People can block others because of how much they got hurt from the person they blocked. Like they caused literal depression because of how bad they hurt them and so the person that is fearful avoidant blocks them (a dismissive avoidant in this example).
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in summary , we had an argument and I stop talking to her for 4months and later contacted her , we get talking and few days later she stop talking bcos she was hurt from the no contact , I get to see her and apologized and she accepted , we kissed and had a romance , few days later she started the slushy treatment , won’t call it reply to my text and then blocked me. I havnt contacted her again .. been 10days now
I mean she gives me the silent treatment , won’t call or reply to text , sometimes she answers her call and stop answering .she was just switching and then blocked me. During the time we saw after the no contact , she cried that she was really hurt which I apologize and she accepted . But I am confuse which she later blocked me after the romance , if she’s still hurt or she wants revenge
My problem is that she’s very conservative, she won’t talk to you even if something is bothering her . When you ask her about it . She still won’t talk . I can’t be reading her mind always
I am an FA. I had blocked a person because I felt devalued by them constantly, and I needed to stop going back to them seeking comfort. So I had blocked and deleted their number.
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But you don't love everyone. If someone blocks you, then they simply don't love you. If someone wants to move on from someone, then it's best to block them.
So what? All this blocking bs? We have to go through a rough relationship, then deal with the breakup, then deal with the blocking crap? Is this where the world is heading? My ex was like, don't make me block you. Like it was power or something. Humans are not disposable. Swipe left, swipe right, then block. Repeat the cycle again. It's not a game people.
Anxious--Avoidant relationships are a match made in hell. Not worth it. Not worth the fight to get your needs met, not worth doing all the emotional labor, not worth being disregarded and then, finally, discarded. Nope. Never again.
Exactly. I don't wanna work on fixing anything. If i sense even a wiff of avoidance from a date i will run for the hills. I am glad that i experienced it though because now i feel like i am a lot less likely to settle
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Feels like what I just went through. She ended up cheating on me with her abusive ex, coming forward about it and abruptly severing all contact. Hurts like hell.
Is it unfair to ask for answers? For someone to come into your life, for your hearts to connect, and then for them to just cut it off without warning - ISNT the other person owed answers? I know people go through a lot but the people they hurt are people too?????
Yeah he broke up with me and said “please respect this is the best decision for me and don’t contact me anymore” I kept trying to get answers and just TALK. Maybe on the phone and not through text?? And he blocked me. 🙂
Same. I don't mind so much the breaking up but he kept avoiding me and sticking his head in the sane. I jist wanted answers and a proper goodbye (he broke up with me 30 min before my shift at work started and he knew). He's avoidance and dismissiveness made me spiral..I took jabs at him on IG because he refused to talk to me about anything then blocked me
It's very frustrating when people can't show maturity to have a constructive conversation. Then again, it means they are not ready. And you deserve someone mature ❤
this is tremendous, absolutely tremendous advice. Thank you for this.... Dealt with an emotionally immature person who'd rather avoid and block rather than have an adult conversation.
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I got blocked with very little reason (after 3 years of a very hot and cold situation). It totally woke me up. I realised I deserve something better. I felt the exact same way you describe. It was unnecessary and in my opinion, weak and immature. He didn’t want to have a mature conversation or take responsibility. Totally resonate with everything you’ve said. I would never try to find an alternative way to reach out. He’s made things very clear!
That's true, when someone do that to u ,just accept that he/she does not want anything to do with you so no matter how much you them, if they don't want you leave them alone. Time heals what logic cannot, after a week or month you will be fine and you will meet someone whom will love you deeply and at some point God will make you pass paths with your ex and he/she will be hurt to see you with somebody else and never feel bad because he/she never consider your feelings when he/she hit that block button .A person will block you when he/she has alot of potential in his/her life....,
Ya I dunno. I think it’s situational. I was blocked on everything with little explanation when things were great between us. It just feels immature and quite honestly is pretty damaging.
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One more reason why someone might block you is if you hurt them badly and after a breakup they're trying to heal by going no contact but you impede their healing by sending them meaningless messages merely to selfishly hold onto the connection when you both know you don't want anything serious.
That’s very true. After making this video I learned more about why people block. I’ll probably loop around and make another video with a different angle on blocking.
@@KatyaMorozova if you just learn why man blocks, you better stop doing video and start experiencing the things you lecture about. you may mislead people
Just another thought to throw out there. My ex blocked me because I was the backup plan and they were dating someone new directly after they broke up with me. I found out through some mutual acquaintances. When they came back they tried to play dumb. Now they just have a relationship that they threw away and one that failed. Big L.
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One of the reasons I block as an FA is it helps me keep my distance because I will be tempted to reach out. But I know it’s best not too and blocking is a reminder for me that it’s over.
Thank you for the video. I was blocked. And then unblocked, and reached out to. And then blocked again for little reason. I can admit my fault in the situation. I fell into an anxious state, and rushed back in too quickly after being unblocked the first time. I realize that, and will not make that decision again. If this person does unblock me again, I will be slower to respond if I do respond. Still not sure that I’m okay with this treatment to be honest. I’ve always been very understanding of others’ circumstances, but I’m starting to realize that I don’t deserve that and would be concerned about it happening again. You are right; blocking someone shows a lack of regard towards them and don’t care to hear what they have to say, and that display of lack of regard is starting to be all that I need to see.
As an FA I personally disagree with the reasons given in this video. I have blocked an ex because I wasn’t moving on with him still in my life. Seeing messages from him, posts on social media, the temptation to reach out to him and try to reconcile when I knew he didn’t want that was really harmful to me and I was stuck so I had to cut him out completely to finally start the healing process. It’s not because I didn’t care about him at all, I just cared too much and couldn’t figure out how to move on. While I did block him, yes I do have a longing for him to reach out to me some other way, that’s just the side of me that craves love and intimacy but I don’t realistically expect him to do so and that wasn’t my intent in blocking him.
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@@drscience_xo I don’t have an obligation to stay in the life of someone who doesn’t want me anymore, if he couldn’t handle me leaving then he shouldn’t have ended our relationship. We are both in healthier places now so I’d say it was for the best.
the way I see it, their actions either promote or demote the relationship. Blocking you is a clear demotion and the ball is in their court if they decide to reach out. If and when they do, it's up to you to respond. The "why they blocked you" doesn't matter. They did. It happened to me and I shouldn't care why. She wants out of my life so I should open the door and let her be gone.
My FA blocked me. I started messaging from another number and he read all the messages. Then a few weeks later I called and he said he had been thinking of me and wanted to call. He unblocked me and then we met. My understanding of the FA is they need that space to breathe and then want to be welcomed back. Basically they need the other person to do the work. For me as an AP, I can do it until a certain point because it’s eventually exhausting. He’s blocked me again 4 months later because I tried to have serious discussions about the relationship and accountability for things he’s done. This time it’s peaceful and I’ll only communicate if he reaches out. No more over extending myself.
That’s the spot I’m in with my Avoidant ex. I’m tired of doing the heavy lifting in the relationship. She has to reach out to me. I’m tired her her childish bs blocking
I do not think that you need to redo this video as you suggested you perfectly explain why some people block, but you also included the very important part of respecting that boundary if you are blocked by not chasing the person going over their house, contacting them through other means not only to preserve the person who is blocked self-respect, but also to acknowledge that the person doesn’t want to talk to you, so I think you covered everything perfectly I recently had a girlfriend who blocked me 25 times over the most mundane reasons just for a disagreement but looking back the first time and she blocked me. I should’ve never talk to her again after being unblocked. Thank you so much for this video. I wish I had listen to family and friends and stop talking to her after I was block for the first time.
My FA blocks me every single time he breaks up with me, which happens like clockwork every week. As an AP, I tend to get activated and pursue him but I’m healing now so I’m not going to do that this time. I love him to death but damn. He’s got zero empathy for what he puts me through. “I want to marry you….. BLOCKED!!” It’s almost funny now, like a joke. Wait until he sees me doing fine without him 💁🏼♀️
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" I want to marry you.. BLOCKED" is exactly what happened to me also 😅. I'm not Ap not even sure what I am, tests say Secure with some Da so running after them didn't even cross my mind. Oh well I know now the joy of having dated an Fa, was like a free trip to Disneyland. Good memories tho and I leaned about all these attachment styles thingy. Hope you're doing well 🎉
I hope I get to the point of thinking it's funny! I definitely learned a lot. I'm not sorry that I was loving and forgiving. I will cherish the good feelings we shared, and keep a loving place for him in my heart. I hope he feels that way about me, too.
@@sunbeam9222 Thank you! Doing great! I spent this whole year healing and it has been transformative. My FA partner and I did 6 months of no contact and came back together willing to put in some serious work. This time, however, I am no longer attached to the outcome.
With all due respect, blocking is not always an immature move. My FA ex put me through a lot of ups and downs, pulling and pushing, and didn't really know why she was even ending things. I am Secure but definitely have Anxious tendencies when provoked, and boy did she. Either way, when ending things with me she begged me to not unfollow or block her because she wanted to be in my life in some way and she couldn't handle that and if you ask me, that's pretty unfair to think the break up has to be on her terms. I blocked her for that reason. You don't get to push me out of your life romantically and still find out about my life indirectly. No friends telling you about my life, no keeping tabs on if I am doing well or not. You don't get that privilege anymore if you don't want to find out directly from me. Sorry not sorry. I blocked for my own good. No more hot and cold games.
