I went through a really hard breakup in september of 2021. It changed who I was and took me into the darkest places I've ever been but in January I moved out of my childhood home to New York because I knew the timing was right and it was where I was meant to be. I honestly have never been better in my life and just want you to know that yes the transition is hard at times, but being a 20 year old and moving to your dream city is so special. You're going to have a whole new life that you get to create all on your own terms !!!!!! that is going to fill you up so deeply. I feel so positive about this for you and am sending alllllllll of my love !!!!!
@@HaPpYlOvEpEacE1 I'm a dancer so it has always been part of my plan :) I lived there pre pandemic and then have been living at home until this Jan so saving and working lots. I teach dance and work in a restaurant now :)
I also went through a hard long term relationship breakup and I totally understand. My hometown is filled with memories of us. I get that you want to go somewhere fresh and new. I've followed you for a very long time and I'm happy to see you thriving and doing big things. I hope that you'll make moving vlogs :)
I’m happy for you girl!! It’s a big change but I feel like it’s gonna work well for you, you have so much potential and being somewhere like LA will make it easier for opportunities probably !
hihi, im moving in september after growing up in the french countryside to london for university. very scared but reading the comments and watching this video, makes me feel so less alone. thank you
4:10 to 4:30 is exactly how i feel about my hometown. its been 4 years since i moved out and even though some things have been extremely hard, i don't regret it for a minute. i'm so much happier and have so much more things going on. i really have a whole new perspective on life now. so i wish you all the best things in the world. its gonna be amazing. proud of you 💓
Congrats Avery, I can totally see you thriving in LA. I moved away from the city I grew up in at 19 and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. So happy for you!
as a wise woman once said… “no more waiting” :)) so happy for you ave! i hope your travel goes smoothly! also i can totally see you living in nyc someday!!
Aw best of luck, Avrey. Watching this really made me think of when Aspyn said she was moving to LA years ago lol. Obviously, that wasn’t meant to be. However, I think you will enjoy your time there. No one said it has to be permanent either. For however long your journey is there, I think you’ll have a great time and gain a lot from the experience. Hope your move goes well! xo
I was engaged and living in LA, we were together for 9 years…December 2021 we moved back to the Midwest for family reasons and to start planning wedding stuff and we broke up. It’s been the WORST experience of my life but I’m going to move through it and I wish YOU THR BEST OF LUCK. Keep the mantra: “I AM POWERFUL”. You got this.
i've also lived in utah my entire life and your November 2021 sounds a lot like my current April 2022 :')) also wanting to leave utah asap, this video helped me so much omfg thank you. you are so cute
I’m from Long Beach, just outside LA proper, and I love it sm!! everywhere you go, there you are, but also some places just fit some people better! I hope you have a wonderful time!
Avery prayers and thoughts for you and wishing you the best of luck with your moving hope that all goes well for you and your fresh start love your Australia fan John xxx
When you said that you are a new person since November I felt that!!! Literally November Omg. When you said when you feel like you spent so long building a life just for it to be gone like that. And how strange it is being in the same place with the same things but life is so different now. Fuck, it was said so perfectly. Anyway love you and so happy for you and your new start!!!!
i always tell myself "the world is too big for me to stay in one place forever" and it is very true! Your family and friends will always be there even if you move to a different state or country, and you can always visit them but it is so good to go and live for yourself and explore new things and find what works for you and your plans! We need to enjoy everything we can before it's too late! I'm so excited for you with this new chapter in your life and I hope it's everything you dream and more! And just remember, if it doesn't work out, you can always go explore new places or even go back to your hometown! Life is short, so enjoy every minute of it!! Excited to see where this new journey takes you!! Good luck!!!
as someone who just got broken up with after a 3 year relationship, I am so incredibly happy for u and this fresh start. I’m so excited to see this journey of urs
Seriously you are amazing, I know you will do great, I hope you are doing better with everything around you and with yourself. LOVE YOUUUUUU!!!!!! ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Congratulations queen!!! I wish your life will be good in LA and I'm so excited to watch all of your new vlogs because we all wanna be with you in this new chapter of your life. Wish you the best
i went through a very difficult and traumatizing breakup in june of 2021 and i really didn’t want to move but it was honestly the best decision i’ve made because i’m a whole new person with a new perspective on things and i’m so grateful to just be away from where my ex lives now. it’s brought me so much more joy than i could’ve imagined.
so so excited for you avery!! as an LA native, you will soon get used to busy life here and the traffic lol but you will have an amazing life there. congratulations!!
