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  • Опубликовано: 17 янв 2025

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  • @lmw4780
    @lmw4780 22 дня назад +315

    I love that bob decided to really commit to the episode title by enraging the viewers through his choice to both not tell the Vegas bus story and INSIST that he did.

  • @SpookiCooki
    @SpookiCooki 22 дня назад +243

    All power to Wade and Bob for opening up about difficult emotions.
    Especially Bob talking about feeling resentment towards James for what happened when he was born. That's really brave to admit.

  • @foxyjambread3826
    @foxyjambread3826 19 дней назад +158

    I remember when I first listened to this episode, it really spiked my respect for all three of these guys through the roof. These are hard things to accept about yourself and hard things to discuss, and Im glad they did.
    As for Wade's first story, I hope he does discuss this in therapy, because it's really obvious from what he was saying that what he was going through was intense and traumatizing, and his emotional response to that isn't something that he should allow to haunt him, as he said. I'm glad he's been able to grow from it, but it shouldn't be allowed to bring down his perception of himself like that. Confronting those thoughts and using that knowledge to grow as a person and improve how he deals with anger and confrontation proves his character. I hope he keeps letting himself heal from that.

    • @demonyearz
      @demonyearz 12 дней назад +7

      the fact that he was able to open up about an experience like that not only to his friends but to millions of internet strangers like you and me is very powerful. I agree, and I'm glad he was able to talk about it at least

  • @BlooDergon99
    @BlooDergon99 18 дней назад +75

    This whole episode feels like a huge therapy session. Feels cathartic

  • @NightFoxZero
    @NightFoxZero 14 дней назад +45

    In that Unnus Annus video you could see how visibly concerned Ethan was and tell how genuinely mad Mark was.
    The gaming rage where he threw a chair and game contollers will still always be very funny to go back and look at

    • @BlooDergon99
      @BlooDergon99 10 дней назад +6

      Ik that quiet uncomfortabke stare very well. Because thats me when anybody yells and acts violent

  • @rachelbentley9533
    @rachelbentley9533 18 дней назад +46

    I know this took place originally well over a year and a half ago but I'm so chuffed that W & B both have actual and proper supportive friends who say "yeah therapy. that was trauma, trauma was what that was. talk to someone it's good" something we could all use
    now if the healthcare system can just make it affordable.

  • @StariDreams
    @StariDreams 22 дня назад +42

    I really respect you guys for opening up about those very real moments in the first half. It's not always an easy thing to do, especially when it's something close to us. Thank you guys for sharing. ❤

  • @UndeadGhostGirl
    @UndeadGhostGirl 26 дней назад +92

    Well, this dredged up some traumatic memories.

  • @Omegabigb
    @Omegabigb 23 дня назад +156

    I know this is an old episode, but just in case people watch this for the first time, Mark is very wrong about opened mayonnaise not needing to be refrigerated, it definitely does.
    Also I'm very surprised by how surprised Mark and Bob are about eating a sandwich without sauce, that is very normal in the Netherlands (and I think a lot of Europe).

    • @ss3nm0dn4r8
      @ss3nm0dn4r8 22 дня назад +10

      yeah no mayonnaise goes bad pretty quick the reason why the bottle there isnt bad immediately is because it was half refrigerated and in a closed container thats squeeze so you never stick a bacteria covered utensil in

    • @Stinkabutt42069
      @Stinkabutt42069 22 дня назад

      It might be normal but why would you ever choose to eat more bland food when you have the option to make it better

    • @coreylemon
      @coreylemon 22 дня назад +8

      Yeah, I appreciate Wade's stance on this. At some point you're just using food as a vehicle for a sauce, and the fact that the other two literally can't imagine enjoying a sandwich without a sauce tells me that they're at that point.

    • @FBI_42069
      @FBI_42069 20 дней назад

      well the uk eats beans and toast so i am not sure all of Europe is well versed in food.

    • @confusedchamaca
      @confusedchamaca 19 дней назад

      As a fellow Mediterranean Europian: Nope, nu-uh. Sandwiches go with butter or mayo, bocatas with oil, sauce your bread people.

  • @nyx_4814
    @nyx_4814 22 дня назад +33

    i quote the "ill just go around" so much because of The Incident i had IN THAT DAMM GAS STATION PARKING LOT 2.7 YEARS AGO WHERE 5 CARS WHERE LIKE "oh ill just go around.

