*INFLUENCERS* Made Me Buy These: *BIGGEST* Regrets
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- Опубликовано: 9 дек 2023
- Some of my biggest regrets and best purchases having been influenced over the years! These include the Dior Saddlebag, Celine belt, Max Mara Teddy coat, Gucci boots, WAY TOO MUCH makeup, Dior book tote and Jodie Bottega bag.
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Influencers are nothing more than modern day QVC hosts.
Lols
Great to see you so honest about your mistakes.. lord knows we all have something we were influenced to buy. Have a great week 🎉
Well said…..oh this is my favourite……….. whatever
and you know you will never see them use it again 🙄
Book tote…my €10 fake from Tenerife is used endlessly…I love it.
I was thinking exactly the same
Been there with the makeup.. remember when beauty gurus had whole rooms of makeup and drawers upon drawers of palettes? Insane to think about now. I have palettes never used beyond being swatched and in crazy colours I would never use. Think I bought and entire rainbow set of urban decay eyeliner pencils too 😂
They still do. Then they do a declutter video and throw thousands off dollars of stuff away that they got for free
@@catnip4587 crazy, I stopped watching years ago when it turned into qvc tube!
If you want to have the best day ever, contact your local battered women shelter and find out if they will let you drop off all that make up for the residents. You may have to meet their rep at another location because they may keep it a secret. The ladies will love it. And you won’t be wasting all that money.
That is exactly what she should be doing with her make up and any gently used clothing. There are women who have to leave their homes with nothing but the clothing on their back. I know it isn’t easy to give because it’s hard to find these people for good reasonBut you’re really doing something life-changing by donating your make up etc. etc.
I don’t follow influencers so much but when I was younger I was a sucker for “that looks great on you” by SAs…did you ever fall for that? You get home and you’re like what did I do? It mostly happened on holidays when you’re in holiday mode & then reality hits & no way to exchange it
I too bought those Gucci boots! I found them too heavy to walk around with! Sold them right after that first wear. IMHO its best to get rid of anything that is not working as soon as you realize it, the fresher they are from a store the better off you will be money-wise (lesser of a loss).
Reforming make up addict here, I get carried away by a pretty pallette but I don't buy them much anymore. You could take the Fendi shoes to a bootmaker and see if they can do anything to make the shoes comfortable
Clothing/shoes should not be painful, so I'd definitely recommend that you sell the Fendi shoes. They're lovely, but you'll never truly have the joy of wearing them like you would with other items that don't hurt, and there are plenty of other cute shoes out there to wear. ^_^
Lolol...I bought the denim saddle bag because of you. I ended up never using it and sold it. :) Oh and I bought 2 of the mini-Jodie bags and sold them too....too hard to use.
Have a cobbler debulk the center area where the shoe crosses over and have them put in patch of elastic. They’ll be able to do it where you never see and you’ll probably love the shoes 😉
Where did you sell them please?
To resale companies in the US :)@@MG20024
When I saw the Dior saddle “ kidney “ bag I told myself never ever buy that no matter ,
Not even if it’s 50% off 😂 and im so glad I stuck to my guns
Hahaha awful! Sorry!
Omg, I love the Gucci boots. I have a thing for tacky shoes, just with an all black outfit.
I love that you share this with us. I think we've all been influenced to buy things that don't fit our style and sometimes it's easy to feel so bad about it, which we really shouldn't.
Let the deinfluencing begin and our actual preferences continue haha! Love the video! 💛
Omg I don’t have enough face for all the highlighters and bronzers I was influenced to buy. As a makeup artist once told me, your face can’t really tell the difference between them.
I'm a mortician in the UK, I take unwanted/used makeup and hair products to put to use ❤
teenage daughter.... thats where all my expensive unused stuff has a new appreciation.
You can recycle a lot of make up at Superdrug, Boots, Morrisons. A company will break down the component parts (mainly by extracting the metal, plastic) and recycle them. Def don't just put in the bin as it goes straight to landfill even though some can be recycled/ reused.
Ah yeah, classic makeup palette problem. I got one, i've learned my lesson and now i only buy singles.
i love the dior book tote
I have eyeshadow palettes to last me a lifetime 😂 walked into Sephora and it was 20-% off everything and I kept thinking of my urban decay 5 palettes waiting for me at home 😂 and I didn’t succumb
Hi Sophie. I bought the Dior saddle bag 2 years ago and I'm surprised by how much I love it! It's an easy bag to carry and I can fit all my essentials in it. ❤
Hey Sophie! Funny thing is, I bought a variation of the Dior denim saddle bag in 2021 because I saw your bag in 2019 😂 still love it, wouldn’t sell it for anything!
