Surviving Your Family Dynamic - Matt Kahn

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @lilyindigo6968
    @lilyindigo6968 6 лет назад +7

    This man changed my life! I started learning two years ago...now my life is completely new! God bless you Matt! I miss you..please do another video soon! I pray someday I can afford to see you in person!

  • @lumaharger
    @lumaharger 6 лет назад +121

    I honestly can't believe the timing of this. ❤️

  • @rozmclellan3909
    @rozmclellan3909 Месяц назад

    Thank you, Matt for being so real. I am learning so much by listening to your videos. I absolutely love how you explain, love and life and spirituality in a way that makes sense to me. it resonates with me on such a deep level that it is moving forward loving compassionate way.

  • @BigManTate7364
    @BigManTate7364 6 лет назад +82

    You described my childhood in so many ways. I realize I'm still attracting people into my life that I try to rescue and heal who don't reciprocate that love and only hurt me in the end. The timing of this is impeccable because I've been facing these same challenges and finally coming to terms with them. Now it's time to love myself and get the abuse out of my life. Idk how I will do this because frankly it's terrifying to consider leaving everything I've ever known behind but I know there is so much more waiting for me beyond what I've been holding onto. Thank you so much Matt!

  • @jennykastelic3253
    @jennykastelic3253 6 лет назад +38

    so hard to hear this. I am a victim AND an abuser. I am an abuser from the parts of myself still healing, still triggered. I apologize to my kids and explain what I am doing so as not to manipulate but there has been a lot of freaking out. Thank you, Matt, for opening up. Thank you.

  • @thirdeye9106
    @thirdeye9106 6 лет назад +19

    Well, well, well. Look what precious gem I bumped into. Thank you for this video. However I'm not sure I can bear to listen to the whole thing without totally falling apart before going about my day.
    I've worked on my inner stuff for many decades and then 5 years ago I got into Abraham Hicks that stressed how counterproductive it was to think or feel anything bad, sad or ugly about the horrible parts of the past. Oh spit! Deny the feelings.
    The "Law of Attraction" sector, and the "Spiritual" community is so conflicted, so full of contradictions I've been in a serious quandry for the past few years about therapy in general along with my own inner work. It feels awful.
    I feel so empty, confused and stuck. I'm afraid I'm blocking a lot of rage regarding the situation. Back to square one. Anybody out there identify with this kind of quandry?

  • @MyAuthenticSelf-TeraLeathers
    @MyAuthenticSelf-TeraLeathers 3 года назад +1

    At 37 years old i now realize only I control my emotions and turning my empathathic self of a curse into my blessing. Finding Matt Khan has been a blessing to my life and has been helping me in my life in so many ways. Seeing myself worth to the point of having a part in being able to leave bad attachments of a twin flame firstly leading to making getting myself off the Portland streets possible. Now surviving living in my parents home again. Meditations, affirmations, gratitude, prayer and Matt Khan getting me through this part of my journey. Thank you for sharing.

  • @pattikeene1293
    @pattikeene1293 6 лет назад +44

    I love you Matt Kahn. And I thank you from the depths of my heart for sharing your own vulnerability in order that I may embrace and heal from my own. You Rock!

  • @PattyAnnnet
    @PattyAnnnet 6 лет назад +6

    AWESOME - one of Matt's best yet! Abusive learned behaviors are tremendous to ascend. But, oh, once you do- what an incredible blessing you become to yourself, as well as others.

  • @tanjaborchhardt2123
    @tanjaborchhardt2123 6 лет назад +31

    this really made me cry and meet the inner child that still needs so much care and love... so as you send your love outward into the world an endless stream of empathic souls are answering the call and sending the love right back to you Matt...we all love you, I think I can speak in behalf of many many others listening to your heartcentered wisdom

  • @depressionbeard9882
    @depressionbeard9882 6 лет назад +71

    I relate to this on such a deep and profound level! Parts of your childhood and conflicting mother / son relationship could have just as well been my story...the abuse, the terror, being made the victim but at the same time the rescuer, friends in adulthood who I helped and healed and who then deeply hurt and rejected me...Thank you for sharing! SO inspiring, truly beyond words. I want to applaud you. I don't know why I've never really liked you before...but now I get the feeling maybe it was because I sensed your pain and therefore felt you were a phony when you didn't talk about it and only presented yourself as the healer. But now that I know your story I can see that you actually have more integrity and authenticity and credibility than any other spiritual teacher. God bless your soul

  • @HarryHelsing
    @HarryHelsing 6 лет назад +48

    I feel an energy shift in Matt, it's really nice to feel him open up and become more comfortable with himself ❤️ good for you Matt, it's lovely to feel. We are proud of you ;D

  • @antoinetteatanasoff5673
    @antoinetteatanasoff5673 6 лет назад +6

    Thank you for the courage to reveal your childhood. You extend the light of love and forgiveness to parents, friends, and yourself. You are such an inspired teacher. Thank you dear Matt. You are a Blessing.