  • @zeroraptor_
    @zeroraptor_ 19 дней назад +31

    Bob's story about going around just reinforces how much I hate driving in general. I just want to get from point A to point B, but I have to deal with so many drivers that seem to do all they can to make the journey as miserable as possible. Just give me a fleshed out train system already so I can avoid dealing with bad drivers.

  • @kevinsundelin8639
    @kevinsundelin8639 7 дней назад +3

    As someone who struggled with anger management in my childhood and trying to unravel the reasons why in adulthood, this was incredibly cathartic to listen to. That some of the people I look up to and cheer on has also had similar struggles that I have. Thank you guys for opening up and being vulnerable, I know it's not easy, but it means a lot.
    I still don't know every reason for my anger and I will be exploring that in therapy when I have the funds to do so but I am happy to say that I am doing much better and it takes a lot to get a rise out of me nowadays, let alone make me legitimately rage. I've had thoughts of hurting the people who've hurt me most in life and Wade talking about his experience helps me feel like that doesn't make me a bad person.

  • @Karak12357
    @Karak12357 15 дней назад +8

    Rage is complicated. It's almost like a drug when giving into it. Intoxicating, feeling so in control when giving into it, but giving in takes away so much of your control.
    On the other hand, it was exactly the emotion I needed to break out of a depression I had fallen into. I channeled it into learning to drive to leave my shitty Walmart job after a particularly bad day.

  • @isoldaisnotok
    @isoldaisnotok 17 дней назад +9

    I've never related so much to Wade as rn. The story with his brother is extremely similar to mine. When it comes to our moms, something comes out, man.

  • @Blade_Corps
    @Blade_Corps 14 дней назад +6

    Man..... Wade, I can 100% understand your situation my dude......

  • @maomallows
    @maomallows 16 дней назад +6

    I love this episode because this is as close as the audience can get to see their vulnerability.

  • @cassdun619
    @cassdun619 22 дня назад +32

    1:03:40 it's natural to have emotions, it's what you do with them that determines if you are a good or bad person.

    • @aidreinhorn1534
      @aidreinhorn1534 16 дней назад +4

      Emotions are like having to take a shit. Everyone gets the urge, but it’s up to you whether you shit your pants or not.

  • @northeastartist4158
    @northeastartist4158 22 дня назад +25

    I love how Bob absolutely has the potential to be a New Englander who's pissed off at the tourists
    The amount or road rage I get when a tourist is just meandering down the road at 15, 20 miles an hour I'm sitting there like 'come on it's not leaf peeping season GO FASTER ITS A 35-MILE ZONE'

    • @stanieldasboot953
      @stanieldasboot953 22 дня назад

      I feel weirdly attacked by this.

    • @mbcodgie
      @mbcodgie 22 дня назад +1

      speed LIMIT: 35
      drivers: "WhY aReN't pEoPlE gOiNg At lEaST 35??"

    • @ack7956
      @ack7956 2 дня назад +1

      ​@@mbcodgieYou are never supposed to go 5 miles over or under the speed limit. It is a traffic violation if you don't go the established speed necessary for traffic flow. Don't think of the speed limit as "a max speed and everything below that is perfectly fine," think of it as a benchmark that you try not to deviate from barring extenuating circumstances, like a traffic violation in progress or a stop sign.

  • @TheBlackSpartan103
    @TheBlackSpartan103 22 дня назад +12

    Mark has his Spartan Rage meter full.

  • @BrendaFranklin
    @BrendaFranklin 23 часа назад

    I love this episode and i connect and feel relieved to hear this from people i admire. This is an episode that touches me more than i thought. Thank you ❤

  • @tsuyuasui3793
    @tsuyuasui3793 21 день назад +31

    That emotional dysregulation, is such an important topic that’s not talked about a lot with ADHD. ADHD makes those little things seem so big and your brain decides that all information is relevant so you can’t filter through it yourself to get to the root and calm yourself. Your brain also knows there dopamine in that argument & from using the endorphins and adrenaline so it full steam ahead, & every part of your body is wired.
    All that happens in a second and you’re off like a champagne cork.
    Which is probably why I can probably rage out about ADHD being relegated to this “leg shaking, ooo squirrel problem”

    • @obergfamily9049
      @obergfamily9049 13 дней назад

      I read this in Asui's voice and now I think I can kill god.

