Honey, your friendship is over. That girl is moving up the social ladder, and she's moving up from your friendship. She's selfesss and not a very good friend. There's no repairing this friendship. Let her go . I bet she won't be there for you when you get married. Face it, girl, she's too' good for you now.
Maria is a narcissist. Unbelievable that she kept saying $500 - when OP and Steve spent $2k ON TOP of everything OP spent for bridal shower events and travel. Plus the fact that Maria took credit for the custom favors🤬 OP is right for moving on
@@Jaywon453 Steve was like "nawh - she's shown who she really is, why would I go back to that well if it's been proven dry?" and I love what steve said saying "Fine I wont go then" to her, like damn thats pretty solid.
Also who was the replacement maid of honor while OP was kicked out ? This person got shoved and aside and re-down graded when OP came back. Maria is a peace of work. OP should left the ceremony once she found out
I’ve been in OPA position before when I was in elementary and middle school friends that you only use me and taking advantage of me until they don’t have no nothing else and dish me for friends they thought was worth their time and energy. Oh he just needs to focus on herself more never compromise money that is gonna keep you in a deep hole and just do the things you want to do not so much what other people want to do don’t be a people pleaser
To be fair, payment for the favours was not agreed upon before hand. It was only because the bride mentioned extra money that OP felt entitled to ask for payment.
Honestly I’m conflicted. If op told her friend about the money in the beginning that would make sense to be angry but also she did put in hours of work end her friend had extra money. I’m still on ops side because of that and the lying but I believe she should’ve talked after the wedding
I think op doesn’t understand what a gift is. She decided to make ornaments she shouldn’t expect reimbursement unless it was agreed on beforehand. It was incredibly tacky to try and pick a fight with the bride at a wedding. I don’t think it was bride that was wrong in this story. Op sound jealous.
I would have been tempted not to attend but I'm sure the dress and travel may have been non-refundable. That was never addressed in the story. So I would be there, eating and drinking everything possible. And would have packed up some stuff for Steve!
![[Full Story] My Wife Brought Her Boyfriend Home to Announce Her Pregnancy but When I Mentioned...](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/NuLDiypfQiI/mqdefault.jpg)
![[Full Story] My Wife Brought Her Boyfriend Home to Announce Her Pregnancy but When I Mentioned...](/img/tr.png)
![[Full Story] I Was Pushed Out of My Family After Divorce, but When Ex's Gf Crossed the Line With...](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/j8l-txOO4wA/mqdefault.jpg)
![[Full Story] My Husband Lied About Going on a Boys Trip to Puerto Rico & Went With His Co-worker...](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/K3axJO4ZLic/mqdefault.jpg)
![[Full Story] My Sil Pretended to Be Sick for Years to Live With Our Parents but When I Had a Baby...](/img/1.gif)
OP is pathetic for throwing Steve under the bus for Maria. I would've stayed with Steve if I were her.
Honey, your friendship is over. That girl is moving up the social ladder, and she's moving up from your friendship. She's selfesss and
not a very good friend. There's no repairing this friendship. Let her go . I bet she won't be there for you when you get married. Face it, girl, she's too' good for you now.
Maria is a narcissist. Unbelievable that she kept saying $500 - when OP and Steve spent $2k ON TOP of everything OP spent for bridal shower events and travel. Plus the fact that Maria took credit for the custom favors🤬 OP is right for moving on
She should've told people she was the one that made every5hing.
OP is a big disappointment. Shouldn't have gone to the wedding.
True she should have not gone , just like Steve
@Jaywon453 yeah, Steve was the man!
@@Jaywon453 Steve was like "nawh - she's shown who she really is, why would I go back to that well if it's been proven dry?" and I love what steve said saying "Fine I wont go then" to her, like damn thats pretty solid.
Also who was the replacement maid of honor while OP was kicked out ? This person got shoved and aside and re-down graded when OP came back. Maria is a peace of work.
OP should left the ceremony once she found out
I’ve been in OPA position before when I was in elementary and middle school friends that you only use me and taking advantage of me until they don’t have no nothing else and dish me for friends they thought was worth their time and energy. Oh he just needs to focus on herself more never compromise money that is gonna keep you in a deep hole and just do the things you want to do not so much what other people want to do don’t be a people pleaser
I understand OP trying to save her friendship at first, but them red flags were flying high prior to her actually flying to Hawaii.
With spotlights shining on them.
People need to stop clinging on to the what-was and embrace the what-is.
To be fair, payment for the favours was not agreed upon before hand. It was only because the bride mentioned extra money that OP felt entitled to ask for payment.
Honestly I’m conflicted. If op told her friend about the money in the beginning that would make sense to be angry but also she did put in hours of work end her friend had extra money. I’m still on ops side because of that and the lying but I believe she should’ve talked after the wedding
I was feeling the "something more" before it was even said.
Another AI
Beside OP shouldn't be discussing money at weddings. Seriously
She actually took some of the money the resale? Shouldn't that have been all Steve ' s ?? She got $500, originally from Maria.
Yeah my focus all this time was on steve and op,
Is steve gay, or is he afraid to confess??
OMG. How many times does OP have to get disrespected and keep coming back for more?
I think op doesn’t understand what a gift is. She decided to make ornaments she shouldn’t expect reimbursement unless it was agreed on beforehand. It was incredibly tacky to try and pick a fight with the bride at a wedding. I don’t think it was bride that was wrong in this story. Op sound jealous.
I would have been tempted not to attend but I'm sure the dress and travel may have been non-refundable. That was never addressed in the story. So I would be there, eating and drinking everything possible. And would have packed up some stuff for Steve!
Yo wats good plz pin or most liked
Bro shut up why do these people want to get pinned so badly
"I can't avoid her forever" why not?
If I were you I wouldn't attend the wedding at all instead hang out with Steve and NC bridezilla.