I am actually going through a similar thing, in August I went through a hard long term breakup and it still affects me, I’m still in the same apartment and I also want to move because it’s just so weird how my life is so different but I’m in the same place. It makes me feel better that you understand because I haven’t really been able to talk to anyone that understands. I hope you are happy in La❤️
i think this change will help you a lot. i am very excited for you, and you moving on from a place where you feel on stand by. i wish the best for the best and ily :)
Have watched you for so long and you are such a different type of RUclipsr. I’m 31 and I’m obsessed with the person that you are. You are so deserving of this adventure, and so deserving of every good thing coming your way! So proud of you Avrey!! 💕
Hey queen, coming from someone your age moving to a completely different state sounds so scary. You are a badass for pulling the trigger, I wish you the best in LA!! Also don’t stress about not uploading super constantly especially during the moving process. That shit is stressful already, you don’t need another layer of stress. Take your time, find your rhythm and then get back to us. Love you
I am so happy for you Avery. Thank you so much for posting this. It’s incredibly relatable. I have been wanting to move out of florida so bad for years now and the only thing holding me back has been my family and school. With graduating soon and finding a full time job I’m finally going to have the capability to move and I’m so happy.
Something I’ve learned in life and moving is that is not the place, sometimes is you. I recommend therapy and introspective. Work on yourself and it won’t matter where you are, you will thrive.
Super scary, but how exciting! How many times can people say they can completely change their entire life! So many of us understand the furniture thing. They served their purpose with you in this space and now it's time to change that as well. You're going to flourish wherever you end up in the world and life
I’m so happy for you and this transitional period in your life. I wish you the best. I know this is the right decision for you and will bring u so many blessing
You are so open and real sharing you thought and feelings. We all appreciate that. You deserve everything that will make you happy so you got it girl. Keep it light and simple, you'll figure things out one step at a time. Lots of love from Europe
good luck!!! im graduating next year and im gonna leave the country and basically be around nothing i know (dunno where eto apply yet) im terrified but i cant wait i hope the move goes well for u !
It’s crazy being from la cause on one hand I understand how good it is for business in cases like this its just sucky it has to be in such a soul sucking city. But also money helps so idk
Hey Avery it's been a minute since I've watched your video my very first time watching a video of you was when I was battling with depression and you had a video of you talking about how you had also struggled with depression as well I remember you was in High school at that time it's so nice to see how much you have grown since the last time I've seen you keep being amazing so proud of you 👏
Congratulations! I'm so excited for you and I can't wait to see whats next for you. And I'm so glad you posted this! I'm at a very different stage in life than you yet this resonated with me so hard! 🖤
So happy and exciting for this chapter of ur life ! And I feel u girl about the life not moving on and stuff I think everyone goes through this at some point in their life and don’t worry ur not alone !..I hope u’ll figure things out for yourself
It’s crazy that people from completely different country’s and places and lives can listen to someone else talking and think „shit, I feel exactly how she feels“. 🤯 I always wanted to move out of my hometown and I even did a worldtrip for almost 2 years. I lived in New Zealand for one year and then I came back because my niece was born. I’m such a family person, plus corona happened, so I didn’t move somewhere else.🌎 So now I’m sitting in my apartment here and watch your video and think and feel exactly what you feel. Like life is on pause. Like to many memories are here. I threw out a lot of clothes that remind me of stuff, I wanna throw out my whole bedroom because of memories and feelings „stuck“ on them. And somehow I just go to work and go places here, wait for my next travels, but it feels like not the right place for me to be. It feels like I’m not supposed to be here. Even if I love this city and my friends here and my family. So I feel you so much and you’re doing the right thing. Whether in LA or somewhere else. As a quote says „Go where you feel the most alive“. 🕊💕 I always completely felt you in your videos. About depression and stuff. But this video, wow 🤯 I hope you will find your place and I’m proud that you just go for it. Maybe it inspires me to go for it too very soon 🥰 Greetings from Germany 💕
so proud and excited for u
you next ? ;)
I love u kennedy
@@ellarose1685 no
i am so scared of a breakup, but watching others moving on, taking the next step is making me feel okay. i'm thankful for your chanmel
As someone who has done this EXACT thing after a horrible breakup, let me tell you, this will be the BEST DECISION OF YOUR LIFE. Enjoy your moment
I went through a really hard breakup in september of 2021. It changed who I was and took me into the darkest places I've ever been but in January I moved out of my childhood home to New York because I knew the timing was right and it was where I was meant to be. I honestly have never been better in my life and just want you to know that yes the transition is hard at times, but being a 20 year old and moving to your dream city is so special. You're going to have a whole new life that you get to create all on your own terms !!!!!! that is going to fill you up so deeply. I feel so positive about this for you and am sending alllllllll of my love !!!!!
omg im moving to new york soon too and i literally know no one :) thanks for inspiring me!