    • @obergfamily9049
      @obergfamily9049 13 дней назад +2

      Seriously though great comment I wrote some of that stuff down.

  • @The-Amaris-Nebula
    @The-Amaris-Nebula 12 дней назад +3

    as someone who had anger issues most of my life, this episode has been so fascinating to listen to. anger is really not a good feeling at all.
    thank you for sharing.

  • @daltonfreeman6551
    @daltonfreeman6551 10 дней назад +5

    Working retail and fast food management, i have seen the utter depths of human stupidity and anger over the most frivolous nonsense. The absolute abuse we had to deal with on a daily basis, and then people wonder why "no one wants to work anymore."

  • @ZekkSkywalk
    @ZekkSkywalk 15 дней назад +6

    I moved to LA and within two years got rid of my car and just started using transit/rideshares all the time because driving here stressed me out. Maybe two thirds of that stress came from the "Maybe I'll go around!" stupidity. I feel this on a spiritual level.

  • @rebekahnaylor2273
    @rebekahnaylor2273 18 дней назад +6

    This is such an amazing thing that shows how far we’ve come as a society that 3 men can sit and talk about their emotions in front of thousands of people. I personally know my grandfather and even my father would never be this open about emotional stories and traumatic periods of time.

  • @Truly-sickly
    @Truly-sickly 22 дня назад +14

    Why is this episode so damn comforting. I wasn't expecting to be comforted by their stories and experiences in the first half 😅 Anyone relate?

  • @micahblotter9584
    @micahblotter9584 10 дней назад +3

    I had a very similar story to Wade. My rage came from a place of fear and hatred for my older brother. We were fighting with words then it blew up into him hitting me and of course I hit him to but I ran away and grabbed my bow, I went outside and told him to stay away, he was at the back door and he started to come outside then something just snapped in me I just wanted him gone, I shot the arrow at him he closed the door just in time and if he didn’t it would have hit him. Now I look back and I now I crossed a line I can never uncross, all I can do is try to be better than that me.
    Also we are great friends now and I see him once a week!

  • @Wixvhen
    @Wixvhen 8 дней назад +4

    As somebody who makes his own mayo (it's kinda fun cause you can experiment with the type of oil you use), you NEVER EVER want unrefridgerated mayo UNLESS it's pasteurized and sealed. The primary ingredients are literally 'egg' and 'oil'. While the oil is probably fine, the egg is a breeding ground for a LOT of bad things, especially since it's literally nature crafted and designed to create life.

    • @magnesiafrost1863
      @magnesiafrost1863 7 дней назад +3

      Egg in the open and the salmonella says: Hello there - frens ☺️

  • @rigatonipasta
    @rigatonipasta 15 дней назад +5

    THREE MILE MARK! THREE MILE MARK!

  • @cassdun619
    @cassdun619 22 дня назад +10

    So 56:59 the answer.... is to always flirt lmao it usually discharges anger in both parties either with confusion or silliness. Maybe what the other person was doing was them trying to bring the heat down in himself or on the court.

  • @poisonheartfield4950
    @poisonheartfield4950 18 дней назад +4

    Again, 100% agree with Wade on the pretty much blackout rage situation... I snapped at my significant other and said something horrid to him, then after I said it and it hit my ears, it was like "Did I REALLY just say that?"

  • @2.hyeon_tak.17
    @2.hyeon_tak.17 15 дней назад +6

    for the mayonnaise thing, i was satisfied when bob said vinegar because I KNOW it contains vinegar/lemon juice ToT. and we keep our mayo inside the pantry and its still usable.

  • @DRayL_
    @DRayL_ 13 дней назад +3

    17:43-22:21 That is S Tier level, right there!! LOL

  • @SparklingConversationalist
    @SparklingConversationalist 12 дней назад +14

    My moment of rage that I'm ashamed of, is when I worked in healthcare. I was a CNA making $11/hr taking care of 40 people with dementia by myself that night. And one of them was a man with very bad aggression and was very mobile. He was incontinent however and constantly soiled his pants. And the nurse was busy passing meds and wasn't able to help. And after being punched for probably the fifth time I almost started screaming and hitting back, but when I caught myself before I did and just left the room. Never have been able to tell anyone this in real life, and it's the main reason I left healthcare. That job, even though I loved those residents, was too stressful for $11/hr. And honestly, no job for me would ever pay enough to be worth the physical harm being done to me. But that specific moment of rage scared me and I knew I had to get away before it turned into something more.