Hey Michael, I think that's an acceptable reason to block. I mentioned in the video that if an ex keeps badgering that this is one reason that people block - I see this as acceptable. If someone keeps pushing you to communicate in a way that fits for them, but doesn't fit for you, and it feels like they're not giving you a choice then I don't think blocking is immature and often necessary. That said, this video was intended for the "blockee" and not the "blocker". For the people who get blocked without reason.
Totally understand. I was just interested and watching all of your FA content. That does bring a question to my head as to what you think the FA thinks when they get blocked during no contact?
@@MikeyeffinGunz Thanks for asking! I would think they would feel angry, hurt and offended. Even if you pre-communicated that you would. If I think I have more to say on this topic I'll make a video. Let me know if you have any other topics you'd like me to cover.
@@KatyaMorozova I hate to make her feel like that but it's been rough on me and I'm only human. 6 week break up, 4 weeks no contact, 1 year LDR. Not sure if I even want to hear from her again or not truly. Thank you.
@@MikeyeffinGunz I get it. Sometimes taking care of yourself doesn't make the other person feel great but it's what ya gotta do. If you'd like some further support to navigate this difficult time don't hesitate to reach out. katya@katyamorozova.me
Omg please do not wait for this person to return... if they block you consider it a sign that they're telling you exactly who they are and leave permanently . To return to this person would be self torture .
I just feel dumb for the time I tried to find ways to contact my ex even after I was blocked. I didn't go insanely far and waited awhile but I do feel like an idiot. It's my own attachment issues. But like I had no sense of dignity and even looked desperate. Hopefully it can be overlooked as time goes by. Luckily I stopped when I did. But man I feel dumb. I do. And wierd. But it was just cause I was sad and wanted a solution right away.
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Very well said. I've been through this. I've been seeing one guy and we were just so overwhelmed by each other that I have literally asked him to block me as for me was too difficult to handle the situation that was going on. Two months, after we cooled our heads, he unblocked me and we reconciled, but soon after, realising that there is no progress in issues we had, we ended up same - I explode overwhelmed by emotion and asked him to stay away and he just simply blocked, doing favour to both of us. I'm in peace now and doing my things, despite he was the one who triggered my deepest emotions. The chemistry between us was unspeakable, the most beautiful I have ever experienced in my life. I am completely assured that he felt same but the way how life shaped both of us and the expectations we had were totally opposite and for us was definitely healthier to stay away from each other. If fairytales are real, he would be the men I would spend the rest of my life with. We have never ever fight or said anything bad or done anything bad to each other when we were physically together. However, the distance in between has just killed us. When my mind is not under control, my heart is absolutely full of pure love for him. It's sad how life breaks us in so many ways that, once something beautiful happens, we are just too broken and unable to handle that. Tons of love... And remember, it's not the end of the world... ❤️
What was the underlying issue? Because if you really love someone and share the same values and maybe even interests nearly everything else should be workable.... I had the same situation with an FA and we were a great match up until her fears were triggered (which is a general problem not specific to my personality)
Any advice on how to fix that? Because I had that problem with my ex and made it to a point where we were arguing over dumb stuff and then eventually blocked me
Hi, I'm not commenting on your actions as I'm no one to judge. However, since you're a woman, perhaps you could tell me if I was right in getting blocked. So, if you only have the time, could you please read the long description of the situation I wrote above (my handle is @susovan97, and the description starts with "Thank you Coach! I'll share my story..."). I'd appreciate it if you could please tell me if what I did rightfully deserved me to get blocked. It's always good to hear another person's POV. Thank you so much!
Just happened to me. I’m a AP dated a FA un exclusively for 8 months and exclusive for one week. Had sex and then pulled away and broke up with me. Told me I did nothing wrong and am being too nice and I’m not asking for too much and he just wants an open relationship. Then I left heartbroken and say he blocked me the next day. We had falling outs a few times due to difference in what we wanted but we always came back to eachother. I’m heartbroken that we aren’t coming back this time and am trying to understand why he did this. I gave him so much space and he even told me I did nothing wrong. I’m hoping this video is accurate because I went into a depressive state thinking he hates me. 😭
Great video. I was the anxious type and my ex was the avoidant type. Worst matchup known to man. I learned alot about myself, as well as my ex. Great post.
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It’s very difficult being a fearful avoidant. It’s like I become possessed when I feel rejected… or when I feel overwhelmed by someone talking about the future. I often treat people poorly to the point they treat me poorly. That’s when I allow myself to fall for them. I have wayyy too many people blocked because of this. It’s not fun at all. I hope you can have compassion for this attachment style. It’s due to extreme trauma… I’m working to heal with therapy… but it is still so hard.
Thank you for sharing your experience with this attachment style. It is very challenging to work through trauma. Every person with any attachment style deserves compassion. I'm glad your'e seeking support and taking care of yourself.
There is no compassion and you deserve none. You know you are sick and instead you allow people to get close and you got close as well. And then you think it's ok, NO IT'S NOT AND NEVER WILL BE!. you people have no idea what you put someone else through. Let me guess, you never bothered with therapy.
Yayy you made the video, thank you so much! My ex blocked me but she did reach out 60 days later on the mark. She was ready to have closure with me. The relationship is definitely over, but she is impulsive so I won't be surprised if she popped up again, but I'm not focused on that... I'm focusing on being the best person I can be, for the next chapter of my life.
My pleasure! I loved your questions and thought it was a great topic. I'm glad to hear that she reached back out... and hopefully, you got some closure out of it, as well. Fabulous! Love that you're focusing forward.
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Thank you for this video. Going through this now where my Avoidant Ex blocked me without explanation (after they ended the relationship, then they said they wanted to keep in touch). That hurt and messed with my head, which is possibly what they wanted to achieve by blocking 😒. So yes they definitely had no regard for my feelings.
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I had a breakup with my partner and I mentioned to her that it was hard seeing photos of her and the kids on social media. She suggested maybe we should not be friends on there. I thought about it for about a week and I think it was a sensible decision so I unfriended her. Within an half an hour, she sends a msg saying....not friends anymore hey? I said it would be good for both of us as she suggested it in the first place. Halfway through the conversation, she blocked me. I don’t understand her logic.
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My ex blicked me AND removed my review off her Airbnb page 😂 Was it maliciously done or her way of dealing with the pain of loosing me when i said friendship doesnt work for me
It’s too painful to have to see the person that you interacted with on social media. They’re the first that pops up when you want to send a message, then their name pops up on the search bar as history it’s torture
Why would they get in touch with you? Then, when you reply, they ignore you and then block you? This wasn't straight after. It was a long time down the line. Why can't someone just tell you they dont want to talk? I got blocked for apologising and explaining why I acted the way I did at that time.
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I blocked my ex on social media but not the phone. It a good way to heal after a break up for me. Its not no contact if you are tempted to check their page and they are checking yours. I would rather not know. If it hurts to get blocked after a break up then just ask yourself if maybe they did it for them selves to heal and have time to reflect without distractions
I was blocked after I did no contact and they begged for me back, after I told them I didn’t hate them and accepted their apology. Very mind boggling and hurts a little
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I used to block him when I felt rejected or there was a risk of rejection. Sometimes I got a reaction, which encouraged me to trigger his own fear of abandonment. Very toxic, I know. We're both sort of a mix between FA and DA. We've been back and forth for 3,5 years without ever being in an official relationship, but it's been as much of a relationship as he's been able to give. I need more obvious gestures to not be scared of being rejected or decieved. It's a bit of pride in it. I'm working on it and we're both seeing ourselves differently.
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Wow! You block him to get a reaction & trigger an emotional & psychological issue for him & then say he has given “as much as he can”?? This treatment of another human being is absolutely contemptuous!
@@assplundah Ok, first of all I said I used to, second I said my behaviour was toxic, I also said it was a trauma reaction and that I'm working on myself, which I still am, a year later. Don't judge without knowing the whole story.
I thinking blocking isn’t immature. My ex moved on quickly to the next guy and i still wasn’t completely over her. She was then posting new pictures with her new guy amid honestly, i didn’t want to see it. For my own mental health and form the ability to move on, I needed to cut her out completely by blocking her. This has really helped me move on.
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I have an ex that blocked me after the breakup and I actually did give chase for awhile. Then I was unblocked and reblocked several times even after I had walked off. So confused. There was a lot of love there and I can’t really understand why she keeps unblocking and reblocking when I’ve initiated that no contact. I felt maybe baiting me but idk... I’d love to reconnect but I don’t wanna be the chaser anymore.
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what if my FA dumper blocked me, after 8 months of completely no contact, because I deleted him first? He was stalking my whatsapp stories daily for 8 months and I had enough and deleted him. Later I realized that he blocked me.
Last night, I had another nightmare that my DA boyfriend had still Blocked me and I ( once again) was using someone else's phone to call him. It has been over a year. When will the bad dreams stop?
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As an FA in recovery, I know one reason I have blocked a love interest has been something that may sound odd to the outside perspective. I suspected him of being anxious preoccupied and didn't want to trigger him while I took time to reflect. I restricted access so he wouldn't see me online. To the outside it may seem odd but it made sense to me.
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@@NateDawg1027 I wanted to have a discussion to talk about what happened on my end and on his. I think FAs often deactivate quickly when triggered and you can't really tell if you need to.get away from the person or stay and many of us didn't learn conflict resolution as a child. So often after time away you may return if you are invested in the person in some way because you realise you were reacting and not being mindful. For me I wanted to discuss things and to rebuild trust before deciding anything else. Hope that helps.
