STICKING TO YOUR GUNS | The Slumflower Hour podcast

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  • Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 39

  • @lola-ford
    @lola-ford 4 дня назад +24

    His response gave, "You're on the bottom of my priority list."

  • @AnnNdi-w6q
    @AnnNdi-w6q 5 дней назад +26

    You see how I’m here 2 minutes after this dropped? Yes! It’s giving verryyyyyy hungry for Goddess Gina’s wise words

  • @carshebat.truesdale6110
    @carshebat.truesdale6110 5 дней назад +20

    I ve def seen this episode before today or at least some of the portions …..but of course it still very entertaining 😂❤ can watch her on repeat all day!

    • @Hollymcturk
      @Hollymcturk 4 дня назад +2

      Yes I thought that too - I've heard about this guy before for real!!!

    • @NewBeginnings2.0
      @NewBeginnings2.0 4 дня назад +1

      Same!!! Is this a repeat?

    • @Hollymcturk
      @Hollymcturk 4 дня назад +3

      @@NewBeginnings2.0 either that or we know her so well we know what she's going to say next 😂😂

  • @JB4C89
    @JB4C89 3 дня назад +4

    “Will future me be proud of my decision” ? Round of applause 🎉🎉 you have done it again. I was standing and clapping in my house while watching 😂😂

  • @mubareka__
    @mubareka__ 4 дня назад +5

    How a man treats you, and what can you expect for the possible future you will have with him 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 louder for the ones at the back!

  • @ebonieelainea999
    @ebonieelainea999 5 дней назад +13

    I’m a Sagittarius as well and yes I’m just like this I’m not putting up with ANYTHING less than what I know I deserve any longer period when you know what you want nothing will make you fold for a weak noncommittal man

  • @jeahluna2385
    @jeahluna2385 5 дней назад +11

    sorry to hear chidi i feel like sometimes its better to vent it out to girlfriends all the moves and proper interventions, honestly the behavior im doing now is working well..I even said "before I meet you I want this this this" lol ...there's men who like this...the men who cant ain't wasting a second.

    • @GrungeGalactica
      @GrungeGalactica 4 дня назад +5

      So true, I love the “throw your weight around” “be a spoiled selfish girlie” message, so powerful. Men have audacity, why can’t we? We owe it to ourselves.

  • @olikah4667
    @olikah4667 4 дня назад +4

    30:01 Judge Lynn Toler literally said this. U have to observe that man!!!

  • @amberpalmer3708
    @amberpalmer3708 2 дня назад

    The ending is too real and something we all need to be aware of and reminded of

  • @Nyandewa
    @Nyandewa 5 дней назад +19

    It seems like he was trying humble you or make you seem unimportant with having those girls around and then not replying for almost a day which I’m sure men love to use as a tactic

    • @GrungeGalactica
      @GrungeGalactica 4 дня назад +7

      From the jump, men are testing the bare minimum they can get away with, how chill/understanding we are. Hence the back handed compliment men put in their vows “I’ve finally found someone who puts up with me (my bs & audacity)🥰” 👀. That’s not romantic, it’s sad.
      It seems like some men veiw relationships as ‘what’s the best looking, most helpful life-wife-baby making, assistant, seggs appliance I can get, for the least investment on my part ofc 🤔’ it’s actually sickening.

    • @zipitzizzy2442
      @zipitzizzy2442 2 дня назад

      This is so true ​@@GrungeGalactica

  • @mbalimadwe221
    @mbalimadwe221 5 дней назад +5

    This is GOLD!!!!

  • @brendahayes
    @brendahayes 3 дня назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your real life responses, taking notes! Somethings I could have overlooked but I’m learning 🎉

  • @111earthangel5
    @111earthangel5 4 дня назад +1

    I just got out of a 4 year long relationship in my mid 20s. I can’t wait to utilise all of this advice 😍😍💃

  • @wonderfulwigswomen
    @wonderfulwigswomen 3 дня назад +1

    M Eastern I would call chewish, and yes they all go to the same technician/doctor. This whole story reminds me of my old club life. I don’t miss it.

  • @mubareka__
    @mubareka__ 4 дня назад +2

    @ 14:28 - answer: he didnt message you back last night like he said he would and didn't even update you that he hadn't found out yet. And then he didn't even say Hey how are you Queen? Lol

  • @garlicpizza6273
    @garlicpizza6273 4 дня назад +6

    Lmao, Oga Ambulance

  • @casablanca3830
    @casablanca3830 19 часов назад

    Loved this! Thank you!

  • @mubareka__
    @mubareka__ 4 дня назад +1

    Oh my God! Im 7:38 in and I had to pause this babe because his response just has me flabagasted!!!! Like are you for realll??? So you looked moody? And what ? I am stunned if this is the behaviour of these mans

  • @bun9183
    @bun9183 4 дня назад +1

    Thank you again Chidera 💛

  • @LS-ry5ey
    @LS-ry5ey 14 часов назад

    "It's just dinahhh!" yup

  • @dollieluerowe1785
    @dollieluerowe1785 4 дня назад

    This is a re run with a new title I’ve heard this story before. Luv You waiting on the new episode ❤

  • @GrungeGalactica
    @GrungeGalactica 4 дня назад

    Love this so much ❤ I need to watch it again (sober) for all the wisdom to fully sink in 🤓🍁

  • @amberpalmer3708
    @amberpalmer3708 4 дня назад +1

    I love the hair!

  • @_slim_.
    @_slim_. 4 дня назад +1

    The middle eastern faces are so real lmfaooo

  • @mbalimadwe221
    @mbalimadwe221 5 дней назад +5

    I love you

  • @Got2BOshun
    @Got2BOshun 5 дней назад +4

    🖤

  • @wonderfulwigswomen
    @wonderfulwigswomen 3 дня назад

    M Eastern I would call chewish, and yes they all go to the same technician/doctor

  • @melb8249
    @melb8249 4 дня назад +1

    Personally, I think you went light on him. I don't believe for a second that he had to take anyone to the ER. He just preemptively gave the excuse after you'd already left. If it's not verifiable, I'm not going to believe them. I've seen too many men lie through their teeth.
    I feel like you'd have been entirely justified to never respond to him again. I'd never even put in the effort to show up to a club when he's working, tbh. I'd much rather stay home alone. 😅 But if I had put in THAT effort, you'd better believe I'd never give him a second glance again.

  • @mubareka__
    @mubareka__ 4 дня назад

    Yes NO accountability - waaaaaste

  • @PreppyPrincess777
    @PreppyPrincess777 5 дней назад +4

    🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @wonderfulwigswomen
    @wonderfulwigswomen 3 дня назад

    That’s so true re the colorism. 2024 no less. 2:45