    • @daltonfreeman6551
      @daltonfreeman6551 10 дней назад +4

      $11/hr is ridiculous for that kind of work. Kids stocking shelves at Walmart make more than that these days (I would know I was one of them).

    • @SparklingConversationalist
      @SparklingConversationalist 9 дней назад

      @@daltonfreeman6551 Yeah, the kicker about that, is that this wasn't too long ago. It was in 2020, during the pandemic on top of it all. I then left that nursing home and went to work at a hospital, thinking that maybe it would get better. For a measly $13 and hour I only had to deal with 20 patients max. But I was constantly being sent to sit with aggressive patients 1-on-1, sometimes 1-on-2, and though I never had a fit of rage like the one I mentioned above, my mental health continued to worsen. Then I left altogether.
      To anyone who reads this, don't go into healthcare if your mental health is anything less than stellar, or you have to have a rock solid support system and a psychiatrist. I went in wanting to help others and genuinely caring about my patients, but I couldn't help but become closed off and cold in order to protect myself. It was never about the money for me, either, but experiencing financial stress on top of work stress made my entire life stressful. All healthcare workers deserve to live comfortably and without financial strain.

  • @BoxOKittens
    @BoxOKittens 15 дней назад +6

    I'm with Wade on the sandwich debate lol I love me a good sammich without any condiments on it. Sometimes I'll add a bit of ketchup but usually I don't need anything on it.

  • @HerRoyalPain
    @HerRoyalPain 28 дней назад +8

    they dropped all of them lets goooooooooo

  • @hiwaga7399
    @hiwaga7399 22 дня назад +21

    kewpie has more eggs than normal mayo, so even if "technically" you don't need to refrigerate mayo (i don't trust that but it is a lot warmer here in the tropics so idk) kewpie needs to be kept in the fridge.

    • @clown-cat
      @clown-cat 18 дней назад +1

      it doesn't have more eggs, it just doesn't use egg whites. i only eat that kind of mayo (whole egg mayo's fucking disgusting) and i never had an issue with it even when kept unrefrigerated for multiple days at a time. it's got too much vinegar for it to really be an issue. but yeah, maybe not in the tropics... since i wouldn't try it in the summer in northern europe either

  • @Tport712
    @Tport712 22 дня назад +7

    I'm with Wade on food. I'll explore sometimes but I can be habitual with basic foods

  • @ka_ka_kaelin
    @ka_ka_kaelin 8 дней назад +1

    TW: self harm, drug addiction, etc.
    I totally get where Wade is coming from with the mind snapping. I've never been in a fight but growing up, my mom and I were always arguing, she was constantly making life hell for my siblings and I. She struggles with drug addiction which was the ultimate cause not to mention that deep down she's just not a great person and had really messed up mindsets. But there was a time where I had "hurt" her feelings and she went into a downward spiral in her bedroom. Throwing things, screaming, crying, etc. She had also, many times, expressed how she wanted to off herself and how we were grown up enough to be fine without her. So one night while she was losing it in her room, all I could think was, "Good, maybe she'll off herself and this will all be over." I even daydreamed about walking into her room and finding her unalived and planning her funeral. A few months later, after she started to get more physical around my wife, i.e. throwing things, getting in her face, I cut off all contact with her. This was back in 2021 and I haven't spoken to her since. I've put myself in therapy, focused on my marriage, job and my mental health and have been pretty stable since. But the anger and hatred I felt all those years ago was a place I never want to be in again.

  • @jesso-o2367
    @jesso-o2367 4 дня назад

    wade is real af for that first part and i hope he gets through whatever grievances he has with himself bc of that

  • @HyperSS176
    @HyperSS176 22 дня назад +8

    A very unexpectedly deep video at some timestamps..