Same! Love my saddle bag!
I bought the vintage (first year of its release) Dior saddlebag. I love it. Less than 2k! Such a timeless addition to my collection of bags. And it's COOL. hehe
Actually a funny story! I was influenced by Sophie to purchase a Chloe coat from Farfetch, which turned out to be a fake! Luckily 5 months of back and forth and me providing evidence by taking photos in a Chloe shop, Farfetch did allow me to return the coat.
omg. Please tell me that it was preowned. Because otherwise I really don't want to stress over the new stuff I got from farfetched being fake. Either way I'm glad you were able to return it. Horrible mistake on their behalf.
@@writtenbyldr no it was brand new, sourced from a shop form Germany. Because of the way farfetch operates, it’s difficult for them to authenticate most things.
@@corneliali7747 omg that's crazy. I assumed it came from the original boutiques! Are net-a-porter and Cettire more authentic options? Or do u think it is better to just buy straight from the designer's website?
I have definitely been influenced! And I never return anything unless it is faulty, so I have learnt to be cautious! Thank you for the video!
Sympathy. During Covid I bought some high-end makeup that I never would normally have bought. The Gucci was terrible; the Charlotte Tilbury so, so; and the Chantecaille; the Clé de Peau and the Lisa Eldridge stuff was very good but ridiculously expensive. Never again. One Gucci product, face powder, went into the bin at L'Occitane.
Hi, @coding7196. Why was the Gucci makeup so terrible? I'm currently very tempted to buy some atm because I'm seduced by the packaging. My go-to is usually Bobbie Brown, but I love the cases in which the Gucci lip balm and blusher come in.
The face powder went wet pan and the eyebrow pencil is difficult to use; it doesn't always draw on the eyebrows.@@tiepolo100
@@tiepolo100 I tried the Gucci lipsticks and they are lovely but not worth the price tag, not in a million years. The only brand that is doing well make-up is (in my opinion obviously) Dior - the lip gloss and blush is such a dream.
I wonder if black laces in those Gucci boots would tone them down a bit more. Maybe worth a try?
For expired makeup, i used the boots recycling scheme. I just bought my favourite perfume qith points.
I remember when you bought and shared most of these; if I remember correctly, you spent months agonizing over these purchases because they were "influenced trends". When I buy something on influence, that I later regret, I always consider how many items I have across all my purchases are "influenced". I have found this useful as I can tell which aesthetic clicks. Now that I know, I am more likely to navigate away and focus on exactly what I want. Do you know which artistic, color, or lettering choices get you? It would be interesting to see you discuss this as it may be related to your work.
Keep 'em coming Sophie! And you certainly don't need make up - you're a goddess! xxx
I was inspired by another RUclipsr to clean out my closet & sell stuff I don’t use or wear anymore. My saddle bag was one of them.
Sounds like my kind of video! May ask for the youtuber’s name?
@@arnellmarie Karen brit chic
When I first started watching RUclips I was really into the beauty community as well. My son’s girlfriend at the time loved makeup and so I started too. I was very influenced to buy brands that Sephora sells. I did buy much more than I needed and much more than I used. Now I stay very minimal when it comes to makeup. Then I started watching luxury channels. Of course a lot more money can be spent if influenced here. I’m pretty sure most of the items I’ve bought I’ve been influenced to buy. I wouldn’t even know half of the brands or items if I hadn’t watched luxury channels. Now I know them all.😂😂😂 Every bag, slg or shoes I’ve bought I love so no complaints so far. I also don’t buy a lot so don’t regret any money I’ve spent.
powder make up can be used so you can give to friends or family, its the liquid makeup such as mascara, foundation that goes off faster since its more of an environment for bacteria.
The Dior saddle is lovely 💙
Hi Sophie, Mum, Erin, and I are currently sitting in Gatwick delayed and shopped out!
Hope you had a nice weekend x
OMG Sophie same with me I’ve been influenced also ! I’m embarrassed to say as when I first started watching fashion and Beauty video’s I believed everything the influencer said and wasted a lot of money and nearly got into debt. But never again, you are not alone xxx
@sophieshohet I use old cosmetics to make artwork. Eyeshadow is a great one. I first learned that tip in a fashion illustration book by Steven Stipelman.
Great idea! How do you dilute the pigments?