@@neikaplay were you the one who broke up with him? And were you the one who also reached out to him? I have a similar scenario where my ex girl was FA and I was AA. I feel like her breaking up with me was needed because I did have some clarity on my end after having alone time. Can i reach out to you on my story with my ex so I can have a better understanding? Appreciate you and the reply 🙌🏽
@@NateDawg1027 Yes I separated things initially. I reached out after a year of realizing things I didn't before while going on my own healing journey. If your FA is unaware they might not reach out. I can't give any other advice because I am not an expert and still trying to work through my own avoidant tendencies. I can recommend Personal Development School on RUclips however. You can search for her videos on Fearful Avoidants and Anxious Preoccupied partners. I found her videos super helpful with advice. All the best.
@@KatyaMorozova Additionally, it became apparent after you said it... they don't want to face their actions or feelings. BTW I am the one that broke up with her and have done a lot of work on attachment styles. It has connected the relationship dots and improve my health and heart..
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If one blocks 🚫 you it's possible the final straw has arrived and you delivered it. Ostracism is a powerful statement of boundaries and self-respect; key is to mean it and move on. Silence is powerful ✨️ There are many ways to connect to the joy of life without being in an unfun relationship. The real red flags are people who create problems where they previously didn't exist. Life is too short to waste on trying to win. Peace ✌️ is victory every time.
WOW! Thankyou so much Katya 🙏 I have to say, its really hard to find true and honest advice on this subject...I love your honesty and I totally relate to everything you are saying ❤️ So thank you! Ive just been blocked after nearly 1 year apart from my Fearful Avoidant Ex because I didnt reply to an 'accidental' message from him. Its has been a very respectful compassionate break, with no contact for 6 months. Im so sad its gone this way 😢 I guess I wont be reaching out
Ive had ex's block me to pi$$ me off and get my attention. Even though I was completely no contact, they ended it and i walked away. One even admitted this is why she did it. This was on facebook btw. No idea if my phone was blocked bc i never tried to contact her and never will lol.
As an FA i completely DISAGREE with everything in this video. I was Dating a DA and he started deactivating, which triggered my own abandonment issues. Neither of us wanted to go into a push pull dynamic, and mutually agreed to end the relationship while we still had good memories and respect for one another. I let him know that I was going to respectfully block him, NOT TO BE SPITEFUL but to protect myself from A) Him reaching out to soon and possibly talking me into reunion when I was too vulnerable to make a centred decision, thus leading into the push pull dynamic both of us were trying to avoid in the first place. B) to stop me from seeing his profile and regretting the decision, and reaching out inappropriately. He respected my decision to do this. Since that time, I have done a lot of work on myself understanding my attachment style, and his. For the record, I unblocked him after about two weeks. i don't know whether he noticed or not, nor does it matter, if we cross paths again it likely that we will both be amicable towards one another as we ended on good terms. and mutually agreed it would be for the best, I fail to see the immaturity in this. The author of this video seemed to be seeing things through her own personal filter, and NOT from the FA's perspective at all!!! So to answer the question, if an FA blocks you, they are deactivating and protecting themselves in some way, it's likely that they need time to process, as FA's tend to be more complex than other attachment styles because they swing from AP to DA. If they have blocked you it's because they have swung into their DA and need space protecting themselves from you muddling their minds, while protecting themselves from themselves, knowing that at any time they could swing back into their AP and do something rash. Here's where it gets complex for the FA, part of them (DA) is telling themselves that they don't need this person, relationships are too complex, they are better off on their own etc, the other part of them (AP)is hoping that you will validate them, and prove that they are worth your love, by you finding another way to contact them. All this is very dependant on which end of the scale your own FA is and how severely their attachment style affects them. So can't give any advice here, but it may at least answer the question of what is your FA thinking. They will also be wondering about you, what you are thinking and whether you miss them,.
This makes perfect sense in my situation. I know he blocked me because he was extremely triggered. Even so, he crossed the line, and made me realise how I don’t want him any more. He needs to work on himself.
I just got discarded by my ex, he got deactivated strongly after his former therapy session, guess he got to vulnerable and triggered and then he led it out on me. I was in chock when he broke up by text and wasn’t able to reply in the way I would if I was regulated yet though I was respectful in my reply. Few days after I got blocked on SoMe and phone, he did though leave me a message in which he explained that he had to block me because he was afraid to reach out and that wouldn’t be fair to me or him since we have to move on. Our relationship has always been good besides from the many break ups - he always initiate them. Can I reach out for him on email to try to clear things out or shall I give him space and hope that he reach out again?
My FA blocked me whilst she was still living in my apartment and wouldn't communicate at all, in any way, for 6 months, before finally deciding to move out. She also blocked her own family members, who were trying to reach out to her.
I recently got blocked by a woman whom was a FA that I was recently talking to after I caught her and called her out as being manipulative and dishonest. Just depressed now after Forcing my foot down..
He blocked me just on what's app. Yesterday , 5 days after the break up, he called me and invited me for a coffee as friends. At the end of the date, I received a message and he acted a little jealous, then he told me he would have called me in the evening but he didn't nor yesterday nor today. Thanks for your videos 😌
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I think a lot of people, myself included, tend to personalize being blocked. A lot of the time, it’s not about you-it’s more about the other person. It’s not always the reasons that are mentioned in the video either.
Well, after hearing this and learning about the FA style, I dont think I'll respond if he reaches out. I really find this kind of behaviour a turn off. Part of me feels relief now.
I suspect my ex is a fearful avoidant.. and after a year of amazing time and great memories he shut down .. suddenly and I did call him out for icing me and not being mature enough to talk to me about the situation.. I pushed too far and over thought it and he blocked me ...I probably deserved it ... In the past I have blocked many people. If someone is being rude or crazy I block it
My ex broke up with me out of the blue around 10 days ago. I handled it well and didn’t yell or call her name or anything like that. I told her that I didn’t want this to happen but I wished her the best in life. I’ve respected her wishes and not tried to call, text, or post/like things on her social media accounts. The past week she’s systematically unfriended me from Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat. Within the the last 2 days she escalated to blocking me on all of those accounts. I’m still going to leave her alone but I really don’t understand why she’s treating me so badly. I never said a mean thing or abused her in anyway. This shit is so frustrating
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@@january2988 I’m sorry. It really sucks. She unblocked me after a few days and i reached out to her 2 weeks after we split to see how she was doing. We both realized that we didn’t want to break up and everything was a big misunderstanding. We’re working on things now and being more open with each other. Hopefully your ex will unblock you and reach out. I’m sorry you’re going through it
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I deleted them off my page & blocked /unblocked them. I was emotional. I did attempt to ask why via text & got ignored but I did cause issues well we both did. They have not blocked my # tho! But it’s ok 🤷🏼♀️
I recently got dumped by my FA exgirlfriend because I lied to her. We broke up and I went NC with her for roughly 14days. She suddenly unfollowed me on IG after posting a story about sports. She told me several days later when she called that she did this because of something very very VERY minor (seasoning ingredients). So I'm currently "unfollowed" but not blocked. What should I think about this matter?
My girlfriend of five months blocked me when I realised she was addicted to pills. Before that we got on great. It has now been several weeks. I'm hoping she's sorting herself out.
My ex blocked every where after a month and i never said anything to her i did not text or called her . We were together for 7 years and after she told me she wanted kids with me she suddenly blocked every one from my family and moved on with someone else . I was still unblocked on whatsapp so i told her good luck in your life with the person you are now. She told me dont say that sended me hearts and i told her your heart doesnt belong to me anymore you gave it away. She said no i did not gave my heart yet . 3 weeks later without texting her or calling her she blocked me also on whatsapp…. This was 6 months ago…. I still love and miss her and so confused because it came all of a sudden. Havent heard from her anymore
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I have blocked my DA more times than I can count. I’ve blocked and unblocked him in the same day due to my anxious ways. I’ve done it to not see him while I go no contact.
It's been such an emotional mess. 7 years everyday together. She escalated it to violence, then I had to ask her to leave. I understand those with BPD this is traumatic. She became a hostile and aggressive girl to me. She hardly communicated in the relationship, but after she sure could start fights and be mean. Her personality completely changed. She knew it I was having a nervous breakdown, but still blocked me. I am now left to fill in the answers. Lies, everything was just lies anyhow. I am broken.
Blocking isn't necessarily about being fearful. If you don't want to hear another word from someone again, then you should block them. The reason doesn't matter at all.
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My ex and I broke 3 months ago after being together for a year and a half. She’s seeing someone already…but she slowly has been blocking, deactivating, and unfriending. October 21st she deleted our pics then later that day just deleted her account, the day I happen to post a pic not wearing our ring (we broke up august 4th) then on Snapchat…on October 27th (my birthday) she saw that I was at her aunts house (her aunt called me and wish me happy birthday and got me a balloon and had food and cake for me) I was there for about an hour and never asked about her, but she saw me post it on snap and then blocked me. Today (November 8th) I posted a bouquet of flowers on my FB story and then she unfriended me….the last time I spoke to her was on her birthday on September 8th. I have been in no contact between all that…so there was just that one time I was there and never called or texted or made posts…I never even reached out when she did each one of those deactivations, block not Today with the unfriending. I don’t want to react….what’s your take on this? I’m so confused…I’m not even doing anything!
