Thanks for this advice, I having been working on me lost 25pounds, dressing better, changed my hairstyle , going out with friends and just doing ME and enjoying myself!!
Hi, so what is your advice for me, I need help, 3 years ago I found out that my boyfriend of 12 years been cheating on me with his ex girlfriend, I confront them both. She admitted everything to me, they been cheating on me the entire time, he beg me to forgive him, he promised me that he won't do it again, so I gave him a chance, well 3 weeks ago I found out that they still seeing each other, they never stopped, I haven't been him yet.. it's killing me inside.. my question is should I stay or leave? Thanks
@@sreyen1065 I really can’t tell u what to do because your the one that loves him, when love is involved it’s hard I know lol but when u found out the 1st time he said he would stop that should’ve been the end of it now he continues to do it!! I would just leave. I’m sorry your going through this I pray for your pain to go away!!
@@victorianorris1916 thank you so much for being honest, one of my friend tell me that I should leave the first time that I found out.. now second time, it's a no no.. I'm going to end it, because he continues to disrespect me and doesn't care about my feelings at all.. I'm too old to play games and life's too short to be unhappy and missable. I believe God has something better waiting for me.. time will heal.. I'm just praying everyday.
@@victorianorris1916 12 years together, I hope so he'll miss me, but it's already too late when he'll realize.. I'm gone. And one of these days he will be old and alone.. I'm 12 years younger than him, he should feel lucky to have me, but instead he's too busy chasing a married woman.. he's a fool.. he's not a real man. He'll be sorry, karma will get him back.
Thank you so much for this video. I now feel prepared for when I go back on my first date with my ex this weekend. I was feeling frustrated, but this inside has given me peace and I desire to let go of expectations.
Believe me i say that you are the one who we should be thanking you for your warm and encouraging words 😌 you have no idea how they did change my through my breakup i really appreciate what you doing for us brother ❤️🙏😊
The question is how do I make you fall in love with me?? Just kidding.. just love your stuff.. your soothing nature. Really appreciate your advice.. this stuff is challenging and when our emotions are high.. sometimes the graceful way of understanding and handling things seems impossible. I like your stuff because it’s real and it’s powerful.. thank you and keep it coming!
Asked ex if he could change or we should break up after thinking about it he said he wanted to try to change, then a week later he was still doing insensitive things so on the advice of a friend I gave him a break or breakup ultimatum and he chose the breakup. I tried to take it back but he said no. Then within a week of us breaking up he was with a chick that he knew had a thing for him. Unfortunately we all work/go to school together so I have to be around them everyday. He does everything with her that he did with me and even a little bit more. I need one on one coaching but I’m kind of strapped, as a student, I can afford something just not that much. I’m hoping to catch your lives.
You have your whole life in front of you. Don’t waste it on someone who doesn’t value you. Become the person he will regret breaking up with - be the best version of yourself. Work hard at school and on yourself and you’ll never look back with sadness. All the best - you’ve got this!
I have two kids with her how do I do this without being able to do no contact really? I’m the one that drives them around and I still need to be apart of my kids life. . . She did drop the if you love me let me go line too.
Any advice I broke up with her. Reached out apologized, she said she couldn’t do this again. I said okay, saw her at the gym, I was funny and flirty kissed her held her and let her go.
Anyway thanks for your advice always!! I'm not the type of lady who craving about men like I was right now, but this guy is really different I don't know why I wish he comes back to me I love him so very much but I don't know what to do because he blocked me everywhere without any reason
Hey bro i need ur advise on getting my ex wife back. We were married 18 years and divorced 3 years and no contact unless she texts me first, she's a Virgo and me Scorpio, thanks coach blac
Im still unsure if i want my ex back. No contact has shown me more about her behaviour towards me whilst being together but now im growing out of it. I hate that i still have a deep love for her but i cabt go thru all that drama again. Change comes in time and i really dont think she wants to face her dramas
Same bro. I chased after her thinking I was at fault and I finally snapped out of it and took her off all social media… she texts me saying I’m childish for removing her.
