“To laugh often and much, to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children. To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends. To appreciate beauty, To find the best in others, To leave the world a little better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition. To know that even one life hath breathed easier because you have lived.. This is the meaning of Success.” -Emerson…been my favorite for at least 15 yrs..cheers yall, great message Benny..Onward!
Benny, thank you so much for this! I recognize that I as a woman am not specifically your target audience, but as a Parrhesia grad I am on your mailing list and am very thankful to be. I needed to get this message. Thank you, again.
Friggin A Man!!! I can't recommend this course for men more! This revolutionized my life. Now I'm not perfect, healed, or complete. Rather, I am a work in progress always. Only now the difference is I have the mindset of a winner, and am able to manifest my wildest dreams. Things in my life are changing so fast and I am crushing in my profession.(Carpentry) Benny gave me the tools for success. I could have let it all go in one ear and out the other, and wasted a bunch of time and money. Instead I chose to use these tools in my life to uplift myself to the next level. I access the course daily now that I am an alumni and I am constantly reminding myself of the teachings Benny gave me and taught me. Benny's course has the potential to change your life, but you have to put in the work for it to succeed.
There is a questionaire you can take, from Harrison Assessments, and it matches your personality to over 600 jobs types, rating 0-100%. You could awesome at many things you never considered, and when you're naturally good at something, life is the easier/flow state is achieved. I recommend it for those searching for purpose.
The word "Society" is a neologism. So Ciet Y; So meaning, Under. Ciet meaning, Capture, Arrest. Y, a native English suffix of adjectives meaning “characterized by or inclined to” the substance or action of the word or stem to which the suffix is attached. The hidden message in the word Society is, Under Capture. Keep doing great things!! Love to all! 👆♥🧿
Living "outside" the herd is lonely and THAT is something few people are capable of doing. Often people who live outside the herd have just redecorated their prison cells from Christian to Buddhist but are still trapped by their cultural and societal proscriptions for life. I simply do not believe you can live "outside the herd" still living and working "inside the herd." Those who read and understand Emerson's essay will try and make it work but ultimately find it doesn't. Just sayin'
Hey there, I was just brushing up on my Emerson while doing chores. Found the information a great review of concepts that I've long incorporated into my life filled with purpose and meaning. I'm sorry you an many men feel like you are scapegoats, I support men doing their work through men's groups and all the things to help men take steps to becoming strong individuals, but you said "men are the scapegoats of society, they are now and they were back then." In the past women have been scapegoated more than men. Back "then" depending on which period you are referring to, for example, tens of thousands of women were tortured and murdered in "witch-hunts" so there is at least one example for you about how women were scapegoated and I could give hundreds more from many different "then" periods. But instead of getting into an argument about who is more scapegoated, which I don't think is productive for myself nor all of the men you help, I thought I'd make a request. Today, as a middle-aged lady living my purpose-lead life, my greatest hope is that for the Millennial and Gen Z women to make 100 cents to the 100 cents that men earn currently by the time they become my age. Though I have practiced voluntary simplicity for more than 25 years and money is a means to an end, I learned last year that at my age I would have earned a few hundred thousand more dollars (and I'm under 50). Currently the rate is 72 cents to the dollar for the same work/job/career (this of course varies per location, age, race etc, but you get the general idea, its a lot less) and we ladies have to wait until March to catch up to men's incomes. So my ask is, that you mention this as much to the men that you help and communicate this fact and maybe it will help them (and apparently you) understand, though it is wrong to do, at least where some of the scapegoating is likely originating from, and then take action as much as you can on a personal, local, professional and governmental levels to help rectify this problem (posting a video about the March date etc). I don't think most men have any idea how much more they are getting paid for the same job than women and maybe if more knew and joined hands with us, we could all together as men helping women and women helping men, make progress towards fixing this problem and reducing the (wrongful) scapegoating from women in the first place. Thanks in advance for considering my request and thank you for the review
"Your genuine action will explain your other genuine actions." "To find your purpose you must live purposefully." Alleluia! Thinking versus doing... like everything else in this world, the answer lies in the balance. Guess it all boils down to expectation. “The most exquisite paradox… as soon as you give it all up, you can have it all. As long as you want power, you can't have it. The minute you don't want power, you'll have more than you ever dreamed possible.” - ram dass
Alle disse dager som kom og gikk, ikke visste jeg at det var selve livet. Translates into: All these days that came and went, I did not know that it was life itself.
