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  • Опубликовано: 9 окт 2024
  • নারী দিবসে আমরা কতোরকম নারীর গল্পই তো বলি। তাদের অধিকারের গল্প বলি, আশার গল্প বলি, নিরাশার গল্প বলি, ক্ষমতায়নের গল্প বলি। কিন্তু এর সবকিছুর পরেও কি কিছু নারীর গল্প আমাদের চোখ এড়িয়ে লুকিয়ে থাকে? চলুন, আজকে এরকম এক গল্পই শুনে আসি। চিরচেনা এক অভিশাপ দূর করতে আওয়াজ তুলি একসাথে।
    #NotHerFault
    A Film by Mahathir Spondon

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  • @akshitabhardwaj3216
    @akshitabhardwaj3216 3 года назад +1185

    Also, the society doesn't need just men like him, but everyone like him,

    • @ArdhenduChakraborty621
      @ArdhenduChakraborty621 3 года назад +41

      There are (being honest) MANNYYY people like him. But humse koi baat karta hi nahi LOL. But yeah, on a serious note, there are many like him. AND, I also find it weird that many men, who feel sad and bad for women who had to endure rapes, surprisingly make fun of guys who have to undergo molesation. I still remember my case. When I was in 11th-12th, I was touched "VERY VERY" inappropriately by an uncle while I was hitch-hiking. 2 years prior to that, while I was on a crowded bus ride, I "LITERALLY" had someone press (squeeze) my private organ just before I was about to board off the bus (and this happened twice with me). A few guys (who will otherwise show empathy towards a woman) made fun of me when I narrated them these incidents.
      Result? I'm 23 now and don't take crowded bus rides and don't hitch-hike anymore, as those incidents have obviously scarred me, but the fact that those guys made fun of me, hit me the most.
      I just hope everyone understands that molestation against *ANYONE* is wrong and pathetic an experience.
      Regards.

    • @bijilathomas8125
      @bijilathomas8125 3 года назад +2

      true!!!

    • @subash5148
      @subash5148 3 года назад +8

      Yes it's a accident we have to erase that day in our life 👍

    • @mrnobody9762
      @mrnobody9762 3 года назад +11

      @@ArdhenduChakraborty621 sorry to hear that , i feel sad to hear that, appriciating you for sharing . kindly teach our next generation especially boys to teach to respect women , it should starts with all our families , teach boy child to takecare of girl child , respecting them , and teach both children to cook . if possible make ur husband to involve in ur house hold works as well

    • @akshitasingh6921
      @akshitasingh6921 3 года назад +2

      I agree ...love the fact that your name is same as mine

  • @RojaJaneman
    @RojaJaneman 3 года назад +2044

    The fact that this common sense needs to be advertised, is a shame on the culture.

    • @rahnumaislam1097
      @rahnumaislam1097 3 года назад +41

      @Roja Janeman you are absolutely right! The fact that we have to teach this to people is a shame on us and our culture!!

    • @rajkamble3486
      @rajkamble3486 3 года назад +20

      We should all teach our daughters not to come alone or even if so carry a knife and learn some knifing skills

    • @rahnumaislam1097
      @rahnumaislam1097 3 года назад +148

      @@rajkamble3486 that’s fine but maybe we should teach our boys not to rape!! Why does it always fall on the girl? They have the right to walk alone or wear what they want without worrying abt being raped. Teach your boys and men to respect women!!!

    • @cthulu423
      @cthulu423 3 года назад +57

      @@rajkamble3486 so according to you, we should wear mask to avoid corona, but not look for vaccination.

    • @RojaJaneman
      @RojaJaneman 3 года назад +16

      @@rahnumaislam1097
      U know, for a fact, that the society is dangerous for women. Even if all men become respectful all of a sudden one day, it’s not gonna happen anytime soon. And everyone knows that. So what r u doing to help urself meanwhile? If u didn’t help urself at all, and something happened then u r partially responsible. Ur parents have their own burdens. U shouldn’t be another one for them to carry. It’s unfair to them.
      Exercising, eating healthy, learning combatives, weapons training, learning about safety in the world and on the web etc. everyone should have these skills. Things can still go wrong, but at least you’d know that u did the best u could.
      If every parent taught their kids to have such dignity and self respect the boys will automatically learn to be respectful in general and girls to be self respectful.

  • @Bratwurstboy
    @Bratwurstboy 3 года назад +1062

    I personally know someone who willingly married a räpe victim, I feel privileged to have known that person, He was an angel in a human skin😇.

    • @radha5325
      @radha5325 3 года назад +46

      Simply great bless that person and the girl 🌹🌹

    • @sabrinahaqueshoily3453
      @sabrinahaqueshoily3453 3 года назад +23

      May God bless them

    • @Apotatokingg
      @Apotatokingg 3 года назад +433

      He wasn't an angel. He was just a decent man. He didn't do a charity by marrying a rape victim. A rape victim is not a wasted woman.