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My ex reached out to ask me if we could platonic friends. I rejected a non romantic friendship, and said she is welcome to reach out if she wants that at some point. She undfriended me everywhere and blocked me everywhere. I doesn't really bother me, because she has been manipulative during the relationship, and she was even more manipulative after no contact ended. Her blocking me just makes me realize that i don't really want her in my life. Not romantically either
I broke it off and he blocked me, it was a civil ending, but he blocked me on everything except one thing, and he's DM'img me, but I'm still blocked on others and he's done this A LOT in the last two years
From someone who blocks , there are many reasons :stalkers, creepy people...danger signs. Someone does not respect my NO , my decision, my life path, my boundaries, no respect in general. Something you can not fix and do not want to lose mental health trying to...Sometime very bad things happened and you only have bad feelings and can not stand to have any contact with them. It is very mature thing to put boundaries and keep them even when they do not want to, do the hard thing, cut contact and move on with your life...I do not see this as immature thing.
Ya I had the same problem with my ex I didn’t respect her enough but I never respected myself in the relationship always put her above me and didn’t care about my feelings. Any advice on how to show change to her considering I’m blocked?
@@BigFootCurt Once you are blocked, for normal people, not the narcissist ones, normal mental state.... Nothing you can do, best thing is to learn from it, be better with the next one. By the point someone normal blocks you, they do not even want change, care for it. That is the moment they do not want you, emotions are dead and gone. They moved on. Best advice is for you to move on, once you are healed, worked on yourself, maybe next time it will be better with someone new. If someone just removed you from social media and not blocked, you can fix it, but that is hard work. But once blocked, just move on.
@@HodajuciParadokswhat about if my ex bf blocked me in May and then unblocked me and texted me in September? We broke up in February but we continued talking/I continued texting until he blocked me in May. He unblocked/texted a month ago. We had a nice/funny/friendly texting conversation and I asked him if he wanted to hangout/catch up. He said “I guess I’m just not ready to hangout”. We haven’t texted again since. What does it mean if they unblock and text but don’t actually want to meet up?
@@Lena-kl9eq He is playing with you, mind games. Block should be only use if you are in danger, not respected and cutting all contact FOR EVER. Look for healthy relationships, but it is ultimately your life your choice.
I block or unfollow when I’m too hurt to constantly see someone’s pfp, name in my phone. It’s just too painful. Out of side, out of mind (that’s the ideas anyways)
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My FA Ex unfriended/unfollowed me 1.5 months after our breakup. We had been in complete no contact for 5 months when she blocked me on social media completely. Confusing, but I guess its helpful for moving on.
I was blocked after I pointed out how amazing they were but that they needed to work on healing their trauma. They wrote a really polite letter saying I had gone over a boundary and not to write anymore. Then I realized I was blocked on social media. This person has very fresh trauma from their divorce of a 20 year marriage, but they have other issues from childhood from narcissistic parents and admitted they have abandonment issues and low-self esteem. They blamed their ex for all the problems saying they had low emotional intelligence and were bad at communicating but I am wondering it that was more of a two way street now and they are feeling shame about the discard? She pushed me away after I suggested being a bit more serious, saying she didn't want to then imediately started stonewalling to where I was completely confused because there had been such powerful chemistry and then suddenly I was discarded completely. Yes, I reached out a few times trying to get answers just like you mentioned. The way the letter was written saying I went over a boundary came across as fearful and just an excuse to push away any kind of intimacy with me as it was probably stressing her out in her deactivation and maybe like throwing gas on the shame fire she may be feeling inside for the discard. I'm wondering if their trauma is just too fresh to handle such a strong romantic connection? I haven't reached out since they asked me to stop but have considered just sending a short birthday message in like six months just saying something like "Happy Birthday, I hope life is treating you well and you are happy and healthy." Would you advise to not even do something like that months later? One other thing. She continues to read my letters every few days which have tracking? This makes it hard for me to move on so I stopped the tracking yesterday.
My ex broke up with me a couple of months back saying I deserved better without a proper goodbye. Going through such a bad mental trauma especially after I heard that she was contacting someone else. And when I told her about what I heard, she blocked me everywhere.
@@classydyme113086 I Know, and that's a good sign, even though I feel bad for her. She is a Fearful avoident and I'm really starting to understand her point of view. I have hope for us
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Is sending a postcard to the FA who blocked me on IG from travel with greetings ok or is it also too much? I travel a lot. We're still friends on Facebook even though she never communicated with me there.
In my situation, since I was doing NC for over 3 weeks post breakup, didn't reach out or beg, I think she blocked me to try and get a reaction from me.
My avoidant girl thinks I flirt too much when out even though we are in an open thing and she never used to be bothered by it. Then she go upset when I tried to sort out a misunderstanding with a friend. She screamed at me over the phone then blocked me. Day 9 of no contact. Friends say move on but I love her too much
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In my experience i had a situationship with a FA for a Year, and it was like a boomerang! I know that she has a conflict between her heart and her head. But she hurt me a lot. So i told her i don't ever come and talk to again if u don't want this with me. If u came and talked with me i will know that u want this, but if its not than i don't wanna know u again. Even that am the one who break it off i didn't block her, but 2 days later i found her blocked me from everything. And i keep wondering would she ever comeback or thats it?
She dumped and blocked me after a fight then days later on a friday when i normally go out ahe unblocked me ! I sent her a nice message then she ignored me ?? So when i get in after bring ignored in the evening i sent her a shitty message and she said , you asked me to unblock you so i unblocked you , doesnt mean i want to talk tp you..' 'leave my inbox alone and leave me alone..' What do you think ?? Any messages i left her after on messanger shes not even read ?
Could you comment on my situation, so I was dating this girl for 10 months we lived 2 hours apart and I'd see her every other weekend and 2 days in the week, she broke up with me 19 October and I went I to nc for a week then I reached out then went I to nc for 2 3 weeks then I completely lost it found out she was active on dating site and posted pictures of us on her fb and she blocked me on everything I tried to call her and she said she was done that's it and I've sent the odd message via online source to her but now gone into nc is there any chance
Hi Katya, what if a FA blocks your phone but leaves Instagram still open, and communicates minimally, but still does? The block happened 1 month after breakup and around the dec holidays. Why one and not all? Im glad because it still gives me a line of communication...
@@edwinly382 They leave one channel open, often something less serious like IG dm... its still a way to contact you if they need/want. And a way for you to as well. They block the rest of Social & MESSAGE platforms as to calm there nerves so-to-say and it makes it less likely they will get a message from iMessage, WhatsApp, etc and send there emotions spinning. Having one line of communication is good, however.
I have already contacted her twice via Facebook because I have heard that she has contacted her in the past, but I have not heard anything from her, she does not respond
I understand that there are people who rightfully deserves to be blocked, however, I'm someone who is extremely self aware. A freind has blocked me on/off/on repeatedly for reasons unknown. It's a very bizarre and hurtful experience. I'm questioning my own sanity as to why a last resort is done as a first resort....😮😢 -I wasn’t harassing them. I don’t get it.
honest ppl are saying “if she blocks you move on” in the comments.…. you have to still consider if that person means a lot to you, or maybe they are not in the emotional state to deal with you right now, yea meet other women but what happens if she still comes back and feeling are still there, and guess what you just added another person
I unfriend him because he ghosted me then he blocked me. I did not chase him when he ghosted me but I sent a break up message is very casual letting him know that i am not going to force things between us.
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People can block others because of how much they got hurt from the person they blocked. Like they caused literal depression because of how bad they hurt them and so the person that is fearful avoidant blocks them (a dismissive avoidant in this example).
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in summary , we had an argument and I stop talking to her for 4months and later contacted her , we get talking and few days later she stop talking bcos she was hurt from the no contact , I get to see her and apologized and she accepted , we kissed and had a romance , few days later she started the slushy treatment , won’t call it reply to my text and then blocked me. I havnt contacted her again .. been 10days now
I mean she gives me the silent treatment , won’t call or reply to text , sometimes she answers her call and stop answering .she was just switching and then blocked me. During the time we saw after the no contact , she cried that she was really hurt which I apologize and she accepted . But I am confuse which she later blocked me after the romance , if she’s still hurt or she wants revenge
My problem is that she’s very conservative, she won’t talk to you even if something is bothering her . When you ask her about it . She still won’t talk . I can’t be reading her mind always
Being blocked by who I thought was the most amazing human on earth, has helped me NOT TO LOVE HIM
Wow I can feel that
I still can't understand in a world full of hate someone would make you unlove them.
I was ghosted by a partner of two years. So I understand. This ended up making me really dislike her.
I totally get this
I am an FA. I had blocked a person because I felt devalued by them constantly, and I needed to stop going back to them seeking comfort. So I had blocked and deleted their number.
only a coward blocks without facing reality like a matured person. period
I agree, it is NOT NORMAL to block someone you “love”.
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Who said they love you
It is very normal.This mean the person is tire of being used.Block them and removed the number.You are giving bad advice.baddddddddd advice
But you don't love everyone. If someone blocks you, then they simply don't love you. If someone wants to move on from someone, then it's best to block them.
So what? All this blocking bs? We have to go through a rough relationship, then deal with the breakup, then deal with the blocking crap? Is this where the world is heading?
My ex was like, don't make me block you. Like it was power or something.
Humans are not disposable. Swipe left, swipe right, then block.
Repeat the cycle again. It's not a game people.
Blocking is ONLY as a last resort. You NEVER do it lightly to make someone feel like they never existed to you. NEVER.
You obv never met my ex girlfriend then ? She was always blocking after the slightest of fights.
