Mr. Egg fertilizer, facials from Baltasar, always retreating from battle etc, that's some comedy gold there plus he looks he's going to his tour of couch (or basement)duty after this.
I bet "Mr. Egg fertilizer" is paying for it all, that's why he's getting away with everything and probably she's a SAHW and needs him to help with everything...
Great. Exile him to the couch and/or basement, where he can play video games and hide his keys from his wife under the cushions. And doesn't have to hear her complaining. Sounds like what he wants, just with less sexy time. But according to the headache comment he wasn't getting much of that anyway. But answering the question about why he was getting mad, the shopping and especially the Botox are both spending money. If they are in debt that is a big problem.
It is literally one of the most natural things to do, surely literally everyone judge at some point including babies inside the womb actually like when they are uncomfortable and kick by loud noises and many other things, sooo.
What a fucked up relationship...not just the cringe confession video made to post online, but the fact that all of their confessions involve ways to avoid each other 😅
@@TheIllustriouBlueJayThat would imply neither works outside the home. Also, if you're both mature it's really easy to get some alone time. You just tell your spouse you need alone time.
I've heard worse I'm sure 😅 though their reactions to each other is entertaining. Sounds like some reasonable methods of getting by, I'd actually say this confessing is probably the mistake here 😅
@@Jason-rq1gw LMAO *kek* My brudda, you do not know da wae. You can *FEEL* the resentment first off and steadily rising throughout. Get ready for an info dump 😅🤣 #1 on the worst decision they both could have done in this scenario is to bring their private marriage issues to the internet. Very poor decision. Let's start by recapping what they said. 1. Wife "Sometimes I really don't have a headache" aka she's not giving her husband attention. The sometimes for most guys is basically all the time. 2. Husband "Sometimes I go in the bathroom and hide to escape the chaos in the house." The house must have a lot of chaos, avoidance on his part. 3. Wife "When sometimes I tell you I am going to get a facial, but I'm really going to get botox." That is straight up lying to your Partner about a very expensive procedure that is harmful and makes you look like melting plastic (look up Simon Cowell after years of Botox). Household finances should be completely open to the wife and husband esp if the husband is the one working. 4. Sometimes I pretend to have to fix something downstairs just so I can play video games and have some peace (2nd time he has mentioned getting away to have quiet time). 5. Wife states that she moves his keys on purpose to piss him off. Yeah, seems like a totally healthy thing to do. It's good to be playful, tease, troll your partner a little bit, but not in a malicious way. I suspect there is some serious resentment/anger going on and she's being passive-aggressive about it instead of them working on w/e issues they have. Yeah, totes healthy 6. HERE AGAIN, avoidance on his part - "Sometimes I go in our bedroom at night and pretend to fold laundry..." so he won't get roped into doing household chores. 7. She is lying about nothing - getting junk food and shopping for the heck of it. 8. He said; "Sometimes I ignore you and pretend like I cannot hear you in hopes that you will get so annoyed that you have to repeat it that you won't ask me to do something again. Lying, irritating partner, avoidance of task (again again) Ok, so let's theorize Who works in the marriage? Is it 50/50 or is the husband sole provider? If they both work then household chores needs to be split fairly as well. If the husband is the only one working, then she needs to take care of all the chores at home and stop pestering him when he wants to relax after a long work day to do her share of the work. Are the kids homeschooled or are they in public school? That's an additional factor to consider. If they aren't at home and the wife isn't working, she has no business bothering her husband to do the chores. She is being lazy and not pulling her weight in the relationship. Same on the flipside. I would additionally like to point out that right now, homeschooling is 1000% better then public school. If either of them want space, then they need to be up front and honest about it with their partner. This lying to get more space is toxic. Men in general need some space after work to wind down. Let the husband have his wind down time. That is being considerate and loving towards your partner. The Husband still needs to be involved in his kids lives though, should be top priority to be spending time with the kids after winding down. There shouldn't be any lying in their marriage. Very toxic. Bad model for the kids as well. Communication and honesty is the best policy. Better communication and listening skills. Both need to learn better communication skills and how men/women interpret things etc. If their kids are not behaving and are stressing their parents out, it is the parents fault and both of them need to address this. Come to a consensus about proper parenting. They can watch Supernanny and the Aggressive Kids Wreck Parents' Home episode. The show has tons of extraordinary helpful ways to show how to properly bring up children, esp kids out of control. The wife needs to stop being stingy with her husband in regards with affection. They are in a magnanimous relationship and have each other to have their needs met. How many times they actually end up being with each other in a week/month/year? Once a month, once every few months, once per year is being completely selfish to withhold bedroom fun from the husband. I am betting she was very frisky before they were married and is now stingy. That is a bait and switch. This is not ok. All in all it seems that these two are being toxic to each other and communication has broken down. This 'marriage' needs serious working on. No excuses I would recommend you watch Kevin Samuels aka @ byKevinSamuels . He has advice for both men and women. He was an image consultant and knows what he was doing. Kevin Samuels What Is A High Value Man? 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That's the same thing that I say every time people are like o. M. G you should never judge. We shall all be in hot judgmental. Like. Do you know what the definition of judging is judging isn't only win? You say nasty things to people that are unconstructive. It's also constructive criticism. It's also forming your own opinions. It's also making decisions and to say that a person shouldn't do either of those things is not good
You judge someone subconsciously when they fail to meet your expectations of them. Sometimes the problem is the expectations you give someone is not realistic
Bro is wearing under armor. I assume he has consoles for gaming. Pretty sure her dress up isn't cheap either. Both have spending issues and maybe they should've just been fuck buddies and nothing more. Not everyone is made for a relationship. If only people good or at least decent for relationships were together, many problems would be solved instantly.