My boyfriend left me for another women and also lied that he is going through alot that he does not want to be in a relationship but yet brings in another woman while i m next door now that we argued he is blaming me for nocking at his door late and he does not want that i don't know what to do i love him
After no contact for weeks my ex contacted me asking me to take him back but in a meaner were apparently we will be cheating on his girlfriend that he chose over me i told him no even i still love him and wishing that we get back together😥😥 please help me what can i do to forget about all this guy and his rebound relationship it's really hurting me and i even lost weight just thinking about him😥😥
Hi coach, me and my ex recently broken up calmly. we decided to be friends but the awkward problem is I still live with him. i had a hard time and regardless that I still love him. we broken up because he felt like he is hurting as in talking to me aggressively is bad for my emotionally and mentally. you see i have a heart murmur. for that its MY responsiblity to deal with. he felt disconnected and confused. wondering why he is like that to me. made him think maybe he lost feelings for me. remains he still like me alot as a person. it took me time, yes i was upset and angry but i know now its not my fault. right now im currently doing my best to keep my distance with him. it hurts. mostly living in the same house as him for the meantime when i get my own apartment til march. so what should I do next?
my ex gf was in a rebound,,,i let her and the new supply run its course and stayed away,,,it was hard because it was being flaunted around my face every day at school but she ended things with the new supply after a few months and tried to get me back
@@lisarodriguez4172 thank you,,as an empath i did my best not to show any reaction,,but on the inside i cried hard and it hurt deep because i was love bombed and trauma bonded by her but now i am just about back to myself again..i am a survivor and hope things go well for you as well.
@@lisarodriguez4172 it will get better with time lisa,,try not to dwell and focus on it too much,,take care of your daughter and focus on self healing for tomorrow will be another day and a better future for you both.You are not alone and hope these videos help.You are a survivor like me.
I just asked my ex girlfriend if she would like to go for drinks Saturday and she replied back saying yeah I’m down. Shortly after that she replied back with Just clarifying though this is just as friends right ? Lol. I’m not sure how to take this, do I just go along with it or does this mean I will forsure never get her back
Go along with it, it’s very rare that your ex puts you in the friend zone, just be polite and in the moment don’t take about the past or future. I’m currently go through that kinda phase with my ex. It’s a really good sign that she’s even agreeing to go out.
I wouldn’t settle for a friend personally, she’s pretty much saying you aren’t good enough to be her man’s. Woman will push for a relationship with men they want.
Never reach out to the person who dumped you. You have done enough, fulfill youself by yourself
Time & patient is Everything
Thanks for this advice, I having been working on me lost 25pounds, dressing better, changed my hairstyle , going out with friends and just doing ME and enjoying myself!!
Hi, so what is your advice for me, I need help, 3 years ago I found out that my boyfriend of 12 years been cheating on me with his ex girlfriend, I confront them both. She admitted everything to me, they been cheating on me the entire time, he beg me to forgive him, he promised me that he won't do it again, so I gave him a chance, well 3 weeks ago I found out that they still seeing each other, they never stopped, I haven't been him yet.. it's killing me inside.. my question is should I stay or leave? Thanks
@@sreyen1065 I really can’t tell u what to do because your the one that loves him, when love is involved it’s hard I know lol but when u found out the 1st time he said he would stop that should’ve been the end of it now he continues to do it!! I would just leave. I’m sorry your going through this I pray for your pain to go away!!
@@victorianorris1916 thank you so much for being honest, one of my friend tell me that I should leave the first time that I found out.. now second time, it's a no no.. I'm going to end it, because he continues to disrespect me and doesn't care about my feelings at all.. I'm too old to play games and life's too short to be unhappy and missable. I believe God has something better waiting for me.. time will heal.. I'm just praying everyday.
@@sreyen1065 Amen just keep praying asking God to help you believe me he’s going to miss you when your gone!!
