I have watched a lot of these videos, and I'm starting to see a very troublesome trend. Like and date who you like without comparison because we are not only hearing one side of the story but you're no better than anyone else who paints an entire group of people with your one paint brush
@JoanaMaaya It seems to me that the type of woman the guest was looking for in America was different than the type of woman he was looking for in Uganda. He spoke on how his girlfriend was an accountant and that alliigned with his vision. Yet the african american woman is among the most educated groups of people in the world. Did his taste in women suddenly change? Did he attend any of the many HBCU institutions? What about the many african american organizations or platforms? I have two wonderful daughters and friends who are constantly hearing by so many men who are just speaking from "personal experience," telling them they are not enough because the TYPE of women they choose to date in the past. It's not fair to them. Also, there is nothing wrong with a woman wanting to know the financial stability of a person they are interested in being with. I think that should be a question on both sides. There is no group of women who is better than the next, different yes, better...no. We all have unique gifts and experiences we can offer to the world. Just love without comparison....as African American women, we already have enough battles to fight. We don't need any more.
@@FeliciaR16 You are correct. I am an African man. What differs is the character of a person. Having said that I would like also to let you know there are many places in Africa where women are just as accomplished as African American women. These guys coming to the continent will also have to keep their eyes open because there are also vultures in Africa who are ready to pound on any man with resources and some women are trained from a young age to cater and manipulate man so what you may perceive as attention may all be part of a game. These days you cannot put anyone on a pedestal which is sad.
I think Kenyan ladies don't have time to lie about their family members getting sick... will look at you directly in the eyes and ask for what she wants...we don't beat around the bush..
Kyle is one of the good African American/Black American men. Gabs gave great advice to Kyle about relationship/marriage with a Ugandan woman because he plans on marrying a Ugandan woman, especially the part where he said Kyle should be bicoastal and shouldn't forget his Black American culture before and after he has kids with his future Ugandan wife. Oshay gave great advice on how to navigate in Uganda and other African countries. Btw Oshay, Joanita is one of your earthly guardian angels, same story with Gabs.
@@rafaelw8115 because Black American/African American is Kyle's ethnicity. There's nothing wrong with being Black American/African American. Erasing another's ethnicity is disrespectful and offensive.
@@rafaelw8115I don't need to do anything you said because I'm well aware of the Transatlantic slave trade history before you mentioned it and African American/ Black American history because I grew up in USA. If a person tells me their ethnicity, I'm not going to say to the person "no you are not." Therefore if a person tells me their ethnicity is African American/ Black American, I'm not going to say the person isn't African American/African American. I'm not in the business of changing anyone's ethnicity and I'm not trying to erase anyone's ethnicity. What matters to me is a person's character.
Everybody is looking for something and that's why we all can't be in the same place. It's important that we respect every part of the world where people choose to work and live.
African Americans are from Africa. They just came over here 3 yesrs ago for example..im at a Kenyan cookout and even thry get it moxednup..whats funny though is some of them look exactly like FBA folks I know
Wow I live in the Uk and I have been watching your show very interesting. I am coming to Uganda on 21 of July cousin is getting married. Also my daughter and her boyfriend are both coming . Very interesting show and good advice to people Uk and Us. Am interested in American Guys
What he said about your wife's friends is game! This phenomena is cross cultural. Women are not friends with each other, they are acquaintances and indirect competitors. If they place high enough value on the catch, it's game for the taking, especially if they secretly that they were the prize in their group and you jumped the invisible queue.
I would like to say please don’t generalise even with in Uganda women come from different cultural backgrounds. I have 2 daughters whom I have instilled self respect and integrity. We don’t live in the country but they still carry themselves with self respect.
Dowry is a gift. It's not a repayment of anything. It's not the bride price. It's community. Contributions are not one sided. They contribute to you and they do the same.
I met one from Kenya and she said she wanted a partnership and I said no problem but the wife is the helpmeet, If u want to be equal u'll need to pay half of the bills...
I hope that the interviewee is prepared that there’s no 50 - 50 in Africa! The men are the provider and the women take care of the family. An he needs to be prepared to take care of her family as well also not to forget about the bride price etc. This young man has know idea what’s he’s really getting into the African women requires way more! The American women is up front about hers the African woman goes about it suggestively don’t sleep weak minded men women are women in every country the tactfulness are just a little different!
