How I learned to just be happy

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024

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  • @SimpleHappyZen
    @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +37

    What makes YOU happy? 🌾🍵👇

    • @ngonigriffith1491
      @ngonigriffith1491 3 года назад +4

      The thing that makes me happy or rather joyful is knowing that I am following what God commanded of me. Knowing that I am doing what pleases God makes me happy.

    • @Robert-qm1ld
      @Robert-qm1ld 3 года назад +1

      Asking a hard question this time, Vera. 😑 Also, I noticed those chickpeas. They do NOT make me happy!😞 (thinking, thinking and more thinking) I am content more than happy, maybe?

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +3

      @@Robert-qm1ld Hahaha I'd say coffee makes you happy 😄☕

    • @artlife5797
      @artlife5797 3 года назад +3

      Having my morning coffee☕💚. Spending time at my studio painting 🎨💚

    • @sylviabol640
      @sylviabol640 3 года назад +5

      Nature and my plants💚🪴🌴🌵🌿🍀

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman 3 года назад +18

    Life can be tough. But being simple and happy (without reason) might be the answer to going through this tough life.

  • @SuzannesSimpleLiving
    @SuzannesSimpleLiving 3 года назад +11

    I don’t chase happiness anymore I just “am” I enjoy everything that I do every day and live in the moment. I am so grateful for everything that I have every little thing counts. Great vid thank you 😊

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      Love that, thanks Suzanne!! :) Enjoy your day

  • @mariafrancescademaddis2560
    @mariafrancescademaddis2560 3 года назад +60

    My cat laying on me when I sit on the couch, a cup of tea on a cold day, a soft blanket, a chat with a good friend, touching the pieces of furniture that have been in the family for years, looking at the art hanging on my walls. Happiness can be found in the simple things, like the color of the clouds in the sky as I look out the window early on a Sunday morning 🥰❤️

  • @juliab628
    @juliab628 3 года назад +3

    12:28 I agree. I tried to do Journaling but it felt like a chore to me. I'm glad if it works for others but it is just not for me. I feel better when I just focus on being present in every moment and stopping to thank God whenever I see and feel thankful or happy about something, anything, everything. Bc for me, I believe that all creation is only in existence bc of Him. 😊 Vera, this was a wonderful video!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      So happy you enjoyed the video, thank you for sharing your thoughts!

    • @juliab628
      @juliab628 3 года назад

      @@SimpleHappyZen I always enjoy your videos bc they are just so relevant and wisdom filled!! They also help me to step back and take a deep breath when anxious thoughts hit me. 😊💛🙋‍♀️🍪⚘

  • @DrJustininJapan
    @DrJustininJapan 3 года назад +19

    The way you define happiness reminds me of how I define and approach mental health. It is something that can be seen as tangible and persuadable. Something that can be worked on each day and approached with intention. It probably doesn't just "HAPPEN." It is a daily process of self-reflection, intentionality, and sometimes even hard work. Great video!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      Yes, well said!! Thanks Justin, take care and have a nice day!

    • @DrJustininJapan
      @DrJustininJapan 3 года назад +2

      @@SimpleHappyZen thank you for all the great videos!

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 2 года назад

      @@DrJustininJapan In life athere are only 2 problems --mind and the body and both are inter-connected. Take control over these and life is fun . Happiness is within us. Reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath and mind [brain] are closely related causing stress-anxiety. For a better life sit on a chair, back straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. Change happens from within by itself. Day or night, when taking a walk, sitting in a park, when reading, before sleep etc sit or lie down and observe your breath. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce watching social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

  • @ThamarThamar
    @ThamarThamar 3 года назад +6

    My son is almost 3 months old. Enjoying the little moments is so important now, I had to give myself a crash course in this. I can not plan a day or even a few hours. This would frustrate me at first, but now I just go with it and enjoy the things I can and do do.

  • @maryangeladouglas
    @maryangeladouglas 8 месяцев назад

    This is a beautiful segment;I love it so much. I also want to say that recently I got extremely sick and thinking about many simple things you said in many different episodes genuinely helped me to get well. And to take better care of myself than before. The things you say sound simple and as though we should already know them but I realized right away that though I was myself aware of many things you said, such as, we dont have to measure ourselves by productivity, there is a huge difference between being aware of something and having it really register in your life and how you are living from moment to moment. EVERRYTHING you say everywhere I look is HIGHLY useful and the way you say it helps so much. I cant analyze it beyond that. I can just say that when I think about what you say and when I actually practice it, I can see that there is a difference in the way I feel. Please never doubt the value of what you are doing and saying in simple happy zen. I am almost 73 years old and I wish so much I had known about many of things you speak about in my twenties and even earlier. On the other hand, they are useful now as I am growing older and give a new freshness to my health, my outlook and just my being. God bless you Vera. Please remember nothing you do from your heart is ever wasted. You are making people happy all over the world through even just one thing you say that practically helps them. Please take good care of yourself. And thank you so much for teaching all of us truly how to take better care of ourselves in simple easy but SO effective ways.