She may have done it already. His confessions are situated in the house, some of hers aren't. But she wouldn't admit it in a public video. But they clearly have no respect for each other, so it could be either and I would bet if it hasn't happened yet, it's gonna happen soon. Hope they are decent enough to just divorce instead
Clearly her idea, but the moment it became about his confessions, she quickly realized it was a stupid one, but her pride wouldn't allow her to stop. Instead she doubled down and only sought to confess things she knew would also hurt him. Also what I can gather... not sure if I'm write or not, but it seems like he might be the primary or sole breadwinner in the house and she might be the housewife. From my assumption, it might be why he avoids doing chores at home because he spends all day at work and he's tired. Meanwhile the wife is at home all day with the kids when they're not at school, and she handles all the chores. Both don't appreciate what the other does for the family, and take it out on one another. She feels like he could help out more in the house, and he feels like she's antagonizing him and spending too much money, forcing him to work harder. They're causing each other stress with her doing so intentionally while he's actively avoiding her because he can (unknowingly) sense her ill-intent, which creates more negative tension and it snowballs into what we're looking at here. Two people, one spiteful and the other tired, and its not going to work at this rate. Just the public crap alone is a bad idea. No relationship problem can be solved by including outside forces, especially online strangers of all things. Divorce is gonna happen real soon for these two.
Well, those are a lot of assumptions which manage to solely blame the wife. Even if she is a housewife, do you think running a whole household is not exhausting? Looking after children 24/7 is not exhausting? I know housewives, who joined the workforce later on and they far preferred working while still doing the majority of the housework. Men tend to expect absolute perfection at all times from a housewife. There is no time off or holiday. You kind of live with your employer. A marriage is a partnership for a reason and deliberately running away when there is chaos is not a staple of someone you can count on . And deliberately causing someone stress by displacing their keys is also not a hallmark of someone reliable. They are both resentful people, who think the other one is not giving them what they want. Instead of a confession fest they should have said why they do what they do and what they want from the other person.
@@XX-dz5kc I did say they were a lot of assumptions but I also put just as much blame on the husband. But given your response, what you chose to process and what you chose to ignore, I see how your mind works
@@Netherwolf6100 One person is "spiteful" and the other "tired"... last I checked those two attributes aren't equivalent and they don't distribute blame equally. I did read your post and I completely agree with the beginning. If the assumption that he is the breadwinner and she the caretaker is true than the crux of the matter is that they don't sufficiently appreciate the other's contributions and sacrifices. I just don't agree with the last part since it makes the wife out to be a malicious, spendthrift shrew and the husband as the poor, tired recipient of her malice, who just wants some time alone. Let's take the situation ino a work environment, for example an emergency at a hospital. If you actively flee the additional work that emergency will bring you, even though you could help in the situation, it is also intentionally causing someone stress. Or if we want to use a less high-stakes example: a project at work that is going badly. So I don't think your conclusion is wrong (I don't know one way or the other), I just think it's a smidge biased and I find that dangerous. If we aren't even able to give both parties some empathy if the situation doesn't concern us at all, than what are our chances when we're in the thick of it? I 100% agree that people should talk about their grievances in private with the people it actually concerns though. Having strangers either completely validate or insult you doesn't help.
@@XX-dz5kc Yes she must be exhausted from all the shopping, chick-fil-as and Botox appointments. And she's clearly not looking after children '24/7' if she's got time for that stuff as well. Get real.
It's like she just needed that last little push and said it was a TikTok challenge or some dumbshit. I felt that, "you're done" at the end like she got what she was looking for.
Absolutely,i Feel like he falled into a trap. He's lying so he can skip the cores. She's lying so she can spend money on herself instead of themselves. This woman must be something for a grown man to hide from.
@@reb9719 Yah he want to skip the chores like an unmatured boy...isnt what i said firstly.??He can become a better man. And she can be better too by not spending the money on botox. But the real problem is that she says" yur done" the same way as "im taking everything Mf." This is un unfair.
@@reb9719 or maybe she nags at him no matter what he does anyway. why do it all if she's always gonna say he did it wrong? no matter how well he does the chore, she'll find SOMETHING to nitpick.
That's not weaponized incompetence, that's just straight up lying and laziness (unless she really won't let him have some peace to himself, then I can understand why he'd do those things).
I figure at some point she must notice if he's never actually doing housework. Though at the same time if she spends so much than that means he is actually 'working/having his work effort used up more than hers' (presuming he works full time and regardless of whether she does). If time is money and money is wasted on her Botox and shopping, I can understand if his act of fighting back is to find ways not to do her housework 😅 I was surprised at her moving his keys around just to mess with him.. though maybe not that surprised 🤔
Repeatedly moving keys on purpose to intentionally antagonize the other person is grounds to break up. It shows the one party is not acting in good faith.
