Wow this story is very different. Take your secret to your grave. You should have just divorce him and remarry instead of sleeping with your father in law. That is very wrong.
Koj xav yuav me nyuam cas koj g mus dee hluas nraug es txhob qhia koj tus txiv mas tos koj tus txiv g yuav koj los koj yeej khib cuab dhau lawm os yus niag txiv yawg tseem nrog yus pw tas li es kkj tus txiv txaj muag dhau lawm es ua cas yuav koj na yog kuv los kuv g yuav li lawm os ob niag txiv tub koom ib niag poj niam xu siab tsaj plaw
Yes, 100% agree with Nancy. There's only you and 3 other people who know about it. When you are ready and the time is right, please do let them know who their real father is. Ua neeg peb tsis yuam kev ces peb tsis yog neeg. Qhia lawv tag lawv tsis xav hlub lo its ok. Yog lawv saib pom koj yog niam hlub hlub unconditionally, lawv yeej yuav tsis k. Im sorry that happened to you.
Sorry what you have to go through. I think this is something that you will have to take to the grave no matter what. If you tell your kids i think there's going to be more problems.
Tiam Yam sim no ces tej me nyuam twb tsis hlub niam hlub txiv li lawm ces yog leej twg ho tsis muaj me nyuam no tshuav ob leeg sib hlub xwb tsis tas mus Kom tus ub tus no tso me nyuam li os nyob twj ywm xwb os
ua tsis tau li cas, dag xwb. Tsis muaj leej twg yuav yuam tau yus. Ua li koj hais thaum twb muaj menyuam lawm los txiv yawg hais thaum twg koj yeej kam deev thaum ntawv. Txhob muab tej lus hais tias, ua tsis tau li cas. Ua tau kawg, koj tsis ua li cas xwb. Ua ua, koj cia li swm thiab nyiam txiv yawg lawm. Tej koj thiab txiv yawg sib deev no yeej liam heev. Thaum pib ua txuj txaj txaj muag, ua mus ua los cia li sib deev tsis txaj muag lawm. Tim koj thiab nawb, txhob muab liam txhua yam rau txiv yawg xwb.
Yog thaum kawg nkaus. Ua tsis tau lawm. Ma li qhia rau xwb ma. Lub txim yog koj niam pog thiab txiv yawg xwb.os tsis li ces hais tias lawv yog me nyuam hluas nraug no los yeej tsis txaum li os tus me niam tsev aw.
That is so wrong. U refused to tell them the truth, but u lied to the kids that their dad, your husband, their uncle, doesn't love them and doesn't want them. U made him out to be the bad one. Now the kids are gonna grow up and think he's an evil dad who abandoned them and didn't love them. U don't take accountability for your actions at all and shifted the blames onto your ex so now the kids will hate him. I can't feel sorry for u bc of this fact. U could have came clean and confess everything, yet u continued to lie til this day. That's pretty selfish of u. I would like to know what the ends would be like for u and your lies, if it'll last forever or not. I feel u owe your ex-husband an apology by being honest to your kids about who their real father is so they could stop hating their uncle.
Kuv xav tias yog cov me nyuam tsis nug txog ces tag hos nyob2 lawv nug txog yuav tsum hais qhov tseeb vim ntuj muaj qhov muag thiaj kom koj muab los tham
Txhua yam no yog koj niam, koj txiv thiab koj tus txiv planned es txhawm nws happened lawm los live as it is and treat as a gift. Koj tsis muaj kev txhaum. Nws yog koj tus txiv yuav koj los rau koj txiv siv thiab ntis nws lub ntsej muag xwb. Lub neej, coob tus niam nqa tub thiab nyab me nyuam, thiab ntxhais nqa txiv menyuam lawv twb let it goes thiab ua tau neeg. Txhua yam yog tsis muaj leej twg paub ces txhais hais tias tsis muaj dab tsi tswm sim (anything unknow is non-existed). Nej txhua tus twb hla dhau txoj kev txom nyem thiab txaj muag lawm. Hnub no mus kav tsij zoo siab rau yam neb tau thiab celebrated what you got and enjoy your life.