Anxious--Avoidant relationships are a match made in hell. Not worth it. Not worth the fight to get your needs met, not worth doing all the emotional labor, not worth being disregarded and then, finally, discarded. Nope. Never again.
Exactly. I don't wanna work on fixing anything. If i sense even a wiff of avoidance from a date i will run for the hills. I am glad that i experienced it though because now i feel like i am a lot less likely to settle
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Feels like what I just went through. She ended up cheating on me with her abusive ex, coming forward about it and abruptly severing all contact. Hurts like hell.
Is it unfair to ask for answers? For someone to come into your life, for your hearts to connect, and then for them to just cut it off without warning - ISNT the other person owed answers? I know people go through a lot but the people they hurt are people too?????
She said “I don’t owe you anything” and then blocked me :)
@@ritwikkapur3377what goes around comes around.
Yeah he broke up with me and said “please respect this is the best decision for me and don’t contact me anymore” I kept trying to get answers and just TALK. Maybe on the phone and not through text?? And he blocked me. 🙂
Same. I don't mind so much the breaking up but he kept avoiding me and sticking his head in the sane. I jist wanted answers and a proper goodbye (he broke up with me 30 min before my shift at work started and he knew). He's avoidance and dismissiveness made me spiral..I took jabs at him on IG because he refused to talk to me about anything then blocked me
It's very frustrating when people can't show maturity to have a constructive conversation. Then again, it means they are not ready. And you deserve someone mature ❤
this is tremendous, absolutely tremendous advice. Thank you for this.... Dealt with an emotionally immature person who'd rather avoid and block rather than have an adult conversation.
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I got blocked with very little reason (after 3 years of a very hot and cold situation). It totally woke me up. I realised I deserve something better. I felt the exact same way you describe. It was unnecessary and in my opinion, weak and immature. He didn’t want to have a mature conversation or take responsibility. Totally resonate with everything you’ve said. I would never try to find an alternative way to reach out. He’s made things very clear!
That's true, when someone do that to u ,just accept that he/she does not want anything to do with you so no matter how much you them, if they don't want you leave them alone. Time heals what logic cannot, after a week or month you will be fine and you will meet someone whom will love you deeply and at some point God will make you pass paths with your ex and he/she will be hurt to see you with somebody else and never feel bad because he/she never consider your feelings when he/she hit that block button .A person will block you when he/she has alot of potential in his/her life....,
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@@paulabudak7892 Still blocked, but that's okay!
Ya I dunno. I think it’s situational. I was blocked on everything with little explanation when things were great between us. It just feels immature and quite honestly is pretty damaging.
What ended up happening? How are you feeling now?
What happened???
Very, very damaging. I agree
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One more reason why someone might block you is if you hurt them badly and after a breakup they're trying to heal by going no contact but you impede their healing by sending them meaningless messages merely to selfishly hold onto the connection when you both know you don't want anything serious.
That’s very true. After making this video I learned more about why people block. I’ll probably loop around and make another video with a different angle on blocking.
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@@KatyaMorozova if you just learn why man blocks, you better stop doing video and start experiencing the things you lecture about. you may mislead people
My friends, NEVER become the people who hurt you. If they blocked you, do what you can to make sure you don’t do it to someone else
sometimes, it's not us, it's them
It’s also called narcissistic discard.
Those are two completely different dynamics.
@@nappyfries They are definitely step-siblings of each other.
@@PB-md3nt not at all.
@@nappyfries Oh trust me, it definitely is. Their paths cross in so many different ways.
@@PB-md3nt I don’t think you understand either to be honest if you truly think that. Just like this creator doesn’t either.
Just another thought to throw out there. My ex blocked me because I was the backup plan and they were dating someone new directly after they broke up with me. I found out through some mutual acquaintances. When they came back they tried to play dumb. Now they just have a relationship that they threw away and one that failed. Big L.
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One of the reasons I block as an FA is it helps me keep my distance because I will be tempted to reach out. But I know it’s best not too and blocking is a reminder for me that it’s over.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Pretty sure this is why my ex does it
Thank you for the video.
I was blocked. And then unblocked, and reached out to. And then blocked again for little reason. I can admit my fault in the situation. I fell into an anxious state, and rushed back in too quickly after being unblocked the first time. I realize that, and will not make that decision again. If this person does unblock me again, I will be slower to respond if I do respond. Still not sure that I’m okay with this treatment to be honest. I’ve always been very understanding of others’ circumstances, but I’m starting to realize that I don’t deserve that and would be concerned about it happening again. You are right; blocking someone shows a lack of regard towards them and don’t care to hear what they have to say, and that display of lack of regard is starting to be all that I need to see.
If you spot them unblocking then I would advise you block them permanently because they’re toying with you
As an FA I personally disagree with the reasons given in this video. I have blocked an ex because I wasn’t moving on with him still in my life. Seeing messages from him, posts on social media, the temptation to reach out to him and try to reconcile when I knew he didn’t want that was really harmful to me and I was stuck so I had to cut him out completely to finally start the healing process. It’s not because I didn’t care about him at all, I just cared too much and couldn’t figure out how to move on. While I did block him, yes I do have a longing for him to reach out to me some other way, that’s just the side of me that craves love and intimacy but I don’t realistically expect him to do so and that wasn’t my intent in blocking him.
@@storrmarie5585 thank you but I don’t want my ex back
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Thats still immature
You don't even know what it does to the other person
@@drscience_xo I don’t have an obligation to stay in the life of someone who doesn’t want me anymore, if he couldn’t handle me leaving then he shouldn’t have ended our relationship. We are both in healthier places now so I’d say it was for the best.
the way I see it, their actions either promote or demote the relationship. Blocking you is a clear demotion and the ball is in their court if they decide to reach out. If and when they do, it's up to you to respond. The "why they blocked you" doesn't matter. They did. It happened to me and I shouldn't care why. She wants out of my life so I should open the door and let her be gone.
Blocking for some people is just to get over someone
My FA blocked me. I started messaging from another number and he read all the messages. Then a few weeks later I called and he said he had been thinking of me and wanted to call. He unblocked me and then we met. My understanding of the FA is they need that space to breathe and then want to be welcomed back. Basically they need the other person to do the work. For me as an AP, I can do it until a certain point because it’s eventually exhausting. He’s blocked me again 4 months later because I tried to have serious discussions about the relationship and accountability for things he’s done. This time it’s peaceful and I’ll only communicate if he reaches out. No more over extending myself.
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That’s the spot I’m in with my Avoidant ex. I’m tired of doing the heavy lifting in the relationship. She has to reach out to me. I’m tired her her childish bs blocking
I do not think that you need to redo this video as you suggested you perfectly explain why some people block, but you also included the very important part of respecting that boundary if you are blocked by not chasing the person going over their house, contacting them through other means not only to preserve the person who is blocked self-respect, but also to acknowledge that the person doesn’t want to talk to you, so I think you covered everything perfectly I recently had a girlfriend who blocked me 25 times over the most mundane reasons just for a disagreement but looking back the first time and she blocked me. I should’ve never talk to her again after being unblocked. Thank you so much for this video. I wish I had listen to family and friends and stop talking to her after I was block for the first time.
My FA blocks me every single time he breaks up with me, which happens like clockwork every week. As an AP, I tend to get activated and pursue him but I’m healing now so I’m not going to do that this time. I love him to death but damn. He’s got zero empathy for what he puts me through. “I want to marry you….. BLOCKED!!” It’s almost funny now, like a joke. Wait until he sees me doing fine without him 💁🏼♀️
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" I want to marry you.. BLOCKED" is exactly what happened to me also 😅. I'm not Ap not even sure what I am, tests say Secure with some Da so running after them didn't even cross my mind. Oh well I know now the joy of having dated an Fa, was like a free trip to Disneyland. Good memories tho and I leaned about all these attachment styles thingy. Hope you're doing well 🎉
I hope I get to the point of thinking it's funny! I definitely learned a lot. I'm not sorry that I was loving and forgiving. I will cherish the good feelings we shared, and keep a loving place for him in my heart. I hope he feels that way about me, too.
@@sunbeam9222 Thank you! Doing great! I spent this whole year healing and it has been transformative. My FA partner and I did 6 months of no contact and came back together willing to put in some serious work. This time, however, I am no longer attached to the outcome.
With all due respect, blocking is not always an immature move. My FA ex put me through a lot of ups and downs, pulling and pushing, and didn't really know why she was even ending things. I am Secure but definitely have Anxious tendencies when provoked, and boy did she. Either way, when ending things with me she begged me to not unfollow or block her because she wanted to be in my life in some way and she couldn't handle that and if you ask me, that's pretty unfair to think the break up has to be on her terms. I blocked her for that reason. You don't get to push me out of your life romantically and still find out about my life indirectly. No friends telling you about my life, no keeping tabs on if I am doing well or not. You don't get that privilege anymore if you don't want to find out directly from me. Sorry not sorry. I blocked for my own good. No more hot and cold games.
Hey Michael, I think that's an acceptable reason to block. I mentioned in the video that if an ex keeps badgering that this is one reason that people block - I see this as acceptable. If someone keeps pushing you to communicate in a way that fits for them, but doesn't fit for you, and it feels like they're not giving you a choice then I don't think blocking is immature and often necessary. That said, this video was intended for the "blockee" and not the "blocker". For the people who get blocked without reason.
Totally understand. I was just interested and watching all of your FA content. That does bring a question to my head as to what you think the FA thinks when they get blocked during no contact?