That young brother is under no obligation to participate in anything that goes against his beliefs, values, and customs. He has the luxury of choice that he is not aware of yet. He seems like a fast learner but admits to doing a lot of simping so maybe that romanticized BS about African men being providers and women requiring a lot might scam a few dollars out of him..
@Silverbackugx ...it's his journey, and yes there's alot to learn, and trust me he just doesn't hear, he's good at listening to the things that's truly important in life. God has blessed me to see him mature, and gain successes both professionally and personally these past 4yrs. His recent trajectory has been a massive spurt upward. #Proud
@@dacommish23 you are right. I'm retired military, I have lived in Uganda for almost 4 years now. I had no one to give me the game, I suggest a stroll through Leviticus chapter 19 to get an understanding of why things are the way they are here and then decide to participate or separate yourself. I can assure he will see no degradation in quality of life or enjoyment and a big boost in respect for who he came as rather than who he was forced to become. He's still in Honeymoon phase with Uganda 😁.
Actually there are many light skinned Ugandans. I realized ugandans do a lot of generalizations..It is important to appreciate that we have different ethnic groups and the shade of black varies. The gentleman does not look any different from any African. He fits in very well. 😊.
Example is western Uganda especially bakiga I am light skinned to the extent some one might think am some other group not bakiga and come to Kampala it's mixed up here his colour fits perfectly in uganda especially Kampala where all groups meet
@@sebolai-dd4wo another generalization. Uganda has five ethnic groups of people. With different features. You wouldn't even tell who is ugandan or not with the influx of people from neighboring countries. Let's just be informed.
@@nimnlm8372 Do you understand what the word "majority" means??? I just told you a fact , that the MAJORITY of Ugandans look more like Oshay Duke...they are MOSTLY darker skinned....that is a fact...It is not my fault you have a problem with darker skin..and by the way the original west , east and north africans are dark skinned....Some Ethiopians (Oromo) are light skinned because of race mixing....The original ethiopian is not lighter skinned or mixed race...
He looks more Tanzanian or South African, his phenotype is more TANZANIAN or SOUTH AFRICA look , anyone who been in those two countries will validate my statement BUT lets be reall UGANDA women are well packaged with that thing on , dark melanated , you can faint just by looking how they built
@Silverbackugx WOW - THEN, WHAT'S THE MEANING OF "DESCENDANTS?" a person, plant, or animal that is descended from a particular ancestor. WE KNOW SOME BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH AFRICA OR AFRICANS BUT THAT DOES NOT CHANGE THE ANCESTORY/ROOTS - THANK YOU.
@@F.S.L.C. the entire world "descended" from Africa. Does that make them Africans. When Black Americans tried to unite with Africans you wanted no part of it, now that we are telling you to go your own way because we see how you treat us in Africa there's a problem, 🤔. It's cool, we're good and it's clear now that we are not African.
When you have females in the comments saying things like "He is one of the good ones..".🙄..they see SIMP stenciled on your forehead. A huge mistake brothers make coming here is thinking that these beautiful, sweet, soft spoken, feminine ladies dont have game and agendas,🤷🏾
Most men are very proud of their sons. I have two, and one in the military living in a different culture for many years. They are the men that they are because of the culture and beliefs that they were raised in. If that isn't good enough for any young lady then she can push on. If they were raised in a culture that promotes and rewards laziness with corruption, disrespect and abuse toward women, and dishonesty is normalized then they wouldn't be that appealing to the women anyway.. so why change? 🤷🏾. There is a reason why many African women try to jump on the first train passing through that is from a different culture, they don't even care what age, ethnicity, or health status as long as it's different. Sadly the men don't see it, don't care, or are too lazy and invested in backwardness to change.
He is no simp if he go about it wisely and if she is the right one. If you are a man and you think you don't have to provide something in a relationship it's not going to last.
The only thing I would accept from Africa is an original tribal last names except for all the names related to Islam ! I'm not an Arab so therefore give me names like Mugabe / Sonogo /Antetokoumpo / Nwadibia / Kwaji and many others just not Ali / Salaam / Muhammad / Mohammad / Shabazz /Mahmoud / Bilal those are Arab names ! If it sounds anything like Islam I don't want to be identified by any of those names whatsoever !
