
First leads are the part of dramas but second leads are part of reality
Sometimes i felt the pain of second lead when u try ur best but ppl just use u n throw u out of their life
This happens a lot when second female lead steals or tries to steal the male lead or just someone they was with before from female lead they automatically get hate and most people don’t like them but when it’s opposite they only see how the second lead torments the female lead and gets mistreated but in reality the second female was mistreated first and it’s sad I get that they can fall out of love of like someone else but they could have at least have broken up with them or cut ties before anything escalated (not that this happens all the time) I respect second female leads good or bad because they have a reason for how they act but if they are doing something like bullying the female lead for no reason then that’s different not all of them are alike but they all have something in common.
I don't know why but I really feel like I'm not the main lead in my life 😖
Maybe you are a ignorant character in other people life, But YOU are the MAIN character in your life.
💗💗💗
@@mahmudakhatun7678 maybe but thankfully things are changing now 😊
Ahh please keep going I’m going to subscribe
I remember how bad i felt whne the second female lead got rejected in its ok not be ok it was my first kdrama and i cried fro her lol
But then i watched true beauty it was painful😭
@@cacameleonright in its okay not be okay second female lead was better then main lead...
Every guy that I was attracted to,liked my friend instead...I was never so lonely and hurt as I was then.
Itaewon class case was different since saeroyi liked the second female lead for years, even though she didn't feel the same way 💘
I feel like I’m just a side character in my own story because the person I I’ve loved doesn’t loves me and he treated me like I was important and special for him and now he doesn’t even look at me it feels numb inside I don’t want to cry but I can’t stop remembering the old days
You can be a side character in other people life but you are the main character in your life. that is a fact. GOD'S PLAN ALWAYS BETTER THAN YOUR PLAN. I hope you will find your true lover one day.💗💝💘
When i was in 3 grade i liked a boy, we were veryy good friend, in our class people use to ship me with him. Amd one of his friends told me that he liked me back but when we were in 4 grade he started to ignore me till 6 grade and i got tired of it. I told my bff that i dont like him but deep inside i still did. Two days later she told she likes him, and i was very shocked but i didnt say anything. She became closer with him, and then they started liking eachother, and now they are official and i am happy for her. But no worries i have anime crush they are way better than the real ones. Oh and i left my bff cuz she was wayy too toxic so i now have new friends. Sometimes i meet him and he just walk pass me and say nothing.
But now i am in 7 grade😇
Wow i cant believe its been 1 year to this comment. Welp now i am going to high school, middle school was something i would never forget..
The thing is that now he is approaching me and i dont know how to react, my ex friend broke up with him idk why tho but now hes trying to talk to me
Hey its me after 1 or maybe 2 year. I would just say i misunderstood him. After g8 i realised that he wasnt actually dating her the thing was that she liked him but he never did. Grade 8 was the year of me hanging out with new people. I felt like a new person, happy and laughing. The thing was that me and him still didnt talk. But rn i am in grade 9 i am in the same class as him and he started talking to me. I started having that feelings again for him
Becuz when i fell for him long time back i Loved him but niw i started liking him again. My friends used to say maybe he likes me but i didnt believe them, cuz he used to stare at me alot. He asked for my insta. We chatted. And we became more closer. One day i asked him do u like me. He said i should ans first. I told him no u have to ans than he said....... yes he does. I was sooooooo shock, than i replied back me too i like u. Than now we are together and let me just tell u this. This boi that i loved back than also liked me but was too scared and i thought he liked another girl infact he liked me. So all those years he kept that love with him. Just wanf to tell you guys when i read my old text in the comment there is a huge difference back in grade 3 and nkw in grade 9. Its weird we met in the begining and now we meet again and get together... wow..
Honestly, Jin Ga Young would fit to this a lot. She is definitely one of my favorite characters in my demon…😭
I always prefer second lead being happy
1.52 ....behind this smile what pain is hiding there..!! Uffff...feels like she's burned inside & there's nothing left....
i just want the second lead to be more like having the feeling to give up on the boy in sadness and not having the intention to hurt the girl he/she likes...they still can feel the resentment and the unfair feeling but if that how fate goes, u cant do anything w it...it might sounded cliche alr but that's how most of us can relate
Did anyone else liked the sfl in it's okay to not be okay
Yeah. Better then main lead ..
@@v47gaming59lmao nope
Im living a kdrama life but as the second female lead
Am I the only one who feels like a second lead in our own life
I can't stop my tears
"I am a SFL of his life,who smile fakely,did a lot of sins as acting victim towards my crush to get his attention even he is my bff's bf back then i thought i was right ,Due to that i lost my bff and beautiful experiences of high school life I become to have self esteem to do Rs or having friends fearing that i might make mistakes again. I am still redeeming myself alone as i am not worthy of being loved or to be loved by .To 1%of who read this,i wish you won't go through loniness with sins.🍁