@@MikeyeffinGunz Thanks for asking! I would think they would feel angry, hurt and offended. Even if you pre-communicated that you would. If I think I have more to say on this topic I'll make a video. Let me know if you have any other topics you'd like me to cover.
@@KatyaMorozova I hate to make her feel like that but it's been rough on me and I'm only human. 6 week break up, 4 weeks no contact, 1 year LDR. Not sure if I even want to hear from her again or not truly. Thank you.
@@MikeyeffinGunz I get it. Sometimes taking care of yourself doesn't make the other person feel great but it's what ya gotta do.
If you'd like some further support to navigate this difficult time don't hesitate to reach out. katya@katyamorozova.me
She said I was immature yet she broke up with me over text and blocked me after an argument
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Omg please do not wait for this person to return... if they block you consider it a sign that they're telling you exactly who they are and leave permanently . To return to this person would be self torture .
I just feel dumb for the time I tried to find ways to contact my ex even after I was blocked. I didn't go insanely far and waited awhile but I do feel like an idiot. It's my own attachment issues. But like I had no sense of dignity and even looked desperate. Hopefully it can be overlooked as time goes by. Luckily I stopped when I did. But man I feel dumb. I do. And wierd. But it was just cause I was sad and wanted a solution right away.
Dont beat yourself up. It happens to a lot of us.
just make sure you give them the break up and give yourself the space to heal and deal with situations in life that offer no closure.
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Update? How did ur situation go after u tried to get around the block?
Very well said.
I've been through this. I've been seeing one guy and we were just so overwhelmed by each other that I have literally asked him to block me as for me was too difficult to handle the situation that was going on. Two months, after we cooled our heads, he unblocked me and we reconciled, but soon after, realising that there is no progress in issues we had, we ended up same - I explode overwhelmed by emotion and asked him to stay away and he just simply blocked, doing favour to both of us.
I'm in peace now and doing my things, despite he was the one who triggered my deepest emotions.
The chemistry between us was unspeakable, the most beautiful I have ever experienced in my life. I am completely assured that he felt same but the way how life shaped both of us and the expectations we had were totally opposite and for us was definitely healthier to stay away from each other. If fairytales are real, he would be the men I would spend the rest of my life with.
We have never ever fight or said anything bad or done anything bad to each other when we were physically together. However, the distance in between has just killed us.
When my mind is not under control, my heart is absolutely full of pure love for him. It's sad how life breaks us in so many ways that, once something beautiful happens, we are just too broken and unable to handle that. Tons of love... And remember, it's not the end of the world... ❤️
I heavily relate to this. Experiencing similar now.😢
What was the underlying issue?
Because if you really love someone and share the same values and maybe even interests nearly everything else should be workable....
I had the same situation with an FA and we were a great match up until her fears were triggered (which is a general problem not specific to my personality)
I blocked my ex because I found his communication really confusing and triggering. We had had an on off relationship and I needed it to stop.
Any advice on how to fix that? Because I had that problem with my ex and made it to a point where we were arguing over dumb stuff and then eventually blocked me
Hi, I'm not commenting on your actions as I'm no one to judge. However, since you're a woman, perhaps you could tell me if I was right in getting blocked. So, if you only have the time, could you please read the long description of the situation I wrote above (my handle is @susovan97, and the description starts with "Thank you Coach! I'll share my story..."). I'd appreciate it if you could please tell me if what I did rightfully deserved me to get blocked. It's always good to hear another person's POV. Thank you so much!
This has just made me feel 10 times worse
Just happened to me. I’m a AP dated a FA un exclusively for 8 months and exclusive for one week. Had sex and then pulled away and broke up with me. Told me I did nothing wrong and am being too nice and I’m not asking for too much and he just wants an open relationship. Then I left heartbroken and say he blocked me the next day. We had falling outs a few times due to difference in what we wanted but we always came back to eachother. I’m heartbroken that we aren’t coming back this time and am trying to understand why he did this. I gave him so much space and he even told me I did nothing wrong. I’m hoping this video is accurate because I went into a depressive state thinking he hates me. 😭
@jessied9160 any update? Am in. Similar situation
Great video. I was the anxious type and my ex was the avoidant type. Worst matchup known to man. I learned alot about myself, as well as my ex. Great post.
Thank you! I'm glad this video gave you pause for self reflection.
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It’s very difficult being a fearful avoidant. It’s like I become possessed when I feel rejected… or when I feel overwhelmed by someone talking about the future.
I often treat people poorly to the point they treat me poorly. That’s when I allow myself to fall for them.
I have wayyy too many people blocked because of this.
It’s not fun at all. I hope you can have compassion for this attachment style. It’s due to extreme trauma… I’m working to heal with therapy… but it is still so hard.
Thank you for sharing your experience with this attachment style. It is very challenging to work through trauma. Every person with any attachment style deserves compassion. I'm glad your'e seeking support and taking care of yourself.
Do you have a habit of overthinking has well?
There is no compassion and you deserve none. You know you are sick and instead you allow people to get close and you got close as well. And then you think it's ok, NO IT'S NOT AND NEVER WILL BE!.
you people have no idea what you put someone else through.
Let me guess, you never bothered with therapy.
Yayy you made the video, thank you so much! My ex blocked me but she did reach out 60 days later on the mark. She was ready to have closure with me. The relationship is definitely over, but she is impulsive so I won't be surprised if she popped up again, but I'm not focused on that... I'm focusing on being the best person I can be, for the next chapter of my life.
My pleasure! I loved your questions and thought it was a great topic. I'm glad to hear that she reached back out... and hopefully, you got some closure out of it, as well.
Fabulous! Love that you're focusing forward.
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Thank you for this video. Going through this now where my Avoidant Ex blocked me without explanation (after they ended the relationship, then they said they wanted to keep in touch). That hurt and messed with my head, which is possibly what they wanted to achieve by blocking 😒. So yes they definitely had no regard for my feelings.
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I had a breakup with my partner and I mentioned to her that it was hard seeing photos of her and the kids on social media. She suggested maybe we should not be friends on there. I thought about it for about a week and I think it was a sensible decision so I unfriended her. Within an half an hour, she sends a msg saying....not friends anymore hey?
I said it would be good for both of us as she suggested it in the first place. Halfway through the conversation, she blocked me.
I don’t understand her logic.
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My ex blicked me AND removed my review off her Airbnb page 😂
Was it maliciously done or her way of dealing with the pain of loosing me when i said friendship doesnt work for me
It’s too painful to have to see the person that you interacted with on social media. They’re the first that pops up when you want to send a message, then their name pops up on the search bar as history it’s torture
Why would they get in touch with you? Then, when you reply, they ignore you and then block you? This wasn't straight after. It was a long time down the line. Why can't someone just tell you they dont want to talk? I got blocked for apologising and explaining why I acted the way I did at that time.
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I blocked my ex on social media but not the phone. It a good way to heal after a break up for me. Its not no contact if you are tempted to check their page and they are checking yours. I would rather not know. If it hurts to get blocked after a break up then just ask yourself if maybe they did it for them selves to heal and have time to reflect without distractions
I was blocked after I did no contact and they begged for me back, after I told them I didn’t hate them and accepted their apology. Very mind boggling and hurts a little
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I used to block him when I felt rejected or there was a risk of rejection. Sometimes I got a reaction, which encouraged me to trigger his own fear of abandonment. Very toxic, I know. We're both sort of a mix between FA and DA. We've been back and forth for 3,5 years without ever being in an official relationship, but it's been as much of a relationship as he's been able to give. I need more obvious gestures to not be scared of being rejected or decieved. It's a bit of pride in it. I'm working on it and we're both seeing ourselves differently.
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Wow! You block him to get a reaction & trigger an emotional & psychological issue for him & then say he has given “as much as he can”?? This treatment of another human being is absolutely contemptuous!
@@assplundah Ok, first of all I said I used to, second I said my behaviour was toxic, I also said it was a trauma reaction and that I'm working on myself, which I still am, a year later. Don't judge without knowing the whole story.
I thinking blocking isn’t immature. My ex moved on quickly to the next guy and i still wasn’t completely over her. She was then posting new pictures with her new guy amid honestly, i didn’t want to see it. For my own mental health and form the ability to move on, I needed to cut her out completely by blocking her. This has really helped me move on.
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I have an ex that blocked me after the breakup and I actually did give chase for awhile. Then I was unblocked and reblocked several times even after I had walked off. So confused. There was a lot of love there and I can’t really understand why she keeps unblocking and reblocking when I’ve initiated that no contact. I felt maybe baiting me but idk... I’d love to reconnect but I don’t wanna be the chaser anymore.
I can totally see that being extremely confusing and frustrating. Thanks for commenting!
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what if my FA dumper blocked me, after 8 months of completely no contact, because I deleted him first? He was stalking my whatsapp stories daily for 8 months and I had enough and deleted him. Later I realized that he blocked me.
Last night, I had another nightmare that my DA boyfriend had still Blocked me and I ( once again) was using someone else's phone to call him. It has been over a year. When will the bad dreams stop?
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As an FA in recovery, I know one reason I have blocked a love interest has been something that may sound odd to the outside perspective. I suspected him of being anxious preoccupied and didn't want to trigger him while I took time to reflect. I restricted access so he wouldn't see me online. To the outside it may seem odd but it made sense to me.
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Did you want him back after reflecting?