  • @kayla3460
    @kayla3460 6 лет назад +24

    perfectly perfect! I'm currently pregnant and beyond honored to travel through this rite of passage, but have experienced a place of vulnerability I have never been in before. My past holds many experiences of abuse and I thank all of them for what they have taught me. I recently left a toxic relationship and said to the universe thank you, but that I no longer needed to stay in an abusive state anymore to know my worth. What resonated for me in this video is that leaving and no longer accepting that behavior is love and it allows other to heal also. Thank you for being you!

  • @maryselmi8904
    @maryselmi8904 6 лет назад +6

    Matt when I woke up this morning my headphones were still in my ears. I meditate to put myself to sleep. When I had awoken this morning I heard a voice. I look up and saw your name and read Matt Kalm. Thank you for sharing your story. I loved the peace and calmness I felt in your voice,. For I was lost and now I am found. I love you.

  • @CrystalTwinStar
    @CrystalTwinStar 6 лет назад +4

    Your soft gaze you offered each audience member was amazingly profound❤😇

  • @DeborahHurd7
    @DeborahHurd7 6 лет назад +4

    Wow I don’t think I have ever cried so much .. such beautiful words such beautiful healing such beautiful truth such beautiful love ❤️ 🔥🙏 I love you so Matt oxox hugs

  • @Liisa_011
    @Liisa_011 6 лет назад +20

    Beyond belief,well yeah,beyond the old belief,to this moment of Oh Lord God,Thank you for my intuition finding this right when it came out.Thank you to Matt Kahn.Me too!
    I can be finally free of stuffing myself w food,frozen at home alone,300 lbs, at 57,no more going to the streets doing alcohol,drugs,cigs,alone with no family,or job,and having walked away from a 12 step community,that were being abusive,I am so excited to come out of the closet,and be my beautiful sensitive,Starseed self.Ive been working w the Angels and Ascended Masters for years,silently and mostly in dreamtime.Yay!

  • @kathleenmcdowell2076
    @kathleenmcdowell2076 6 лет назад +11

    Bless you, angel. We love you so much.

  • @xenajade6264
    @xenajade6264 6 лет назад +2

    Matt you are transforming lives around the world. The idea of cutting abuse out of your life is new to me. I'd always thought I had to incorporate it into who I am, like broken bones that don't heal. Your teachings illuminate hearts and minds, I feel that I dissolve into a dimension of light when I listen to you. Amazing.

  • @ohheyitsme.1730
    @ohheyitsme.1730 6 лет назад +1

    Missing you, Matt. Thank you for all of your unconditional love and guidance.

  • @wendyeskelin8765
    @wendyeskelin8765 6 лет назад +11

    I am glad you are feeling the love from everyone. I know I am so thankful for everything you've brought to my life. I loved the fact that you were so vulnerable about your life, it's not an easy thing to do, especially in front of so many. I am sure it will help so a lot of people to feel like they aren't alone in life.

  • @Fimreite1
    @Fimreite1 6 лет назад +3

    I can totally identify with what you have talked about in this video. Thank you so very much. I have cut ties with most of my abuser from my past, but I appreciate your sharing and your reminding me to inventory those who are presently in my life, including myself.

  • @friederikesonne1954
    @friederikesonne1954 6 лет назад +6

    Wow Matt. had the same type of Mother. But my father slipped out of the situataions and finally died very early. She is still alive and I learn loving her for her Life Force that might be mine too. She is getting 98 now. I can so relate to all you share so honestly. Love you.

  • @kerriscreations
    @kerriscreations 6 лет назад +7

    My prayers have been answered!!!

  • @CrystalTwinStar
    @CrystalTwinStar 6 лет назад +3

    Thank you Matt! The most poignantly validating message I have ever heard! Thank you for enduring this journey to make the path brighter for so many. God bless you and your new bride! Much love and hugs to both of you❤😇

  • @callmeC2theP
    @callmeC2theP 6 лет назад +10

    As always epic timing, as I’ve endured a lot of negative energy from my parents. In the exact situation always being the rock for them, and When I needed them they walked away bc of religious beliefs. Thank you Matt for you are always on time and putting my mind at peace with each video. You are an amazing light worker & I love you and your love so much💜🙏🏽

  • @archergirlalchemy6200
    @archergirlalchemy6200 6 лет назад +18

    i love this guy!

  • @itsraphael09
    @itsraphael09 6 лет назад +23

    Perfect freaking timing!