  • @justinraper373
    @justinraper373 3 года назад +12

    This was a deep and insightful video, Vera! Thank you for sharing. I really appreciate your lesson on expectations. I just received my dream promotion at work and love the complexity and importance that comes with it. The only downside is that I have to wake up at 4am every morning to get started at work. Your lessons today helped me understand that I should not let this one issue become any bigger than it is. I am alot happier now and am thankful for this opportunity. Also, I should let go of expectations about a rigid work life schedule and just let time unfold as it does rather than trying to control everything all the time. Thank you for this video and it's beautiful imagery. Have a great weekend!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +4

      Glad to hear you enjoyed the video and found it helpful Justin, and congratulations on your promotion, so excited for you!! Take care

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад +2

      This is what a book called the surrender experiment talks about...

  • @lucytitus2183
    @lucytitus2183 3 года назад +6

    Having gratitude for all the simple everyday things we have been blessed with in our life! That gives me happiness! 🤗❤️🍁🍂🦉

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      Love that!! :) Thanks for sharing Lucy, take care and happy autumn!

  • @lyndarossi933
    @lyndarossi933 3 года назад +1

    You are wise beyond your years ! Excellent video.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Lynda 🤗🌺🍃 Have a lovely Tuesday!

  • @AR-mu4zq
    @AR-mu4zq 2 года назад +1

    Would you do a video on your health, like what you eat and your skin care and makeup? You always look so beautiful!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! :) I might make a minimalist beauty routine video soon, but I'm not sure yet :) Meanwhile, I do have an older video about my skin care habits (ruclips.net/video/aqArakP5Sb0/видео.html) and a more recent What I eat in a day (ruclips.net/video/4sylmX4eLn4/видео.html)

    • @AR-mu4zq
      @AR-mu4zq 2 года назад

      @@SimpleHappyZen I watched your video, well done!

  • @MariJadeWrites
    @MariJadeWrites 3 года назад +4

    Drawing and writing makes me happy, and music with books. :) Sharing ideas with friends is also a form of happiness for me.

  • @kettydesantis2288
    @kettydesantis2288 3 года назад +1

    The pink sunset I saw before made me happy 😍

  • @kinggodzillakong6958
    @kinggodzillakong6958 3 года назад +1

    Its easy to sit on here and watch videos through tough times but applying these things through tough times is more difficult.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Yes that is more difficult. All we can do is try :)

  • @RefreshwithDawn
    @RefreshwithDawn 3 года назад +7

    This video was spot on concerning happiness, Vera. It really is about moments of joy and appreciating what is going right. And not always looking for the next thing.
    I’ve been learning to play my spiritual songs on my piano and when I can create the sound and melody I hear in my “mind’s ear”, it is truly satisfying. That is pure joy for me.
    I also love creating illustrated cartoon doodles each evening. I love when I portray what is meaningful to me and it’s aesthetically pleasing at the same time.
    Spotting mockingbirds, dragon flies and butterflies are delightful moments for me.
    Making something more simple is also deeply satisfying and makes me happy.
    Thank you, Vera, for the inspiration!
    ☺️🙌

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much, happy you enjoyed the video! And love the examples you shared

  • @shyaaammeneen63
    @shyaaammeneen63 2 года назад

    Very nice video. Offering a suggestion for internal peace of mind. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath and mind [brain] are closely related causing stress-anxiety. For a better life sit on a chair, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. Change happens from within by itself. Day or night, when taking a walk, sitting in a park, when reading, before sleep etc sit or lie down and observe your breath. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce watching social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

  • @rebeccarendle3706
    @rebeccarendle3706 3 года назад

    This was so lovely 🤗.. I am still trying to find a way to be happy😢😔.
    I suffer from burnout, depression, and now anxiety and insomnia.. Mainly due to my marriage (now taken the first step by separation and now going through divorce), job unhappiness (I can't change, so am trying to find ways to find satisfaction by finding additional branches) , sick kids (can't control this, only trying to find better ways to cope and help them) and away from all my family and friends (prisoner of Germany divorce law and not having been home for 2 yrs now due to covid).
    I am desperately trying to find ways to not hate Germany and what it has done to my life because I can not leave for now.. And now I am try and find ways to just accept this imprisonment and find ways to be happy in this situation I can not change at the moment... But it is very hard.
    Thank you for this reassuring and motivational video👏🤗

  • @deborahroper3694
    @deborahroper3694 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Vera