Yog koj mus dee hluas nraug muaj mas twb g txaj muag npaum koj dee koj niag txiv yawg na aub pab koj txaj muag dhau lawm os yus txawm g muaj me nyuam es tus txiv g yuav los mam nrauj zoo dua qhov koj dee koj niag txiv yawg na xyov yog ruam dhau lawm los yog yeej xav/2 dee niag txiv yawg as ntshe pom txiv yawg qau loj hee thiaj cia txiv yawg dee
Ab ....hmoob aw ua cas tseem muaj tej no thiab lo yog g muaj ce nrauj lawv tu tub xb lo mas cas tseem cia txiv yawg nrog yu thiab os yog thaum me nyuam paub qhov tseeb lm ce qhia ncaj qha xb lo as
Ntsej muag ruam aw ua li cas ho tsis khiav ua nkauj fa es mam li mus yuav dua tus tshiab es tseem yuav kam nrhab rau txiv yawg thiab os ua li cas tsis txaj muag li os poj hmoob aw2.
Koj ces cuab dhau lawm os yuav mus tso taw cas g mus tso tej neeg sab nraum es kom lawv txhob paub koj tseem cia koj niag txiv yawg nrog koj pw thiab ces koj xuaj dhau qhov xuaj lawm os
In life, we all make mistakes, some bad, some are the most unthinkable. You were young and very3 naïve. I 100% feel your husband’s pain. I don’t think he had a choice for what happened. What gets me is you’ve allowed your FiL to continuously sleep with you for years. I think he forgave you with the first child, but after that, it was beyond his control. His leave is appropriate due the level of pain he has endured for years. For now, everything is done and over with, lessons learned, and move on. The burden (secret) has been lifted. My advice to you is “sometimes things are better left alone”. I trust that one day, your ex will reunite with his half siblings (your children) as they are the closest to him. Please seek mental health as needed.
tseem zoo li cas los koj yuav tau qhia qhov tseeb rau tej me nyuam kom lawv paub … tus me nyuam twg tseem tsis hlub koj thiab ces cov me nyuam no ruam tshaj ruam
The dad got 2 poo-yee...the daughter n law got 2 ding dong...wow...I feel sorry for the son. Should have ask the son to get a second wife along this mess, so no one is gonna get butt hurt too much. But this case is gross, need to do outsider, not within the family. Might as well just sleep with the WHOLE family since you guys already doing it ( father n law and daughter n law, mother n law and son n law, sister and brother, sister n law and brother n law, ect, ect)..why just stop at you two if u guys r gonna be gross like that.
Idk this story is so hard to believe. But again it could be the father in law’s idea cause there is no way the mother in law willingly allowed her husband to sleep over and over again with you. Plus you were young and naive. Your husband love you he should’ve open up and tell you the truth but instead he cheats and allows his dad to take advantage of you. It’s an embarrassment but atlease you have your kids. I guess when it comes down to desperation of wanting kids, all things can be blinded.
Your in laws manipulate you to their sick game! Your ex-husband is not an good man. He knew his poor condition but still cheated on you. You should have left and not endured that miserable life. All your children are the best blessings!! Ahhh, sorry for you! You're a victim!
Twg kom koj pheej cuab rau txiv yawg ua tag zog ne koj Tus txiv tsis kam them child support los koj hais tsis tau vim cov me nyuam twb tsis yog nws cov ne tseem coj mus kuaj los twb tsis yog nws roj ntsha naw, yeej tim koj ib Leeg xwb,
Wow, if I were you I would bring it to the grave. Disgusting culture / sleeping with father in law. Your x husband shld be disgusted with your decision to sleep with his father. In addition, don't even know why you agreed to sleeping with your father in law. U shld have left the marriage instead!!!
Tus niamtsev koj txhob nyuaj nyuaj siab os yog lawv paub qhov tseeb ces qhia qhov tseeb xwb tsis muaj teeb meeml. Yog cov minyuam tsis hais ab tsi ces phov twj ywm li no mus xwb mas. Txawm li cas los mitub mintxhais yog koobmoo zoo xwb...