  • @swifttulip
    @swifttulip 6 лет назад +4

    I admire all of you!!

  • @agamakowiecka66
    @agamakowiecka66 6 лет назад +7

    This couldn't come at a better time, so much gratitude. I love your messages, your humour, your wisdom. It's helped me so much.

  • @PeggySueSmith-h9j
    @PeggySueSmith-h9j Месяц назад

    Hi Matt
    I have been resonating with you. I’m happy I have found this.
    Yes me too and I’ve been practicing as being conditioned by others that I can & now to put my needs & care first. I am over 50 🤦‍♀️ I just realized the term Narcissist in 2019
    I have been exhausted but wanted to say thank you as I too have tried to stay in Love it is the easiest vibration if we let it 💗in and thank for talking of pain just last year and half that I am focusing on my heart energy it’s been stripped away slowly. Now it’s not either positive or negative it just is now
    Thanks you for that too!
    I’ve been lucky to see Godsmack the last two years and feel the same 🤘❤ about music therapy
    H

  • @lynnnilsson72
    @lynnnilsson72 6 лет назад +6

    Yay! It's been a while!
    Can't wait to have time later to sink into my headphones and let the messages land!

  • @dianemiron4772
    @dianemiron4772 6 лет назад +10

    Matt, I felt the newness and the awesome rebirth. I am the light, the light I am. Thank you for sharing your experiences of abuse with us. I have had to say enough is enough and hearing you tonight took such a load off. Thank you for the escort. You look great and very healthy! Lots of Love and congratulations on your wedding.

  • @kelvin8214
    @kelvin8214 6 лет назад +2

    Voice is so calming

  • @idalawrence5912
    @idalawrence5912 6 лет назад +11

    I love you Matt - it is so similar to what is my experience - I understand - thank you for being an example - a leader on the way.

  • @yourascensionjourney3050
    @yourascensionjourney3050 6 лет назад +16

    Thank you Matt for allowing yourself to be so open, so vulnerable. Thank you for sharing your story. I honor you and acknowledge your pain.
    I am in the position of being a spiritual teacher and way-shower, but often fear really sharing my past experiences of having been mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually abused by my father as a child and for many years. I fear the most other family and those who know my parents to know this about them. And for whatever reason, I do not feel I need to bash my parents for what happened or to shame or embarrass them so this holds me back from really revealing this, I have made my peace with what has happened. But maybe one day like you, I will have the way of words so eloquent that you used to be able to share such a delicate subject. Thank you Matt. Bless you. xoxo

  • @imeldaa.mila.1910
    @imeldaa.mila.1910 6 лет назад +4

    Thank you for sharing 💕 you are a beautiful human being Matt. I strongly relate with you, as a highly Empath i had to learn to defend myself from narcissistic people.

  • @blyawakes
    @blyawakes 6 лет назад +5

    Oh Matt thank you for sharing !I have no words but thank you

  • @PamOliveiraTarot
    @PamOliveiraTarot 6 лет назад +15

    Thank you, Matt. I love you.

  • @melsel43
    @melsel43 6 лет назад +5

    Thank you for your work Matt Kahn🙏

  • @johanna11980
    @johanna11980 6 лет назад +25

    I haven't watched the vid yet ... but I 'know' it will be just what I need ... Why? ... because it always is ... Thank you, Thank you, Thank you Matt

  • @KellyDianeOfficial
    @KellyDianeOfficial 6 лет назад +20

    I knew you going threw burning of layers because i have been too. I told myself damn it i hope Matt will come with some real emotion because i too have been diving deep into the shadow side of me and really need authentic teachers to come forward. Then Bam you came with this thank you!!! Im so greatful for the spiritual teachers who are coming forward with pain and authenticity. blessings and love to you what a journey this is..

  • @CourtneyRohan
    @CourtneyRohan 6 лет назад +6

    Peace, Mat. I am so happy you have been able to come to yourself about all that has happened. I understand. I, myself, am in a place similar to that which you speak, which I tried to run from and did so well that I can not remember the event. I am now going towards the emotions as they come up for me so that I can do what I did not do before: be present with myself. Sat Nam, my friend.

  • @game_4_growth
    @game_4_growth 6 лет назад +7

    Thank you for sharing. I'm 3 minutes in & you're speaking my life. Much Love.

  • @sarastreet7765
    @sarastreet7765 6 лет назад +5

    exactly what I have gone though Matt...thank you for talking about our shared healing journey..xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

  • @zandie7
    @zandie7 6 лет назад +5

    And HERE We GO !!! Yippee :)

  • @RekhaKaula
    @RekhaKaula 6 лет назад +1

    Glad to hear about your karmic return to the body! So glad you chose to walk around in it as you, Matt Kahn. Thank you for your teaching. Also: I, too, love to do drive around listening to hard rock and have, recently, discovered the "metal" of gospel music you described in a former talk a while back.