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  2 года назад +1

      You're very welcome Deborah, take care!! 🤗💕

  • @marygarden3114
    @marygarden3114 3 года назад +1

    Love the way you're wearing your hair and make up lately. So lovely! Thanks again for another wonderful video.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Aw thank you Mary! :) That's so sweet. Happy you enjoyed the video! Have a lovely day

  • @boniw698
    @boniw698 3 года назад +1

    I just loved this. It’s just perfect especially since we had lockdown and now don’t. Getting to really no ,and like ourselves ❤️⭐️Thank you 💕

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      So happy you enjoyed it! Have a lovely day

  • @asmaalsammarraie716
    @asmaalsammarraie716 3 года назад

    I agree about picking up your phone and seeing something that shakes you.
    I genuinely felt like metaphorically kicking someone in the balls the other day; worse, that person was a teenager, and I am someone who swore to do no harm. Their post was unbelievably triggering, it was one of those "self loathing self beating feel bad for me and feel bad about yourselves everyone, also I won't get help from a professional, so that I don't get a diagnosis and have to work on what I have, I want attention so I'm doing this here" BS. And like a dozen others, some of them were adults, encouraging and enabling this crap. Why would people let someone shoot themselves in the foot? Why do they like feeling terrible and putting themselves down instead of getting help? Why would anyone choose to be a victim? And encourage others to do the same?
    Oh, and this was not a depression/anxiety/PTSD related post, it was an impulse control disorders related post that got posted in an ADHD related forum.
    I was just furious. Someone with an impulse control issue was confusing it with "impulsivity" related to ADHD, discouraging everyone from trying anything and having hobbies because THEY have some shopping related impulse control issues.
    And everyone being "yeah yeah this is ADHD". NO! Feeling like you have to check your phone every few minutes is not the same as sending thousands of dollars on something you don't want or need, it's an entirely different condition.
    And beating yourself over can have severe repercussions on your self esteem and mood. So get help from a professional.
    And now people with ADHD who don't know any better are gonna buy a one way ticket to depression and anxiety land because they'll believe this misinformation. Those are conditions that people with ADHD are more susceptible to than "average".
    I hate it when the internet tries to play the population doctor. It's not public health, its psychology and psychiatry, and while people like you give good advice, seeing others botch it with no one preventing them is just downright harmful.

    • @asmaalsammarraie716
      @asmaalsammarraie716 2 года назад

      @💋 Sweety Hotgirl • Vlogs Hey! I think you may have accidentally posted this comment as a reply to mine lol 😆 when you actually intended it for the channel's owner 😊😁.
      Edit: It's really sweet though ❣️

  • @pigletsbank437
    @pigletsbank437 3 года назад +1

    What makes me happy? For a start: your uploads❤️.
    food related pleasures like a hot bowl of soup, fresh fruits🍓🫐🍋, a fresh baked croissant🥐, a good cup of tea🫖☕ or coffee, homemade cookies 🍪that snap, dark chocolate 🍫, cooking anyway😬😇, the smells that build up.... I love it! Being with friends and (some) family. Feeling greatfull🙌.
    Sunshine🌞, snow ☃️and rain🌧️ thunder⛈️,a smile from somebody🙂, blooming flowers🌱🌼, nature 🦌🐄🐖🐞🐚🦆🦢 🦋 sun sets🌅, fresh linnen🧺 fresh made bed🛏️, candle light in winter🕯️., a hot shower🚿, winter camping🏕️ with a camp fire 🔥 a clear sky full of stars✨.... the list is endless I believe😂

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Lovely! I can definitely agree with fresh linens and a freshly made bed

  • @dorothyerickson7506
    @dorothyerickson7506 2 года назад

    I screen music. I have vision with music. I write stories to music which brings me joy and happiness.

  • @theresew9910
    @theresew9910 3 года назад +1

    Hi Vera I’ve learnt so much about myself from watching your videos and that makes me happy 😃 alongside learning to appreciate what I do have and learning to not make other peoples issues my issues? just reading the empaths survival guide very interesting thank you for such a insightful video ❤️

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much and I'm so happy you're still enjoying my videos! I've heard about the empaths survival guide.. think I might want to check it out too :) Thanks for the tip!

    • @theresew9910
      @theresew9910 3 года назад

      @@SimpleHappyZen ❤️

  • @robertashaffer3950
    @robertashaffer3950 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video 🙏

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      You're very welcome :) Have a nice day today

  • @patwarburtonr7488
    @patwarburtonr7488 3 года назад

    Let us not grow weary of doing good. We will reap a harvest if we don’t give up. 🙏

  • @pinklady3885
    @pinklady3885 3 года назад

    Hi Vera, completely off topic.
    I've been doing some catch up.
    I've just watched your video on only having one of.... 7 months ago. I recollected one similar video where you only owned one pink long cardigan. I realise that things change, wear out etc. I do notice that you have lots of jumpers and cardigans now... confused.
    In life we do have to go with the flow. Enjoy what is good because we can't plan a forever happy life, we don't know what life will throw at us.
    Decision making is a positive feeling, which makes me feel happy.