If you have not, maybe consider reading: Mans search for meaning, by Victor Frankl. Showing the power of a purpose/meaning full life. Martin Seligman also noted that meaning is what lack for people living hedonistic life.
You had me listening to you until you had to agree society and pile on about the "I'm picked on because I'm a man" crap. So conforming, and not taking responsibility for yourself.
Not what I said, but you’re welcome to your interpretation. Society doesn’t teach or encourage men to be strong individuals. Thats all. Not a complaint, just an observation.
Still love you but still pissed at you for killing your meme show. You should have pulled a Dennis Prager and cloned yourself, your show, into someone else. It would have been a great blessing to one of your friends and to us.
flathearther turning to "self help" guru..... snake oil salesman , What about 1000s that are being killed right at this moment in Ukraine and Palestine ? How will they look at future with dead eyes? Are all of them victims of their own negative inner thoughts ? Hope you'll make some money with this venture ,maybe write a book and go on tour ..... but self help guru craze is so passe .....
“To laugh often and much, to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children.
To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends.
To appreciate beauty,
To find the best in others,
To leave the world a little better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition.
To know that even one life hath breathed easier because you have lived..
This is the meaning of Success.”
-Emerson…been my favorite for at least 15 yrs..cheers yall,
great message Benny..Onward!
Nice
Benny, thank you so much for this! I recognize that I as a woman am not specifically your target audience, but as a Parrhesia grad I am on your mailing list and am very thankful to be. I needed to get this message. Thank you, again.
Friggin A Man!!! I can't recommend this course for men more! This revolutionized my life. Now I'm not perfect, healed, or complete. Rather, I am a work in progress always. Only now the difference is I have the mindset of a winner, and am able to manifest my wildest dreams. Things in my life are changing so fast and I am crushing in my profession.(Carpentry) Benny gave me the tools for success. I could have let it all go in one ear and out the other, and wasted a bunch of time and money. Instead I chose to use these tools in my life to uplift myself to the next level. I access the course daily now that I am an alumni and I am constantly reminding myself of the teachings Benny gave me and taught me. Benny's course has the potential to change your life, but you have to put in the work for it to succeed.
There is a questionaire you can take, from Harrison Assessments, and it matches your personality to over 600 jobs types, rating 0-100%. You could awesome at many things you never considered, and when you're naturally good at something, life is the easier/flow state is achieved. I recommend it for those searching for purpose.
I enjoy tracing the tracks of the masters.
I remember when Jack came out of the box, it was aggressive but none the less, Jack is out.
This video was meaningful to me. Deep thanks. I went to SF Sate with you folks.
You did?? Who are you? Haha
Love everything you do Benny. 🙏
I appreciate that. Thanks
The word "Society" is a neologism. So Ciet Y; So meaning, Under. Ciet meaning, Capture, Arrest. Y, a native English suffix of adjectives meaning “characterized by or inclined to” the substance or action of the word or stem to which the suffix is attached. The hidden message in the word Society is, Under Capture. Keep doing great things!! Love to all! 👆♥🧿
😲
The evolution of your content is awesome. 👏
Absolutely inspiring !
Thanks very much.
Congratulations, you really nailed it.
thanks
Well done.