  • @dylanbarrera
    @dylanbarrera 6 лет назад +6

    wow i felt the transformational energy thank you matt i love you!

  • @Mel-pk8bd
    @Mel-pk8bd 6 лет назад +5

    Thank you so much for sharing this heart-felt personal story!! I truly resonated with every part of it. ❤️🙏🏼❤️

  • @abbaelo
    @abbaelo 6 лет назад +6

    This is what I needed. Thank you.

  • @peetung
    @peetung 6 лет назад +5

    Thank God for you Matt. Liked the video before I even watched it!

  • @rosiesbitsandbobs4085
    @rosiesbitsandbobs4085 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you Matt, on my way to day to see my kids in another country, taking this with me to listen too. I think I will need it! 😄🙏☹️

  • @judybettencourt
    @judybettencourt 6 лет назад +6

    Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @welshcake488
    @welshcake488 6 лет назад +3

    I'm watching this now as I've just gone through the worst of my personal (but very similar) healing journey - God bless you Matt! p.s: I find heavy metal cathartic & relaxing too go figure! lol!!

  • @starprice7389
    @starprice7389 6 лет назад +4

    I love you. Thank you

  • @sofialopez9916
    @sofialopez9916 6 лет назад +4

    Thank you.

  • @Caricle88
    @Caricle88 6 лет назад +4

    Thank you 💕

  • @bilko1971
    @bilko1971 6 лет назад +6

    i love you Matt

  • @mrcitrus6
    @mrcitrus6 6 лет назад +3

    i think byron katie says a yes to others that is a no to yourself is still a no.. if that makes sense... not an exact quote but i think that is what happens when we try to please others and forget ourselves. My parents also fought i did not help them however.

  • @BarbaraMerryGeng
    @BarbaraMerryGeng 6 лет назад +4

    Extraordinary 💜

  • @AcornSandCheese
    @AcornSandCheese 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing! I love you so much, you’ve blessed me with your words and presence so much in these last few months. May we all be blessed with ever more love💗 may we be blessed with ever more joy 🤗
    Thank you thank you thank you 🙏🏼

  • @goodjob6762
    @goodjob6762 6 лет назад +23

    S-a-v-e-d M-y L-i-f-e

  • @Phristan-the-wolvenking
    @Phristan-the-wolvenking 6 лет назад +8

    Really feel you matt thanks for sharing ^^ ! love you

  • @Phristan-the-wolvenking
    @Phristan-the-wolvenking 6 лет назад +5

    again high five

  • @NowsNu
    @NowsNu 6 лет назад +5

    I love you

  • @nicola8883
    @nicola8883 6 лет назад

    Thank you so much for this ❤

  • @Ogerking
    @Ogerking 6 лет назад +2

    i had a feeling there was a new video today :D

  • @SourceEnergetics
    @SourceEnergetics 6 лет назад +17

    ! 💜

  • @universalpassage
    @universalpassage 6 лет назад +4

    Is there a heart drawn on the flower by Matt's shoulder? 💕😊

  • @mlj6969
    @mlj6969 3 года назад

    How we get in to ourselves deeply enough to fully clear this trauma????

  • @oldtimebear1944
    @oldtimebear1944 6 лет назад

    That ending... Fuckin love this guy

  • @ivyvelasquez4156
    @ivyvelasquez4156 6 лет назад +4

    💗💗💗

  • @marigold5248
    @marigold5248 6 лет назад +2

    Holy shit! :)

  • @kentslaughter394
    @kentslaughter394 6 лет назад +4

    I can't find The Broken Road song online. Anybody know how to find it?

  • @crystalwandwitch2175
    @crystalwandwitch2175 6 лет назад +4

    💓💖💞

  • @gabo3color
    @gabo3color 6 лет назад +8

    Sweet

  • @wendyc3777
    @wendyc3777 6 лет назад +5

    what was his song

  • @francinemillar736
    @francinemillar736 6 лет назад +5

    ♥️👍🇨🇦

  • @hegemeretemoller...
    @hegemeretemoller... 6 лет назад +1

    Tell us how you cut abuse out of our life on the outside then, not only inside! And dident you bring the abuse further on when you told us about the heavy metal music...

  • @suzannekneale6953
    @suzannekneale6953 6 лет назад +1

    💙🍻

  • @authenticallyher7570
    @authenticallyher7570 6 лет назад +2

    Is Matt a vegan ?

  • @Raul92raf
    @Raul92raf 6 лет назад +4

    I love you Matt

  • @clareunderwood6690
    @clareunderwood6690 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you x