If you're clear about what you're looking for upfront, you usually won't have to deal with crap like that. I will say that nobody is perfect and you really have to pick and choose your battles but overall, for me at least, being married is pretty freaking awesome 👌. Would 1000% recommend.....with the RIGHT person.
The words “we listen but we don’t judge” come from their mouths yet their faces say otherwise. This isn’t healthy at all. This is just a placeholder for jeopardizing conversations later on. This is the equivalent to playing poker and showing the table all your cards and saying I trust you won’t make me lose right? . All because you trust them doesn’t mean it isn’t a game, just not the poker game you thought it was 😂.
Most of those weren't so bad. Like we all need mental breaks at times. Being honest about them is better but not always an option with all people. Moving the keys on purpose is just vindictive and cruel though.
So her things is that she tries to avoid sleeping with her husband and lying about her whereabouts. And his things is that he has to lie to be able to take some breaks from chores when tired. This is her foreshadowing the divorce and building the case why.
After listening and judging: He wants her around when he wants intimate time. She wants him around when he can do labor. Very transactional relationship.
Never seen a couple judge each other so heavily. Glad my wife and I don't have this problem. Never do we have to do something stupid like this that involves such confessions. We communicate honestly, sometimes argue about it, but end up working it out in the end either way.
Looks pretty staged to me. The way he looks at his phone while she talks, it looks like he is reading what his reaction should be and what his next lines are.
@@rodrigofernandez7626 definitely getting from somewhere else 100%. once knew a married woman that told me she used to tell her husband she had head aches, but i also know she was cheating on him at that time. (i didn't know the guy, this was after she ended her marriage to go with the other guy, and later she dumped the other guy... a mother of 2 girls by the way).
"You're done" (with a the lovely annoyed smile that comes with it); what happened to "we listen but we don't judge"? Bro looked so stress during the confession 😂😂
his confessions are about avoiding chaos, her confessions are about starting chaos. the instant she said "sometimes i don't really have a headache", she lost no matter what confessions the guy had. ladies, if you won't have the bedroom fun with your husband, someone else will. marriage means he can't get it elsewhere, so telling him he can't get it at home is the same as saying he can't have it at all, and no woman has the right to tell a man he can't get it at all. do your wifely duties, or don't be surprised when you're no longer a wife.
Guys, NEVER EVER tell your wife the fully confessed truth. It will always backlash to you in the most uncomfortable ways possible. It is always a trap for you. And I bet, it was her initial idea to do that. Remember: Women will never forget, they archive it. Women will always jugde and they will never forget what you confessed to her, for the rest of your life. And that's a fact.
When ever I hear a joke about France retreating from battle I wonder if anyone actually knows that France has won more battles than any country in the world.
honestly depends on the relationship and how they initial chose to handle aspects of their lives, what both the wife and husband does is not that bad, i mean its her body and eating out by yourself is totally alright, and spending time away from your family is also healthy you don't need to be in each other's faces all the time. But i guess that their relationship is not like that, maybe more of a modern roles of which the husband have to help at home too and the wife is a worker just like her husband, then what they confessed became a problem.
Shopping for women isn't buying stuff she needs. It's buying stuff she doesn't need. Usually spending a LOT of money doing so. I found bags upon bags hidden away when i was divorcing my ex wife.
I think this communication is good. It's a vital first step. We just have to work on the problem solving skills. I wouldn't write off the relationship entirely but you could probably use some marriage/family counseling and possibly therapy. Another good exercise is using "I feel" statements. "When I come home from work I feel like I'm not respected" "When you disappear for hours I feel like I'm the only one who cares about this family"
For those who don’t get the Balthazar reference, he’s from Equatorial Guinea and works for the government. His sex tape got leaked with about 400 different women with him wearing no condoms and mostly in his office and hotel.
They need to be fixing A LOT. Not just be sitting there in silence, avoidance and internally held negative emotions 🤦♀️ They may not be judging outside, but inside they’re both fuming 😂
This could all be solved if the husband had a second family to go to every other day. Seeing the same wife every day can be stressful. At the same time, a wife dealing with a husband everyday can eventually become annoying and tedious.
Ngl, I do the first one the guy says sometimes. For example, if my siblings are acting annoying af and I'm about to lose it, I go to the bathroom for a bit. It helps me not to lose it. I also handle it soon after. It's just a way to help myself calm down when I'm about to start screaming.
TikTok couples: “Let’s put our entire relationship online and make EVERYTHING we do about content creation, likes, and subs!” Marriage counselors everywhere: “Damn it, clear my schedule.”
Basically, she confesses that she copes in secret because he's always using weaponized incompetence to make her do everything. Totally healthy marriage!
I am just gonna hide the keys for no reason. xD At least I am glad they are trying to make it work for da kids. They both seem chill enough to be better as a parenting unit together than separately!