👏🏾 Oshay finally said it out loud. Dont believe the hype about what you "need to do" because most of the men here aren't doing jack $#!+ for these women except leaving them with babies. Do you and maintain yourself, being respected and feared is better than being weak and used as an ATM. If your prolonged contributions matter so much, they will not attempt to extort you under the guise of culture and tradition. Exercise your luxury of choice because you bring the most opportunity to the relationship. Dont fall for that romaticized BS, the longer you stay here you will realize that its only their version of Cinderella and Snow White 🙄. If you want some homework.. research all of the proposals to ban Brideprice that made it to the highest levels and why, even research the Presidents take on Brideprice and make up your own mind without anyone pressuring you to do anything.
@@africaine4889 🤷🏾 I'm Black American and career soldier, combined that means brutal honesty is a characteristic and ability to identify root cause and effects are learned skills. Nobody steps up to say that I'm lying and I have no reason to, the facts, statistics, and testimonials speak for themselves. It's too many of us here now for people to keep going with that fairytale BS. The curtain has been lifted, the gig is up, it's a wrap....
As a black American woman this is funny. It's funny how black American man always talking bad about black American woman but failed to mention how black American men treat black Americans women. The Bible says do not be unequally yoked. 2 Corinthians 8:14 It sounds like more work over there. 😅😅
It's not really more work, that is all cap. A huge segment of men here are broke, lazy, and looking for a woman to work and feed them. They would LOVE to catch a lonely, desperate American woman that they can juice and entertain their other women trying to trick them that the money they are flashing is theirs.
😂😂Just curious to know how Black American men treat Black American women as compared to how African men treat African women🤔. Since I live in Africa. I would say Black American women have nothing to complain about 😂😂
@@Silverbackugx from my experience it's not the Black American woman who's complaining. Black American women work hard in and outside of the home. Men in general are the head of the family. They are the ones who are supposed to protect, love, cherish, provide for the woman and the child. The woman is supposed to be the helpmate, to encourage, build up, love, support and take care of our man, family and home. The children are supposed to obey their mother and father. If it's not done in that order it is dysfunctional. No matter who you marry. The man is supposed to add to the family and the woman is supposed to multiply it. Black American men want a mama not a wife. 😂 Black American men want to be treated like a king but don't know how to treat a woman like a queen.👑🦾🥰😁💯
@@vanessaedwards54 👀.sounds like a complaint.. Black American women want a boy with an income, and not a man 🤷🏾... Enjoy Pookie at least he won't lay them hands on you.
@@vanessaedwards54 from my experience the driver of the bus reserves the right to choose who rides when they purchased, fueled, maintained, and selected the route. If you don't like where it's going then stay on the curb. What is not going to happen is a passenger telling me that I have to pay them to get on when an entire bus stop full is waiting to get somewhere and some willing to chip in on fuel, and especially when you done ride 1000 bodas for free 🤣🤣. Watching all those fairytale Nigerian movies where everybody is a fake Prince or Princess, and nobody goes to work, got these hens thinking that's real life 🤣🤣🤣. Real life is posho and beans for most. Just like real life is section 8 and chirping smoke alarms for many in America.
Welcome to Uganda young brother. Im from Louisiana, im here now this is my 3rd time coming in 9 months. Love it here!!
This guy if he came to Kenya 🇰🇪 he’d look just like a typical kikuyu! 😅
He can't just simply be another Black guy 🙄. This is why we ain't African 🙄.
I have watched a lot of these videos, and I'm starting to see a very troublesome trend. Like and date who you like without comparison because we are not only hearing one side of the story but you're no better than anyone else who paints an entire group of people with your one paint brush
Agreed.
Friend when they come on the podcast they are speaking from personal experiences so it’s not generalized just his experience. Does that make sense
@JoanaMaaya It seems to me that the type of woman the guest was looking for in America was different than the type of woman he was looking for in Uganda. He spoke on how his girlfriend was an accountant and that alliigned with his vision. Yet the african american woman is among the most educated groups of people in the world. Did his taste in women suddenly change? Did he attend any of the many HBCU institutions? What about the many african american organizations or platforms? I have two wonderful daughters and friends who are constantly hearing by so many men who are just speaking from "personal experience," telling them they are not enough because the TYPE of women they choose to date in the past. It's not fair to them. Also, there is nothing wrong with a woman wanting to know the financial stability of a person they are interested in being with. I think that should be a question on both sides. There is no group of women who is better than the next, different yes, better...no. We all have unique gifts and experiences we can offer to the world. Just love without comparison....as African American women, we already have enough battles to fight. We don't need any more.