Hi Sophie! Like you, I have been influenced to purchase products in fashion, skin care, and/or make-up. Oftentimes, it has been great, but a few times the purchased item was a bomb. If the influencer is someone I trust and they are not just trying to sell me the product (like a paid advertisement), I am more willing to make the purchase. It's all about respecting the influencer for being a person of high character, integrity, and honesty. With that being said, I know myself well, and even if I absolutely trust the influencer, I may know the product is just not for me. Thank you, Sophie, for always being someone whose videos I love to watch. Take care and God bless you and David during this Christmas season!💜🇺🇸
Thank you so much for your honesty
I haven’t bought any of the handbags you mentioned because when i looked at the bags i saw same issues you mentioned .
Of course after learning my lesson being influenced by gucci and lv.
I have some gucci and lv bags that I honestly can’t look at them without feeling nauseous. Tried to sell them, but i would end up losing too much money. Not the best time to sell.
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You can change the colour of the material and the laces of gucci boots, at a cobblers. Will make it more wearable
That SPECIFIC color way of the saddle bag is cute, but I agree that it's hard to style and use. Some influencers do make it look really cute, but not enough that I've been tempted. NGL I kinda like the Gucci boots, but I'm very average height.
lol I bought a vintage medium Chanel classic flap because of your influence! I really like it, but it certainly wasn't worth the price I paid 😅 It's just a tad too small for what I prefer to carry around on the type of nights I would wear it and I don't like that it can't comfortably be worn crossbody, but I'm mostly glad I bought it, since I managed to get a decent price on it when the prices were starting to skyrocket for new ones. I like how weighty and secure it feels with the second flap and turnkey lock; however, I don't always feel the safest wearing it, since the Chanel logo is so well known. I tend to save it for nights at nice local restaurants and have stopped wearing it into the city.
I agree about make up pallets!! They look lovely, but I have no idea how to use most of the colours!! I sold Estée Lauder while in university and it was so tempting to buy all the new stuff!!💕💕💕💕
I’ve unfollow many influencers accounts fr 6 yrs ago and I feel better and my bank acc is happier too 😂
I love those Gucci boots!!
I think it is easier to be influenced when you are younger. Luckily I didn’t have much money in my late 20s since I went back to college. I would have regretted a lot of bags lol. Nowadays the only influencer I follow is you, this makes it easier to follow my own style. Wishing you all a beautiful week ☃️
Those boots 🫣😂 I hear you on the makeup/skincare/perfume stuff, I had to unsubscribe to 4/5 channels cause my bank account was angry 😂
We’ve all been guilty of overspending on makeup! Find a women’s shelter or teen group home. They would love the makeup.
Love this idea!
I have never understood the appeal of the saddle bag. Very odd and impractical bag.😮
I was also influenced to buy the mini Jodie. But I have many bottega bags and know and love the quality. It took me a while to decide but when I saw it in the colour fondant, I had to have it. It is so chic and yes, the zipper is a little difficult, but not an issue for me.
Also have the Celine belt, both brands (bottega and Celine) are my favorites. Great quality and silent lux.
I find many other luxury brands to be too flashy and/or expensive for the quality. (Or lack of same) 😊
Love the Dior denim!! Its so In in 2024… just bring the Dior tote along when you wear it!! I Love the Gucci boots… they look comfy!! You could always sell them but I love them for snow. I would do a big white bag with them with red and green gucci ribbon down the front, lol.
You shoe story with the Fendi shoes reminds me of a pair of trainers I had that chewed up my heel. I ended up running into a cheap store to buy a pair of casual sneakers just to get through the day, they were a bad choice for my day out with my hubby! I ended up gifting them to a friend who loved them.
I love the boots. Wear them proudly!!
idk i weirdly kinda like the boots. they don't really fit in my wardrobe, though, but i could see them being the centerpiece of the outfit for someone who wears punkier clothes.
i kinda semi regret these gucci platforms i bought (cassie thorpe influenced it). i do get some use out of them, but i can't wear them places where i know i'm going to have to walk or stand for long hours. So my cost per wear is currently really low.
Hi Sophie, I had the same issue with all the makeup I use to have. I recommend if you've really not touched it at all, maybe give it to a family member. If I was 16 I would love an eyeshadow palette to muck around with. But if its older than 3 years and/or you've dipped into it, please throw it away. You can get a bad eye infection from eye products. And you may find the formula has changed too after a while, might be a bit patchy, not blending.