@@NateDawg1027 I wanted to have a discussion to talk about what happened on my end and on his. I think FAs often deactivate quickly when triggered and you can't really tell if you need to.get away from the person or stay and many of us didn't learn conflict resolution as a child. So often after time away you may return if you are invested in the person in some way because you realise you were reacting and not being mindful. For me I wanted to discuss things and to rebuild trust before deciding anything else. Hope that helps.
@@neikaplay were you the one who broke up with him? And were you the one who also reached out to him? I have a similar scenario where my ex girl was FA and I was AA. I feel like her breaking up with me was needed because I did have some clarity on my end after having alone time. Can i reach out to you on my story with my ex so I can have a better understanding? Appreciate you and the reply 🙌🏽
@@NateDawg1027 Yes I separated things initially. I reached out after a year of realizing things I didn't before while going on my own healing journey. If your FA is unaware they might not reach out. I can't give any other advice because I am not an expert and still trying to work through my own avoidant tendencies. I can recommend Personal Development School on RUclips however. You can search for her videos on Fearful Avoidants and Anxious Preoccupied partners. I found her videos super helpful with advice. All the best.
The end was the most helpful for healing. Focus on yourself and not the situation.
Thanks for letting me know which part was most helpful!
@@KatyaMorozova Additionally, it became apparent after you said it... they don't want to face their actions or feelings. BTW I am the one that broke up with her and have done a lot of work on attachment styles. It has connected the relationship dots and improve my health and heart..
got it, maturity level preschool , yes it sucks and shows no regard , yes and even saying sorry honestly blew in my face ....
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Best video on the topic I’ve ever heard. Thank you so much for this.
Thanks a bunch! Glad it resonated with you.
If one blocks 🚫 you it's possible the final straw has arrived and you delivered it.
Ostracism is a powerful statement of boundaries and self-respect; key is to mean it and move on.
Silence is powerful ✨️
There are many ways to connect to the joy of life without being in an unfun relationship.
The real red flags are people who create problems where they previously didn't exist.
Life is too short to waste on trying to win. Peace ✌️ is victory every time.
WOW! Thankyou so much Katya 🙏
I have to say, its really hard to find true and honest advice on this subject...I love your honesty and I totally relate to everything you are saying ❤️
So thank you!
Ive just been blocked after nearly 1 year apart from my Fearful Avoidant Ex because I didnt reply to an 'accidental' message from him.
Its has been a very respectful compassionate break, with no contact for 6 months. Im so sad its gone this way 😢 I guess I wont be reaching out
You’re most welcome! I’m glad you found the video helpful. 🙏
Ive had ex's block me to pi$$ me off and get my attention. Even though I was completely no contact, they ended it and i walked away. One even admitted this is why she did it. This was on facebook btw. No idea if my phone was blocked bc i never tried to contact her and never will lol.
Hi Katya, I need to say thank you. I’m unsure if I made the right or wrong choice, but I blocked him back because I can’t handle it anymore.
As an FA i completely DISAGREE with everything in this video. I was Dating a DA and he started deactivating, which triggered my own abandonment issues. Neither of us wanted to go into a push pull dynamic, and mutually agreed to end the relationship while we still had good memories and respect for one another. I let him know that I was going to respectfully block him, NOT TO BE SPITEFUL but to protect myself from A) Him reaching out to soon and possibly talking me into reunion when I was too vulnerable to make a centred decision, thus leading into the push pull dynamic both of us were trying to avoid in the first place. B) to stop me from seeing his profile and regretting the decision, and reaching out inappropriately. He respected my decision to do this. Since that time, I have done a lot of work on myself understanding my attachment style, and his. For the record, I unblocked him after about two weeks. i don't know whether he noticed or not, nor does it matter, if we cross paths again it likely that we will both be amicable towards one another as we ended on good terms. and mutually agreed it would be for the best, I fail to see the immaturity in this. The author of this video seemed to be seeing things through her own personal filter, and NOT from the FA's perspective at all!!! So to answer the question, if an FA blocks you, they are deactivating and protecting themselves in some way, it's likely that they need time to process, as FA's tend to be more complex than other attachment styles because they swing from AP to DA. If they have blocked you it's because they have swung into their DA and need space protecting themselves from you muddling their minds, while protecting themselves from themselves, knowing that at any time they could swing back into their AP and do something rash. Here's where it gets complex for the FA, part of them (DA) is telling themselves that they don't need this person, relationships are too complex, they are better off on their own etc, the other part of them (AP)is hoping that you will validate them, and prove that they are worth your love, by you finding another way to contact them. All this is very dependant on which end of the scale your own FA is and how severely their attachment style affects them. So can't give any advice here, but it may at least answer the question of what is your FA thinking. They will also be wondering about you, what you are thinking and whether you miss them,.
This makes perfect sense in my situation. I know he blocked me because he was extremely triggered. Even so, he crossed the line, and made me realise how I don’t want him any more. He needs to work on himself.
@@teejay8258any updates on the situation? I'm in the same place as you
I just got discarded by my ex, he got deactivated strongly after his former therapy session, guess he got to vulnerable and triggered and then he led it out on me. I was in chock when he broke up by text and wasn’t able to reply in the way I would if I was regulated yet though I was respectful in my reply. Few days after I got blocked on SoMe and phone, he did though leave me a message in which he explained that he had to block me because he was afraid to reach out and that wouldn’t be fair to me or him since we have to move on. Our relationship has always been good besides from the many break ups - he always initiate them. Can I reach out for him on email to try to clear things out or shall I give him space and hope that he reach out again?
My FA blocked me whilst she was still living in my apartment and wouldn't communicate at all, in any way, for 6 months, before finally deciding to move out. She also blocked her own family members, who were trying to reach out to her.
I recently got blocked by a woman whom was a FA that I was recently talking to after I caught her and called her out as being manipulative and dishonest. Just depressed now after Forcing my foot down..
Katya, I’m going to be with a girl who blocked me on Facebook a month ago. We will be in the same room in about six days. Any advice for me?
He blocked me just on what's app. Yesterday , 5 days after the break up, he called me and invited me for a coffee as friends. At the end of the date, I received a message and he acted a little jealous, then he told me he would have called me in the evening but he didn't nor yesterday nor today.
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I think a lot of people, myself included, tend to personalize being blocked. A lot of the time, it’s not about you-it’s more about the other person. It’s not always the reasons that are mentioned in the video either.
Well, after hearing this and learning about the FA style, I dont think I'll respond if he reaches out. I really find this kind of behaviour a turn off. Part of me feels relief now.
I suspect my ex is a fearful avoidant.. and after a year of amazing time and great memories he shut down .. suddenly and I did call him out for icing me and not being mature enough to talk to me about the situation.. I pushed too far and over thought it and he blocked me ...I probably deserved it ...
In the past I have blocked many people. If someone is being rude or crazy I block it
My ex broke up with me out of the blue around 10 days ago. I handled it well and didn’t yell or call her name or anything like that. I told her that I didn’t want this to happen but I wished her the best in life. I’ve respected her wishes and not tried to call, text, or post/like things on her social media accounts. The past week she’s systematically unfriended me from Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat. Within the the last 2 days she escalated to blocking me on all of those accounts. I’m still going to leave her alone but I really don’t understand why she’s treating me so badly. I never said a mean thing or abused her in anyway. This shit is so frustrating
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@@january2988 I’m sorry. It really sucks. She unblocked me after a few days and i reached out to her 2 weeks after we split to see how she was doing. We both realized that we didn’t want to break up and everything was a big misunderstanding. We’re working on things now and being more open with each other. Hopefully your ex will unblock you and reach out. I’m sorry you’re going through it
@@aCleverFishingPun really sucks. Im still confused. But nice to hear you and your partner are now okay. All the best on your relationship. ♥️
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I deleted them off my page & blocked /unblocked them. I was emotional. I did attempt to ask why via text & got ignored but I did cause issues well we both did. They have not blocked my # tho! But it’s ok 🤷🏼♀️
I recently got dumped by my FA exgirlfriend because I lied to her. We broke up and I went NC with her for roughly 14days. She suddenly unfollowed me on IG after posting a story about sports. She told me several days later when she called that she did this because of something very very VERY minor (seasoning ingredients). So I'm currently "unfollowed" but not blocked. What should I think about this matter?
My girlfriend of five months blocked me when I realised she was addicted to pills. Before that we got on great. It has now been several weeks. I'm hoping she's sorting herself out.
My ex blocked every where after a month and i never said anything to her i did not text or called her . We were together for 7 years and after she told me she wanted kids with me she suddenly blocked every one from my family and moved on with someone else . I was still unblocked on whatsapp so i told her good luck in your life with the person you are now. She told me dont say that sended me hearts and i told her your heart doesnt belong to me anymore you gave it away. She said no i did not gave my heart yet . 3 weeks later without texting her or calling her she blocked me also on whatsapp…. This was 6 months ago…. I still love and miss her and so confused because it came all of a sudden. Havent heard from her anymore
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I have blocked my DA more times than I can count. I’ve blocked and unblocked him in the same day due to my anxious ways. I’ve done it to not see him while I go no contact.
It's been such an emotional mess. 7 years everyday together. She escalated it to violence, then I had to ask her to leave. I understand those with BPD this is traumatic.
She became a hostile and aggressive girl to me. She hardly communicated in the relationship, but after she sure could start fights and be mean. Her personality completely changed.
She knew it I was having a nervous breakdown, but still blocked me. I am now left to fill in the answers.
Lies, everything was just lies anyhow. I am broken.