@@victorianorris1916 12 years together, I hope so he'll miss me, but it's already too late when he'll realize.. I'm gone. And one of these days he will be old and alone.. I'm 12 years younger than him, he should feel lucky to have me, but instead he's too busy chasing a married woman.. he's a fool.. he's not a real man. He'll be sorry, karma will get him back.
Thank you so much for this video. I now feel prepared for when I go back on my first date with my ex this weekend. I was feeling frustrated, but this inside has given me peace and I desire to let go of expectations.
Have a good time and let them miss that good time to want to repeat it again and again
Thank you for your videos. I’ve been binge watching them and they are really helping me get through this tough time ❤
Believe me i say that you are the one who we should be thanking you for your warm and encouraging words 😌 you have no idea how they did change my through my breakup i really appreciate what you doing for us brother ❤️🙏😊
Thank you my friend! 🤞🏿
The question is how do I make you fall in love with me?? Just kidding.. just love your stuff.. your soothing nature. Really appreciate your advice.. this stuff is challenging and when our emotions are high.. sometimes the graceful way of understanding and handling things seems impossible. I like your stuff because it’s real and it’s powerful.. thank you and keep it coming!
Asked ex if he could change or we should break up after thinking about it he said he wanted to try to change, then a week later he was still doing insensitive things so on the advice of a friend I gave him a break or breakup ultimatum and he chose the breakup. I tried to take it back but he said no. Then within a week of us breaking up he was with a chick that he knew had a thing for him. Unfortunately we all work/go to school together so I have to be around them everyday. He does everything with her that he did with me and even a little bit more. I need one on one coaching but I’m kind of strapped, as a student, I can afford something just not that much. I’m hoping to catch your lives.
You have your whole life in front of you. Don’t waste it on someone who doesn’t value you. Become the person he will regret breaking up with - be the best version of yourself. Work hard at school and on yourself and you’ll never look back with sadness. All the best - you’ve got this!
Long distance, broke up, friends said shes moved, ive moved on its better this way. Take and feel the pain attract someone better
Well go out and do better it’s not hard
This sounds great I really like this hope this works ☺️
Move on to someone else. Plain and simple
After one year he text me today .
Thank you sooo much Coach! Your advice has helped me so much! I’m so grateful to you! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
That is very reassuring.
Thankyou ❤
1 give him/her freedom attract them by letting them go no matter what
I listens to you everyday...
Warm welcome, thankyou! :)
New subscriber. I found you through TikTok, love your content
Coach black can you please give me the title of your backround sountrack is too good
You are great😊
Thank you as always 😊
Thanks it helps alot
Peace brother thanks ✊🏽☮
I have two kids with her how do I do this without being able to do no contact really? I’m the one that drives them around and I still need to be apart of my kids life. . . She did drop the if you love me let me go line too.
The third video on this channel deals with this topic specifically
I don't really know how to thank Dr Ayogu you're such a wonderful spiritualist ... thanks for bringing back my relationship.💐💐
He’s on Facebook
He’s on Facebook..
Any advice I broke up with her. Reached out apologized, she said she couldn’t do this again. I said okay, saw her at the gym, I was funny and flirty kissed her held her and let her go.
I like your content …
Anyway thanks for your advice always!! I'm not the type of lady who craving about men like I was right now, but this guy is really different I don't know why I wish he comes back to me I love him so very much but I don't know what to do because he blocked me everywhere without any reason
I don't really know how to thank Dr Ayogu you're such a wonderful spiritualist ... thanks for bringing back my relationship💐💐.
He’s on Facebook.
Hey bro i need ur advise on getting my ex wife back. We were married 18 years and divorced 3 years and no contact unless she texts me first, she's a Virgo and me Scorpio, thanks coach blac
Im still unsure if i want my ex back. No contact has shown me more about her behaviour towards me whilst being together but now im growing out of it. I hate that i still have a deep love for her but i cabt go thru all that drama again. Change comes in time and i really dont think she wants to face her dramas
Same bro. I chased after her thinking I was at fault and I finally snapped out of it and took her off all social media… she texts me saying I’m childish for removing her.