@@FeliciaR16 You are correct. I am an African man. What differs is the character of a person. Having said that I would like also to let you know there are many places in Africa where women are just as accomplished as African American women. These guys coming to the continent will also have to keep their eyes open because there are also vultures in Africa who are ready to pound on any man with resources and some women are trained from a young age to cater and manipulate man so what you may perceive as attention may all be part of a game. These days you cannot put anyone on a pedestal which is sad.
@@FeliciaR16am a continental african womam and I totally agree with you.
I met this African American gentleman he looked exactly like the Kenyan roommate I knew back in the 80s.
He seems like a nice young man. Would like to see him again on the show! Great advice. Thanks
Gabs out here doing the Lords work droppin gems on ‘em like that. Sounding like he was Suga Free in a past life 😅
Hahaaa
😂 Suga Free is hilarious!
Great show, guys. Very informative. Gabs, grave sage advice.
Oshay gave him good advice when he said that u have the money and they should be chasing you, Not the other way around..
This episode was very informative. As a brother that just started traveling to other countries maybe Uganda is next on my list.
I think Kenyan ladies don't have time to lie about their family members getting sick... will look at you directly in the eyes and ask for what she wants...we don't beat around the bush..
Kenyan women are intelligent...they are like white women...they know that a man should provide....
Not entirely true. Ive spoken with multiple chicks from Kenya, and they beat around the bush just like the girls in Uganda.
Welcome to Uganda my brother from another mother.
I be waiting for these to drop!! ✊🏾🔴⚫️🟢
I just want to say jonita is monetizing!!!! yes yes!
Haha 😂 Webale (thanks)
@@JoanaMaaya ….weballin (get your money)
Kyle is one of the good African American/Black American men. Gabs gave great advice to Kyle about relationship/marriage with a Ugandan woman because he plans on marrying a Ugandan woman, especially the part where he said Kyle should be bicoastal and shouldn't forget his Black American culture before and after he has kids with his future Ugandan wife. Oshay gave great advice on how to navigate in Uganda and other African countries.
Btw Oshay, Joanita is one of your earthly guardian angels, same story with Gabs.
💯
@@rafaelw8115 because Black American/African American is Kyle's ethnicity. There's nothing wrong with being Black American/African American. Erasing another's ethnicity is disrespectful and offensive.
@@rafaelw8115I don't need to do anything you said because I'm well aware of the Transatlantic slave trade history before you mentioned it and African American/ Black American history because I grew up in USA. If a person tells me their ethnicity, I'm not going to say to the person "no you are not." Therefore if a person tells me their ethnicity is African American/ Black American, I'm not going to say the person isn't African American/African American. I'm not in the business of changing anyone's ethnicity and I'm not trying to erase anyone's ethnicity. What matters to me is a person's character.
@@rafaelw8115 I never argue with people about their ethnicity. I call them the ethnicity they want to be called.
@rafaelw8115 hahaha. What you said let me know you don't know my identity, lineage, or ethnicity. At this point you are debating with yourself.
Hey, Shalom Kenganda how do I get on the show to share my experience in Uganda for the last few months?
Looks like he's enjoying himself from the stains on his pants👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾"Clapping sound". Pause.😂 I thought this was a family show.😂
And it didn't cost him not one single cow 🤣🤣🤣
lmfao
@@Silverbackugx somebody clapped your mothers cheeks...for zero cows as well....lol
Cool perspectives , from intelligent yet different complex individuals. God bless 👌
In Africa it doesn't matter how high you rise as a son, community member etc as long as you contribute to the community.
Everybody is looking for something and that's why we all can't be in the same place. It's important that we respect every part of the world where people choose to work and live.
African Americans are from Africa. They just came over here 3 yesrs ago for example..im at a Kenyan cookout and even thry get it moxednup..whats funny though is some of them look exactly like FBA folks I know
I really like this guy. I'm willing to bet he's Jamaican American 😂I know my people
Wow the man in black really did some good job on the advice,he really said it all
Gotta help this young brother navigate undiscovered country!
It’s okay to take it slow. Please don’t rush. Time reveals many things.