Txhob qhia koj cov me nyuam tsam lawv noj tshuaj tuag tag lawm os
Qias neeg tiag2 li os xuab tshaj plaws
Mloog zaj xu siab dhau mloog tsi taug
Wow this story is very different. Take your secret to your grave. You should have just divorce him and remarry instead of sleeping with your father in law. That is very wrong.
Koj xav yuav me nyuam cas koj g mus dee hluas nraug es txhob qhia koj tus txiv mas tos koj tus txiv g yuav koj los koj yeej khib cuab dhau lawm os yus niag txiv yawg tseem nrog yus pw tas li es kkj tus txiv txaj muag dhau lawm es ua cas yuav koj na yog kuv los kuv g yuav li lawm os ob niag txiv tub koom ib niag poj niam xu siab tsaj plaw
I dont know what to say to u coz it's mind blowing. Tsis paub hais li.
Hauv ntiaj teb no ces ntshe sau hlo rau koj ib leeg ruam li os tus viv ncaus aw CAs hlub koj ua luaj os mog
Txawv tiag2 li os. Tsis txhob qhia koj cov me nyuam os. Yog koj tsis hais lawv yeej tsis paub os.
I like Nancy advice
Muaj tej zaj neej neeg qias neeg li no thiab los!!!
Best way not to tell.
Yes, 100% agree with Nancy. There's only you and 3 other people who know about it. When you are ready and the time is right, please do let them know who their real father is. Ua neeg peb tsis yuam kev ces peb tsis yog neeg. Qhia lawv tag lawv tsis xav hlub lo its ok. Yog lawv saib pom koj yog niam hlub hlub unconditionally, lawv yeej yuav tsis k. Im sorry that happened to you.
Koj twb paub tias tsis yog nws cov menyuam, Cas koj tsis ua lwm zaj es koj tseem foob nws thiab lob!
Pab nrog koj khuv xim koj txoj kev hlub uas puas ntsoog tau txom nyem siab ntsws dhau💔💔💔💔
Peb pab hlub💔 koj tshaj os tus brother uas tsis muaj menyuam aw💕
Tsis qhia txog hnub kaeg koj
Tsis tau hnov dua li hmoob yeej tsis muaj li no li os
Just tell the truth, the truth shall set you free.
Txhob qhia nawb npog kom tag ib sim nej zoo dua os.
Sadly, she has been thru this shameful family.
yog tias qhov ua tau kj kaj siab ces ua qhov ntawd xwb. tsi txho mloog leej twg hais li.
Yog hauj lwm kawg lawm UA twj ywm xwb neeg thiaj tsis paub ntxiv lawm
Wow that’s messed up really
(yog tias kuv yog koj) yog thaum koj cov menyuam paub qhov tseeb los yog lawv nug koj tias lawv yog leej twg cov menyuam no ntshe kuv cia li muab ib txoj hlua mus dai caj dab kom tuag es txhob qhia zoo tshaj
Zais.kom.tuag.ti.xwb.yog.ib.yam.txaj.muag.do
Txhob qhia kiag li os, kom koj tus qub txiv txhob qhia koj cov me nyuam lawv thiab os.
Vuag zaj no cas hais tau qias neeg ua luaj
Npaug kom txog hnub tuag xwb lau
Shared the love within the family😂
Thats so messed up and disgusting! You enjoying that txiv yawg long enough to have 4 kids? No wonder your ex husband divorced you.
Npog txog tav no lawm ces Npog tuag nthi os tug niam aw vim koj Qhua yuav ua rau koj mi nyuam ntxub koj os
Sorry what you have to go through. I think this is something that you will have to take to the grave no matter what. If you tell your kids i think there's going to be more problems.