What do you do for a living that gave you the ability to move out to New York?
appreciate this comment so much, thank you
@@HaPpYlOvEpEacE1 I'm a dancer so it has always been part of my plan :) I lived there pre pandemic and then have been living at home until this Jan so saving and working lots. I teach dance and work in a restaurant now :)
do you have any suggestion on how to not feel so lonely/make new friends moving to a big city alone?? send help
I also went through a hard long term relationship breakup and I totally understand. My hometown is filled with memories of us. I get that you want to go somewhere fresh and new. I've followed you for a very long time and I'm happy to see you thriving and doing big things. I hope that you'll make moving vlogs :)
same, i hope you're doing okay x
You've come such a long way Avrey, I'm so excited to see what this new chapter brings you. I'll be sending love all the way across the country
I’m happy for you girl!! It’s a big change but I feel like it’s gonna work well for you, you have so much potential and being somewhere like LA will make it easier for opportunities probably !
Exactly!
hihi, im moving in september after growing up in the french countryside to london for university. very scared but reading the comments and watching this video, makes me feel so less alone. thank you
Growing up in the French countryside sounds magical
@@mariahandsons kinda quite isolating tbh but it was defo nice to have picnics growing up
4:10 to 4:30 is exactly how i feel about my hometown. its been 4 years since i moved out and even though some things have been extremely hard, i don't regret it for a minute. i'm so much happier and have so much more things going on. i really have a whole new perspective on life now. so i wish you all the best things in the world. its gonna be amazing. proud of you 💓
good for u, we all need to be prioritizing our mental and emotional health 💞
so happy for you!! can't imagine how nervous but excited you must be, just know that everything falls into place🥺
Congrats Avery, I can totally see you thriving in LA. I moved away from the city I grew up in at 19 and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. So happy for you!
as a wise woman once said… “no more waiting” :)) so happy for you ave! i hope your travel goes smoothly! also i can totally see you living in nyc someday!!
i have this phone case on my phone! everyday im reminded to go out and make the big moves. you got this ave
so amazing how vulnerable + real you are ❤️ wishing nothing but healing and growth and success in the future avrey!
Aw best of luck, Avrey. Watching this really made me think of when Aspyn said she was moving to LA years ago lol. Obviously, that wasn’t meant to be. However, I think you will enjoy your time there. No one said it has to be permanent either. For however long your journey is there, I think you’ll have a great time and gain a lot from the experience. Hope your move goes well! xo
You’ve earned this Avery. No more being scared. This is YOUR time to shine. Go get that life girl. 💗Much love.
I was engaged and living in LA, we were together for 9 years…December 2021 we moved back to the Midwest for family reasons and to start planning wedding stuff and we broke up. It’s been the WORST experience of my life but I’m going to move through it and I wish YOU THR BEST OF LUCK. Keep the mantra: “I AM POWERFUL”. You got this.
I KNEW ONCE I SAW YOU SELLING YOUR DINING TABLE SOMETHING WAS UP!
once you’re moved and settled i would love more vlog content! i feel it’s more personal and i would like to see your routines and your everyday life🤍
Yessss
i've also lived in utah my entire life and your November 2021 sounds a lot like my current April 2022 :')) also wanting to leave utah asap, this video helped me so much omfg thank you. you are so cute
Moving to different places is about soul searching most of the time and it gives you a-lot more room for realization. You can do it.
so excited for you avrey! as an LA native im excited to see how you experience life here :)
I’m from Long Beach, just outside LA proper, and I love it sm!! everywhere you go, there you are, but also some places just fit some people better! I hope you have a wonderful time!
Avery prayers and thoughts for you and wishing you the best of luck with your moving hope that all goes well for you and your fresh start love your Australia fan John xxx
so excited for you
im so so excited for you you're gonna have so much more opportunities i love this good luckkk
When you said that you are a new person since November I felt that!!! Literally November Omg. When you said when you feel like you spent so long building a life just for it to be gone like that. And how strange it is being in the same place with the same things but life is so different now. Fuck, it was said so perfectly. Anyway love you and so happy for you and your new start!!!!
i always tell myself "the world is too big for me to stay in one place forever" and it is very true! Your family and friends will always be there even if you move to a different state or country, and you can always visit them but it is so good to go and live for yourself and explore new things and find what works for you and your plans! We need to enjoy everything we can before it's too late! I'm so excited for you with this new chapter in your life and I hope it's everything you dream and more! And just remember, if it doesn't work out, you can always go explore new places or even go back to your hometown! Life is short, so enjoy every minute of it!! Excited to see where this new journey takes you!! Good luck!!!