    • @KarimKhan-tv8cy
      @KarimKhan-tv8cy 3 года назад +50

      @@Apotatokingg exactly

    • @Bratwurstboy
      @Bratwurstboy 3 года назад +189

      Since you've brought up why he is worthy of being conferred the title of angel, I'd like to bring up a little backstory here, It was around 2005-2006, people back then used to doubt and shame the victim for being räped, The girl was my neighbor and she was like a sister figure to me, she was much elder to me she was around 19-20 and sadly one day she was gang räped by 9 guys, one of them who took her to a secluded place was a childhood friend (that was the most disturbing part) of hers and he brought 8 other guys with him on that fateful day.
      So eventhough people in my town were not inhumane enough to shame her, but they were of the opinion she isn't fit for marriage, infact her parents themselves thought it's better to get their younger daughter married since nobody would want to marry a räpe victim (2005 mentality), and then came this guy, an MBBS MD doctor coming from a family of doctors and I can vouch literally every eligible spinster in the town and the neighboring cities desired him.
      I am not sure how he came to know about her, probably because the news had spread all over the town like wildfire, It was in the media as well.
      And then he went on and asked for her hand for an ARRANGED MARRIAGE, had it been for love it was understandable, maybe there was compassion/sympathy involved, maybe he could look through her pain and got attracted to her splendid personality, or maybe he thought since he was anyhow going to have an arrange marriage, she is same as every other girl he could possibly get hitched to.
      And then he literally fought a long battle for one year against his family, most of his friends and the entire society to get married to a girl he hardly knew and for a girl who was considered least preferential by the entire society back in that era.
      people tried every single thing to stop him from doing so, people started spreading rumors that she would never be able to give birth to a baby because her uterus was badly damaged, some would say she would never come out of her trauma and he is risking his lifetime of happiness for definite life full of sorrow etc etc
      And guess what, He was okay with not having a baby with her, finally he managed to convince his parents and they got married and by Krishna's grace they are blessed with 2 beautiful daughters now.
      Come on dude, guys who make the same claims as you, they just gibber jabber, In an ideal world, yes no guy should be bothered, but in the real world 99% of guys wouldn't get involved in such an act of benevolence, people like him are very few even in this era, let alone 15 years ago, and that's why he's an Angel.

  • @samiran83
    @samiran83 3 года назад +172

    The way he merged her and his incident to give that simple, easy to understand logic was just great.... Hats off to the writer.

  • @theiqkhan1
    @theiqkhan1 3 года назад +275

    what surprises me is the comments praising or arguing
    arent all men or at least real men supposed to act like this?
    i think something is wrong with society for this being an exception instead of the norm
    and the perception of society ( the comment section is also social opinions) say that this is not a norm but an exception
    that makes me question what is society making men to be?

    • @alexklaus3876
      @alexklaus3876 3 года назад +10

      YES exactly, what he did was the bare minimum. Although giving credit where it's due, he made the lady feel comfortable for the first time, but this kind of behaviour is the bare minimum. Everyone should be like this.

    • @Vision_Voyagers
      @Vision_Voyagers 3 года назад +1

      Since the age of neanderthal, humans are accustomed to living in groups, we needed that we are part of the pack. It's coded in our DNA that's why we easily get influence by what society think. It'll take another century or so to break the code, sad but it's the truth.

  • @sudeshnajana780
    @sudeshnajana780 3 года назад +1858

    কী আশ্চর্য বলুন তো এই ভালো মানুষ গুলো শুধু অভিনয়ে সীমিত

    • @refatrahman4634
      @refatrahman4634 3 года назад +44

      onk sundr r sotti kotha bollen apu..apnk chini na kintu ame mugdho apnr kothy onk vlo thakun

    • @sudeshnajana780
      @sudeshnajana780 3 года назад +19

      @@refatrahman4634 I'm from India dear .. lots of love ❣❣❣

    • @shafi202
      @shafi202 3 года назад +28

      কিন্তু বাস্তবেও এরকম অনেক ভালো মানুষ আছেন।

    • @forwork6361
      @forwork6361 3 года назад +41

      সত্যিই আপু।খুব সুন্দর কথাটা বলেছে। এইগুলা শুধু অভিনয় পর্যন্তই সীমিত 🙂।।রিয়েল লাইফ এ তো রেপ করা মেয়েদেরকে সমাজেই ধরা হয়না।।সবই নাটক

    • @rifad786
      @rifad786 3 года назад

      bastobeo ase

  • @debjanibose839
    @debjanibose839 3 года назад +136

    The society needs this type of gentle man more.😊🙂

  • @far-dam7711
    @far-dam7711 3 года назад +81

    As a kid even I used to have such regressive thoughts, thanks to films and society🤦 Exposure to foreign media changed it. Good that we are changing 🙏🙏🙏

  • @basmeenm1476
    @basmeenm1476 3 года назад +405

    ❤️Strong Message. I wish Men like him does exist rather than just fantasy.

    • @cloudindia2335
      @cloudindia2335 3 года назад +15

      Does, i am one of such kind sis.

    • @MrUbercool007
      @MrUbercool007 3 года назад +12

      we do exist : )

    • @akshatabhishek3569
      @akshatabhishek3569 3 года назад +9

      We do exist. It's just Girls always prefer good looking guy over good character guy. It's a fact.

    • @rojaligajula2184
      @rojaligajula2184 3 года назад +18

      @@akshatabhishek3569 so you’re saying good looking guys have bad character? It’s more about society as a whole, we need to change the way we treat rape victims

    • @akshatabhishek3569
      @akshatabhishek3569 3 года назад +8

      @@rojaligajula2184 I am not saying good looking guy has a bad character always. But if you put both of them in a differrent basket then majority of times women would choose the option of good looks & flamboyancy over good character. If they both are in same basket then offcos that's a perfect thing but when in dilemma looks alwayd get's an edge. Also, I totally agree with societies way of treatement of Victims. No argument there. Take Care, Stay Safe👍

  • @medhar3076
    @medhar3076 3 года назад +197

    It's so sad that something like this needs to be taught. I'm crying and I and I'm absolutely disgusted. It's like getting stabbed in the chest and being told your whole life that it was your fault you were in that place.