Wow I live in the Uk and I have been watching your show very interesting. I am coming to Uganda on 21 of July cousin is getting married. Also my daughter and her boyfriend are both coming . Very interesting show and good advice to people Uk and Us. Am interested in American Guys
Hey welcome are you here yet
What he said about your wife's friends is game! This phenomena is cross cultural. Women are not friends with each other, they are acquaintances and indirect competitors. If they place high enough value on the catch, it's game for the taking, especially if they secretly that they were the prize in their group and you jumped the invisible queue.
I would like to say please don’t generalise even with in Uganda women come from different cultural backgrounds. I have 2 daughters whom I have instilled self respect and integrity. We don’t live in the country but they still carry themselves with self respect.
All same.
Dowry is a gift. It's not a repayment of anything. It's not the bride price.
It's community. Contributions are not one sided. They contribute to you and they do the same.
oshey , u are right . u don't have to do things forpipo who do nothing for u.
In our culture the man must leave his mother and father and cling to his wife. No one in your business. Genesis 2:24
How can a man cling to a woman that's just pathetic doesn't he have something to do??
The bible IS NOT an African cultural book.
@@africanstar5814 I see that. That's the problem.
That was 5000 years ago. These women today aint worth it.
He is getting less for more of his commitment.
I met one from Kenya and she said she wanted a partnership and I said no problem but the wife is the helpmeet, If u want to be equal u'll need to pay half of the bills...
Good information you can apply to Eastern Africa, not just Uganda.
With all due respect, seems like a good brotha, but he needs to get his swag up a bit...
Proud papa here!
That your son .
@@PapBob-jg7rdyes
Yes
Seems like a great humble kid good job @@dacommish23
@@dacommish23congratulations! He seems like a good man
🙄 People can do what they want. You only need to mention Kenya for views. So exhausting and divisive.
That brother is brown skin not light skin 😊
No, he’s definitely light skin
He looks brown skin to me also.
@@themonsterwithin4000well the majority of ugandas are dark skin so for them.he is light skin
I hope that the interviewee is prepared that there’s no 50 - 50 in Africa! The men are the provider and the women take care of the family. An he needs to be prepared to take care of her family as well also not to forget about the bride price etc.
This young man has know idea what’s he’s really getting into the African women requires way more! The American women is up front about hers the African woman goes about it suggestively don’t sleep weak minded men women are women in every country the tactfulness are just a little different!
...don't worry he knows...
That young brother is under no obligation to participate in anything that goes against his beliefs, values, and customs. He has the luxury of choice that he is not aware of yet. He seems like a fast learner but admits to doing a lot of simping so maybe that romanticized BS about African men being providers and women requiring a lot might scam a few dollars out of him..
@Silverbackugx ...it's his journey, and yes there's alot to learn, and trust me he just doesn't hear, he's good at listening to the things that's truly important in life. God has blessed me to see him mature, and gain successes both professionally and personally these past 4yrs. His recent trajectory has been a massive spurt upward. #Proud
@@dacommish23 you are right. I'm retired military, I have lived in Uganda for almost 4 years now. I had no one to give me the game, I suggest a stroll through Leviticus chapter 19 to get an understanding of why things are the way they are here and then decide to participate or separate yourself. I can assure he will see no degradation in quality of life or enjoyment and a big boost in respect for who he came as rather than who he was forced to become. He's still in Honeymoon phase with Uganda 😁.
@@Silverbackugx so true
Actually there are many light skinned Ugandans. I realized ugandans do a lot of generalizations..It is important to appreciate that we have different ethnic groups and the shade of black varies. The gentleman does not look any different from any African. He fits in very well. 😊.
He actually looks like the bakiga or batooro from western uganda
Example is western Uganda especially bakiga I am light skinned to the extent some one might think am some other group not bakiga and come to Kampala it's mixed up here his colour fits perfectly in uganda especially Kampala where all groups meet
the MAJORITY of ugandans look like oshay duke....
@@sebolai-dd4wo another generalization. Uganda has five ethnic groups of people. With different features. You wouldn't even tell who is ugandan or not with the influx of people from neighboring countries. Let's just be informed.
@@nimnlm8372 Do you understand what the word "majority" means??? I just told you a fact , that the MAJORITY of Ugandans look more like Oshay Duke...they are MOSTLY darker skinned....that is a fact...It is not my fault you have a problem with darker skin..and by the way the original west , east and north africans are dark skinned....Some Ethiopians (Oromo) are light skinned because of race mixing....The original ethiopian is not lighter skinned or mixed race...