  • @BlooDergon99
    @BlooDergon99 18 дней назад +2

    7:48
    Jesus christ this is why bob is my favorite i wish i can meet him sometime. Hes just so fucking funny without even trying

  • @itstimboflex
    @itstimboflex 16 дней назад +1

    marks face as he plans all of the attornies for wade from confessing to premeditated attempted murder
    xD

  • @1WildArtist
    @1WildArtist 21 день назад +7

    I watched my mom (almost 40) tell a 20 something fray boy to eff off and stop being a b*tch because he screamed at our car for parking and i was lost cuz ive never had an encounter like that with another human being

  • @ricardo64329
    @ricardo64329 16 дней назад +2

    Bob is a great storyteller

  • @yingofdarknes
    @yingofdarknes 9 дней назад

    This seems more like the therapy episode then the rage episode. It's so nice to see how supportive all of you were about each other though

  • @sharkkebunni
    @sharkkebunni 18 дней назад +1

    People get it wrong, in a busy kitchen items like mayo and tomato sauce get use so often they may not need to put into the fridge, also what people don't see, is at the end of day cleaning, almost everything is put away into the fridges, storeroom etc preplanning is a big part of all kitchens

  • @Dgamer-kq5kt
    @Dgamer-kq5kt 19 дней назад +2

    I will say that I do tend to have a short fuse sometimes. Especially on stupid little things and I wish it didn’t get me that easily.

  • @angelicamikkelsen1762
    @angelicamikkelsen1762 24 дня назад +8

    Appreciate the topic choice. It could use a lot more open and frank discussion in this vein.

  • @vaitti8096
    @vaitti8096 21 день назад +3

    I remember someone telling me that if someone would ever be a doosh I should just go with "Are you okay?" but not the aggressive tone, just confused normal tone bc like..how does the person respond to that one

  • @disgustedguy
    @disgustedguy 17 дней назад +5

    29:39 - “All it takes is one bad day to reduce the sanest man alive to lunacy. [...]”
    ― Alan Moore , Batman: The Killing Joke (shortened)
    Just because we consider ourselves the pinnacle of creation does not mean that we are more than civilized wild animals. Push a civilized wild animal too far and it forgets its 'civilized' manners. #justsaying

  • @poisonheartfield4950
    @poisonheartfield4950 18 дней назад +4

    I 100% agree with Wade. Mind you I usually have lettuce as well, but I have often had sandwiches that are just "ham and cheese"

  • @hoihoipoipoi
    @hoihoipoipoi 19 дней назад

    mayo is beyond safe to leave at room temperature. lol.

  • @MrBusch90
    @MrBusch90 7 дней назад

    11:28 without any specifics to the sandwich, i usually call them simple sandwiches.

  • @NakaritoGAME
    @NakaritoGAME 9 дней назад

    great episode

  • @MostimaBlaqe
    @MostimaBlaqe 19 дней назад

    Damn, i learned alot about my self from this episode.

  • @sagiren
    @sagiren 18 дней назад +1

    26:30 that's normal Wade

  • @sheebitz
    @sheebitz 18 дней назад +1

    Just throwing it out there that kewpie mayo is the best mayo to ever exist 🙌 compared to American mayo its so much less overwhelming imo
    gochujang is also awesome, I tried it recently and its so good in so many dishes!
    I always put mayo in the fridge after opening, but I've seen people leave ketchup and stuff out unrefrigerated. Honestly makes me feel better to just put everything in the fridge after opening lol

  • @CreativityisDead
    @CreativityisDead 5 дней назад

    Oddly enough, I made mayonnaise the other day bc I was out. It ABSOLUTELY uses vinegar.

  • @catlovingnerd21
    @catlovingnerd21 16 дней назад +3

    11:58 i'm on wade's side here. sandwiches don't need a sauce

  • @christinapape4817
    @christinapape4817 2 дня назад

    Time to go to sleep 😊❤️

  • @ginamaynard2698
    @ginamaynard2698 15 часов назад

    6:21 Escape from Tarkov intensifies

  • @namiii8412
    @namiii8412 12 дней назад

    i think kewpie japanese mayo is different from the usual western mayonnaise

  • @ashleopard7937
    @ashleopard7937 11 дней назад +1

    I will not trust Mark about on food ever since he ate the moldy beef and got Super Food Poisoning