  • @belleepoque2544
    @belleepoque2544 3 года назад +39

    I love the guys in the comment section. Thank you for being allies and having the common sense that so many men lack- thank you from the bottom of my heart.

  • @rumanmim8860
    @rumanmim8860 3 года назад +394

    ছেলেটার মতো যদি আমাদের সমাজে প্রত্যেকটি মানুষ হতো। তা হলে মেয়েদের এতো অসমান অত্যাচার সমাজে হতোই না।একজন মেয়ে হয়েও সুযোগ পেলে অন্য কোন মেয়ে কে অসমান করতে ছারে না মানুষ। একবারো ভাবে না যে কোনো মেয়ে সাথে এই রকম হতেই পারে, এই যে কোনো মধ্যে হয়তো একদিন সে নিজে ও থাকতে পার। এই কথাটা সবাই বুঝতে পারলে বরং সমাজ টা অনেক সুন্দর হতো।

    • @rayhanraiyen195
      @rayhanraiyen195 3 года назад +7

      তোমরা তোমাদের চয়েসের এমন ছেলেই খুঁজে যাবে নিয়মিত,বুকে লালন করবে এমন একটা সুপুরুষ, দিন শেষে পার্ফেক্ট একটা মানুষ হয়ে যাও ঠিকই তোমরা,কিন্তু তার আগে ইঞ্জয়,ফ্রেন্ড সার্কেল নিয়ে বিভিন্ন বাজে কাজ,টাইমপাশ ভিডিও কল এ বাজে কাজকর্ম,এইসবের পরেই তোমরা চেয়ে বসো সুপুরুষ

    • @joynalreza651
      @joynalreza651 3 года назад

      t

    • @durgamagirbhodadurgamaagir6147
      @durgamagirbhodadurgamaagir6147 3 года назад +1

      @@rayhanraiyen195 maiya manush manei lucha age chelera meyedeer pechone ghurto akhon meyera ghura cheleder pisone😂😂

    • @prabirbasu6066
      @prabirbasu6066 3 года назад

      V

    • @ab-vr2qz
      @ab-vr2qz 3 года назад

      .....

  • @miligosawmi3776
    @miligosawmi3776 3 года назад +52

    কপালের দরকার এমন ভালো মানুষ পাওয়ার জন্য,,,,।কিন্তু সত্যি তো এটা যে এমন ভালো মানুষ,,,,,,, আদৌ হয় না। আর হলেও সবার ভাগ্যে হয়না।

  • @MythicEcho
    @MythicEcho 3 года назад +195

    Their is something wrong with the plot - oh, yes she was okay that guests can come over without knowing her story firsthand!
    Most of our Indian pathetic society will definitely choose to not visit the bride's house knowing this.

    • @radha5325
      @radha5325 3 года назад +1

      V v true ☹️

    • @sameergautam2171
      @sameergautam2171 3 года назад +5

      Maybe , the boy and family just saw the pic of girl

    • @juhivarma7160
      @juhivarma7160 3 года назад +26

      She had been told to keep the 'shameful' truth hidden. You saw her parents 'official' story, 'she fell getting off a bus'.

    • @navneethkrishnan3412
      @navneethkrishnan3412 3 года назад +2

      Not just "Indian" pathetic society. It's the same for Pakistan, Nepal, Sri Lanka, Bangladesh,etc. For example, this short film was made in Bangladesh..

  • @younameme8477
    @younameme8477 3 года назад +26

    I can't even imagine it. I mean it's hard enough for a person to live through a trauma like that but imagine having a physical embodiment of a traumatic event like that. Honestly makes me so sad that this happens in real life .

  • @MGongopadhyay
    @MGongopadhyay 3 года назад +30

    এত ভালো বিজ্ঞাপন অনেকদিন বাদে দেখলাম।
    আপনাদের প্রচেষ্টা যেন সফল হয় ভগবানের কাছে এই কামনা করি।

  • @syb4426
    @syb4426 3 года назад +134

    শেষের কথা গুলো মন ছুঁয়ে গেল..কলকাতা থেকে অনেক শুভেচ্ছা রইলো

  • @riano1835
    @riano1835 3 года назад +25

    এতো চমৎকার একটা কনটেন্ট বানানোর জন্য নির্মাতাসহ সকল কলা-কুশলীদের জন্য শুভকামনা ও ভালোবাসা! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shakeranur7876
    @shakeranur7876 3 года назад +147

    বাস্তবতায় যদি এমন জীবনসঙ্গী পাওয়া যেত... কেউ ধর্ষিতা হয়েও নিজেকে সোভাগ্যবতী ভাবতো...😥

    • @durgamagirbhodadurgamaagir6147
      @durgamagirbhodadurgamaagir6147 3 года назад

      Tui mone hoy magi dhorsito

    • @arnabpatwari3816
      @arnabpatwari3816 3 года назад +12

      @@durgamagirbhodadurgamaagir6147 gondho chhorate ese gachhe🤣

    • @meghabanerjee4504
      @meghabanerjee4504 3 года назад +9

      Sotti thik bolechen asole ki janen to ei sokol bhalo manush gulo na sudhu golpo sahitto ar obinoyey simito. Bastob ta boro kothin. Boro rukkho boro mejaji

    • @mohammedshafiqulislam7334
      @mohammedshafiqulislam7334 3 года назад

      @@durgamagirbhodadurgamaagir6147 bodro word use korte paren na?