I agree to a large extent but these generalizations can be dangerous on the AA side.
We are about to put disclaimers 😊. He is speaking about his personal experiences.
He will never go back to Uganda Once he gonna step in Kenya 😂😂
Exactly😂😂…
You don’t know what you are talking about
Nah, Uganda is more conservative. Too many divas and hustlers in Kenya
@@kingmelanin7468 you forgot Kampala is full of bodabodas plus they got only one medium small, many dirty roads, not many parks... Etc
@@Deggoo And??? I travel there for a stable society and traditional women. I can deal no malls and dirt roads.
Hope they Help the Ugandan orphanages Uganda 🇺🇬❤
Hope you help homeless Americans
@@Deggoo
I don't live in America .. 😕
You can help them first
@@maggien1119
I do..
I help "Allan children foundation"
@@Deggoo😅😅😅
Wow, that is a lot responsibility dating a Ugandan woman 😅
No it's not, don't believe the hype.
black men know nothing about responsibility....thats why whyte ruler ship is plenty in africa....lol...what a shame
He looks more Tanzanian or South African, his phenotype is more TANZANIAN or SOUTH AFRICA look , anyone who been in those two countries will validate my statement BUT lets be reall UGANDA women are well packaged with that thing on , dark melanated , you can faint just by looking how they built
He could indeed pass for a tanzanian or SAn
@@africaine4889 fact , agree
Gabbs giving top game
Talk about how the Ugandan women are the same especially if they have the christian faith
Got skills underachieving.
Nice, solid discussion.
Salute Kyle 🫡
@Silverbackugx WOW - THEN, WHAT'S THE MEANING OF "DESCENDANTS?" a person, plant, or animal that is descended from a particular ancestor. WE KNOW SOME BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH AFRICA OR AFRICANS BUT THAT DOES NOT CHANGE THE ANCESTORY/ROOTS - THANK YOU.
@liemmalone5534 - WOW - IF SOMEONE SAYS THAT THEY ARE AFRICAN AMERICAN THEN, IT MEANS THAT THEIR DESCENDANTS WERE FROM AFRICA.
If he is a Black American, his lineage is American. African Americans IMMIGRATE from Africa, Black Americans did not immigrate.
@@Silverbackugx WOW - THEN, WHAT'S THE MEANING OF "DESCENDANTS?" a person, plant, or animal that is descended from a particular ancestor. THANK YOU.
@@F.S.L.C. the entire world "descended" from Africa. Does that make them Africans. When Black Americans tried to unite with Africans you wanted no part of it, now that we are telling you to go your own way because we see how you treat us in Africa there's a problem, 🤔. It's cool, we're good and it's clear now that we are not African.
@@F.S.L.C. the whole planet is "descendant" from Africa.. does that make them African?
When you have females in the comments saying things like "He is one of the good ones..".🙄..they see SIMP stenciled on your forehead. A huge mistake brothers make coming here is thinking that these beautiful, sweet, soft spoken, feminine ladies dont have game and agendas,🤷🏾
Well it's true he seems like a decent man. And his dad in in the comments confirming it. He seems very proud of his son
Most men are very proud of their sons. I have two, and one in the military living in a different culture for many years. They are the men that they are because of the culture and beliefs that they were raised in. If that isn't good enough for any young lady then she can push on. If they were raised in a culture that promotes and rewards laziness with corruption, disrespect and abuse toward women, and dishonesty is normalized then they wouldn't be that appealing to the women anyway.. so why change? 🤷🏾. There is a reason why many African women try to jump on the first train passing through that is from a different culture, they don't even care what age, ethnicity, or health status as long as it's different. Sadly the men don't see it, don't care, or are too lazy and invested in backwardness to change.
He is no simp if he go about it wisely and if she is the right one. If you are a man and you think you don't have to provide something in a relationship it's not going to last.
@@Trentan44 the same applies to a woman, just showing up is not enough.. especially when you already come with financial liabilities.
@@Silverbackugx oh yeah that's facts bro. A man need a wife not a baby
African women are my weakness😭if she begs she's getting what she wants I'm sorry
Gotta have a dasher connect. Represent.
Haaa get ready to take care of her entire clan
Hehehe
What do you mean an entire clan: Clans has hundreds of people if not thousands.
Dustin it up
Oh I thought that was you from PDS. Congrats brother, I'm thinking of visiting now. Kenya got me though.