Moving can also create a good space for perspective on the past and perspective on who you are. Happy and excited for you
the amount of serotonin i get when avery posts is unreal
Have you ever considered living in NYC? I feel like you fit in with the atmosphere of NYC so much
I feel like everyone is moving there!
Same I actually thought she was moving to NYC before I clicked on the video
as someone who just got broken up with after a 3 year relationship, I am so incredibly happy for u and this fresh start. I’m so excited to see this journey of urs
I really hope this move gives you the restart you're hoping for 🥺 sending you all the love and strength for the moving process ❤❤
Seriously you are amazing, I know you will do great, I hope you are doing better with everything around you and with yourself. LOVE YOUUUUUU!!!!!! ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Congratulations queen!!! I wish your life will be good in LA and I'm so excited to watch all of your new vlogs because we all wanna be with you in this new chapter of your life. Wish you the best
so excited and proud!! i’m also going thru it and am tryna do big good things to make life happy again
awww i’m so happy for you! hope la treats you well and can’t wait to see your journey there
i went through a very difficult and traumatizing breakup in june of 2021 and i really didn’t want to move but it was honestly the best decision i’ve made because i’m a whole new person with a new perspective on things and i’m so grateful to just be away from where my ex lives now. it’s brought me so much more joy than i could’ve imagined.
I relate to all of this SO MUCH on a smaller scale. I'm so excited for this new chapter for you, and I hope to put mine into action soon too!
I’m so happy for you!!! I just recently moved from Cali to utah lol but I love it here. Always follow your heart!
I am so excited for you!! I have been following u for so long and seeing u do this now is just awesome!!
so so excited for you avery!! as an LA native, you will soon get used to busy life here and the traffic lol but you will have an amazing life there. congratulations!!
so excited for avrey’s new era💘💘
I’m so excited for you, I can imagine what you’re going through and I hope that your heart heals with all the brightness within 💓 I love you
I am actually going through a similar thing, in August I went through a hard long term breakup and it still affects me, I’m still in the same apartment and I also want to move because it’s just so weird how my life is so different but I’m in the same place. It makes me feel better that you understand because I haven’t really been able to talk to anyone that understands. I hope you are happy in La❤️
i think this change will help you a lot. i am very excited for you, and you moving on from a place where you feel on stand by. i wish the best for the best and ily :)
Have watched you for so long and you are such a different type of RUclipsr. I’m 31 and I’m obsessed with the person that you are. You are so deserving of this adventure, and so deserving of every good thing coming your way! So proud of you Avrey!! 💕
AH good for you averyyy. Can’t wait to see you thrive in LA💕
YEAAA let’s go girly this is gonna be a great thing for you i can feel it!
You’re moving to LA and I’m moving out of LA (moving to the East Coast). Cheers to both of us!
you seem so much happier and healthier :,) it's been the most fun growing w u !
Hey queen, coming from someone your age moving to a completely different state sounds so scary. You are a badass for pulling the trigger, I wish you the best in LA!! Also don’t stress about not uploading super constantly especially during the moving process. That shit is stressful already, you don’t need another layer of stress. Take your time, find your rhythm and then get back to us. Love you
I found comfort watching this. Currently transitioning in life as well. Exciting things are happening and I’m very happy for you
I am so happy for you Avery. Thank you so much for posting this. It’s incredibly relatable. I have been wanting to move out of florida so bad for years now and the only thing holding me back has been my family and school. With graduating soon and finding a full time job I’m finally going to have the capability to move and I’m so happy.
Happy for you Avrey!! Ready to see you grow and thrive in a new place
I’m so excited for u I think it will be amazing for u! I feel like u will have more opportunities with ur career
You got this Avrey 💛So much opportunity awaits you in LA🤩✨
I’m so excited to see you go on this chapter , it’s going to be so much fun!🤍
so excited for you!! best wishes for your fresh start
i'm so excited for u girlll!!! can't wait to see what this new season in ur life brings u
This is a whole new chapter! Goodluck Avrey
So excited for you Avrey!! You got this!!