  • @shuklaray9486
    @shuklaray9486 3 года назад +48

    অনেক সুন্দর ! তবে বিচার ব্যবস্থা যত দিন শক্তিশালী না হবে ততদিন এই trouble সবাইকে বয়ে বেড়াতে হবে । অসুস্থ মানসিকতা পরিবর্তন প্রয়োজন।

  • @rozinakader3615
    @rozinakader3615 3 года назад +277

    I do not think we can find any kind, well mannered man like this advert in real life.

    • @roshanontheway
      @roshanontheway 3 года назад +8

      And I do not think we can find someone so upfront, honest woman and still think life is so much more to live on and wants a man to understand her and be happy together like this advert in real life.

    • @shadowdemon9043
      @shadowdemon9043 3 года назад +6

      It's not that such humans don't exist, it’s just that haven't come across with them at least not yet.

    • @psh19821
      @psh19821 3 года назад +27

      @@roshanontheway oh please. i know women who have been upfront about everything in their past but their partners left them once they got to know of their past. this is wrong. i dont know a man like this and i know that there are no men like this

    • @anushka1223
      @anushka1223 3 года назад +15

      accusing all men is a bit too much yaar. I really hate it it when I see my fellow women going on with "I hate all men" quote. I mean I understand women have suffered alot by men in our society but accusing all of them is just simply wrong.

    • @wisha2312
      @wisha2312 3 года назад +6

      @@anushka1223 omg would you just stfu! Your completely missing the point and dismissing the experiences of a woman.
      If hearing about violence against women automatically pushes you to think it’s an attack against men and prove how not all men would do that, you’re a bigger part of the problem than you’ve realised. The whole idea of ‘nice’ men is problematic. Who are nice men? Men who are polite and civil? Men who don’t molest, rape or abuse women? Is masculinity so fragile that men require validation and gratitude every time they show half-decent behaviour?
      If a woman is sharing an uncomfortable and traumatic experience with you, the worst thing you can do at the time is tell her not all men are like that. Her lived experience is more important than your ignorance and your half-pleading attempt to show that YOU are not like that. Listen. Empathise. Probably don’t say anything at all.
      By saying #NotAllMen, what you’re doing is telling us that because not all men are abusers, they do not engage in and are not responsible for the everyday oppression of women. It would take another thread to show all the reasons why that’s false. Check your behaviour. Question your decisions. Have you ever, consciously or unconsciously made someone uncomfortable? Do you indulge in ‘locker room talks’, casual sexism or actively perpetuate stereotypes against women? Do you think all women are poor drivers? How many times do you get up to take food without a woman handing it to you? #YesAllMen - Check yourself

  • @farhanaeasmineasha7302
    @farhanaeasmineasha7302 3 года назад +20

    খুব সুন্দর.. খুব সুন্দর করে চাপা কষ্ট এবং এই অবস্থায় মেয়েদেরকে যে বিনা দোষেও দোষি করা হয় তা তুলে ধরা হয়েছে...শুধু অভিনয় দেখে নয় বাস্তবেও সহানুভূতি + সম্মান প্রদর্শনের বিষয়টা অন্তরে ধারন করুন।

  • @ayshasiddiqua4651
    @ayshasiddiqua4651 3 года назад +20

    A bright example of how the female members of our society are always being blamed and burdened for something which someone else had done.The victim always has to blamed and tortured by the society wheareas the rapists can escape easily.It has become the social law that 'the reason of rape is the victim going out,not the rapist.' The women always feel insecure n blamed for something which is never their fault.😔

  • @shiddarthabiswas8456
    @shiddarthabiswas8456 3 года назад +54

    Angels don't always fly in the sky, they're on the earth, around us help them to consecrate not decay their perception on periphery.

  • @islamicchannel6764
    @islamicchannel6764 3 года назад +6

    নাটকের বিষয়বস্তু টা আসলেই অসম্ভব সুন্দর একটি বিষয়বস্তু। আসলে আমাদের সমাজের দৃষ্টিভঙ্গি চেঞ্জ করতে হবে তাহলেই না আমরা আমাদের সমাজ থেকে পরিবর্তন করতে পারব। সামাজিক দৃষ্টিভঙ্গির অবনতির কারণে আজ ধর্ষণ-নির্যাতন সবকিছুই বেড়ে যাচ্ছে। সুতরাং আমাদের সমাজের দৃষ্টিভঙ্গি চেঞ্জ করতে হবে। তাহলে আমরা একটি সুন্দর সমাজ এবং সুন্দর দেশ গড়তে পারব।

  • @shekhrafiul7821
    @shekhrafiul7821 3 года назад +111

    চমৎকার স্বল্পদৈর্ঘ্য চলচ্চিত্র। তবে মিমের চেহারাও কিন্তু আগে থেকে আরো চমৎকার হয়েছে 😃

  • @ujjalhasan9097
    @ujjalhasan9097 3 года назад +128

    এই দেশে ধর্ষণে শাস্তি হয়না বলেই , ধর্ষকরা পার পেয়ে যাচ্ছে ।

  • @amimulahsan1289
    @amimulahsan1289 3 года назад +7

    Those people who gave this video a dislike, have nothing to do for this country. They are and will be a burden for this country because they don't have the mentality that can give women the equal respect as men.