Young man please don’t put your expectations on what you are spending on your woman it’s just an advice!.
The only thing I would accept from Africa is an original tribal last names except for all the names related to Islam ! I'm not an Arab so therefore give me names like Mugabe / Sonogo /Antetokoumpo / Nwadibia / Kwaji and many others just not Ali / Salaam / Muhammad / Mohammad / Shabazz /Mahmoud / Bilal those are Arab names ! If it sounds anything like Islam I don't want to be identified by any of those names whatsoever !
I got a bit confused because Uganda has a lot of light skinned 😭🙏🏾 there all treated the same
Ugandan women use game.
Facts especially Kampala women
45:24 Auntie Auntie 👀
Well lookie here: It's one of the infamous PDS Chat Goons! What's up Kyle? Welcome home son. Kenya🇰🇪 is a MUST visit, stop playin! 🤣🤣🤣
How can I get invite to the PDS chat
Jonita chill he’s not light skin like that stoppp🤣
I'm still trying to figure out what that had to do with anything.
👏🏾 Oshay finally said it out loud. Dont believe the hype about what you "need to do" because most of the men here aren't doing jack $#!+ for these women except leaving them with babies. Do you and maintain yourself, being respected and feared is better than being weak and used as an ATM. If your prolonged contributions matter so much, they will not attempt to extort you under the guise of culture and tradition. Exercise your luxury of choice because you bring the most opportunity to the relationship. Dont fall for that romaticized BS, the longer you stay here you will realize that its only their version of Cinderella and Snow White 🙄. If you want some homework.. research all of the proposals to ban Brideprice that made it to the highest levels and why, even research the Presidents take on Brideprice and make up your own mind without anyone pressuring you to do anything.
You coming to the event on July 6?
@@OshayDukeJackson I hope so. Only one page left in my passport, I'll be at the embassy next month to get a new book.
😂😂 that bride price be making u mad mad
well said...
@@africaine4889 🤷🏾 I'm Black American and career soldier, combined that means brutal honesty is a characteristic and ability to identify root cause and effects are learned skills. Nobody steps up to say that I'm lying and I have no reason to, the facts, statistics, and testimonials speak for themselves. It's too many of us here now for people to keep going with that fairytale BS. The curtain has been lifted, the gig is up, it's a wrap....
As a black American woman this is funny. It's funny how black American man always talking bad about black American woman but failed to mention how black American men treat black Americans women. The Bible says do not be unequally yoked. 2 Corinthians 8:14 It sounds like more work over there. 😅😅
It's not really more work, that is all cap. A huge segment of men here are broke, lazy, and looking for a woman to work and feed them. They would LOVE to catch a lonely, desperate American woman that they can juice and entertain their other women trying to trick them that the money they are flashing is theirs.
😂😂Just curious to know how Black American men treat Black American women as compared to how African men treat African women🤔. Since I live in Africa. I would say Black American women have nothing to complain about 😂😂
@@Silverbackugx from my experience it's not the Black American woman who's complaining. Black American women work hard in and outside of the home. Men in general are the head of the family. They are the ones who are supposed to protect, love, cherish, provide for the woman and the child. The woman is supposed to be the helpmate, to encourage, build up, love, support and take care of our man, family and home. The children are supposed to obey their mother and father. If it's not done in that order it is dysfunctional. No matter who you marry. The man is supposed to add to the family and the woman is supposed to multiply it. Black American men want a mama not a wife. 😂 Black American men want to be treated like a king but don't know how to treat a woman like a queen.👑🦾🥰😁💯
@@vanessaedwards54 👀.sounds like a complaint.. Black American women want a boy with an income, and not a man 🤷🏾... Enjoy Pookie at least he won't lay them hands on you.
@@vanessaedwards54 from my experience the driver of the bus reserves the right to choose who rides when they purchased, fueled, maintained, and selected the route. If you don't like where it's going then stay on the curb. What is not going to happen is a passenger telling me that I have to pay them to get on when an entire bus stop full is waiting to get somewhere and some willing to chip in on fuel, and especially when you done ride 1000 bodas for free 🤣🤣. Watching all those fairytale Nigerian movies where everybody is a fake Prince or Princess, and nobody goes to work, got these hens thinking that's real life 🤣🤣🤣. Real life is posho and beans for most. Just like real life is section 8 and chirping smoke alarms for many in America.