Well compared to other marriages is actually good, I thought it was gonna be much worse, maybe the wife has a secret wife or the husband a secret boyfriend? Maybe a secret other family? But this is good. They should be proud
I don't know these 2 people very well, since I rarely follow their journey, but from the few videos that I have seen from them, they do not seem to take themselves very seriously, and this video of theirs in particular could as well be staged. I mean, I don't watch their videos, as previously mentioned, but I can definitely see, with my own eyes, that they are a happily married couple, probably behind the scenes, and their child seems to be having a positive childhood. They are not like those suspicious family channels who keep abusing their children for views, no way, that is too far-fetched of a perception to these 2 even for others who don't exactly like their content or think that they have a neglectful relationship without context. This is literally just my take, you can go and freely depict it however you want. They could be acting for all we know, making a subtle skit out of a relatable, although negative, subject. But, for you, MaximBady, I watch a lot of your videos, and you are literally a comedic genius. Every content you make fun of, as well as, simultaneously, bringing factual awareness to your audience, is impeccable, and that's what we love about you. I don't care if I don't agree with you for once, and it is on this particular video, I will always be supporting you!
By the way he stressed out about her spending, that's a big fat no. He knows he's stuck with her so he has to deal. If he chooses to divorce, he's screwed completely and she knows it.
Mr. Egg fertilizer, facials from Baltasar, always retreating from battle etc, that's some comedy gold there plus he looks he's going to his tour of couch (or basement)duty after this.
It's a joke
@@kennethverona25oh is that right, I was wondering why he would have said it was "comedy gold" thanks for clearing that up!
I bet "Mr. Egg fertilizer" is paying for it all, that's why he's getting away with everything and probably she's a SAHW and needs him to help with everything...
Great. Exile him to the couch and/or basement, where he can play video games and hide his keys from his wife under the cushions. And doesn't have to hear her complaining. Sounds like what he wants, just with less sexy time. But according to the headache comment he wasn't getting much of that anyway.
But answering the question about why he was getting mad, the shopping and especially the Botox are both spending money. If they are in debt that is a big problem.
"I realized I'm only with you because of the children..." ~ both of them.
Their kids feel that, too. Kids need parents who want to be there and who can provide stability and a reason to live.
they are DEFFINETLY judging 💀 💀
100%😂😂
It is literally one of the most natural things to do, surely literally everyone judge at some point including babies inside the womb actually like when they are uncomfortable and kick by loud noises and many other things, sooo.
@@Vero2yuI can confirm
I judged my parents when I realised the country I was going to be born in
@@frogsam4228 I did not ask, wacko, smfh. Bye.
Only animals don't judge, and not because they impose themselves not to, but just because they don't have the faculties to evaluate things as we do.
What a fucked up relationship...not just the cringe confession video made to post online, but the fact that all of their confessions involve ways to avoid each other 😅
If you're around someone for 75% of your day, you'll want a bit of privacy.
@@TheIllustriouBlueJayThat would imply neither works outside the home.
Also, if you're both mature it's really easy to get some alone time. You just tell your spouse you need alone time.
Too bad it's staged for social media views.
@@Woo_Woo_Womanthey are not mature lmao this b wants sex 24/7 and attention hoe and this guy is a basement loser/nerd. End of story. 😂
@@LostInPhilly89yeah this really looks staged
Sounds like a very "healthy" relationship 😂
I've heard worse I'm sure 😅 though their reactions to each other is entertaining. Sounds like some reasonable methods of getting by, I'd actually say this confessing is probably the mistake here 😅
Skipping responsibilities are fine but it's sick that she hides his keys to drive him crazy.
@@Jason-rq1gw LMAO *kek* My brudda, you do not know da wae. You can *FEEL* the resentment first off and steadily rising throughout. Get ready for an info dump 😅🤣
#1 on the worst decision they both could have done in this scenario is to bring their private marriage issues to the internet. Very poor decision.
Let's start by recapping what they said.
1. Wife "Sometimes I really don't have a headache" aka she's not giving her husband attention. The sometimes for most guys is basically all the time.
2. Husband "Sometimes I go in the bathroom and hide to escape the chaos in the house." The house must have a lot of chaos, avoidance on his part.
3. Wife "When sometimes I tell you I am going to get a facial, but I'm really going to get botox." That is straight up lying to your Partner about a very expensive procedure that is harmful and makes you look like melting plastic (look up Simon Cowell after years of Botox). Household finances should be completely open to the wife and husband esp if the husband is the one working.
4. Sometimes I pretend to have to fix something downstairs just so I can play video games and have some peace (2nd time he has mentioned getting away to have quiet time).
5. Wife states that she moves his keys on purpose to piss him off.
Yeah, seems like a totally healthy thing to do. It's good to be playful, tease, troll your partner a little bit, but not in a malicious way. I suspect there is some serious resentment/anger going on and she's being passive-aggressive about it instead of them working on w/e issues they have. Yeah, totes healthy
6. HERE AGAIN, avoidance on his part - "Sometimes I go in our bedroom at night and pretend to fold laundry..." so he won't get roped into doing household chores.
7. She is lying about nothing - getting junk food and shopping for the heck of it.
8. He said; "Sometimes I ignore you and pretend like I cannot hear you in hopes that you will get so annoyed that you have to repeat it that you won't ask me to do something again. Lying, irritating partner, avoidance of task (again again)
Ok, so let's theorize
Who works in the marriage? Is it 50/50 or is the husband sole provider?
If they both work then household chores needs to be split fairly as well.