  • @avishekganguly4677
    @avishekganguly4677 3 года назад +35

    It touched my heart deeply.
    In the same way in every country women are facing same issues on daily basis.
    We support you guys.
    Great Content...
    Love from Kolkata, India...❤

    • @lipakshimallik3652
      @lipakshimallik3652 3 года назад

      Not in every country

    • @anime2315
      @anime2315 3 года назад

      @@lipakshimallik3652 yes , in every country...in the whole world

  • @AbdusSamad-so4dz
    @AbdusSamad-so4dz 3 года назад +5

    আমি মনে করি বিয়ের মতো এতো বড় একটা কনটেন্ট এ সত্য বলা উচিত
    ।নিজের ইচ্ছায় যেটা হয়না সেট্তে নিজের দোষ কোথায়
    আসুন ওদের পাশে দাড়ায় ওদের চলতে শিখায়
    চলো বাংলাদেশ বদলে যাই

  • @gnani8714
    @gnani8714 3 года назад +10

    It is absolutely correct I always accept it.. In this story the bride 👰 told truth and bridegroom🤵 heard and listened to her by heart not by brain.. I think it's great👏👍👍👍👏👏👏👏🙏💐💐💐

  • @rahataratamanna1324
    @rahataratamanna1324 3 года назад +17

    অসাধারন 😍😍 সত্যি সত্যিই এবার পাল্টানো দরকার আমাদের চিন্তাধারা....আমাদের চিন্তা চেতনার শুদ্ধিকরন আবশ্যক..

  • @arpithabhattacharjee5524
    @arpithabhattacharjee5524 3 года назад +14

    কতোটা সুন্দর ছিল বলে বুঝাতে পারবো না।।🥺🥺🥺

  • @goutammondal3093
    @goutammondal3093 3 года назад +141

    Every PARENTS’ SON need to watch this. We shouldn’t praise only about this masterpiece short film but also take the massage from it and should apply in our daily life.
    Come on young generation.. what YOU waiting for.... RAISE YOUR VOICE .....,

  • @tapobratameikap6765
    @tapobratameikap6765 3 года назад +4

    এরকম মানুষ আরো সমাজে বেশি করে চাই সুন্দর সমাজ গড়ার জন্যে🙏

  • @theon5413
    @theon5413 3 года назад +46

    It is amazing to see this kind a short film not just for social awareness but also for change our mentality towards women ☺☺

  • @sarahthomas2922
    @sarahthomas2922 3 года назад +5

    3:55 - she's a beauty and the message of this video is amazingly delivered!

  • @janhvipandey2494
    @janhvipandey2494 3 года назад +5

    It's a topic discussed multiple times through ads like this but this particular film had certain subtlety, the little pauses with the silence background touches the heart. I got real goosebumps. Almost as if the actors were really feeling the emotions they were conveying. Plus the language, Bengali language has a way of conveying serious words sweetly and politely.

  • @hmmohsin5914
    @hmmohsin5914 3 года назад +54

    হ্যা, এটা সুন্দর ছিল। সামাজিক সচেতনাতাও আমাদের দ্বায়িত্ব। শুধু প্রেম নির্ভর সস্তা কন্টেন্ট বানালে হবে না। এতে বিনোদন আছে। এর বেশি কিছু নেই।

  • @jannatulhira5270
    @jannatulhira5270 3 года назад +5

    অনেক অনেক অনেক সুন্দর।
    নির্মাতাকে অনেক ধন্যবাদ এমন অসাধারণ নির্মানের জন্য।

  • @lamiatalukder5829
    @lamiatalukder5829 3 года назад +5

    এখানে সবাই ছেলেটা কে ভালো বলবে,আর বলবে সবাই যদি এমন হতো 😊কিন্তু কেউ নিজে কোন দিন রেপ হওয়া একটা মেয়েকে বিয়ে করবেনা 🙂💔আর করলেও তার বিনিময়ে অনেক টাকা নিবে🙂💔এটাই বাস্তবতা 🙂💔

  • @azadkhanofficial8156
    @azadkhanofficial8156 3 года назад +1

    সত্যি অসাধারন এবং শিক্ষামূলক একটি মেসেজ। ধন্যবাদ প্রথম আলো কে শিক্ষা মূলক মেসেজ এর জন্য।

  • @riaria1657
    @riaria1657 3 года назад +13

    Well done mim for addressing the elephant in the room! This needs to be addressed more in out society

  • @inaayajannat847
    @inaayajannat847 3 года назад +16

    😭😭😭😭😭😭আমি শিহরিত।সত্তি কাদতে বাধ্য হয়েছি।অনেক অনেক ধন্যবাদ

  • @mayurkadam982
    @mayurkadam982 3 года назад +28

    That's really good message. I wish Everyone can understand situation like him.