  • @amyalksnis5659
    @amyalksnis5659 3 года назад +1

    I have been watching your videos for so long and only just realized I’m not subscribed! How?¿ Don’t worry, I fixed that 😊❤️

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Hahaha thank you Amy! :) I appreciate it

  • @premengineeringworks6948
    @premengineeringworks6948 2 года назад +1

    Hai iam from Indian like your videos

  • @lauram9874
    @lauram9874 3 года назад

    Me gustaria ver tus videos pero no tienen traduccion en español🙏🙏🙏

  • @persephone213
    @persephone213 3 года назад +107

    Yes, I think that sometimes ambition is overrated and contentment is underrated.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +3

      I agree :) Thanks Amber 🤗💖

    • @RosemarieCortez-pm6rm
      @RosemarieCortez-pm6rm 2 месяца назад

      🎉😢😢😊😮❤🎉🎉❤😂😮😮😮❤❤❤😅😅😂😂😊😊❤❤❤😊😮😢😂❤❤❤❤❤❤😅😅

  • @marthaC495
    @marthaC495 8 месяцев назад +6

    I'm happy when I see nature, like rain when the plants have needed water, and then seeing birds splashing in a puddle of water.

  • @dianasanzana1838
    @dianasanzana1838 3 года назад +26

    What makes me happy? Silence in nature, a walk in the rain, watching the stars at night, dinner with good friends, and praying and listening to life. 🌷

  • @chiaraalini
    @chiaraalini 3 года назад +6

    I feel I’m the luckiest person on Earth, because I was born happy and grateful. 😊 Great video! 👍🏻

  • @Bats-7
    @Bats-7 3 года назад +14

    My wife , football, living by the sea, watching films & morning breakfast make me happy but I’m sure my first child due in December will trump all of that! 😉😆🤰
    Excellent video 👍

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much and congratulations!!! 🤗💖

    • @Bats-7
      @Bats-7 3 года назад +1

      @@SimpleHappyZen thank you 🙏 keep up the fantastic content 👍

    • @melilifabulosa5505
      @melilifabulosa5505 3 года назад +4

      Yes, the world you know now can't compare to the joy of knowing your child, congratulations!

    • @Bats-7
      @Bats-7 3 года назад +1

      @@melilifabulosa5505 thank you 🙏

    • @TriviRocks
      @TriviRocks 3 года назад +4

      You'll be able to find new sources of happiness together with your child. Wish you a fulfilling family life!

  • @sanja7489
    @sanja7489 3 года назад +9

    Animals, they are true happiness 🥰

  • @kaede_jing
    @kaede_jing 3 года назад +42

    This question just came to my mind today. Then I realized that happy can only be achieved by the balance among mind, body and spirit. Even I am doing things I love during weekend, I felt tired as my energy was depleting. So, I rest, listen to music, stop my learning for a while, rejuvenate, and then I feel alive again, content and happy. Balance between body and mind, and even spirit is important for us to feel happy.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +3

      Love what you shared about happiness, have a lovely weekend and take care!

  • @JediBunny
    @JediBunny 3 года назад +12

    Absolutely beautiful video, Vera. Thank you so much for continuing to share such valuable wisdom and insights. You and your content are truly a gem 💎 🪶 ☀️ 🌊 🍁

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      Aw thank you!! Take care and have a lovely weekend!

  • @sallgal
    @sallgal 10 месяцев назад +2

    7:45 I can totally relate to this lol I remember the first music festival I went to. It was blazing hot outside during the day with no shade, no showers, you had to walk like a mile to get anywhere, bottled water was $10 a bottle, I could barely get any decent sleep... and I thought the exact same thing to myself: "What the heck am I doing here?!" LMAO!!! :)

  • @mariaziarnik6909
    @mariaziarnik6909 3 года назад +6

    Your video made me very happy.
    I am 51 years old and sitting here enjoying a cup of coffee and I feel so happy. If I could tell me 31 year old self. Relax and enjoy the ride. Being happy with My husband which we just celebrated our wonderful blessed 20 year marriage. Enjoying all the special moments and having a wonderful family and friends. Just being thankful and grateful that’s what makes me happy.
    Thank you for always putting things in such a positive perspective.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      So happy you enjoyed the video Maria, thank you for sharing your thoughts! Love what you shared about being married to your best friend and accepting yourself fully 🤗💕🌷 Take care my friend, enjoy your weekend!

    • @mariaziarnik6909
      @mariaziarnik6909 3 года назад +1

      @@SimpleHappyZen thank you dear friend. That’s the true happiness accepting our self and living each moment with those we love best.