And also I have a great tip when deciding if you should part w a ag or not. Get a few quotes from a few consignment stores, then ask yourslef, would you rather have the money or a the bag?
Love your videos Sophie! I’m from the US and remember visiting London in 2018 and thinking of have to go to Harrods, so glad I did! I was wondering what are your thoughts on the Coach Cassie Crossbody 19 In Signature Canvas bag? Specifically in the tan/rust color. My cousin said it looks a bit grannyish but it’s growing on me 😂
I ran to ur Depop as soon as I saw this for them Gucci boots to realise they already sold 😂 xx
Love ur honest opinions ❤
I love the book tote. They are great for travel! Similarly, I love the LV On the Go.
I have high arches like you, and I know exactly what you mean about the pain at the top of your foot! In my case, it was a pair of Chloe Woody slides that rubbed the top of my foot so much, I could barely walk. I haven't found a solution yet, unfortunately.😢😢
Haha! Those Gucci boots would go beautifully with my Fig & Fenix jacket I think. They're bold enough to carry each other. But I'm also tall and self-conscious about it 🥲
I find shoes so hard to buy! I have had so many shoes which felt comfortable when trying on but then when properly walking in them they were so uncomfortable! Xx
Love the saddle bag
I have a couple Dior totes and I love them as they fit so much and look good.
Interesting boot choice my friend 😂 hugs and love 🖤🤍 hi David
I LOVE the Gucci boots! Have them in off-white with grey canvas, and they are literally my all-time favourites, heel hight and all (and I'm 179cm). I feel like they are statement enough to wear with super plain outfits to spice it up but also ok to fit in with more eclectic looks that I love to put together. I could honestly go for a second pair in a different colour scheme ^_^
I have old makeup but I just use it. If not, I give it to family that doesn't mind ancient makeup ahaha. I don't throw away eyeshadow or face powders because they're powder and I don't find any issue using them past the best before date. 🤷♀️
Once you said "Dress up your face", I was gone 🤣🤣🤣
I love the dior saddle bag, but the price is too high now...i was influenced to buy the Chanel classic flap, so glad i did, the price is ridiculous high now....i was influenced to but the big LV hoop earrings, sold them and got the smaller size...
Hi Sophie, I empathise about the Fendi shoes. My passion is shoes, but I have developed an arthritic condition in my feet. I purchased a costly pair of sneakers by Roger Vivier, some Etro shoes and ended up giving them to friends in the end. I have to be careful what I buy (the off-the-peg shoes for arthritis sufferers are often ugly, and I won't wear them ...) so I don't waste enormous amounts of money. One way forward (in my case) is to get bespoke or custom-made shoes and have my own lasts made, but it is eye-wateringly expensive. But, yes, it's annoying too when a shoe feels great when you try it on in the store and then uncomfortable when you wear them for longer.
I would still love to own a saddle bag but I know it’s the kind that is one and done. Just to scratch my Dior itch that’s been growing for a couple of years 😭 hoping to snag one from consignment
Sophie, I wonder if you could take those cute Fendi shoes to a cobbler and see if they could remove a bit of the foam or insert inside the shoe to make more space in there so your foot doesn't rub against that part as much?
Yup me and my hobo puzzle bag, i love everything about the bag: functionality, leather, how lightweight it is, and the fact that it deceivingly holds so much. But the shape is so long and awkward and i got it in purple lol so i regret it.
Hi Sophie I have the Fendi sneakers, I think the inner fabric edge of ur shoe is curing inwards, I don't know how to explain it properly but make sure the two white lines crossing are flat once you wear the shoes. I found that's the only time it hurts for me, and I have wide feet.
You can also line them with shoe pads
The hand sanitizer hanging on the book tote scares me! I’m afraid to hang that on any of my high end bags.
Why? Leakages?
@@ShweMyaukMyauk Yes
Mini Loewe puzzle bag! It’s just a little too small, and now the small are so expensive I can’t bring myself to buy the bigger one 😢
Dior Saddle Bag would drive me crazy. Admired it on others wearing it but odd shaped bags are off limits for me. When a child had round, picnic basket, etc. and found it didn't work for me. Note: your denim DSB is beautiful.