  • @arunkumarray287
    @arunkumarray287 3 года назад

    প্রথম আলো অনেকখানি আলো ছড়িয়ে দিল, সামাজিক এক অন্ধকারের উপর। অনেক শুভেচ্ছা, এপার থেকে।

  • @farjanaakterlima1394
    @farjanaakterlima1394 3 года назад +8

    এই ভালো মানুষ গুলোকে শুধু নাটকেই দেখা যায়।

  • @jamilurr
    @jamilurr 3 года назад +47

    দারুণ কনসেপ্ট! ভালো লাগলো❤️

  • @sonalisaha-kundu4915
    @sonalisaha-kundu4915 3 года назад +3

    Our society needs men who have this kind of mentality!!! 🔥❤️

  • @arju1015
    @arju1015 3 года назад +3

    স্বল্পদৈর্ঘ্য; কিন্তু আবেদন অনেক গভীর।
    মন ছুঁয়ে গেল।

  • @samsulaminmeraz8648
    @samsulaminmeraz8648 3 года назад +10

    গুরুত্বপূর্ণ চিন্তাভাবনা। সবার এভাবে ভাবা উচিত

  • @priyamowade118
    @priyamowade118 3 года назад +10

    Thank you for giving subtitles , this is so beautifully made 😘people must know the gravity of this situation that it's not the fault of girls ,and must be made aware about it

  • @imashaperera4773
    @imashaperera4773 3 года назад +6

    the best twist ever!!! this being created in India is mind blowing. Thank you

  • @mahadyhasanasif
    @mahadyhasanasif 3 года назад +4

    ব্যাকগ্রাউন্ড মিউজিক কি সামহাউ ইমন চৌধুরীর করা!
    Beautifully done

  • @hadianoor2505
    @hadianoor2505 3 года назад +4

    it's a good short film.After seeing this I feel proud that I am Bangladeshi.Not for society for these creators.Thanks.
    Let's make sure that every woman is safe in our country.🙅🙅🙅

  • @GoodieLife
    @GoodieLife 3 года назад +49

    Thank you ....

  • @sadikaafrinjui6646
    @sadikaafrinjui6646 3 года назад +36

    আসলেই বেশ ভালো হয়েছে.. এই ভাবে যদি সবাই ভাবত♥️

  • @mehediriad9517
    @mehediriad9517 3 года назад +2

    অসাধারণ এবং শিক্ষণীয় একটা story যেটা humanity কে কড়া নাড়ে।

  • @prishlavrghs
    @prishlavrghs 3 года назад +17

    🙏 for your thoughts and for presenting it so beautifully. I could only understand the emotions not the language, but all of you made me think. A right to live a normal life is above everything else 🙏

  • @dr.sundar5013
    @dr.sundar5013 3 года назад +3

    A wonderful short story with such a Deep and important meaning. Congratulations to the writer, director and all the cast for bringing it out so splendidly !!!!. Definitely a MUST Watch !!!!

  • @bangtans8964
    @bangtans8964 3 года назад +9

    The most shameful thing is that , for sharing this beautiful & right thought this video has got dislikes....🥺🥺
    Sad reality of developing india ...( the country which foreigners thinks is of best culture & humanity )😥😥😥

    • @navneethkrishnan3412
      @navneethkrishnan3412 3 года назад +1

      Just because of a few dislikes, why do u blame the entire Indian society? Morons who dislike exist everywhere, they're there in India too, so why do u stereotype the entire Indian culture for tht? Actually there are many more beautiful aspects of Indian culture, so what's wrong if someone, whether it be foreigners or Indians appreciate it? And similarly, the western culture which Indians think is of best culture and humanity also has a lot of negative sides...

    • @vasanthagowripammi9954
      @vasanthagowripammi9954 3 года назад +1

      The most shameful thing here indeed is your enthusiasm in blaming entire India. When any mishap happens, the first thing that comes from people like you is, India is the only country where such incidents happen, shame to be in such a culture, in our land we pray to female Goddesses but we don't respect females. Jeez! is your concern actually about the victim. To prove you that you are wrong this video is not watched by Indians alone, Infact it is a Bangladeshi film.

    • @navneethkrishnan3412
      @navneethkrishnan3412 3 года назад

      @@vasanthagowripammi9954 Ikr...first of all this is a Bangladeshi ad. And people here are blaming India for this. My God, as if crimes against women happen only in India. Whereas those countries these anti- India Indians believe to be a haven for women and their rights, like US, UK, France, Australia, etc. are way ahead India in women sexual abuse. Only difference is such news in India are magnified by the media, and other so called "intellectuals", whereas such news in western countries are just ignored, as it is so common there. And I don't understand what problem they are having now with foreigners who appreciate our culture, they can't accept the reality, it seems...

  • @imanibaruah2379
    @imanibaruah2379 3 года назад +1

    Oh God this is really really fantastic msg to us . I am from Assam and m a mother of 1.5 year boy . And you know what I always wanted a daughter but no prblm, my little toddler has already stolen my heart . Important thing is that now a days this is a tough task to grow up a boy by giving him a Good Culture . And you know I just want to make my son a Good Human Being 🙏🏾

  • @blessed_with_hidayah
    @blessed_with_hidayah 3 года назад +10

    এই ভাবনাটা শুধু সামাজিক যোগাযোগ মাধ্যমে নয়, সামাজিকভাবে সকলকে ভাবতে হবে।

  • @SongSubtitlingSeason
    @SongSubtitlingSeason 3 года назад

    Creative and...... বাংলাদেশের বর্তমানের ছায়াছবি গুলোও যদি এরকম সৃজনশীল হত,তাহলে এখনো সবাই তা দেখে তৃপ্তি পেত।

  • @shaonhai9212
    @shaonhai9212 3 года назад +450

    ২৪ জন রেপিস্ট আইসা ডিস্লাইক দিছে

  • @RishirajSahoo
    @RishirajSahoo 3 года назад

    বাহ্! খুব ভালো লাগলো! বাস্তবে এই রকম মানুষ হয়তো সত্যিই কম দেখা যায়, কিন্তু এই ধরণের গল্পগুলি মানুষকে হয়তো নতুন করে ভাবতে শেখাবে!