  • @amyli092
    @amyli092 3 года назад +11

    Becoming a more spiritual person has brought me a lot of joy, as well as listening to music or playing the piano. Whenever I engage in one of these activities, I feel an instant surge of joy flow through me. 😊

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      That's great Amy, thanks for sharing :)

  • @Naomi-ev2oh
    @Naomi-ev2oh 3 года назад +6

    What a beautiful video to play/hear while sipping coffee on a Sunday morning. I never heard "hike your hike" before; love the truth in that. In the past, my career robbed me of happiness:(my job was my life as it consumed most of my day (& night). Due to both choice as well as elements outside my control, I am trying to carve out my own self-employed path. My days are now mine and I can do things I love again: hang clothes in the sunshine, enjoy my mornings, no office politics... I'm actually happy... so in the end, it was a lifestyle change, for me, that gave me the opportunity to refocus on things that I enjoy, to slow down and actually enjoy my life. Thank you for your videos. They brighten my whole week 😊

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      I love that you made those changes Naomi, so happy for you!! :) And thank you for enjoying my videos 🤗

  • @kellyssimplesouthernlife2174
    @kellyssimplesouthernlife2174 2 года назад +5

    New subscriber, I’m loving your content. What makes me happy….playing with my cat, lying in the sun and just being, feeling the warmth of my favorite coffee mug as I sit and sip, playing with my grandbaby and watching life through his eyes, walking my dogs without being on autopilot, really paying attention to my surroundings as my pets do,pulling a fresh baked cobbler out of the oven and serving it in a beautiful dish, tying on a pretty apron as I putter around in the kitchen, crocheting a washcloth for a friend and taking the extra time to make a fancy border for it, browsing the greeting card isle and picking up “thinking of you”cards. Sitting on my covered porch during a thunderstorm. Most of these things are absolutely free💓

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  2 года назад +1

      They all sound so wonderful! Thanks for sharing :) And of course welcome to the channel!

  • @jennierollins8789
    @jennierollins8789 3 года назад +15

    You have grown so much Vera. Everything you said is very true. Most of us chase happiness, the closer we think we are getting the further it moves away. I believe living in the moment is where happiness lies. If we are looking ahead or behind we are missing it. A hug from my grown son, watching gold fish or a hummingbird. Walking on the beach or in the Redwoods. These are things I am grateful for and enjoy the most. Thank you for reminding me of where I need to be. ☮️

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +3

      Aw thank you Jennie, absolutely love what you shared about happiness! 🤗🍂🍁🍃

  • @thea-rose
    @thea-rose 3 года назад +8

    Lovely video with great advice. I love the way you share your tips, it’s so gentle and thoughtful. Classical music and hiking with my dogs makes me feel happy. The more I get to know myself and accept myself, the happier I am becoming - it’s very much a work in progress!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Thankyou so much Samantha, that's so nice of you to say 🤗🍁🍂 Take care and give your dogs a hug from me!

  • @maritkiisu
    @maritkiisu 3 года назад +6

    I have recently realized that “earthing” really helps with my depression. I’ve heard about that before, but i never purposely did that or thought about it. This year i noticed that these days that i get to swim in the sea or lake, walk around barefoot in the grass etc, i really do feel happier and calmer. We have only 2 warm months where i live so i try to take the most of it. There’s some perks about autumn too. Yesterday i picked chanterelles from the forest and made dinner from these in the evening. So i literally need to not just be outside, but touch nature with my skin. ☺️😀

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Very interesting! Thanks for sharing Marit

  • @MsQueen-uv7uw
    @MsQueen-uv7uw 2 года назад +2

    I really need this vlogs thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @beulahbenade4098
    @beulahbenade4098 3 года назад +6

    Very valuable. Thank you, I'm definitely sharing this with my daughter. She's had her fair share of sadness xx

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      Thank you Beulah, happy to hear you found it valuable. Sending some love to you both 🤗🍁🍂

  • @mildredstone5069
    @mildredstone5069 Год назад +1

    Just discovered your channel and am feeling inspired watching your videos. Thank you for making great content and for being so authentic! 🌿

  • @deborahroper3694
    @deborahroper3694 2 года назад +1

    Watching Simple Happy Zen makes me Happy. Thank you for your knowledge and wisdom. I wish I had learned these things many years ago, but I’m happy to learn them now.

  • @kirstenwilliams6377
    @kirstenwilliams6377 2 года назад +2

    Looking at my dog makes me happy. She's so cute and she fills me with love.

  • @deborahroper3694
    @deborahroper3694 2 года назад +2

    Your videos make me happy because they help me to focus on the good things I already have in my life.