If the husband is the only one working, then she needs to take care of all the chores at home and stop pestering him when he wants to relax after a long work day to do her share of the work.
Are the kids homeschooled or are they in public school? That's an additional factor to consider. If they aren't at home and the wife isn't working, she has no business bothering her husband to do the chores. She is being lazy and not pulling her weight in the relationship. Same on the flipside. I would additionally like to point out that right now, homeschooling is 1000% better then public school.
If either of them want space, then they need to be up front and honest about it with their partner. This lying to get more space is toxic.
Men in general need some space after work to wind down. Let the husband have his wind down time. That is being considerate and loving towards your partner.
The Husband still needs to be involved in his kids lives though, should be top priority to be spending time with the kids after winding down.
There shouldn't be any lying in their marriage. Very toxic. Bad model for the kids as well. Communication and honesty is the best policy.
Better communication and listening skills. Both need to learn better communication skills and how men/women interpret things etc.
If their kids are not behaving and are stressing their parents out, it is the parents fault and both of them need to address this. Come to a consensus about proper parenting. They can watch Supernanny and the Aggressive Kids Wreck Parents' Home episode. The show has tons of extraordinary helpful ways to show how to properly bring up children, esp kids out of control.
The wife needs to stop being stingy with her husband in regards with affection. They are in a magnanimous relationship and have each other to have their needs met. How many times they actually end up being with each other in a week/month/year? Once a month, once every few months, once per year is being completely selfish to withhold bedroom fun from the husband. I am betting she was very frisky before they were married and is now stingy. That is a bait and switch. This is not ok.
All in all it seems that these two are being toxic to each other and communication has broken down. This 'marriage' needs serious working on. No excuses
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Oh, that video of theirs is obviously a skit
I’m judging… go on 🗿🍷
😂, you upload your marriage business on the internet I'm judging
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@MaximBady Please don't bro. 😂 🫂
That “marriage” is going to explode 💥💥💥💥
it hasn't exploded so far cos all her shopping and botox is paid by him, I bet she is SAHW
Yes. Let's hope they keep filming 😅
And that their children can go elsewhere.😢
She’s hot, he makes a lot of money , it will work out
None of us should know these things about them.
At this point, divorce is the solulu
No, they made a commitment. There shouldn't be such a glib attitude towards marriage.
... seriously none of this is that bad. Especially with kids
"We listen and we don't judge."
Both of them: *internally judging*
Oh all of us judge, all the time. In making decisions. The common implication is that judging is always harsh and never constructive.
It's absolutely necessary. You wouldn't approach a grizzly bear because you have sound judgement.
That's the same thing that I say every time people are like o. M. G you should never judge. We shall all be in hot judgmental. Like. Do you know what the definition of judging is judging isn't only win? You say nasty things to people that are unconstructive. It's also constructive criticism. It's also forming your own opinions. It's also making decisions and to say that a person shouldn't do either of those things is not good
You judge someone subconsciously when they fail to meet your expectations of them. Sometimes the problem is the expectations you give someone is not realistic
Something tells me their Marriage Counselor is face palming right now watching this.....
NGL. I had a good chuckle over the keys admission.
Their marriage counselor probably changed his/her phone number. . .
That is why he needs time to himself, she is deliberately stressing him out.
Money problems. They have money problems. That is why the guy is stressed about her spending everything.
Bro is wearing under armor. I assume he has consoles for gaming. Pretty sure her dress up isn't cheap either. Both have spending issues and maybe they should've just been fuck buddies and nothing more. Not everyone is made for a relationship. If only people good or at least decent for relationships were together, many problems would be solved instantly.
You heard this from them?
I couldn’t figure out why he was reacting like that so much. That would make sense
@@MixedChick1 it's pretty easy to tell. you should learn how to read between the lines.
Having money problems prevents him from being there fir his kids and share house chores?
“Jeeeesus Christ on a motorbike!!!”That never gets old.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
She must spend a lot for him to have that reaction to her shopping.
She's addicted to Amazon
Bro look at her come on
Yeah when he got that face, I was immediately like 'she's spending money she shouldn't be on dumb shit'
That is an example of a broken relationship!
They judge and don’t listen!
😂😂😂
I was so waiting for the "I was cheating" confession.
She may have done it already. His confessions are situated in the house, some of hers aren't. But she wouldn't admit it in a public video. But they clearly have no respect for each other, so it could be either and I would bet if it hasn't happened yet, it's gonna happen soon. Hope they are decent enough to just divorce instead
@@sheezle3She is out of his league and he’s a child.
The husband wants to avoid the wife at all cost 😭. They don’t like each other
You appeared on my page and now I can't get enough. Thank you for making my day, very funny stuff 😂
These people were made for eachother.
I think the stress about the errands was because she is getting chik fil a and not getting him any
Or he’s worried that it’s actually dick-fil-a she’s receiving
Clearly her idea, but the moment it became about his confessions, she quickly realized it was a stupid one, but her pride wouldn't allow her to stop. Instead she doubled down and only sought to confess things she knew would also hurt him.