  • @taehyungsqueen3987
    @taehyungsqueen3987 3 года назад +5

    *Bondhobondhu gave respect to All those Mother who got Abused by Pakistani Military in 1971 " বীরাঙ্গনা"*

  • @puspendubiswas4341
    @puspendubiswas4341 3 года назад

    বাঃ, বিদ্যা সিনহা মীমের চোখের অভিনয় খুবই উচ্চমানের লাগলো👍

  • @bhumikasinghal6791
    @bhumikasinghal6791 3 года назад +18

    what is sad is that : she cried fro help. As females we need to be taught self - defence as a de-facto. This crying for help needs to stop. :(

  • @emamisarkarsmakeupworld5484
    @emamisarkarsmakeupworld5484 10 месяцев назад

    বেঁচে থাকুক এই মানুষ গুলো।
    সমাজটা সুস্থ স্বাভাবিক ভাবে।

  • @anikatabassum7507
    @anikatabassum7507 3 года назад +5

    অসাধারণ, চোখে পানি চলে এলো

  • @rockyazwe5649
    @rockyazwe5649 2 года назад

    সত্যি কথা বলার মতো ছেলে ও মেয়ে পাওয়া খুব কঠিন । কারণ কেও সত্য কথা বললে আমার বিশ্বাস করিনা এজন্য যে আমরা মিথ্যা কথা বলে সত্যকে পায়ের নিচে রেখে দিয়েছি , তাই মনে করি অন্নরাও মিথ্যা কথা বলে।

  • @vemuriyasaswini803
    @vemuriyasaswini803 3 года назад +7

    Thank you for sharing the message in such a good way. In any situation the victim gets pity or sympathy or empathy but it's only in a rape case that a victim gets questions or disses or accusations. Thank you for letting people know that a rape victim is only human and she/he IS the victim in need of empathy and not some doubts and questions.

  • @nanditadivakaran
    @nanditadivakaran 3 года назад +1

    Bravo to the bridegroom! I wish more young men would think like this 👏👏

  • @dishaaadiyaajit4888
    @dishaaadiyaajit4888 3 года назад +15

    What does he mean when he says "no one has control over the situation". The intention in this ad is good, but it needs to have phrased a lot better. It IS the man who raped hers' fault.
    Also while I get the message of the burden being placed on her shoulders for no fault of hers, its ridiculous to compare a bike accident to a rape case. Like please.

    • @ahemahem7056
      @ahemahem7056 3 года назад +2

      I think by saying "no one" he meant the victims in such situations

  • @dishaaadiyaajit4888
    @dishaaadiyaajit4888 3 года назад +2

    To all of the people in the comments section pretending like men who don't blame women for being raped are angels, you're promoting a flawed norm. Instead of congratulating men for treating a women with basic respect that she DESERVES, condemn the men who aren't.
    How the guy behaved in this video should be exactly how every guy reacts. He's not extraordinary for it.

  • @anikaanjum9368
    @anikaanjum9368 3 года назад +8

    Nothing to say... very amazed !!!

  • @Ddi1947
    @Ddi1947 3 года назад +4

    I choked in emotion😞 Hope our world changes and becomes caring and loving🙏

  • @jweelrana3050
    @jweelrana3050 3 года назад +23

    Respect 💚

  • @bigbangriders7177
    @bigbangriders7177 3 года назад

    ভিডিওটা এতো ভালো লাগলো যা বলার বাইরে। এতো সুন্দর জনশিক্ষামূলক ভিডিও বানানোর জন্য আপনাদের টিমকে অনেক অনেক ধন্যবাদ। 💟💟💟

  • @bidyutbiswas4588
    @bidyutbiswas4588 3 года назад +4

    Excellent work and great message to our own broken society ! Love and hope is the answer !

  • @eatingandvlogwithsisters4874
    @eatingandvlogwithsisters4874 3 года назад

    ভালো মানুষ কি সত্যি আছে!!! হা আছে যদি আল্লাহ্ তাকে ভালো মানুষ রাখে তবে।। ভালো লাগলো ভিডিওটি।।

  • @lovelygomes9453
    @lovelygomes9453 3 года назад +5

    Ufff.... Just amazing.... I MUST SAY....Bidya Sinha Mim...hats of to u❤❤❤❤

  • @nazmulhossain2615
    @nazmulhossain2615 3 года назад +2

    কী আশ্চর্য, এখানে শুধু ধর্ষিতার করুণ আর্তনাদ, অবস্থা 🥺 টুকু তুলে ধরা হয়েছে। আফসোস, ধর্ষণ কীভাবে বন্ধ করা যায় তা তুলে ধরা হয়নি। এজন্যই তো বলা হয়, আবেগ দিয়ে কি বিবেক চালানো যায়?

  • @abdullahalriadh2729
    @abdullahalriadh2729 3 года назад +16

    A Splendid work done to represent a beautiful thought

  • @subrinasultana2611
    @subrinasultana2611 3 года назад +2

    ki sundor concept ....asole appreciate korar moto. amader prottekere onner simaboddhotar jaigai nijeke bosie dekhno uchit.... amader sobchaite kaser sobcheye apon manuster sathe amon hole amra ki take chere dite partam...tahole onno akjon manuser jonno amra aktu sohanovutishil hote parbo na...parbona take kase tante

  • @sidnur8013
    @sidnur8013 3 года назад +6

    It seems more heart touching because of such a nice story, direction and obviously acting. Hope this type of combination will be applied in our film and drama industry!