Best not to think about it too much 😮
Great video ❤
Saddle bag I'm still to this day on the fence about. I really like the grained leather ones because I feel like it's quite durable and I'm a klutz. Everyone seems to say the same thing about not fitting much because everything slides down so I can't decide 😅 I like that they've added the strap to it in the same leather because that was the biggest thing that was turning me off. I don't like the big bulky guitar strap look on me (looks great on other people!) but I still can't decide. I may do a lady d-joy instead soon if I'm going to spend that much money what's a bit more 😂
I love my Dior tote,just like yours,when traveling in the car I put it behind drivers seat so I can easily reach in and out of it,love it so easy to use. I put my butane hair curler in it,snacks,travel jewerly box, 2 pc pjs shorts rolled up for just stopping overnight, socks,so great. I to have bought a few things I wish I hadn't, one trench coat,not too expensive, a sweat shirt name brand,maybe it will work, in a couple weeks traveling by car,if it doesn't work my god daughter will havd it,not much of a sweatshirt fan,or tshirts with writing on thdm,regret 4 of thdm I bought,gavd away.Oh well it could be worse,I really try to slow xown and think abt what I'm buying. Thanks for the video ❤❤❤
I bough an anamorphic lens for my camera 😂 not on topic but I have one or two great bags don’t spend much money on makeup but boy if you take me to a photo store I really loose it 😂
I like the Gucci boots 😅 maybe needs black laces !! Heading to depop
Hi Sophie, as always I really enjoyed watching and thank you for you’re honesty. I’m not one for being influenced into what to buy as I don’t particularly want to be one of the herd. As for my makeup I always buy from QVC and should it turn out it’s not for me I just send it back with 60 days and get a full refund.
Give your makeup to artists. They use the pigments to create crayons, pastels, paints, dying for clothing and much much more.
I'm always looking for old makeup. It's dead handy
Why not commission an artist you love to use your makeup to make a cool decor piece for your home? No landfill, new art and also helps the creative process keep going.
I’m five feet two inches tall, so I would totally wear those shoes. I even was considering looking at your price, which is fair. My problem is - big feet 😅
I only use the bag for the beach now lol
What size are your Fendi tennis shoes? I love them.
With the bag zip issue, try rubbing a graphite pencil along the zipper teeth. This acts like a lubricant without damaging or gooping up the zipper
re: the fendi shoes and the high arch/top of foot - I've had that happen every time I've bought Chanel loafers! They were so horrifically painful on the top of my foot. I have stopped even trying to buy Chanel shoes because they are just made for feet that are flatter than mine.
Being tall with heels on does draw stares. There’s shoes I have that make me 6’2” when wearing and I’m slim. People always look, and I hover over so many people as well.😂 I also have a high arch & have the same issues with certain boots. I bought a pair of military boots from Ralph Lauren and the right boot kills me in the same spot. I’ve tried loosening the laces and nothing helps. 😢
I think with those Gucci boots you could push it out a bit and wear a completely different colour rather than limiting to white and black, and in fact clashing it with another pattern could work. Maybe it's been too block-like with keeping it black/white
I wish I could afford your Gucci boots.... My daughter would DIE for those.... We've all been there, I'm dreadful for being influenced 😂 xx
Still giggling about the time you said the saddle bag looks a bit like a liver! 😂
lol I only own one makeup palette from Dior and I love it because I get complimented on my eye makeup all the time
I’ve been wanting to buy that since 2000! Lol!
Sophie, I still love those Gucci boots. It's too bad that it doesn't work for you due to height. If we were the same shoe size or I'd snatch those up! Perhaps a price decrease will help get it sold? I found selling a lot of my items lately, people just don't have the disposable income they used to have :(
So I wear barely beige eye make up, usually. I was influenced to get these flamboyant neon super sparkly duochrome pallets. I wear microscopic amounts of these colors, to try and get some use out of them. Eventually, I thought that I’d make some room and toss most of these palettes. BUT THEN… my daughter got a roll in a grade school play as a parrot! I thought, YES! I’m in business!😅
I keep trying to correct “pallets” that got spell checked from “palettes” but the spell check thing won’t let me! How odd?!
lol.. I guess we all get influenced by..: I got one of the book totes because the price was going up and did lot want to pay more.. so I bought it.😂
I was influenced to buy a Marc Jacobs mini Tote bag (my 1st designer bag) and some Dior cosmetics which I'm not that impressed by.
Hi Sophie! My understanding is that makeup doesn't last that long. So if you've had it for more than 1 year (maybe 2 if it's not liquid) it's expired and shouldn't be used anymore as it's gathered bacteria. Also, if it's changed its original color.
Sophie have you tried anything from Fairfax and Favor? I like the boots they have, maybe you will like them too
I am obsessed I will say! They have a heeled pair of boots with a tassel in pale pink and I hope they bring them back!!xx