  • @purrsephone2904
    @purrsephone2904 3 года назад +3

    I love your fair complexion. I like the idea that happiness is within ourselves and that we can access it, that it isn't so dependent on things outside ourselves.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Thank you! And yes, I believe it is :)

  • @samshows999
    @samshows999 3 года назад +6

    Your videos put a smile on my face and I've always been motivated by you ❤️🥺

  • @lesliemercier72
    @lesliemercier72 2 года назад +1

    I agree to accept ups and downs.i love journaling.i woud like it if everyone was always nice.but its not realistic.hold on to what is fun in the sad moments.give yourself credit and believe in your path is perfect.forget thepast forgive and move on is where i want to be

  • @lynby2108
    @lynby2108 3 года назад +7

    You are such a breath of fresh air, brilliant advice as usual.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      Aw thank you Lynby!! Take care my friend, enjoy your weekend! 💕🤗🍂🍁

  • @ecn1997
    @ecn1997 Год назад +1

    I am happy for the little things I have. I am happy being alive and experience this one life ❤️

  • @apagoada
    @apagoada 3 года назад +4

    “Happiness is like a skill” let that sink in. Thank you for sharing and making me remember to be grateful 🙏

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Thanks so much, happy you enjoyed it! 😄

  • @jeannette7243
    @jeannette7243 3 года назад +3

    The Buddha says: Happiness is not the destination, it is the path. I like your take on this: it is a skill that you can practice. Well said!

  • @MarineBrnd
    @MarineBrnd 3 года назад +2

    Hi Vera! What a great video! I would have liked it more than once if it were possible 😊 During the first lockdown last year I followed a course called "The Science of Well-Being" taught by Professor Laurie Santos and I took a lot from it. For me, being happy means to be content with who I am and what I have, knowing I did my personal best to achieve my goals and handled according to my beliefs/values. As I turned 30, I realized I was tired of playing a role and now, I just want to be myself and let go of everything (and everyone!) that doesn't match. Have a nice Sunday! 🍂🤗

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much Marine, happy you enjoyed this video! :) Love what you shared about happiness and being content with who you are and what you have

  • @The_Dutch_Samurai
    @The_Dutch_Samurai 3 года назад +5

    A cup of delicious tea or coffee is a cup of happiness and reading lovely books 📚and cooking a healthy meal brings happiness for me.☺️
    (a old zen saying: A bath refreshed the body , a cup of tea refreshed the mind)

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Oooh I love that!!! YES TEA

    • @04ia90
      @04ia90 3 года назад

      Happiness and pleasure are not the same! Pleasures dont bring happiness. Meaningful life brings fulfillment.

  • @perezlourdes8223
    @perezlourdes8223 3 года назад +4

    “Hike your own hike”…I do love this! So much like in swimming, “stay in your own lane”..

  • @bollybelly
    @bollybelly Год назад +1

    Thank you 🙏 your videos are so helpful

  • @juliabernuy9283
    @juliabernuy9283 2 года назад +1

    So uplifting ✨ love your channel. Just discovered. I am looking for getting inspired with your words of wisdom. Thanks for sharing 😊 Just subscribe.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much Julia, welcome to the channel! :)

  • @waelfaraj6705
    @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад +4

    Look at nature and watch the sea , Nature created for all , for you and me ,
    We are one with nature that we can see ,
    Here is how we intend to be …
    Love and peace could hold the key ,
    In this life , we take a part ,
    In the goodness of beauty ,
    There is an art ,
    This is where , we get to start...

  • @katiemynette4285
    @katiemynette4285 3 года назад +1

    Heart of Kentucky. Hi Vera. I haven't spoken to you for a long time. You look totally beautiful as always. What happened with your mother? Katie.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for asking Katie! My mom is doing well now :) She had her surgery and everything was succesful, so she's able to have a life again :) We're all very grateful. Hope you're doing well!

  • @cathylynnpietranton
    @cathylynnpietranton 3 года назад +4

    There are a lot of things that bring me happiness and joy but the number 1 is when I face time with my son every Sunday afternoon because he lives in a different state then I do. Thanks Vera for your insight. ❤

  • @gillianm9367
    @gillianm9367 2 года назад +1

    I often try to plan an activity depending on the weather as I don't like to 'waste' a beautiful sunny day. However I have occasionally forced myself to go out for this reason only to discover I was too tired/unmotivated/unhappy to fully appreciate it. I have discovered that I can still enjoy the sunshine if I stay home to rest/read/meditate if this is necessary for me to recharge my battery. Now I check my mood/energy levels as well as the weather before deciding how to spend my day !
    As you say in this beautiful video, happiness comes from within. We will tend to associate happiness with sunshine and warmth but I can think of many occasions when I have felt contented on darker days also 😊
    I've had times too when I have been in a beautiful location and felt unhappy and yet other times far less scenic and still felt joyful. So yes, happiness really does come from within 💕