Something I’ve learned in life and moving is that is not the place, sometimes is you. I recommend therapy and introspective. Work on yourself and it won’t matter where you are, you will thrive.
im so excited and happy for you! change is good and this seems fun! wish you the best and cant wait to see the journey
Super scary, but how exciting! How many times can people say they can completely change their entire life! So many of us understand the furniture thing. They served their purpose with you in this space and now it's time to change that as well. You're going to flourish wherever you end up in the world and life
I’m so happy for you and this transitional period in your life. I wish you the best. I know this is the right decision for you and will bring u so many blessing
ahhh, this is such exciting news!! you’ve got this!! safe travels + hope LA brings you all opportunities and happiness that you deserve💗
Girl you’re so independent & strong, so inspiring for all the hard work you put in yourself and your dreams. I hope new life treats you well!!
so excited to watch you go through this journey! love how how real you are 🌹sending you productive and blissful vibes through this transition stage✨🌙
Hope everything goes smooth and well
You are so open and real sharing you thought and feelings. We all appreciate that. You deserve everything that will make you happy so you got it girl. Keep it light and simple, you'll figure things out one step at a time. Lots of love from Europe
good luck!!! im graduating next year and im gonna leave the country and basically be around nothing i know (dunno where eto apply yet) im terrified but i cant wait i hope the move goes well for u !
It’s crazy being from la cause on one hand I understand how good it is for business in cases like this its just sucky it has to be in such a soul sucking city. But also money helps so idk
i’m moving out of my childhood home into a place that’s 6 hours away and i totally feel this and needed to hear this so thank you
I'm so happy for you! Can't wait for all the vlogs ❤️
Hey Avery it's been a minute since I've watched your video my very first time watching a video of you was when I was battling with depression and you had a video of you talking about how you had also struggled with depression as well I remember you was in High school at that time it's so nice to see how much you have grown since the last time I've seen you keep being amazing so proud of you 👏
I’m so happy for you i wish you all the best thing in the world . I have a deep feeling that the good is waiting for you ❤️😍
I'm so happy for you!! 💕💕 here we go new chapter 😍
excited for you!!! you are gonna have a BLAST (i’ll be praying for that!)
Congratulations! I'm so excited for you and I can't wait to see whats next for you.
And I'm so glad you posted this! I'm at a very different stage in life than you yet this resonated with me so hard! 🖤
So happy and exciting for this chapter of ur life ! And I feel u girl about the life not moving on and stuff I think everyone goes through this at some point in their life and don’t worry ur not alone !..I hope u’ll figure things out for yourself
So happy for you Avery! All the best
I’m sure you get this all the time but you just seem like the most real, down to earth person and it’s so refreshing.
Ugh I’m excited for l.a content! You’re going to fucking kill it Avery !
yass girl, a change is always need
everything you said abt your breakup is valid, don't let anyone make u feel bad abt that
Excited to come along the ride with you!! So exciting!
i moved to la unexpectedly when i was 20 and it was the best decision i ever made. so excited for you!
Not meaning this in a bad way but it is so cool to see you living such a different life than your sister did at your age!!
I'm so happy for you avrey moving somewhere new is always exciting and fun I hope LA treats you well
It’s crazy that people from completely different country’s and places and lives can listen to someone else talking and think „shit, I feel exactly how she feels“. 🤯
I always wanted to move out of my hometown and I even did a worldtrip for almost 2 years. I lived in New Zealand for one year and then I came back because my niece was born. I’m such a family person, plus corona happened, so I didn’t move somewhere else.🌎
So now I’m sitting in my apartment here and watch your video and think and feel exactly what you feel.
Like life is on pause. Like to many memories are here.
I threw out a lot of clothes that remind me of stuff, I wanna throw out my whole bedroom because of memories and feelings „stuck“ on them.
And somehow I just go to work and go places here, wait for my next travels, but it feels like not the right place for me to be. It feels like I’m not supposed to be here. Even if I love this city and my friends here and my family.
So I feel you so much and you’re doing the right thing. Whether in LA or somewhere else. As a quote says „Go where you feel the most alive“. 🕊💕
I always completely felt you in your videos. About depression and stuff. But this video, wow 🤯
I hope you will find your place and I’m proud that you just go for it. Maybe it inspires me to go for it too very soon 🥰
Greetings from Germany 💕
u got this avrey!! ur gonna take la by storm :)💕 so excited for what’s to come!!
I hope it all goes well!! Super proud 🥲🥲 ❤️❤️
i’m going through all of this rn, we’re all in this together. go slay girl
You got this! I cant wait to see your journey and you will thrive i think!
This is so exciting!! :)) I’m so excited to see where you’re at next April 🥳🤍
Sending love to you during this chapter of your life! ❤️❤️
you have our support!!!!! good luck avrey
avrey, as someone who lives in LA, im so happy we’re gaining a beautiful bae like you in the city 😍❤️ la will welcome you
I'm happy you'll be close to Luna and her momma too