Ua cas es tseem yuav muab los hais qhia neeg ntiaj teb paub thiab lau tsis txaj muag los cas
Tiam Yam sim no ces tej me nyuam twb tsis hlub niam hlub txiv li lawm ces yog leej twg ho tsis muaj me nyuam no tshuav ob leeg sib hlub xwb tsis tas mus Kom tus ub tus no tso me nyuam li os nyob twj ywm xwb os
Kuv tsis ntseeg koj. Yog koj ncaj koj yeej tsis deev txiv yawg muaj 4 tug me nyuam thiab. Leej twg thiaj xav yuav koj na. Kuv los yeej tsis yuav koj li os .thiab tsis lam muaj ib tug niam pog cia yus tus nyab ua yus tus niam yau li ko .
ua tsis tau li cas, dag xwb. Tsis muaj leej twg yuav yuam tau yus. Ua li koj hais thaum twb muaj menyuam lawm los txiv yawg hais thaum twg koj yeej kam deev thaum ntawv. Txhob muab tej lus hais tias, ua tsis tau li cas. Ua tau kawg, koj tsis ua li cas xwb. Ua ua, koj cia li swm thiab nyiam txiv yawg lawm. Tej koj thiab txiv yawg sib deev no yeej liam heev. Thaum pib ua txuj txaj txaj muag, ua mus ua los cia li sib deev tsis txaj muag lawm. Tim koj thiab nawb, txhob muab liam txhua yam rau txiv yawg xwb.
Yog thaum kawg nkaus. Ua tsis tau lawm. Ma li qhia rau xwb ma. Lub txim yog koj niam pog thiab txiv yawg xwb.os tsis li ces hais tias lawv yog me nyuam hluas nraug no los yeej tsis txaum li os tus me niam tsev aw.
That is so wrong. U refused to tell them the truth, but u lied to the kids that their dad, your husband, their uncle, doesn't love them and doesn't want them. U made him out to be the bad one. Now the kids are gonna grow up and think he's an evil dad who abandoned them and didn't love them. U don't take accountability for your actions at all and shifted the blames onto your ex so now the kids will hate him. I can't feel sorry for u bc of this fact. U could have came clean and confess everything, yet u continued to lie til this day. That's pretty selfish of u. I would like to know what the ends would be like for u and your lies, if it'll last forever or not. I feel u owe your ex-husband an apology by being honest to your kids about who their real father is so they could stop hating their uncle.
Me niam tais aw tsam no lawm ces kav tsij hlub hlub koj cov me nyuam xwb os mog kev khib kev khaum ces cia Koj niam pog ua tus ris xwb os nawv
I would rather have a divorce vs. doing the FIL.
Kuv xav tias yog cov me nyuam tsis nug txog ces tag hos nyob2 lawv nug txog yuav tsum hais qhov tseeb vim ntuj muaj qhov muag thiaj kom koj muab los tham
Dag dhau kv pom lub title xwb it hard to believe. 😂
Kids! Your father is your brother, and your grandpa is your father🤣🤭
Ab Nancy, kuv twb Pom youtube tso ib cov viv ncaus muab zuag qe rau nws tus viv ncaus uas qe tsis qoos, hos cov txiv yawg muab cov Kab menyuam rau tus nyab thiab ma. Txuas yog lawv tsis pw uake xwb.
Txhua yam no yog koj niam, koj txiv thiab koj tus txiv planned es txhawm nws happened lawm los live as it is and treat as a gift. Koj tsis muaj kev txhaum. Nws yog koj tus txiv yuav koj los rau koj txiv siv thiab ntis nws lub ntsej muag xwb. Lub neej, coob tus niam nqa tub thiab nyab me nyuam, thiab ntxhais nqa txiv menyuam lawv twb let it goes thiab ua tau neeg. Txhua yam yog tsis muaj leej twg paub ces txhais hais tias tsis muaj dab tsi tswm sim (anything unknow is non-existed). Nej txhua tus twb hla dhau txoj kev txom nyem thiab txaj muag lawm. Hnub no mus kav tsij zoo siab rau yam neb tau thiab celebrated what you got and enjoy your life.