  • @veraschmidt6698
    @veraschmidt6698 2 года назад +1

    Thank you. such calming, informative and enriching videos✔❤💯

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! Funny we have the same name :)

  • @alisongregson4740
    @alisongregson4740 3 года назад +4

    My home and family, my work, skating and spending time outside hiking or skiing, all make me happy. Struggling with a bit of anxiety as another lockdown seems imminent here. It casts a cloud over everything it feels like.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for sharing Alison, I'm sorry to hear that. These last two years haven't been easy.. Sendinh you a big hug, bless your heart 💕

  • @sandyfitchcorbett1782
    @sandyfitchcorbett1782 2 года назад +3

    Although this was four months ago I still want to answer the question of gratitude. Besides my family of course every night and every morning I am grateful that I go to sleep in my own bed and wake up in my own bed. That my apartment is intact and I am safe in it. Has always been a biggie for me. This is the first video of yours I found and plan to watch and learn more.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  2 года назад +1

      That's lovely, thank you for sharing :)

  • @HelloAllie
    @HelloAllie 3 года назад +2

    LOKAH SAMASTAH SUKHINO BHAVANTU is a Sanskrit phrase that translates to "may all beings everywhere be happy and free and may the thoughts words and actions of my own life contribute in some way towards that happiness and freedom for all" 💚👽🛸🐱🐶🐄🐷🐔🐳🐬🦜🦚🍀🍄🌎

  • @fwebster6226
    @fwebster6226 3 года назад +4

    You have touched on a very interesting topic….the feeling that listing things you are grateful for is like a chore. At a time when I am scaling back all the jobs on a to do list, this is a very real thing. I would much rather live mindfully and appreciate things organically.

  • @vercanavratilova427
    @vercanavratilova427 3 года назад +1

    One youtuber said:
    You can have everything in the world, but if you are not grateful for it, then, it is meaningless.

  • @ngonigriffith1491
    @ngonigriffith1491 3 года назад +3

    I look for contentment in my life. When I am content with what I have I am not focused on what others have or what others are doing. I am free to be me.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Yes very true! Love that, thanks for sharing Ngoni 🤗🍂🍁

    • @ngonigriffith1491
      @ngonigriffith1491 3 года назад +1

      @@SimpleHappyZen no problem at all Vera!🙂

  • @stinaljungstrom8691
    @stinaljungstrom8691 2 года назад +1

    Be happy with what you have right now. That's really powerful!

  • @petmom1967
    @petmom1967 3 года назад +1

    Excellent video! Those ducks made me happy!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Jennifer! 😄 Haha yes the ducks make me happy too

  • @beautifullife9039
    @beautifullife9039 3 года назад +1

    You lost your weight considerably??

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      I have actually lost some weight, about 8 pounds, thanks for noticing :)

  • @innaruss
    @innaruss 2 года назад +2

    Absolutely love your videos!!! So calming, positive and reassuring 💓 Thank you so much for sharing with us your wisdom and happiness. 😇

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! :) Have a nice weekend

  • @MsJackalMoon
    @MsJackalMoon 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love your videos Vera. At this point I spend more time with you than with my husband :D they are so helpful and insightful. Have you thought about releasing a podcast? I could listen to you talk all day! (and often, I do!)

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  10 месяцев назад +1

      Aw haha thank you for your kind comment!! :) A podcast could be in the future, but I'm not sure :) Right now I know my workload is full hahaha

    • @MsJackalMoon
      @MsJackalMoon 9 месяцев назад

      I imagine it is :D thank you so much for responding when you are so busy. All the best lovely Vera!@@SimpleHappyZen

  • @judithrussell9162
    @judithrussell9162 3 года назад +3

    I’ve always loved being in nature and looking at the small things, the shapes of leaves or the light on water, the colours of the earth. But I am lazy and often I don’t do this thing I love. Recently I’ve made a pact with myself to go walking every day to take photographs of these special things and now I can hardly wait to go out to do this. I am seeing much better and the seeing and capturing makes me very happy.

  • @christinebullard2884
    @christinebullard2884 2 года назад +1

    Coffee and Bible time.

  • @__DomDom
    @__DomDom 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you Vera, this video inspired me💞
    Especially about the difficulty to make personal decision in life.
    I always try to weigh pros and cons in my decisions and i choose nothing. That's why, I often feel unhappy in my professional life. Plus, I've never had the slightest romantic relationship with any woman at 38😅 Shame on me, I'm now too old.
    6:16 : "What matters isn't what you choose, it's that you choose.", so beautiful🙏
    And yes this is important to know ourself better, to be more benevolent with our self, because we are the person with who we are at every moment of our life. To hate ourself is destructive and I know what I'm speaking.
    Thank you Vera to help us with your precious guidance🙏💞

  • @moniqueraeshell6689
    @moniqueraeshell6689 2 года назад +2

    Setting small goals daily and achieving them! I used to make big goals and found that I got overwhelmed trying to achieve them! The last six months I just focus on daily goals! It makes me happy and gives me a sense of self accomplishment!