Also what I can gather... not sure if I'm write or not, but it seems like he might be the primary or sole breadwinner in the house and she might be the housewife. From my assumption, it might be why he avoids doing chores at home because he spends all day at work and he's tired. Meanwhile the wife is at home all day with the kids when they're not at school, and she handles all the chores. Both don't appreciate what the other does for the family, and take it out on one another. She feels like he could help out more in the house, and he feels like she's antagonizing him and spending too much money, forcing him to work harder. They're causing each other stress with her doing so intentionally while he's actively avoiding her because he can (unknowingly) sense her ill-intent, which creates more negative tension and it snowballs into what we're looking at here. Two people, one spiteful and the other tired, and its not going to work at this rate. Just the public crap alone is a bad idea. No relationship problem can be solved by including outside forces, especially online strangers of all things. Divorce is gonna happen real soon for these two.
yep, that's exactly what i got. except that women are all on her side
Well, those are a lot of assumptions which manage to solely blame the wife. Even if she is a housewife, do you think running a whole household is not exhausting? Looking after children 24/7 is not exhausting? I know housewives, who joined the workforce later on and they far preferred working while still doing the majority of the housework. Men tend to expect absolute perfection at all times from a housewife. There is no time off or holiday. You kind of live with your employer.
A marriage is a partnership for a reason and deliberately running away when there is chaos is not a staple of someone you can count on . And deliberately causing someone stress by displacing their keys is also not a hallmark of someone reliable. They are both resentful people, who think the other one is not giving them what they want. Instead of a confession fest they should have said why they do what they do and what they want from the other person.
@@XX-dz5kc I did say they were a lot of assumptions but I also put just as much blame on the husband. But given your response, what you chose to process and what you chose to ignore, I see how your mind works
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One person is "spiteful" and the other "tired"... last I checked those two attributes aren't equivalent and they don't distribute blame equally.
I did read your post and I completely agree with the beginning. If the assumption that he is the breadwinner and she the caretaker is true than the crux of the matter is that they don't sufficiently appreciate the other's contributions and sacrifices.
I just don't agree with the last part since it makes the wife out to be a malicious, spendthrift shrew and the husband as the poor, tired recipient of her malice, who just wants some time alone. Let's take the situation ino a work environment, for example an emergency at a hospital. If you actively flee the additional work that emergency will bring you, even though you could help in the situation, it is also intentionally causing someone stress. Or if we want to use a less high-stakes example: a project at work that is going badly.
So I don't think your conclusion is wrong (I don't know one way or the other), I just think it's a smidge biased and I find that dangerous. If we aren't even able to give both parties some empathy if the situation doesn't concern us at all, than what are our chances when we're in the thick of it? I 100% agree that people should talk about their grievances in private with the people it actually concerns though. Having strangers either completely validate or insult you doesn't help.
@@XX-dz5kc Yes she must be exhausted from all the shopping, chick-fil-as and Botox appointments. And she's clearly not looking after children '24/7' if she's got time for that stuff as well. Get real.
It's like she just needed that last little push and said it was a TikTok challenge or some dumbshit. I felt that, "you're done" at the end like she got what she was looking for.
Absolutely,i Feel like he falled into a trap. He's lying so he can skip the cores. She's lying so she can spend money on herself instead of themselves. This woman must be something for a grown man to hide from.
@@levayantjuniordarilus3270 Or he’s a giant man-child who can’t even help his wife take care of THEIR house, THEIR kids, or THEIR responsibilities.
@@reb9719 Yah he want to skip the chores like an unmatured boy...isnt what i said firstly.??He can become a better man. And she can be better too by not spending the money on botox. But the real problem is that she says" yur done" the same way as "im taking everything Mf." This is un unfair.
@@reb9719 or maybe she nags at him no matter what he does anyway. why do it all if she's always gonna say he did it wrong? no matter how well he does the chore, she'll find SOMETHING to nitpick.
@@jimbob-q3r what if...
the wife confessed the reasons why he's stressed and he confessed how he handles it xD
"Bro, it's France. Always retreating from battle." 💀
"I am a good boy" I can relate to this in so many levels, its kinda sad. 😅
That dude is admitting to weaponized incompetence. They need some therapy
That stupid mantra come from their therapist
@ It’s easier to say than “deliberately doing a poor job to get out of being asked to do work like the lazy punk he is”.
That's not weaponized incompetence, that's just straight up lying and laziness (unless she really won't let him have some peace to himself, then I can understand why he'd do those things).
they need a whole lot more than that
I figure at some point she must notice if he's never actually doing housework. Though at the same time if she spends so much than that means he is actually 'working/having his work effort used up more than hers' (presuming he works full time and regardless of whether she does). If time is money and money is wasted on her Botox and shopping, I can understand if his act of fighting back is to find ways not to do her housework 😅 I was surprised at her moving his keys around just to mess with him.. though maybe not that surprised 🤔
“That is technically running errands” 😂😂😂
you dont judge so we will for you 😁
bro was getting far more annoyed than her that he couldn't judge
Well she is blowing money constantly on frivolous stuff while he works. So yeah I'm right there with him. I'd be stressed out too.
@@SilvaDreamsGold medal for jumping to that conclusion there, fella.
No wonder he is always trying to escape. 🤣🤣🤣
i would too, that's lady is giving me stress and I just only watched her video
Ahhh that's why she keeps hiding his keys from him 😅
Repeatedly moving keys on purpose to intentionally antagonize the other person is grounds to break up. It shows the one party is not acting in good faith.