  • @jitheshbabu5169
    @jitheshbabu5169 3 года назад +1

    Actually this is a subject for a full movie. You done it beautifully in five minutes without draining it's quality. With lots of love.....a viewer from CALICUT, KERALA.

  • @swm367
    @swm367 3 года назад +4

    I don't have words to say about this content. Good work. Hats off to d entire crew members.

  • @sinthiyatasnim4160
    @sinthiyatasnim4160 3 года назад

    Just oshadharon,,,egula asole story tei hoy😓reality te khub kom dekha jay eirokom vlo moner manush,,,khub vlo laglo

  • @zerogravity1990
    @zerogravity1990 3 года назад +8

    3:33 পুরুষ নয়, মানুষ হোন
    হোন মানবিক পুরুষ...

  • @simhadri56
    @simhadri56 3 года назад

    It brought me to tears !! The way still our sanskaari" culture blames the victim!! Why our ancient culture evolution has been so narrow minded in this regard?! Why a majority of population still so regressive and lack sense?!
    Really appreciate the men who are sensible to understand !! But that's just a small section of population.. Hope for a better evolved society..

  • @md.sadmunhafizshawon6882
    @md.sadmunhafizshawon6882 3 года назад +10

    Touched my heart.
    That's not a girl's foult (in maximum time).

    • @rodoshihassan4967
      @rodoshihassan4967 3 года назад +5

      Tf bro????its always the pedophiles fault in every single time .....video ta pura ta dekhen nai??? Apnar moto manushi rape howar por bole 'meyera rate party korte gesilo rape hobe na toh ki hobe?'

  • @Chinniillustrates
    @Chinniillustrates 3 года назад

    the opressed one has to be quiet, feel guilty, ashamed, embarassed nd hide themselves as if they're the one at fault...salute to such society,system nd people of our country.....

  • @সুমনসাহারিয়ারজয়

    ধর্ষিতা না ধর্ষনকারীকে ঘৃণা করি

    • @Sabiha_Mahbub_1
      @Sabiha_Mahbub_1 3 года назад

      🙄

    • @সুমনসাহারিয়ারজয়
      @সুমনসাহারিয়ারজয় 3 года назад +5

      @@Sabiha_Mahbub_1 hotas kno?

    • @rickmashohagi1859
      @rickmashohagi1859 3 года назад +1

      🙄

    • @keyasultana3063
      @keyasultana3063 3 года назад

      @@hiyakabiraj4988 Tader ghrina keno korbo jante pari?

    • @crystal_bold
      @crystal_bold 3 года назад +4

      @@hiyakabiraj4988 আপনি বোধহয় নিজের মা বোনকে কেউ রেপ করলে তাদের চুল ধরে ঘর থেকে বের কর দিবেন।🙄
      বজ্জাত, অমানুষ কথাকার🐩🦵

  • @fatemajuhi9092
    @fatemajuhi9092 3 года назад

    এরকম মানসিকতার মানুষ দেখে মনটা ভালো হয়ে গেল, হোক নাহ সেটা পর্দায়। আজকাল কল্পনার জগতেও কেউ এমন মানুষের কথা ভাবতে পারে নাহ।

  • @Srijitadasgupta1122
    @Srijitadasgupta1122 3 года назад +8

    I like the concept❤️❤️

  • @yaminhossaintanmay2450
    @yaminhossaintanmay2450 3 года назад +1

    আমরা আমাদের সামাজিক অবস্থা সবচেয়ে নিচে নামিয়ে নিজেদের সামাজিক জাতী হিসেবে দেখি!
    আমরা নারী কে মায়ের জাত বলি অথচ পথে ঘাটে তাদের নিচু করতে দ্বিধা করি না!
    আমরা গৃহের চারদেয়ালের ভেতরে কটু কথা বলা কে অভদ্রতা বলি , আর রাস্তায় আমাদের সাথে অস্রব্য ভাষায় কথা বলা নর্দমার কীট গুলোর কথা চুপ করে কানে নেয়াটাকে ভদ্রতা বলি!
    আমরা সর্বদা নিজেদের ধর্ম পরায়ন বলি তবে আমাদের সমাজের ঐ নিকৃষ্ট কাজ গুলোতে আমরা ধর্ম কে একপাশ করে ফেলি আর যারা দূর্বল তাদের বিরুদ্ধে ব্যাবহার করি!
    কমেন্টস বক্স এ অনেকে মহানভবতা দেখায় অথচ বাস্তব জীবনে আমরাও একি কাজটা করি, কারন আমরা বাঙালি, আমরা সবচেয়ে বড় সামাজিক ভাবে অসামাজিক জাতি

    • @englishexpert1989
      @englishexpert1989 3 года назад

      এত দরদ কেন মেয়েদের প্রতি?

  • @smallporpoise445
    @smallporpoise445 3 года назад +1

    excellent mind-blowing brilliant .... thank you so much for this short film

  • @nishatnabilaislam8594
    @nishatnabilaislam8594 3 года назад +5

    Egulo real life e kew bolbewna kew manbewna🙂sobai meyeder e dosh dibe🙂