Living "outside" the herd is lonely and THAT is something few people are capable of doing. Often people who live outside the herd have just redecorated their prison cells from Christian to Buddhist but are still trapped by their cultural and societal proscriptions for life. I simply do not believe you can live "outside the herd" still living and working "inside the herd." Those who read and understand Emerson's essay will try and make it work but ultimately find it doesn't. Just sayin'
Hey there, I was just brushing up on my Emerson while doing chores. Found the information a great review of concepts that I've long incorporated into my life filled with purpose and meaning. I'm sorry you an many men feel like you are scapegoats, I support men doing their work through men's groups and all the things to help men take steps to becoming strong individuals, but you said "men are the scapegoats of society, they are now and they were back then." In the past women have been scapegoated more than men. Back "then" depending on which period you are referring to, for example, tens of thousands of women were tortured and murdered in "witch-hunts" so there is at least one example for you about how women were scapegoated and I could give hundreds more from many different "then" periods. But instead of getting into an argument about who is more scapegoated, which I don't think is productive for myself nor all of the men you help, I thought I'd make a request. Today, as a middle-aged lady living my purpose-lead life, my greatest hope is that for the Millennial and Gen Z women to make 100 cents to the 100 cents that men earn currently by the time they become my age. Though I have practiced voluntary simplicity for more than 25 years and money is a means to an end, I learned last year that at my age I would have earned a few hundred thousand more dollars (and I'm under 50). Currently the rate is 72 cents to the dollar for the same work/job/career (this of course varies per location, age, race etc, but you get the general idea, its a lot less) and we ladies have to wait until March to catch up to men's incomes. So my ask is, that you mention this as much to the men that you help and communicate this fact and maybe it will help them (and apparently you) understand, though it is wrong to do, at least where some of the scapegoating is likely originating from, and then take action as much as you can on a personal, local, professional and governmental levels to help rectify this problem (posting a video about the March date etc). I don't think most men have any idea how much more they are getting paid for the same job than women and maybe if more knew and joined hands with us, we could all together as men helping women and women helping men, make progress towards fixing this problem and reducing the (wrongful) scapegoating from women in the first place. Thanks in advance for considering my request and thank you for the review
Love to you and your beautiful family :)
I need to check this book out. Thanks for the recommendation!
Love you Benny! Always showing the way forward.
"Your genuine action will explain your other genuine actions." "To find your purpose you must live purposefully." Alleluia!
Thinking versus doing... like everything else in this world, the answer lies in the balance.
Guess it all boils down to expectation.
“The most exquisite paradox… as soon as you give it all up, you can have it all. As long as you want power, you can't have it. The minute you don't want power, you'll have more than you ever dreamed possible.” - ram dass
Alle disse dager som kom og gikk, ikke visste jeg at det var selve livet.
Translates into:
All these days that came and went, I did not know that it was life itself.
your positivity & zest for life are as a tonic of health & love.
that's awesome to hear. Thanks
Well done Benny. I've been a bit stagnant of late and this is just the type of video to get me moving toward my dharma again!
I am purchasing "Self Reliance" to consume intellectually because of this presentation. Thanks Benny!
Is this a skit?
If you have not, maybe consider reading: Mans search for meaning, by Victor Frankl. Showing the power of a purpose/meaning full life. Martin Seligman also noted that meaning is what lack for people living hedonistic life.
I'm sure that somewhere ..Sometime..Society was Normal and Calm..
😯😯
When self-relience is ordinary, it'll be fun to be ordinary.
Love what you’re up to Benny. I can vouch for the elite quality of your guidance 🪄
everyone wants to be a leader but not everyone can be though.or should be.
People can lead themselves. Behavior can be taught.
This was cool until u went on the incel rant lol
You had me listening to you until you had to agree society and pile on about the "I'm picked on because I'm a man" crap. So conforming, and not taking responsibility for yourself.
Not what I said, but you’re welcome to your interpretation. Society doesn’t teach or encourage men to be strong individuals. Thats all. Not a complaint, just an observation.
Still love you but still pissed at you for killing your meme show. You should have pulled a Dennis Prager and cloned yourself, your show, into someone else. It would have been a great blessing to one of your friends and to us.
flathearther turning to "self help" guru..... snake oil salesman ,
What about 1000s that are being killed right at this moment in Ukraine and Palestine ? How will they look at future with dead eyes? Are all of them victims of their own negative inner thoughts ?
Hope you'll make some money with this venture ,maybe write a book and go on tour ..... but self help guru craze is so passe .....
Hey.....you found Waldo !
Purpose is a main commonality in our beautiful planets' Blue Zones.