"We don't listen and we judge"
Pretty sure they were joking/teasing each other. And if not, if those are the worst things they're doing, they're in great shape as a couple.
huh, I used to be sad that I was single but if this and other things I've seen are the crap I have to deal with as a married man I'm good.
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If you're clear about what you're looking for upfront, you usually won't have to deal with crap like that. I will say that nobody is perfect and you really have to pick and choose your battles but overall, for me at least, being married is pretty freaking awesome 👌. Would 1000% recommend.....with the RIGHT person.
you are coping, there are good relationships too, you are just trying to feel better about your situation.
@@Re-PhantomZero so someone having a different opinion=coping wow you dropped this on the way in 🫴🧠
Please continue to be a 'lucky'person. For your sake. 🙏@@youtubecommentator6023
They are definitely judging... They're just doing it silently. 🤣
Silence is the sound of judgement.
this confession video is delulu
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The words “we listen but we don’t judge” come from their mouths yet their faces say otherwise. This isn’t healthy at all. This is just a placeholder for jeopardizing conversations later on. This is the equivalent to playing poker and showing the table all your cards and saying I trust you won’t make me lose right? . All because you trust them doesn’t mean it isn’t a game, just not the poker game you thought it was 😂.
Most of those weren't so bad. Like we all need mental breaks at times. Being honest about them is better but not always an option with all people. Moving the keys on purpose is just vindictive and cruel though.
So her things is that she tries to avoid sleeping with her husband and lying about her whereabouts. And his things is that he has to lie to be able to take some breaks from chores when tired.
This is her foreshadowing the divorce and building the case why.
After listening and judging: He wants her around when he wants intimate time. She wants him around when he can do labor.
Very transactional relationship.
Never seen a couple judge each other so heavily.
Glad my wife and I don't have this problem. Never do we have to do something stupid like this that involves such confessions. We communicate honestly, sometimes argue about it, but end up working it out in the end either way.
Him looking at his phone every time it was his turn to make a confession says that the phone was the best supporting actor in this fake skit video.
I am single because PEACE and TRANQUILITY are PRICELESS and I have a PASSPORT.
i heard that they post rage bait and none of this is real and is just them making fun of things they see relationship tiktokers and RUclipsrs do.
I hope that's the case.
Looks pretty staged to me. The way he looks at his phone while she talks, it looks like he is reading what his reaction should be and what his next lines are.
They do 😂. They’re a comedy channel
On yt/ragebait.
We listen... and we don't judge.
If she has to lie about headache, she is being sexually pressured and not wooed. Simple communication and quality time together will fix that.
Omg mystery solved, he doesn't help her at all, that's why she doesn't do him😂😂
@@commanderwaddles3483Bingo 😂😂😂
Or she's getting it somewhere else 🤔
@@rodrigofernandez7626 that's better than staying with this bum
@@rodrigofernandez7626 definitely getting from somewhere else 100%.
once knew a married woman that told me she used to tell her husband she had head aches, but i also know she was cheating on him at that time. (i didn't know the guy, this was after she ended her marriage to go with the other guy, and later she dumped the other guy... a mother of 2 girls by the way).
People need alone time imo and time with friends but these two are amazing. Sick of their marriage and life
I just discovered this channel last night. I found gold.
Actually, these two are made for each other.
"BRO IS FRANCE, ALWAYS RETREATED FROM BATTLE," I CANT. LOL
Naw both sound like they anit right for each other
Both sound like they ain't right for nobody 💀
Yup
"You're done" (with a the lovely annoyed smile that comes with it); what happened to "we listen but we don't judge"? Bro looked so stress during the confession 😂😂
You can see Baltasar at 1:11 creeping by undercover with the stroller to see if his side chick is home.
The egg fertilizer got me 😂😂😂😂
They both sound like teenagers. She hides to eat and hides his keys to drive him crazy. He avoids doing chores at all cost. Smh.
That is ABSOLUTELY the fastest route to a horrible, bitter divorce.
I bet some marriage counselor told them this was a good idea.
Running errands and shopping can be WAY DIFFERENT
his confessions are about avoiding chaos, her confessions are about starting chaos. the instant she said "sometimes i don't really have a headache", she lost no matter what confessions the guy had. ladies, if you won't have the bedroom fun with your husband, someone else will. marriage means he can't get it elsewhere, so telling him he can't get it at home is the same as saying he can't have it at all, and no woman has the right to tell a man he can't get it at all. do your wifely duties, or don't be surprised when you're no longer a wife.
Guys, NEVER EVER tell your wife the fully confessed truth. It will always backlash to you in the most uncomfortable ways possible. It is always a trap for you. And I bet, it was her initial idea to do that. Remember: Women will never forget, they archive it. Women will always jugde and they will never forget what you confessed to her, for the rest of your life. And that's a fact.
When ever I hear a joke about France retreating from battle I wonder if anyone actually knows that France has won more battles than any country in the world.
We listen and we judge.