@@XCVi_MAC when i ended it, she blocked me on all socials except my phone number. I ask why everything except my phone number.
@@qwickvids1140 what she say
@@XCVi_MAC she didnt say why, but i think she was hoovering to see where im at with our breakup.
@@qwickvids1140 talked to mind now
My boyfriend left me for another women and also lied that he is going through alot that he does not want to be in a relationship but yet brings in another woman while i m next door now that we argued he is blaming me for nocking at his door late and he does not want that i don't know what to do i love him
How would he fall back on me without no where to be found him or reaching out to me, because he blocked me everywhere
Go date someone more attractive and interesting
But if long term realtionship is there it is to difficult 😐 how that time that say me i alreday follow up the video
I don’t think my ex will be back just because I think there’s some things she’s done that she doesn’t ever want me to find out about.
Hi I need help he's with another woman now we had a 16 life together
My ex don't love me anymore
After no contact for weeks my ex contacted me asking me to take him back but in a meaner were apparently we will be cheating on his girlfriend that he chose over me i told him no even i still love him and wishing that we get back together😥😥 please help me what can i do to forget about all this guy and his rebound relationship it's really hurting me and i even lost weight just thinking about him😥😥
Hi coach, me and my ex recently broken up calmly. we decided to be friends but the awkward problem is I still live with him. i had a hard time and regardless that I still love him. we broken up because he felt like he is hurting as in talking to me aggressively is bad for my emotionally and mentally. you see i have a heart murmur. for that its MY responsiblity to deal with. he felt disconnected and confused. wondering why he is like that to me. made him think maybe he lost feelings for me. remains he still like me alot as a person. it took me time, yes i was upset and angry but i know now its not my fault. right now im currently doing my best to keep my distance with him. it hurts. mostly living in the same house as him for the meantime when i get my own apartment til march. so what should I do next?
How do I contact you/online?
what about in video if you live in different countries?
I can’t see live notification
What if he’s in a rebound relationship? We have a daughter together 😊
my ex gf was in a rebound,,,i let her and the new supply run its course and stayed away,,,it was hard because it was being flaunted around my face every day at school but she ended things with the new supply after a few months and tried to get me back
@@robertswift6101 I’m sorry
@@lisarodriguez4172 thank you,,as an empath i did my best not to show any reaction,,but on the inside i cried hard and it hurt deep because i was love bombed and trauma bonded by her but now i am just about back to myself again..i am a survivor and hope things go well for you as well.
@@robertswift6101 It hurts like hell. I cry everyday. It hurts so much knowing he’s with her. 14 years all gone
@@lisarodriguez4172 it will get better with time lisa,,try not to dwell and focus on it too much,,take care of your daughter and focus on self healing for tomorrow will be another day and a better future for you both.You are not alone and hope these videos help.You are a survivor like me.
I just asked my ex girlfriend if she would like to go for drinks Saturday and she replied back saying yeah I’m down. Shortly after that she replied back with Just clarifying though this is just as friends right ? Lol.
I’m not sure how to take this, do I just go along with it or does this mean I will forsure never get her back
Go along with it, it’s very rare that your ex puts you in the friend zone, just be polite and in the moment don’t take about the past or future. I’m currently go through that kinda phase with my ex. It’s a really good sign that she’s even agreeing to go out.
I wouldn’t settle for a friend personally, she’s pretty much saying you aren’t good enough to be her man’s. Woman will push for a relationship with men they want.
Easy.
You tell her “I am not interested in being friends.”
She wants her ego fed. Period.
Your diplomas in the background...where did you attend college?
Really need you too talk to me
The background music is quite loud , distracting n disturbing.
:)
My man what if we’re long distance for now and i don’t move to where she lives until another year?