Blocking isn't necessarily about being fearful. If you don't want to hear another word from someone again, then you should block them. The reason doesn't matter at all.
I got blocked number of times usually about a week to be unblocked again.
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My ex and I broke 3 months ago after being together for a year and a half. She’s seeing someone already…but she slowly has been blocking, deactivating, and unfriending. October 21st she deleted our pics then later that day just deleted her account, the day I happen to post a pic not wearing our ring (we broke up august 4th) then on Snapchat…on October 27th (my birthday) she saw that I was at her aunts house (her aunt called me and wish me happy birthday and got me a balloon and had food and cake for me) I was there for about an hour and never asked about her, but she saw me post it on snap and then blocked me. Today (November 8th) I posted a bouquet of flowers on my FB story and then she unfriended me….the last time I spoke to her was on her birthday on September 8th. I have been in no contact between all that…so there was just that one time I was there and never called or texted or made posts…I never even reached out when she did each one of those deactivations, block not Today with the unfriending. I don’t want to react….what’s your take on this? I’m so confused…I’m not even doing anything!
Oh and before I stopped wearing my ring she had stopped putting hers on 3-4 days prior!
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My ex reached out to ask me if we could platonic friends. I rejected a non romantic friendship, and said she is welcome to reach out if she wants that at some point. She undfriended me everywhere and blocked me everywhere. I doesn't really bother me, because she has been manipulative during the relationship, and she was even more manipulative after no contact ended. Her blocking me just makes me realize that i don't really want her in my life. Not romantically either
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I broke it off and he blocked me, it was a civil ending, but he blocked me on everything except one thing, and he's DM'img me, but I'm still blocked on others and he's done this A LOT in the last two years
From someone who blocks , there are many reasons :stalkers, creepy people...danger signs. Someone does not respect my NO , my decision, my life path, my boundaries, no respect in general. Something you can not fix and do not want to lose mental health trying to...Sometime very bad things happened and you only have bad feelings and can not stand to have any contact with them. It is very mature thing to put boundaries and keep them even when they do not want to, do the hard thing, cut contact and move on with your life...I do not see this as immature thing.
Ya I had the same problem with my ex I didn’t respect her enough but I never respected myself in the relationship always put her above me and didn’t care about my feelings. Any advice on how to show change to her considering I’m blocked?
@@BigFootCurt Once you are blocked, for normal people, not the narcissist ones, normal mental state.... Nothing you can do, best thing is to learn from it, be better with the next one. By the point someone normal blocks you, they do not even want change, care for it. That is the moment they do not want you, emotions are dead and gone. They moved on. Best advice is for you to move on, once you are healed, worked on yourself, maybe next time it will be better with someone new. If someone just removed you from social media and not blocked, you can fix it, but that is hard work. But once blocked, just move on.
@@HodajuciParadokswhat about if my ex bf blocked me in May and then unblocked me and texted me in September? We broke up in February but we continued talking/I continued texting until he blocked me in May. He unblocked/texted a month ago. We had a nice/funny/friendly texting conversation and I asked him if he wanted to hangout/catch up. He said “I guess I’m just not ready to hangout”. We haven’t texted again since. What does it mean if they unblock and text but don’t actually want to meet up?
@@Lena-kl9eq He is playing with you, mind games. Block should be only use if you are in danger, not respected and cutting all contact FOR EVER. Look for healthy relationships, but it is ultimately your life your choice.
I block or unfollow when I’m too hurt to constantly see someone’s pfp, name in my phone. It’s just too painful. Out of side, out of mind (that’s the ideas anyways)
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My FA Ex unfriended/unfollowed me 1.5 months after our breakup. We had been in complete no contact for 5 months when she blocked me on social media completely. Confusing, but I guess its helpful for moving on.
I was blocked after I pointed out how amazing they were but that they needed to work on healing their trauma. They wrote a really polite letter saying I had gone over a boundary and not to write anymore. Then I realized I was blocked on social media. This person has very fresh trauma from their divorce of a 20 year marriage, but they have other issues from childhood from narcissistic parents and admitted they have abandonment issues and low-self esteem. They blamed their ex for all the problems saying they had low emotional intelligence and were bad at communicating but I am wondering it that was more of a two way street now and they are feeling shame about the discard? She pushed me away after I suggested being a bit more serious, saying she didn't want to then imediately started stonewalling to where I was completely confused because there had been such powerful chemistry and then suddenly I was discarded completely. Yes, I reached out a few times trying to get answers just like you mentioned. The way the letter was written saying I went over a boundary came across as fearful and just an excuse to push away any kind of intimacy with me as it was probably stressing her out in her deactivation and maybe like throwing gas on the shame fire she may be feeling inside for the discard. I'm wondering if their trauma is just too fresh to handle such a strong romantic connection? I haven't reached out since they asked me to stop but have considered just sending a short birthday message in like six months just saying something like "Happy Birthday, I hope life is treating you well and you are happy and healthy." Would you advise to not even do something like that months later? One other thing. She continues to read my letters every few days which have tracking? This makes it hard for me to move on so I stopped the tracking yesterday.
My ex broke up with me a couple of months back saying I deserved better without a proper goodbye. Going through such a bad mental trauma especially after I heard that she was contacting someone else. And when I told her about what I heard, she blocked me everywhere.
we hadn't spoken for 4.5 months and then one day she just blocked me, for no obvious reason. been blocked for 3 months now and it still hurts.
She blocked and unblocked me several times while i didn't reach out, I think it's disrespectful and rude, but I don't play games ans just ignore it
Woman are emotional. She is prob hurting
@@classydyme113086 I Know, and that's a good sign, even though I feel bad for her. She is a Fearful avoident and I'm really starting to understand her point of view. I have hope for us
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Great info.. they have to figure themselves (out as my ex said). Give them space.
when will they come back :(
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If they block you but still read your messages because they don’t have their devices synced, what does that mean?
Is sending a postcard to the FA who blocked me on IG from travel with greetings ok or is it also too much? I travel a lot. We're still friends on Facebook even though she never communicated with me there.
In my situation, since I was doing NC for over 3 weeks post breakup, didn't reach out or beg, I think she blocked me to try and get a reaction from me.
My avoidant girl thinks I flirt too much when out even though we are in an open thing and she never used to be bothered by it. Then she go upset when I tried to sort out a misunderstanding with a friend. She screamed at me over the phone then blocked me. Day 9 of no contact. Friends say move on but I love her too much
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I just block when they are toxic , abusive and disrespectfull.
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In my experience i had a situationship with a FA for a Year, and it was like a boomerang! I know that she has a conflict between her heart and her head. But she hurt me a lot. So i told her i don't ever come and talk to again if u don't want this with me. If u came and talked with me i will know that u want this, but if its not than i don't wanna know u again. Even that am the one who break it off i didn't block her, but 2 days later i found her blocked me from everything. And i keep wondering would she ever comeback or thats it?
She dumped and blocked me after a fight then days later on a friday when i normally go out ahe unblocked me ! I sent her a nice message then she ignored me ?? So when i get in after bring ignored in the evening i sent her a shitty message and she said , you asked me to unblock you so i unblocked you , doesnt mean i want to talk tp you..' 'leave my inbox alone and leave me alone..' What do you think ?? Any messages i left her after on messanger shes not even read ?
It's like you answered all my questions for free three weeks into no contact blocks me outta nowhere ? Decent breakup FA ex for sure
Blocked since 3 months I didn’t do nothing wrong he said personal issues
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Could you comment on my situation, so I was dating this girl for 10 months we lived 2 hours apart and I'd see her every other weekend and 2 days in the week, she broke up with me 19 October and I went I to nc for a week then I reached out then went I to nc for 2 3 weeks then I completely lost it found out she was active on dating site and posted pictures of us on her fb and she blocked me on everything I tried to call her and she said she was done that's it and I've sent the odd message via online source to her but now gone into nc is there any chance
Hi Katya, what if a FA blocks your phone but leaves Instagram still open, and communicates minimally, but still does? The block happened 1 month after breakup and around the dec holidays. Why one and not all? Im glad because it still gives me a line of communication...
Amy updates tk how you interpreted this? In a similar position
Any updates on how you interpreted this
@@edwinly382 They leave one channel open, often something less serious like IG dm... its still a way to contact you if they need/want. And a way for you to as well. They block the rest of Social & MESSAGE platforms as to calm there nerves so-to-say and it makes it less likely they will get a message from iMessage, WhatsApp, etc and send there emotions spinning. Having one line of communication is good, however.
I have already contacted her twice via Facebook because I have heard that she has contacted her in the past, but I have not heard anything from her, she does not respond
I understand that there are people who rightfully deserves to be blocked, however, I'm someone who is extremely self aware.
A freind has blocked me on/off/on repeatedly for reasons unknown. It's a very bizarre and hurtful experience. I'm questioning my own sanity as to why a last resort is done as a first resort....😮😢 -I wasn’t harassing them. I don’t get it.
honest ppl are saying “if she blocks you move on” in the comments.…. you have to still consider if that person means a lot to you, or maybe they are not in the emotional state to deal with you right now, yea meet other women but what happens if she still comes back and feeling are still there, and guess what you just added another person
I unfriend him because he ghosted me then he blocked me. I did not chase him when he ghosted me but I sent a break up message is very casual letting him know that i am not going to force things between us.
Thanks for sharing! Sounds like an even keeled approach.
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My DA watched all my stories on instagram and then blocked me suddenly.