"And that is the laugh of a man that is about to lose 50% of his net worth" 😂😂😂
Hiding the keys is like deliberate abuse... that is clearly the worst thing
honestly depends on the relationship and how they initial chose to handle aspects of their lives, what both the wife and husband does is not that bad, i mean its her body and eating out by yourself is totally alright, and spending time away from your family is also healthy you don't need to be in each other's faces all the time.
But i guess that their relationship is not like that, maybe more of a modern roles of which the husband have to help at home too and the wife is a worker just like her husband, then what they confessed became a problem.
I'm glad they were both smart enough to not confess their affairs.
Love is not a noun, its a verb.
A men (History talk for us) need some time by itself, during a day.
"WE LISTEN AND WE DON'T JUDGE " 5 minutes later, Divorce papers!😂😂
the facial part also caught me by surprsie im like WTF?!?! ahhhh ok ok oookkkkkaayyy!!!
"Mister egg fertiliser " is a joke 🤣😂😂😂
Shopping for women isn't buying stuff she needs. It's buying stuff she doesn't need. Usually spending a LOT of money doing so. I found bags upon bags hidden away when i was divorcing my ex wife.
I think this communication is good. It's a vital first step. We just have to work on the problem solving skills. I wouldn't write off the relationship entirely but you could probably use some marriage/family counseling and possibly therapy. Another good exercise is using "I feel" statements. "When I come home from work I feel like I'm not respected" "When you disappear for hours I feel like I'm the only one who cares about this family"
For those who don’t get the Balthazar reference, he’s from Equatorial Guinea and works for the government. His sex tape got leaked with about 400 different women with him wearing no condoms and mostly in his office and hotel.
"Egg fertiliser." 😂🤣🤣
This dude just admitted to weaponized incompetence.
this is 900% fake btw.
They need to be fixing A LOT. Not just be sitting there in silence, avoidance and internally held negative emotions 🤦♀️
They may not be judging outside, but inside they’re both fuming 😂
Bro is FRANCE always retreating from battle 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
NGL moving my stuff is a big trigger. I live alone.. I put my stuff where I can find it, leave it where it is... It is there for a reason.
This could all be solved if the husband had a second family to go to every other day. Seeing the same wife every day can be stressful. At the same time, a wife dealing with a husband everyday can eventually become annoying and tedious.
Ngl, I do the first one the guy says sometimes. For example, if my siblings are acting annoying af and I'm about to lose it, I go to the bathroom for a bit. It helps me not to lose it. I also handle it soon after. It's just a way to help myself calm down when I'm about to start screaming.
TikTok couples: “Let’s put our entire relationship online and make EVERYTHING we do about content creation, likes, and subs!”
Marriage counselors everywhere: “Damn it, clear my schedule.”
Basically, she confesses that she copes in secret because he's always using weaponized incompetence to make her do everything. Totally healthy marriage!
Stop the IG therapy speak 😂.
Exactly
Maybe he is the only one working so he uses "weaponized incompetence" so he doesnt have to do her job
Sometimes you should judge.
I am just gonna hide the keys for no reason. xD
At least I am glad they are trying to make it work for da kids. They both seem chill enough to be better as a parenting unit together than separately!
Well compared to other marriages is actually good, I thought it was gonna be much worse, maybe the wife has a secret wife or the husband a secret boyfriend? Maybe a secret other family? But this is good. They should be proud
Mr Egg Fertilizer is so me 😂😂😂😂😂
I don't know these 2 people very well, since I rarely follow their journey, but from the few videos that I have seen from them, they do not seem to take themselves very seriously, and this video of theirs in particular could as well be staged. I mean, I don't watch their videos, as previously mentioned, but I can definitely see, with my own eyes, that they are a happily married couple, probably behind the scenes, and their child seems to be having a positive childhood. They are not like those suspicious family channels who keep abusing their children for views, no way, that is too far-fetched of a perception to these 2 even for others who don't exactly like their content or think that they have a neglectful relationship without context. This is literally just my take, you can go and freely depict it however you want. They could be acting for all we know, making a subtle skit out of a relatable, although negative, subject.
But, for you, MaximBady, I watch a lot of your videos, and you are literally a comedic genius. Every content you make fun of, as well as, simultaneously, bringing factual awareness to your audience, is impeccable, and that's what we love about you. I don't care if I don't agree with you for once, and it is on this particular video, I will always be supporting you!
Bro listened to whoever said “it’s okay to run away”
He's going about it all wrong. When she asks you to do something, you do it but badly and she won't ask again.
What in the therapy? I'm glad we actually love each other more everyday even after 15 years
Weaponized incompetence on the man's part
I’m happy it wasn’t a cheating confession. Next video will probably be 😂
if every couple told each other everything, no marriage would last....
secrets are not necessarily sins, people....
In the next few years, she's going to tell him that she owes $85,000 in credit card debt, and he needs to help her pay it.
*”We LiStEn AnD wE dOn’T jUdGe”.*
"Sometimes when I say Im going to get a facial.....I get a pearl necklace instead"...;)
"I ate human flesh once. We listen and we don't judge!"
I hope the “egg fertilizer” gotta prenup 💀
By the way he stressed out about her spending, that's a big fat no. He knows he's stuck with her so he has to deal. If he chooses to divorce, he's screwed completely and she knows it.
Your content is to funny keep up the good work bud