  • @bumblebee803
    @bumblebee803 3 года назад +1

    Your hair is gorgeous btw. I'm glad to see a fellow curly head on RUclips.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      Aw thank you! :) I'm really happy I finally figured out I have wavy hair 😂

    • @bumblebee803
      @bumblebee803 3 года назад

      @@SimpleHappyZen It suits you, you look like an angel.

  • @sofiaandersson996
    @sofiaandersson996 2 года назад

    I absolutely LOVE this video 💕💓Thank you so much for it 💕💓 It was so comforting and soothing to watch and listen to 💓💖 The onky thing I know for sure that makes me happy are my animals 💝💓 I only have two dogs at the moment for financial reasons, but I want many more in the future ❤💖

  • @kerstinshadow2210
    @kerstinshadow2210 3 года назад +2

    Today's walk through thr forrest made me happy.

  • @mikemetague7973
    @mikemetague7973 Год назад

    I'm another 'my dog' person; he's so much in the moment and just loves to play! Also 'we' love to explore the woods and rocks and creeks. I'm fortunate to live in a nice and safe place in the world and to be healthy at 75! Thanks for the uplifting thoughts!

  • @jmsl_910
    @jmsl_910 Год назад

    "practice makes better"
    that's GENIUS. did you turn that phrase vera??? i love it

  • @isabelherrera8647
    @isabelherrera8647 3 года назад

    Nature, friends & my family nearby. Also, a Church, a Catholic Church where I feel at peace and at home!!!! 🙂

  • @mindbodyhome102
    @mindbodyhome102 Год назад

    Being at the beach and in the ocean or on the water makes me happy!! I know this is a more common sentiment but now for the somewhat odd happiness source....Cleaning makes me happy and it has since I was a kid? Don't ask me why but the semi-instant gratification of a room that looked unkempt and now looks beautiful really makes me happy.

  • @sarahthatcher123
    @sarahthatcher123 2 года назад

    To me, happiness is an emotion period. It is a response to ‘good’ things. Happiness is therefore not a goal in my life to achieve. by your definition ( or mine). Joy is actually a state of being that is not dependent upon circumstances or feelings. For me , joy is based on my faith in God. It is a state of being that comes only through knowing, trusting and loving Him. And therefore my ‘goal’ is not happiness but righteousness ( rightly related to God and all of His creation).

  • @fknhippieschick
    @fknhippieschick Год назад

    This video really hit home with me. I am working on myself right now. I have spent so many years making other people happy, seeing what other people have that I don't and trying to live up to other peoples expactations that I have lost myself. Thank you.

  • @asianaetroupe8936
    @asianaetroupe8936 3 года назад

    What makes me happy is having freewill ,being made in the image of God , and having the opportunity to be God's child or apart of God's family with the help of Jesus. I love my freedom, my choice to do me and be free to change something if I dont like it or if it doesnt serve me a purpose that matches my vision of abundance of joy peace and love also when I have endured hard times or hardship and find myself being stronger in my weak moments cause I have relied on my higher power Father in the heavens Jehovah

  • @renee7567
    @renee7567 2 года назад +1

    Very wise advice and wisdom!

  • @casebeth
    @casebeth 3 года назад

    I feel like this is pretty easy to say living in NL where you're not worried about losing your basic needs each month.

  • @marsyarebecca3142
    @marsyarebecca3142 3 года назад

    Expecting feels great but expectations ruin happiness. That's strange.

  • @annamartinek7998
    @annamartinek7998 3 года назад +2

    Vera this is one of your best videos. You seem so calm and authentic. You speak from the heart and it resonates with your audience. I am so glad that you are joyful. I find small moments during the day when I am with small children very joyful. Seeing the world through their eyes. Thank you for the work that you do. You make many people listening to you happy.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +1

      Aw thank you Anna for taking the time to leave this wonderful comment 🤗🌺💖

  • @totesflaisch
    @totesflaisch 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for this video, Vera! This is what I needed to hear right now, as I have been quite depressed recently. Especially the point about making decisions, though they will never be 100% perfect. I always tend to overthink my decisions and if I have small doubts about anything, I just stay in the same situation and don't change something at all :( It's time to finally make a decision about what I'm going to do about my job - staying at my current company or trying out something new :)

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 года назад +2

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts, I wish you all the best with your job situation!

    • @totesflaisch
      @totesflaisch 3 года назад +1

      @@SimpleHappyZen Thank you! :)