Aub yau niam tais aws, koj txiv yawg ces tau ntau lawm xwb os, koj ces pob peev lawm lo, tiam no mas koj txiv yawg tuag luag ntxhi xwb lo,
Thaum koj nrhab ceg raus txiv yawg los yeej uas raus koj muaj kev lom zem kaj siab lug. Yog ib zaug xwb mas xam tias koj yuam kev, txog txij muaj 4 tug mes nyuam lawm ces koj yeej nrog txiv yawg pws tshaj 1000 zaug. Koj taus kev hlub los ntawm txiv yawg thiab tub xauv npos. Kav tsij muab txhuas yam tsuj ntiag tuaj ntawm taws tsam lawm hnub koj cov tub paub ces tus txawj xav ces tsis luaj twg, tus tsis txawj xav ces lawv yuav mus noj yeeb, dais tuag thiab uas raus lawv poob tsim. Kaws qhov ncauj nawb
Xyov lau. txiv yawg tuag lawm ces tus ntawd yeej yog tej me nyuam txiv rau ntawd xwb mas viv ncaus aws. Thiab yog le Nancy hais nawb. 😊😊😊
Koj lub meej ces qias neeg ib yam koj niag txiv yawg tsis pain in ais li cas qias neeg ntau heev
Koj ua kev npam ntau dhau lawm koj yuav tsum qhia koj cov menyuam nawv es mus lawb dab lees koj tej kev txhaum rau Vajtswv es tej kev npam uas koj ua ntawd thiaj tsis raug rau koj cov menyuam nawv mog.
Yog koj mus dee hluas nraug muaj mas twb g txaj muag npaum koj dee koj niag txiv yawg na aub pab koj txaj muag dhau lawm os yus txawm g muaj me nyuam es tus txiv g yuav los mam nrauj zoo dua qhov koj dee koj niag txiv yawg na xyov yog ruam dhau lawm los yog yeej xav/2 dee niag txiv yawg as ntshe pom txiv yawg qau loj hee thiaj cia txiv yawg dee
It's disgusting so just keep it to yourself. Don't hurt the children. This will damage them forever. Keep the secret and no need to tell anyone.
Nej tsev neeg kod ua cas ho tsis tuag nyob rau nplog teb,nej twb tsis yog,neeg tseem yog tsiaj hav zoov xwb
Don't open your mouth say anything words between you and in laws to your kids. you will be fine 🙂
Ab ....hmoob aw ua cas tseem muaj tej no thiab lo yog g muaj ce nrauj lawv tu tub xb lo mas cas tseem cia txiv yawg nrog yu thiab os yog thaum me nyuam paub qhov tseeb lm ce qhia ncaj qha xb lo as
Just tell them the truth to set you free!
This is so sick. I can't comprehend why you agree to sleep with your father in law.
Ntsej muag ruam aw ua li cas ho tsis khiav ua nkauj fa es mam li mus yuav dua tus tshiab es tseem yuav kam nrhab rau txiv yawg thiab os ua li cas tsis txaj muag li os poj hmoob aw2.
Koj ces cuab dhau lawm os yuav mus tso taw cas g mus tso tej neeg sab nraum es kom lawv txhob paub koj tseem cia koj niag txiv yawg nrog koj pw thiab ces koj xuaj dhau qhov xuaj lawm os
In life, we all make mistakes, some bad, some are the most unthinkable. You were young and very3 naïve. I 100% feel your husband’s pain. I don’t think he had a choice for what happened. What gets me is you’ve allowed your FiL to continuously sleep with you for years. I think he forgave you with the first child, but after that, it was beyond his control. His leave is appropriate due the level of pain he has endured for years. For now, everything is done and over with, lessons learned, and move on. The burden (secret) has been lifted. My advice to you is “sometimes things are better left alone”. I trust that one day, your ex will reunite with his half siblings (your children) as they are the closest to him. Please seek mental health as needed.
Eww.. this story is so gross 🤮 can’t believe the nyab allowed txiv yawg do her. So gross 🤮
tseem zoo li cas los koj yuav tau qhia qhov tseeb rau tej me nyuam kom lawv paub … tus me nyuam twg tseem tsis hlub koj thiab ces cov me nyuam no ruam tshaj ruam
Vuag cas niam pog txiv yawg yuav liam ua luaj thiab koj yuav ruam tas ib sim los yog koj yeej nyiam nrog txiv yawg pw os. Koj txawm ruam npaum cas los tsim nyog paub tias nrog txiv yawg sib aim tsis normal pob. Nej tsev neeg no liam dhau lawm os.