  • @JoDewinter-nw2kf
    @JoDewinter-nw2kf 6 дней назад

    Whats funny is i had not experienced the 'ill just go around' scenario at all until moving to ohio. It happens om a daily basis on the road

  • @trashcan9153
    @trashcan9153 12 дней назад

    Markiplier: coming up with this topic to find funny rage stories from his friends who has screamed in games
    Wade, wielding his most vulnerable story from childhood:

  • @miCBC123
    @miCBC123 20 дней назад

    Deep

  • @lukacelz8346
    @lukacelz8346 8 дней назад

    Why would you have sauce on a sandwitch? What dry as bread do you have? Isnt butter enough? xD

  • @kaliahyarnell8435
    @kaliahyarnell8435 18 дней назад

    Wait the whole mayonnaise thing is crazy cus if you also think about it a lot of restraints keep mayonnaise packets out in room temp too! I used to work as a server and never really recognized that!

  • @zdrowe5131
    @zdrowe5131 18 дней назад

    Am I tripping or did they not tell the Vegas bus story?

  • @montinyx
    @montinyx 17 дней назад

    I’m on Wade’s side, no sauce is best!!!!

  • @bethmichael4091
    @bethmichael4091 18 дней назад +1

    Bread meat and cheese ❤ its good

  • @MrHikari13
    @MrHikari13 День назад

    So I've never been to CA but here in FL people have a tendency to get right up your ass in line at the store, like easy buddy I'm not in the market for a new proctologist.

  • @ryn8101
    @ryn8101 22 дня назад +4

    bob really exposing his ohio origins in not being able to navigate like a californian, if someone stops it's assumed that they make space for other people to move around them, if you see someone stopped don't wait for them just go bc otherwise you're just holding everyone up

  • @PaperThinnGlennHall
    @PaperThinnGlennHall 28 дней назад

    welcome back

  • @miptias
    @miptias 20 дней назад +1

    is the intros are done by the guy from "Baldermort's Guide to Warhammer" ?

  • @markswan5374
    @markswan5374 11 дней назад

    Me: oh boy its my favorite silly boys podcast!
    30 minutes in: "so I resented my baby for threatening my wife's health."

  • @LuckyChanceGlitch
    @LuckyChanceGlitch 13 дней назад

    i like wade sandwich, simple good, sandwich good, yum.

  • @Emc87
    @Emc87 19 дней назад +4

    As a Californian, Time is Money, and shit is way too expensive here.
    As Sonic says, gotta go fast.

  • @bluchismoon
    @bluchismoon 19 дней назад

    4:53 just fyi, my family never put mayo in the fridge after opening.

  • @Daeveux
    @Daeveux 3 дня назад

    Do we not know about colloidal suspensions anymore? Shame. Shame.

  • @soupperson280
    @soupperson280 28 дней назад

    Goober

  • @Ham-Prince
    @Ham-Prince 28 дней назад +5

    WHY IS THERE NO VIEWS

    • @yb1829
      @yb1829 24 дня назад +3

      They uploaded like 100's of videos on the same day (judging from the date of all their recent uploads ) there is not enough time in the day to watch them to receive views

    • @yb1829
      @yb1829 24 дня назад +1

      also merry x-mas

    • @demondash8572
      @demondash8572 19 дней назад

      Distractable sucks/j

  • @thepopo592
    @thepopo592 13 дней назад

    I appreciate the dragon ball abridged reference

  • @ahuman8725
    @ahuman8725 28 дней назад

    97 views only??

  • @chasecampbell2803
    @chasecampbell2803 28 дней назад

    Hiiii mark!

  • @jesso-o2367
    @jesso-o2367 4 дня назад

    mark is lucky af that ethan was so quick to not only let mark apologize, but also forgive him, finish that video, and then allow them to edit around that moment to make it seem like it was a skit bc if i was in ethans shoes i wouldve left IMMEDIATELY i dont fuck with violence specifically that kind of rage and wall punching and ive never found that shit funny

    • @jesso-o2367
      @jesso-o2367 4 дня назад

      like genuinely, even if it was a friend of 25 years, i could never tolerate that kind of violence near me or because of me, over some taunting for a yt vid

  • @moocow7565
    @moocow7565 28 дней назад +1

    Um

  • @genmango
    @genmango 28 дней назад

    hi