I don’t believe such things like tus nyab sleep with txiv yawg not in hmong history
Ob yo viv nczu ca xu siab ua luaj txawm tsis muaj me nyuam yuav nrog txiv yawg pw
Have you never heard …
The nyab has to sleep with the FIL before sleep with the son long long ago in Hmong history
The dad got 2 poo-yee...the daughter n law got 2 ding dong...wow...I feel sorry for the son. Should have ask the son to get a second wife along this mess, so no one is gonna get butt hurt too much. But this case is gross, need to do outsider, not within the family. Might as well just sleep with the WHOLE family since you guys already doing it ( father n law and daughter n law, mother n law and son n law, sister and brother, sister n law and brother n law, ect, ect)..why just stop at you two if u guys r gonna be gross like that.
Idk this story is so hard to believe. But again it could be the father in law’s idea cause there is no way the mother in law willingly allowed her husband to sleep over and over again with you. Plus you were young and naive. Your husband love you he should’ve open up and tell you the truth but instead he cheats and allows his dad to take advantage of you. It’s an embarrassment but atlease you have your kids. I guess when it comes down to desperation of wanting kids, all things can be blinded.
Cas koj yuav mus ruam ua luaj??? Txoj kev ruam muab rau koj ib leeg!!!! Niag txiv twb muaj tsis taus me nyuam es koj tseem nyob thiab tseem kam rau niag txiv yawg dev ua kom koj muaj me nyuam thiab ntuj os teb aw. Yog kuv mas nrauj kiag tsis yuav tsev neeg liam ko thaum niam pog tias kom txiv yawg nrog pw kom muaj me nyuam. Koj muaj los twb tsis yog koj niag txiv li nws niam hlub koj thiab koj cov me nyuam na. Koj tsis qhia koj cov me nyuam lwm hnub lawv yeej yuav paub xwb vim koj niag txiv tseem nyob tsis tau tuag. Pab koj cov me nyuam tu siab kawg uas koj zais lawv tsis kam qhia qhov tseeb rau lawv.
Your in laws manipulate you to their sick game! Your ex-husband is not an good man. He knew his poor condition but still cheated on you. You should have left and not endured that miserable life. All your children are the best blessings!! Ahhh, sorry for you! You're a victim!
Twg kom koj pheej cuab rau txiv yawg ua tag zog ne koj Tus txiv tsis kam them child support los koj hais tsis tau vim cov me nyuam twb tsis yog nws cov ne tseem coj mus kuaj los twb tsis yog nws roj ntsha naw, yeej tim koj ib Leeg xwb,
Tim kj xwb pheej tshaw menyuam heev na, tom ntej no kaw kj lub qhov ncauj Txhob tham2 tsam menyuam hnov thiab ua li niam Tais Nancy hais xwb mas nawb
Wow yog muab rau txiv yawg mas ntshe kuv yeem tuag xwb
You can be desperate but not gross.
Wow, if I were you I would bring it to the grave. Disgusting culture / sleeping with father in law. Your x husband shld be disgusted with your decision to sleep with his father. In addition, don't even know why you agreed to sleeping with your father in law. U shld have left the marriage instead!!!
Pab niag dev.
Qias neeg dhau lawm os cas koj yuav yuav me nyiam cas koj tsis mus deev lwm tus naw
This is soooooo messed up. Idky u agreed to do it. So sick. I'm glad your ex-husband didn't have to pay child support bc those aren't his kids!
I think it's disgusting 🫣 txiv yawg 😮sounds like my older brother dog does bike his noob too.
Tus niamtsev koj txhob nyuaj nyuaj siab os yog lawv paub qhov tseeb ces qhia qhov tseeb xwb tsis muaj teeb meeml. Yog cov minyuam tsis hais ab tsi ces phov twj ywm li no mus xwb mas. Txawm li cas los mitub mintxhais yog koobmoo zoo xwb...
Cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj nas. Oh, ruam tiag2. Nyob tebchaws Meska es tseem coj li ko thiab. Tsis paub hais li lawm os. Ciaj tsis qhia neeg tuag los txhob qhias dab os. Txaj muag dhau lawm os. 🫣